What do the Trans community need most right now? Abigail Thorn & Freddy McConnell | Pod Save The UK

[@AshArAis]

"We need to talk about trans issues, what should we do?" "Interview trans people?" You did it! The thing a lot of media outlets seem to consistently forget.

[@ribbrascal]

I agree, listening to trans people is what caused me to pull a total 180 on this issue. To anti.

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

mainstream media is owned by conservative companies.

[@Gibbons3457]

​@@ribbrascalImagine telling on yourself like this and expecting to look good or clever.

[@ribbrascal]

@@Gibbons3457 I also have great hair.

[@Gibbons3457]

​@@ribbrascalDesperate.

[@1st1anarkissed]

Lack of info didnt stop me identifying as trans, but it stopped me knowing there was any recourse beside living as a crazy person who doesn't want to be alive. Age 60 and I finally am just myself. At last. Still half crazy but now because of trauma and stress instead of gaslighting.

[@ultradeathboy]

"gaslight" By what, your body?

[@Niobesnuppa]

@@ultradeathboy By other people.

[@kimhaz6082]

🫂❤️

[@staticinteger]

Sending so many hugs

[@speckkatze]

@@ultradeathboy does it hurt to be this stupid?

[@Anthropomorph0]

I love Abigails uncompromising attitude. Human lives and human rights are not to be compromised with.

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

so goated

[@nickthepostpunk5766]

It’s because human rights (of children, of biological women, and associated with free speech) matter that people are pushing back against trans activism.

[@BadgerGirl]

@@nickthepostpunk5766 if that was really the case then the gender-critical groups wouldn't need to lie and wouldn't need to get into bed with far-right groups and think tanks like they do.

[@marthanorton9239]

⁠@@nickthepostpunk5766 “biological women” 🤮🤮🤮. Trans lives are just as important as cis lives.

[@itcouldbelupus2842]

@@nickthepostpunk5766 trans people aren't infringing in the human rights of women and children. They are allies, they are attacked and abused by men for the same reasons, just more often. Trans people are statistically more likely to be the victims of violence than the. Perpetrators. You're pushing an anti human ideology that encourages violence toward them, that's what you mean by resist.

[@marchekate]

Fricking love Abigail Thorn, Philosophy Tube is superb. Thanks for having them on.

[@audreydoyle5268]

(Her)

[@pfunnell70]

​@@audreydoyle5268could have been referring to Freddie as well

[@ribbrascal]

​@@audreydoyle5268*him

[@she_is_lavender_rose]

@@pfunnell70no

[@marchekate]

@@audreydoyle5268 was that correction entirely necessary? I wasn't misgendering her.

[@anamakesthings]

I love how Abigail described the idea of gender disphoria only used clinically to pathologize the trans community. I'm a girl. I feel secure in being a girl, I barely spend an ounce of my thoughts on me being a girl. That being said, there are moments when people expected things of me BECAUSE I'm a girl, or expect me to NOT do something, for the same reason. In those moments I feel a rageful gender disphoria. Like... how can you look at me and see *that* about me when every ounce of my biological being is telling me the opposite? I go through such a severe dissonance with how I perceive myself vs how others perceive me that it turns into genuine disphoria. And I have sincere, authentic thoughts of "well, if THIS is what society deems feminine, wtf am I???" And again, this is coming from someone who's 99.9% of the time absolutely secure in their womanhood....

[@lif6737]

Out of curiosity, would you mind giving me an example of a situation where that happened?

[@heatherjones4894]

As someone with a similar experience: "Oh, but you'd look so much prettier if you just wore some makeup!" "... Are you really not going to wear a dress?" "Eating like that isn't very feminine... You're not going to eat like a man, are you?" "Sit like a woman" "Don't talk like that, that's not feminine" Basically a constant policing of how I dress, act, eat, talk, the things I like and the things I dislike...

[@starksandrecreation]

@@lif6737same as heatherjones-just very strict boundaries of what being a woman means, and forcing me to act/dress/be within those boundaries. Now that I’m an adult and out of the house (and my parents who pushed those strict boundaries on me have both passed) I can live more freely in that sense, but growing my household had “girl chores” like dishes, laundry and “boy chores” like taking out the garbage and mowing the lawn. My older sister at one point wanted to learn how to mow the lawn and my flat out refused to let her touch the mower. Somehow (🙄) there were my “girl chores” than “boy chores”, and whenever relatives/family friends came over my older sister and I were expected/forced to sit (like ladies: legs together, not lounging, actively listening) and talk (like ladies: not too loud was my main problem 😅) with the adults before playing with our cousins/friends-though if there weren’t any cousins/kids our age, we weren’t allowed to go do our own thing until the relatives/family friends basically dismissed us. Anywhere in public with family was very similar-I was always “being unladylike” because I was too loud, not looking at the person speaking to me/us, fidgeted too much, didn’t pay attention enough, hated being forced to “dress appropriately” (ie wear a dress/skirt based on what my parents said our destination needed, not based on what other people were wearing-I was one of the few in my youth group that wore dresses/skirts every Sunday up until high school, the other kids wore jeans), I didn’t eat “human portions” of food (ie put more on my plate than was ladylike), hated wearing makeup but tried sometimes bc I got positive attention from my parents, “talking back” all the time... and yeah, a bunch of those things were my ADHD and Autism (undiagnosed until a couple years ago at 30) but growing up in the 90s/early 2000s “girls didn’t have ADHD or Autism”, therefore my symptoms were seen and communicated to me as just me choosing not to obey and be ladylike. My parents did their best in a lot of ways, but that very narrow view of what being a girl/woman looks like caused so many arguments and fucked up my mental health for decades. BUT. even at my most “tomboy” rebellious phase, I never had the thought that I was actually a man/not a girl. I’d occasionally wish I’d been born a boy but those was very specifically because I wanted to be free from the strict gender role I was being forced into, misogyny, and periods. Strict gender roles hurts cis kids too, but more importantly, it doesn’t “make us” trans because it’s not possible to make a person be trans just like you can’t make a person be Autistic or like the taste of cilantro.

[@anamakesthings]

@@lif6737 working as a buss"boy", getting my driver's license, working in construction, solo purchasing a home, things that I personally don't see tied to my gender AT ALL but, to the outside world, come with imbedded gender "markers"

[@CreativeCache101]

​@@anamakesthingsyour just describing people being sexist, that's shouldn't make you feel good😂

[@davdt437]

"exists to be cited not to be read" - brilliant line

[@yoavshati]

She talks about this idea more in her video about mailing the NHS and investigating the system when wanting to start her transition

[@AndrewGillard]

​@@yoavshatiAbi also discusses the [C]ass report as a guest on the Trashfuture podcast (episode “The Devon Report” from 2024-04-16) where it's covered in more detail than this video went into 😸 (That's not a criticism of this video, to be clear! :))

[@Lolcatterie]

The lies about the trans community in the national press have led to a horrific national conversation that shames us all. Thanks for standing up against that with your platform.

[@ribbrascal]

What lies?

[@brentboymebob8754]

@@ribbrascal The consistent assertion that trans people living as normal people in society is "shoving the ideology down our throats."

[@ribbrascal]

@@brentboymebob8754 But they're not living as "normal people", that's the entire point

[@ribbrascal]

@@brentboymebob8754 They are absolutely demanding all of society submit to their ideology

[@arubinojr5670]

@@brentboymebob8754 You have to know by now that anything in these comment sections that start with the "Name me anything about any of this" pronouncements can't go well, right?

[@cuteypetz]

It is really just great to see two trans people getting to talk on a platform about the things going on in the UK right now.

[@duncansonoryan]

As a trans person (in the US), I can tell it is much more difficult and volatile now than it was 10-15 years ago. Thank you for doing this episode. People, even on the left, get caught up in false information and fake narratives and end up hurting us even more.

[@triciaamheiser785]

Forth-right and clear at every level. I consider myself an ally, but it was good to hear what the reality is for trans folk. I wish feminists would open their eyes and realise that trans struggle holds so many parallels to their own. Just as gay marriage poses no threat to straight marriage, trans rights are not threat to womens rights, it's about autonomy.

[@duncansonoryan]

​@@triciaamheiser785a high tide raises all boats.

[@joetrent4753]

I find it vile the people who are on the left who comment about progressive attitudes, equality and fairness yet those same people will write comments with the most appalling transphobia. There only ‘experience’ as far as I can tell is just the many mistruths that get front page headlines without any facts to back them up.

[@Sammit00]

@@duncansonoryan true facts

[@yesitschelle]

I'm on the left in the US. Yeah, I didn't know the ugly background of the Cass report. I believed it was independent. Studies get wrong answers sometimes. I hear plenty of people talking about it as a legit study. It's frightening.

[@cicelyamelia]

I’m so so glad this episode didn’t get pushed given the political drama that’s happened this week. Such an important topic, ESPECIALLY now we’re having a general election

[@totalvoid6234]

Is it? Given the choices are "Death camps for trans people" and "Death camps for trans people" and by the way "Death camps for trans people" is a dead cert for a sweeping majority?

[@281992pdr]

And wasn't it just so good to see the Algerian guy, oh I mean transwoman woman, no, sorry woman with the XY chromosomes, well, that's a woman, isn't it, in the women's boxing at the Olympics, beat the Italian woman? Yay equality!

[@harrisdack]

Chilling that teaching children empathy, understanding and compassion should be frowned upon.

[@chrisbfreelance]

That's not what is happening here.

[@collyernicholasjohn]

Not to mention truth, science and reality.

[@itcouldbelupus2842]

@@collyernicholasjohn trans people are validated by truth science and reality. Teaching children that trans people exist and are acceptable is teaching them truth science and reality

[@collyernicholasjohn]

@@itcouldbelupus2842 If children are taught trans people are simply males or females who try to present as or (wrongly) believe they’re the opposite sex, I have no problem. But gender-bollocks like ‘gender identity’, ‘sex as a spectrum’, and ‘people can change sex’ should stay in the holy church of Jonestown Gender-woo, not schools.

[@itcouldbelupus2842]

@@collyernicholasjohn okay, but if science were to prove and validate that sex is spectrum and gender identity is a thing, you'd have no problem with it then right? Because science is always progressing and changing as we learn new information and since you care about truth science and reality you wouldn't have a problem with that being taught if it was validated by science and reality would you?

