I switched to a dumb phone about 2 years ago, which brought my monthly bill from $90/month to $6/month. I don’t feel out of the loop on anything, I’m less stressed and anxious, and I’m saving a ton as a side effect. Love this video!
@christinekobzeff Жыл бұрын
Hey my plant friend! Great to see you, I hope you're doing well!
@katiejon17 Жыл бұрын
I did as well. I left my job as a nurse to be a SAHM and homeschool, smartphones are such time vampires. I got a flip phone that can only text and call, and a prepaid service plan of $100/year. I do feel “out of the loop”, but I’ve come to see that “the loop” is very toxic. Bring me back to 2008 or earlier and I’d be a happy woman!
@magomago781911 ай бұрын
May I ask, what company? I'm paying 170 per month for 4 lines😬😬😬?
@rejectconvenience11 ай бұрын
@@magomago7819 I use Tello, they actually just lowered a lot of their prices too, so check it out! Even if you do unlimited data + calling/texting, it'll be $100 for 4 lines with them
@lenkajf781611 ай бұрын
@@katiejon17 that sounds so lovely 😊
@barbr100 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way as you about weddings. We got married by a Judge 40 years ago with no attendees, and I have never regretted it.
@Ann4U2000 Жыл бұрын
Same here, but 48 years next month :)
@cassidydavis4421 Жыл бұрын
Same!
@charlitoabella19511 ай бұрын
You can have church wedding, low cost as well.
@jillcarlson18010 ай бұрын
I agree. Weddings are out of control.
@trista41710 ай бұрын
Me too. Going on 10 years next month. Best decision ever. We used our savings to buy our first home. Not a wedding.
@goldfishandcats Жыл бұрын
Yes! Please do a separate video on the art of negotiation! That would be so helpful and appreciated. I feel so many people (myself especially) have a hard time negotiating for things from second hand purchases to our own salaries! If you shared your tips you would be helping so many people. ✌️
@christinekobzeff Жыл бұрын
Ok great, I'd be happy to make a video on negotiation tips. Thank you friend! 🙏
@jmsl_910 Жыл бұрын
until she posts it try reading "getting to yes" it's a classic. thought a bit more aggressive -- Never Split the Difference.
@sandymywayofcooking185311 ай бұрын
@@christinekobzeff hi Christine can you please do a video on nontoxic makeup 💄 I'm trying to avoid toxic chemicals going on my skin or body.. I will highly appreciate it thank you 😊💕🙏
@kastlight5911 ай бұрын
+J9 85y88
@lisalee953711 ай бұрын
Would love to know several options for high quality safe, organic and humane ( no animal testing , on any of the ingredients) beauty products. There are sooo many makeup professionals on KZbin showing great application but though they may focus on some inexpensive and good options to try in lieu of high end brands, they do not seem to care at all about the many highly toxic ingredients and unethical brand practices with animal testing 😢 I search out clean companies but it’s nice to see what someone else has found also . There are definitely many out there now, I just wish the big companies would care . But they won’t care in the United States as long as our government continues to all toxic chemicals into our products ( and food) or to ban animal testing across the board forever … unless We the People start demanding it. Our power is our dollar. Be careful where you spend it .
@donna-bv1mk Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t give up having kids for all the savings and freedom in the world, but to each his own! I’m a grandma now and it’s the best!! Great video with some great ideas!! Thanks 😊
@cassidydavis4421 Жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to be a grandma! Kids are the best!!!
@stacyfausett543611 ай бұрын
Amen! Mom of 6 and Grandma to 7 soon to be 8 but we have financial freedom even with a large family!
@angelicaposas-f2k11 ай бұрын
I can’t wait to be a grandma family is priceless. Plus you never know they might be an investment 😅.
@user-cb8sg9py7r11 ай бұрын
Agree, it broke my heart when she said that. Its a lie that you'll have more happiness and money without kids. Quite the opposite.
@Karen-jp1ns11 ай бұрын
Having kids and grandkids is the highlight of my life!
@kmarshall53 Жыл бұрын
Great tips, and I follow most of them. I’ve also quit using paper towels - I just use old towels or washcloths (or cut up and hem fabric from a thrift store) to make napkins, spill clothes, hot pads). I buy in bulk from an organic co-op and make as many things as possible from scratch. I’m 70 and my fiancé is 82, and we are both gardeners and into self-sustainable living and eating well. Because of our lifestyle choices, he still works part time and takes care of the big garden, and I will be a homemaker and take care of the kitchen garden.
@lisaa936111 ай бұрын
That is fantastic! I wish I would have learned how to sew. Maybe I can still learn! I also phased out paper towels. Love it! now just have to get the husband on board with it. Would also love to phase out the TV but I doubt he will budge on that one! Ha ha.
@jeanetteh775211 ай бұрын
Get married!
@utahdan23111 ай бұрын
@@jeanetteh7752 why ?
@hayjay113011 ай бұрын
❤
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
@@lisaa9361yes, you can readily learn to sew! Wonderful skill to have and satisfying to do. You can probably find an inexpensive used machine in any number of places. There are free tutorials online, I think - and check out your library. Mine has the use of machines, too. Great for learning!
@erikahyman861111 ай бұрын
You speak my language. We do well, but living below our means keeps us financially secure & ready for the unexpected. Too many people are stressed out trying to keep up.
@darlenesmith839 Жыл бұрын
Christine I admire you for being frugal but we are meant to give to others as we prosper. Did I miss that from your advise? We do live below our means and have for years but our goal is to help others as we have been helped. Blessings to you.
@anapatriciag851011 ай бұрын
Beautifully said!! 💗
@tnijoo510911 ай бұрын
Agreed!! But definitely be frugal when it comes to big corporations. Then, by all means!
@AngelaWells-v1s11 ай бұрын
Did the first thing on our list and went from $163 a month to free phones! Great advice thank you that's $1956 savings
@MRF969910 ай бұрын
Omg! May I ask what provider you’re using and what you did? I am so tired of our phone bill. We finally got our married daughters off of our plan and my iPad doesn’t have roaming Wi-Fi. That helped a little but not as much as we thought it would.
