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Why has nudity become so common? From selling products, to earning money, to just plain old getting attention, we are overrun with scantily clad women. Moreover, nudity has become the ultimate feminist statement, but is nudity actually empowering?
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[@BaggageClaim]

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[@chasehedges6775]

Love your content

[@cbhlde]

Hm, OF is messing with ones own body. Shilling questionable nutritional supplements is messing with other peoples bodies, isn't it? :) Great work as usual anyways! :)

[@devilsmessanger]

@@cbhlde it has vitamince C, B2 , B3 , B12 , potassium and caffeine and bunch of herbs, if you check the link , third picture is full content. looks pretty decent.

[@kh9242]

Your videos are the only ones on KZbin that truly captivate me, often leaving me with my hand on my chin, deeply engaged in thought. If more people articulated their ideas with the same clarity and logical precision as you do, we would be living in an entirely different world.

[@smallies7154]

shilling products u never use is selling yourself too. double standard

[@camotophat]

Women are free to do what they want. They aren't free from the consequences.

[@ehanneken]

I guess, but that begs the question: What should the consequences be?

[@Powerhaus88]

@@ehanneken Social shaming and ostracization.

[@ehanneken]

@@Powerhaus88 And why is that? What will happen if nude people are not shamed and ostracized?

[@sayLeotardbutsayitChinese]

@@ehanneken Being considered disgusting. As for what will happen, and already has happened -- losing prospective partners, and respect from friends and family members, when they find your OF. Should be a pretty easy conclusion to come to

[@facelessandnameless]

@@ehannekenif not, then society will continue to decay as it is right now.

[@Lisa-co9ng]

If being half naked is your way of being empowered you don't know what it means to be empowered

[@harrymills2770]

True.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

If that’s all it takes to be empowered, then what is even the point if everyone is empowered?

[@chasehedges6775]

@@chazzitz-wh4ly “If Everyone’s super, no one will be.” - Syndrome

[@svetlanaandrasova6086]

Those people clearly have nothing else but their bodies.

[@DavidMartinez-ce3lp]

​@@chasehedges6775he was right

[@DavidMartinez-ce3lp]

Weird how it's considered empowering, but then they will also call men sexist for "sexualizing" women

[@Agimus_AGO56]

The very fact that there are people trying to shame women into modesty is what makes it empowering. If you didn't have resentment for these women, then it wouldn't be considered bravery. Expectations are preemtive resentments. When you expect people to be a certain way, you will resent them when they choose not to. These women just don't want to be ruled by you or your opinion.

[@encahill]

Only if it's the men they don't want attention from.

[@sweetac3217]

@@Agimus_AGO56 society runs off of people following expectations. If you wish to remove expectations, then you will fall into barbarism.

[@newtonsurmiser2319]

You sound quite resentful yourself.

[@DavidMartinez-ce3lp]

@Agimus_AGO56 oh please, these women don't give a damn about me or my opinion. They're selfish and narcissistic. Society tells them they are brave and empowered. They believe it completely, whiles also claiming to be victims when it suits them.

[@thunderbug8640]

At what point do we stop putting the blame on “society” and start putting the responsibility on the individual. If someone doesn’t have the willpower and/or self-respect to say no to people telling them to get on OF I don’t really have any sympathy for them. The whole idea of “oh my poor choices aren’t my fault its societies fault” is why we have the society that we do.

[@RoseBaggins]

This, for just about everything. The system isn't racist, misogynist, etc, you just encountered a person who made that decision to be that.

[@CarTa3]

Thank you! 👏

[@williamthompson5504]

Bring back shame. It works!

[@Mereologist]

While I wholly agree with you that when people get what they deserve is it JUSTICE, I can also say that I would prefer it if people didn't deserve so many terrible things. It would be a better world if people made good choices all the time. I know that it's never going to happen that all people always make good choices, but by extension if even ONE person makes ONE better choice, we are going in the right direction.

[@alphamineron]

In a world where Hookup culture exists, where even so called “relationships” are merely a bond of physical attraction standing on the fear of loneliness. In a society where Physical intimacy isn’t valued or virtuous… where love is nothing but a social contract dressed up in smokes and mirrors. You’re just buying with your time and effort instead of dollars. This is society’s fault… bad culture and politics

[@MLJ7956]

Remember that 80s pop song by Jermaine Stewart 'We Don't Have To Take Our Clothes Off'....He might have been onto something there....

[@sarahc.7400]

Great song 🎶 ❤

[@josteinhenrique2779]

What I find the weirdest part about this stuff is that the people who throws nudity around at the most become the fiercest defenders of modesty when the nudity is used on a fictional female character!

[@AA-ed6ek]

I was just thinking about that. Something is seriously wrong with these people.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

It really is a mixed message, must be one sent from a woman.

[@svetlanaandrasova6086]

Right??? Female character just shows clivage and they shout she is sexualized. Then in real life if actress shows up half naked they defend her she can put on what she wants.

[@Advokit]

I can answer that for you. "Safe Horny" is the censorship of content that heterosexual men find attractive, arousing, i.e. depictions of conventionally beautiful/attractive women. Unsurprisingly, the types of people who rage against anything that straight guys find hot think content that THEY find arousing, which is more often than not some of the most perverted kinks and fetishes, is perfectly acceptable. Heck, they're proud of it. It's not pro-modesty, it's just anti-straight men.

