Planner Community Rambles - Influencers | Hyper-Consumerism | Perfectionism | Creative vs Functional

[@PrincessSquish]

I am feeling overwhelmed trying to articulate how much I needed this today. I had tears running down my face and felt such validation. I have felt so much anxiety about not being productive like a good little planner girl. About being able to have all the things but still find to use ANY of the things. I felt like a fraud because I have so many planners and every single one of them ends up being a memory planner because I can’t get my shit together long enough to decide how I should be preplanning correctly. Just as soon as I have clarity on what I want to do with my setup, another stack of happy mail shows up and I am trying to figure out how I’m going to incorporate all this new shit in. I’m a grown ass woman that just wants to play with stickers and make something look pretty in between making drinks for 5 kids and cleaning a constantly messy house. This video gave me the courage to say, I’m perfectly fine with having a completely dis functional unproductive journal where I put whatever the hell makes me happy today. If that’s a planner, it’s a planner today. If that’s a scrapbook today, ok. A therapist, ok. A blank sheet of paper because I was too tired to even look at it, okay. Tomorrow? We’ll see what that brings when it gets here. Today, I’m okay.

[@MekaAllen]

Yes, yes, and yes to all of this! I am so happy this video made its way to you. Thank YOU for leaving such a heartfelt comment, too. I relate to everything you're saying. LOL I don't even have kids and it's still a struggle. Do you know your Myers Briggs personality type? I learned that I'm an INTP. The "P" is for perceiving, and it's the opposite of what most planner people seem to be. Whenever I see an MBTI post, 95% respond saying they are "J" (judging). If you google "perceiving vs judging styles" that might help you see the difference in thought process. Maybe you're one of us perceivers!

[@PrincessSquish]

@@MekaAllen that is so interesting! I will google those styles and read about the differences. I have done the Myers Briggs quiz and I was an INFP. I never thought about how it applies here! Thank you for that insight!

[@delle3955]

Yes! I can relate wholeheartedly! Just being able to articulate all this helps me. You’re not alone and it sounds like you know yourself well. I’d like to know my “personality” too.😊

[@flyaway2ak]

@@MekaAllen I am an ENFP this was a warning for me thank you. I do not buy a lot of product because of money but also I DIY vinyl tns and now my first leather one. I have wanted a leather one for 3 years finally found the type on leather that speaks to me. I have asked for pens and washi for Christmas and I have a small stockpile now but I use it every week. I do use stickers and plan each week for relaxation and fun I do think you are right I need to reevaluate my motivation. But here it is I just had my sister get paper for me that is hard to get from Michaels. This was right for me to see this and my actions I need to not go down this hole.

[@MekaAllen]

@flyaway2ak It doesn't sound like you're *too far down the rabbit hole yet. Just stay vigilant and always check in with yourself-- otherwise the overboard and overwhelm will creep in.

[@bloom6081]

The hyper-consumerism bug really bit me hard for a while, on things I could barely afford! After some introspection, I learned what I really like, what products I actually use. What works for others doesn't work for me, and just because it's on sale doesn't mean it's in my budget! I made a credit card size list of things I don't need and stuck it in the ID slot in my wallet, so that I can't make a purchase without seeing my own rules.

[@MekaAllen]

I love that idea. I kept a set of questions in my wallet-- e.g., "How do you intend to use this item?" An off-limits list is a great idea!

[@delle3955]

Love this idea! Tfs

[@bloom6081]

@@delle3955 You're super welcome! I'm glad it's something that could work for other people, too.

[@lynnva7146]

SUCH a good idea

[@bloom6081]

@@lynnva7146 Thank you!

[@JuneFaramore]

I've been so much happier since I bought a Cousin (no bandwagon, I've lusted after layout for years but balked at price, tried Weeks last year, too small but convinced me I was paying for quality paper/binding). Actually using planner in productive way every day, using the crap out of the stickers I have. Super happy. Need to cut down on sticker buying, but at least all I bought I am using. Hear ya on leisurely life. I hate the busy busy planner girl meme. I am a depressed girl trying to hold on to her life. That's enough, and the planner helps me not forget everything because I have brain fog so much.

[@MekaAllen]

I hear you. I think it's not so bad buying a lot if you use it, and if it doesn't cause financial/time/space, etc problems. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Depression and busy-busy do not mix. I'm right there with you. 💕

[@meshinda]

I hear you. I'm not about productivity. I actually use my planner to schedule time with friends and social/crafting events. Half the time I back plan or memory keep. I want to look at my planner and be happy with what's in it. Sometimes putting down the sticker that says I did laundry makes me happy when I'm in a place where doing laundry takes a lot of energy. I am also starting to recognize how the consumerism is getting to me. I am beginning to chill, but I still have spikes of I-must-have-it-ness. The thing you said about people not thinking that they are creative. That's so me. I love watching other creative people but I rarely view myself as creative even though I have lots of creative crafts. So thanks for reminding people like me that we are all creative and that my creativity doesn't have to look like yours.

[@krisinovak6522]

This is me too!

[@MekaAllen]

I like the idea of using a planner to document the positive things and celebrate the wins.

[@michelleavent1312]

I agree with Margaret , as soon as I heard you start to speak, I knew God wanted me to hear this. I’ve always used a planner for productivity, and years ago when I had the idea to use my scrapbook supplies to decorate it - I didn’t realize that there even was such a thing as a planner community. One of my four daughters introduced each to specific planner stickers and products and that started something. I love washi and stickers. It’s a creative outlet for me, but sometimes my planner is just pen and paper. I’m in graduate school (at 52!) and that’s where my time goes after God and family. Planning is me time. I recently switched to a Happy Planner and became caught up in ALL THE STUFF. Thanks for your honest, authentic, grounding video. I needed a reminder that the planner is mine to use as I see fit, in a way that serves me...not the other way around!

[@MekaAllen]

Kudos to you on grad school! You're amazing!

[@Khanslady]

The gems dropped throughout this entire video is priceless! A word spoken!!! 🙏🏽

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you! 💕

[@liadelacruz5359]

Thank you for this! I have definitely felt like a fake Planner Person even though I’ve used a planner since I was in elementary school (and I am NOT young!). I’ve been scared of the hyper consumerism and can definitely fall down that hole and then just not use any of it because I don’t plan that way! I appreciate speaking your truth.

