Struggle love at its finest. She held him down while in jail, paid for everything, was the ride, provided a home, stayed OVER TWENTY YEARS no marriage and he cheated and talked bad about her behind her back, that's how he repaid her. Ladies get some self esteem.
@Msjayallday12 жыл бұрын
AGREED! I mean we all, most ppl want to have love and be in a relationship but, I'll be damned! If I entertain a "relationship" like this just so that I won't be alone! Loving yaself is a hell of a drug!!!🗣
@Sunshine134chick2 жыл бұрын
She’s A Fool 😂😂😂
@scottgilliam81852 жыл бұрын
Taking scrubs To whole new level 🤦🏿♂️
@scottgilliam81852 жыл бұрын
@@Sunshine134chick weakness AF especially when he was in jail but I ain't judging lol
@w-n-cw-n-c9232 жыл бұрын
Periodt!
@tiffanyashford47692 жыл бұрын
She seems like a nice lady but it’s sad and unfortunate that her self esteem is so low… I would rather help take care of a needy family before a grown man
@gracemunich14762 жыл бұрын
same here….love is blind?
@TonyaJones07882 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, I was naïve when I was young, but I learned quick……😳
@gracemunich14762 жыл бұрын
@@TonyaJones0788 glad to hear! 😊
@Crystal-Love2 жыл бұрын
@@gracemunich1476 it’ll take over your mind
@eloahnon49522 жыл бұрын
@@Crystal-Love 😅
@khia38392 жыл бұрын
As soon as he said she came up to his job and got him fired I knew her case was DONE. If you know anything about judge Mathis you know he does not play that about getting people fired
@donovanwilliams292 жыл бұрын
Especially since dude was a convicted federal felon she got him fired bcuz she jealous. Mathis knows it ain't easy for them to get a decent job and only dead end jobs like he had working at dunkin donuts
@locafly2 жыл бұрын
You know it
@supremeclientele13562 жыл бұрын
I knew it was over for when the announcer said it! 🤦🏾♀️😂
@sheshell81652 жыл бұрын
His voice cracked and he got a emotional while talking about it.
@elwin382 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY! I've seen cases when Judge Mathis was about to drop that gavel for the plaintiff and he found out they went on the job for their money, some of the plaintiffs raised hell on the defendants job and JM ran that plaintiff out that courtroom quick!😆😆
@JazzyJeffRealTalk2 жыл бұрын
Some women will throw their entire life away to support and stand by a no good man. It’s sad.
@ayana1882 жыл бұрын
And then wanna sue…. TUH!!!!!
@payableondeath90912 жыл бұрын
SMH FR & realize it toooOooOoo DAMN LATE
@kpre98742 жыл бұрын
It's real
@Angel-nc9tq2 жыл бұрын
But Jazzy I dont feel like he's a no good man...she let him do those things...19 yrs come on! She could've left at anytime
@JazzyJeffRealTalk2 жыл бұрын
@@Angel-nc9tq both can be true. Lot of women stay with no good men.
@queenleorobi82532 жыл бұрын
She is a fool! Who stays with a man for nearly 20 years that has been unemployed and in and out of jail?
@peacefaith5602 жыл бұрын
you'd be surpise ..my aunts have friends that have been with men 20 yrs with NO JOB !!!
@highlander6662 жыл бұрын
A very desperate, gullible, weak individual
@mmmfun772 жыл бұрын
@@peacefaith560 pathetic. Probably professional mother syndrome
@JoyJoy-oc7su Жыл бұрын
@@peacefaith560 Desperate women
@Lyfehurts66 Жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised smh..
@jrenea872 жыл бұрын
He treated her like the sponsor she was. Her insecurities are showing this entire episode and it’s because he played on her kindness and love. She’s bragging about 19.5 years and I wouldn’t mention that again. Let go and start heading.
@airjay_012 жыл бұрын
Absolutely gorgeous smile Ms Joyce Banks….
@LoveFamilyDollShow Жыл бұрын
Dated for that long 😳🥸
@AlwaysAlicia29912 жыл бұрын
She really believe shouting 19.5 years over and over isn't shameful
@flo-dd5sw2 жыл бұрын
When people are in their emotions, they aren't thinking about that. She's angry at him but at herself.
@brackenrobertson7992 жыл бұрын
How was that shameful? You point that out and not the fact she stayed with him through jail time and cheating. But shouting a number is shameful? Lmao get your priorities straight
@tpzemrld2 жыл бұрын
She yelled most of the episode
@Talkswithtee3022 жыл бұрын
@@tpzemrld yes my ears were hurting 😫
@AlwaysAlicia29912 жыл бұрын
@@brackenrobertson799 THATS WHYYY I CALLED IT SHAMEFUL BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE ALLLOWED HERSELF TO BE PUT THRU YES HE IS A BUM IN OUT JAIL YES HE CHEAT BUT SHE CHOSE TO STAY AND FINANCE HIM FOR 19 YRS NO RING NO REAL COMMITMENT THATS WHY ITS SHAMEFUL WE AS WOMEN NEED TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR OURSELVES AND WHAT WE ALLOW OTHERS TO CONTINUE TO DO TO US. YES HE IS A DUSTY BUM I AM NOT PRAISING THAT BUT DONT EXPECT A BUM TO BE YOUR PRINCE
@terriwilliams48032 жыл бұрын
This is sad, she has no self esteem, or pride, just listening to her, and she STILL lost the case. This man did not use her, she gave to him willingly.
