Poj Nrauj Lub Siab. 8/3/2021

[@mailee6745]

Just spill the bean and tell us who this wicked woman is! We all need to keep our brothers away from devil.

[@HleeWai]

So often we overlook that women can be toxic too. Men can be abused too. This story is so sad and there are many men living this type of life. As much as we women preach about loving ourselves and walking away from negativity I hope the same for men. Love and have enough self respect for yourself to walk away when something doesn’t serve you anymore.

[@Nyab.NojMov]

People only talk about domestic abuse towards women, but we forget that it can happen to men as well.

[@pengvang5831]

Amen!

[@a2dazgod539]

let's talk about individual cases miss feminist. Of course there is abuse on both side. Let's not make it an issue between man vs woman.

[@meexiong9292]

Nyob hauv qab ntuj Nov es tseem muaj tej Tus neeg txom nyem Siab tshaj kuv lawm thiab o hmoob e

[@kaoxiong6148]

WOW!!! What a wicked poi nrauj….

[@jacobsonthomason7607]

Cov poj nrauj phem yog cov coob xwb cov zoo muaj tsawg.yog tsis phem yeej tsis tau ua poj nrauj .

[@Cheenoux]

Txaus tus siab kawg. Twb vim yog muaj me nyuam thiaj tsis xav rhuav lub neej. Leej twg tsis tau muaj me nyuam yuav tsum ua zoo xav ua ntej seb yus lub neej mus puas taus. RIP to this brother.

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

Not every poj nrauj is cold-hearted. It's these evil ones that makes others look bad

[@mailove4879]

I totally agree with you

[@nkaujhmoobthoj2943]

I agree with you, some hmong people always turn to make every poj nraug look bad. We never look at poj nraug side of story too. Hmong people like to judge by the name poj nraug.

[@douayang9269]

Your brother, from a trouble maker to a loving man..10, 15, years from now, someone, PLEASE update about this woman, i like to hear what happen to her, it will be a good lesson to know..

[@yinglor8962]

Wow poj niam los yog poj nrauj lub siab haib tiag tiag..tiam tshiab no poj niam los yog poj nrauj tua tau txiv neej pov tseg lawm nawb...nej txhob lam thab nawb cov yawg

[@Zeb1245]

It’s unfortunate that you lost your brother, but please don’t stereotype that ALL divorced Hmong women are bad news. People are divorced for many reasons and you’d rather see people happier to be single than be miserable or killed in an abusive/cheating marriage. It’s the bad ones who ruined everything for the decent divorced women. I really hope you don’t talk down on your daughter(s) if they’re divorced.

[@maihmoob3646]

Totally agree!!!

[@amazinggrace8136]

Don’t just leave the money in the bank, put it in some index fund so it can build while the kids are growing. In 7-10 years that 500k can possibly be 1 million.

[@lisvaj7375]

I hope your brother is at peace. Thank you for loving him, I can tell he really loved you. Please share with his kids how much he loved them.

[@pajthao4813]

So sad txoj kev ua neej nyob twb txom nyem chim2 tua kiag los tseem tsis tau zoo chaw thiab tus pojniam no siab nyoos tiag2 li tsis tau hnov dua 😴😴😭😭

[@TubTxheebCaaj]

If anyone is ever in this position just leave the relationship.

[@38544488]

Tug poj niam no thiab Karina See Her tua kub yaj yog viv ncaus ho....

[@bosslady8498]

🤣🤣🤣

[@MissPeachie]

That is so sad. He was more miserable married to her than being in prison. His wife is so evil that she won’t even let him Rest In Peace. I hope karma gets her.

[@maihouavue6440]

Wow.. I only heard if the same story but it was abt A Hmong woman. This will be my a 2nd story abt A hmong man. So sad. There is many strange people in this world. Tsis hais Hmoob. Mekas thiab lub hais neeg los yeej zoo lis no.

[@nkaujhmoobtushaibhaib4677]

Wow nej cov poj niam hmoob meka muaj peev xwm tiag tiag yom muaj peev xwm mus khawb tom ntxa los🙄

[@hmong_zoo885]

I’m a man and I’m a bit offended by the title of the story. This title means you are referring to all the divorcée out their. How cruel. You should have named it “My Evil Sister in Law”….LOL

[@vanieyang956]

Not all are bad but I have come across a few toxic, outrageously jealous and evil individuals whose life missions are about revenge, competition, and control.

