Poj Niam Tiam 21 (Sad Life Story)

[@hmoobnyobtojsiab1481]

Zoo heev li os tij laug koj zaj no Pab tau rau peb cov poj niam hmoob thim xav Los Kho peb lub neej tau ntau kawg nawb ua koj tsaug qhov koj tseem muab tuaj Qhia rau peb thiab os thov koj Qhia tib zoo rau koj tus me poj niam Tej thaum nws ntxhawๆ es Ua rau nws tsi Nco qab xav kom zoo lom xwb nawb Ua zoo Qhia nws es Kho Neb lub neej kom zoo Sibๆ hlub nawb mog💪💪💓💓

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

parichat vaj Ua tsaug Koj pab Nyiam Thiab tig los mloog nawb mog

[@lotolee5908]

Dave Ramsey has a radio talk show host in every state radio station. Find out the schedule time in your home town and start listening to it. It has helped me and my family a lot regarding financial problems. God bless you.

[@luethor]

What a great story! I think he needs to talk to his wife openly about his feeling and goal and how they can improve it. I am sure she cares about him and will make things better.

[@paothao9218]

Tus me txiv tsev zoo...tus poj niam zoo li koj ces ntxov tso..thiaj tsis mob os...es hlub koj tus kheej mog..nws tsis yog ib tug neeg muaj txoj kev hlub...es txhob tos lawm os...lub neej tom ntej tseem tshuav ntau2 yam zoo nyob tos koj os mog

[@TheBoomona]

Personally speaking, both my husband and I came from a very unfortunate family experiences too. He lost his mother at a young age, my dad was never part of my life. Now that we both have good job and steady income, I purchase “expensive” purses too, but personally I have a budget. It’s up to the individual to want to save for a “raining” day. Because we both grew up with no help, we know we need to save because no one will be there for us, but us. I pray you and your wife will find a solution.

[@chunggiang7354]

Txiv ntxawm koj zaj no os kuv tu siab kawg li thiab vim yus tus poj niam tsis pom yus txoj kev zoo thiab tsis yus txoj me kev khwv li os

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Chung Giang yog peb Cov pojniam tiam21 ces yeej yog kiag lino lawm ntag

[@maivnyiajchannel]

hai tau kho siab heev li...

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

ua tsaug koj tig los mloog nawb mog

[@TUBNIS]

Phoojywg koj tus pojniam hlub koj heev os tiamsis koj qhia dub heev rau koj tus niam tsev. Vim koj lub siab me xwb. Koj tus niam tsev zoo heev os.

[@emonrthoa8356]

เปิดใจคุยกันค่ะ และพยายามปรับในสิ่งที่ยังไม่เข้ากัน เพราะการหนีปัญหามันไม่ใช่ทางออก พี่ยิ่งหนี สองคนยิ่งไม่เข้าใจกัน สู้ๆนะคะ

[@rudolphvue8775]

WTH!

[@doolis6300]

Zoo kawg los maj

[@chuayang1287]

I think you both can discuss this in an adult manner without arguing. Discuss with her your concerns and let her know how you feel. She needs to know her limits too. She can shop but she should not buy unnecessary items.

[@tubtojsiab3342]

Mloog kj zaj neej neeg no ma mloog tau tu siab kho siab thb nw muaj qee lub tshiab lu tseem ceeb heev nyob rau zaj no na

[@fivestarchanel5577]

Zoo li kv lub neej li os tij laug , kv wb ib tswm txom nyem los thaum kv me , kv xav kom kv tau ib tu poj niam hl hl kv Tab sis nws tsis zoo li kv lub siab xav li os

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Chinou Hang Ua tsaug Koj tig los mloog nawb mog

[@kolppooii9361]

Zoo hv o

[@sangmeovlog5499]

Nyob zoo tub kwv tib hmong thov pab subscribe kuv lus channel no thiab os ua tsaub...

[@michaelmoua1109]

Chinou Hang tej laus hais tias tau thaj teb tsis zoo ces plam ib cim tau poj niam tsis zoo plam ib sim no ces yog lawm koj lawm lau, yog hais tias hais es yog poj niam tsis mloog ces yuav tus tshiab xwb los mas yooj yim ua luaj.