[@Captain_Insano_nomercy]

Most women would have no standards if they didn't have double standards

[@PrincessFionaYT]

Just finished watching you on George’s stream. Talk about a graceful regal woman, Princess Catherine is an example for anyone who wants to get respect. Respect for who they are and what they do, not what they can do for you. Love you Baggage Claim. I wish you had a name I could call you that didn’t sound horrible like ‘Baggage’. You should give us one even if it’s not real 😂

[@Bastartime]

The money may be empowering but the money is temporary but the shame is forever Edit: the reply section is a warzone

[@chasehedges6775]

THIS💯💯💯

[@chasehedges6775]

I like making at my job but it’s not always just about the money.

[@AA-ed6ek]

I don't think these people are capable of feeling shame.

[@chasehedges6775]

@@AA-ed6ek True.

[@deusexmachina9776]

@@AA-ed6ek they do actually but money speaks more, wait until they have kids. then it is game over, those kids will get bullied

[@pratibhagopalakrishna3436]

Thank you so much for this video because it was relatable and this is something that's been on my mind for a while but I was afraid I was being too judgmental!!! I've been noticing the rising amount of nudity everywhere and a part of me always questioned why it was so necessary or showing too much skin was meant to be empowering... This video was a comforting hug answering all those questions and telling me it's okay to question things and that doesn't mean I'm being rude or judgmental

[@Baltazar-d5j]

Very wise words. I don't normally comment on videos but I wanted to thank you for this video. I hope you become very successful and continue to inspire others

[@lailadawn8122]

I would swear you read my mind every once in a while. I have spoken about this before to friends and acquaintances and hate how I get painted as a prude. But I'm like, how can you not see the irony in our history that started off with "women are not chattle" to "women you can sell yourself...like chattle".

[@UnderratedBurnyBadger]

What's incredibly interesting is looking at the difference between the way progressive see real life women who shamelessly show off and sell their bodies vs. how they see depictions of equally sexualized fictional women. They will talk all day long about how 'empowering' it is for real life women to be sex workers or otherwise expose their bodies. But the moment an attractive woman in anime or a video game is designed to show even an INCH of skin, these same people lose their minds and start claiming such things are 'harmful' to women. So real women going into sex work or revealing their naked bodies without reserve = not harmful. But fictional women being drawn with some cleavage and jiggle physics = harmful. Makes perfect sense. XD

[@jessicah7556]

Awesome video! Looking at Grace Kelly and Marilyn Monroe was a brilliant way to illustrate the point. As women we shouldn’t sell ourselves out, there’s no amount of money worth our self respect.

[@endo4682]

Now I know why this channel is named the way it is, because having your nudes forever online is a kind of psychological baggage that ruins lives.

[@laur131306]

Here's the thing about dressing provocatively and being shocked about advances and staring: if I put on all my most expensive jewelry and clothes and go into a bad neighborhood waving $1,000 in cash over my head, I'm probably going to get robbed. I should be able to walk around with as much expensive things as I want and wave money without getting robbed...but the world doesn't work like that. And if I do get robbed, the robber is wrong and should go to jail! But to pretend like I didn't make a series of choices that made the likelihood of me getting robbed exponentially higher is just blatantly disingenuous and ridiculous. Walking around half-naked is the EXACT same principle.

[@TheAcad3mic]

Excellent video, some really great and thought provoking points, particularly Marilyn Monroe Vs Grace Kelly. A key difference there, and why girls appear to look up to Monroe more than Kelly, is because Kelly exuded class, whereas Monroe appears to simply sell sex, and selling sex is, on the face of it, an extremely easy thing for a woman to do. Especially in a world that lies to their face about the cost.

[@sikliztailbunch]

ow! That's the best articulation of this issue I have ever come across. You exactly pinpoint it!

[@waikeekee3831]

Loved this video!!

[@chasehedges6775]

Same

[@louiseevaonthepath]

You forgot to mention whether or not Marilyn OWNED the rights to those photos of her. If she didn't OWN the rights, then they were not her legal property. Marilyn made her choices. She was not a victim. Good video.

[@camerazeye7923]

very good commentary. What is forgotten is the fact men are visual by nature. If we see something attractive we will look. Modesty in social media, for the most part, has been lost. A woman and not being judgmental, will go out with a plunging neckline then get pissed when a man looks at her chest. The days of traditional dating seem to be dead. The courting of a woman to gain her favor in the hopes of leading to a relationship has now been turned into transitional sexual encounters. Until modesty, character and belief is brought back we will only degrade further and further.

[@coryy9745]

I feel like society has erroneously designated anything that was as archaic and out of touch and so have blindly moved in the opposite direction. There is wisdom on tradition. Tradition just doesn't appear without a reason. They evolve over time and for a specific purpose.

[@shazamarkham]

Amen, preach 💯

[@gregtube63]

I could not agree more when you said there are violent men that will always prey on women. It is a horrible fact that makes me incandescent on behalf of the women I love, but even that will not stop monsters being monsters

[@jameswhitaker9169]

Good analysis! Can you incorporate the stigma and denial of how impactful, the phrase, "what is your bodycount" is to men? (or have you already done that in a previous video?

[@ne0nZchr0me]

Can't be a successful seller without buyers

[@chiakwelunweta4319]

Refreshing to hear a woman call out what is not good. Others i watch say things about hating female objectification but is totally fine with women wanting to dress half naked.