[@hmoobtojsiab1596]

Hello

[@yausncokojmusibsimxyoojxyo9833]

Pab hlub koj tu kaw heev os.. vim koj tu niam ntxawm lub siab Phem heev os. 😭😭😭😭😭

[@kachiaheu6834]

Wow cas tseem muaj cov poj niam lim hiam siab ntais ntuj tag npaum no thiab os lawv aw...!

[@bosslady8498]

Tus poj nrauj no tseem tsis tau lim liam pua tus Karina S Her . 🤣

[@lubneejkajsiabchannel9019]

😊😊😊

[@Jinjinjin88]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@senghoungypao1542]

Sorry….don’t blame on poj nrauj. She was not a poj nrauj when he married her, she was a meb cab only. Big difference!

[@hmgcrawler]

Very true sounds like it hit close to home, but not related...

[@khugiang1761]

Tsaus tu siab hev li os

[@JRxwb]

Tiamsi tws tsis yog nws sawv ned, yog niab Poj niam tuaj kaws lawm xwb ned. It’s not like he woke up Ava walk away, it’s the b*tch that came and dogged him out. She probably paid someone to come help her dig him up. No woman can dig a dead body alone. Hopefully he comes back and pay her a visit and do her as she did to him while he was living. So sad, I hope he is in peace now after he pay her back! 🤣😁👍🙏🙏

[@mayhleevu2999]

OMG so sad !!!makes me cry so much !!!why he didnt get help if he was depress . that evil woman will get karma !!!

[@ItsYou2]

Im glad he changed everything over to the kids and his brother. KARMA will get to Her!

[@9527MK]

He has come a long way. He shouldn’t hang himself/ end his life. There’s so much good people out there. Never give up just because right now you’re in a tough situation. I refer this to everyone out there. We grow from those tough time and learn to be stronger after that. You just have to stay alive to fight.

[@xisxongxis2035]

คคๅ

[@koulor2270]

True

[@aquariuslady7215]

Wow tsis ntshai kev npam li.... siab nyoos tiag tiag.... tsim tsim tus txiv tuag kiag. Twb tuag los tseem tsim tus txiv tsis txaus li.

[@kuvtshajyexushlub6429]

Hais tau Zoo thiab Tu siab kawg li.. zoo siab uas koj muaj ib tug kwv txawj xav kawg li o thov Vajtswv pab rau kom nej cov kwv tij sib hlub o nawb

[@NiamTxawjXav]

Oh tu siab kawg li nawb. Hlub tus me tub no thiab tseem hlub nws 2 tug me nyuam tshaj.

[@ky3079]

Wow, unbelievable! This lady has the heart to go steal his body from the grave and hide it from you all? And until this day, you still don't know what she did to your brother's body? Crazy lady. Even if she didn't get the life insurance money from you guys, she has no right to take his dead body away like that. Sad.

[@beautifulyang1302]

Well I hope you stay true to the money and find the two kids and give it to them.

[@atheena5858]

Wow wat a sad life... evil poj nrauj

[@illinavang929]

Tus pog vwm no ntshev hnub nws tuag ntshev yuav tuag tsi qi muag vim nws txoj kev phem tsim txom nws tus txiv tuag kiag.

[@ariyachuexiong3407]

Tsis yog tag nrho poj nraug siab phem os tiamsi tus poj nraug kom yeej phem kawg nkag li. Cas nws yuav tsis nrhiav kev pab es yuav tuag ua dabtsi os pab hlub nws kawg li os. May he RIP

[@nkaujhmoobxyooj7632]

Vim neeg lub siab phem xwb os tsis yog vim qhov yog nkauj nrab os

[@kaonisvue3879]

Poj nrauj yeej phem ho, tsis phem yeej tsis tau ua poj nrauj li, xum yuav 10 tus poj ntsuam, tsis yuav ib tug poj nrauj....

[@a2dazgod539]

Think about it. if you been married 2, 3,4 time. who’s fault is it?People always point fingers at others and Are not ready to see the truth. the real problem is themself. Same psychology same heart these people will never change you will find them at the club every Fridays and Saturdays.