[@maivpajchannelhmoob4415]

ชีวิตคู่ที่ไม่ตรงกัน คิดไม่เหมือนกัน เป็นอะไรที่ต้องทนจริงๆ หาเงินลำบากแต่ใช้ไม่คิดเป็นอะไรที่พูดไม่ออก ถ้าคนนั้นเป็นคู่ชีวิตของเรา ไม่รู้ว่าต้องทำยังไงอีกฝ่ายจะได้เข้าใจเราบ้าง ไม่ใช่แค่เรื่องของพี่ที่เป็นแบบนี้ เรื่องน้องเองก็มีส่วนคล้ายแบบเรื่องนี้เหมือนกัน เป็นอะไรที่พูดไม่ออก กับคู่ชีวิตที่ใช้จ่ายเงินโดยไม่รู้สึกผิดกับอีกคนหนึ่งที่ต้องอยู่ด้วยกัน คนหาไม่ค่อยได้ใช้ แต่คนใช้ไม่ได้หา คู่ชีวิตแบบนี้ทำให้เหนื่อยใจค่ะ สิ่งที่คิดว่าเราอยากจะได้กับคนอื่นเขาเป็นไปไม่ได้เลยค่ะ เพราะว่าหามายังไม่ทันพอก็เอาไปใช้หมดแล้วค่ะ นานๆไปมันทำให้คนทำงานไม่ได้อะไรเลย ทำให้คนหาเงินท้อค่ะ คิดเสียว่าเป็นกรรมเก่าค่ะพี่ คิดว่าเราคงเป็นหนี้เขาไว้ไนอดิตเลยต้องมาใช้คืนให้เขาจะได้สบายใจค่ะ สู้ๆค่ะมีหลายคู่เป็นเหมือนคู่ของพี่ค่ะ สู้ๆเพื่อนครอบครัวที่ดี และเพื่อลูกๆค่ะ

[@tigerbiterhater]

Like these stories where you tell other people’s true life story , but you narrate it like you’re the person.

[@wamxiong2705]

Zaj dab neeg no tu siab kawg. Thov kom koj tus poj to taub koj. Ib hnub tom ntej no..

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Wam Xiong Ua tsaug Koj tig los mloog nawb mog

[@wanmaimobile6542]

ชีวิตนี้ยากเกินจะบรรยา ถ้าเป็นผู้ชายคงต้องยอมรับให้ได้ในสิ่งที่ผู้หญิงเป็น ส่วนผู้หญิงเราควรรุ้ว่าบางอย่างถ้ามากไปก็ไม่ดีถ้าน้อยไปก็ไม่ดีควรให้มันพอดีพอดี ขอให้ทั้งสองคนเข้าใจซึ่งกันและกันนะค่ะ

[@pkt3996]

ถูกต้องครับ

[@user-fv4fy4zw8i]

Kuv mloog koj txhua zaj dab neeg neej neeg. Koj yog peb ib leej txiv hmoob uas txawj xav mus rau txhua phab. Mloog koj cov zaj nws tau kev lom zem thiab tau kev kawm ntau yam zeev. Ua tsaug koj uas tug txawj qhuab qhia peb cov me tub me nyuam paub nrog luag ua neej

[@Nujtxeeg009]

Ua tsaug os tijlaug uas koj tseem hais rau peb mloog 😘

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

zoo siab thiab ua tsaug ntau uas koj ho pab nyiam thiab qee sijhawm los mloog nawb mog

[@Nujtxeeg009]

Hmong Bedtime Stories Ua li os tijlaug

[@kashiayang5483]

@@HmongBedtimeStories l

[@xiahawj8733]

ດີດີດີແທ່ໆໆ

[@user-td1dv7bf2f]

อยากจะให้พี่ช่วยเอาเรื่องของผมมาเล่าด้วย เผื่อ แฟน จะได้ยินความในใจ เพราะตอนนี้ติดต่อไม่ได้เลย

[@hlubkojxwbosxab8912]

Lub neej ntiaj teb ib vuag xwb es txhob qaug zog mog es cia peb sawv daws yuav tsum xuj2 mus lawm tom ntej mog lub neej no ces tus twg los yeej sib txawv tsis deb xwb mog txhob muab xav rau yus ib leeg xwb os😢💪 tij laug koj cov lus txhawb zog hais yog heev li os

[@niammeejvaj5172]

Fuji Amen will say at the end🙏🏼 Me and my husband has nothing when we first got married I was 17 and he was 20. Even today we are not exactly where we both want to but at least we are healthy love each other have a little money here and there. Remember money comes and goes, brother if she still loves only you and you both still have a job n a little money a roof over your head and food on the table you do have more then you think remember like our elders always say you can have a bank full of cash work so hard your whole life but when you die you can’t take it with you so live life to the foolish because tomorrow is not promise❤️ I actually feel sorry for your wife because a man who really loves his wife he will give her everything she desired. I don’t work I’m a full time mother for 6 kids and their will be a lot of time I want something very nice and cost a bit more but say no it’s ok, my husband will tell me get it when I still have a good job one day if I lose my job you won’t be able to get it no more😢 I’m very blessed and lucky to have married my high school sweetheart😇 Make god bless you both and good luck.🙏🏼

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

NiamMeej Vaj Thank you 🙏 and God bless your marriage

[@maivntxheeyang2872]

Z heev o tij laug

[@yerchang5709]

ยอมรับในสิ่งที่คุณมี และจงภูมิใจในสิ่งคุณเป็นในชิวิตของเองละ แล้วทุกสิ่งทุกอย่างจะดีเอง

[@rudolphvue8775]

WTH!