[@quittalkingpish]

Thank you for posting this - one thing that always crosses my mind when panelists or media outlets "discuss" these things is that there's never an actual trans person on the show. Ever. They don't invite them on as stories such as Abigail's and Freddy's would directly contradict any narrative that specific outlet is trying to push. I'm a cis-man, I have no ball in this game and even I can see that it's reached a point where it is downright cruel and barbaric how trans people are being treated in the UK today and it gives the general public a 'pass' to channel hate towards them. It makes my blood boil.

[@CorwinFound]

100% on your point about lack of including marginalized groups in discussions about them. I'm a trans guy and I can't even count all the times I've seen a panel of cis folks debating trans issues. Even ones that are supportive and allies don't seem think that including a trans person might be valuable. One other thing I'd mention is that you _do_ have a ball in this game. Trans rights are _human_ rights. Living in a society that dehumanizes anyone, dehumanizes everyone. _Your_ life is quantifiably better when equity and equality exist. A really great example is women's rights. It has been proven over and over that when countries and cultures empower women socially, economically and through bodily autonomy that the entire societal well being improves... including for men. Women's equality doesn't take from men, it actually helps them. And it's the same for every group. So yes, you do have a ball in this game, horse in this race, or other applicable sports metaphor!

[@kyle-silver]

Even though you’re a cis person, I’d say you do still have a ball in this game. You can be an ally in the fight for equality and justice, and you may in the future (or even now, and just not know it yet) have a friend or loved one who’s trans.

[@AndrewMcColl]

And if they do have a trans person on, it's either someone extremely flamboyant, playing up to harmful stereotypes, or someone who now regrets/was misinformed about their decision.

[@robertmarshall2502]

They invite them all the time but they almost never turn up. It's part of the problem of #nodebate. You should also notice that the far left also pretty much only invites the males although there are now more female trans ppl

[@paulhammond6978]

This is always the case - they don't put transgender people themselves on to discuss these things. And they really should.

[@dominomasked]

Some comedians only care about being “edgy”. As they get older and richer, it gets way easier to be trailing-edge-y, and give up on trying to be leading-edge-y.

[@franimal86]

You know what’s edgy to this day? Being unequivocally supportive of trans rights and the LGBT community. It’s still a struggle to be an unapologetic and well-informed ally, and some of these comedians don’t seem understand that.

[@jsrodman]

It's kind of pathetic to see (formerly) talented comedians think that just punching down is somehow good comedy. I mean, you might be able to find a good joke that happens to include punching down accidentally, though that would not land well for those who can see it. But not even bothering to do good humor and just punching down, as a stand-up comedian? That's doubly pathetic.

[@superdrwholock]

True, it's like 'I'm being silenced for saying my opinion, here's my new netflix show that will get millions of views in which I talk about how hard it is to cope with being silenced, I will get cancelled again for this' wow so edgy and against the mainstream, well done maverick lol

[@theharlequin3088]

>"Behold my super offensive triggering edgy outrageously hilarious conservative comedy!" >stands behind a mic repeating "I hate women." for an hour...

[@MaterialSquid]

Nish doesn't even care about being funny

[@mikeharrison1868]

My younger child had been on the waiting list for six years, if I recall correctly. They are doing a language course and we're overseas, when they got a message to come in for an appointment. They explained the situation... but were unceremoniously dropped off the waiting list altogether. Heartbreaking.

[@MaterialSquid]

can't they be sterilised overseas?

[@mikeharrison1868]

@@MaterialSquid They're not being sterilised! And no, they are a British Citizen who needs medical attention. They should be treated in the UK by the NHS.

[@TetsugakuSan]

They don’t need hormones they need holistic help.

[@mikeharrison1868]

@@TetsugakuSan Holistic means whole. So you shouldn't rule anything out. Best wishes.

[@peach-tea]

@@TetsugakuSan the balls on you to think you know better never having met them, fucking embarrassing

[@Sammit00]

I remember some of my peers when I was a teenager half-jokingly asking if it was true that there were 60-something genders (I was identifying as non-binary to friends at the time, now I’m a trans man six years post transition). That was in about 2016 - I’d read the same thing coming from trolls online so I knew where the question had come from. I genuinely thought that line would stay dead and buried in the regrettable memories of all the people who had an embarrassing anti-SJW phase when they were sixteen, especially after everyone I knew who had one of those phases grew out of it. Never thought I’d hear the same line coming from the prime minister and the education secretary nearly ten years later. I think I’d be less insulted if they could come up with a dogwhistle that didn’t originate on 2010s 4chan, but either way it definitely predates that Isle of Man story. Honestly, this government being intellectually one step behind alt-right teenagers from a decade ago does sound about right.

[@yesitschelle]

I think that a few politicians didn't grow out of their alt-right teenager phase.

[@ribbrascal]

Anti-SJWs are increasing though

[@XercesBlues]

Seriously. These were jokes that children and teenagers were making a decade ago, and most have grown out of. It's insane the prime minister is repeating them on television now. I really never thought I'd hear unironic attack helicopter era lines again, but here we are.

[@itcouldbelupus2842]

@@ribbrascal why? What made you become anti social justice and human rights? Why ally yourself with far right hate groups?

[@ribbrascal]

​@@itcouldbelupus2842It's not any kind of "justice" or "human rights" issue

[@liam7342]

Nish, you were slightly wrong, the NHS constitution says; 'The 18 weeks commitment is a universal right, as set out in the NHS Constitution and the NHS Operating Framework' It's not a goal or an aim it's a right that trans people and to a much lesser extent neurodiverse people are having withdrawn.

[@Spamhard]

Yeah. Waited 5 years for my ADHD diagnosis. STILL waiting to begin medication but have been told that's been put on indefinite hold due to medication shortages. Could be waiting years more. Imagine that being told to some with diabetes or similar.

[@liam7342]

@@Spamhard there is a way to make the NHS pay for private treatment for you, though NHS partners? Look it up there is a way around it, it's a pain in the ass but its doable

[@Spamhard]

@@liam7342 Right to Choose can still be an absolute ball ache sadly. Many GPs just refuse it, or get really weird about the process. Sadly I've already had my diagnosis so I'm just in this weird limbo of waiting for meds but being told they're 'on hold indefinitely', so i don't think RTC would be an option for me now anyway.

[@ohpurpled]

You'd think so wouldn't you, but the courts say no.

[@lkhvw2042]

I grew up under section 28 and i got called into the head teachers office because i wrote about a very tame, same sex kiss in a creative writing assignment. I was told i could not write anything similar in an exam setting as it would not be marked.

[@someonesomeone25]

They have always hated lgbtq+ folk.

[@lorettanericcio-bohlman567]

This shouldn’t be brain surgery. Let every person live peacefully. Period.

[@ribbrascal]

I used to believe that. I don't anymore.

[@Celadonfae]

​@@ribbrascal So you don't believe in letting people live peacefully? Doesn't make you sound too reasonable tbh.

[@ribbrascal]

@@Celadonfae These people don't believe in that for me. They want 1984. So, I don't anymore.

[@Celadonfae]

​@@ribbrascal Elaborate. "These people"? Who, why, what the hell are you saying? If by this you mean you can't live peacefully while trans people exist, then that's a you issue clearly.

[@ribbrascal]

@@Celadonfae Transactivists demand all of society submit to their ideology. We resist.

[@DansDiary123]

50% of children in care end up dead, in prison, or homeless within the first two years of leaving the system. Many of us are raped and abused further in said ‘care’ system; if these people give a fuck about kids then address the issues that stole my innocence and continue to steal the innocence of other children. I’m so sick of this fucking scapegoat when there’s very real harms happening to children as there have been for generations.

[@Spamhard]

Amen. Right wingers only 'care' about kids when it's to further their bigoted agendas. When it actually comes to supporting any sort of care work for children, they'd rather gut it entirely- which is literally what the Tories have been doing as they ensure local councils all over are forced to strip out even the most basic youth groups.

[@chrisbfreelance]

Two things can be true at once, you do know that?

[@nikobellic570]

This seems like a copy and paste comment posted under videos with a similar topic to deflect attention a and concern away from the destruction of female spaces​@@chrisbfreelance

[@ribbrascal]

How brazenly you lie

[@jsrodman]

What is "care" here. Can you please be specific?

[@SerenaCrocker]

I enjoyed this very much, but I feel like Labour got off too easy in this. They've been just as bad as the Tories on this issue and I don't for one second believe the slight rowing back that Annelise Dobbs is doing given her prior statements. Labour is institutionally transphobic, has a sizeable grassroots movement of transphobia, it's been a problem since at least the Corbyn years and has only gotten worse and more prominent under Starmer.

[@ohpurpled]

Starmer has that line that drives me mad to the effect of ‘we are a different party to 2019’ and it's like, you don't say? In 2019 Labour plausible stood for something, not saying it was perfect or anything like that, but still - stood for something. Labour today seemingly stands for nothing, and certainly has zero problem throwing trans people under the bus.

[@defeatstatistics7413]

transphobia is political consensus on terf island i hate it here

[@nikolaiivanovich2094]

Abigail is amazing - have been watching her work on Philosophy Tube since almost the beginning and it's just been getting better and better, and her acting is incredible. Frank is pretty great too.

[@nikolaiivanovich2094]

@@Truthcanbehard Is this intended to be anti-trans? Not sure what you mean by this?

[@zeppie_]

Transphobes are at a loss of what to attack with, so it seems they've resorted to simply hissing at people

[@RC-qf3mp]

Thorn has about a sophomore level understanding of philosophy. You’re better off just going to the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy for a free online resource. AI has gotten better for specific questions, and simply gets data from there anyway. Thorn, on the other hand, has extreme ignorance combined with bias so as to make Thorn’s spoutings off on philosophy wholly useless if not a disservice to real students of philosophy.

[@nikolaiivanovich2094]

@@RC-qf3mp That's nice. Thanks for your input.

[@dominicparker6124]

I lost a trans friend to suicide because the wait times were untenable. Just awful

[@Anthropomorph0]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Heartbreaking and horrifying.

[@sharonbaker3007]

I'm so very sad and sorry for your loss, and the community's loss. Much love💙

[@jambott5520]

People often forget that gender dysphoria is basically psychological torture. Enforcing womens gender roles onto men has been used as a torture method for prisoners of war, because it is very effective. The wait times are literal torture.

[@Faus4us_Official]

Live.

[@wen6519]

I am so so sorry.