[@icrafthappiness3109]

Your authenticity in your posts and videos shows through, Meka! I think back to our conversation at Olive Garden when watching this!! Stickers should be used, and planners are to be functional as well as pretty, not just collecting dust on the shelf. I think being socially responsible for what we post is essential. Your whole essence shines as someone who genuinely wants to help others improve. With friends like you, I know the planner community will thrive and remind us of our reasons for using this creative passion to grow as women. Also, this reminds me of when we share it is good to remember when we offer a plate of cookies, if someone declines, that's on them. It's hard to separate our self worth from our creations at times. Our creativity is no measure of how beautiful, how smart and how loving we are. You are truly an inspiration! Love you!!!!

[@MekaAllen]

What you said means a lot to me. Thank you. Olive Garden seems like forever ago! It's taken me all this time to work up the nerve to film this.

[@CindyGuentertBaldo]

This is an amazing video Meka. I have so many of these same thoughts. 🙌

[@MekaAllen]

Thanks, Cindy!

[@StatGoddess]

Thank you, Cindy, for suggesting Meka's video. Definitely something I needed to hear & thank you Meka, for speaking from your heart and finding a path back to joy and remembering why you started. 😀

[@pinkgirly713]

I think you touch on a lot of important issues within the planner community right now. The hyper-consumerism one is currently my biggest pet peeve - If people just chilled out a bit, it wouldn't be such a pain in the butt to find new happy planner stickers for instance. On the flip side of everything you touched on, I do miss your creative videos! I really loved seeing your planner set-ups, because you had some genius tips that I hadn't seen before.

[@MekaAllen]

Lol the Happy Planner situation is bananas these days! That kind of thing makes me lose interest in a product sometimes. Why bother wanting something I can't find? I hope to find my way back to creativity at some point. Thank you!

[@JuliesPlans]

Love this video so much! I think the hyper consumerism can also stem from “limited release” sales and promotions. You feel like you need these items that are impossible to get and then you see the sad and disappointed posts on IG.... it’s just so out of hand. I now visit Michaels like every three months if that and I purge monthly!

[@MekaAllen]

Oh the scarcity marketing works like a jewel! I don't fault the companies; their job is to sell. We as consumers just need do know when to step away.

[@ButterflyDreams]

Your words resonate so much with me! Thank you for addressing it. Mindful crafting is not so much about consuming crap mindlessly but more so enjoying the creative process as a means to healing our mind, body and soul. 💜

[@MekaAllen]

That's such a beautiful sentiment. I love the idea of mindful crafting.

[@BerryCrafty]

Yes mam. I was guilty of the michales and HL craze. I too sat in my car after spending( enough to buy myself an outfit) on stickers and paper just shaking my head in shame. Cause once again, I bought things I did not need. They were cute but didn't need them. I have since been more conscious of my spending and have been doing well. I've ordered a few things online but the spending isnt as bad as walking into the stores. I use my planners as a creative outlet and do plan some. I am ok with having a planner where I just go in and have fun. Nothing serious. If I miss a week oh well lol but I notice that those people that are considered influencers many times have 1.lots of blank pages and 2. Step away from the community cause they're overwhelmed. I never want to be in that place where I am no longer having fun but feeling pressured to stay relevant. My thoughts and am glad that theirs people who get it lol.

[@MekaAllen]

It's great that you've been able to keep your priorities straight. It's easy to stray.

[@brigettemajor7946]

As my Pastor would say if you can’t say Amen say Ouch ....O U C H !!! This is really good stuff 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@stephanieallred5222]

Brigette Major that is too good! Haha

[@brigettemajor7946]

I’m not sure how I stumbled across your channel but I’m so glad that I did. Thank you for sharing and being so transparent. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@simply.suzanne]

Wow. This really helped me understand the anxiety I've been experiencing. Earlier this month I had to put away my planners & journals... even though I thought I was loving them! Complete overwhelm and confusion as to why. I had to step away. You touched on things I didn't realize were root problems. Thank you so much for your insight and for your willingness to share.

[@MekaAllen]

I'm so glad this was helpful to you. I understand that feeling, and it's a frustrating place to be. I wish you the best in finding the right balance for yourself.

[@Scrapstorian]

I’m right there with you! And just realizing why. I gave away four (maybe more) TNs over the holidays and then took a break, because I had no idea what I wanted from my planners anymore. Nothing was working. The break helped me narrow down what I miss, why and what system will work for me, and I hope I can more forward sensibly. All this to say, I hear you!

[@MekaAllen]

That's awesome! I hope your system is working well for you now.

[@alyclark45]

THIS. Just...all of this. It's like you put into words what I've been feeling lately. I've wavered back and forth on whether I should get rid of all the pretty, or keep a little of it, or just keep it all because it does bring me joy. As long as I'm not acting crazy or stressing about it. Like you said, I don't need it taking over my life to where I can't be present with my family and paying attention to the whole reason I have a planner to begin with...to plan a life that I create and that I love.

[@MekaAllen]

For me, I wasn't prepared to walk away from it completely. Even through the most stressful periods, I think I realized that I'd find the joy in it again once I got some distance. So I stepped away for a while to get some clarity and perspective. Once I returned I was better able to refocus on what was important. I always think, "What's gonna matter when I'm reflecting back over my entire life at the end."

[@leeannschwemmer7165]

This is resonating with me so much! I already have so many stickers, planners, etc. It feels good for about two minutes after purchasing and then not so much. Thank you for this. ❤❤

[@MekaAllen]

Exactly. It's the thrill of the hunt.

[@yeoldebookshoppe1761]

Love this! I have done away with stickers and do more bullet style with doodles and love art journaling, altered books and junk journals. I feel more relaxed and free.

[@MekaAllen]

I love the free form nature of journals! I wonder if I'd ever get rid of all of my stickers though. Sounds impossible!🙈

[@Scrapstorian]

More thoughts ... For me, the tendency to buy, buy, buy comes up more often when I haven’t made time to create. If I haven’t been scrapbooking/planning/journaling, I feel like buying stuff reminds me that I’m still a creative person. It’s a cycle that I’m working on, and thought I’d share in case it helps anyone. ~ Cheryl

[@MekaAllen]

That's interesting. I think that was part of my issue, too.

[@tabathacoleman2110]

Deeply profound and restorative. I appreciate an "insider's" perspective--cleared up a lot of things for me. Companies ask "insiders" to pay with their time AND reputations. I am sharing this with my peeps! REALEST. DOPEST. PLANNER. REFLECTION. YET.

[@sarap1156]

Thank you ! The new hobonichi.. going strong I dont need it. Love your creativity and ideas ,Continue sharing your great DIY.