[@pkt3996]

จริงครับ

[@namua5566]

Tsiv ntxawm koj cov dab neeg ua koj hais tau zoo kaws thiab yeej ua nrau ntau tus npooj yws nws sav tau nrau nws lub neej Kuv thov koj tsuas noj qab nyob zoo os

[@opopopop1816]

txhob tu siab os tu nu kv tos mloog kj li dab neeg os tu txiv ntxawm 😭😭👍👍🙏🙏

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Opop Opop Ua tsaug Koj tig los mloog nawb mog

[@kabblias407]

Yog lawm os..ua ib lub neej nyias yeej muaj nyias ib txoj kev nyuaj siab..kawg sib yoog sib uv.txog qhov kawg nyob g tau ua ke mam mus thiaj g khuv xim

[@Maihoual]

1k+ comments ! 😅😌 Great advice Fuji There's always a spender and a saver in each relationship. I was the saver for a long time. Got sick of it and said F it YOLO 😅😅

[@sathao8662]

zoo nug heev li os tij laug kv nyiam zaj no heev li o

[@jhgghfdfgigfggd8050]

Zoo mloog heev li o tij laug aw ua tsaug kj coj lo piav o

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

aw zoo siab thiab ua tsaug koj ho tig los mloog nawb mog

[@divang2214]

Tus phooj ywg kuv xav tias sim neej no kv lub neej thiaj zoo li no xwb es koj lub neej zoo li kv lub thiab los

[@vuexiongxayteng6650]

nyob zoo tij laug kj zaj dab neeg no kv nyiam heev li zoo yam kv lub neej kv tus poj niam los yeej g nkag siab kv li thb kv yeej ua tiag uv los zoo li nws yeej tsis paub tias yuav uv yus li thb kv mloog kj zaj dab neeg no ua rau kv muaj kev xav muaj kev pab rau kv ntau yam ua tsaug rau kj zaj dab neeg

[@user-ug9wd9wc6m]

พี่ชายคะ เปิดใจคุยกับภรรยาเลยค่ะ ปัญหามีทางออกเสมอนะคะ สู้ๆค่ะ😊

[@sangmeovlog5499]

Nyob zoo tub kwv tib hmong thov pab subscribe kuv lus channel no thiab ở ua tsaub...

[@rudolphvue8775]

WTH!

[@user-cs3so2ke7r]

Peb ib tsoom poj niam hmoob thiab txiv neej yeej xav ib yam nyob rau qee leej xav hais tias nyiaj khwv tau nyiam dab tsi kav tsij yuav yij meem yuav hlua kub los coj yuav khaub ncaws zoo los hnav. Tab sis ntawm kuv tug kheej khaub ncaws muaj cev puav kom zoo thaum tawm rooj thiaj li tau hnav hlua kub tsi tag yuav yuav los coj kom luag qhuas hais tias yus yog tus muaj.

[@niceonly7561]

ทุกปัญหาย่อมมีทางแก้ อย่างน้อยเธอก็รักนายไม่เคยเปลี่ยน และทนผ่านช่วงทีลำบากมาได้ ส่วนเรื่องใช้จ่ายเกิน สมัยนี้ใครๆๆๆก็เป็นกันทั้งนั้นค่ะ ขอแค่อยากเพิ่งท้อ แล้วทิ้งเธอก่อน เดี๋ยวเมื่อเธอเลนจุดๆๆนั้นมาเธอก็จะประหยัดเป็นเองค่ะ สู้ๆๆๆ

[@keebkwmvaj4818]

Ua siab loj os tus kwv tij hauv zaj dab neeg no. 3 ua neej nyb ces yeej muaj ntu nqia ntu ntug li tu tij laug ful.j hai. 1 yim neej twg yeej phoom txog tej kev nyuaj siab zoo li no mu tib yam nkaus os.

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Keebkwm Vaj Ua tsaug Koj Cov lus txhawb siab nawb mog

[@pajzebthoj344]

Compulsive shopping is like a disease, like smoking, or doing drugs. Sit her down and tell her how her spending hurts your family and work on a spending and saving budget with her. Also, take charge of the family money. If she doesn't want to work with you then seek a marriage counselor or ask her to listen to this story, so that she knows how sad and upset you are about her actions.