@amandaz97622 жыл бұрын
Ugh... I hate so much to agree. I feel bad for that sweet woman
@mrshappilymarried12 жыл бұрын
@@amandaz9762 me too. Lord have mercy...
@sagittariusvibez50812 жыл бұрын
Women need to learn to put themselves first
@queenleorobi82532 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when a woman plays wife to a man that is not her husband.
@jacobestevez75702 жыл бұрын
@@queenleorobi8253 ... exactly ... and she lost the case because she went up to his job ...
@SamuelsReview2 жыл бұрын
They were laughing at you because they knew you were mothering a grown man (financially and emotionally), while he was talking bad, cheating, and lying to you. 🤡
@donovanwilliams292 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂
@shalanathomas77512 жыл бұрын
Yup!!!
@ayomidel2 жыл бұрын
Ain't no fool like an old fool. 😆
@evelynmiranda90722 жыл бұрын
@@ayomidel We all get old if we don't die young 😆.
@Katie_Q2 жыл бұрын
Why he actin like it's not possible to cheat while ur in jail 👀👀👀
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
Ikr! From my understanding, people from jail gets caught up a lot when it comes to cheating!
@ludalulu38272 жыл бұрын
😩😩🤣🤣🤣❤️
@Passion850312 жыл бұрын
Exactly with both sexes he ain’t gone tell it
@scottrogue9462 жыл бұрын
😳
@Talkswithtee3022 жыл бұрын
😝😝😂
@angelicrealtor12 жыл бұрын
There is something missing upstairs with this woman. She needs professional counseling and to move on with her life. The verdict was made by the Judge. That doesn't mean i believe the guy. I think he's a hustler, he definitely used her all of those years and he's a serial con artist to be frank!!! Best wishes to her in the future.
@tenille25292 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. She could barley answer JM questions, let alone get her story straight. I do not believe the defendant. He is used to standing in front of judge. Therefore, he knew how to setup his argument. He took advantage of the plaintiff.
@birdchoyce43322 жыл бұрын
@@tenille2529 If she had kept her mouth shut at the end, she probably would've won her case. Talking and doing way too much caused her to pay financially !!!
@tenille25292 жыл бұрын
@@birdchoyce4332 I think she did hurt her case by going to his job; however, the defendant knew she was in love with him. He took advantage of her love for him. Just because a person not wise enough to protect themselves from you don’t mean you should take advantage of them.
@reasonwhy44012 жыл бұрын
@@tenille2529 she was picking him up from work. When she was approached by the messy manager I bet he was sleeping with
@neededtobesaid42752 жыл бұрын
You'd think that after being made a fool for 19 years that she wouldn't show up laughing throughout the case.
@mdennis0012 жыл бұрын
Because she a little off in the mind. A woman doesn't talk that loud, only crazy women do that. Or drunks.
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
@@mdennis001 her voice is irritating my soul
@ronanderson52492 жыл бұрын
@@mdennis001 rite
@ayomidel2 жыл бұрын
@ Needed To Be Said, she's a loud and proud fool.
@maureen1234mc2 жыл бұрын
She had to Laugh to keep from crying;. Plain and simple
@Vanessa_Martinez2 жыл бұрын
She talking loud just like a old person. He looks like he could be her son.
@KPbouj2 жыл бұрын
😂 You right.
@najaarutledge92132 жыл бұрын
I didn’t want to be the one to say it..
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
He's obviously a good man ,she just too simple minded for his suaveness.
@serious71792 жыл бұрын
@@gggreens a good man? On what planet? Both the plaintiff and the defendant has issues
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
@@serious7179 he stayed by the woman who stuck by him, she was too simple when he got out, to understand a free imprisoned man . Yes he's a good man.
@MsKolo902 жыл бұрын
Never too old to be a fool ..
@sharonnewton11952 жыл бұрын
He is not into her
@mwoodson10262 жыл бұрын
~WISDOM~
@ambzcloud2 жыл бұрын
Who is telling women that they should carry men like this? There's a difference between (1) supporting and loving your s/o and (2) being an absolute fool for someone to walk all over. Nothing you do for someone can make them love or respect you--either they love and respect you themselves, or they don't. Dropping a man off at work, picking him up, paying for everything, waiting for him to get out of prison--that sounds more like a mama than a s/o to me.