@AngelaWells-v1s10 ай бұрын
@@MRF9699 spectrum
@saundrajohnson157110 ай бұрын
Child-free by choice, no regrets. One of the best decisions I ever made!
@Godisone88 Жыл бұрын
No TV in 15 years. Best decision ever.
@PeaceDayCortez11 ай бұрын
Same! It's been 15 for me too
@sazennonumber11 ай бұрын
20 for me and I agree 100% - the best decision ever.
@lapope256811 ай бұрын
Me too .. now the challenge is to find a partner who is okay with that. 😊
@Godisone8811 ай бұрын
@@lapope2568 look for one in the library or someone that's likes the outdoors. Best of luck 🍀
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
Maybe silly question, but how did you adjust to no TV? Any substitutes, for example? My mind goes to missing readily available sports broadcasts, concerts, educational programs
@Nicole-jo6vz Жыл бұрын
What an absolute breath of fresh air. So nice to see this video especially around the holiday time and among so many “haul” videos
@christinekobzeff Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Nicole! 🙏
@cocotulle23 Жыл бұрын
Along with the shampoo advice, I keep a plastic cup in the shower and add just a little bit of shampoo to it, then fill up the cup, cover it with my hand and shake it. I dunk my hair in and then pour the rest over my head. It saves shampoo but distributes the shampoo so much better. It also reduces buildup because it’s easier to rinse. I highly recommend!
@Cinder_3114 ай бұрын
@cocotulle23 good idea!
@georgeandrews2839 Жыл бұрын
White vinegar in the laundry softens water making your detergent clean better.
@lilarose934811 ай бұрын
Do you put it directly in the wash or in the bleach compartment?
@gwenkunkel417011 ай бұрын
@@lilarose9348 I put it in the bleach compartment
@mariaspencer920011 ай бұрын
@@lilarose9348I put the white vinegar in the softener compartment, no longer use softener. I also add 1/3 cup baking soda in the washer.
@georgeandrews283911 ай бұрын
@@lilarose9348 I put it in right before adding the clothes.
@georgeandrews283911 ай бұрын
In the tub
@mimi-c Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the fantastic advice, Christine. My husband and I too had a small wedding - with 3 couples and a baby at 2pm on a Monday. We went to a lovely restaurant for an afternoon tea afterwards, and had the loveliest time with our closest friends. An event doesn’t need to be huge in order to leave us with treasured memories. In fact, it is often the seemingly tiny, daily details that add the most quiet joy and warmth to life.
@reneecherrie11 ай бұрын
Being child free is definitely underrated. There are thousands of children in our world that need parents so, if you change your mind and want children you can always mentor, foster, and adopt children ❤️
@kerrytopel983511 ай бұрын
I can’t imagine life without my kids and grandkids. Nothing else compares, and while I really appreciate these great tips, money is definitely not more important than family.
@cindyhmcdaniel497711 ай бұрын
I am so thankful I decided to be child free. Back to college at 40 for Registered Nurse. Married again at 65. Now retired. Hubby had 2 son/daughter. 6 grandkids. They have lots, lots of needs.
@kimberlycampbell734310 ай бұрын
Yes! World is already overpopulated. Look it up. World's resources are going to run out the way we are going.
@Littlewildone010 ай бұрын
I lost my son when he was 15. He was the sunshine of our lives. I have no regrets about having him
@catalinaungureanu874510 ай бұрын
The idea is to save money not having her own children. So why would she want to adopt/foster/etc?
@carolynjaynes36 Жыл бұрын
I bought an RV to live in and I rent a space in the redwood forest. No mortgage!
@angelgirldebbiejo11 ай бұрын
Sounds wonderful
@stinaljungstrom869111 ай бұрын
Cool! We sold our house near the capital and moved three hours away. We got a much bigger house so cheap. So now we own our house and don't owe the bank anything. Feels great and we love the more low tempo here.
@trudyhattendorf182111 ай бұрын
What does the rent cost you yearly, if you don't mind saying?
@jeniferjohnson37410 ай бұрын
Sounds awesome but I wouldn't feel safe tbh
@cherylcameron630410 ай бұрын
We sold the house & bought a boat. Living on the boat was great. Easy to clean,no clutter. That was life for 3 years. Now rent because of work commitments. Still have the boat & are hoping to return to boat life.
@GumdropGummiebear Жыл бұрын
I used to pay with cash. Now, I use my credit card only if I have cash to pay. I get $$$ back and make sure it's paid off at the end of the month. I don't buy extra using a card because I only buy with intention. I'm also a minimalist, and I'm not materialistic. Stuff is clutter to me.
@sct404011 ай бұрын
I use CC for rewards money every other month. About $200 a year, 😍.
@mariah365411 ай бұрын
Same!
@dianareddell149611 ай бұрын
Same here. I use my cc to pay for everything then pay it off every month. It helps me have near perfect credit and rewards pay for my airfare when I travel. It also helps reduce insurance costs.
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
@@dianareddell1496same here. Curious, though: how does it save insurance costs?
@hemlockprimaryschool58902 ай бұрын
I’m the same, but I do know some people that don’t really feel their spending when using a card. They are then surprised by the amount they spent over the month/year.
@factitiously Жыл бұрын
I wash my laundry in cold water too, but it's important to remember that sheets must always be washed in hot water, because otherwise the dust mites don't get killed and they build up over time and cause allergies.
@jimmiepatrum Жыл бұрын
Anything white I always wash in hot water, especially my underwear. I just don't feel that it's clean without hot water. Diane
@junejune1031 Жыл бұрын
Actually that’s not true as a hot dryer also kills any mites.
@anonymous972211 ай бұрын
Or wash in cold water and then dry outside in the sun...
@nancywolf378611 ай бұрын
same here. bedding and towels in hot water. cold for everything else. and very little detergent
@kathylong251311 ай бұрын
I heard that the dust mites get back on your sheets the minute you put them back on as they are in the mattress.