[@AP-Design]

Lots of great insights in the comments. 👍

[@AhtoNajeebRashied]

There are many larger threats than people being vain. An onlyfans "model" isn't deadly like Trap music and other superficial horrors that humans have taken to.

[@Awakeandalive1]

Late to comment because I save your videos to watch with my wife, but the great irony of using clips of Marilyn Monroe in "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes" is that she was actually playing against type there. Her character, Lorelei Lee, is coldly-calculating, sensible & mercenary, using her looks and charm to secure financial advantage and rise in status from the poverty in which she originated; she is perpetually frustrated with her brunette friend, Dorothy Shaw, for being too short-sighted, too impulsive, too "carnal" and too sex-driven, always falling for paupers and losers because she's ruled by her appetites -- in essence, Marilyn was playing the brunette stereotype while Jane Russell played the blonde stereotype.

[@mileslugo6430]

Through the examination of Romance novels I found the Value/Virtue of Chastity is still very prevalent. It is just presented as Endurance to the desire and pressure for sex rather than a divine modesty to remain a virgin till marriage for God or father.

[@japtakito8551]

Someone finally said it , thank you for bringing the forgotten and foreign word of modesty back into the conversation and our culture

[@roamwithrhiannon]

I love to be nude but in nonsexual kinds of ways. Like going swimming in the ocean or just being outside even. The oversexualization of nudity keeps society from being able to find peace with our vessels.

[@looinrims]

Whenever I court a woman I always make it pretty clear I still hold the traditional ideal that women are sacred and should be treated as such, and I find it interesting how taken aback so many women I say that to seem

[@Powerhaus88]

Stop simping, bro, she's not gonna fuck you.

[@looinrims]

@Sydney-J3why does this view confuse women though? I would’ve thought that was what they desired

[@Lily-rz8mg]

Completely agree with your Baggage Claim. It's also appalling to me how much nudity and sexuality children are exposed to. It's hard for parents to totally shield them from it when it is everywhere. There's a lot of stuff I wish I hadn't seen as a child (or even as an adult!)

[@CarTa3]

My heart aches for the social pendulum to swing back to common sense and normalcy. We have all been like this for too long. I have hope we are going to counter-balance these ridiculous people (with every action there is an equal and opposite reaction) but it's taking so long. These people are literally even starting to rewrite science.

[@jdneilso]

Love your videos, so smart and insightful.

[@aurawolf2221]

No nudity isn't empowering because we're all the same at the end of the day (except for male & female bodies of course) but other than that we're all human so what's so fun about seeing a naked man or woman?

[@sirrathersplendid4825]

You don’t know what’s fun about seeing a naked person? especially an attractive naked person. 🤦 It’s hardwired into everyone of us.

[@RuthieMicaela]

@@sirrathersplendid4825 no, I don't want to see naked men unless it's my husband's. Men's bodies, attractive or not, are gross. Every woman has the same bits, some larger or smaller. Men's obsession with it is so bizarre and shows their weakness.

[@sully2737]

The First Lady of Nigeria made her statement not long after Meghan Markle showed up at a Nigerian school in a backless, flesh-tone dress, and made other inappropriate clothing choices during a public visit to the First Lady's conservative country. Maybe if the famous (or more appropriately, infamous) Westerner had shown a bit more respect for Nigerian culture, the First Lady wouldn't have felt the need to make that speech.

[@clayongunzelle9555]

Nudity is boring now, twerking on Instagram isn't getting you as much attention as the girl with an interesting hobby. The girl working on the dairy farm or the girl fixing cars or something like that are getting more attention now.

[@gauloise6442]

Grace Kelly came from an extremely wealthy close-knit family. Marilyn was raised in foster homes. You can't even compare the two. It's easy to demand respect when you were treated that way from the day you were born

[@florkiler6242]

im very excited for your next video (witch I'm assuming will be your thoughts about mans nudity "uprising")

[@Malum09]

Compare Grace Kelly becoming a real life Princess to Monroe dying from a drug overdose in her 30s, its just such an interesting side by side.

[@Valen-mh9fh]

Thanks for the video! 😊 Not to make light of what you're saying, but did anyone else hear the first lady of Nigeria and think "This is a sickness!" 😅

[@DogmaticDave]

The problem is that modesty lies somewhere between a bikini and a burka, but it is impossible to pinpoint the standard which would satisfy everyone

[@CherishEachDay2023]

Thank you for making this important video. Sadly young girls seem to be indoctrinated to be sexualized by seeing how the celebrity world dresses and behaves. This is so damaging as it is not real and the likes of the Kardashians, Jennifer Lopez, and many others in that world continue to perpetuate based on their own narcissism and lack of self respect. Be a Princess Catherine and not a Rachel ladies. ❤

[@byoung8529]

I got absolutely nothing unique or interesting from this video. Obvious rambling. Yes doing porn is probably not a good idea if you're long term thinking... glad it was only 11 minutes I will never get back from my life 😂

[@hansmeiser32]

As a German I'm probably much more comfortable with (non-sexual) nudity than let's say the average American. But dressing like a prostitute and then complaining if one gets treated like a prostitute is just ridiculous.