[@MekaAllen]

I'm somehow shocked at just how many people are using the Weeks now. Stay strong! 😄

[@DvsDebt]

You hit so many nails on the head with this video! I took a break from planning for a couple of years and just recently started back up. The hyperconsumerism that scared me away back then seems to be even more intense now, so the fact that I’m on a budget at times makes me feel like I can’t keep up. I just keep reminding myself that’s it’s okay to not have all the things that are being hyped at the moment and to focus on what drew me to planning instead of focusing on the commercial aspect of it. Great video!!

[@MekaAllen]

That's great that you've returned with a better focus for yourself. The commercial aspect of this is a bummer to some extent, but it's great having so many options. We just each need to be mindful of how our buying/acquiring is affecting us, and it's totally different for each person..

[@donnaryan71]

One way to help get clarity is to project forward and ask yourself, "At the end of my life, am I going to look back and be happy I spent a lot of time and energy making a creative planner and using all those stickers and washi etc, or am I going to think the time would have been better spent on xyz?". If end of life is too distant, try the same question but iproject to 5 years. "In five years time, will i look back at my journals and be pleased that I put in the time/money/energy (all our most precious and finite resources) into getting creative with my planner, or will I wish I put that time/money/energy into something else instead? (bonus points if you can name that something else)." I should add a caveat: if making a creative planner or journal relaxes you and puts you in a good space, then it's probably worthwhile and nourishes you. If it makes you anxious, resentful, feeling pressured or that if you don't do it it's not as good as anyone else's, if you are buying stuff you don't really need, if you are spending more money on it than you really think you should be, if you are comparing yourself and your planner to others and it makes you feel less-than, then creative journaling is not serving you and is instead harming you. Take a step back and go minimalist, or even stop altogether for a while. It may also be that time, money, energy spent on creative journals can be a form of procrastination or 'busyness' to avoid doing or dealing with something else in our lives. I'm an artist and I noticed recently that I was putting a lot of time into creating my journal. I was avoiding art because fear had come up but doing the journal was 'pretending' to be doing something creative. Sure, I made a nice journal, but I now see it was a clever avoidance tactic. So look out in your own life where doing a creative journal is an avoidance tactic. You will know if it is because when it's done there'll be a feeling of, "thank goodness that's done", rather than peace and contentment with your work. Loved your insights. HTH

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

[@hollyangel5708]

Amen! My planner is just another place to put stickers. I love pretty things and I want to use what I have. I memory keep because I have a horrible memory and it is therapeutic to spend 10 minutes to glue pictures and use stickers. I don’t care what anyone says! I love this video and I give all of us permission to use our planners in the way it benefits us most!!!

[@MekaAllen]

I love this so much! 💕

[@AtlDibuja-Productions]

I've noticed a few people with a large following that have pondered the same questions and thoughts. Yes, i agree with you. I myself have avoided some things and stopped following people because I don't like these trends of consumerism and "hipness". I love planners and journals and I have kept myself from buying all the vynils and sticker shit that has come up. I'm a long-time stationery lover more than a "scrap Booker" but it's so easy to find one-self buying stuff you don't need. Also, i have always had issues with the word "community". This isn't a community, it's a group of people with a common interest. More of "collectionists" planner and sticker collectionists. A community heals, supports you and holds you, instead of pushing you to mindless shopping. Anyway, this is my rant. Thanks for this video. ❤

[@BerryCrafty]

It definitely is the planner collectionist lol. It's real easy to feel out of place while doing your own thing and not following all the trends and buying all the things said influencer has. I slap myself out of trying to setup the perfect planner that looks exactly like influencer Sally cause I want to remain me and be happy with my planner even if no one likes it lol. That we get inspired by them and take a tip or two yes but copying everything is like 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@AtlDibuja-Productions]

@@BerryCrafty agreed! I stopped trying to "fit in" with other stationery "collectionists" because i know i never will fit in, and i am fine with it. It keeps me happy and "sane" . So, yes, agreed. I use planners as planners and journals for all of these creative things. That's why i never show my "spreads" haha. *sigh* 🌸💗

[@MekaAllen]

Interesting idea. Makes me wonder what the "true" definition of community is.

[@MySomethingBeautifulLife]

Yes. To all of it. It’s exactly what I’ve been thinking lately but couldn’t figure out how to put into words. I think the phrase that hit me the most was in your journaling, “glorification of excess.” That’s exactly how I’ve felt, that if I don’t buy buy buy then I can’t be a part of the planner community club. If I’m not “creative” enough and fill my pages with my scratchy writing instead of stickers then I don’t belong. And I agree about the word influencer too... it has always sounded shady to me, like manipulative used car salesman. But I love that you are redefining it for yourself. I need to do the same. I want to be an influencer for good, not someone who contributes to the “glorification of excess.” Thanks for sharing!

[@marywright1682]

Wow Meka! I needed this! I've read through a handful of comments that prove I'm not the only one who feels a weight has been lifted by your honesty and authenticity. I am wholeheartedly the type of planner girl "imposter" you described. I have a life-long love of stationary and office supplies and of course, stickers too. I have rebelled against my planner more times than I have adhered to its plans. I have struggled in this new year trying to get to the bottom of what I want from my planner or if I even NEED a planner at all... I've always been a journaler and it seems there is so much more freedom in the journaling community. The possibilities are endless and only limited by your imagination in a journal. So I've swayed back and forth on the planner pendulum from completely creative (with no productivity), focusing on memory keeping and decoration, to giving up planning altogether because I can't find a sense of belonging in the niche anymore. So much of our (or my) identity is tied to our common bonds with others ... and when all you hear is judgment rather than acceptance, you either conform and ignore your true self or you move on. I was so close to closing the door on the planner world and redirecting all that energy into journaling until I saw this video. I'm not 100% sure where I'm going from here, but that's kind of the point, right? Since I tend to rebel against plans anyway, I'll just go with the flow knowing that there are others who feel similarly and there IS community for those like us. You touched on the perfectionism that is so prevalent in planning which is another reason I've felt a disconnect. It just doesn't feel real. As you said, you created to make things people would like, not what you wanted to create if no one was looking. It seems like there isn't very much originality and things that are too "different" from the current trends and status quo get no attention or bad attention for not following suit. I believe your words will encourage MANY people to stay true to their creative style and embrace their differences. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

[@MekaAllen]

So much of what you wrote sounds like my thoughts at one time or another. In regards to your last oint about originality, I'd say if you want to play and present something different, GO FOR IT! True, it may be harder to find the people who "get you," but we're here, I promise! I'm so happy this video spoke to you! I guess we shouldn't be surprised that the "way out there" creativity doesn't seem to get much love-- I mean planners weren't originally meant for that, so it's hard for a lot of people to see past that. It's just not their thing, and that's okay. We just need to continue to seek those with whom we have that in common.