[@Spamhard]

I'm a (mostly) cis woman who suffers from pretty severe PMDD. I was s* around 1 to 2 weeks a month. The process was simple; i went to my doctor, was given free hormonal pills, and my life has greatly improved. (granted I had to do my own research as the GPs had no interest in actually locating the source of my depression, i had to find out about PMDD myself). THE POINT BEING; I cannot imagine being told to wait 10+ years just to see someone who MIGHT agree to give me the hormones I desperately needed. I'd be de*d if they'd been witheld from me for so long, no doubt about it. My heart genuinely goes out to trans people who are treated like toddlers incapable of understanding their own body. There should be no need for all these extra steps. It's not only the humane thing to do, but it'd ironically save the NHS a lot of money to do away with these 'specialised' clinics, which you think the Tories would be all for, but their biogtry trumps money saving in this instance.

[@TetsugakuSan]

But they don't need the hormones. The Cass Review, led by Dr. Hilary Cass, highlights significant concerns about the use of hormone treatments for trans youth. The review found that the evidence supporting the use of puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones is weak and inconsistent. The report emphasizes the potential irreversible effects and long-term health risks associated with these treatments, including impacts on fertility, bone health, and psychosocial development Instead, the Cass Review advocates for a holistic approach to supporting transgender individuals, focusing on comprehensive psychosocial support and addressing underlying mental health issues. This approach aims to provide individualized care without relying primarily on medical interventions, which may not be the most appropriate or safe solution for many young people  . This holistic method could better support the overall well-being and development of transgender individuals, avoiding the potential harms of hormone treatments

[@Spamhard]

@@TetsugakuSan You mean the Cass review mentioned in this very video? The one that numerous Doctors, specilists and organisations have come out to say it's poorly researched and uses incorrect data etc? I don't NEED hormones either. Please explain to me how me needing hormones for my mental health is any different than a trans woman needed the same hormones for her mental health? Why would I be given them without question on whether I ACTUALLY need them, while someone else is forced to wait decades, all while both of us have the same symptoms; s* thoughts.

[@mantistoboggan1503]

It's genuinely awful just sitting around waiting for permission for your life to begin for no reason.

[@Spamhard]

@@mantistoboggan1503 Right. Sounds awful. Not trying to compare my plight to someone elses but I've had similar shit with NHS and trying to get ADHD diagnosis. Waited 5 years to finally be diagnosed, and now on an 'indefinite hold' waiting for meds, so far the wait has been 9months. My life has bascially been falling apart around me while I just sit around and wait for anyone to help. NHS have really been falling short on a lot of this shit recently (tories fault, not the failings of free healthcare).

[@Sl1mch1ckens]

Im so glad i came out at a time where i waited 3 months after my referal to be seen, im only 26 and i just cant relate to trans people that came out even a year after me its insane how bad the wait times got. My top surgery wait was a bit longer about 10 months but again i lucked out in the fact my doctor sent of my referal for that the same day i got my prescription for testosterone as technically they would like you to be on hormones 6 months before they do that but he knew by the time it went through that would be true my friend who got on t a month after me his doctor did make him wait the 6 months so he ended up getting surgery a full two years after me. Its insane. And now if i wanted my womb cut out because i was discharged from the gender clinic (they discharged loads of people to try and keep up with the demand) i would have to wait for 8 years to see them to get a referal despite that being something my local hospital could probably do. It would be much better if we just educated GPs and had localised care.

[@dianehoekstra6880]

The first thing Abby brings up is the pathologisation of the phrase "gender dysphoria" This is an unfortunate side effect of US cultural leakage. Our healthcare system REQUIRES something to be wrong to in order to pay for treatment. I'm old enough to remember that gender dysphoria was a de pathologising phrase on our side of the Atlantic. Before that, it was gendder identitiy disorder, which implied that our internal sense of gender was objectively wrong, and that's why we suffered. The current phrasing is a careful balancing act which says "you are not fundamentally broken, but also you need healthcare to treat this issue."

[@im-radio]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGLIiHypnbqtqJo abigail's video on the subject

[@duderyandude9515]

When Abigail released her video where she laid out her issues with the concept of "gender dysphoria", I remember that Natalie Wynn (Contrapoints) took issue with it and both of them had a bit of a back and forth on Twitter. Someone pointed out that it makes sense for Natalie to take issue with it as an American that has to deal with the nightmare of the American healthcare system whereas Abigail deals with the NHS.

[@liberality]

​@@duderyandude9515 And yet the NHS has no mandate to pay for the treatment of non-illnesses. Abigail's argument for NHS funding rests on the premise that transgender people are owed resources to achieve their life goals. That would be a privilege that no other class of people enjoys. The irony of announcing a role in Star Wars while also demanding public funding for elective procedures will not be lost on people who are languishing on NHS waiting lists for essential medical treatments.

[@Retrobeemer]

You don't treat mental conditions with surgery. Do we cut parts off anorexics next?

[@duderyandude9515]

@@Retrobeemer There is so much wrong with this. Being trans isn't a mental condition, just like being gay or black isn't a mental condition, they are just minorities. This is what Abigail was talking about in the video: the way being trans is pathologised. The comparison of anorexia to being trans is disgusting and dishonest; anorexia is an eating disorder that causes health issues and requires treatment to help people no longer have anorexia. The issue with anorexics is that they are malnourished so of course you wouldn't "cut parts off". We don't want to stop anyone being trans because it isn't a disorder and doesn't cause any health issues. No matter what bullshit comparisons you make, that doesn't change the fact that the science shows that gender affirming healthcare demonstrably improves the standard of life for trans people. Obviously! When you allow people to live their life they way they want to and get to have control over their own body, obviously that's going to improve their standard of life. If you truly cared about trans people, you would follow the evidence like the experts do which is why experts recommend gender affirming healthcare.

[@billberndtson]

Abigail!!!!! My worlds collide again in the best f*cking way! 🤩

[@sit-insforsithis1568]

She’s still wearing contra as a skin suite

[@billberndtson]

@@sit-insforsithis1568 What's a "skin suite?" Sounds like a creepy hotel. If this was a slight on Abigail I'll remind you that you can't even spell "suit" properly and thereby cannot get your hate speech across to anyone. If this was anti-Abigail hate then your reply is like I imagine most of your interactions and experiences are - meaningless and impotent. If you are indeed a hate-filled monster in this way then I suspect that the "meaningless and impotent" part reflects on all manner of your life's facets and illustrates your insecurities and failings. If you need to bring people down as part of your personality I can personally assure you that you couldn't possible bring Abigail down. She's way too much woman for you. Or, she would be if you were the scumbag your reply indicates.

[@anfearaerach]

I know more people know Abigail but Freddy is a big voice for trans men as well, glad you had two people on because trans men don't get a platform usually

[@harrietcanwell2058]

Yes interesting that gender ideology is all about platforming men and their desires.

[@5minuterevolutionary493]

You won me back with this episode, not intended as a backhanded compliment. It obviously comes at a critical time, not just in the UK. Here in the US my family is unsafe to travel across, I greatly appreciate you passing the mic to these crucial people.

[@sophiebobb4010]

Long time pod save the world watcher, swapping allegiances today for Abigail thorn though (what an absolute genius, fantastic to have abigail on the pod and everyone here should watch philosophy tube)

[@GabrielHellborne]

This is just performative cruelty; kids'll learn all the need to know about the gender spectrum from Tiktok and KZbin regardless of what schools do or do not teach. this is just more disgusting picking on marginalized groups from a bunch of failures that somehow run our country in a vain attempt to distract from just how badly they [CENSORED] us.

[@zeppie_]

It starts with teaching in schools, then it becomes book publications, then it becomes news and independent work, then it becomes digital media. Please don't see this as a harmless move, this is step 1 of trying to make us disappear from the public

[@chrisbfreelance]

You've admitted it's social contagion and e-grooming indirectly. Marvellous.

[@GabrielHellborne]

@@chrisbfreelance I admitted no such thing. WTF are you talking about? It's not contagion or grooming, you turnip, it's people talking about their experiences online. It's how I learned more about it.

[@CharlotteSWeb-oh7ou]

@@chrisbfreelance You have nothing real to stand on so you revert to Nazi-style blood libel.

[@adridaplague-boi]

​@@chrisbfreelance"social contagion"- by your logic, enlightenment thought is social contagion. You're just demonizing the free exchange of ideas.

[@lkhvw2042]

I'm a healthcare professional and ive been trying to improve access for trans people. It's like banging my head against a wall. I left an online GP group due to transphobia. I've been working with a union and a rep from the union referred to trans patients as drug addicts. I've approached NHS england and the various consultations on gender incongruence guidelines and nobody engages with you. NHS england, Cass and co did not meet with any actual LGBT patients or healthcare groups. They're purposely ignoring WPATH and other worldwide evidence.

[@TetsugakuSan]

WPATH has been entirely and completely discredited -as you should well know if you are a health care professional. You will be forced to treat people under the outcomes of the Cass review or you should rightly be fired.

[@lkhvw2042]

@@TetsugakuSan just no, troll

[@lloroshastar6347]

How can these people be employed as experts when their practice is motivated by personal prejudice? Does the hippocratic oath mean nothing to these people?

[@roxyamused]

I mean, I am a drug addict, but that's because I didn't get hormones or be even given the option that transition was possible when I was younger.* The hrt didn't get me on heroin, hrt helped me get OFF heroin. I guess I'm just trading one addiction for another? This is absolutely the healthiest drug addiction out of all the drugs I had dependencies on. 12/10 life is much better. I, fortunately, live in an informed consent model state in Portland, OR. If I couldn't get hormones when I realized I needed them, and was told I'd have to wait 10+yrs, I'd probably be dead. Either from suicide or OD. I really hope the NHS gets its shit together and justice is brought. Thank you for working for the betterment of my UK sibling's healthcare. You are sorely needed. *forgot to say that drug addiction is higher in the trans community, in part because we're sort of forced to go through the wrong puberty and watch a slow moving body horror with the cognitive dissonance and pain of trying to accept it.

[@lkhvw2042]

@@roxyamused absolutely no shade to addicts. They are literally some of my favourite patients and in my experience have been some of the nicest people. The person who said this though meant it in a derogatory manner. Which I challenged them on. But it's a frigging uphill struggle changing the status quo within medicine (unless you're Dr Cass apparently...)