[@tin8622]

Marilyn only dressed sexy in certain occasions, in her private life she dressed rather modest, as I saw in some candid pics. Even in her movies, the clothes weren't showing too much.Also, Grace Kelly had her family, she wasn't completely alone out there, with no father and a mom in the asylum.And I doubt she was constantly miserable, she said that once, but that's not her permanently state.Given her circumstances she was a fighter, looked on the bright side and achieved much 🤷

[@johnschmidt1262]

Beauty is to women as strength is to men. Just as men compete for attention by being physically fit and strong, women compete for attention by being physically fit and beautiful. In order to live in a society cooperatively you can't spend all your time trying to out-compete others for attention, it's stressful for everyone involved and there's no end, there will always be someone stronger or more beautiful than you. As a result societies tended to create guide rails to keep the competition within a certain parameter so everyone knew what to expect and was playing by the same rules. Women are not in the wrong to feel uncomfortable about another woman clearly trying to get attention by being seen as more beautiful any more than men are wrong to not want to be constantly intimidated by other men around them. An absolute one way or the other solution will never work, you have to allow a certain amount of competition and showing off but try to minimize its impact on society.

[@OseronPhaer]

I can't help but notice there's been a trend towards women's fashion becoming more and more risque recently, as well. The last two years, I've seen a uptick in women, but especially teenagers and even little girls wearing clothes that are very revealing. The tops are smaller, the jeans ride lower, the shorts are shorter. It's all very...troubling. Doubly so because the parents are letting them wear this stuff without any apparent concern.

[@SentryUwU]

I think its weird we dont see this in video games.

[@ianpage2509]

One for the algorithm thanks.

[@fictitiousart6410]

Tattoos and piercings are not nearly as attractive as trendsetters want people to believe. Strange how not having tattoos is a rebellious sentiment now.

[@TheWrongBrother]

The strange part about it is that these women will be the ulitmate losers in the very short run. By 2027 (or thereabouts) AI will be able to generate any 'type' of video including adult content. So while OF and other model based businesses will continue minting, AI will create the models and make them do almost anything with no real life 'impact'. Basically, that line of business might die in a few short years for the body sellers.

[@odyg.7819]

Nudity leads to tribalism

[@otterpossum9128]

Thank you

[@santoormommiofficial]

modesty at this point in feminism is a choice

[@phatpat63]

This kind of female-acceptable talk about this topic inevitably misses the majority of the dynamics that are at play. A lot of it is the wide-spread lies about what men think and feel about women's dress and behavior, competition among women usually gets ignored whenever women are talking about this for whatever reason, and both of those seem to feed into the main thing that is dodged around; accountability. Women particularly seem to need to treat the topic of female accountability like they're playing the floor is lava, even when they're criticizing the behavior of other women. So this video is a rare miss in my book in that it passes over the majority of what's at play and what's going on with this topic.

[@rob776]

It's narcissism and attention seeking.

[@asura8495]

some people would have nothing to say if you dared them to stop saying the words "sexist, racist, -phobic" for a day

[@knehren]

Same goes with some other people and the words "wrong" or "unnatural".

[@garyphisher7375]

It's their programming. Girls have the instinctual need to be morally right - so they just need to prove you are worse, rather than defend what they themselves are doing.

[@DavidMartinez-ce3lp]

​@@knehrenhonestly, no I don't think it's comparable to what OP said where people literally look for things to be offended by. Their entire personality consists of this and they invite their army of like minded people to attack. Like some weird creepy cult. To some this is their entire purpose.

[@florkiler6242]

very thought-provoking critique of the video Thank you for that fuel for thought

[@Kimkong2]

Whether they realize it or not, this really is what they are fighting against deep down. They lean on identity politics and sexuality because besides that, they have nothing else to offer. So instead of realizing they don't deserve much of what they want, they cry victims of race and sexuality so they can put the blame on other people in order to feel justified in demanding they get what they haven't earned.

[@richardmattocks]

Nudity is thrown around so much now, it’s just boring.

[@PuddilyOops]

Every event that has a red carpet half the women are wearing a sheer dress like it’s so daring and edgy. We get it, you have b00bs. It’s not edgy if Everybody does it.

[@chasehedges6775]

💯👍

[@adamjutras7024]

Thanks for your opinion. It is perfectly valid, just don't think that everyone else has to view things the same way.

[@Alpha_Digamma]

I was about to comment just this. It's boring and sometimes even annoying.

[@AuntMeiDumplings]

For real we have been so desensitized. Like yeah we seen it all whatever

[@iamtheexaggerator2760]

Having an issue with the overly promiscuous behaviors makes us...sexist and homophobic?!!... Did I miss a page somewhere?!

[@1gunnerShock]

I read that in JoJo meme format

[@deanog2577]

forgot "racist"

[@adamjutras7024]

Being naked in of itself isn't "overly promiscuous" behavior.

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

Yes. You've missed all the pages of Marxist/Engelian literature that called for things like this to enable them to get their Glorious Communist Utopia. Each one of these things wasn't predictable, it's pretty easy to understand WHY they're happening after the fact.

[@susanam.826]

I was just asked today to change my 2000s slut shamming mentality because I thought it was inappropriate for a single mother to go on a dating reality tv-show wearing flimsy bikinis all day, revealing her boobs and other physical assets to flirting, half-naked f*** boys, to (according to herself) "find a suitable step-father for her child". Apparently, that's a perfectly reasonable decision for a parent to make these days. It's empowering and brave.

[@kpsk8031]

Pennywise is less creepy than a GenZ girl with excessive plastic surgery and no clothes on.

