THIS IS HOW YOU PLAY THE GAME - BECOME A PLAYER SO THE OTHER PLAYER HIS/HER FELLT THE PAIN TOO. PARNTERSHIP/MARRIAGE = MUTUAL RESPESCT. GREAT JOB. GOOD LUCK ON YOUR NEXT JOURNEY!!
@nkaujhmoobtojsiab49702 жыл бұрын
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@myprecious67512 жыл бұрын
Yes she's strong to a point but she should've took it to the max with those in laws of her husband families. They all deserved to be locked up for identity theft, fraud, bullying, shame on her damn family for even forcing her to submit to those evil people. Disgusted she should just told the whole damn world the truth on her husband and his whole damn clan. Who cares if he's a important person or such. For that exactly is why his business should be blasted and them for their evilness. That whole clan is evil. That family is evil. They're hateful people. Hmong people and that old country culture needs to be dispose of.
@Aicas3462 жыл бұрын
Did this to my ex! 👏🏻 Best medicine for the cheaters.
@Quadruple12342 жыл бұрын
You go girl 👧…we needs more woman like you
@STAR-lk3cl2 жыл бұрын
u mean need more cheater girls? hahaha
@juliesiong13512 жыл бұрын
Ua koj tsaug os sister aw koj ma thiaj ua tau haum siab tsaj li os es thov kom muaj coj tus ho txawj ua li koj ua no thiab es cov txiv neej siab dev no thiaj li yuav fwm cov poj niam thiab nawb so proud of you 👏 sister
@Lifemoments542 жыл бұрын
I salute a strong fierce sister and woman like you. This is self respect many of us Hmong women can learn from.
@Susan79pojhmoob2 жыл бұрын
When the dirt bag says "go ahead and cheat too" that means he no longer care so do it back!
@i.h.72682 жыл бұрын
Yay! You go girl!!! We need more Hmong women like this.
@tengher28892 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA! - GOOD JOB!!! HMONG CULTURE SAY DO WHAT YOUR HUSBAND DO. there you have it. I don't fault you at all. F the chump husband like him who think he's the king like we back in the old country. Good thing you did what you did and not think about what others say. Let him feel what you feel whether he cares or not, it doesn't matter. Those who tell you not to do what you want because you're still married didn't tell him the same thing so F it. Glad that you're doing you. Remember hmong women out there... "DO WHAT YOUR HUSBAND DO." thats the culture. Her chump husband wont last out in the world of cheating. Look at him talking about how much it hurt. Hahaha, im laughing at his pain. She's found a better lover and he couldn't take it. What a chump! Im glad she had the upper hand and used it. Good for him he felt the pain hahaha.. What's that saying in hmong culture they always say to hmong woman. "HAVE PATIENTS AND HAVE A BIG HEART." we'll, tell those hmong men to do the same thing. HAHAHA! Everything she said is right! Nothing wrong with what you've done sister. F the CHUMP ex husband. I'm proud of you. Don't ever get back with that chump husband. He got the devil inside of him... LIES! trying to to trick you making you feel sorry for him. Don't fall for that crap. LET HIM SUFFER!! good job not to care about him. He deserved what he got, nothing! Hahaha. When you're satisfy with your life, never turn back. They say you wont find better, you already have... FREEDOM! You do you big girl. TAKE THIS LESSON HMONG WOMEN, dont let the hmong culture lecture your ability to see the truth that hmong culture don't give a crap about hmong women, they don't! If they did, they would protected hmong women from chump husbands. To hmong women, know your value and love yourself first. Such a good story.
@cocopha57782 жыл бұрын
Koj ua yog tshaj plaws 👍
@nengxiong69912 жыл бұрын
Kuv kev xav neb twb ua sib pauj tas lawm ces rov los sib yuav mas !!! Neb mus rau lwm tus los yeej mus tsis txog twg lawm vim neb laus zog tas lawm ne !! Coj neb ob daim degree neb kawm tiav los sib siv rau neb ces txawj sib hlub tshaj qhov qub lawm . Ntseeg kuv ib zaug nawb vim kuv yog hmoob kuv hlub hmoob 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍.
@Behappy-mj4xc2 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg peb cov poj niam hmoob ua ruam ruam tsis muaj peev xwm yuav tau los mloog los kawm tej zaj zoo li no yuav tau muaj peev xwm li tus viv ncaus no luag thiaj li siab taus yus nawb. Ua tsaug rau koj txoj kev muaj peev xwm ntawb mog.