[@TracyLovee]

First of all, sorry for your loss. Second of all, stop judging that all divorce women with kids are bad or consider bad luck! Not all divorcee are like that. Hate that you ‘75 mind set is still trash in this 21st century. Should only blame your SIL, it has nothing to do with divorcee people.

[@mailove4879]

I agree with you

[@pengvang5831]

Please say it louder to the Women in the back too. Acting like they are such innocent people where only men can abuse women.

[@pajvuamlauj]

Koj hai tau zoo

[@kevinher3546]

Tus me nus aw kuv nrog nej tu siab kawg li os kuv tsev neeg twb rau lub mob ko thiab peb tus mas yog niam txiv ib txhis raug tas sis nws yog gold digger xwb yog kuv txiv tsis txhob pheej cheem 2 es kom sib uv ces kuv tus nus twb tsis tuag Yog leej twg tsis ntsib ces leej twg yeej tsis paub thiab lawv yeej xav tias tej zaum tsis muaj cov neeg phem li ntawd no tab sis tiam no muaj cov poj niam phem 2 thiab heev kawg li nws xav tias nws ib leeg thiaj li ntse peb tsev neeg mas quaj 2 laus tag plaub hau dawb tag thov kom koj tus me kwv mus zoo thov kom nej sawv ntsib qhov zoo time will heal that all we can do thov lub ntuj lub teb pab rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg os mog

[@wisteria4550]

Wow. Poj niam dab tsi cas siab tawv ua luaj. Av thawg pleb nws tawm los xwb los cas txawv ua luaj. Neej tsa ne…neej tsa puas yog neeg cas txawv ua luaj.

[@nkaujhmoobntximhlub9740]

Fell sorry for your brother he met the wrong women in his life.. poj nrauj lub siab tsuas yog tus pog no xwb tsis yog txhua tus poj nrauj..

[@tswvvaj213]

zaj neeg neeg no kv mloog lawm yeej g yg tiam tus nkauj nrab no 1 leeg xb yeej tim neej tsev neeg thiab vim neej yeej g nyiam tus nkauj nrab no thiab nej txb muab lub txim pov rau nws 1 leeg xb nej yeej pheem kawg li thiab

[@mv.3dfsm715]

Nrog nej tsev neeg tu siab ca nej tu neeg yuav raug tu poj dab ntawv muab tsim2 tuag kiag lo tseem tsi tag qee. Leej twg ntsib tau tu neeg siab phem lim hiam li tu poj dab no yuav tuag lo ua ntawv sib nrauj kom tag mam tuag es saum neej no lo thiaj tsi nyuab tuag mu txog hauv nruab dab thiaj tsi sib ntsib lawm nawb 😭

[@Lifemoments54]

Wow what a heartless and cruel woman. She’s really something. She’s lost her mind and not realized that it is his wishes to leave the money to his children and immediate family. I believe that one can legally leave nothing to his/her spouse when there’s an established will like this. She should’ve just negotiate with your family instead.

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Tus poj nrauj no Yeej Siab phem tiag2 tus txiv tuag twb Muab faus TAs lawm tseem mus muab khawb rov los UA plaub thiab mas lub Siab nyoos thiab phem tshaj plaws li lawm os 😭💔

[@cocopha5778]

Txawv kawg tsis tau Hnov dua

[@maihmoob3646]

I pray that my sons will tell me everything no matter what and never have to end their lives this way. I can't believe there is a woman like this in the world. Smfh my heart hurts so much as a mother. Death is not the way out, there's always another way 😢😭😿

[@7stars2love]

Wow I think I heard a similar story from the woman's side. Crazy woman.

[@bosslady8498]

Wow! Mind to share her side ?

[@avnamo5787]

This girl in red is their 3rd daughter. She looks like her mother, May Vang.

[@pahouaxiong6142]

Tsis yog yuav thuam poj nrauj os, yeej muaj tej tus siab yeej phem lim hiam lis no yog leej twg raug leej twg thiaj paub xwb. Koj tus me kwv uas neej nyob hais tsis tau ces mus uas dab mam los qhuab qhias nws xwb mog.

[@tsis-k-koj]

Sadly when the 2 kids grow up and turn 18 their mom will convince them to give her some of that money. Since she raised them. She might even make their dad out to be the bad guy.

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

Damn. Phem tiag tiag.