[@saksitleepatana7508]

พี่พูดได้ดีมาก เล่าได้ดีมาก แง่คิดก็ดีมาก คำสอนก็ดีมากคับ ผมฟังพี่ตลอดมาและผมจะเป็นกำลังใจให้ตลอดไปคับ

[@Kuvcoslus2]

Bro, be thankful u have it all; money, love & good health. Money for ur wife to spend, love from ur wife & good health that ur still able to love & go make money. Appreciate what u have been blessed with. Money is not evrything without love & love is not evrything if there’s no health to enjoy it together. it’s good to worry about savings for the future but u should express how u feel instead of isolating urself like that. Ur hurting only urself! She may be a shopaholic but u can work with her by talking & telling her how u feel. Express that it makes sad, worry & stress but this is not enough to break ur marriage over.

[@user-hg1rx2iq3n]

Txaus tu siab heev li oh tij laug aw.....koj zaj neej neeg ntawv oh...

[@xiamoua2267]

Ntev Tsis taus li lawm ces nyias nyob nyias lawm xwb vim Ua npaum twg los ntshe yuav hloov tsis tau li Thiab os Ua tiag ntshe yuav ua mob rau koj xwb Ua li koj uv tau mas lov

[@mpajxwm]

Tus muam koj hais yog lawm, kuv tus poj niam tsis siv nyiaj tab si nws ua neej nrog nyiaj, nws tsis paub tej nuj nqi, sib hais thaum twg ces tsuam pom sib cav sib ceg xwb

[@pajthao4813]

Yog lawm txoj kev xav tsis sib thooj ces nyias mus nyias xwb os pojniam coj li koj tus ntawd lub neej tsis sawv qhov twg os koj yuav tau ua yam uas haum koj koj thiaj tsis ua mob nawb hlub yus tus kheej thiab txhob hlub lwm tus tshaj yus hlub yus nawb

[@likes5209]

Kev hlub nrhiav nyuaj kawg kev sib nrauj tsis zoo nawb mog tus me kwv ua siab loj2

[@xiavaj5051]

เข้าใจนะ ว่าผู้หญิงชอบ พวกเครื่องสำอาง เสื้อผ้า รองเท้า แต่ว่า เราก็ต้องดูฐานะเราด้วยว่า ซื้อไหวป่าว ซื้อแต่สิ่งที่ได้ใช้จิงๆ ไม่ใช่ซื้อเพียงเพราะอยากได้รึชอบ #เป็นกำลังใจให้นะคะพี่ชาย สู้ๆค่ะ😀😀😀

[@rudolphvue8775]

WTH!

[@user-qv7fi4is2j]

พูดได้ดี

[@thomassimneej7921]

Ok, yog zaj no muaj tseeb, zoo li tus pojniam zoo siab heev (she is very happy about her lifestyle), tiamsis tus txiv lwj siab (very unhappy about the way she behaves). Cov poj niam zoo li no Hmoob hu ua " Tshob Cuab ". Qhov kuv kom nkawd mus sab laj rau Counselor mas zoo dua qhov mus rau kev txwj laus neeg Hmoob hais, nws thiaj tsis rhuav nkawg ntsej muag rau Hm vim ces nkawd yuav tsis xav sib hlub. Enough is enough lady...

[@frknchnk]

To the brother of this story, men were taught to keep things inside and not talk about their feelings, but there is nothing wrong with it. Be open with your wife about how her spending makes you feel as she seems to love you so much. Miscommunication may lead to divorce and you may end up regretting your decisions. Since you are the only one making the money, of course she is going to use it, but give her a spending limit. Nothing will be solved if you keep running away from your family and your problems. No relationship will always be perfect or happy, you both just have to work at it because as far as you may or may not know, she may have been crying her eyes out on her end yet welcomed you with a smile.

[@accdboi704]

Truth..

[@sangmeovlog5499]

Nyob zoo tub kwv tib hmong thov pab subscribe kuv lus channel no thiab ở ua tsaub...

[@mosvaj1385]

Yog nawb . koj mas zoo li kuv thiab chim siab tu siab nyuaj siab los hais tsis tau tawm vim pheej xav tias hais ces yuav sib ceg xwb ces pheej khaws rau yus lub siab xwb qhov no tsis healthy rau koj mog.kav tsij ua zoo nrog nws tham es txhob muab khaws rau koj ib leeg li no mog, ua zoo hais kom nws txhob siv nyiaj yuav khaub ncaws khau tej rau tsis tas hnav tsis tas lawm es tseg nyiaj vim muaj2 mi tub minyuam thiab yus ua neeg nyob tsis muaj nyiaj ces luag saib tsis taus yus li mog.

[@lnchannel1186]

zoo heev li. love the music you play in here. so moving! there is a saying that money can't make you rich. it's love that makes you rich. ua siab ntev os mog. yog muaj nyiaj los tsis muaj tus pojniam ces tsis zoo dab tsi os mog. nws siv nyiaj los nws tseem hlub koj. nws tseem tos koj. nws tseem nrhiav koj. zoo dua tau tus siv nyiaj loj thiab tseem tsis hlub koj li thiab.

