Noah and PJ's Surprise Wedding First Dance (complete version)

UPDATE: We are thinking of all of you around the world during the COVID crisis. Please stay incredibly safe, practice social distancing, and stay home whenever possible. We will get through this together - and we will all get back to dancing together soon!! -- P.J. and Noah
PS - Ed Sheeran included us in his "Put it All On Me" video!! Check it out: • Ed Sheeran - Put It Al... (we are at the 1:50 mark)
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THANK YOU A MILLION TIMES OVER FOR ALL THE KIND, THOUGHTFUL COMMENTS!! We feel the love and send it right back to all of you!
We seriously did have "the time of our lives..." An incredible night surrounded by incredible people! SPECIAL THANKS to our Dads and families and friends, Katy Spreadbury and Wil Nieves (Nieves Latin Dance Studio) for helping us put the dance together, Andrew Holtz (Holtz Wedding Photography @Holtz_Photograph), the incomparable Mel Brooks and Susan Stroman for Young Frankenstein (PJ’s all-time favorite movie), and the movie Ex Machina for the disco inspiration.
Videographer: Holtz Wedding Photography - @Holtz_Photograph
Music in this Video:
--It's A Quiet Thing (Morgana King)
--Conga (Miami Sound Machine/ Gloria Estefan)
--Gonna Make You Sweat (C+C Music Factory)
--Vogue (Madonna)
--Get Down Tonight (KC and The Sunshine Band)
--Puttin' On The Ritz (Young Frankenstein - the Musical)
--(I've Had) The Time Of My Life - Dirty Dancing (Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes)
#itgetsbetter #loveislove #lovetrumpshate #lovewins #noahandpj #putitallonme

[@meghanjosephine]

the little girl in the background who looked so happy and excited the entire time gave a little extra adorableness to this iconic video

[@DAS1962]

As a somewhat "older" gay gentleman, where such things were unimaginable at probably your age, I find these videos truly heartwarming. May you have many happy, and dancing, years ahead of you.

[@Javi-hr1sl]

Ed’s video brought me here, but now I can’t stop watching, this makes me so happy, I need a love like this😭💘

[@HumayunKhalid-fk2hk]

Me too

[@briandworkin3089]

my husband passed away before we could do anything like this...and 30 years ago, we couldn't even entertain this type of celebration....i hope that you are still happy, and healthy...i still miss him every day

[@shannepieters1789]

Now THIS is two people who have truly found each other. You can really see you were both completely into it, no one was doing anything reluctantly. You can just see how perfectly you guys fit. God damn this made my day 👌👌

[@XanClaymore]

If I ever get married and my man doesn't agree to have a choreographed first dance this epic I'm calling it off

[@spsarojpradhan06]

Edison D. Mee too calling it off

[@dollyknockers]

I realised half way through watching how much my face was aching from smiling so much. I wish you both every happiness.

[@bingovegas4867]

I worked over 300 weddings in a 35 yr career...I've never seen a 1st dance like this. Must have taken much rehearsal, well done gentlemen.

[@Tayjahbaby8371]

This was the most beautiful wedding dance ive seen in a long time. it took me a while to see gay love as real love but now that i do the world is that much more beautiful. this really touched me deeply. congrats you guys. All i see is pure love on that dance floor.

[@wallacememberships]

Good for you! What a beautiful comment - really proud of you and happy for you!

[@M5TABBYCAT]

Now that's really opening up. Your comment made me smile as much as the vid.

[@geminidreamatl26]

I smiled the entire time. Def needed to after this year.

[@mikhailerica8664]

And i))

[@SeanShimamoto]

Justin Williams I have this loaded on my iPhone X, which has been broke for the last 10 months...and I just got it fixed and I forgot just how much I smiled through this entire video! I wasn’t allowed to get married in my country until just before my 42nd birthday in 2015...so this is really special to me...I can feel tears coming on again. Hehe. Justin, I hope u and ur ohana are staying safe and healthy during this pandemic. Lotsa love and aloha from Honolulu! 😁🤙🏽❤️🌈☀️

[@ruthlewis5311]

Same! This always puts me in a better mood.

[@satyam.shiivam]

.me too

[@MaureenLindgren]

My cheeks hurt from smiling!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ellenwinchester3658]

The little kiss on the cheek during "time of my life" brought tears to my eyes. How beautiful.