[@HFEpro]

cue the classic sonic meme: yes there's 72 genders and every time you complain we make 5 more. also it's hilarious that a gender education rumor started in a place called the isle of MAN... art imitates life.

[@Aarenby]

Also ilse of man isn't exactly controlled by Westminster so what are they gonna do

[@ribbrascal]

So how many genders are there?

[@EllieK_814]

​@@ribbrascal As many as there are people.

[@ribbrascal]

@@EllieK_814 Wrong. There are 2.

[@EllieK_814]

@@ribbrascal I'm sorry you can only count that high. I sincerely hope your mathematical abilities improve. 👍

[@platonicdescartes]

I can't wait to watch this. Abigail is great. I love her channel and have been watching her for Philosophy even before her transition and then evolution into more of what was going on in her personal life.

[@billberndtson]

Agreed and same.

[@o.steinman3855]

oh abigail came PREPARED. Formidable intellect

[@chrisbfreelance]

There was no opposing view, just affirmation.

[@TetsugakuSan]

The most worrying thing is that you’re so stupid you can’t see how stupid he is.

[@SteffBrockley]

I glad to you see you do this. I’m a 40 year old New Zealand trans woman and I grew up on British comedy. Nothing has been more heartbreaking than watching my old heroes fall into this pit of hatred. I don’t know that I can watch my old favourites like Father Ted or The Office anymore. And it makes me wary around trying to find joy in any new material. So any time a British comedian shows themselves to be an ally I take one more breath of relief.

[@sallycinnamon795]

Ricky used trans people's words against you.. He mocked the ridiculous way women are treated by the trans Community..Maybe it's because it brought to light how disgusting it is. How bloody dare you try and tell women we must say 'her penis.' There's no such thing

[@TetsugakuSan]

What a fucking awful life. Hate yourself and only have Noah to try and make you laugh.

[@olliejarvis1200]

Just finished watching Abigail's new video, and then this video releases?! Amazing timing, happy to see more platforming of these issues 🙌

[@kitsworld]

I marched alongside Michael Cashman and Ian McKellen against Section 28 in the late 80s. It enrages me that we are heading back towards that dangerous territory again. Also, as an aside, I grew up under Section 28 and it didn't stop me from being gay, because guess what: BORN THAT WAY!

[@nigelfrench8894]

And gay men and lesbians are being dragged back due to the gender take over of our hard fought rights , venues and organisations.

[@sophiepooks2174]

The UK has always had a disposition to fascism sadly Oswald Mosley was going to be Britain's own version of the Fuhrer. these people have tried to erase any non heterosexual, queer, gay, lesbian, trans and gender variant humans throughout history.

[@d20Fitness]

Saw Nish and Abgail and never clicked on something so fast in my life.

[@ALBUMOF2008]

Misogynist award 🥇

[@d20Fitness]

@@ALBUMOF2008 I'm perplexed. Am I getting this award? Are you explaining that this award exists? Is this comment to the wrong person or on the wrong video? Is it purely meant to confuse me?

[@AndrewWilliams-ry6tb]

You sound like a very lost soul.

[@MaterialSquid]

@@d20Fitness your getting the award because the presence of two biological males in a video exited you so much.

[@d20Fitness]

@@MaterialSquid that doesn’t really track. Obviously I reject your premises but even if I accepted them it wouldn’t lead to a conclusion of misogyny. Unless you think misogyny is liking men. Which is complete nonsense

[@mooxim]

Understanding gender identity and gender expression as self determination and bodily autonomy issues really helps clarify it a lot. I've been so hung up on respecting the NHS's authority and "efforts to offer free treatment to people suffering from the illness of gender dysphoria" that I've never really understood it for what it is.

[@Dutch3DMaster]

I personally have used the example of "Replace the word "transchildren" (or when it's a more broad discussion, transpeople) with "people of color" and now think whether these people are allowed to judge the medical care these people receive. Also try to see if you can still make the argument that it's not discriminatory to talk about these people's healthcare this way." Making it more obvious that this is a discriminatory stance sometimes works, sometimes it doesn't.

[@batnacks]

I remember the 72 genders number coming from Facebook apparently having 72 different options for user gender identity, or at least that's what I was told several years ago. Crazy to see transphobic jabs from as far back as 2016 brought into mainstream politics.

[@oreolaw9911]

so it's definitely older than 2016 at least as old as 2010 I remember finding it on 4chan and reddit but I remember back then the numbers weren't always 72 they range anywhere from 60 to 100+

[@lloroshastar6347]

The fact the Prime Minister is repeating this lie on national television shows you what kind of a person he is.

[@darrens3]

@@lloroshastar6347 He's doing what all right wingers do; don't actually deal with the real issues, instead fabricate a fake culture war in order to 'fight' in that and declare yourself the ideological winner of a made up war. Its more effective than declaring a real war, and it riles up flat earthers into a frothing rage over nothing.

[@mechanicaldavid4827]

"72" is derived from anti-Islamic sentiment/stance of Western policy makers.

[@rw9207]

As a Trans-female, I moved back to the UK, from the US, because of the hostility being express through such things as "Bathroom bills". Now on my return, I'm greeted by Rishi Sunak echoing the same far right troupes as Trump! I thought my own country would be safe. but, apparently, there's no sanctuary for trans-folk.. How would I be able to got a job, if I can't use the bathrooms?

[@barryledgister4496]

One, Trump has been busy with a trial and verdict, I don`t see how his `far right troupes` have been hitting the headlines and having influence. You may mean deSantis, and just forgot which Republican you needed to insult. You can`t expect to want to live in the pretense of being a `woman` without that giving issues in a society where 99% of the population just don`t try and deceive people and present themselves as their birth-sex. Plenty of places offering jobs give the option of gender neutral bathrooms, if that`s something you`re worried about. Yes, I know, bathroom issues are up there with lynching, apartheid, and bussing when it comes to oppression, but I`m sure you`ll survive.

[@itcouldbelupus2842]

​@@barryledgister4496trans people are not deceiving anyone. Trans women live authentically as women. They have done for centuries

[@Aarenby]

​@barryledgister4496 you need to see trial for you many many rapes

[@barryledgister4496]

@@itcouldbelupus2842 They`re not living authentically as women. That`s absurd. They`re living as men deluded that they are `women`. But they`re nothing of the kind. You`re one of the keyboard warriors who will spout this nonsense on-line but wouldn`t ever dare say this to anyone irl.

[@Dutch3DMaster]

The same is now true for The Netherlands. At the 15th of February a party here called NSC (New Social Contract) tried to revoke patient-doctor confidentiality for transchildren. The party member doing this was explicitly warned she was asking for medical privacy laws to be actively violated. And what do you do with such strong language from a minister of Medical Care? Nothing: you stay your motion. This same House of Representatives member showed up at an anti-trans conference at the 27th of June in the Vrije University Amsterdam. One of the speakers on the conference produced the report that she used to back up her transphobic motions. The name of this speaker? Hilary Cass. This party showed that they wanted to inform everyone who causes the "real problems" in this country, by invoking attempts at legislation meant to explicitly target 0,000006% of the Dutch population each year...Not to improve their lives: of course not. 2 Months later the rape-theory was used by a different spokesperson by the same party to use one of the most undemocratic ways ever to kill of a law change that didn't even make it through first term.

[@chloelayla017]

Thanks Coco. Thanks Nish. This really is a much needed discussion and I'm really grateful that you've used your platform to highlight the real issues regarding trans rights. One day, I hope our media and in turn politicians finally understand how harmful their rhetoric is.

[@tomazgolub2580]

Also... why arent people looking at this from a bigger angle? People are not getting the care that they need. Patients are dying because of laziness and politicisation of the health system... we should all be angry about that...

[@barryledgister4496]

For people to be angry about it, they need proof that it`s true. Evidence? How is the health system politicised? It usually skews towards the Left as, y`know, a socialist model health system. Certainly trans issues have been politicised by activists...but that is outside the health service`s control. How are patients dying through laziness? Whose laziness?

[@Dutch3DMaster]

Abigail mentioned that bigger angle: The attempts at destroying trans people's healthcare, revoking their rights is the extreme-right and fascist politicians trying out the right language. The right language to not invoke to much hatred, but also strike a balance in such a way that most people will not recognize rights are being attacked, until it is to late. Although the UK is much further into sewage wastewater concerning their open hatred of transpeople than The Netherlands currently is, while we are quickly backsliding to the same level, in The Netherlands, there is currently a try-out of this language so that only people with knowledge of the subject can see it for what it is. Not "protection of children", but "Discussing the rights of these children so that we train and massage people into believing that revoking their rights to medical care is the better option and that we are doing a much better job making their lives miserable." But the general public will hear: "Yea, I can understand trying to keep children safe?" and typically will be none the wiser. (By the way OMG the amount of extreme-right idiots in the related feed on this video is insaaaane).

[@eleanorburns8686]

Being a queer, closeted trans kid in a 1990s secondary school was murder. Or a huge amount of unhappiness and bullying, at any rate. Things have gotten somewhat better since, but the after effects of trauma never go away, and late transitioning (I didn't feel safe enough to take the step until 2014) of course means one will, sooner or later, be a target of alleged adults who obviously really miss their school bully glory days. I hate to think of people actually fighting to preserve or even reinstate those "good old days".

[@barryledgister4496]

There`s nothing anybody can do. You can`t force people to accept other people.

[@AD-kv9kj]

Remember when Avatar first came out? There were, worldwide, droves of desperate folk suddenly self-identifying as the fictional CGI creatures they'd only just seen in a movie, and there were even cases of some of these people offing themselves over their inability to accept reality and what they actually were. Should all of those people have been normalized and treated as if they genuinely were fictional Avatar CGI beings accidentally born into human bodies and... no, obviously not.

[@ConfusedOctopus]

Well the avatar aliens are fictional and a completely different species to humans so I don't see how that's in any way relevant 😑

[@RC-qf3mp]

So you are comparing being trans to playing make-believe?