[@goldmineandcoco]

Wow Meka! So many things said and quite a bit to process. For me there’s two sides, as a consumer I am like omg yes ! Spot on. Now I still shop because for me it’s about support and reciprocation. On the flip side, as a shop owner I’ve been nervous for awhile in regards to the shift happening within the community and how do I manage to still “eat”, literally. There was so much truth and quite a bit to think about here. Thank you !

[@MekaAllen]

That's the tough part about all of this. We all love supporting various shops. A decline in consumerism means less food on a lot of tables. I think you have a head start in that you're already diversifying your product range. I guess the other part would be to reach new customers who don't already own a boat load of products.

[@tasiastonejordan6076]

I totally agree with the hypocrisy of some functional planners. I feel like my vibe is in the middle ("FUNctional"), but there were a couple of weeks where I didn't have a lot going on and I wanted to really use up some stickers that I had been hoarding. I posted my BTP spreads in a group, and the next day these posts about spreads being "too pretty" and people feeling intimidated like they had to create a certain way started popping up. Now, I am not vain enough to think that my spreads were the sole reason for these comments, but I'm thinking, this is supposed to be a space for everyone! If you want to just paper and pen it - DO YOU! Why must we knock others' styles in the name of functionality and productivity? If you want to see just page, pen, and checkmarks on spreads, be the change you want to see, and post it! Don't use your insecurity to then attack others -WHOO, girl. Off my soap box now. LOL

[@dianeandbrad529]

“pay to play” - I think this is probably something that a lot of youtubers face- I think you are so right on to think about what type of influence to have: and I love your mentality to influence people to be better person, not just be influenced to go buy stuff... such a wise and genuine video.... thank you for putting this out in the world

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you!

[@videomanicful]

I agree. I got my Happy Planner because it's pretty and I thought it would help me keep using my planner for productivity. But the stress of trying to make it cute and neat made me not want to use it. Now, I use it as a journal/smash book and use apps on my cellphone for productivity.

[@islandgirl75]

I'm not a planning community person, but an illustration community person and these issues "plague" us too which is why I could connect with what you said on so many different levels. I think as people we're all searching for connection and validation to some extent. Sharing things that we love with like-minded people can be amazing but can also lead to self-doubt, comparing yourself to others and yes, hyper-consumerism. The amount of money we spend on supplies is staggering and the industry sees this demand and just gives us what we want. To do anything you literally just need a pen and a piece of paper, be it planning or drawing. I always watch videos of other people doing reviews on products before I buy things. Being an influencer with a big following carries a lot of responsibility. I've considered using my channel to share my work but my biggest concern is, will I be creating just to have something to post, or am I creating because it actually helps my growth as an artist and therefore makes me happy. This idea is something that many creatives struggle with. Social media can be both a blessing and a curse. I'm so glad that you've opened up this dialogue and please know you've touched people outside of the planner community because truth isn't always limited to one discipline.

[@Scrapstorian]

Belinda R Yes! I finally admitted that a lot of what I was buying was because I wanted to be “relevant” in the community, and I wanted to be noticed. It sounds silly to say that out loud, because I should be creating for creativity’s sake, and buying things because I love them but because I need to “prove” that I am a planner girl.

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you for chiming in.I'm now seeing beauty and booktube videos with similar topics. I guess when you think about it, that comparison is an inevitable part of sharing. We just need to be mindful of its effect on us.

[@dogmom371]

If Cindy Guentert-Baldo loves you, I will too!!! 😊☺️

[@MekaAllen]

😄🙌🏽

[@CoolCraftyCreations]

I think this is why A Renee of Journal Jot Jive is awesome because she’s always encouraging everyone to ‘Shop Your Stash’. I always usually ask myself when I may start going over my ‘crafting limit’ ‘How will you justify this purchase ‘? I have started revamping my ‘No Spend’ towards ending my purchases all together. Yes, I love the customization of the HP line, I can truly make my own. Great topic of discussion!

[@HaleyHinman]

I think your visceral reaction to the term "influencer" is because the outcome is "influenced." These companies are using your charisma, your creativity and your platform to market their product. You're sweet, authentic and well-spoken... therefore people want to be like you, they like what you like and they buy what you have. We've all been manipulated in this transaction. Thank you for calling this out. For us, it's the planner community, but it's also prevalent in the beauty/fashion/home arena (I know because I've been on all the bandwagons!) Please keep using your voice for good. :)

[@sannydee]

Symptom of a bigger problem. Influencers contribute to it but parts and subsections of the planner community values competition, things and status which feeds the beast. That's the wave rn. Yes it is marketing but if the big players like HP changed and said no...best believe the consumers would change their habits. Def wasn't like that when ya girl had a pen and paper as a kid or a franklin covey planner from my first job after attending the company paid $500 classes way back in the 2000s lol I learned a system which I still value. The fact that you as an influencer cant control whats already in a person to buy, rebuy, hoard and consume and repeat is a heavy burden for you. People do it with food, makeup, even our coupons are EXTREME! I feel like this too shall pass or burn out. And when it does...ill still have the foundation of what I like and works for me and still be happy. Question is, what do you get out of being a PR or influencer that aligns with your internal compass? What are you going to do about the misalignment??

[@MekaAllen]

That's exactly the question that I'm asking myself. I'm picking it apart-- this video is just a snippet of the figuring-out that I'm doing. Part of the answer/justification lies with my reframing what that word means for me. It doesn't have to have a negative connotation in my mind, and it won't once I work out my plan going forward. I have no qualms about doing this with my own level of social responsibility. Now, whether or not other people have issues with influencers, that opinion is all theirs and not my business.