@sherriepiechowski455611 ай бұрын
😮 I love this video because I am still learning all this at age 70. I wish I would have done so many things differently in life but we can’t go back. I am proud that in the past two years though that I have stumbled upon several channels of minimalists who I respect and I have decluttered a lot and have managed to save a quite a bit of money without a whole lot of pain. It’s almost like a challenge now 🤗 Thank you for all your hard work on these life style changes and getting the word out that Simple really is better!
@ivypatrick645911 ай бұрын
I grew up being poor/frugal. Our small island offered all we needed to survive and be happy and healthy. I'm so grateful to visit your site and hear your methods which are ancient (I'm 75) yet still effective today. Thank you. More please 🤗
@Jules-g4f11 ай бұрын
i LOVE that...pay the farmer or pay big pharma! I just found your channel and love the advice. I am trying to do better with finances this year so I subscribed to see all the other tips you have for living more frugal!
@goingvenus560311 ай бұрын
Even though I'm doing most of these, I couldn't stop watching! There's something mesmerizing about the presentation of these ideas. Thanks for your contribution to a very necessary change that everyone needs to make.
@yogi89035 ай бұрын
I applaud you for being child free! My husband and I have been pushed to have kids although it would push us to financial ruin, cause so much stress, and would take time and energy away from our relationship (which is a HUGE priority for us). Happily child free and we won't change our minds either!😊
@gail23510 ай бұрын
All are great except for being childless. This is a preference and being a mom is a tremendous blessing for me. ❤
@cindyfreihofer209311 ай бұрын
I am 73 and drive a 17 year old Camry. It has only 138,000 miles and I have had no car payments since 2012 when it was paid off. It has a dent on the drivers side but it has been such a good car. I plan on having it for a lot more years
@kathyfletcher469411 ай бұрын
We have a 2003 Mercury Sable with almost 400K miles on it. The body is going to wear out before the motor lol
@marypiper1716 ай бұрын
Toyotas really are the way to go! My 2003 Camry has 220K miles, and it’s far from the end of its life
@sallypettit71566 ай бұрын
Camrys are
@FireSilver255 ай бұрын
Toyotas are AWESOME ❤
@lindacgrace2973 Жыл бұрын
Love your content, and would like to add a suggestion: most utility companies offer "energy audits" where they send out a technician to assess your house, and tell you what changes will help keep the bill down. Putting in a new water heater might eventually pay off, but wrapping it in a fireproof blanket for 1/20 the cost achieves just as much. They find leaks and can offer suggestions for the lowest cost, highest savings options. It is a very helpful free service and worth taking advantage of every few years.
@TH-eb5ro11 ай бұрын
Learning to care for a water heater can make it more efficient and last many years longer.
@lindacgrace297311 ай бұрын
@@TH-eb5ro Speaking truth! I used to flip houses. I can not tell you how many times the non-functional furnace had been killed by an ignorant occupant who never changed the filters! My husband and I regularly saved thousands by flushing hot water heaters, cleaning out ducts (when the toddler shoves stuffed toys in there, it cuts off the air flow and creates back-pressure that damages the unit) and changing filters.
@rapunzelz552011 ай бұрын
You can celebrate Christmas without buying a bunch of stuff just to buy stuff, but you can also make it very simple by drawing names (each person buys one thing for someone in particular). We have also spent money (in lieu of gifts) to attend as a family an event like a concert, ice skating or a museum. We have also volunteered during the Xmas season to work at a food kitchen or donation shop.
@lisaa936111 ай бұрын
Many years ago, we started a tradition to spend $10 at the Dollar Store for our Christmas gifts to each other. This was back when it was still a dollar! It is still our tradition and is so much fun. Usually one or two of the gifts are things we keep and use throughout the year, the rest we donate. We have found the fun is in the selection and wrapping (not the amount of money) and the joy of opening them on Christmas day. It’s a tradition we started right after we got married and we love it. We also will use beach towels, hand towels, etc. as gift wrap and make them look pretty with ribbon without having to use actual Christmas paper.
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
@@lisaa9361love these ideas!
@murielcooper9393 ай бұрын
I am buying practical Xmas gifts, toilet paper, bacon, chicken breasts etc… Mya family and grandchildren love this idea.
@hannahmargaret_ Жыл бұрын
This came at the perfect time for me! I am looking at our economy and, even though I'm comfortable right now, I know the tide can turn overnight. I've been looking for ways to live way beneath my means so I can build multiple nest eggs. Thanks, Christine!
@DavidBlecker-vo6lw11 ай бұрын
This is a must-watch for anyone looking to stretch their dollars. The tips presented are down-to-earth and applicable, and the host's friendly delivery makes it all the more engaging. It's like getting insider secrets on how to cut costs and build a more secure financial future.
@nightowl4121 Жыл бұрын
I might come out as antisocial. I cut down a number of friends in my life, and that help me save a lot of money from comparing lifestyle, entertaining, socializing and eating out together.
@Allnaturalani Жыл бұрын
Doing the same. Changed my phone number to live a quiet life
@jesstiss22211 ай бұрын
Quality over quantity 😊
@sct404011 ай бұрын
Socializing can be expensive, especially if you go to bars and restaurants. I understand completely.
@lisapalmeno448811 ай бұрын
My friend Gayle and I invited each other over to watch a good movie, or for a glass of ice tea and to enjoy each other's back yards. Socializing need not cost money or involve bars.
@Dieppaloveplants11 ай бұрын
Yesssss me tooo ❤
@Kaixo-Zemouz11 ай бұрын
The joy, love, growth and gratitude I’ve experienced in the two years my daughter has been in my life is worth every cent I will be spending on her in the years to come. You can’t put a price on growing a family, the value is immeasurable.
@elliesorota891111 ай бұрын
Agreed. No kids as a money saving measure is a very odd way to look at the decision.
@lissafawcett15904 ай бұрын
I believe that raising kids should be for whoever wants them, not dictated by society….. and saving money by not raising any is only a by-product of that decision; for most people, it doesn’t drive it
@TermiteVideo11 ай бұрын
You are by far the most stylish frugal guru I have encountered on KZbin!