[@yusaki8064]

In terms is the waiting lists being particularly bad. I got referred to GIDS at 13. I didn’t see them until 14. The person I saw there, Anastasis Spiliadis, invented and coined the term of a particular therapy that is effectively conversion therapy for trans people (Gender Exploratory Therapy as Abigail mentioned) so I didn’t get any help at all really over the next 4 years. I was referred to the adult GIC about 6 months before my 18th birthday. And was discharged from GIDS around the same point. I didn’t see anyone at the NHS for 42 months. As an adult you have to basically spam them with emails just to make sure the people at the GIC even get them. And if you don’t you can’t get the communication to get your medication. I’ve known I was trans since I was 13 and at 21 I still haven’t touched any trans affirming medication because I can’t afford private healthcare and the NHS has dillydallied for 8 years. My dad who I recently found out is a transphobe, a homophobe and a biphobe, said he thinks that puberty blockers and hrt should be banned for everyone under the age of 25 because “they can’t know for sure yet”. And I tell you this with absolute certainty, if that is put into effect by the government, you will be seeing me self immolating in front of Downing Street before the day is up.

[@hks2377]

😔😔😔🤬🤬🤬

[@robertmarshall2502]

But we know that all children aren't permanently trans identifying. So how do you decide who is who? We've seen that puberty blockers have no positive effects on mental health outcomes or s-cide rates. Why did you want them? The best evidence we've got for hormones is basically the wide array of side effects we're starting to realise they cause. Unfortunately the studies claiming positive results don't separate out by sex and don't follow long term but it seems like testosterone gives an initial boost to libido and self-confidence/relieves anxiety which wanes and many trans identified females can't keep taking them due to side effects. With oestrogen there seems to be practically no evidence that they help mental health except that ppl get the "results" they want and some men seem to use them to kill an unwanted sex drive. The issue of waiting list is due to the explosion of trans identifying teen girls. Clearly this is not just because they're all innately trans. The issue is that many get pushed onto gender services and wait not receiving any mental health help in the meantime. It's part of a wider issue of poor mental health among our young ppl. Then they fixate on one "solution" and it becomes difficult to get them to actually take any other steps to alleviate their distress. This is then likely to result in poor long term outcomes because affirmative care has very poor clinical results. Something we have known since 1979 when they showed zero positive improvement.

[@itcouldbelupus2842]

​@@robertmarshall2502You really are the sort of trabsphobe who loves to cite bad studies that support your narrative but ignore everything that doesn't huh?

[@ribbrascal]

Definitely not a mental illness.

[@robertmarshall2502]

@@itcouldbelupus2842 Lol I cite the highest quality stuff, I think you forgot that you're the ones complaining that the worst quality evidence wasn't included. Even when most of it was. Unfortunately for you guys the "narrative" of look at everything in context and come to an objective opinion is a real threat to your belief system. Which is why you guys systematically report and censor data that if read could change people's minds. It's why you warn anyone away from going and looking at the evidence for yourselves and why you regurgitate or sometimes don't even read but copy and paste poor quality articles that an average adult sees through easily. In your personal case I can think of few more obvious claimants to the title of most ignorant bigot. To you anyone who doesn't entirely agree with your unreality is a transphobe. People like you have watered down the word "transphobe" (originally coined by a man who disavowed himself of trans ideology before ending his life) to the point of meaningless. So congrats I guess. You might as well say heretic, unbeliever or infidel. What a ludicrous belief system.

[@orion.the.pathman]

18 year old trans person who is recently out of the education system and I can say with full confidence that schools are not teaching about gender identity; they should be, because maybe if they were I wouldn't have been victim to multiple hate crimes on school grounds, maybe I wouldn't have been called slurs in front of teachers who did nothing, maybe I wouldn't have been outed by my school to my unsupportive family. schools are already unsafe places for trans and genderqueer students, we do not need to make them worse. my heart hurts when I see what the government is doing to trans people, especially trans kids. we don't deserve it.

[@not50productions]

ignorance was damaging in my first two decades of life. a bit of enlightened education would have a large impact on allowing the world to move forward.

[@alice1374]

Conservatives dislike education though. So it's very difficult to get them to understand that as it's a radical view of teaching and educating people

[@ribbrascal]

@@alice1374 Educating myself on this issue is what caused me to oppose it.

[@alice1374]

@@ribbrascal For being better for society, or some other reason? I can't truly understand why you would oppose it, unless you're thinking of the very few bad cases in which things can happen both in prisons (which is usually by consent or in public toilets which isn't by consent typically)

[@ribbrascal]

@@alice1374 Better for society? The reverse is true. In multiple ways.

[@franimal86]

@ribbrascal1065 You’ve been misinformed, it seems

[@titaniumteddybear]

I only discovered Abigail Thorn relatively recently. But she has become one of my favorite content creators.

[@user-sd3ik9rt6d]

She is brilliant, I have been watching since her brother ran the channel ;)

[@gingganggoolie]

A minor correction to what Freddie said regarding Deed Polls (I'm sure he knows this, and just misspoke). Legally changing your name is always done by Deed Poll, but you can choose whether or not to register it with the government. A Deed Poll is just where you write "I [old name] will now be known as [new name] and promise not to do fraud about it" and then sign it. No lawyer needed.

[@cfor8129]

You don't officially need one, but orgs will ask for one to change your name in their systems.

[@gingganggoolie]

@@cfor8129 I guess it depends what you mean by "change your name." You can introduce yourself as anything, but if it's anything official you need a Deed Poll

[@rshnewton]

You can change your name under English law by simply starting to use it, providing it is not to deceive or defraud. I think this is English common law. So I think Freddy is right. You can change your name more formally with either an unenrolled Deed poll or an enrolled Deed pool or a statutory declaration. Each has different drafting, fees, procedure and legal basis. None are complicated. Two are DIY. Most organisations in my experience want one of the formal documents. When I transitioned and changed my name and gender I met with a great deal of confusion and ignorance of their own procedures. I think that technically they can't demand it in the UK as, under GPDR, they have to keep accurate up to date records, but in practice they can and do.

[@Aranel_Alasse]

As a straight CIS woman with no children, this doesn't affect me so I know my opinion doesn't really matter, but teaching children about gender identity (and sexuality) in schools is a no-brainer. Children need information from a reputable source and in a safe environment for them to ask questions. If this isn't in school, then they may go to the internet and be misinformed. Learning about people with a different faith doesn't make you convert religion, learning about people with different cultures doesn't change your cultural identity, but it does make you more accepting of people who have a different life experience to you and hopefully a kinder human being. The exact same thing goes for learning about LGBT people.

[@chrisbfreelance]

You think they can't go on the Internet an be misinformed? The Internet allowed this radical ideology to spread in the first place.

[@brendadarling7743]

Quite ironic comment....getting your knowledge from the Internet also? The reputable sources in schools are activists. Teaching kids about stereo types(gender identity) is wrong. Let kids be. You heard the quote' give me the child at 7 and I'll give you the man'? That's indoctrination. Would you want kids to be taught scientology?

[@Aranel_Alasse]

@@brendadarling7743 Gender stereotypes are harmful, but that's not the same thing as gender identity. For example, my gender identity is female, but I have no interest in stereotypically female things like fashion and makeup - identity is personal and stereotypes are societal. By "reputable sources" I meant teachers as this is something that should be included in PSHE lessons (or whatever they call them these days). Like I said, it is possible to learn about other cultures and religions without being "indoctrinated". Teaching children about Ramadan or Diwali will not make them convert to Islam or Hinduism, but it will make them more understanding of their Muslim or Hindu friends. Learning about something is not the same as becoming that thing and the idea that telling children that Trans people are people too will somehow make them Trans is idiotic. There is too much hate in the world already, we don't need to teach the next generation to hate each other.

[@ReckluseMusic]

Bizarre you adopt the lefts language. You're a cis woman? But a trans woman is just a woman? Leave the cult! You're a woman drop the cis!

[@brendadarling7743]

@@Aranel_Alasse they are teaching kids in schools that trans is a fact..not that it's just a belief

[@silverXnoise]

I start from the once non-controversial position that education and knowledge in search of truth is an objectively virtuous endeavor that should be allowed to evolve with contemporary society. It’s fallacious (and hilarious) to think that trends are started and/or reinforced by schools acknowledging them…or that restrictions on schools’ ability to make that determination will do anything other than promote the less productive and frequently dangerous outcomes of willful ignorance.

[@EdwardLindon]

There is, objectively, no such thing as objective virtue.

[@silverXnoise]

@@EdwardLindon I was a little concerned that my take was akin to “bumper sticker philosophy”, but you really showed me how it’s done with this lovely nugget of nihilism.

[@TheYahmez]

@@silverXnoise Identity is exclusive by definition; "I am not you". There are truths which are a great danger, corrosive to the falsehoods that many rely on to conjure this realm of differentiation. Things will stir or settle as they must.

[@CommunistLlama]

@@silverXnoise It's more antipositivism than nihilism, to be fair.

[@josephsager9425]

That "72 genders" phrase immediately perked my ears up. That immediately registered to me as the thing from Facebook, which has been a talking point for years. Two examples of those genders are... gay male and straight male. Yes, that's right - while labeled "genders", it was always a misunderstood drop-down that contained several variations of male, female, gay, bi, and straight. Not. Genders.

[@Aarenby]

Is that the thing that also showed relationship status?

[@josephsager9425]

@@Aarenby yes

[@Aarenby]

@@josephsager9425 lmfao-

[@Vulcanerd]

I mentioned this in the shorts clip, but I'll repeat it here. Other than all the things Nish just mentioned as well as the points made in the comments, it's also childish? There's a "You can't tell me what to do, we're comedians and nothing is off limits! You're not my dad/mum!" energy coming from these people and it's disheartening. There's also, a 'tHeSe aRe jUsT JoKeS' attitude, but it's been my experience that these are usually spouted by people as an excuse just to be dicks.

[@KattReen]

Also, is it really JUST a joke when the one telling it believes it with their whole heart?

[@lindareed8265]

I have a feeling there are "jokes" people could make that would piss those comedians off. It's just about recognizing that something is serious and isn't funny. If they think it's funny, then they don't see it as serious, because they don't care... because they're not very good humans.

[@katieheys3007]

Frankie Boyle's comedy was some of the grossest and harshest around. But it's an act to make money. When you see him out of his character, he's a genuinely lovely guy who fights hard for fairness and equality. It's the "It's just a JOKE BRO! Can't handle it?" crew when out of character that are genuine toilet wipes.

[@tammielynn8273]

The whole conversation about a butch cis woman feeling she has to be a man is ideological bs in my opinion. I'm a cis, butch lesbian in my sixties and never identified as a man. Great podcast!

[@soniaess28]

Have a look at what is happening to young women.