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Lub Siab thank you 🙏

[@Prxppy.Harperlife]

Wow. You wife sure buy expensive things. My husband should be thankful & that I’m not that extravagant. I think all you need to do as of now is listen to how you’re feeling deep down, instead of asking for others opinion which can lead to headache and confusion. At the end of the day it’s your life & your feelings. Best of luck to you & your wife! Fuji, you’re right also at the end.

[@user-ug1ju3ye8x]

,tij lauj ua siab loj loj nawb peb poj niam nyiam2 zoo nkauj thiab ntshaw2 hav os es ua zoo hais nawb

[@nkaujhmooobzoonkauj9884]

Zoo mloog heev

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

ua tsaug koj tig los mloog nawb mog

[@nkaujhmooobzoonkauj9884]

@@HmongBedtimeStories tsis ua cas os

[@ninajones1019]

Neb yuav tsum mus qhib 2 tus bank accounts,. Tus 1 yog coj los them nuj them nqi tas tso xeem nyiaj ntau mam li xiv ntau, yog tias nyiaj xeem tsawg kuj xiv teawg. Tus 2 yog saving account yuav tsum muab ua koj tus txiv tsev npe xwb tsis txhob tso koj poj niam npe. Kuv tus txiv yog tus neeg xiv nyiaj loj heev wb thiaj li qhib 2 tus bank accounts. Wb lub neej thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab ntxiv lawm thiab wb kuj txuag (tseg) tau nyiaj zoo heev lawm os. Tus nus, koj poj niam neb ho xim li hais no saib puas pab tau os mog. Good luck to both of you!!

[@TMoua79]

Cheer up brother!!! Just from your story, I believe the both of you do love one another. But, you guys do need help in the financial department. Seek help from professionals if you must. Best wishes brother!

[@mimxyeemyang8121]

Ua tsaug koj lub neej ua tau muab los tham rau peb mloog kuv tsheeg tias yuav ua kev kawm rau peb txua tus ua tau mloog hais txog ntawm neb lub neej thov kom txawj los sib hais sib nug kom nkag siab ua lub neej sib2 hlub mus kom ntev2 nawb

[@chouavang8715]

Is just like gambling! It needs to be control! You both needed to sit down and talk it over family finances what need and want. We work hard everyday are for our children future. Love can over come any obstacles in life we needed to think different strategies everyday. Let her know she a bit selfish and didn’t think of her family!

[@kismyash123]

Yes!

[@hmongmobile8440]

hais tau kho siab heev li, thov kom nkawv rov tig los sib nkas siab os, thov neb sib hlub txhawb rau cov mloog ib yam nkaus

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

LQ mobile Ua tsaug Koj tig los mloog nawb mog

[@HiTuab]

brother your problem is small you are making it big. question you need to ask yourself, do you love yourself? reason i ask that question, it seem to me that you care too much about how other see and judge you. i understand the beginning was hard n you work hard to get to were you are now, but dont forget to enjoy your fruits that you grew. best of luck.

[@yakawin4517]

ต้องเปิดใจคุยกันค่ะ ว่าจะเก็บเงินกัน ให้ลดๆ การซื้อของที่เกินความจำเป็น พี่ทั้งสองก็รักกันดีนะคะ ส่วนเพื่อนฟังได้ แต่ไม่ควรทำตามค่ะ บางทีเค้าอาจเห็นชีวิตเราดี เค้าจะพูดโน่นนี่ให้เราไปในทางไม่ดีค่ะ สู้ๆ ค่ะ

[@user-qv7fi4is2j]

พี่พูดได้ดีๆค่ะ

[@elizabethvang7894]

Brother, instead of complaining, every morning do affirmations and write everything you are grateful for. Eventually your wife will get better. Tell her your financial goals and write it down and put it in a place where you both can see everyday. Make sure you hug her everyday. Best for you brother. I too had walked in your shoes.

[@pahualao5660]

tu txiv hlob kv xav mloog kj hai dab neeg nkauj ntshuab thiab nraug nab heev li o

[@nathangamingchannel5201]

Brother you are given her too much freedom to do what she wants to do. You need to sit down and talk to her about you guys life and start a plan on your budgeting and savings. You have to take control of the situation and explain to her about your future planing for your children and you guys.

koj zaj no kho sab kawg thaum uag tseem mug kawm hab. vim tam sim no kuv log zoo ib yam tsi mua nyiaj no tsi mua nyiaj kawm le. hog qhov uag pọ niam siv nyiaj ntau mag txhe hag lug tsi tshua tsaug txhai log sig qhia poj niam ua lub neej vam mej tom nte tsi zoo log yog tsi paug haig qhia.... peb ua neej ua rau tom nte, mua tub mua ki lawm ceg xav lawv sob zoo li yug xwb. ua tsaug koj zaj dab neeg

[@hmoobyoutube5088]

Zoo heev li o

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Hmoob KZbin Ua tsaug nawb

[@xaisung8829]

Tsiv ntsawm koj hais tau zoo heev li yuav ua li cas kuv thiaj muab tau kuv lub neej tuaj rau koj tham os

[@muajyeejntxhiavmim8831]

Zoo mloog kawg os

[@user-og8to5pe4y]

It's meaningless to have love but not money, but it's meaningful to have love and money.