@barbarasummers28011 ай бұрын
I found those sheets of laundry soap, much more eco friendly and I only use 1/2 sheet it works well
@lizlaughin780611 ай бұрын
Finally 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
@gailmiler27978 ай бұрын
So happy to finally hear someone say they don't want kids! I'm almost 70 and never wanted them either- I enjoyed being around some of them but only for short periods, couldn't imagine 24/7! But the comments I was subjected to... worldwide there is still an overpopulation problem, we're not about to run out of people, so give those who aren't interested a break. Also I've noticed that children who were 'accidents" really find out in the worst ways the consequences of being unwanted, through abuse and/or neglect.
@indranidasgupta898211 ай бұрын
I put water into my shampoo and conditioner bottles once it gets down to less than half the bottle. Lengthens their lives to almost double.
@itsybitsybear10 ай бұрын
I do the same thing but with dishwashing soap.
@jordansonia6702 Жыл бұрын
I slightly disagree with the “pay with cash” portion. I say this because what I do is use my Venture credit card. I only use it for things I would normally have to buy anyway, then pay it off on time every month. Essentially it would be just like using your debit card or cash, but you get flight miles OR you can use the “miles” as money on Amazon or other online purchases. Basically getting paid back for things you’re already having to purchase. I love your videos!
@melb121511 ай бұрын
My husband and I use our Costco Citi Bank card & charge all our purchases on it & earn 2% cash back through Citi Bank as well as through Costco. We then pay off the bill in full each month to avoid paying any interest fees. However, some companies, especially restaurants these days will charge a service fee for using a credit card. If that's the case I will avoid that fee by paying cash.
@maruchi520011 ай бұрын
It's true that when we pay in cash we spend more consciously, but I love to travel, so I use credit cards for every purchase. I sign with airline credit card companies that cover my travel region, carefully check if they have rental car insurance and medical repatriation (I was in a car accident abroad and it was very helpful!). I pay diligently within the billing cycle and never carry a balance. I realize it doesn't work for everyone, but I traveled a lot just paying airport taxes. I see them as knives: utensils, and as such to be used with caution.
@yolandapagan565611 ай бұрын
I use 2 credit cards to get cash back of 2-4% which I redeem for statement credits. Most of our purchases are for food, gas, insurance and utilities.
@mariah365411 ай бұрын
I use a credit card that gives me back 1% a month, on certain categories 5 %for 3 months. I pay it off every month. I regularly get back about $400 a year that I can put towards my balance whenever.
@jordansonia670211 ай бұрын
@@mariah3654 yes, I forgot to mention the cash back option for a few stores I frequent
@AE-Psalm91 Жыл бұрын
You are AMAZINGLY wise, I only wish I had been in my younger years! We are now paying the consequences of a very squandering, spending, foolish lifestyle for over 20 years, sad, many regrets. Thank You ❤ I can mention one thing I now do as of recently, spend cash only at grocery stores and use a calculator as going through the store so not to overspend. Oh yes and PS my daughter, child, is the most amazing blessing in my life! And I’m so glad God gave her to us…
@sazennonumber11 ай бұрын
Oh my dear, don't blame yourself. The times were different then and so was the lifestyle. You did what you enjoyed then and now you at least have some good memories. Things are different now, and you have adapted by changing your views. No need for regrets, you did the best you knew at the time. 🌿
@mariegier601811 ай бұрын
LIFE IS FOR LIVING. I am 96 and IT works
@JazzyBabe56 Жыл бұрын
we've been together 39 years and haven't had children - I look around me and see others with kids and try to imagine what it would be like and I always shake my head and realize how happy I am that we decided to not have kiddies....whats good for us may not be good for others and we all have to march to the beat of our own drums! as usual I love your vid! ♥ edited to say that we have always lived below our means - that was how we bought and fixed up our house - we were never rich but very frugal - today we are both retired and still living in our first home...and we love it
@mariah365411 ай бұрын
Love this story!
@jpowell26039 ай бұрын
Yeah blah blah and goodluck when youre sitting in an old peoples home with no one coming to visit especially you've chosen not to have kids. No kids equals no visits right? 😂
@majalisiecka74437 ай бұрын
@@jpowell2603 sure cause there's absolutely no lonely people that had children in the nursing homes right? Just live and let others live how they want.
@lemonlinzАй бұрын
@jpowell2603 just say you're afraid to die, we know that's what you really mean.
@Irish-Eyes11 ай бұрын
It’s interesting in this day & age the taboo to say I don’t want kids. It’s ok to say I don’t want broccoli, or I don’t want pets, or I don’t want (fill in the blank) and people respect it. But kids? Bring on the judgment & assumptions. I applaud your honesty and totally get it.
@glendaschilder30482 ай бұрын
Yes..just like I get judge for not wanting to be married
@alanaxstitcher8403 Жыл бұрын
This was great and I think so many people need to hear this. I’ve been following all the extreme early retirement stuff since the 2000s and it worked! I retired 11 years ago at 34. These were all really good recommendations and it’s all about getting into the mindset, most importantly. Facing judgement is hard but having money and security more than makes up for it!
@maryelvington Жыл бұрын
Holy crap you’re my hero! Retiring at 34 !!!
@alanaxstitcher8403 Жыл бұрын
@@maryelvington you should read “early retirement extreme” or “your money or your life”. I’m not the only one! You have to think outside the model you grow up with.
@jamiewhite6593 Жыл бұрын
What are all the extreme tips? How can I find this info if you don't mind sharing?
@shaunaleessnackidies11 ай бұрын
Googling now thanks!