@kaylee38672 жыл бұрын
The desperate women are telling these type of women that! Low self-esteem!
@ambzcloud2 жыл бұрын
@@kaylee3867 I believe you. It's sad.
@nnedwards32602 жыл бұрын
Black women are! I have never seen women so desperate to have a man! This does not happen in my country.
@angell16032 жыл бұрын
💯🎯
@The-Mediator2 жыл бұрын
It’s the AA culture. It tells women to be ride-or-die and to have long suffering through a man’s struggles. It tells women not to pressure men to be better. It tells women they aren’t quite good enough.
@nicolecpeaceofmind53392 жыл бұрын
Her hair is so healthy and pretty. I hope she heals and builds her confidence up.. On another note did he say he owes 3mil dollars. Whew
@delonjuan2 жыл бұрын
Not her natural color though
@deejai11732 жыл бұрын
@@delonjuan I think she knows that…
@traceysbodytreats2572 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was surprised by that. I didn't know you owe once you come out of jail like that. Mathis said "yeah, they took care of you". Learn something new every day.
@latonyasmith43952 жыл бұрын
@@traceysbodytreats257 IT'S called restitution.
@traceysbodytreats2572 жыл бұрын
@@latonyasmith4395 thank you! I had no idea.
@Iamcherese2 жыл бұрын
He wanted a mother, not a woman.
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
And she wanted a man and got a son🤦🏾♀️
@Iamcherese2 жыл бұрын
@@convowithashnicole 😭🤣🥴
@Sunshine134chick2 жыл бұрын
That part he used her for money 💰 and sex 🥩Fresh outta jail
@palo59592 жыл бұрын
He’s a lucky man he got a mother who happens to be a woman. He had his cake and ate it. This man defy the odds
@rs614342 жыл бұрын
Somebody needs to tell her you don't have to yell when a mic is in front of you.
@robinaaayyeee2 жыл бұрын
💀 Listen! I had to turn my sound down.
@scottrogue9462 жыл бұрын
Crying 😭 She so damn loud
@theredwhoop93722 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@cookiengreg27522 жыл бұрын
And it’s a consistent loud ringing in the back of my ears and everything. 🥴
@tamikabennett62222 жыл бұрын
😂😂🤣
@jusmejaussyb82372 жыл бұрын
While she definitely is a little loopy, I think JM was biased in his ruling smh Might be the wake up that she needs to ensure this never happens again
@treasurepearls41122 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. I don't believe him and he should never got the judgment
@cyyrious2 жыл бұрын
I think judge was giving her the lesson she knew who she was dealing with from day one
@kpre98742 жыл бұрын
The best response here.
@birdchoyce43322 жыл бұрын
@@treasurepearls4112 She didn't have any evidence, email, text message to prove her case. He won because she admitted to having a volatile conversation with his female coworker in the parking lot. She could've kept her mouth shut and maybe the case would've been dismissed, imo !!!
@reasonwhy44012 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree 💯 percent..I was looking for this comment I thought I was the only one who saw that. JM was looking for any reason to get him off. I think she should've got her money
@drapertraci72 жыл бұрын
He should pay her for her things. He owes her that after all she's done for him. He used her and although she allowed it... he didn't have to accept it. When you do wrong, wrong comes to you! Be kind to others! It pays off... either way.
@theredwhoop93722 жыл бұрын
He don't owe he nothing maybe uou females should leave thugs alone
@drapertraci72 жыл бұрын
@@theredwhoop9372 First.. stop putting all WOMEN (female is a gender), in the same box! He owes her common courtesy... Yes she chose a "thug" as you called him, he still needs to treat people with the respect he wants.
@theredwhoop93722 жыл бұрын
@@drapertraci7 grow your own hair second you're very simple minded female just like this female
@deon31332 жыл бұрын
@@drapertraci7 he owes her nothing. She started of saying his family was saying she is his sugar momma. He didn’t force her to do anything for him. But she had no proof and she got him fired from his job.
@drapertraci72 жыл бұрын
@deon3133 I get what she did... I also get what he did with the storage unit! She deserves to learn from her mistakes... no doubt... but had he not continued to lead her on while he was trying to get his... she wouldn't have ever been at his job. Oh wait... she was there to pick him up! Lol Every action has a reaction... good or bad. He didn't have to pay her for the storage, but all things fair and all she did for him in 19 years... I think giving her that money was the least he could do. I get that some won't agree, and I'm ok with that. At this point, it doesn't matter... he got away with it.
@howdyyall43522 жыл бұрын
She really did yell throughout this whole episode 😫
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
Yes, she caused judge messy to yell throughout the episode too.
@nishaammandrea Жыл бұрын
Lmao
@mrsa2you3652 жыл бұрын
Dang grandma you're supposed to be more wise than this 😫
@nikkiknowship-hop14662 жыл бұрын
When she said “he don’t really like me” I think she’s right. I think she has been feeling that way the whole time and I don’t think he ever denied it, she’s just convenient.