[@florkiler6242]

do not look up old-school *modest* plastic surgery wemen(or man there are a few of these aswell) then you're not ready

[@Dingbat60]

Modest isn't about hiding your body, it's about revealing your dignity.

[@stonedwalljack9276]

There is no dignity in nudity.

[@adamjutras7024]

​​@@stonedwalljack9276 you're just a square that hates what you are. Nothing wrong or inappropriate with the human body. You injecting the word dignity into it is just you being judgemental.

[@knehren]

@@stonedwalljack9276Do you think that nudity in art is undignified, then? Should we cover up statues and paintings that portrait nude subjects? There is dignified, and then there is prudish.

[@stonedwalljack9276]

@@knehren The nudity is simply not needed, you have beautiful statues that are nude, Putting a leaf over the winky doesn't detract from its beauty at all imo.

[@tomcoop9750]

@@knehren art is often appreciating the human anatomy in a non-sexual way. Celebrities revealing their bodies is done in a sexualized way.

[@madbuck2741]

I remember seeing a highly liked comment on Twitter, saying how women in “sex work” should be praised and respected but the men who pay for her should be shamed and are predators. And I’m still trying to wrap my head around how that even works. How can the women make money if we prevent men from giving it? How can we shame the person buying the product but not the person selling it? If selling your body isn’t wrong, why is the person buying a bad person for doing so? 🙃 it’s the usual flip-flop notion of feminism. Where they sell something as a “empowering” but also know deep down that it’s wrong and that it benefits a lot of men, so they try to dodge around it by being super hypocritical lol

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

If Feminists didn't have double-standards, they wouldn't have any standards.

[@RoseBaggins]

I never got that either. Like, what hoops are you going through to come to that conclusion?

[@jimmyjams962]

It's not just on Twitter. I like Penguinz0 aka Charlie, but he also perpetuates this idea that the men who are taken advantage of on sites like OnlyFans are just lame, degenerate losers, and the women who take advantage of their loneliness are geniuses for exploiting them. I tried to point out how every other industry that exploits an "at-risk" demographic is condemned, but the comment section couldn't seem to wrap their head around the concept that lonely, desperate men who will pay exorbitant amounts of money just for the *_semblance_* of a relationship constitutes an "at-risk" community. The same way lonely old widows are exploited by psychics, lonely young men are exploited by OF models.

[@Rationalific]

It's either empowering or not. They need to choose one to avoid being hypocrites. Yet they choose both. The woman is both empowered and a victim.

[@dannyburrito7305]

Reminds me of a woman complaining their pigtail hairstyle got sexualized but in the same breath banking on the high tip money (for waitresses) when they wear pigtails on that day...oh and of course the 'yass queen get cho bag' minions...

[@JezaLoki]

It’s not the nudity, it’s the sexualisation. Enter a sauna in Finland or onsen in Japan and you’ll encounter nudity but without the sexualisation.

[@RuthieMicaela]

This is a great point. I saw far more nudity in Spain than in the USA, but it's the culture's attitude and beliefs about the human body that makes it sexual or not. The USA sexualizes everything, so I see her point but she misses the mark by not addressing cultural differences and implying dignity and respect shouldn't be given if someone is in revealing clothes. She's getting awfully close to the "what was she wearing when she was r*ped" rhetoric.

[@Roaming725]

💯 Wearing clothes with smaller surface area in a hot climate can be considered "revealing" but I wouldn't equate that with throwing away your dignity, like she argues. Nudity is part of life, and I wouldn't want to over-sensor that. However, sexualizing every body part and giving sex so much attention IS an issue.

[@kingkohli4952]

@@RuthieMicaelaanything but women dressing appropriately and not h@lk na$ed in public, ANYTHING, blame society, blame everyone but women who can’t just help themselves dress and walk as street w@@lkers and moan about being se@@ualized

[@kingkohli4952]

@@RuthieMicaelaif the men wear the same outfit, same tights women wear that’s when entire female gender would understand how deplor@blé most women dress. Exposing the camel toooe, imagine men wearing underwear with their junk bulging through the underw@@r, or the tights so freaking tight it looks like spray painted? American women are absolutely clasele$s

[@tarathoughts13]

@@Roaming725 exactly, it’s about how you act which matters. Women should be allowed to wear ‘reveaking’ things in public if they wish, we should try to some extent to desexualise parts of the body, but we should also recognise that you can be proud of your sexuality, own your sexuality, without having to necessarily flaunt your sexuality.

[@kamoko6295]

I am so grateful that we still have women like you that have a platform to speak on things like this. As a fellow woman, Its so hard to find positive female representatives that still have morals nowadays. Please don't ever stop making these videos.😭

[@florkiler6242]

can you elaborate on what "morals" you have in mind?

[@NadiaSeesIt]

I like how Kristen Stewart said a lot of nothing in her interview

[@MrJamesC]

I thought about your words at the beginning, that you sound like a granny from another century. I've noticed that the younger generation is taking credit for the achievements of the past. Twerking and nudity has in fact not advanced the world technologically or lifted people out of poverty. The wonderful world of today was achieved yesterday. The younger generation did not plant the cherries they are now picking. Entitlement is much worse than just youthful rebellion.

[@Powerhaus88]

Being a degenerate is not "youthful rebellion". It's degeneracy. Plain and simple.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

Standing on the shoulders of giants thinking they’re flying.