@debramccormick45611 ай бұрын
What fabulous ideas! I’ve been frugal all my life , having been raised by parents who lived thru the Depression, & have done most of them, (I DO have kids & pets) but you challenged me with buying used appliances from estate sales/stores! I will do that! The only thing I can add that’s as not covered, which you don’t have to think about in Maui, is the heating/cooling bill, which most people spend a huge amt on. We live in IA & we keep our winter heat at 63 (64 for a splurge!) during the day and 58 at night. Sleep is more healthful (deeper) at a lower temp, and a layer of fleece (& often a vest, too) keeps the body warm in Winter. Working out creates more muscle, and muscle is what keeps us warm. Drying clothes on racks adds humidity. In Summer, we only run AC when it’s swelteringly hot, just enough to remove some humidity, like 77 or 78 degrees. I like what Dave Ramsey says about living like no one else now so that we can live like no one else later! These self-discipline tips allowed us to retire comfortably. I’ve also told my children, “Do NOT get divorced.” (I realize that it’s a must sometimes.) Not only is it horribly expensive, but years of compounded interest are lost when assets are divided. I am divorced & remarried & had to work SO hard to play catch-up so that retirement was possible. Be more careful BEFORE getting married, and be the person you’d want to marry. Thanks again for all the ideas! One challenge I have for you: Reconsider the multidimensional joys and challenges/personal growth of having children. We have two friends who wish they’d had children. Yes, they have poured into nieces & nephews, but it’s just not the same, they say, and at a certain age, it’s too late to reconsider. Our $ and desires are not the most important things in life, and they do not build character like learning to be selfless and sacrificial does. That said, I do NOT think anyone should have children if they don’t want them.
@thedailymakermaking11 ай бұрын
I really appreciate this video, especially the respectful explanation of the choice to be child free. My husband and I love our economical, child free life too. ❤
@MimiNwabuokuMD Жыл бұрын
Ahhhhhhhhh! Welcome back, Pinksofoxy! I’m sure I speak for many when I say how dearly you have been missed on this platform with your beautiful, genuine and gentle energy. Please keep on being you. And thank you so much for this timely and thoughtful vlog.
@Kate42 Жыл бұрын
This was fantastic! I have been frugal most of my life and some of your ideas I have done, but, I still learned a lot of new ones from this video as well. I love these kinds of videos especially from you since you practice what you preach. I love the idea of using less soap when washing clothes. I learned that a long time ago almost by accident and like you said, we don't need that much soap to do laundry I also realized that soap is soap because most soaps are made of the same ingredients just some have fewer perfumes or none as I like. This has saved me a lot of money on wash day.
@lisapalmeno448811 ай бұрын
I agree with much of this, but celebrating the holidays doesn't have to cost a lot.
@glendaschilder30482 ай бұрын
@lisapalmeno4488 my son and my brother and I decided that we don't need to pass gifts for Christmas this year, saving money and stress..we are okay with this idea
@republicunited2183 Жыл бұрын
Kids are expensive, but I’m so glad I had mine. They bring me joy and keep my bloodline going!
@stinaljungstrom869111 ай бұрын
Yes same here, best spent money ever but kids do cost and I think it's totally okay to not wanting to have kids as well. 🙂
@AnnaEdgley11 ай бұрын
100% agree!!!!!!!
@oppsendless381411 ай бұрын
And that's fine. It's also fine not to have kids. Sadly, so much pressure is put on women to have kids.
@RandyReacciones11 ай бұрын
Not having kids is against nature, i dont think childless people can completely happy. Inside they know something is missing.
@yvonneoy312411 ай бұрын
@@RandyReacciones Yeah
@courtneymckissick20146 ай бұрын
31:26 We totally get it. We only had a simple wedding. Only cost was the marriage certificate. My engagement ring was only around $200 and the band was maybe $60. Nothing fake but I didn't want some a huge diamond. I've known since I was a kid that diamonds are worth about the same as any other stone and they just overcharge. I got a blue topaz. There ended up being small blue diamonds around it and on the wedding band. It seems you can't get away from diamonds but I refused to have a big diamond that wasn't worth any more than my topaz. I also refused to have a gold band. I've always preferred silver. Gold is overdone. We also never had a honeymoon. I love your tips. I always looks forward to finding more tips from different creators to keep our lives as cheap and minimal as possible.
@margaretmaeda254811 ай бұрын
My guess is that people who choose not to have kids have deeper reasons than frugality - some deep gut feeling that it's not right for them. I respect that choice and thank goodness we have the choice.
@lemonlinzАй бұрын
Honestly, climate change, overpopulation and finances are all reasons why I don't want to have kids.
@JuanitaNance Жыл бұрын
THANK U!! Your advice on not spending on frills, such as a fancy wedding dress which you only wear once, and spending to impress others was so wise and liberating for me!!! I became more frugal all of 2023 and I am SO HAPPY I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL TO STAY MOTIVATED!!!😍😍😍
@Cindychartier Жыл бұрын
I do most of these and love the value in this video. I dont share all of the same philosophies but each of us are unique....we are not clones♡
@MelissaFreeman Жыл бұрын
I’m obsessed with this tree inside your house!
@oliviafox6745 Жыл бұрын
Mend and fix things. You tube videos are awesome for how to's. Reuse containers. Glass jars, bags etc. Sew fabric gift bags and reuse them. Grow a small garden for herbs and favorite veggies. Print out stuff for home use on the clean side of printed pages.
@silentstorm709211 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your very informative information. My husband and I are in our early 60’s and also chose not to have children and have never regretted this decision. I look forward to more of your great video’s ❤
@ohdear227510 ай бұрын
I agree with almost all of these. I'm a rental agent, and we have plumbing maintenance calls. Our plumber told us we should run a HOT water load of laundry at least every couple of weeks as it helps prevent clogs. Hope this helps someone. I recommend this to our tenants. I myself run one hot load every couple of weeks, just towels and wash cloths. Thanks for all these GREAT tips!
@angels4ever Жыл бұрын
Our wedding was how you described it and yes, it was anxiety-provoking, but also the BEST day of my life. Thanks be to God.
@Roni90317 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you on the kids thing! My husband and I are in our 50's, married for 31 years and haven't regretted not having children. To us its normal too so I get you!!