@kpre98742 жыл бұрын
Matter fact says he hates her. Poor woman was con from the door...he watched her move in; living in his mother's house 🏠 & slid right in. Ladies be oh so careful.
@euqinom85612 жыл бұрын
I think when women realize that men are different. They lose feelings after the chase/intercourse... So many don't like and even hate women they sleep with, married to and get pregnant. If u tell them no and hold off on sleeping with them u will see quickly how they feel about you.
@Dieee4des Жыл бұрын
@@euqinom8561 I needed to see this comment from you . Was just involved with a guy that I liked & he wanted to sleep with me this past weekend .so I asked him can we go to the movies or something this week . Since he was expecting something from me I figured asking for something so simple shouldn’t hurt ,Not gonna lie I was gonna sleep with him but after he sent this emoji’ 🤯’ & I hadn’t even met up with him yet to see how he felt it really hurt my feelings so I never read his messages again. Your comment puts everything in perspective for me Thank You❤.
@euqinom8561 Жыл бұрын
@@Dieee4des oh wow, that's great you're understanding your worth. Most of us women been in similar situations, we live and learn. I live by these sayings... "You teach ppl how to treat u", "When a person shows you who they are, believe them the 1st time", and "Never let a man tell u more than once, he don't want you" Saved me a world of heartache. Be blessed ❤️
@reptilemetaljen2 жыл бұрын
If you get the man fired, how can he pay you back? lol
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣😂
@yolandajones67892 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 😳
@queenyahshiriyah97452 жыл бұрын
That part!!
@damionasplace95174 ай бұрын
Simple, he can get another job and start paying it back 😎
@susiesolangesimpson28282 жыл бұрын
Can’t feel sorry for her. We’ve seen this play out 468733 times the same way. Don’t date men in prison ladies. It’s not that serious 🙄
@veronicastigger79472 жыл бұрын
Not really They have to show you they are worthy of your time.
@susiesolangesimpson28282 жыл бұрын
@@veronicastigger7947 no
@rasheeda13032 жыл бұрын
468733 times yaw something else🙃
@veronicastigger79472 жыл бұрын
@@susiesolangesimpson2828 I’m only going on my experience with my uncle and his now wife. The love they have for each other is truly amazing. I guess it’s not common but I see your point also. Just wanted to show it is possible
@susiesolangesimpson28282 жыл бұрын
@@veronicastigger7947 I'm not saying it can't work but 9 times out of ten it's not.
@asiaanderson55562 жыл бұрын
The most shocking thing about this case is the new audience member's.
@KPbouj2 жыл бұрын
My girl Pam still back there in the black shirt or is that her? Look a lil slim around the neck.
@asiaanderson55562 жыл бұрын
@@KPbouj im weak @ Pam but that's her😂😂😂😂
@wadilotus2 жыл бұрын
I don't like it. One of them looks like a knan member.
@deejai11732 жыл бұрын
@@wadilotus 😂😂
@melissacanez67302 жыл бұрын
Right
@msphyl312 жыл бұрын
She knew that if he got up on his feet he wasn’t going to be with her any longer. That’s why she went up to the job. Poor thing.
@tosha05082 жыл бұрын
Way minnit....she saw alllllll the RUN GIRL signs right away, but she still stayed 20 yrs? I don't feel sorry for her at all
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
Right! Sounds like she didn't mind being the fool! She said even his family told her🤦🏾♀️
@tosha05082 жыл бұрын
Something is seriously wrong with her! She was super desperate for a relationship
@cyyrious2 жыл бұрын
She would correct you that’s 19.5 🤣😂🤣
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
@@cyyrious right - 19.5
@mmsmart10142 жыл бұрын
Twenty years of being used.
@freegame1k2 жыл бұрын
He's been trifling all his life 😩🤣🤦
@foodieb54422 жыл бұрын
Her fault dealing with someone like that all those yrs. Got to do better ladies. Guess she just wanted a man that bad
@sandrabradford97232 жыл бұрын
Right NEED A Man
@flo-dd5sw2 жыл бұрын
We all need someone to see the good in us.
@foreverrcocochenel2 жыл бұрын
She was getting more than just having him. Perhaps he validated her worthiness, here and there her attractiveness and value as a human being. 19.5 years? It was about her more than it was about him to her. He was feeling an internal void of her’s that’s for sure.
@theredwhoop93722 жыл бұрын
If y'all blk females didn't love jail birds so much many of you all wouldn't have that issue
@INDIGO.GODDESS_5732 жыл бұрын
If the storage was hers ORIGINALLY. She shouldn't have needed his PERMISSION for information from the storage company.