[@lhp6617]

I just hope my friends and families will be supportive like this. No, I just hope everyone is supportive like these people

[@MrsEJV]

I’m on board if you need a 75 year old grandmother! Happiness to you……

[@salohyy2126]

Love youuuuuuuu

[@stephan7270]

@@salohyy2126 Meeeee tooo!!!!

[@cassidydeneau7076]

What an iconic first dance lol. Way more entertaining than 4 minutes of mild slow-dancing!

[@dnats275]

The most good thing I've seen for awhile husband and husband in love and dancing together ..Good vibes good moves ..why am I crying? Isn't this cute ? 😍😍😍

[@susanallison5101]

I cried. From a 72 year old granny.What the world needs now is love, more love.Thankyou.

[@jameyoung9544]

Just great being able to see a couple of men dancing together. I am now 75 years old and I am so very happy to two people who can dance together with out fear of being killed like was when I was 18 years old. Thank having. this so i could see it before i die

[@pjnoah416]

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR THE INCREDIBLY KIND, THOUGHTFUL COMMENTS!!! We feel the love and are sending it right back to you. So grateful for the overwhelming amount of encouragement, support, and well wishes. It's people like you who make the world a kinder, happier, better place. Thanks a million! PJ and Noah

[@catlady520]

Love is wonderful, congratulations! Loved your dance.

[@noeldunsky]

Hi PJ! This clip has really opened up my morning with a smile! I wish you and Rufus all the best on your journey together :)

[@cannuckpatriot]

Amazing! Please PLEASE send this to the ELLEN SHOW! The world needs to see this! You guys are like the cutest couple ever

[@Umstead2011]

Thank y'all for posting ❤ and y'all are such a beautiful couple...that air lift tho....Nobody puts Baby in the corner 😂😂💃💃💁❤

[@lizdingwall]

Love is a wonderful thing and the poth of you have it you are such a wonderful couple. . And soo good looking. .love ya fa Scotland..👬👍

[@Lil_Snugglebug]

Ive been real upset the past few hours, sobbing and just basically coming down off a small mental breakdown. Finding this and watching it... It's made me smile and laugh and actually has cheered me up when I desperately needed it, so thank you. Thank you so much.

[@tjw9985]

Take care. Mental meltdowns of any sort are harsh. I agree that a good video does wonders.

[@Lil_Snugglebug]

TJ W Thank you hun.

[@tjw9985]

@@Lil_Snugglebug Your welcome!

[@Lil_Snugglebug]

@M C The world is terrifying, one of my dogs is very sick, and I've not been wanting to be awake often, but I'm hanging on the best I can, and I've got a good support system, which is good. :) Thanks for asking. How are you?

[@RoyalSnowbird]

This has got to be by far one of the best wedding first dances ever - it is at the top of the charts in my books. They put flair and humour into this in a manner even the best choreographers couldn't match - highly artistic renditions - simply loved it! Aside this, the love these two have for each other is palpable. BRAVO! BIG APPLAUSE from me!

[@futu007]

Look at how happy the kid was. Im so proud of her and her parents for opening her eyes at an earlier age that love is for everyone regardless of gender norms. Bless u all.

[@patrickc3419]

Yes, they show how much they hate their child.

[@mariaelenacastroleo6756]

LEO Y MARiSOl.❤❤

[@Suisei_70i]

Love the crowd's reaction. In a lot of these dance vid, the crowd seems to be dead. Glad that they are cheering for once You can tell how much fun the couple is having just by the look on their faces.

[@olman9299471]

Unless you are truly made of stone, this wedding dance will move you. Thanks for sharing the love!!!

[@embott1]

That is so amazing. Two people. In love. How can you hate that? Bless you guys forever and a day.

[@ChezzaRooney]

Finally!! A wedding dance that is unique, well executed and just pure joy to watch. Boys, you have now set the benchmark for wedding dances. Cheers from Melbourne Australia

[@katierowen3166]

Ed sent me here and I am delighted he did.

[@carlosbravo263]

More incredible than those beautiful men dancing, were those children around living for them.

[@parseltangue]

What’s best about their weeding dance is not just all about their talent it’s about the people around them. they are surrounded by the people who supports them, the people they love, respect, trust and adore. Congratulations! 👏🏻

[@arturoelbittar4653]

Utterly unbelievable. My cheeks hurt from smiling too hard. This video gave me 10 more years of life 💕

[@npcrafterak1246]

I am sooooo happy that you were included in Ed Sheeran's video and look so happy. I can't believe it's been over a year since I first watched this.

[@MamitaGomez]

Ed Sheeran's video brought me here. How did I not see this when it first went viral?! Smiled and lol'd throughout the whole video. Thanks for sharing!