@pkcyang29102 жыл бұрын
Don't need pay him. You already paid with with having all his kids. Your body was used by him and he mistreated you. That's payment already
@amandahwang16922 жыл бұрын
Not only that, he bowed down to her family promising to take care and love her. Since he changed his mind through no fault of hers, then she owed him absolutely NOTHING!
@pkcyang29102 жыл бұрын
@@amandahwang1692 agreed
@staceywolf19552 жыл бұрын
Never take things for granted!
@hersilaher11262 жыл бұрын
Peb cov pojniam tsis muaj peev xwm li koj os vivncaus. Kuv nrog koj zoo siab nawb. Txiv neej ces nyum qhuav phim zoo li no xwb thiaj saib peb cov pojniam muaj nuj nqi.
@geuher73152 жыл бұрын
Thov qhuas koj nawb tus me niam tsev peb cov Poj niam Yuav tsum ua siab tawv li Koj peb thiaj tsis raug txiv Neej tsuj os mog
@Niamhuabtais242 жыл бұрын
👏🏻 Our Hmong women needs to be strong like this! There’s no such thing as a man can cheat because they’re man and they paid.
@chaiihurr41452 жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you! Live your life for you, not for others. When we learn how to value ourselves no one can influence us to feel any less than what we really are. 💯
@maitongvue53972 жыл бұрын
Viv ncaus koj mas ua tau zoo heev thov qhuas koj yuav tsum muaj cov poj niam khov2 li no niam qhuav ntxim rau cov txiv dev liam2 xwb
@choualee30912 жыл бұрын
Kuv zoo siab koj yog ib tug niam tsev hais taus ua tau raws txoj kev ncaj ncees rau peb cov poj niam hmoob. Kuv thov qhuas koj thiab txhawb koj xav kom peb cov poj niam hmoob xav li koj xav kom cov txiv neej no txhob muaj plus lawm.
@maixiong94052 жыл бұрын
Agree 100% 👍
@gaosayvu65542 жыл бұрын
Luag hlub yus npaum li cas ces yus hlub luag li ntawv xwb mas mog
@MissPeachie2 жыл бұрын
I don’t agree with this lady completely. She’s dumb for paying his side $5k just so she can cheat. She had too much time on her hands to play that game. 2 wrongs don’t make it right and it just comes to show how immature they both are. She should have just kick him out and take everything from him. She obviously likes the drama.
@flickeringfire70982 жыл бұрын
She’s not dumb, she giving him a taste of his own medicine. 🤣
@heysoniher2 жыл бұрын
She’s not dumb. She knows that because his family paid that money from the beginning he will say he still owns her. Men say it all the time, “I paid for you so you must do as I say”! For her to pay it back, she’s telling him he no longer own her. She has repaid her debt and can do what she wants.
@heysoniher2 жыл бұрын
Good for you, sister, for knowing your worth! You are one of the few that doesn’t take bullshit from anyone and do what you know is right for you. Many think they are nothing without a husband but you proved that women can be their own boss. I hope you find someone who loves and deserves you.
@baoyang65652 жыл бұрын
And that's how you do it sista.🙋♀️
@flickeringfire70982 жыл бұрын
He sure got a taste of his own poison! LOL!
@kristyxiong41402 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR DOING THIS AND TELLING THIS STORY!!! YOU ARE AWESOME LADy!! ITS ABOUT TIME SOMEONE STOOD UP TO THESE STUPID MEN!! STUPID HMONG SOCIETY!! I give you two thumbs up and keep going. All women need to be like this so these men would stop being azzholesssss!! Thanks so much for standing up for yourself and your broken marriage. You deserve all the love in this world just like an other. You deserve to be happy just like anyone else. No man can control you like this. I would be the same just like you.
@sogsog1112 жыл бұрын
Kuv yog txivneej tabsis kuv agree nrog zaj no, my thumb up 100%. Pojniam muaj cai tib yam li txivneej thiab, txivneej ua tau ces pojniam los ua tau thiab, txhob lov pojniam txoj cai. Everyone is equal. Kev hlub yog 2 tog txaus siab xwb.
@ndxiaheu55202 жыл бұрын
Tus me niam tsev koj zaj neej neeg no hais tau zoo heev..cov txiv neej no lim hiam dhau lawm muaj peev xwm li cas los yeej meem ua los qhia rau cov poj niam ruam ruam quaj tas los quaj dua
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I agree with you...a woman mind of the 21st Century 🙂 Wish you the Best of Luck in finding your true love.
