"PLEEEESAE DON'T TOUCH/HUG & Today's funky outfit 260617

Annoyance at random people who not only hug me when I HATE being touched by ANYONE but then feel it neccessary to comment AND.....My self-made funky iccle dress

[@siobhangeoghegan5612]

You have a beautiful soul and do not have to explain yourself to anyone xxxxx

[@Horizon0505iije]

I hope you are well.

[@thingsthatneverwere]

I love your style, the dress today really suits youYou have an amazingly beautiful heart

[@amandabuchan1660]

Hi. Are you ok. Haven't seen you do any updates for a while x

[@malinatac7001]

Loving the outfit today! Just ignore nasty comments. There are always people out there trying to put other people down for shits and giggles. You are a wonderful person please don't forget that! I hope your back starts to get a bit better xxxx - Jenna

[@paigekeir1698]

I was just talking to my friend about this the other day! Even people I really like I HATE when they touch me because the whole time they are my mind is THERE in that spot and I can't focus on anything else. Just waiting for them to stop!

[@LolitaIsDead76]

Paige Keir Totally gal!!! Soooo wrong of them, I really think we should wear metal spiked onsies so NO-ONE can EVER touch us without getting 'injured' lolz xxxxx

[@heathernicole3655]

I love the dress! And I do understand the aversion to strangers touching me. in my case it's my hair they just waltz up and touch! I have curly red hair that is to my waist......why People feel it ok to just touch folks I will never understand

[@LolitaIsDead76]

Heather Nicole I know hunni...! It's like, EH, WHAAAT?!!! I guess they kinda don't stop to think before they react. I sometimes see a person with, eg really amazing hair for any/many reasons and will politely say "Excuse me but may I just say your hair is like, soooo awesome!!! “ or same if I love what they may be wearing or footwear etc but know where boundaries lay.... And well, just wish some more people would recognise 'boundaries' too. Take care my lovely xxxx

[@dian-yd5ud]

Granny Goose you are so sweet. Its the words we speak to eachother that keeps us going. I hope and pray from the pit of my soul that all of us who are suffering be FREE FROM THIS DISASTEROUS LIFE STYLE BE HEALED! Why dont we eat? My appetite is totally gone . Any suggestions? And lola huney i love you sister, you are a real trooper. I cried when i watched you and your mama when she encouraged you to drink.🤗

[@dian-yd5ud]

we were at a friends house and a waman lifted my arm up in front of everyone and said "you are so skinny" i wanted to cry. It was bad enough that it happend at band practice and all my friends were there. Then i was in a store and two teenagers looked at me and said^thats grouse" my two boys were with me. We got in the car and i was so pissed off at myself for not saying something back. I love to chat to and i think its a great idea what your doing on u tube. I hope a lot of youmg girls watch and understand what we are going through. zIt is very hard.🤗 love ya

[@sarahwardle5556]

I can understand why people want to hug you if you are upset and when they say theres nothing of you they probably are very concerned for your health because they like you.Sadly it's not that easy for you to see yourself through the eyes of others,if it was your anorexia woudn't be an issue.I hope this is coming across as compassionate and not judgemental as its meant with kindness.Its also possible that these people especially if they are of the older generation think your anorexia is a 'slimming fad' and if you had a few good meals you'd be ok,I am thinking of how Karen Carpenter was perceived.I agree that if you were very large they wouldnt feel its ok to comment on your size.Sending you lots of love and I hope your back feels better soon xx

[@LolitaIsDead76]

sarah wardle You know, I like your perspective on this.... The 'Waitrose Ladies' of which I speak, are generally of an older generation and see me as a kind of 'daughter/friend of daughter' (bearing in mind I'm 41 years old myself) n a natural human response to an individual in distress is to provide a comforting hug as a kind of being caring and acting in a way of showing me affection... In fact - your comment has given me a 3 MINUTE VIDEO RESPONSE IDEA... Which I'll do now instead of writing this... Many thanks!!!!!!!! And very much lovees xxxxxx

[@sarahwardle5556]

You're very welcome glad I could be of help xxxx

[@LolitaIsDead76]

Sooooo... if I do an update vlog but mainly based around this comment and use your name ie Sarah Wardle (BTW Sarah is an awesome name ;) !!)

[@sarahwardle5556]

Yes of course.Thank you for the compliment.Glad I could be of help xx

[@arodrigues7406]

Hello

[@ralphgoldie2048]

Your so right

[@LolitaIsDead76]

Cheers hunni Xxxxxxx

[@marksoares1]

is there something wrong with media?

[@Hue-man24]

u are so creative .The dress is lovely.i have issues with people hugging me as well. are u no longer recieving treatment for your eating disorder? u r beautifully u and u r beyond kind my friend. we are all a bit quirky.it is not only a ' u" thing hugs

[@LolitaIsDead76]

Eryn Wachter I refuse to have anything to do with Eating Disorder Services due to the abuse I experienced in 2014 when under Section to be treated for Anorexia in 2 out of the 3 units I was placed in n that's why my general Mental health team are discharging me.... Cos they say my BMI is too low for them to offer me any talking therapy.... Viscous circle of madness xxxc

[@mummymoomoomummymoomoo8443]

when you say abuse, what do you mean? were they psychically abusive to you? I heard you mention the horror of you IP stay alot in your videos, can you explain more? If its still too raw no worries as I know you said you now have pstd from it. Keep fighting lovely x