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs2 жыл бұрын
She knew he really didn't want to be with her so she let him have control over the storage as her way of really just being able to see him or talk to him... She was hanging on to something that was over
@Sunshine134chick2 жыл бұрын
He’s the definition of a Baby Boy and she really fell for his games and lies she needs to get some self esteem cause he played TF outta her used her like a Suga Mama 🥴🥴🥴
@niece5852 жыл бұрын
He did what she allowed
@Sunshine134chick2 жыл бұрын
@@niece585 facts
@trollmanable2 жыл бұрын
Damn! Who dates somebody for 20 years? If you're still together after 5 years, it's time to sit down and start making some plans.
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
Not even 5. 1 or 2 at the longest
@peacefaith5602 жыл бұрын
if you aint got no job, we aint making no plans !! lol she had me at prison
@queenzhane72042 жыл бұрын
Ladies... Please make sure your standards and boundaries are set before getting in relationships. This woman is a testimony of what happens if you don't. So sad
@yoshicahaigler97242 жыл бұрын
How do you come in and say he has never paid for anything and that you took care of him for 20 years but you trusted his broke ass to cover your storage fees for 2 years, I wish tf I would. If I don't trust you to be financially stable I'm not trusting you to oversee anything of mine. NEVER!
@charcoalcowboy2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. It’s contradictory which puts everything she says into question
@msvicky55992 жыл бұрын
This is so unfortunate how we use each other instead of love 💕 each other!
@mmsmart10142 жыл бұрын
True..
@ieshaanderson131711 ай бұрын
One of the best comments on here
@ariellestewart91902 жыл бұрын
Man it's crazy how ppl are really predators. Some men and women need serious discernment because these ppl aren't playing out here.
@myshanamakisi60632 жыл бұрын
Auntie, you too damn old for this behavior...😒 No sympathy. You got what you wanted.
@foreverrcocochenel2 жыл бұрын
Played herself! Gots to be more careful.
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
Age ain't nothing but a number ,perfect example, he brings out the girl in her
@neawatson14482 жыл бұрын
@@gggreens well said
@myshanamakisi60632 жыл бұрын
@@gggreens with age should come wisdom...hence the term "an old fool"
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
@@myshanamakisi6063 you probably old and foolish too and tryna jugge her, But she is a fool for fighting at someone employment site. But any adult could be guilty of that. I still say it's good she had a man who made her feel and act like a young woman. She ruined that. Now she looking stupid
@jacquelynclark37822 жыл бұрын
I think that the defendant knew that the plaintiff is a little challenged (mentally) which made it even more easy to take advantage of her. Damn, holding a man down (financially) and he didn’t even MARRY you? She has to be a person of diminished capacity to continue to let that happen to her.
@sharonnewton11952 жыл бұрын
Want to be love
@jacquelynclark37822 жыл бұрын
@@sharonnewton1195 Don’t we all???
@mmsmart10142 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for her to be with someone for twenty years it no joke.
@jasonclyburn14992 жыл бұрын
It’s funny because I realize she was referring to the text messages as emails 😂😂😂
@wadilotus2 жыл бұрын
I wasn't sure what she was talking about. I suspect she doesn't know the difference.
@kpre98742 жыл бұрын
I know she's very old fashioned. Probably stayed in house across from his momma & his family watching eyes. She practiced never going out, still using landlines so she don't miss collect calls from manipulating, lying, conniving, con-artist, controlling criminal. He'll get his one way or another. Ladies, if a Man don't have his own everything he's not for you. Dang all those years wasted for a FELON.
@kayn82522 жыл бұрын
🚨She knew what she had on her hands… she just wanted to brag to her friend about her lil tenderoni. 🤦🏽♀️ He was running circles around her and didn’t even care to hide it bringing the other lady to his friends auto shop. Both really need to grow up (and not play the victim role towards eachother)
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
💯 Exactly! She telling the story with the energy that she knew nothing but clearly she knew all along. She just didn't really care enough to let him go. Instead she let him treat her like that for 20 yrs🤦🏾♀️
@Sunshine134chick2 жыл бұрын
The thing about a Roni Bobby brown voice 😂
@kayn82522 жыл бұрын
@@convowithashnicole bingo! 💯. Sn: That’s a very long time to play dumb.
@kayn82522 жыл бұрын
@@Sunshine134chick 🎶 “my hearttttt. Belongs 2 a roni” 🤣🤦🏽♀️
@scottrogue9462 жыл бұрын
Not “tenderoni” lol 😂
@jennifertucker5662 жыл бұрын
She should have stayed home and not let the world see how foolish she is. She knew early in the so called relationship that he was no good and still kept him. She’s too old to be so foolish.
@brackenrobertson7992 жыл бұрын
She’s the fool because a man treated her like shit? How about we stop blaming the women in these situations and hold men accountable for being garbage. Your moral compass is OFF
@jennifertucker5662 жыл бұрын
@@brackenrobertson799 I did state that he's no good.
@jb37022 жыл бұрын
@@brackenrobertson799 yes she is a fool If she doesn't learn to heal herself and have boundaries then this will keep happening. She has to take accountability for herself!