[@hmonggodmother7154]

Wow, you guys should put her on blast so other mem don't get abused by the hole again.

[@dahliaxiong4731]

This story is so sad but there are many missing details to prove who’s wrong and right. I believe the problem started from the family who was being mean and dislike the wife first. This “brother” didn’t tell the whole story and he seemed to hide many details. Idk who’s right and wrong but I feel bad for the dead who didn’t get to Rest In Peace. People, please stop judging when you only hear one side of story.

[@rickythao2834]

Yeej muaj tseeb kawg nkaus nawb yog leej twg tsis tau ntsib poj nrauj siab phem, lwj Liam mas txhob maj tuag kuv xav Kom nej txhua Tus ntsib Kom txhua Tus thiaj paub cov niag Mos ntsuab nteg qe tsis txog lub Siab phem lim hiam mas nej thiaj paub, kuv twb yog ib tug ntsib los lawm nawb, zaj dab neeg no kuv ntseeg txog 95% tias poj nrauj phem lim hiam Tshaj plaws

[@msmaix808]

Shes a black widow!! So sad for him. Even when hes gone, she still torture his left behind body.

[@hmongremark2686]

Koj tus kwv tsuas tsim nyog yuav tus poj nrauj no xwb ces nws thiaj ntau los ntsib nws tus poj niam phim nyog nws no ntag. Qhov no yeej pauv tsis ntxiv tog twg vim yeej zoo sib xwb lawm.

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Brother, it's heart breaking to loose a loved one. Your brother was not smart. He had a choice to leave this evil poj nrauj. Most poj nrauj are home wreckers. He's in a better place now.

[@microbiologist50]

Wow, such a sad story. Feel so sorry for your brother.

[@ntxawmthor-hp3vf]

koj tus niam ntxawm siab tawv tiag2 muaj peev xwm mus khawb nws lub ntxa siab phem tiag2 tseem muaj txiv yuav thiab ces ntawv tag lawm o

[@houalor6520]

Cas siab phem UA luaj li os. Yog tus txiv neej twg tseem mus yuav thiab UA twb zoo saib tsam koj ntsib lub uas nws tus txiv ntsib nawb!

[@xyoojmeelauj7355]

Koj tsev neeg Nej Txhob noj koj tus kwv No cov nyiaj nawb mog. Tseg Cia rau nws ob tug tub xwb nawb..

[@emilyherr5352]

He works hard to be a good man why wasted for a woman that is not worth? Khauv xim nws lub neej kawg li cas yuav xav tau ruam7 es txov txojsia li.

[@neejntsiablis7440]

Nws twb tsis muaj chaw cuab zog thiaj pheej hu nej nrog nej tu siab

[@hlubforlife]

A miserable life picking up someone's garbage.

[@seanmoua6810]

Neeg lub siab...tuag lawm lo tseem yuav muab qwb tau theev kom tawg mu li.

[@lemlem6608]

Wow how scary. Very would like to know what happened to his body after courts and everything.

[@Dawb_lis_6301]

😲😲

[@iatsaab09]

Uhh..crazy woman alert. 🚩🚩 Let her name be known so everyone can stay away. Hope your brother find and is at peace. 🤗

[@sunshineyang953]

Nyias hus nyias kwj tse xwb. Tim nej tsis hlub nej tus kwv xwb nej ua2 teeb meem tsim2 nws lub neej lwj2 siab nws thiaj tuag kiag lawm txhob muab liam rau nws tus poj niam ib leeg ris os. Pab hlub tus tub ntsuag no heev vim nws raug nej tsim ib txwm los mus txog ntua hnub nws tuag kiag.

[@xwmkabyang354]

Tib neeg tiam 21 no lub siab limhiam tiag tiag li lawm od yom

[@somman9639]

Txaus ntxhai thiab os tu siab yuav yuam kev lawd

[@tauzoo5998]

Tsis matter tias poj nrauj yawn nrauj, poj ntsuam yawg ntsuag los nyob ntawm tus neeg lub siab xwb. Peb txhob saib tsis taus cov txiv neej es mag mag poj niam tsim. There are many man out there that get abused by their wife but says nothing bc no one will believe them or will make fun of them.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

This is what they call generational curses. Old man started evil and passed it down.

[@meecha7154]

Wow.. shameful on that woman. Evil.. she reap what she sow.