[@jantaneesaewa3401]

Zoo heev ma. Hais tau zoo mloog heev. Txaus tu siab txaus mog siab. Tshuav tej me nyuam yuav tsum sib2 hlub zoo li yav thaum tseem hluas thiab ma lov.

[@kevphoojyws8229]

kj haig tau dab nees zoo mloog kaws nkaug li os kv mas mloog tas xav mloog dua li os

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

kev phooj yws Ua tsaug Koj pab Nyiam Thiab tig los mloog nawb mog

[@takkatankhamphone5956]

Peb ua neeg nyob peb yeej laj2 nrhiav tau ib tug zoo niam tsev thiab ib tug txiv tsev zoo li o tij laug kj zaj neej neeg no kho sb hv li o cas tu zoo ho g ntsib tu zoo li o

[@MissPeachie]

Tell her to get 2 jobs then she can buy whatever she wants! I shop a lot too, but I work. I also don’t buy $500+ purses because I rather go on a vacation with that money. My husband’s income is for paying bills and mine is for food, gas, and spending. She needs to learn how to be financially independent in case something happens to you. Talk to her first and if that doesn’t work, then separate so she will learn.

[@mosvaj1385]

I wish i can afford to buy 500 g purse but yuav es ho zoo li cas rau yus na. nothing. kuv xum ntshaw kom kuv muaj2 nyiaj xwb los tsis muaj li kwv ib week caum tsis tau ib week xwb thiab wim kuv niag txiv tub nkeeg tsab ntse ntawd ho tsis nrog kuv khwv es kuv nim ntshaw noj ntshaw hnav npaum cas los kuv yeej tsis tau noj tsis tau hnav li muaj hmoo kuv tsuas rau siab sib zog ntxeem kom kuv tau lub tsev rau kuv thiab kuv tej mi nyuam nyob xwb xav mas sim neej no tu siab tshaj plaws tsis tsim nyog nyob tebchaws vam meej kiag es txhob xav ntau2 mog tus mi nus.

[@detsab3008]

Hiaj tau zoo heev og tij laus awm

[@mastershop6082]

tus txiv tsev koj yog neeg zoo tiag2 li os koj tus poj niam tsis txawj xav xwb

[@gaona1838]

Tus brother Fuji your great story teller. We enjoyed you. Hais rau tus brother muab zaj story tuaj....Tiam 21 no peb hloov siab hloov ntsw nawb. Neb ua neb lub neej twb sib2 hlub lawm. Tsis txhob muab tej yam raum2 no coj los ua rau yus lub neej nyuab2 nawb. Yog....money yog neb qhov issues no ces neb yuav tau consult to a Financial Planner to help you both learn to manage money. Money....can break a marriage too!!! Kawg....yuav tau sib yoog thiab sib zam kom kawg xwb ma. Peb los yeej ib yam thiab xwb.

[@nhialor9674]

Brother Fuji, love your advice to this brother. Your words of wisdom are more then gold. Hopefully, this brother took your advice and fix his marriage before its too late for him. She sounds like a good wife who cooks and cleans after him. So don't know why he's complaining and running away from her. I'm a shopper too, in my marriage and my husband complaint just like you. So, I can really relate to your story and feel what your wife is feeling. Brother, does your wife work? If she doesn’t then that would be another side to the story. Because I work hard for my money and if I can’t enjoy my money, bye bye you go!!

[@mayx6375]

Ntshaw nyiaj ces yuav tau kev tuag , ntshaw kev hlub ces kawg pluag .

[@krazykora3488]

Shopping is an addiction. You need to talk to her yourself and figure a spending budget for her. Running from your problem is not going to solve anything. If you don't tell her how you feel, she's not going to know. Set a saving plan and spending plan together.

[@rainwater83]

It's not talking to her, rather it is a personal choice she has to make. It is not going to be an easy one. Sometimes it is not just an addiction, but it is a personal trait. As husband and wife, Im sure they have talked over more than a few times.

[@noulor5301]

I believe that they were already talking about spending money almost every day but she not gonna listen to you, if you still keep talking about spending money ir the right thing again to her then she blames you that you are not a good husband. You can not force or stop any body unless they decide to stop by themselves.