[@loweryjennipher]

Meka, this is my first time ever running across one of your videos. The title intrigued me so I had to watch. I feel like your message is “right on time” for me and many others especially since it’s during a happy planner release that has gotten out of control. I love my planners and stickers and all the goodies and I’ll be the first to admit it’s more about decoration to me than functional with the exception of my work planner. I’ve looked for different reasons to use planners just to justify buying them and I know I’m not the only one. Some of the reasons, I’ve actually put into action and it has been for good things like my faith planner. It’s gotten me back into the word of God and listening to sermons on podcast; it’s been a good thing. But some of the other reasons, were just silly. After seeing how crazy people were acting over not being able to find product during this last release, it has really opened my eyes. I’ll admit I too was disappointed that I couldn’t get some of the sticker books that were released. But right around the same time someone else posted a video about how crazy some of us are making ourselves look getting upset over not getting the items. I wish I could find the link or at least give her credit by name because that was the video that truly opened my eyes. She basically says it’s just paper and some stickers. Right then and there it hit me...I’m getting upset over some paper and stickers while I have so many more important things to get upset over like the fact that my brother’s cancer treatments are not working and they have made the decision to stop them. I was so disappointed in myself. If there is anything I should be doing in a planner it is blocking out time to spend with him! I’m thankful for you and the other lady who are coming out and speaking the truth about this obsession. God Bless

[@tinamcmahan5107]

I fell down the rabbit hole of the planning pretty..I even ashamed to say even bought things on a cc! Just bc I saw so much I want want..now I'm slowing way down. I'm using what I have and finally realized my planner is my planner is for me not to be like " everything popular" if I'm not happy!

[@MekaAllen]

Exactly-- doing what makes you truly happy, not just at the surface.

[@mandymarks6338]

Thank you so much for your honesty! I wish we could do this as a conversation. I started as a scrapbooker and bought and have hoarded all of the supplies but wasn't scrapbooking. Then the planner invasion happened and I jumped in head first LOL I have SO Many planners (58- I decided to get up and count them) Of course as soon as I starting buying planners I had to buy ALL the things to go with it. The problem is I don't plan and I don't use the stuff. If I'm lucky I get the planner set up with all the cuteness and then don't write in it or look at it. When I stop and think about how much time has been wasted running to as many Michael's, Joann's, Hobby Lobby, Target, TJMaxx, Marshalls etc that could have been spent scrapbooking and crafting. Not to mention all the money spent. I'm trying to be better about not running around, not buying just because and actually taking the time to craft. I'm also trying to truly find a planning system that works for me creatively but functional- I need it because I have ADD and my memory is worse than ever. But its easy to get sucked in and I don't know why? The new planner seems to be the Hobonichi, I know its been around for a time but I've recently seen people I follow switch to it from ring planners or TNs (let's not even talk about how many TNs I have as well that I don't use). I have to force myself to have willpower to NOT buy a hobonichi when I have just spent a ton on new, smaller size ring planners so that I will actually USE it! I think this is a great conversation that could really use more time to be discussed. Thanks so much Mandy

[@MekaAllen]

I'm definitely open to keeping the conversation going. I just don't want to be redundant. I lied to myself with all of the different planners. Well, I don't know. I gave them an honest try; I just couldn't follow through with using them. But then I ask myself, "How many new planners do you need to set up before you accept/admit/realize that you don't plan this way?"

[@SimplyAllycia]

Whewww chile! Yesssss! I usually say on my posts or videos that people don’t have to buy what I have to journal or plan. Then they post something and say I influenced them to buy it and I feel bad! Lol My aim is never to make anyone buy things they don’t need but to just share things I love and use. I got caught up in the hype for a minute but I know how to reign it back in. It really hurts me to see so many people buying things because other people have them and they don’t want to miss out. I have done it and afterwards I was like “Really Allycia? Why?” Lol And it’s not just in the planner/journal community. It’s a worldwide epidemic! 😩🤣 But seriously, great video! I agree 100 percent! I’m sure it will step on some toes though.

[@MekaAllen]

Oh definitely. I tried to approach this video mostly from how this has affected *me, as opposed to "people should do xyz." But I there will always be differing opinions and perspectives. Heck, I myself have multiple thoughts-- hence the title "planbivalence"- planner ambivalence.

[@shirleyburns2623]

That is what life, planners, journals and goals is about. It’s about living as your most authentic self

[@JOURNALJOTANDJIVE]

Great video! I love the journal touch to the video! 💕

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you!

[@kendrak129]

Hi! I’m new to the “planner community “ but started watching YT beauty videos several years ago. The “beauty community “ has gone through the same issues with outrageous consumerism and out of control collections etc. Watching it all unfold made me look at my own actions and attitudes and make changes. I looking for creators that stay true to themselves and their values...it always shows. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and where you are in your process as a creator. Would you consider sharing your journaling process and mind mapping?

[@MekaAllen]

Yes, I'll be sharing some of my journaling. It's not usually a systematic process, though. Watching other journalers makes me realize how unique our own thought processes are, so I think it's worth sharing mine.

[@angelpaschall4378]

kendrak129 the beauty community has become to product driven less just the love of makeup. I find I look at older videos because of it.

[@Diva6751]

Yes all of this! Huge eye opener. I think about this all the time. Wake up call. Do we really need all the things?

[@poshpieces3349]

Good stuff fabulous woman! When it's no longer fun and starts controlling my life, I had to walk away. Much better place now, and creativity is fun again 🙌🏼. Hugs and blessings beautiful lady 💗🙏🏼

[@MekaAllen]

I love seeing how you've come back so much happier and more intentional.

[@aleamilr]

When you said you’d possibly be doing more journaling type things I hit subscribe. I’ve always been a journaler and since there’s overlap with the journaling and planning worlds I kinda got swept up in the planner community thing and I’m just now detoxing from all that and returning to my roots and what feels natural to me. I love your energy and honesty here. I’m glad I found your channel 💕

[@SimplyAllycia]

Alek THIS! Yes! Same here!

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you! I'm not sure how most planner people will respond to the journaling, but I'm gonna give it a go!

[@Julescan805]

Just cause I wrote bathroom in my planner doesn’t mean I cleaned lately I’m just been moving it to the next day lol Have always loved stationary and really I think that’s why it all started and we continue to buy and try to use all the things. Also I think that everyone wants that beautiful spread or photo but forget that just because they love it that it might not be their style and that all our plans are different. Great video

[@MekaAllen]

Right?! I can't even count how many times I transfer to-do's to the next day.

[@evabergsto777]

Oh Meka! I have been watching your videos and your amazing creativity for some time now. I just watched this video all the way to the end making sure I didn't miss out on any of the points. Wow! First of all, you look beautiful! Sitting infront of a camera with little/no make up and pouring out your heart was powerful. We can feel this is real. I can tell that this video was important for you to make, and I am glad you did it. This is a wake up call for alot of us, myself included. Lately I have been browsing Instagram accounts and videos, and I have seen one perfect picture after the other, and I have felt like something was missing. Without knowing it, I have felt the need for realness, truth and authenticity. You are so brave for speaking your truth, woman! Thank you so much for this gem of a video. This doesnt just translate to the planner community, but life in general. Being content with what we have, enjoying small things, crave and strive for authenticity and truth, be gentle with ourselves and take time to enjoy flaws and mistakes. Nothing is perfect, that is the real beauty. Value ourselves and what we are, not just the products.