[@franimal86]

@soniaess28 What is happening to young women? I’ll wait for your over generalization

[@MrHodoAstartes]

​@@soniaess28 Yeah. They're denied the puberty of their choosing. Horrible, just horrible.

[@soniaess28]

@@MrHodoAstartes do you even hear yourself? Nobody chooses puberty. Uninterrupted puberty is essential to become an adult. There is no wrong puberty, and humans cannot change sex.

[@soniaess28]

@@franimal86 young women are attempting to opt out of womanhood in increasing numbers. Tremendous harm is done to children by transgender medicine and we will make sure it stops.

[@princeofb7383]

The amount of times the GIC has let my ass down -"forgetting" to reply to emails -being asked if I want to be discharged (!!!) because I failed to show up to an appointment that I had been waiting literally years for (no, I was at the appointment the professional, however, was off sick) -being asked if I wanna be discharged because my T has been consistently low (previously I explained this to my GP and the GIC, the formulation of T I have, which is gel, for whatever reason has a low absorption rate despite correct application AND I have depression with suicidal ideation which, yeah, on some days, I'm not actually able to hope for a future so I'm not eating not sleeping not brushing my teeth and yeah I'm not taking my T for a few days!!) -oh, and that one time where I rang up and the person who answered the phone sounded like they were over the sink washing dishes??? Doing the dishes is important but when I can barely hear what the person is saying it's like...could you at least pretend to give a shit? 🌈This is why we choose to go DIY and fuck institutions off 🌈

[@barryledgister4496]

Complain to this GIC directly, don`t bore us with your immature SJW anti the system crap. Great, find your own testosterone, it sounds like most of the time you`ve been a lousy patient anyway and the GIC are better off not dealing with you.

[@MadameCorgi]

​@barryledgister4496 none of those examples were op's fault, are you thick? The NHS IS negligent in dealing with trans health, abd other issues like ADHD. This is absolutely a systemic issue.

[@pit_stop77]

Thank you for dealing sympathetically with this subject. I transitioned in 2010, knowing the tories would damage the NHS, it took me three years to get surgery, quick compared to now. But i had a great GP too. I agree the NHS controlled my life, (or tried to) i wanted breast augmentation and was threatened with being kicked off the list if i did it...

[@moartems5076]

MtF?

[@Lilbee730]

@@moartems5076 Wanting breast augmentation does suggest that, yes. Either way, it's not relevant to their comment.

[@rachaelgray1125]

Thanks for discussing this issue. It actually boggles the mind that 'gender ideology' is still a thing that's being peddled around. I personally learned about LGBT+ people from Tumblr because it wasn't something I was ever taught and it took me to my mid-twenties to discover Non-Binary which ended up being the identity that fit me best. It took a lot of introspection and self-discovery that could've been shortened considerably if it was taught to kids in school, and I do wish it was something I knew about earlier.

[@jsrodman]

It's become a cause celebre of authoritarian-leaning people who need something to latch onto to explain the harms capitalism is doing without thinking about the harms capitalism is doing. Or better said: kzbin.info/www/bejne/h4fMnaOupNymi7M My preferred chestnut: "Anti-trans bigotry is the socialism of fools".

[@av_oid]

Tumbr has a lot to answer for.

[@sophia_comicart]

Born in 1987, I didn’t know I existed until I was 26 because I didn’t know trans people existed. None of this happens without the domination of religion world wide and isn’t going anywhere soon. The advantage is the number of those who support is in the general population is massive but governments don’t represent the people, the represent themselves. Be gentle with yourself. You got this.

[@Seal0626]

Props to the comment moderators, you’re doing sterling work.

[@mrboost4186]

Explains the echo chamber

[@jsrodman]

@@mrboost4186 There is no need to give equal time to hate.

[@chrisbfreelance]

@jsrodman Transgenderism is an ideology so 'Transphobia' is subjective.

[@Seal0626]

@@chrisbfreelance Transgender people: [exist] Bigots: clearly this is an ideology

[@jsrodman]

So susprrising to get more hate speech from chrisbfreelance.

[@andihalliley-model4400]

Thank you sooooo much! Thank you for actually talking to talking to Trans People about this! I'm crying watching this. I've been in the 'system' since 2016. I had to wait 18 months for my first phone interview another 14 months for a GIC Nurse consultation and a further year for my Gender Consultant appointment. I have been on HRT since 2021 and have been referred for 'bottom' surgery since then. I have had a GRC since earlier this year AND a Birthday Certificate stating my name (Andrea) and that I was born a girl. I am not alone in this, Abbie's journey is evidence of this. Right now, we are being targeted by a media and a government that hates us, that alleges that we go through all this in order to watch women and girls go pee!!!!! As if! Because of our society, I was forced to deny myself for 40+ years (I knew, although I didn't have the vocabulary, about being a girl in this boy body when I was about 5 years old!), I joined up because I felt ashamed of whom I am and how I felt. Imagine fighting a war for a country that hates you, while fighting a war within yourself? No wonder I have mental health issues. I hope your cast goes viral and that more people actually take the time to listen TO Trans People, to get to know that we are just people, people like them! Finally, thank you once more!

[@ambientjohnny]

"A new long-term study from Germany suggests that the majority of young people diagnosed with gender identity disorders do not continue to identify as such over time. The study examined insurance data over five years, revealing that more than half of young people aged 5-24 across every age subgroup diagnosed with "gender identity disorder" no longer had the diagnosis after five years. Specifically, the desistance rate was 72.7% in 15- to 19-year-old females and 50.3% in 20- to 24-year-old males. Among the whole group of 5- to 24-year-olds, only about 36.4% of those diagnosed in 2017 still had the diagnosis five years later, indicating that more than 63% desisted. One of the strengths of this study is its comprehensive collection of outpatient billing data for all legally insured persons in Germany, providing a large and representative sample. Additionally, the long observation period from 2013 to 2022 offers valuable insights into long-term trends and changes in diagnosis rates."

[@albedougnut]

@@ambientjohnny The German study does not distinguish between the ICD F64 code subscales, meaning it does not distinguish between gender nonconformity and active trans identification. Not all subcodes under the F64 code even qualify someone for gender-affirming care, much less for minors. When you actually look at research [McGregor, 2023] which distinguishes between F64 subcodes and distinguishes trans-identification from gender nonconformity, the desistence rate drops to around 5%. Among those who began any form of transition (including just puberty blockers with no HRT or surgery), that number drops to just 1%.

[@hps362]

It's insane how quickly Abigail can just eradicate every foundational entrenched notion of how anything works in our system. How does she do that?

[@barryledgister4496]

If Abigail`s done that, how is he making a living from acting, and Philosophy Tube, and hoodwinking people into believing he`s a lesbian? He`s just another privileged white middle class nobody gaming the system which works so badly it feeds, clothes, educates, and gives a fantastic standard of living to 60 million people./s

[@solitarymaninblack]

At work a few people were offended over having to wear pronoun badges. A former manager showed herself to be a terf. Mentioned the "attack helicopter" nonsense.

[@TetsugakuSan]

Surely being compelled to wear them is offensive?

[@BadgerGirl]

this best way I've found to legally deal with those kinds of people is set perfectly legal hard work boundaries. you work to the contract when it comes to them, no extras, no privileges nothing that you don't have to do or give to them that isn't contractually binding.

[@nikobellic570]

Have you looked at it from her perspective before labelling and dismissing her. Just for intellectual honesty's sake listen to feminist arguments on single-sex spaces. If anything, it will strengthen your conviction

[@nikobellic570]

Have you looked at it from her perspective before labelling and dismissing her. Just for intellectual honesty's sake listen to feminist arguments on single-sex spaces. If anything, it will strengthen your conviction

[@BadgerGirl]

@@nikobellic570 i have and its rubbish judith butler has a pretty good takedown if you care to read it.

[@jenbdiamond]

Thank you for this interview! I love Abigail so much, and I'm glad to meet Freddy!

[@ChrispyNut]

29:35 - RE: Changing name without deed poll, as an FYI, FWIW to whoever cares... Yes, you can be "known as" something you're not officially known by, however, just as with the birth certificate stuff, there's a bunch of "official" times when you have to use your official name, where birth certificate, deed poll, marriage certificate and it becomes quite annoying. I know this as I've been "known as" something different for almost 30 years and despite the two names being incredibly similar (and easy to see what happened, having simply added a hyphen (when my mum re-married)), some places and/or people get all officious. This has become increasingly significant as we've become more and more authoritarian and anti-immigrant, with companies wanting to do background checks etc... So for anyone wishing to have a known as, unless it's to be like a stage name or whatever, where it's more like a separate identity that can be a paper identity, change the name officially, it'll save you a bunch of frustration, time and loss of opportunity later in life.

[@AussieGriffin]

Quick! Before the Tories get back in, bully Labour into ripping up the Cass Report! A.G.

[@StephenTurnerVlogs]

I needed to hear this. I've learnt a bit, but now important, I feel a bit better about constantly arguing with people who don't want to know the reality of queer and trans lives.

[@ambientjohnny]

"A new long-term study from Germany suggests that the majority of young people diagnosed with gender identity disorders do not continue to identify as such over time. The study examined insurance data over five years, revealing that more than half of young people aged 5-24 across every age subgroup diagnosed with "gender identity disorder" no longer had the diagnosis after five years. Specifically, the desistance rate was 72.7% in 15- to 19-year-old females and 50.3% in 20- to 24-year-old males. Among the whole group of 5- to 24-year-olds, only about 36.4% of those diagnosed in 2017 still had the diagnosis five years later, indicating that more than 63% desisted. One of the strengths of this study is its comprehensive collection of outpatient billing data for all legally insured persons in Germany, providing a large and representative sample. Additionally, the long observation period from 2013 to 2022 offers valuable insights into long-term trends and changes in diagnosis rates."

[@albedougnut]

@@ambientjohnny The German study does not distinguish between the ICD F64 code subscales, meaning it does not distinguish between gender nonconformity and active trans identification. Not all subcodes under the F64 code even qualify someone for gender-affirming care, much less for minors. When you actually look at research [McGregor, 2023] which distinguishes between F64 subcodes and distinguishes trans-identification from gender nonconformity, the desistence rate drops to around 5%. Among those who began any form of transition (including just puberty blockers with no HRT or surgery), that number drops to just 1%.