@cherylclark1352 жыл бұрын
You can’t help a con man. He will most certainly need her again. And he is lying, she didn’t get him fired. He’s a Bum
@shannonmarieh.7942 жыл бұрын
Standards, self worth, self respect, boundaries and just how to date in general we must teach our children early on. For girls and boys. It all starts with self belief. I hope she heals and finds someone who treats her with decency, but also that she learns discernment.
@shelocsher23962 жыл бұрын
The problem is it’s so many ppl like her doing the teaching.
@poppiemontgomery2 жыл бұрын
SHE DECIDED TO TAKE CARE OF A GROWN MAN DESPERATION AT ITS FINEST
@theredwhoop93722 жыл бұрын
Your mother did it
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
Why are other women so quick to point a finger about how another woman treat her man..idgi
@poppiemontgomery2 жыл бұрын
@@gggreens she was pointing the finger at HERSELF the WHOLE EPISODE
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
@@gggreens uhhh she brought her slow self on National tv.
@poppiemontgomery2 жыл бұрын
@@Proverbspsalms EXACTLY the judge had no pity on her rule in man favor
@amyratcliff38432 жыл бұрын
We must love ourselves first so we can understand when someone else doesn't & to be ok without them.
@gladystharpe98422 жыл бұрын
A lot of women seem to be buying men to be in a relationship! Sad to see it! You are good enough! Leave them No Good for Nothing Bums along!
@sylviabranch4201 Жыл бұрын
I agree he is a scrub
@AddLoveTM1262 жыл бұрын
Ha! Judge Greg Mathis👨⚖️ replayed Dude's Game Scenario, Down to a SCIENCE!👑👏😎🤣😂🤣
@justlikeyou282 жыл бұрын
Cheating during covid is the very reason my daughter's father got his walking papers smh. Contrary to what he thought, my being pregnant reinforced my worth & his lack there of!
@charcoalcowboy2 жыл бұрын
This is nothing to say in public. Rather than try to figure out what the issue is between both of you, you chose to be a single mom to a newborn. That’s shameful. Y’all need to work it out. Unless your unbearable attitude was the cause of him wanting to get away from you. In that case, breaking up was the best think for both of y’all
@justlikeyou282 жыл бұрын
@@charcoalcowboy I'm going to ask your close minded, egotistical self to watch your tongue. It's apparent you're slow. I clearly said he cheated! Since I know who I am and whose I am, I let him go. Only a worthless narcissist would think I should've done anything different. Do yourself a favor & stay off my comments!
@lillie51722 жыл бұрын
Karma know your address
@christinejackson2912 жыл бұрын
GOD bless her, she seems like a very nice lady…. I feel bad for her , no one should be taken advantage of.
@TB-ev2hg2 жыл бұрын
I can't stand when Cougars and Sugar Daddies try to sue.
@teisham45082 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Fleefromsin2 жыл бұрын
Worst times are coming in the world but GREATER is coming in the kingdom 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Make sure you're in the Kingdom!!!!
@nakiashelby64132 жыл бұрын
My Mom used this phrase and it is definitely true...."Ain't nothing worse than an old fool". In your younger years we may do some foolish things, but damn!!!! This lady probably knocking on 60 and taking care of this man. She complained about him not providing, but gets the man fired from his job! She can't be mad at anyone but herself...not this man.
@Rellz332 жыл бұрын
What's good JM fam hope everyone is having a awesome day showing major love
@bellladonna20712 жыл бұрын
👋🏾
@Rellz332 жыл бұрын
@@bellladonna2071 hello there
@queenandcrown2 жыл бұрын
All will be well. Have a beautiful day 🌼
@francinewilliams17032 жыл бұрын
Stay Blessed Everyone 🙏🏾 @Rellz 👋🏾
@foreverrcocochenel2 жыл бұрын
💕
@blank-ch6rk2 жыл бұрын
I never caught something this early lol I'm excited
@queenandcrown2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@SamuelsReview2 жыл бұрын
Men enjoy supporting women they love. If he's "dating" you, but you are paying, HE DON'T LIKE YOU!
@kpre98742 жыл бұрын
Facts...
@LeolaGlamour2 жыл бұрын
Her mindset is in the hair. I’m 29 and I’m not wearing pigtails unless I’m dressing up for Halloween.
@scottrogue9462 жыл бұрын
I’m screaming 😭
@LeolaGlamour2 жыл бұрын
@@scottrogue946 I didn’t even see the see through shirt. Lord this lady is a mess.
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
Where does that stupid word come from.. PIGTAILS" ...? it speaks volumes about the person who uses it as well, 'pigtails lmao
@LeolaGlamour2 жыл бұрын
@@gggreens 🙄 you must be a man because pigtails is a hairstyle, usually for little kids. You’re making yourself look illiterate, I’d rethink the comment. We could probably fill an omnibus with words you don’t know.
@kpre98742 жыл бұрын
Yes PONYTAILS, I found that odd for her age to have Two. It's like waiting for him sick her in a time zone.