[@garyjavierquinataogo4053]

MamitaGomez which video?

[@katiedavis9965]

Nothing will ever surpass the level of happiness I felt watching this video

[@npcrafterak1246]

After three years, I still come back for a smile.

[@keepXonXrockin]

Planning a wedding and working out a synchronised dance routine - hats off

[@rickovery]

By the end I was literally crying with joy...for their wonderful dance and for their obvious love for each other. May you both have long and happy lives!

[@crescentedwards851]

Years later and I can't stop smiling

[@chrisedmunds9272]

A whole lot of happiness there. Pity the children of the haters. These two gentlemen express what true love is, especially in today’s world. Are these guys professional dancers? Spot on. Wish them the very best in a long life.

[@aubsmart86]

Thanks Ed Sheehan for sending me here! Made my day ♥️♥️♥️

[@bubbly366]

oh my god the dirty dancing scene last made this sooo much better and it was already so amazing

[@efthalia6624]

The people supporting makes me think humanity isn’t too bad after all.. Ed brought me here and I’m happy he did!

[@npcrafterak1246]

Years later, still stopping back to get a bit of joy.

[@peannuto0osquishy399]

this is not what i was expecting, just showed up in my recommend and what a pleasant surprise, awesome dancing

[@rad_turtlez]

Ye ye the dance is cute and I highly agree-- But no one is talking about how skilled they are at dancing?? They got some talent tbh.

[@lydwinaofschiedam2685]

I’m guessing they’re professional.

[@Slavid999]

I am using youtube compulsively for 8 years and i must confirm This is the best video i have seen on this platform, EVER!!!

[@lesliemeaney9033]

Revisiting this after over 2 years and it is just as heartwarming and fun to watch as it was then. Still makes my heart smile.

[@pjpleasants6558]

That was epic! I don't even know you, but I was grinning ear to ear just seeing how happy you are together and your love. Thanks for that lift-- much needed today!

[@SkyHostess]

OMG I don’t even know either of you. But I absolutely LOVED this. May GOD bless you with many years of Laughter and happiness.

[@justCarila]

Well done! They switched the leading role several times and it equilibrated the performance.👍🏽The kiss at the end... true love ❤

[@liyah4635]

How cute can a couple be? I had to laugh and cry at the same time. The two look so incredibly likeable!

[@joeqvn]

*the youtube algorithm did something right for once*

[@aravindssingapore4327]

True 🤣🤣🤣

[@LimAmli]

Amén.

[@joshbishop7134]

LITERALLYYYY

[@jacksonmeddows5369]

Literally straight facts

[@mikhailerica8664]

Absolutly agree

[@riggiolena6178]

With the crazy day of the virus, this lifted my spirts. Wish them the best.

[@susanadam6094]

This has got to be the best wedding dance in the history of wedding dances it was just brilliant 🥰🥰🥰

[@suyue511]

I had the biggest smile on my face the entire time. This is so sweet! It’s obvious they’re having the time of their lives. 😊

[@berlintanker]

I felt dirty and ashamed watching this…………

[@brendanclark1058]

@@berlintanker Then go take a shower maybe ?? Sounds like a personal issue

[@Br0cum]

@@brendanclark1058 😂 👏

[@dennyii5292]

This video gives me hope that *Love* is a power that will always win over any kind of hate, these two are so awesome. I want to be best friends with them, cause anyone who has "that" in their hearts, has got to be pure joy to be around.

[@Wave2680]

Ed brought me here - I love love love this! you two are inspirational!

[@tamirawlings70]

You to are so cute together. You can just see the love you both have for one another. Definitely a first dance you will remember for the rest of your lives. Congratulations to you both

[@KimChilds75]

4 years late, but this is my new favorite thing.

[@ameyahemmady]

Best wedding dance ever danced! Absolutely nailed all the styles and the big lift in the end. Perfect duet!

[@vinaymittal6361]

I don't know how I ended up here, but guys I like to wish you both good luck. Always be together in all times with each other. You both compliment each other a lot. Lots of love & wishes

[@leahj.6877]

This is how extra I want to be on my wedding day

[@jonathanyu6145]

The joy in their eyes and dancing made me teary eyed. Lovely couple, dancing and fab guests. All supportive!

[@annap1983]

it’s 12:56 in the morning and i came across this video, which immediately made my day(sort of night) and it makes me so happy to know that there are such beautiful things happening in this world that we don’t always appreciate - thank you for brightening my mood and the best of wishes to you both!!