[@chueyang7312]

@Prepare Hmong Christian Go Heaven No, they need to be dirt poor, then they will learn how to love each others, the end.

[@chueyang7312]

@Prepare Hmong Christian Go Heaven You call that love, you must be blind, a blind Christian that is.... Ha ha ha

[@lisahershies5934]

@@chueyang7312 🤣😂😂😂😂😂

[@nkaujhmoobnkwschannel8483]

Z noog heev li og tij laug a kv sav kom kj tham kom ntau heev li

[@tigerbiterhater]

To the brother that submitted this story. Be happy. Don’t be too greedy. Your wife still trying to look beautiful for you. Remember. We only live once. Buy and enjoy whatever that is within your budget.

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

tigerbiterhater you’re right

[@muasvwj4079]

Thov kom kj tu poj niam neb sib sib hlub nawj thiab thov kom kj tu poj niam tib lo nrog kj ua neej kom zoo nawj 👏👏👏

[@huabhakhang8294]

nws hlub kj vim kj yog nws tus qhev xwb peb yog ib tug niam tsev tiag2 yog thaum yus tus txiv hnav phem yus hnav zoo mas txaj muag ua ke nawb kj tus poj niam tsi paub xav xwb os...

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Huabha Khang Ua tsaug Koj Cov lus txhawb siab mus rau Tus phoojywg no nawb mog

[@hopeyouhaveheyyoucan5479]

ร

[@zk-ch3es]

Muaj tseeb li koj hais

[@zeusvaj6866]

Cas koj hais yuav phim kuv lub me need UA luaj li os.

[@tsabyajchanel8413]

Kuv lub neej los zoo yuav sib xws thiab. Tsis paub yuav sib nrauj hnub twg 😥😥😥

[@FieryJuniper]

Nws ntshaw ntshaw yus lub sij hawm kom tau nyob ua ke. It's not just her it's him too. He sound very selfish and needs to work on his marriage. Because of money he wants to throw away a relationship, he gotta work it out before considering divorce. Otherwise it will greatly impact the children.

[@loveacorn]

I can relate!

[@maitxhiablis9926]

Love your story.. you have a very good voice to tell stories

[@mayalee2400]

Brother She still love you, she just needs help, people attend to forget when they have alot of money, have no worries,,,get her to counseling,,i ued to be like your wife too...my husband got me help, i have a habbit for shopping, even i don't need anything, but i just want to buy, and i have to buy it...i went to counseling and now I'm much better...so just help her if you still love her...

[@pahouavang825]

Love how you tell your story. You made it short and to the point. Tus me nus aws nyiaj txiag yus twb ev tsis tau nrog yus mus os. Qhov loj tsuav sib hlub xwb. Tseg ib qho ua emergency xwb es dua li ces siv rau ob leeg los puam chawj os mog. Neeg ces zoo rau lub zam xwb.

[@kershengvang3018]

She can't change for you. You either to live with her or you leave her.

[@HoojStoriesChannel]

Zoo heev li os

[@gogetit2260]

Talk it out together, compromise, commitment. Nobody is perfect

[@onlineletsgo4339]

tau ib tus txiv zoo kawg lawm thov kom tus poj niam ho tseg txoj kev siv nyiaj loj loj xwb ces yuav tsis muaj teeb meem ntxiv thiab vam tias lub neej yeej yuav maj mam los sib nkag siab lawm mog

[@diannamoua2273]

Your wife is a high maintenance woman. We all huddle into love storytelling, but we really need a financial adviser

[@kaishinron4092]

tus kwv thaum kuv los mloog koj zaj no ua rau kuv hlub thiab nrog koj tu siab heev li .tus kwv aw txhob tu siab mog muab tso mus zoo dua thiaj tsis ua mob tsam ua rau koj muaj kev nyuab siab ho ua rau yus roj ntshav puas yus ho tuag thiab .qhia koj paub tias peb poj niam yeej tsis liam tas tus thiab vim nyias kuj muaj nyias kev cop zoo thiab os .yog zoo li ko xwb ces tig rov qab los hlub koj tus kheej os mog , mam nriav dua ua zoo saib tsam koj yuan kev nawb . yog koj kho es nws nrog Kho ces thiaj kho tau hos cov uas nws tsis kam hloov thiab tsis kam Kho ces koj yuan kho tsis tau nawb mog ,kuv yeej pom tias ib cov paj niam mas yeej siv nyiaj loj tiag 22 li lawm thiab nawb. yuav tsis nyog lawm,yog nyob ua ke ces yuav txom nyem mus tag ib sim neej li .tsis muaj leej twg yuav hloov tau yus tus cwj pwm tsuas yog yus ib leeg thiaj hloov tau yus xwb. txawm yuav txom nyem thiab muaj nyiaj los nyob ntawm tus neeg paub qhov zoo qhov phem xwb thiaj pab tau yus xwb

[@minecraftboy2676]

You know your wife loves you, so you should just sit down with her and explain how you really feels about her spending. You have to show her the bills and how much she is spending and how much you have at the bank. She will understand if she cares and loves you like you have said. Communication and compromise are the keys to solve your problems.