@AnnaWeltmanPsychForSport11 ай бұрын
Every tip you shared was exactly what I do and totally agree with the way you live… I live the same way… We could probably compare everything in our lives including not having a TV for the last 20 years and never buying new cars or just rarely… Absolutely wonderful advice! But really… It’s when you described your wedding… That I burst out gleefully: “I love this gal! “ Hearing about your wedding was absolutely the best thing I’ve ever heard someone described to me before! And I haven’t gotten married yet so that’s exactly what I’m going to do as well… And childless! Yes and not necessarily by choice but here I am and quite happy with the situation. I look forward to more of your videos!
@jesstiss22211 ай бұрын
🐶 A word to pet lovers! I too have always loved animals and had dogs, who have lived long, healthy lives, thankfully. My only “son🐶” now is a giant breed fur baby, who is now a healthy, puppy-like 10 year old (life expectancy is 6-8) which is a blessing!🥰 At the same time, I am ready to relocate to a hotter state or out of the country, which would not be feasible for my boy. Going forward, I think I will begin fostering or pet sitting. That will give me a chance to help and spoil a lot more animal babies and allow me to get my “wings” and be free too! That is also a great way to save funds and get your pet snuggles fix!😊 Thanks so much for this awesome video! 💗
@Kenneth234148 ай бұрын
Stocks are pretty unstable at the moment, but if you do the right math, you should be just fine. Bloomberg and other finance media have been recording cases of folks gaining over 250k just in a matter of weeks/couple months, so I think there are a lot of wealth transfer in this downtime if you know where to look.
@Alden4578 ай бұрын
you’re right! The current market might give opportunities to maximize profit within a short term, but in order to execute such strategy , you must be a skilled practitioner
@Christian673378 ай бұрын
I've been in touch with a financial advisor ever since I started my business. Knowing today's culture The challenge is knowing when to purchase or sell when investing in trending stocks, which is pretty simple. On my portfolio, which has grown over $900k in a little over a year, my adviser chooses entry and exit orders.
@Scarlett345688 ай бұрын
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@Christian673378 ай бұрын
Finding financial advisors like Aileen Gertrude Tippy who can assist you shape your portfolio would be a very creative option. There will be difficult times ahead, and prudent personal money management will be essential to navigating them.
@Scarlett345688 ай бұрын
I just looked up this person out of curiosity, and surprisingly she seems really proficient. I thought this was just some overrated BS, I appreciate this.
@osoniye420911 ай бұрын
I agree with a lot of your tips. It's amazing that you found a partner who is on the same page. Unless you live in Maui, that seems like the biggest part of the wedding cost. I can really relate to wanting to avoid a big crowd and staying childless. Good for you! I love the meatless, oil free lifestyle!
@OxfordCommas7911 ай бұрын
A word on wisdom teeth. When I lived in the States, I was told I had impacted wisdom teeth by a dentist. I still have the X-rays, which do look convincing. I couldn’t afford to have them removed so didn’t. When I got married, at nearly 27, and moved to the U.K., I asked my new dentist about my sometimes painful impacted wisdom teeth. He said they were not impacted and that time usually fixes that. He also told me the intermittent pain would go within a few years. He was absolutely correct. My teeth are properly aligned and I still have my wisdom teeth at 44. I think it’s probably a money-making scheme peculiar to American dentistry for older teenagers.
@lenkajf781611 ай бұрын
You are so lovely, so gentle. My soul needed to see your video today. Thank you for your presence 🎉❤
@LittleKikuyu Жыл бұрын
Yes!! A video on negotiation would be so appreciated!!! As are all your videos ❤️
@valerieshy8749 Жыл бұрын
Loved this! Great tips! Random comments: I started using Earth Breeze Laundry detergent Eco Sheets to avoid buying the large plastic detergent containers which end up in our landfills. Our clothes come out as clean and fresh as they ever did before. We have 3 pets - 2 dogs and 1 cat - and I do agree they are expensive: vet visits and boarding when we go on vacation; however, I find such joy though in having pets that I will never be without them. I would love to be without a tv and all that, but husband feels the opposite. We are in the midst of changing companies so hopeful that service for cable/internet will be better overall.
@jhurley731411 ай бұрын
Clean people was cheaper for me. Great idea.
@yolandapagan565611 ай бұрын
I’ve been married twice. Once in the college chapel with almost everything donated or borrowed and second wedding at a beach. Neither wedding cost more than the gift money. Both weddings were beautiful and meaningful and had everything we wanted.
@dmbfannh11 ай бұрын
My first car i.bought when I was 17 was a Toyota Tercel. I literally hardly ever had to put any money into the car it would just go and go until sadly one day I totalled it. It was the best car for someone being frugal, it never broke and great on gas. I got mine with 60000 miles I drove it to 260000 literally trouble free, it was amazing that car was.
@mariah365411 ай бұрын
I still have a 32 year old Corolla! And a newer Camry. Corolla has 287xxx miles. Super low maintenance 🚗
@cindyhawes462811 ай бұрын
YES!!! I had a Toyot Tercel EZ that lasted 300,000 miles, till I sold it for a good buck. 49 mph, and the only things it ever needed were tires and a battery! It had no radio or air conditioning-- but it was a GREAT ride!!
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
@@mariah3654wow! That’s fantastic!
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
@@mariah3654my Lexus SUV is 23 years old now, but only 120,000 miles. It has some mechanical problems that I must figure out - like automatic door locks don’t work & a window doesn’t work (must figure out where to get those fixed!) but rides really well
@GAujla-kv9pn11 ай бұрын
Just found your video and enjoyed it very much. Been living below our means for the past 30 years. Please do a separate video on traveling cheaper.
@shellbeee4325 Жыл бұрын
Love this video especially what you said about being child-free, my husband and I are in our late 20's (together 12 yrs) and have always been 100% sure we don't want children but we still get the “oh you'll change you're mind.." I do wish it was more widely accepted. We LOVE our child-free life and the money we save along with it!
@carriestandridge4043 Жыл бұрын
Same here, except my husband and I were kicked out of our families because they couldn't imagine or accept someone not wanting to have kids (my father literally told me that's why I was put on this earth) - and because we're not religious (another issue). But there is nothing like laying your head on your pillow at night with a clean conscience because you've made the right decisions for you.