@jiaxiong89912 жыл бұрын
We Hmong women need to stand strong and be more independent. It’s sad how some of our men never acknowledge or appreciate us for the hard work we do for them and their family. One must follow their heart and their happiness. If he constantly cheats on you why should you put up with that? You’re human too! Screw him! Get out while you can and find your own happiness. Sorry but not sorry! These traditions don’t work anymore if one person keeps doing wrong while the other is trying to make it right. She give him his own medicine to taste!
@autumnlossij-muas14902 жыл бұрын
I completely agree. We sisters need to stand strong and support each other instead of judging and going against one another.
@myprecious67512 жыл бұрын
Yes Hmong women need to stand up and stand their ground. Stop being ignorant and realized their worth and values and demand to be treated with respect, love, honor and by right be acknowledged for all that they have done and achieved for the family and the damn husband. He wouldn't be anything with his wife's loving, caring, and supporting him. He has a name because of her, he has a home because of her, he have children because of her, his life is good because of her, he has money because of her. Everything is because she's doing it all. Stop giving your all and stop supporting these no good son of b*tches of Hmong men. If you have a good husband then yes by all means support him and your life together. But if he's a liar, a cheater, an abuser then get far away from him and divorce him. Life doesn't end because you are a single woman. You were single even while you were married. You did everything while all he did is eat, sleep and shitted,. While you are wasting your life away to support him and his family and your children all he's doing is take and mistreated and abused you and your trust. Why should you bust your ass off everyday to support him and all he dies is take your hard earned to support his other hoes. Therefore taking food away from your children to feed his side chick and her children that's not even his. Wake up.
@godness77702 жыл бұрын
You go, sister! im so proud of you! love yourself because no one else will, ok.
@bleubird20232 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is a repeated story
@leek-te5dx2 жыл бұрын
Good for you sister you make us sisters proud!
@kaoxiong61482 жыл бұрын
Sister, I support you and your decision 100 percent. Your ex-husband didn’t deserve you and your love for him. Find a man who will appreciate you and your love…good luck…😩👍
@vangvieng29162 жыл бұрын
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@vangvieng29162 жыл бұрын
Qqa
@myprecious67512 жыл бұрын
Well he got exactly what he deserved in returned. God hates ugly.
@jhmongmusic26142 жыл бұрын
Yes yog li koj hais thiab ua lawm
@maikiaher46622 жыл бұрын
Like the saying, don't hate the player, hate the game. Lol... good for you for being so strong and giving him his own medicine. I hope you can find happiness!
@zouaxiong82332 жыл бұрын
Good thing these old generations of hmong men and women that suppressed women are dying off. Lady you are the new generation, and you did good. I'm proud of you for loving yourself and standing your ground.
@yengher72922 жыл бұрын
koj ua tau zoo heev li pauj tau peb cov poj niam tag nrho tab sis cov txiv neej khib kawg ov kuv thov qhuas koj nawb zoo heev li
@Loves_DuckSR2 жыл бұрын
You go girl! I wished i played the game right like you so the ex can feel the pain he caused me and get him back for all his cheating and abuse. Instead, I just packed up and left him to go find the one he thinks is better than me. Till this day, he's still single and.... lol ;) I won't talk too bad about him. While I, on the other hand, is living my life peacefully, happily, and lovingly. No regret what so ever!!! May you continue to grow and go, sister.
@genalor47952 жыл бұрын
I support your decision all the way. You did the right thing. Serves him right. Taste of his own medicine. Txiv neeg tsis sawv zoo os.
@kouamoua77292 жыл бұрын
Grass always green on the other side
@ncouazooxwbya15522 жыл бұрын
So proud of you sister!! Great job!!
@xwsvwjlor44262 жыл бұрын
Zoo kawj li os poj Noam muaj peev xwm tshaj li os
@paweenahanwachira98832 жыл бұрын
ntuj aw ib tug txiv neej ruam tag npaum kom.txawj swb roob ua hauj lawm xwb. tseem muaj lub siab ua phem thiab.kav rwj nrauj kiag xwb.koj haig yog lawm ua yog lawm thiab (สะใจดี) cov txiv neej khav2 ua hluag li kom. thaum poj niam tau ua txiv neej kawg tuag
@colleenchan98722 жыл бұрын
Bravo 👏
@pojnom57242 жыл бұрын
Two can play the game….
@kaxiong33182 жыл бұрын
YOU’RE AN COURAGEOUS and BOLD woman! I APPLAUD 👏👏👏👏 YOU for BELIEVING of YOUR WORTH. We, women should not be STOOPED so LOW.
@maivang21712 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej yeej muaj lub siab phem lim hiam li no !