[@Mereologist]

Jordan Peterson very aptly observes that a critical aspect of not just adulthood but societal development is the awareness that sometimes it is better if you cultivate your crop slowly over time than just eat all the seed to solve your immediate problems (which is how he thinks of the Biblical story of Cain and Abel). Or another way I have of putting it is that unless you can NOT-do something, maybe it's better if you don't do it. When you HAVE to do something, it reeks of addiction and dependence, both of which are destructive.

[@umairahmadkhan3792]

Twerking and nudity is bad because its immoral and lacks dignity.. But everything else you said can be said for every generation. And every generation feels the same about young people of next generation. That has been happening for centuries.

[@sayLeotardbutsayitChinese]

Seems like that's what's happening to media, too. People who should be adapting work for screen assume they can do better (masking jealousy of the original creator, even from themselves) and completely screw it up because they're not better, but have never been properly critiqued or humbled. Makes me so glad I went to art school. It may have been mostly useless in the job market, but at least I can take criticism and parse it out so that it's beneficial, instead of just getting offended and refusing to accept my own flaws

[@Jackrabbit_Slim]

I'm just fine with my clothes on. I wouldn't subject anyone to that visual. 🤣

[@laikanbarth]

Same 😂

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

I wouldn’t want anyone to see that either. lol

[@rickyal9810]

hah, I appreciate your honesty. ☺

[@florkiler6242]

sounds a bit disempowering and it adds important contrast to all these noods flonting women (and men more and more recently as well you guys are kinda slow on the pickup with this one. no offense meant)

[@khfan4life365]

Yup. Same here. I respect myself and my family too much to go nude in public.

[@sploogal1]

You’re empowering, thank-you for your videos

[@chasehedges6775]

💯

[@user-is7xs1mr9y]

Growing up is realizing your parents (and grandparents) were right: you have to respect yourself so others respect you.

[@Romeo2345912]

It’s literally the forbidden fruit and it’s all a lie women eat up. And just like Adam, men buy into it as well. The older I get, the more I see the sin and the lie.

[@chasehedges6775]

Yep, the Bible and God had it all figured out.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

There is a reason the snake went to the woman first. Make of that what you will, and the weakness of men to allow corrupted women to lead them is also problematic.

[@knehren]

There is also a reason why most snake tamers are men...

[@jonathanstensberg]

Of course it *feels* empowering to do what you want to do and defy social norms. That’s just teenage rebellion for you. Growing up, however, is realizing that those norms existed to protect you both from other people and perhaps more importantly from yourself.

[@Germania72]

Why does Kristen Stewart look as if she never showers? Her hair always looks oily.

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

She always looks sweaty to me too. Does she have a hard workout every time she has an interview or picture taken?

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

Because Feminism isn't about equality. For most women, it's simply hatred of all men. That's one of the reasons they go out of their way to "transgress against traditional beauty norms." They want to look ugly for the men and signal to the other people on their team with the approved "uniform."

[@rufiredup90]

That's actually a look that is done on purpose I think. She probably uses a pomade or some kind of other hair product to give it that wet look. I remembered Megan Fox sporting a similar wet hair look at one red carpet event.

[@theALTF4]

oddly enough... SHE LOOKS LIKE AN INCEL 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 ooooooooooooooh the irony

[@kpax2066]

Women " Im tired of being objectified by men" Also Women " Im going to run around half naked" Make it make sense.

[@looinrims]

It’s like slathering yourself in sugar and laying on grass complaining ants are on top of you

[@matthewgruba8040]

Nudity is not empowering, it is merely revealing. What you think it is revealing, is subjective. It is interesting that while nudity is encouraged in pop culture, at the same time, profanity is strongly censored, and not just profanity, but often mundane language is also prohibited, at least to certain segments of the population. So, you can show as much pink as you like, but you cannot say what you mean.

[@adamjutras7024]

What is empowering is subjective as well. You can only determine whether or not nudity is empowering FOR YOURSELF. Let others decide for themselves.

[@knehren]

What is empowering is also subjective. Nobody can decide that something is or isn't empowering. If I feel empowered by showing skin, why shouldn't I?

[@tomcoop9750]

@@adamjutras7024this isn’t true. Feeling empowered and being empowered are two different things. Morality is objective. If you set a bad example for young women, they will copy your behavior and attract bad men that want to use them.

[@adamjutras7024]

@@tomcoop9750 morality is too big of a subject to just objective or just subjective. I find that the less information you have the more subjective a subject seems. For example, when people say "killing is bad". 95% of the reasons I would agree but then there's for self defense and protection of one's family. The moment you add those details it becomes more objective. Without knowing why it's more subjective.

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

​@knehren Because, sometimes what we do affects other people negatively. Welcome to preschool.

[@rachelcuddington4210]

Personally… I think modesty is more empowering… I’m choosing one person to show my body to. No one else, I have the power to show it. But the same could be said for showing everyone their body. I feel as though displaying nudity so blatantly is only empowering people to think they can touch us and sexualize us more. But that’s my opinion and I’m not shaming anyone who chooses either, and for people to turn around and say my view is misogynistic is attacking my views and opinion and shaming me… we won’t get anywhere if all we do is call people names for their beliefs and opinions on minor things…

[@chazzitz-wh4ly]

I respect modesty more. I was recently out with family most of last week and I saw a lot of immodest people and it kind of made me sad. They have all their parts hanging out or leaving little to the imagination that it became revolting. With how prevalent sex is in society, pop culture, and media, and how many boys are addicted to corn and the effects it has on the consumer, why would anyone be happy to know they are enabling in harm to others indirectly?