[@VickaleePlans]

Meka...as a newbie to the planner community I have loved your videos, tips, examples etc You are so refreshing & I absolutely love this video. Thank you for sharing this with all of us.

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you so much! I appreciate hearing that. I hope I can still share a few tips here and there.

[@kimberlyhoward7896]

You have to be honest with yourself 😁! I have to be honest with myself 😆. I’m a procrastinator and yes, I have rebelled against my own plans😕! So productivity and me are not friends😉! Thank you for sharing you, take care and have fun 💗🤗!

[@MekaAllen]

Planner rebel club! 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@elenap3096]

A very insightful vlog, sharing wisdom! I went through this years ago with my first blog. I was doing DYI interior revamping of furniture and decorating for our newly purchased townhome and linking/reviewing the items and where I found them. Suddenly every new interior decoration website was hitting me up trying to get me to try their things and post a review. I was doing it for fun, relaxation and personal creativity, not to create a business and surely not to boost the sales of vendors or web home furnishing warehouses. I don't have space for weekly shipments of more STUFF...which is actually junk. So it became stressful and I deleted my blog. It was a wonderful blog too. I now view other blogs that were becoming popular back then and see how they have to keep up with sponsors and I hate the fact that I can no longer enjoy their blogs because of too many pop up advertisements over photos and ads covering up the pages. Hyper-Consumerism is like a cancer growth on something that is supposed to be pleasurable and it spreads like fire.

[@superplannergirl]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I have been in and out of the "community" since it began with EC Fan Club back in 2013 (?)... I finally got so fed up with the buy, buy, buy and honestly some of the bullying behavior I have seen amongst certain people. I struggle with anxiety and depression and the constant push to have the newest thing literally just messed with me. I finally chose to remove myself from instagram and facebook because I honestly couldn't stop looking at products, pics, drama, etc... and I needed to put limits and boundaries on myself. Honestly, even though it was a hard choice, it was a good one for me, personally. I really appreciate your honesty about these issues. I'm not totally "healed" of the buy, buy, buy, but I am so much better and it feels really good. Again, thank you. You're awesome. : )

[@lorirebuildingdaily]

I can relate to all of it. I gave been an enabler and have been enabled😁. I am learning to not take it all so seriously and enjoy! Thanks for sharing your opinions.

[@MekaAllen]

It's funny that you say that. I keep telling myself, "Relax, It's not that deep." But I'm fairly neurotic so I can't help it. 😫

[@elistia]

You sound very healthy and thoughtful. Rage against the brainwashing. Live in your truth. Enjoy what you do. 🙏🏿

[@creativewithjia]

Influencer is something I thought before that I wanted to be, but actual you are so right. I'm so overwhelmed with this community and I so not anymore want to be a influencer 😊 It's all about buying stuff and in the end you have all this pretty stuff and you don't even know what to use it for or that you don't even need or maybe have space for. It's more hoarding than enjoyable 🙄 Yesterday I posted on my IG and was so frustrated on myself, cause I can't make up my mind for what planner system to go with this year. It's April and I'm still not settle and keep changing my mind cause I see new things all over social media. It's my own fault, not the people who post about their set ups and share their planners...it's me who like so many different things 🙊 I've put down my foot and I'm so over it and done. I've decided for which TN and size now and I will love it and don't buy any more planners this year! Awesome that you share this cause there are many who share your feelings.

[@Mindyhartwick]

I totally got sucked into to the buy everything mentality. I have so much planner stuff that just sits in my craft room not being used. I got so overwhelmed that I stopped using a planner altogether. I am recently feeling like I need to go back to planning. There are a few things I need to keep track of better, so I started going through my stuff and I was so overwhelmed again. I started going through KZbin videos to see what I think will work for me and I came across this video. Guess I will go back into my craft room and find something that's going to work for me. I absolutely don't need to buy anything planner related!

[@LauraNSasha]

Found you from @TheUncuratedLifePodcast really enjoyed your video. Your thoughts really resonated with me.

[@kajmylove4434]

Had to comment a second time... girl you preaching on this you tube. quality is so much better than quantity. i am the same in that i can have a big happy planner spread that's beautiful but really only have that two to three things that i actually have as a to-do. its therapeutic for me. A glass of wine, candle, and making a spread brings me joy... all that to say that if i do have a really busy week either way i'm still good.Just the process of being creative and getting my thoughts out of my head on paper. Thank you again. I feel like i just had a personal therapy session that i needed. New subscriber:)

[@kimberlymoline107]

Thank you for sharing these thoughts! I have also felt this way. I have changed the way I plan and purchase for planning to be more basic and functional. I am not buying more stickers until I have used all of the stickers of that type that I have. No more buying the hot new planner item. This has been my new way of planning for about 3 months now.

[@MekaAllen]

I'm glad you're sticking to it! It took me years to finally get there.

[@ayishabrinkley9396]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It is definitely needed and received by myself. I am learning a lot about how I really plan and the difference between just wanting my page to look pretty and what I truly want to get done. One of the biggest things I have learned is to look at my life realistically and stop trying to overwhelm my planner with busy stuff. There are times I know that I am not going to get things done because of work or other real-life happenings. Again thank you so much for sharing.

[@MekaAllen]

I think we planner folks do that a lot-- we just aren't realistic sometimes. Then add the stress of having a layout that "looks" productive or cute-- that takes it to a whole other level.

[@lilliangriffith-lewis1942]

Meka- thank you for your truth. It’s very well needed. I found myself agreeing with a lot of what you were saying. Keep it up and know that we don’t have to be or do all the things “popular”. Doing what we love for us is important and what is popular for us and that is what matters. 💜💜💜

[@colettebenson9658]

This video is so timely and hit me on so many levels! Thanks for sharing your truth.

[@poisonlady1965]

You speak so many truths here. You're not saying anything most of us have not probably thought of more than once. I appreciate you bringing it out into open discussion. I do lots of crafty things and just do my thing although I have been consumerized by our economic style of consumerism and it's the truth. We do what we see way too often, Just do your thing...no matter your style or if you want a specific style, do what you wish to do. I like a little decor in my planner and I often just write down the stuff as I go and only use all the rest for fluff so there's not much white space at the end. Lots of thinks do and don't get accomplished but that's just me lol. Mostly, I do like the creative process therefore I don't have but a few followers here for sure. I have a tendency to just observe the intent of what I watch. I have minimalized Facebook and I do enjoy getting inspiration from Instagram because I am inspired by what others do sometimes based on product but often because I just like how they do it. Great video. Glad I got to see it for sure.