[@yachickennugget8366]

❤️

[@timq78]

Wow... are these two guys professional dancers? What a wonderful way to celebrate their love for each other on this special occasion :)

[@REAgentDennis]

This was absolutely amazing. Congratulations you two. This was the most fun, and romantic first dance I’ve ever seen. I also loved how you kept things versatile. It all made me smile.

[@rachelarteiro7529]

Ok, we can stop the wedding dances from now on. This guys gave us the definition of an act too hard to follow. It was perfect.

[@KLSiegel320]

This is *fantastic*! I can only imagine how much hard work went into preparing this surprise for their guests.

[@workoutplan7744]

I smiled, laughed and even cried with that dirty dancing hold. FABULOUS

[@msgarcetta778]

I love well planned, rehearsed, and executed proposals and wedding dances!!! I watch them for fun, cheering up, and passion. After the Midland Tx tragic news report, this couldn't have hit my suggestion feed at a better time. Beautiful Amazing & Lovely! And I'm so glad a young person was able to witness acceptance, love, commitment and a high standard of WEDDING DANCES! 💍🕺🏾🕺🏾👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨

[@jcjc9799]

I’ve never seen a couple tap dance or totally recreate the signature dance number from Dirty Dancing, including the lift. Some talented men.

[@SarahWelstead]

How the hell can anyone watch something like this and still be against gay marriage?? This was awesome!

[@cmarietheemt23]

I cried when they nailed the hold!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@LeeGraceGunter]

My face hurts from smiling during the whole video. This was great

[@aislingthebard]

My wife passed this to me and we watched it in tears of joy and love. Many thanks--our 23 years of marriage is dancing with you. Hail to gay love!!!!!

[@twhtv5272]

When dancers get married

[@GIguy]

If my hubby and I finally tried to do that, we probably both break our hips! When we first met on December 10, 1988, gay marriage was illegal, we’re still together, this December marks 31 years, and while we are legally a common law couple, I always wanted to get married, and would love to do a dance like these guys did, but now that I’m 50 and he’s 54, I think we’d have to have a paramedic standing by just in case! Thanks for sharing that dance guys, I wish both of you a lifetime of happiness together, and pray that you have as wonderful a life as my husband and I have had, and as the years go by, while the last may fade, the love become so deep, you essentially, one person, and you won’t be able to picture your life without each other, that’s what true love, means to me and to my husband. You’ll be amazed at how fast the time goes, it just seems like yesterday we were having our first date, as I sat there nervously waiting for him to show up, and in December two of us, plus our son, both of our families, Who don’t care that we’re same-sex couple, and loved us both exactly the same amount, will be basking in the sun, and will be officially and finally having an actual marriage, just don’t expect us to dance like that, to be that young again! Enjoy every moment you have together, cherish each other, and love each other, because what you have found is so rare, I consider myself to be The luckiest man on earth to have found my soulmate, and to be embraced and loved by all of his family, and vice a versa. I am very very lucky man, as are the both of you, sending you nothing but joy happiness and love from Toronto ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Stephanvann1965]

My Birthday is Dec. 10th. Happy belated anniversary. I'm 54 as well. The first gay wedding I went to was in 87. Though not legal, it was officiated by a Justice of The Peace, and it was awesome. Things have changed for this generation and thats a great thing. Have a great wedding!❤

[@SeanShimamoto]

Congratulations on this December’s 33 years. I was in the 10th grade when y’all got together, not long after my 15th birthday, and I remember thinking that with the AIDS Epidemic in full swing, there would be no way that gay marriage here in America would be legalized anytime soon, but I figured in a decade or so we’d be “allowed” to get married...but instead, 1998 was saying goodbye to Matthew Shepherd, which broke my spirit. Though the good news, in 2005, for my Northern neighbours filled my heart with love and hope...not for myself, but for our community and every new generation. Unfortunately, it would take another decade, but one week before my 42nd birthday, President Barack Obama announced that Americans like me, were finally seen as complete human citizens. I know that my time has passed, and my best years will be behind me in a couple of years, but just knowing that any future gays will grow up taking marriage for granted just like their straight peers will make me happy ‘cause they’ll never have to feel that sense of “less than” or “the other” with regards to the right to marry. #BabySteps Anyway, I hope u and Ur ohana are staying safe and healthy during this pandemic. Lotsa love and aloha from Honolulu! 😁🤙🏽❤️🌈☀️

[@ronjacobe]

Love the way they take turns taking the lead :) Shows they both can rely on the other to be strong when needed; or at least it is an indication.