@yolandajones67892 жыл бұрын
If I owe the government $3.5 mil, just leave me in jail 😭
@ieshaanderson131711 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@HARRIS42762 жыл бұрын
I thank god my mama gave her girls the game. She ain’t the only dumb woman it’s plenty of them. Old and young these women beg men for attention all in their dms being thirsty you couldn’t imagine. I thought men were supposed to do the wooing.
@theredwhoop93722 жыл бұрын
Yet none of you are married
@HARRIS42762 жыл бұрын
@@theredwhoop9372 I can tell how lame you are by your profile pic like ESG said “boy u gets no play in that gay muscle shirt”
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
You need to re evaluate that thought.. times are changing that old way not going to work anymore, internet on the scene now more knowledge easy access , the game has flipped, that plaintiff got caught in the game she missed some valuable rules ,she lose
@Shawn-ds9ug2 жыл бұрын
I believe her! She’s telling the truth! He is a bum!
@SuperKim29812 жыл бұрын
Judge Mahis was wrong on this one. He still owed her for that storage.
@lmoore31222 жыл бұрын
Dang, I was on her side until she denied the altercation at his job, there was no way he made that story up, I was hoping she was going to get herself out of being responsible for him losing his job.
@charcoalcowboy2 жыл бұрын
Right and that puts every single thing she said in question.
@charcoalcowboy2 жыл бұрын
Right and that puts every single thing she said in question.
@latoyajohnson58232 жыл бұрын
Looking at him is like judging a book by its cover
@mikeaddison56972 жыл бұрын
She too old to be acting like that
@youmakemelaugh17972 жыл бұрын
Granny you wasted 19 and some change on that bum, proudly stating you paid for everything, even after hearing the horrible rumors about yourself and continuing to smile about it!!! Smh Smmfh 🤦🏿♀️
@youmakemelaugh17972 жыл бұрын
I don't feel bad for her at all she's mad goofy and hasn't learned anything from that foolishness!!
@Bloombaby992 жыл бұрын
This is why it doesn't pay to be a good black woman. So many ungrateful souls who don't appreciate a damn thing.
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
You're right and the Judge had the nerve to grant him his countersuit and dismissed her case🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I'd have to beat someone up for this had it been me!
@MsArLee11052 жыл бұрын
Being a good woman is not for the benefit of others, it should be for yourself and if you're a Godly woman, it's to please the Lord. Not sure why ppl keep living to appease others. Too many People are trifling. They love you one day, betray you the next.
@ddavis89882 жыл бұрын
Being a good person doesn't make you immune to the repercussions of bad decisions.
@cjohns10052 жыл бұрын
Stop being a GOOD WOMEN to BUMASS NIGGAS. PLENTY MEN GET THEY ASSES UP DAILY AND TAKE THEIR ASSES TO WORK LEGALLY ... but nah yall want the hustlers and d boys. Then when it don't work out...yall want sympathy.
@MsArLee11052 жыл бұрын
@@ddavis8988 so true
@Talkswithtee3022 жыл бұрын
She can’t blame no one but herself
@charlessantee83292 жыл бұрын
This woman was so good to the defendant by taking him under her wings although, she shouldn't have cause him to lose his job.
@tinajohnson67132 жыл бұрын
Do you really believe that was the situation buddy was a bum and probably got fired for harassment because you don’t even have termination papers no write ups just straight fired Nawl ? For the company’s liability purposes at least
@bryangman19752 жыл бұрын
@@tinajohnson6713 she's a old ratchet can't have that patrolling the lot.
@boniswamchunu2 жыл бұрын
Don't like the way he treated the woman who held him down and kept it real when he was down and out....
@Bloombaby992 жыл бұрын
This is why it doesn't pay to be a good black woman. So many ungrateful souls who don't appreciate a damn thing.
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
That's how some of these trifling guys are SMH 🙄! Had the nerve to be embarrassed of her and countersuing her for emotional stress🙄🙄🙄my eyes were rolling everytime he spoke🤭
@queenjocelyn4711 Жыл бұрын
She shoulda known better ! Tf …eww…you’re 11 yrs older than him …chasin his broke ass around when there ARE men your OWN age that are waaaay finer AND self sufficient! And then she called the other woman’s husband but couldn’t confront the mf who was in a relationship with her ?! Someone please make it make sense !! I’m 41 and I have NEVERRRR checked a female about a guy…unless she was disrespecting my man..but you ALWAYS check the cheater ! You can’t check someone who doesn’t owe you fidelity !!
@rpcrealpeopleconsulting63242 жыл бұрын
the Plaintiff really made herself look foolish...never phuck with someone's job.