@chrismoua69192 жыл бұрын
Zoo heev kav tsij ua nta, Poj niam nyiam sib aim heev, peb cov txiv neej txhob tuag mas, Poj niam daim nqaij zoo ib yam xwb mas
@Shoua6082 жыл бұрын
Thov qhuas koj os tus vivncaus! Kuv yeej xav li koj thiab. Tsis muaj ib txoj cai kos tseg tias txiv neej muaj txoj cai tham hluas nkauj es poj niam yuav tau uv vim poj niam tsis muaj cai. Yog hais txog qhov txiv neej them nyiaj rau poj niam nqi tob hau ces kawg poj niam thim nyiaj rau txiv neej tso poj niam tham hluas nraug xwb.
@minecraftboy26762 жыл бұрын
Hey sister! You did the right thing. Kudos to you!!! Men are nothing without us women! We women can do and live without them. We can survive and do things that the men can. We can fix and built a house too. We can mow the lawn and fix pipes if its need to do.
@Hmoobsibhlub20222 жыл бұрын
Koj tus txiv Ces txiv dev twg Kom nws twv koj tham hlua nraug pab Tsis tau lawm… txiv dev Tsis sawm zoo…
@moyaj36892 жыл бұрын
👍 you doing good job.
@nellvang61092 жыл бұрын
I am totally agree with you sister, good for you. Dont Care anyobody because it's tour life
Sawv daws yeej muaj vaj huam sib luag Hmoob mas hais tias txiv neej thiaj muaj cai vim lawv them nyiaj. Peb hmoob yuav tau xyaum luag lwm haiv neeg. Kuv li kuv cov poj niam yuav kuv xwb kuv tsis tau pe , tsis tau them nyiaj
@lueyang76512 жыл бұрын
Love 💕 the music
@meelee52622 жыл бұрын
Peb cov poj niam ces yog tus txiv hlub hlub ces ntiav peb twb tsis mus li os mog
@christinabthao88252 жыл бұрын
txiv neej ma yom...thaum tsim nyog hlub tsim nyog khib ma tsis hlub tsis khib es cia thaum uas lwm tus sab nrauv twb nrog yus tuav2 thiab phws2 lawm no ces ho ma hlub...tej zaum txiv neej yeej nyiam li no ho
@maivang68722 жыл бұрын
Us Hmong Women need to stand against eachother, it doesn't matter where you live, your husband side of the family will always stand beside the son's side that he can marry or date anyone he want because he is the man, I don't know when Hmong elderly people will change this ugly rule, we are now in America and not Laos, so I'm with you sister.
@myprecious67512 жыл бұрын
Right...They're living here in America and not that old country. Here women have equal rights and women do not need men to full filled their lives. There are rules against him having more than one wife and such a thing that you do not have to accept it. Stop being ignorant and stop letting them family of yours and his bully you or manipulate you to stayed with him and keep allowing him to mistreate you.
@tiachang77482 жыл бұрын
I’m agree I support u sister Love ur self Other people not understand ur painful
@chiaher39622 жыл бұрын
good for you, it's time for hmong's men and hmong's parents to learn their lessons I wish you good luck for future husband.
@duavang94122 жыл бұрын
Ngob zoo o niam lau
@txfr88732 жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo tus muam suab zoo
@sogsog1112 жыл бұрын
The wife did the right thing. Don't go back! Go where your heart leads you.
@fulovelyly91612 жыл бұрын
Koj hais thiab ua yog kawg lawm os viv ncaus. Hmoob twb tsis paub vim li cas 2 tus tib neeg thiaj li los mus sib yuav naj!!!! Tos 2 leeg txias txiv siab los mus sib yuav los vim koj tsis pub nws mus tham ib tug ntxhiv lawm hos nws los tsis pub koj mus yuav ib tus ntxhiv lawm ….. tab sis mas hmoob mas pheej hais tias tus txiv muaj cai tham thiab yuav Niam yau no ne…. Yog tus txiv muaj cai ces peb poj Niam los yeej muaj cai tib yam thiab vim peb twb los tu tau ib co me nyuam rau nws lawm… nws qhov nyuag nyiaj Nqi mus Nqi no es nem npaum li uas peb los yug tej niag pab me nyuam rau nws nab
@xeemxyooj44792 жыл бұрын
Zoo kawg poj niam muaj peev xwm. Trash belongs in the trash. Good job😉
@bluelyvue49152 жыл бұрын
Cas kuv hos tsi paub xwb menkauj hmoob zoo lus aw
@user-vs9sn3ih5u2 жыл бұрын
Koj ua yog lawm tus muam
@leexiong57412 жыл бұрын
Poj niam twb tsis pab poj niam lawm es yuav ua cas txiv neej thiaj kho mad? I would like to hear from all women on this story and this topic: txiv neej thiaj yuav tau niam yau. Koj cov neej tsa yog cov hlwb 75 thiab yog cov tsa nees xwb os. Cov hlwb 75 dev no coj tsis tau teb chaws os.