[@seemownay]

I don't even know what to say just that I can relate on so many levels. I'm trying to take a step back as well - I started by not using facebook on my phone, by not sharing in groups any longer, I also decided to see what would happen if I stopped spending altogether and then to diversify my creative energy onto more than one thing. It's been such an interesting experience ... and the most important thing I still need to figure out is how to proceed ...

[@MekaAllen]

The best thing for me to do is to eliminate. Take away as much as possible and then see what feels right to bring back in.

[@emiliplans3817]

This is spot on! I just threw away my whole planner system (not literally) because March was an incredibly unproductive month and I didn’t get anything accomplished! My planner was all decoration and no actual planning. So - I put it on the shelf and have been using an EC Petite Planner for 2 days and I feel so much better about just making a list and getting the stuff on it done! But - hyperconsumerism hit me hard and I thank you for dropping that hard truth bomb! I’ve spent way too much money on getting the new stuff and then not using it and I feel terrible about it because it’s just sitting there not being used! Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@MekaAllen]

That's the worst guilt when you decorate with the intention of using it for productivity as well, but then not end up doing the to-do's. That's when I realized I was lying to myself.

[@oeendrila]

So I’m watching your video as someone toying with the idea. Until five months ago, I didn’t even understand the idea of planning because of all the stuff they used and how much time and effort it takes - like what will you put in the planner if all your time goes into decorating s planner!? But now I see you can be a minimalist and do your own thing. Hope you have a life and job to plan around!

[@HannahsHaven]

You share a lot of important issues in this video Meka, thank you for that. I've started to think a lot about these topics as well, thanks for speaking up about it and putting words on my thoughts.

[@bookdiva401]

Well said. I have been feeling the same way and it makes me not want to plan. I use to hunt 4-5x a week for new release items only to not find them and was left feeling sad and depressed. I already have so much I dont NEED anything else. So now I am focusing on using what I have and shopping my stash. Hopefully this will respark my love of planning again. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 💙

[@MekaAllen]

I know that feeling, and the comments here are testament that we aren't alone. I'm glad you're finding your way to a healthy way to go about this.

[@Eveningbreeze721]

I wanted to have a planner to combine fitness, personal, work and haircare. I learned about Happy Planner while researching. I had never heard of the company before 2 weeks ago. I'm already overwhelmed and kinda appalled about how over the top some people are about it.

[@kich6172]

Bravo, Meka! I'm so glad I found your channel. Right now I have your videos on a continual loop while I am cooking and this video popped up. So glad it did. Sadly hyperconsumerism defines our society in general, from our appearance, how we eat, how we socialize and where we live. I worry about what we are teaching our children. Is there not a holiday or gathering held anymore that we are not expected to buy gifts? Unfortunately, I've been down this road with my planning also. Fortunately, I recently realized before too much damage to my pocket book and my closets occurred. LOL I'm not going to let it stop me from devoloping as a creative planner. I started journaling in elementary school in a diary. Planner use began when I started working. Then I was introduced to scrapbooking. As I became busier with life and work I started combining my scrapbooking with my planning and journaling and found that it was actually a "thing" called memory planning. I was so excited. A few months ago I've discovered junk journaling. That and noticing an increase in destash videos made me recognize I was buying more than I can use and spending more time doing that than actually creating. Now I'm trying to figure out how to incorporate junk journaling in my memory planning and journaling. I enjoy your creative videos. I like to watch your process. It's not practiced; it's organic and the way everyone works but is too afraid to show it. I think your channel is the next evolution in where this community is headed.

[@fiyah34]

I totally agree. I have to admit, I have a problem and I am just buying stuff I really don't need. Thank you for sharing.

[@MekaAllen]

It happens to the strongest of us, sadly. Best of luck on getting more focused on just the stuff you need or truly want and will use.💕

[@jaicbacote3494]

When I watch reviews, I take them as me seeing a product and giving me time to think about if it fits my planner style. Now in the beginning, I had no clue what my planner style was so, I was buying everything 😂 I periodically go through my stuff to see what I really enjoyed and used a lot of. I now purchase things similar to what I use a lot of. This is a good video! A great reminder for every consumer!!! 👍🏾💜

[@amy51373]

Loved this! Thanks for the reminders of many of these things. I'm not a busy person and I feel like I'm always trying to fill up my pages. I had to stop buying dated planners for this reason. Now I tend to more journal than anything but this really resonated.

[@shanellesotilleo]

Hi, Thank you for your authenticity and your transparency in this video. As a new member of the planner community this was a great video to put things into perspective for me. I’m sure it wasn’t easy uploading this video but I thank you. As I sat listening to you I thought about my KZbin channel, The Rosie Planner, and I thought about what type of content do I want to put out as well as what type of planner girl do I want to be. I am both a creative and functional planner and I think that that is ok. I think I have the best of both worlds. You truly are an influencer in all of the best and good ways. I appreciate you and the content you put out. Thank you for the video! I look forward to your upcoming posts.

[@kelsfinance1954]

Thank you for this video. I just join the Planner/budget community. It is a lot of stuff to buy. Trying to stay grounded and focus on budgeting and getting out of debt.

[@jenns37]

Thank you for this video! I keep feeling guilty that I constantly buy these paper planners and fail to actual plan in them. I love the paper planners because all the photos online are so pretty, but the only planning system that has actually worked for me is google calendar. I waste so much money on these cute planner supplies that just get wasted and gather on a shelf. I need to just stick with what works and only ook at pics online when I need to get a “fix”.

[@MekaAllen]

I think a lot of people either prefer digital, or they supplement with digital. Yep, stick with what you know works!

[@HistoryHighwithLisaMarrie]

This is the first video I've ever seen of yours and I love you! me and my daughters fit into the category of loving office supplies and that's why we have planners, even though we do use them functionally the main reason we have them is because of the office supplies, LOL.

[@beverley7189]

Thank you for this! I’ve been feeling this way for a while now. Have spent so much money on planner stuff that I didn’t need and wasted money just to have it because everyone else was getting it. Wasted way too much money and took over my life. Gotta get back to what really matters. Thanks so much for sharing. Eye opener! Thanks 💕

[@macfrenzyfrost]

Your video really resonated with me. I had recently decided that I was going to remove myself from chasing the new releases. I have more stickers now than I have ever had in my entire life and I have 3 kids. I am back in my rings that served me well for 20+ years. I totally destashed. Thanks for the video.