@nikedoesthings Жыл бұрын
Same here. Honestly it shouldn't be a bad thing for people who don't want kids not to have them. What is worse than to have a child you didn't want just because of societal pressure..? Both for you and the child. I swear some people only think of principles/religion, not to a logical future or with joy of living in mind.
@martaszyszka7654 Жыл бұрын
When I was in my late 20s I also couldn't care less about having children. Then in my 30s when I wanted a child more, I couldn't get pregnant, I got pregnant and had my son at almost 39. I couldn't be happier! Children are the most amazing "things" that can happen to a woman. Now I'm 43 and can't understand myself how selfish and self-centered I used to be. Now I share my life and happiness not only with my husband but also my 4 year old, and it's unbelievably amazing seeing him grow into a little, independent man.
@martaszyszka7654 Жыл бұрын
@carriestandridge4043 Not being religious and having a "clean" conscience just don't go together😕
@carriestandridge4043 Жыл бұрын
@@martaszyszka7654 Unfortunately, I could tell a lot of stories about religious people in my life who would have been better off with clean consciences.
@pamelalafleur4564 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos. been watching for YEARS! Hot water comes out of the hot water heater, it goes into the washer hot. The washer doesn't heat it up. I do love these videos as my spending if in need of a make over
@stellakovacs713811 ай бұрын
Most washers have settings for hot vs cold water. If set for hot, the hot water heater will turn on, increasing cost. When set at cold, no heating cost. Also, I set my water level at small to save water and water costs, which are high in California.
@solarwinds- Жыл бұрын
It was reassuring to hear your money saving tips. I was like, "yes, I'm doing that already, yea". I have always bought the big huge eco size and refill the bottle/box small container. You usually pay 1/3 more for the smaller than you do for the bigger. Good advice Christine! And Yes! Please do a separate video on the art of negotiation!
@gymkat1311 ай бұрын
Thank you for still putting out such quality content, Christine! Your channel is so inspirational, and there’s no filler content in your videos ❤
@leahfern6959 Жыл бұрын
Diva cups for my period- I haven’t bought tampons or pads in over 10 years m. It’s also better for my body and less toxic.
@jedijessic Жыл бұрын
Haven't figured out how to use a Dive cup but I did is make my own cloth pads and has been 13 year for me.
@akcm069911 ай бұрын
@@jedijessic oh nice! How do you make your own pads?
@TieishaLanee6 ай бұрын
I love this video! It has so many great tips. We also stopped buying and consuming oils. Not only did my acne disappear, but so did my "oily" skin.
@JenniferKristin888 Жыл бұрын
I go to a beauty school to get my hair done! Less than half the price of the salon. ❤
@AdrianaMartinez-zq7bw11 ай бұрын
Children are one of the most beautiful things this world/God give us❤
@patriciaa.easttexas631111 ай бұрын
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@purplefee92109 ай бұрын
Pets too!
@willothewispl Жыл бұрын
I have a tv, no cable services. I use the one you hang in your window and get great reception for after you buy the little pad you stick in the window. Bought it at walmart. I only wash sheets and kitchen dishcloths and towels in hot water to disinfect them. Everything else in cool water.
@SusanVillaverde10 ай бұрын
What you didn’t mention is the fact that it takes dedication and effort by both partners to make your goals succeed. My partner and I reset our goals every year by agreeing on short term goals, 3 year goals and 5 year goals. Dealing with the short term goals, we agreed on what was first on the list and took the challenge to achieve it. We brought my husband’s aunt into the U.S. at the age of 73 to become our dependent, took care of his elderly parents…father bedridden on oxygen, his mother his fathers care taker who didn’t speak English or drive. We raised our daughter and sent her to Dartmouth College….we were low wage earners, lived on a budget and lived a full rewarding happy life. Working together and sharing our goals was the only it was achieved! Enjoyed your video and was surprised to find that you have learned these steps so early in your life. Kiddos to you and your partner.
@gathercreatelivewithleslie834011 ай бұрын
A lot of great idea's. We do most of these. I'll have to reduce my laundry soap. When we moved in we also bought a hybrid water heater and even though it was a little more pricey, we have saved hundreds a year by using it and so it's paid for itself after less than seven years. The energy savings on changing to the newer water heater and newer laundry machines has been huge. I would also recommend a air fryer oven style machine. It takes a lot less to heat and use it, because of the compact size. I also don't wash my hair as often and it has greatly improved my hair, not stripping all the healthy oils etc out. You're the only person I've heard of like me that does her own hair nowadays. Women used to always do their own grooming. I taught my husband and now am teaching my thirteen years old son. Huge savings for the guys every month. I definitely agree with people not having kids that don't really love them. We have enough people that have kids they didn't really want and now they are causing issues in society. With our lifestyle increase, we put it into investing. Frugal living tips... by through co-op's, use the library, if you find something great thrifting an don't need it, resell it. Fasting saves money and is great for your health.
@megancook6811 ай бұрын
Thank for this list of 30.. most of them I knew about and some I didn’t think about. Having them altogether helps with focusing on a more frugal and happier lifestyle. 😊
@briankachor566 Жыл бұрын
I really love your videos I like the fact you didn't spend a lot on your wedding and you guys just stayed home after your wedding I like that I like all the ideas you had too 😊
@mariabanholzer794211 ай бұрын
You are the queen of saving Madame! Love from South of France
@PaulaParker-ec4ec Жыл бұрын
I sometimes use cash for small items during the week but I also use a card with cash back on purchases so I’m making money when I spend. I use this for spending that I know will be a definite every week like grocery shopping
@Blondehairedwarrior Жыл бұрын
🙌🏻 Yes, I agree. I put my bills on credit card and get a chunk of money back each month from paying bills with card. I pay off my credit card right away. 🙂
@VeganMangoQueen Жыл бұрын
I started a no buy 8 years ago and never stopped lol. Basically only food and if a clothing item wears out I replace it. I make my own cleaning products and use reusable items like a leaf razor. My hair is thick and to my bum but I watched a video online and I’ve had no issue trimming it myself for almost 15 years. I’ve been doing a pantry clean out since Nov 1st and I’m down to the bare minimum now and will get more in a few days before family comes to town so I can make them a nice healthy vegan meal. 🌱💚
@tania4726 Жыл бұрын
Thrift shop save you so much money on clothes. Also if you have kids consignment sales! ;)
@christinekobzeff Жыл бұрын
I love it!! Eating healthy vegan meals and living the no buy life! 🙌🌱💚
@giocondakisses Жыл бұрын
My family is coming to visit, would love to prepare a vegan meal, any specific recommendations?