[@barryledgister4496]

What reality of queer and trans lives do people need to know? I`ve known gay millionaires...let them start contributing for the better. Set up clinics to perform transitions. If the public sector isn`t performing to needs, then work something out in the private sector.

[@simonberthiaume6585]

Abigail Thorn is wonderful. Intelligent, forthright, funny, and beautiful.

[@chrisbfreelance]

He's not going to sleep with you.

[@simonberthiaume6585]

​@@chrisbfreelanceGrow up.

[@barryledgister4496]

`He`s `forthright`? Apart from lying about being a lesbian woman?

[@Retrobeemer]

and male.

[@TomCantDance]

Always wonderful to see Abi appear in other videos, and it was great to discover Freddie as well. I've been trying to fight this fight from inside the NHS in the hopes that people will stop dying on the waiting list for care.

[@robertmarshall2502]

Who is dying on the waiting list? The stats from the Tavistock show very low levels of that kind of tragedy, far lower than anorexia for example. The systematic reviews also show that "affirmative care" doesn't help with this either. The only longitudinal studies show higher rates post-op.

[@TomCantDance]

@robertmarshall2502 care to link those stats from the Tavistock?

[@BadgerGirl]

@@TomCantDance he doesn't have them because there subject to the 100 year lock, there's been FOI requests bounced to get them for that reason so no one has the full stats yet on how many trans people the NHS has killed by burocracy, one day we will find out and people will be held accountable though

[@jsrodman]

@fazzieman674 It is true that the NHS is in a very bad situation and many people are waiting too long for care. It is *also* true that while cis people are waiting weeks or months too long for care, trans people are waiting decades. Two things can be true.

[@robertmarshall2502]

@@TomCantDance I'm not sure this is a genuine request but just in case. S-word by Clinic-Referred Transgender Adolescents in the United Kingdom Michael Biggs 2022 Short: "From 2010 to 2020, four patients were known or suspected to have died by *****e, out of about 15,000 patients". Or longer 2007-2020 4 of over 15000: "The death of any patient-including those on the waiting list-suspected to be ****e is reported to the Tavistock’s Board of Directors. The Tavistock cooperates with a comprehensive surveillance system for every death classified as *****e or (after an open verdict by the coroner) probable *****e in the United Kingdom (National Confidential Inquiry into *******e & H******e by People with Mental Illness, 1999; National Confidential Inquiry into ******e and Safety in Mental Health, 2019). Papers for the Tavistock’s Board meetings are available from April 2007 onwards; those not on the Trust’s website were acquired by a Freedom of Information request. The pdf files of the Agenda and Papers (through September 2021) were searched for the keyword “suicid”; all 442 instances were inspected. From 2007 to 2020, four patients of the GIDS died by suspected *******e: two on the waiting list, in 2016 and 2017; and two after having been seen, in 2017 and 2020. The last case was described as “likely” to be ******e, because the inquest has not yet been held. These figures were confirmed by Freedom of Information requests to the Tavistock. Are you interested in the longitudinal studies showing higher rates post-op?

[@rachelharris7915]

This was bloody brilliant. Thank you for your #allyship. Kemi Badenoch has a lot to answer for 🏳️‍⚧️❤️

[@RedSpade37]

If you watch the trailer for Star Wars: Acolyte very closely (and as Abigail says, "If you're very clever") you may be able to guess who Abigail's character is... (And also why she's so secretive about it...)

[@alice1374]

I kind of feel as though its also down to the fact there's widespread hormone therapy shortages, though they don't openly admit this is a factor in them heavily trying to restrict trans people from living their lives Masquerading as the truth but never wanting the truth to be known it feels like

[@Dutch3DMaster]

With the mere 1% of transpeople that use hormones (not all transpeople though, so the amount could be a bit lower) they would be banking heavily on the idea that people don't know this....Oh, wait, they do that :P .

[@cathunsworth7915]

Fantastic episode! I was already a fan of Philosophy Tube, and can recommend it to anyone who enjoyed listening to Abigail. And Coco’s last question completely brought the fun to what can be quite a stressful discussion. 😂

[@izzy0052]

This is extremely disheartening to hear about. How easily Human Rights can slip out of the grasp of the people. Don't ever take your rights for granted, and never stop fighting. Over at Portugal where I live, conversion therapy was considered medical malpractice by the Order of Medical Doctors in 2013, and it was finally criminalised by Parliament last year. Since 2013 it was something you could lose your medical licence over, now it's also something that can make you serve jail time. Not saying everything's perfect, Portugal has a long way to go societally, but the path to progress is there.

[@saoirse2963]

Indeed, the human rights of women to safety and dignity have been taken away from them, the right to freedom of speech and thought has been taken to.

[@izzy0052]

@@saoirse2963 don't know what you're talking about, women still had rights last time I checked. And as for freedom of speech, you can say whatever you want, you're just not exempt from having other people calling you a bigot. You are free to speak, but not free from the consequences of your speech!

[@collyernicholasjohn]

Trans affirmation IS conversion therapy- homophobic conversion therapy. 12 peer-reviewed studies show 60 - 95% of gender non-conforming youth become comfortable in their bodies post-puberty, most gay - but not before many have been sterilised by hormones, hysterectomy or castration.

[@robertmarshall2502]

@@izzy0052 Are single-sex female spaces a right that females have? Or have they been destroyed across the West? Despite this being part of recognised Human Rights back to the 40s.

[@Aarenby]

​@@collyernicholasjohnthat is not true rapist

[@xanderreyno]

Abigail has helped me to understand so much, she is such an important voice.

[@ambientjohnny]

"A new long-term study from Germany suggests that the majority of young people diagnosed with gender identity disorders do not continue to identify as such over time. The study examined insurance data over five years, revealing that more than half of young people aged 5-24 across every age subgroup diagnosed with "gender identity disorder" no longer had the diagnosis after five years. Specifically, the desistance rate was 72.7% in 15- to 19-year-old females and 50.3% in 20- to 24-year-old males. Among the whole group of 5- to 24-year-olds, only about 36.4% of those diagnosed in 2017 still had the diagnosis five years later, indicating that more than 63% desisted. One of the strengths of this study is its comprehensive collection of outpatient billing data for all legally insured persons in Germany, providing a large and representative sample. Additionally, the long observation period from 2013 to 2022 offers valuable insights into long-term trends and changes in diagnosis rates."

[@albedougnut]

@@ambientjohnny The German study does not distinguish between the ICD F64 code subscales, meaning it does not distinguish between gender nonconformity and active trans identification. Not all subcodes under the F64 code even qualify someone for gender-affirming care, much less for minors. When you actually look at research [McGregor, 2023] which distinguishes between F64 subcodes and distinguishes trans-identification from gender nonconformity, the desistence rate drops to around 5%. Among those who began any form of transition (including just puberty blockers with no HRT or surgery), that number drops to just 1%.

[@depreseo]

Wonderful to see Abigail here! And also, thanks for not letting this one get swiped to the side because sunak decide to declare a general election. You mentioned the government education policy as being "England and Wales", but as this is a Tory education policy it's actually England only (education is a devolved mater all around the UK). Also, the magical number of "72" I'd say is a tactical trigger, with "72 genders" sounding A LOT like "72 Virgins", thereby drawing mental parallels between "radical trans pundits" (as the conservatives press may call them, as well as many other names) with the islamic terrorist groups that gained headlines and political clout (via islamaphobia) up until the mid-2010's and the realisation by media pundits that "islamaphobia is overplayed and no longer chic." I mean a lot of the rhetoric is the same - "online brainwashing" (and other nasty terms), "the death of childhood innocence", controlling what should be taught in schools and asking teachers to report on any "suspicious" talk between students.

[@PaKalsha]

Everything Abigail said is 100% on point. We need an enquiry, we need answers, we need an apology and we need justice. People have died. *Children* have died. They died in despair and suffering, and it was entirely avoidable.

[@ambientjohnny]

There is no moral reason why males should be referred to as women. A woman is an adult human female. A male person, cannot be a woman. Claiming they can, is to admit you view womanhood as some sort of costume and sexist role that any individual can perform regardless of their sex - ie you literally reduce womanhood to a set of sexist stereotypes and deny adult females an exclusive descriptor. Which directly impacts all female sex based rights and protections. This is a BELIEF you have, an ideology you subscribe to. We as a society have no obligation to accept the demands and claims of an ideology and movement that we view as deeply regressive, harmful, self-deluding, factually incorrect, psychologically illiterate, emotionally immature, sexist, inconsistent and incoherent, authoritarian and fascistic, anti-therapy and in denial of reality while constantly projecting that deep-rooted self-doubt unto others and lashing out at them.

[@bootyspoon4675]

@@ambientjohnny stop talking

[@leesimpson6334]

We recently changed our Trans Sons name by Deed poll ... mostly because he wanted his chosen name on his GCSE certificates and became his birth name appearing on his prescriptions was bothering him.

[@gh0stcup]

Thank you for doing that for your child, he'll remember stuff like that for the rest of his life

[@StephMcAlea]

I didn't even know trans people existed until later and so didn't transition until I was 45. I might very looked female rather than a man in a dress. The only similar things in my youth were Danny LaRue and Les Dawson.

[@duncansonoryan]

I didn't know about trans people until I was an adult. I transitioned at 31, though I knew I was a boy from the time I was 3.

[@triciaamheiser785]

Trans history has been erased over and over again. At least you have transitioned. I wish you all the best with your personal metamorphosis.

[@pit_stop77]

Me too, growing up in rural Ireland the odd appearance of Danny larue on TV was the only exposure I had 😢

[@katywalker8322]

Similar age for me, but knew about trans people but also scared stiff to mention it at all.

[@TetsugakuSan]

Men who take hormones still look like men in dresses. Because they are

[@Emily-mk9lc]

It's a shame Ricky Gervais doesn't identify as a good comedian

[@antonpreacher2900]

It’s such a blatant lie, he couldn’t look at himself in a mirror. Deep down there’s a feeling I’m sure. He knows he a bad comedian. The way each time he’s a room with some of his colleagues he seeks approval by them is quite pathetic (there’s a great Big Joel video on that subject)

[@Retrobeemer]

Yet he's got the biggest Netflix special in history and has 4 international sell out tours. Nish Kumars most popular video is the one where he's being boo'd off stage.