[@donnaadams6517]

I needed to see this video. I have wasted a ton of money buying planners and accessories to the point where I don’t even use them. I’ll go out and buy more and promise myself I’m gonna start now. Then I don’t because I have to much. I’ve taken things back time and time again only to turn around and buy it again. I am too old to be trippin’ like this over office supplies. I gotta stop watching a bunch of different planner videos stick to one or 2. Just to get ideas pretty planner spreads.

[@liliax9147]

oh, boy, the consumerism. I haven’t gotten to a point that bad, luckily I’ve noticed my trend early. Specifically the things I feel the urge to buy are cute decorative stickers, paper pads, and embellishments. I use them eventually, but not fast enough to warrant the amount I do have (which sadly still doesn’t even come near to the excessive levels I see on social media) Same with Tombows. I bought 2 different color packs of them and a few singles. Don’t get me wrong, I use them often enough and I even like them. But I still kind of regret buying them because there’s no point in specifically buying these instead of using some other water based medium. I just bought gelato, too argh. But I don’t think I will regret them the same way, we’ll see! Creating for yourself first is also something I’m really feeling lately. I love spending most of my time productively, but I agree. You can spend a few quality hours a day and still be plenty productive. There’s something very romantic about the idea of just enjoying life outside of “productivity”. I think there’s definitely a point when planning -and this line gets crossed a lot especially in the bujo community - where it’s no longer a planner/bujo, but an art journal or something. And that’s FINE, I don’t know why people can’t admit that and enjoy the communities that are already around for that. I think I’m going to try keeping my planning system and my creativity more separate. I might still pretty up some pages or add a couple stickers, but if I want to make something pretty I’ll create something special for that all on its own. I’ve been getting really tired of the planning and bujo communities in general, even outside these issues. I’m still not totally clear why

[@Scrapstorian]

Thank you for this. I just rambled all over your Instagram and still have more thoughts ... 🤣 Part of what I’m admitting lately is that I bought a lot of things that weren’t really my style because I wanted to be seen in the planner community; I wanted my spreads and phots to get noticed. Realizing that my authenticity went out the window does not feel good. I’m working my way back to creating for the sake of it and buying things that make me happy - things that I want, not things I feel like I have to have to stay “relevant”. I totally hear you on the validation. I need to find validation in the effort I put in, not in how anyone else views the results. ~ Cheryl

[@MekaAllen]

It takes a lot of courage to admit something like that to yourself and to others. I'm glad that your self reflection lead you to realize that so you could begin to make changes for yourself.

[@Plannergurlzrock]

I can’t begin to tell you how NEEDED this was! Thank you!

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you! I'm glad it is resonating with people.

[@Felicia_Plans]

Great video!! I’m a newbie and I appreciate your insight on this community. Leisure planning lol... I love it!- I write in my tv shows, bath bombs days, memory keeping items. My planner...my business. It works for me! 😀

[@yesimaunicorn247]

Wow! Your honesty is refreshing! Thank you for sharing! I’m just starting out with my channel and this is so helpful to me and will probably get more helpful as I go along. This is one of those videos that I will come back and watch periodically as a reminder. It’s like a motivational video. Thank you so much.

[@24deborahendsley23]

New Subbie... I Just Admire your thought process! Very interesting topics here. I was searching TN ideas and your channel came up on my feed. I'm very old school, started writing in my "Dear Dairy" back in the 60's It has always been a safe place for me to express myself on paper. There are no rules. Paper, Pencil, Crayons... This is all I had and what ever was created with these was an expression of letting go and being my most inner self. Absolutely no one has the right to tell you the right way or wrong way to construct, and create because there is none... Period!!!

[@sweetandmagical]

Far out this is SO true & something that I really needed to hear right now ...even though this vid is a year old , thank you hunny words of wisdom ! 💜

[@robatint]

I love you so much!!! You are being very transparent and honest and I love it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being open and vulnerable ❤️❤️❤️

[@delle3955]

I appreciate this video and you so much! I love stationary and enjoy planning, but I don’t want to waste anymore time or money trying to keep up with trends and buying all the stuff. Please keep sharing these gems❤️

[@MekaAllen]

That's just it. We can never keep up. Best to just keep things under control and not always feel the need for the next cute thing.

[@NanelleNo5]

This video really resonates with me - been feeling the same as you on a lot of items you brought up. Thank you for your candor and honesty! Keep creating, but for you - I love watching your process videos and would love to see you create more of what you want to create!

[@LauraRahel]

Love this so much Meka! I've been downsizing so much lately (and filming the process) because I've felt so overwhelmed by supplies in my craft room that it was a burden. Its almost like too many objects clouds my sight and intention which should be on my personal values. 💛💛

[@sannydee]

Annnnnnnd we are here. Thank you for sharing and im glad you are here. No you are not alone. #plannerfriends

[@Gracie-qg5lm]

Thank you this is a great video!!! I totally agree. I have to step back from the planner community when I can tell I’m feeling influenced to much.

[@poocilla]

Thank you for this video. Seeing the conduct of some of the people looking for stickers lately have left me thinking some of the same things.

[@MekaAllen]

Yeah it's crazy! But I remember my own city-wide hunt for mini Happy Planners when they first came out. It was like a serious need-some-therapy compulsion.

[@kajmylove4434]

This is so good!!! We have to find balance in all things. Thanks for sharing. Guess what, you have influenced me to run and open up the journals and planners i already have and be creative. :)

[@outspoken_never_shame_1545]

Thank you for the information you shared by validating the purpose of having all the pretty stickers and paper it really hit home with what your speaking on so again thank for putting everything in order to make me understanding this and I'm going to get my life back in order you and my husband has definitely given me confirmation on this whole situation that some may not be able to relate with but I have. So thank you again i must have definitely needed to hear someone else say this and its true facts.

[@HoneyDipp328]

You have shared some awesome information.... truth!! I couldn’t agree more. This Needs to be shouted from the rooftops!!

[@MekaAllen]

Thank you!

[@kellikentros3462]

I understand completely! 😊

[@lynnva7146]

so much truth here. thank you!! as much as i loved Plannercon, and thankful for the goodies, but I really truly did not need ALL that swag and the free Happy Planner notebook. as a newbie, i was like WHAT is all this?? i just wanna plan and look at stickers and planner stuff IRL, that i only ever see online. lol! i gave most of it to my bestie's daughter, it brought her so much joy 😍

[@MekaAllen]

Yay, you found it a happy home! It can be hard to let go of all that goodness.