[@Powerhaus88]

Modest people, but especially modest women are far more appealing. Weak women and effeminate men can cry and try to shame normal people about it all they want, they will never succeed. What sane man is going to desire, let alone respect a woman that he's seen online and/or in real life act as a degenerate?

[@valentinegonsalves7322]

I am not a puritan. But I'm just done with everyone comparing notes about who has it easier and whose fault it is and how it was your turn yesterday so it is my turn today. Women are judged differently than men. But the idea that men are never judged is insane. Also, men impregnating multiple women was a biological requirement in the Stone Age, or the tribe would die. Clearly, some people took it too far and then religion came along. And then some people took that too far and now we're seeing the recoil from that action. At what point do we just go, "Its no longer necessary. We have medicine and science and houses and weapons and clothes nd armour and machines and cars now. We aren't gonna get eaten by animals or perish from the weather and disease. Spreading your seed far and wide is no longer necessary. We've evolved, becomes civilized, no need to act like animals or use animalistic instincts as excuses for our failures. Sleeping around, man or woman, after a point is just sad, unhealthy in the long term, and is simply not worth the risks that come with it. And man or woman, any examination of the WHY is usually a psychological issue like insecurity, fear, and lack of self-esteem or self-worth, depression, repression or some other darker unresolved issue

[@oldtimergaming9514]

@@chazzitz-wh4ly I love corn, with butter, salt, pepper, oh wait..... 🙄

[@alphamineron]

It doesn’t even have to be much about the body, it’s more your mind. It’s your memories that can’t be erased, every choice and every experience is a part of you. All those worthless fake relationships and hookups become a part of your identity. Every next person has less value than the last, in other words, you lose the magic. There simply can’t be THAT much intimacy in a bond for which you weren’t even keen on waiting. Firsts are literally special in our brains, and intimacy is the biggest biological event in your brain. These two things can literally re-write your brain… and you waste in on a bunch of nobodies. That’s sad.

[@sethkodiak]

My wife is absolutely gorgeous, and everyone we meet agrees that she carries herself with dignity and poise. She dresses fashionably yet modestly, and as such she gains respect from all, and sets a great example for our daughter. Her sexiness is reserved for our private life.

[@Woo_Woo_Woman]

Beautiful and as it should be.

[@jimmyjams962]

"Men should be held accountable for their inappropriate advances..." Like you, there's no disagreement on that point from MOST men. The issue is that a lot of those women believe that an "inappropriate advance" is a man looking in her direction for what she deems to be "too long", even though in many cases that glance is... well... just that - a glance. There are countless "gym creep" videos that substantiate this claim. The logical retort is that it is completely irrational to dress provocatively and then to turn around and complain when said outfit elicits provocation (i.e. glances in her direction), as if men are to blame for being attracted to women. But again, the overwhelming majority of men won't defend the predator who outrightly harasses a woman dressed in revealing clothing. At the end of the day, it comes down to this: if a woman walks down the street naked, she has no right to complain that men are looking at her with sexual desire, but by the same token, men also have no right to harass or assault her. It's that simple.

[@chiakwelunweta4319]

Well stated Their should be consequences for all actions Male or female

[@looinrims]

Yeah it all sounds good until you see them try to apply their accusations to people

[@MisterMonsterMan]

To the people who have almost nothing better going on in their lives other than. There have never been more of these types of people in our society and our society has never been been lower than now.

[@sayLeotardbutsayitChinese]

Well, there may have been one time with more of these people, and society was lower. It's called the Bronze Age collapse, and it's not an era to emulate

[@supertownsend]

It's painful to listen to so many women's stories who leave porn and how "used" they feel. I suspect that onlyfans will end up creating a similar situation as time goes on, except the women will be "using" themselves, and i dont know how they'll be able to deal with that.

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

They were warned.

[@Powerhaus88]

Women in porn are not victims, they're willing participants. Let them cry and be miserable and alone, they do not deserve better.

[@CarTa3]

I don't feel bad for them at all.

[@ChaoticYak1]

It's already happened. I saw a video here on YT about a woman who had been on OF and then left but kept finding her nude images and videos all over the internet and was horrified that she couldn't stop that sharing from happening.

[@Anwelei]

Men and women who leave porn often struggle for years and decades. It doesn’t matter how prettied up society tried to make it; it’s harmful to those who make it and who use it.

[@VR-gs9hd]

Overindulged first world women were simply given access to arrogant pride, were not taught about delayed gratification and the camera and social media made those with poor impulse control more self-obsessed. Even the animals in the wild will stare at themselves in a large mirror if they recognize themselves as the reflection. Attention is currency for those who can't put the camera down.

[@Melchiah28]

That’s the problem with the Internet, the Internet never forgets. If you want to change later in life, you will always be measured by what sins you committed in your youth. When I start a family, I don’t want my children to be able to look up all my mistakes on the Internet. I want to be a good father. I have a moral obligation to educate my children properly and not to preach water and drink wine. Then I’m just another hypocrite. Otherwise all my advice and the education I give to my children will only corrupt their development. My children will lose all respect for me if they see only the hypocrite in me. Many porn actors have even admitted that making porn was the biggest mistake in their lives and they wish for an intact family in which they are loved.