@meekue1002 жыл бұрын
👍👏
@LoloLolo-ff9hk2 жыл бұрын
Yep, 2 can play the same game.. poker is the game of life.. 😆
@kailao99282 жыл бұрын
Lawv xeem hmoob ntawv yeej nyiam km lawv tu neeg cj li ntawv
@nkaujntse51962 жыл бұрын
These days we women are in the mist of fighting for rights in our marriage and communities because the men has not change for the better. Life is hard with non productive husband.
@livetofish.fishtolive67682 жыл бұрын
👍🏼
@leexiong4302 жыл бұрын
Koj tsiv tsaim nyaum dhau ua tus yeej tas mus li xwb cais neej thiaj puas los maj.. Peb cov txiv neej yeej ntshaw2 ib tug poj niam txawj hlub tus txiv ib yam thiab maj me koj niam.tsis yog koj ntshaw xwb sd.ib yam sav.
@yenthoj90612 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍🍻
@peterlor17312 жыл бұрын
There's nothing perfect in this world. Repent everyone before is too late.
@NiamTxawjXav2 жыл бұрын
Kheej kawg😁
@noukou98522 жыл бұрын
Tu hlub
@nhialor79592 жыл бұрын
Poj niam twb cia nyiaj los them nqiv .
@hmooblor12 жыл бұрын
Ua sib pauj neeg liam ib yam..you are no different then he is.
@youwatchme36312 жыл бұрын
I gonna move to Afghanistan now. Lmaoo. Yus ua pojniam uv taus, pojniam ua ces yus hlob kav hlau. Good luck to our pojniam Hmoob zoo.
@laceycha6282 жыл бұрын
Payback hurts doesn't it...
@zebthojvimkevhlubchannel18892 жыл бұрын
Koj haig zoo kwas li og mi niam laug swb pab mug yom
@chouathao21222 жыл бұрын
hmong ppl be like "koj niam koj txiv" even though they're no longer married.
@suelo6172 жыл бұрын
Koj twb muaj peev xwm npaum ko cas koj ho tsis hloov txoj cai rau poj niam ho mus yuav them nqi rau cov txiv neej ma txhob rawm zoo2 siab os los
@phiayang41862 жыл бұрын
Muaj pheev xwm thiag3 li
@thaevang53692 жыл бұрын
Thov qhuas koj txoj kev muaj peev xwm.
@nkaujntse51962 жыл бұрын
Cov txiv ruam2 no ces yog tib cov hmoob homeless xwb. Tau tus zoo poj niam los tsis paub tuav ruaj.
@iacha68702 жыл бұрын
I give u all the credits, cheater doesn't deserve a good wife's. U make the right decision.
@blueberrysmilie1 Жыл бұрын
Yog cai txiv neej los khoo poj niam xwb, txiv neej thiaj li tuav xwb, tsis muaj lwm tus neeg paub os. (Those are “Men rules” to control women, women who enforce them are not smart)
@seethoj20822 жыл бұрын
Peb cov poj niam yuav tsum khov kho li ko nawb. Yog thaym rus txiv ntxeev suav rau koj ua ntej lawm es hais npaum twg los hais tsis tau ces txhob quaj nyob quaj nyob li feel coob lawm. Tsis tas li ntawv los yog thaum koj twb tu siab nrho txiav txim siab mus see. Hluas nraug lawm yeej meem mus kom kawg txhob rov qab los lawm nawb. Nco ntsoov txiv neej hmoob tsis muaj lub zam txim. Lawv tsuas ntxias koj rov mus ib hnub twg lawm tsim koj xwb. Thov qhuas koj.
@torseingloryankao10922 жыл бұрын
ຜູ້ຊາຍມົ້ງທຸກຄົນເປັນແບບນີ້
@dianeonyxiong94572 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej hmoob ces yeej ib txoj cai stupid li no. It only benefits them. l support u in ur decision. Good for you.
@mickyyang63382 жыл бұрын
We need more women like this… I’m proud of you sis, do what’s happy and peaceful for you! Don’t try to poison your partner if you can’t handle the taste of your own medicine!
@MrKayVa-qj6py2 жыл бұрын
Koj tsi tas Cia siab rau tus tshiab os tus Tom ntej no mas tseem yuav tsim koj mob tshaj tus qub saib mus ma