[@geminidreamatl26]

This never fails to put a smile on my face. even when im depressed.

[@doloresgiorgi5022]

Thank you Ed. Congratulations you two. Wishing you health, love and happiness always.

[@chantalejordan5157]

I have seen so many first dance wedding videos, but this one was by far the most amazing and wonderful and great one I have seen. I loved it right from the beginning, and you guys are so beautiful together. Congrats to you guys on your union and continue to put those amazing smiles on each others face. P.S. I watch this video already 10 times and still cant get enough. Goof luck to you guys in your future together......

[@biancatalbert5472]

best ever first dance! as someone who frequently tries to convince people to do the dirty dancing lift i know how hard it is and i am VERY impressed.

[@cheekypiper512]

Absolutely fantastic, the dancing and the love.

[@alexandermuller950]

I watched this vid prolly like 100 times. Can't believe even after 4 years it's still one of my most favourite wedding dances so far. Absolutely sublime ❤️✨

[@lynnzajicek]

Same! I am here again to just get my serotonin level Sky high again!

[@alexandermuller950]

@@lynnzajicek ❤️❤️❤️

[@nataliamontewska]

Same! It's absolutely amazing

[@lenat7397]

THIS is FABULOUS! And that little peck he gave him (3:27 or something) shows so much love, it's adorable.

[@emilgeorge1234]

I feel lot happier to see this 2 happy people. Really heart warming... Just look at those people they are surrounded by, ... Everyone is so happy for them.. This is why I respect people of West, coz of your open minds. Accept everything unconditionally! I wish everyone, every country was like this... Perhaps my life would have been a lot different, a lot meaningful

[@pjnoah416]

Emil, our heart goes out to you for being in a place where you don't feel the kind of support and love we are so lucky to have. The seeds of understanding and acceptance and love are being planted around the world by brave individuals like you who help those around you challenge old assumptions. Thank you so much for reaching out and sharing with us. We are sending much love and wishes for happiness! PJ and Noah

[@time4sanity]

I could just watch this OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN! I'm guessing Patrick Swayze has a HUGE smile on his face!!!! Great job, guys! And congratulations!!! Wishing you a long and happy life together!!!

[@claudiafegari5116]

I agree 100% with you!!!!

[@Lisa-vq3ow]

these guys no how to get down! They look truly happy.

[@JaneDoe-ci3gj]

Searched Dance on KZbin amd ended up here. Glad I did! The whole dance was epic!😁👍 I grew up with dirty dancing so that was my favorite part! Hope you still happy and dancing two years into marriage!❤ Wishing you all the best! Greetings from Sweden!🇸🇪

[@129jaystreet]

May the marriage be even better than the wedding!

[@ainiamjad9720]

My boyfriend just told me if we're not dancing like this on our wedding we ain't getting married😂😂 This couple is adorable 😍

[@gshalabama]

It’s 2021 and I hope you guys are still dancing. You two really complete each other so wonderfully. ❤️

[@bellabb13]

I have no idea how this came to my recommended but it’s everything I’ve ever wanted thanks youtube

[@tracywalkerPossumQueen]

I always love seeing 2 people so in love and so happy! Beautiful dancing and tons of joy! Congrats to both of you! ❤❤

[@TSinRM]

Awesome!!! A wedding where the couple are also the professional entertainment.

[@youshouldcallmeabby]

I’m crying, you’re crying, we’re all crying, this is so great 😍

[@MilesFarrell]

I didn't know I could smile THAT BIT for THAT LOOOONG!!!!!!!!!

[@dominiquedymondemeraldwill1039]

And this is how you know a marriage is going to last forever... they had fun at their wedding so they will have fun every day fir the reat of their lives

[@ezekielmanuel3529]

I smiled almost the entire video but teary eyes at the end. So much love being felt on the last part.

[@shellbutler411]

Awesomeness I can see and feel the love. Best wishes to you both for a long and beautiful marriage. I'm still smiling

[@pumpkin8751]

2M views well done guys, wish you eternal love and success within your marriage

[@christinabeard222]

I smiled through that whole dance! What a beautiful couple.

[@danielfernandez4979]

Hace un año descubrí a estos chicos y estoy deslumbrado. Hermosa pareja y coreografía ¡¡¡Espectacular!!! Un saludo desde Uruguay - America del Sur.

[@carlosnajera65]

it made me happy to see friends and family there, maybe one day I could be that comfortable and free too