[@NguyenTrung-ol1wc]

Nws yos ib txoj dab neeg tu siab kaws tswm xim los rau lub neej tiag tiag

[@matccreditforpriorlearning9865]

Zaj no twb yog kuv zaj thiab os. Ua cas es kuv tsis nyob ua virgin thaum ub thiab lauj. Lig dhau heev lawm os!

[@yaher72]

Tug ko g yog poj niam los nrog yug ua neej los pab yug tab sis yog los kaug yug xwb thaum twg kon laus lawm ia g taus hauj lwm lawm ces nws yuav muab koj ncawg tawm tsev ntag ho ..cov tib neeg zoo li ko kuv paub ntau tug lawm ..thiab g ntev ces nws cem yug ntsej muag dev laus ntag ho ..zoo ces yuab xa dab kiag xwb ..thaum koj pom nws thawj zaug nws g yog ntxhaig ntsuag tab sis nws yog 1 tug poj laib niam ntxiv g yuav muab ncawg tawm tsev lawm xwb ...tug ko yog poj dab xwb ho ...

[@chrisvang5213]

You’re so encouraging brother Fuji

[@HmongBedtimeStories]

Chris Vang thank you for your support

[@sarahvang9402]

@@HmongBedtimeStories es tus brother koj lub neej zoo lawm los tsis tau os. Yog tsis tau zoo no ces qhia kuv paub os lov?

[@sarahvang9402]

Thov teb rau kuv tus KZbin os lov

[@deexiong3179]

@@HmongBedtimeStories tu tij laug qhia rau kj tias peb cov poj niam txoj kev ntshaw ce yog xav tau li kj txoj kev chim ko xwb.tsuav nw tsi ua siab phem rau kj xwb ce zoo lawm.ua zoo sib hai xwb vim tshuav tej mi nyuam os. Nawb.

[@koo6115]

Hi

[@aliumobile9752]

Txau hlub thiab txau tu siab heev li os yom

[@staceychang9685]

Amen to what u say os if ur husband no longer love u don't want nothing anymore cuz ur so broken heart .

[@suahothi9865]

Tus tij laug kj hai yog lawm os vim yog ob leeg xav tsi sib swb xb qhov yus nyiam nw ho tsi nyiam vim li ntawv e ob leeg thj tsi sib nkag siab los rau ntawm lub neej muab xav2 ho tu siab muab xav tia ob leeg ua tiag peev yeej yuav dhau txoj kev txom nyem no tus tij laug

[@leejmuam1]

I guess my husband should appreciate me then😂. No expensive makeup or coach purse. I live frugally.

[@DEARLYDannYka0007]

Gyl lily me too! 😂😂😂 these days we are a rare kind. I’m serious too. Marketing is getting the best of people.

[@Hawaiianorchid]

Yep same here. My husband does appreciate me bc I don’t buy expensive stuff.

[@likes5209]

Peb ua neej nyob yuav tsum ua zoo sib qhia ua kom koj lub neej txhob tawg nawb

[@user-pr4gq9yj1n]

เหมือนกันเลยชีวิตอยากกะโดน​ดัง​ๆว่าเสียใจกับคู่ครอง

[@vivolao6537]

Tij laug kj cov dab neeg kawg lawm tab si luv dhau lawm o

[@annalise227]

Brother, just to let u know that, yes, we women love to have everything, but according to what u say, she probably over spends a little, because there no need to have that many items to the point where no place to put. U need to let her know exactly how u feel about her spending or how she needs to save, and what she bus. But brother by listening to ur story I think that u two have lacked a lot of communication as partner, because u had been spent time by urself alone n thinking about ur life, but not with ur wife, what u need to do is go home n spending time with her n talk about both of urs life together n future together or what to improve, so brother as a couple, the most important is u two need to trust, and communication, without these two steps ur relationship will fail.

[@sangmeovlog5499]

Nyob zoo tub kwv tib hmong thov pab subscribe kuv lus channel no thiab os ua tsaub...

[@qqqqxddddd1200]

tu siab tiag2 li os tus txiv tsev aw cov poj niam yeej siv nyiaj ntawv phaj peb cov txiv neej nawb maj mam sib hais kom nkag siab xwb ces tom ntej no yeej yuav sib yoog tau xwb2 li os tus phooj ywg aw