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
Or never cross those boundaries at someones job. Stay in your lane basically
@keondrashinholster50802 жыл бұрын
She can't blame nobody but herself. She lost all her good years with this man when she could have had somebody better.🤦🏿♀️
@jeffreyabbey95922 жыл бұрын
Shout out to the sugar mommy's out there 😆 May you enjoy your choices
@cjenkins6232 жыл бұрын
Ma'am! No need to yell lol
@scottrogue9462 жыл бұрын
From the thumbnail I thought a mom was suing her son 😳😂
@mmsmart10142 жыл бұрын
She is 11 years older no twenty five.
@Shonda-vj7qb2 жыл бұрын
I think both sides need to take accountability. It’s not no BW fault or BM fault it’s both ADULT’S fault.
@tinajohnson67132 жыл бұрын
Sounds to me like she did take accountability I didn’t hear her blame him not one time
@app1mxh2 жыл бұрын
Cheating on her at the jail. With dudes???
@Passion850312 жыл бұрын
Could’ve been any man/woman that do more than one bid is suspicious to me
@soulflowerpeace92362 жыл бұрын
She looks like the comedian Tracy Morgan..like she could be his sister or mom 😅🤣
@warriorqueen82852 жыл бұрын
😩😩😭😭
@bunbun28242 жыл бұрын
LOL!! Judge Mathis says lock down was how he learned he could be with his wife 24/7. My spouse and I drove over the road truck for 21 years as a team. That is being together 24/7 because we even stayed in hotels for time off instead of paying rent and utilities on a place. We thought lockdown was a piece of cake!!
@charcoalcowboy2 жыл бұрын
Bet y’all stacked that paper
@Rayallwayz2 жыл бұрын
Men and women. When you see a person treating you differently in a negative way when they are around their family members. That's a sign to end it with them.
@kpre98742 жыл бұрын
I agree
@mljac252 жыл бұрын
I’m with her……Oh Wow, come on Judge Mathis!
@reasonwhy44012 жыл бұрын
Me to. This was an injustice
@Oldyounglady2 жыл бұрын
Can we talk about alll the new faces in the audience but I still see my Auntie in the upper left corner holding it down lol
@Valencia5_112 жыл бұрын
Based off the thumbnail I wasn’t expecting her to sound like this 😂😩
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
@tameciagrayson41472 жыл бұрын
How does 20 years go by dealing with the same crap…..I could never
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
19.5
@kathyfoust28982 жыл бұрын
She needs to know her self worth! 🥺
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
BTW, Judge Mathis had me rolling thru all this video🤦🏾♀️🤣😭😭😭😩
@saronmalloy60742 жыл бұрын
She’s too loud…ugh
@fundifferent12 жыл бұрын
"That wasn't another email, this is another FEMALE!" 😆😆😂😂
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
How do u feel sorry for her(plaintiff)?? She knew everything about her guy(defendant). She had a whole son and made him her husband🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Insecurities and low self esteem at it's bestest lol! Nevertheless, they both sounded real crazy! They got what they needed from one another for 19 and a half yrs!
@HARRIS42762 жыл бұрын
What’s funny is “bestest”.
@convowithashnicole2 жыл бұрын
@@HARRIS4276 🤣😭
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
"she had a whole son and made him her husband" that sounds dumb 🤨
@nananazimam20602 жыл бұрын
Girl move on... Just leave that bum
@rpcrealpeopleconsulting63242 жыл бұрын
Why did the courts entertain this case?
@aprilshines95212 жыл бұрын
She is too old to be talking like this. 🤦🏾♀️ I’m embarrassed for her. Bless her heart. Damn! Damn! Damn!
@gggreens2 жыл бұрын
Child please.. this woman is in a relationship with a man. We all subject to any effect under these conditions
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs2 жыл бұрын
She knew what it was..... She got low self-esteem she grabbed the dude straight out of prison.... I don't know what she expected.... I'm not condoning it but if she tricking DAMN.... At least let him be fine.... She done went and got her a sawed off runt...that has the audacity to not want to claim her.... Girl just love yourself 🤦🏾♀️ And why the hell she talk like she yelling.....
@jamingjohnson22752 жыл бұрын
I think I have heard it all. This dude went out of business because he had too many paying customers. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@deejai11732 жыл бұрын
Ma’am, Ms… You are too old to(actually at no age should one do that) be showing up to someone’s place of work. Any time you feel compelled to do such a thing; you need to leave that relationship 🙃
@journeygreen6272 Жыл бұрын
That man showed you not 1, or 3 times he was a bum but that’s what you wanted and stayed
@WMsandKFCisBackMOFOs2 жыл бұрын
Brother Kevin Samuels is rolling in his grave listing to this.
@Proverbspsalms2 жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣😂😂
@MsTee33012 жыл бұрын
She has extremely low self esteem. She was not a victim.she volunteered. Sad
@freshprince1302 жыл бұрын
I hope she finds someone who loves her 🙏
@wadilotus Жыл бұрын
She need to find jeebus
@alamoja Жыл бұрын
Hell no.
@touchedbyyou46982 жыл бұрын
Came straight to the comments after I heard the introduction 🤣