[@antonpreacher2900]

@@Retrobeemer instead of proving that a massive amount of people are assholes what does it says ? Surely you don't equate popularity and quality don't you ? (why do you all have to be such massive cliché ? The Family Guy profile pic is just too much)

[@user-jn4sw3iw4h]

The motivation behind the "72 genders"-thing is a search term thing. As long as there is a term no-one actually arguing in good faith would use, but is known enough it is what people who start doubting, would look for. They control the conversation. Not unlike "black on [insert color here] crime"

[@guilhermeluispereira]

Love Abigail!

[@janeannchristensen3808]

Gen X comedians like Carr and Gervais can't adapt to the new generations and their online humour, and they won't step aside

[@mothturtle7897]

Am I so out of touch? No, it's the children who are wrong.

[@chrisbfreelance]

The current younger generation have never been so thin skinned, they've been indoctrinated by concepts such as the glorification of vicitimhood and oppression envy.

[@jsrodman]

I don't think it really has to do with generations. I think it has to do with fame and success allowing you to insulate yourself from criticism and thus become reactionary. My actual baby boomer mother is far more progressive than many people my age, even if she puts her foot in it sometimes. And plenty of people a generation younger than me are going down dark roads.

[@markigirl2757]

Gen x are just bitter and becoming more like the boomers and the silent generation that raised them before 🤭

[@60508]

As an agender Ace person I simply didn't know it was an option due to growing up under section 28 and spent most of my life trying to perform masculinity homosexuality and heterosexuality which made me a generally unpleasant and very unhappy person I can't believe that we're back here so soon. On the plus side I find it an easy way to identify dangerous people in our society.

[@charliecampbell2292]

im currently on the waiting list for trans care, the clinic im waiting on is only seeing patients from 2019

[@hgb66173]

insane

[@J43RH]

I was unaware that shared care had been advised against by the royal college. This now explains why mine was refused a few months ago. I suspect I will have to continue to pay for my healthcare the foreseeable future. My entire life most likely. And I'm lucky to be someone who can afford to do so right now. If my situation changes, I don't know what will happen and I feel so sorry for people who can't afford this now. I spent too long in that situation

[@eilidhsykes2295]

aaaa love Abigail best guest yet! :) xx

[@Faus4us_Official]

I exist. That fact alone makes some people foam at the mouth. We haven't even had breakfast yet. I'm breaking reality like eggs for someone. I cook it for some who want to see what comes next, what potential lies witihin that egg. The few that give me a chance sit and wait. They don't assume the egg will be anything in particular yet. They just watch the process unfold and take in the experience. After some time a few of them eat it, some smell it, others just look. It's just an egg to them. The crazy few won't stop asking me what the egg is. I tell them it is just an egg but they insist it is an omelet, not an egg. How can I cook for a guest who can't see, hear, taste, touch and smell the egg? The egg exists but the eyes don't wish to see it. The eyes see the omelet but not the egg it came from. They deny the existence of the egg by declaring the existence of the omelet. Someone will understand this nonsense is not nonsense at all. It's relatable, literally and figuratively. To those few, flow like you've never flowed before. Mankind needs help. I think they're worth it.

[@barryledgister4496]

So say something that is nonsense to most people, but understood by the favoured few is your way of communicating to people who `foam at the mouth` due to your very existence...when you`ve just made it impossible for people outside your group to even understand what you`re saying?

[@Aarenby]

​@@barryledgister4496turn yourself in

[@Faus4us_Official]

@@barryledgister4496 I owe you nothing but am willing to give you everything. You didn't understand.

[@TheYahmez]

@@Faus4us_Official Why should the cloud long for the ocean? All reflections of no origin, with no end.

[@lindareed8265]

This is beautiful. Thank you.

[@PhilHoggart]

Thank you so much for this episode!!

[@maisie588]

so apparently cis people don’t have a gender identity? The harsh policing on trans people and gender is actively harming cis people, like I identity as a cis woman, that’s a gender identity it’s not just… a trans thing

[@Derf1OO]

Wait what? Who the hell’s saying that?

[@celly589]

I just do not, have not, and will never understand why certain people care so much about other people’s lives. I can barely think about me and my life let alone what someone else is doing, being. These people are not effecting me at all. They can do and be whatever they want.

[@soniaess28]

When you pretend that men are women, women are forced to accept men in every women's space and sport. This is happening right now in women's prisons, from Melbourne to Los Angeles. Men are winning women's sports. Why do you think this is okay?

[@brendadarling7743]

How great to have such a perfect life! Must admit though..you do sound a little selfish. I care about women locked up with men in prisons because they 'feel' like a woman....whatever that is!! And a rape crisis centre being run by a man who says he's a woman and says women need to reframe their trauma at being raped and accept him as a woman. I could go on....and on....maybe you'll understand a bit more now...have a little empathy for women....the women who usually talk like you are middle class at least...won't end up in prison, afford private health care and not athletes

[@Dutch3DMaster]

Personally, to me it feels like fascist politicians are trying out the language in which they can do a monumental amount of damage to the rights of a group of people, but are seeking the right words to not make their hatred or request for revoking rights so explicit that people take notice immediately. And when they start doing: it will be to late and to much people have sided with these fascists. It's not for nothing you increasingly see people saying "First they came for [mentions some minority or group in society], and I didn't speak up, because I wasn't part of that minority or group. Then they came for [some other minority or group in society] and I didn't speak up, because I wasn't a part of that minority or group. And then they came for, and I could speak no more, for it was my rights taken away." (Loosely translated, it's probably not fully accurate when looking up the writer who made that remark (I believe it was a writer at least).

[@leonorehamer3025]

The law in regards to protected characteristics relates to having Transitioned, there is NO legal requirement to have had any surgery what so ever !

[@lynnhettrick7588]

So true that trans students are likely to deny themselves water and food throughout the school day, just so they can avoid using a bathroom/toilet during the day. Then they often get medical issues, such as UTIs because they wait til they get home to use the toilet.

[@chrisbfreelance]

Don't groom them into believing they are something they are not in the first place.

[@jsrodman]

Don't spread hate about trans people, chris. Grooming obviously has nothing to do with it, logically or statistically. And trans kids exist whether or not someone tells them about trans people. You are definitely wayyy past the wrong side of history, here.

[@itcouldbelupus2842]

​@@chrisbfreelanceThey are not groomed. Trans kids know they are different before they even learn what being trans is.

[@saoirse2963]

​@@itcouldbelupus2842lies. Funny how we only hear about "trans kids" having problems going to the bathroom of their own sex in the last years. It was never a problem 20 years ago. Funny that.

[@saoirse2963]

What about the students who feel extremely uncomfortable, perhaps even threatened, when a student who is clearly of the other sex use the bathroom of their sex, so uncomfortable/threatened they won't get in the bathroom when said student it there, and afraid of getting in there at all in fear this trans identified student would get in while they are already there? Or do they not count since they don't belong to the sacred people that are "trans"?

[@maryoberschlake1988]

So pleased you have Ms Thorn on the pod.

[@jaytheknife]

Abigail Thorn won't stop until all philosophies have been tubed!!! She is relentless!

[@jsrodman]

Super glad to see the links to the trans saferty network are there.

[@AquaSheep93]

Nish Kumar and Abbie Thorne is something I didn't know I needed

[@dorothea_walland]

i feel you Coco!! (as a wife of a programmer, i try to avoid this content as well) this would be how i sound when i try to chip in a conversation about star wars! 😂😂❤❤❤

[@SurmaSampo]

I am yet to be presented with a functional definition of gender identity. I am not saying it doesnt exist, just that all of the defintions end up self referremcial and therefore basically useless.

[@barryledgister4496]

They say: Gender is a social construct... Yet you can have a gender identity? It doesn`t make sense. Is it a true gender identity, authentic to you? Or one you can pretend to be, because it is a social construct? They just haven`t thought this through, and since the alternative is a simple belief in a birth sex-based biological binary...that`s they way society is gonna go. If they want to play gender games as a hobby...great, they can knock themselves out. But leave everybody else out of it.

[@Aarenby]

Gender is a multi part construction of various characteristics some intrinsic like gender identity and some less so like gender presentation or gender roles​@@barryledgister4496

[@Aarenby]

You could find out but you don't care to

[@barryledgister4496]

There is no `functional` definition of gender identity...it`s a social construct. It will change with cultures, birth-sex, societal perceptions etc. As party of gender theory, it`s just that...theory. Or opinion. But it isn`t scientific with `functional` definitions.

[@Visherex]

And as a young person, our curriculum is about 20 YEARS out of date, and only psychology and sociology cover it

[@Face2East]

"As a young person" ... your KZbin profile is over 11 years !!!! How young are you pretending to be? You are mid to late 20s at best. You should refer to yourself in more grown up terms by now.

[@Porcelaingoblin]

As a non binary person in the UK I get so anxious about being visibly queer, especially in public spaces, I’ve had things thrown out of cars and vans at me and I see it directly correlated to the hatred spread in British media

[@barryledgister4496]

Ah, but the British media is overwhelmingly left-wing. Just like this channel. It`s the Left who are the problem.

[@Aarenby]

​@@barryledgister4496that is patently false

[@prestonbruchmiller497]

I’m living in Texas and use the bus as my primary form of transportation and have had to stop wearing dresses on the bus after dark after having one person spit on me and another person threaten me with a knife.

[@TetsugakuSan]

@@prestonbruchmiller497 how about you don’t dress as a women?

[@silver4831]

​@@TetsugakuSanHow's that any of your business?

[@KristineMaitland]

I'm watching this in Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 and going arrrrrgghh. We expect to see antipathy against the trans community in the US, and we are seeing this here in Canada. Australia, too. As a bisexual cis-woman of colour ally, I am having trouble just keeping up. Arrrrrrgghhh.

[@SarastistheSerpent]

Same. As a cis but bisexual Canadian myself, it’s horrifying seeing anti-trans rhetoric creep its way into Canada. Thankfully it doesn’t seem to be as widespread here yet as in the U.S. or UK, but o suspect it’s going to get a lot worse, especially around the next election

[@chrisbfreelance]

Oppression Olympics.

[@eastvandb]

@@chrisbfreelance Why trot out a phrase so dismissive of injustice and inequality in this conversation? No context, nothing in the post your commenting on to prompt it. Just random trolling?

[@jsrodman]

@@eastvandb It's axiomatic for these people. Oppression can't be a legitimate issue, because that would make them feel bad.

[@eastvandb]

@@jsrodman absolutely