@jimmiepatrum Жыл бұрын
I keep trying to eat down my freezers (fridge and small chest one), but I've not been very successful. That's because I can't seem to pass up reduced meat that I bring home and freeze. Sigh. I'll keep trying. Diane
@jimmiepatrum11 ай бұрын
@@susiestaton5544 Thanks, Susie. I do like having enough food, but when the freezers get so full that I have a hard time closing them, that's a problem. I also think about how awful it would be if the power went off for a while and I lost all my food. There has to be a happy medium, whatever that is! Diane
@charlenedaley661011 ай бұрын
I always use an apron, toaster oven and a sewing box. I’ll have to think about getting the others in this video. I love my face washing cloth.
@zeninme7980 Жыл бұрын
This was so very good! I was able to check off alot of what you said! I started the journey of making lifestyle changes about 3 years ago...I was minimal before but have improved significantly now! You are just so excited to share this info and I totally understand why!! Less is more..happiness is an internal action! Child free is your choice and that is beautiful that you held those values for yourselves and didn't fall into a societal trap! Always enjoy your content...especially this! Take care you two!! ❤❤
@debc31511 ай бұрын
That is awesome I was married 19 years, divorced for 19 then I met a man in church, neither of us were looking to get involved, but the Lord had plans for us . At the age I f 63 I got married Good Lord willing we will be married 5 years thus June
@stacyhamilton142111 ай бұрын
Great video and ideas! We are child free and retired early. We have 23 nieces and nephews and love our time with them.
@anamata46111 ай бұрын
Love your tips, and I pray one day I live that frugal life.....One tip for your greens never buy packaged salad, is washed down with lots of chemicals.
@erikawhittaker44811 ай бұрын
thank you
@charlitoabella19511 ай бұрын
Thanks for he info
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
I don’t eat greens, though never heard they are washed with chemicals!
@bkjackson705911 ай бұрын
Alot of great ideas. I have a flat-screen TV that I bought in 2010 (works great and I think I got my monies worth). I only watch it for 3 hours every Sunday (PBS).
@danielballard3364 Жыл бұрын
Hello Christine, used to live in Chiang Mai as well from 2011 to 2015 and i fully agree there are real quality dental services also due to so many western expats living there. I did a very similar thing by letting all my teeth issues get fixed there instead of back in europe which would have cost me tenfold of what i paid over there. *thumbs up*
@kathyconway26798 ай бұрын
I like most of these, and actually have fairly minimalist home. We have no kids and I can’t imagine life without our pets and without holiday cheer. I have very modest decorations for major holidays that are used year after year.
@carolynb1413 Жыл бұрын
A couple other suggestions to help you out would also be to attempt to curb hobbies ( plants and uranium glass collections) buying more and more is a temporary high. Also there are so many more alternatives to very high end work out equipment. Often outdoors offers a variety of ways to get exercise. It’s free and the additional bonus of being outside in fresh air. You also mentioned having a mortgage or car payments in the future. In todays world, Without a good credit rating your payments will be higher or you won’t even qualify. So I would suggest using the credit card, but having the will power to pay it off completely.
@shawnadeyo8 ай бұрын
Thank you for letting me feel normal to not want to celebrate holidays! Not only is it EXPENSIVE but it's also very STRESSFUL! Yes I did celebrate when my kids were young but definitely not now that they are grown. We all have a understanding and are all in agreement that holidays can still be celebrated just by being together and having a good meal and that is the extent of any celebration anymore. I have never really thought about how much I've saved but it's been alot. Plus the less stress concept is even better!
@karenmains431311 ай бұрын
Your video was so refreshing...I totally agree with a lot of your tips, even tho I am older(67)..i think more people should live below there means..thankyou and look forward to seeing more videos..bless you
@faithfultita158511 ай бұрын
Wow!!! I do everything you suggested, and I my meals depend on the sales of the week plus when possible, I double my meals and freeze for when I’m unable to cook. And I rinse my mouth after I eat anything, and if my gums feel sensitive, I rinse with salt water few times a day. I have 2 credit cards, and always pay it in full at the end of the month. Paid my house off, paid cash for for my brand new suv, eight years ago, and saved enough to replace it when possible. I can go on and on.
@claudiaflores9890 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this informative video! I love finding new ways to save money! I don't have a gallbladder and I can't handle any oil other than avocado oil. I didn't have a goal for next year but now I have one. I want to save more money and minimize where I can!
@mysterydiaz530211 ай бұрын
Omg. Now I know I’m not alone. I do much of what you talk about….thank you!
@phuongdo9196 Жыл бұрын
Hello from Vietnam! When you talked about plant based meal and cooking without oil, you got me. I'm on whole food plant based with no oil. Definitely a subscribe from me. Keep up the good work! Xx❤
@nancycy903910 ай бұрын
How to you consume healthy fats, then? We need them.
@mounthive9 ай бұрын
Missing you Christine! Sending warmest wishes from Australia
@woodsmokeandwisteria184211 ай бұрын
I only spend money on shampoo, deoderant, and makeup during Black Friday. It costs me quite a bit at the time but my savings over the year by not buying one at a time are significant since I buy the same things over and over again. I will never buy my favorite things at full price if they will put it on sale at some point. My husband always laughs when I get a whole box of deoderant but I'm set for the year 😂
@smiling39010 ай бұрын
I do that when my stuff goes on sale at Costco. :)