[@NadiaSeesIt]

Absolutely agree. And so many of these porn actors were abused at children. It's not a good coping mechanism for them and it's not a healthy pursuit

[@dronesclubhighjinks]

I have never thought about this topic from the perspective you presented. How you manage to put so much thought-provoking content in such a short space of time is truly remarkable. I believe the feminists who are pushing for the “sx trade work is empowering“ message are definitely not doing it themselves. I have worked with street STW in the most dangerous and degraded areas of our cities. Almost all of them were abused as children, all of them have serious substance-abuse and mental health problems. Their life expectancy is short and many will die violently. Most did not choose this way of life and have little hope of changing their situation despite the outreach programs that are available. Each of these women’s story is an absolute tragedy. Now if we add victims of human trafficking to this horror show, it gets even worse. If there are women who are able to earn money through similar work but they can do this from the comfort and safety of their own homes, sure, go for it. They have the luxury of choice, which way too many female and male STWs lack. Thank you so much for the video. 🙏

[@BaggageClaim]

Wow thank you for this comment!

[@mkaplan1383]

Modesty was lost after 2nd wave feminists instituted the sexual insurrection.

[@jonsnowight9510]

There were no "waves" of feminism. It has always been about the same thing, destroying the family and, thus, Western Civilization.

[@madalinaf3025]

Now we are shocked when an artist is not naked on stage.

[@ladybookworms]

Covering up and revealing are both the sides of the same coin. They're both suffocating and insulting. Why can't we just be normal, why sexualize everything? I don't want to cover everything except my eyes and neither do I want to walk around nude or semi-nude. I just want to be able to dress for movement and practically and weather and work and dignity.

[@GIBBO4182]

Do you think acting like a man is empowering!? Because modern day screen writers seem to think it is!

[@chasehedges6775]

Modern 2020 movies are terrible

[@maxsommers6843]

*Acting like a male stereotype they deem toxic when it actually is a man

[@facelessandnameless]

@@maxsommers6843exactly 😂

[@GIBBO4182]

@@maxsommers6843 yes, tbf that’s much more accurate

[@thatHARVguy]

@@maxsommers6843 Toxic Masculinity for he, but not for she.

[@alexmason8557]

Elegance cannot be bought.

[@sweetsarah27]

This message is so important. Thank you for this video!

[@ankuriboh]

Is it just me, or does this women’s liberation of today look like something a misogynist would try to convince women to do?

[@willybe6427]

the problem is if a man opens his mouth they wouldn't listen, so it's gotta be a round, frumpy lesbian saying it.

[@alinastefana4138]

I think Grace Kelly coming from an affluent family and having gone to a reputed private drama school might have had something to do with the ways in which she obtained roles. Marilyn had a horrible orphaned childhood and had to sell herself for roles. Big difference. Huge 😅

[@arghyachakraborty]

What an absolutely brilliant analysis! This should be a part of school curriculum everywhere. ❤ Flexing sexuality has become the new pandemic.

[@Lakoda26]

At the end of the day its objectification. It doesn't matter if the woman does it to herself or not, all those negative effects happen....to both the woman and the men. The feminists wanted a win over those supporting modesty so badly they sacrificed everything else they wanted to stick it to the man. In promoting modesty we/society failed to make it a positive message of dignity and instead let it become a punitive message.

[@sirrathersplendid4825]

It’s not objectification. It’s narcissism.

[@kingkohli4952]

How it’s »objectific@tion » if you dress and act like a street walllker yourself, men are not g@@y, they are attracted to opposite gender and with women having no sh@me and self respect men look at these women lussstfully these women are NOT victims or objectiffied. Start holding WOMEN ACCOUNT@BLE , society is a me$$ because we make excuses for women and treat them like ret@ted children

[@looinrims]

Attention seeking is the to me the root cause of society’s problem. They want attention for being different, for doing this for supporting that And when you see fourteen year olds speaking at the UN, why not try it? You don’t ‘lose’ anything by trying it

[@kehammer100]

Women: "I'll show you my body and that will demonstrate that I'm more powerful than you!" Men: "Don't threaten me with a good time"

[@analogbunny]

When people talk about the treatment of women, it's always about patriarchy, men, boys, groups of men, male-dominated spaces... but speak to a woman who's experienced a shame campaign and they will almost always mention women. Marylin Monroe didn't just experience being treated a certain way from men. Men are the larger part of shame and control on this issue, but not the only ones. Even now; women are encouraged to do all sorts of things by their peers, only to be laughed at for complying.

[@sindelscat9336]

I don't think men make the larger part of shame and control, I think other women are 10 times more likely to shame other women end of complying, the problem is men with no self-control encouraged it

[@kingkohli4952]

Women are the ones who put women in check but with the sisterhood and femini$$$m, women aband00ned holding women accountable so average women acts and dresses like a street waalller, as usual as a woman you conveniently said » women act like street w@lkerrs and it’s MEN FAaaULT» zero freaking accountability. Modern are adult children, it’s an insuuult to children comparing women to them.

[@cameronmacdonald772]

One should never be ashamed of their body, especially if they are religious - it is after all the body God gave them. However, modesty is about respecting your community and the people around you. Modesty does not equal shame.