[@QSL.]

Just controlling that is all... control that's all we all want! Wow

[@kevinlee2791]

I know one mean Nkauj Nrab too, she over control her husband the money and he can’t go see his own mother

[@bosslady8498]

Are you the husband? Better run for your life . Lol

[@MV-ct6nj]

So judgemental!. Do not label all the same. Sick of judgemental pple!. Maybe ney yeej phem txaus nkaus rau nws thiab os

[@yilengyang3325]

Koj ceev faj tsam nej niag niam ntxawm ntawv hos tuaj tua nej nawb

[@monkeybanana9269]

Why stereotype? It doesn't matter who you are with. Relationship can go wrong anytime since the future is unforeseen. Love is just a gamble. Sometimes you get lucky. Sometimes you don't. Your brother just got unlucky. He shouldn't had ended his life. I really don't understand some people- if they are really unhappy, why can't they just divorce? Better to divorce than to die in a toxin marriage.

[@npaujthojnpaujthoj8926]

twb tias ntshai ntshai tsam tej mi nyuam ua ntsuag no sam cas ho tsis nyob hlub tej mi nyuam ho dai tuag lawm thb ma

[@No1uknow68]

I had a sis in law like this one too. Her greed and evilness killed my brother. She lied and had him put in jail many times. Put a restraining order on my brother but came around all the time especially when he got paid. She put him and their 4 children through hell. He suffered a stroke and died the night he came back angry from her house. She had stole everything from their life and put my brother on a $20 weekly budget…when she didn’t even held a job. She knew he could never hurt a soul and loved his kids with his entire being. I watched my brother cried many times when he saw us with our kids and he couldn’t be with his. Like this brother says the things these evil women can do is unbelievable, and it will leave you sleepless many nights. I wish I knew who this brother’s evil ex sis in law woman is. Just so I can keep my brothers, and the men in family away. Yuav tau ib tug poj dab zoo li no ces yus tsev neeg yuav puas tsuam mus.

[@nkaujmoobleeg]

Wow! How sad! I hope your brother find peace after life!

[@Loves_GodSR]

Nay your brother finds peace. Sorry for your loss

[@tinatang8649]

No way , the law who ever buried his body have more power, in this country no body can dig the dead out unless he or she won the court case n the Peaple who dug the grave supposed to get papers from court thought,

[@myssxyooj]

As the legal wife she has the rights. I’m sure she file a petition to exhume his body in order for the people to dig it up.

[@YajMorey81]

That is so crazy! I heard a similar story on TV couple years ago. I hope your brother is at peace.

[@mklv634]

Twb yog nws tus txiv nws yeej yuav tsum muaj txoj Cai tau cov nyiaj insurance ntawv thiab...

[@nkaujmoobleeg]

If nothing was set in place then she is entitled to every penny of it but bcuz he did not leave it for her n he has 2kids so only the kids got it. That's why everyone needs to have a living will if you dont want your spouse to get everything.

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov poj nrauj tam sim no yeej siab phem li no hos...

[@chiaher7121]

Nej teb lus ko tsis muaj neeg ntseeg li tos thuan poj niam chim los zoos lawm nej muab tes nyiaj noj tag tsis pub me me rau tus poj niam mas nej lim Guam tiag tiag zoo thiab Pham los nwe twb yuag tau thiab 2 tug mi nyiab ua ke es txawm zoo thiab poem los nej yuav tau muab me me rau nas thiaj yog nej muab noj tag es hnub no nej ho tias nej muab rau nas 2 tug mi nyiab tab sis mi Muhammad ho nrog niam nyob no mas tsis myself nej li naw

[@hlubvimkoj4320]

This case maybe needs to go to Hmong 18 Xeem…..??.

[@cheexiong1634]

No point...they cant do anything...do american way go court fight for it.

[@kuvxwb9555]

Poj niam dev zoo li ko muab lawb coj koj tus kwv mus yuav dua ib tug tshiab thiab lau. I would have taken him and pay for another wife for him.

[@colleenbui1009]

Just wondering why he didn’t asking around why is she a divorce woman? So sad! :(

[@herko311]

Listening to this story, I don’t blame the poj nrauj, I’m sure your mother is a monster in law! Your family is to blame too. First, your mom convinced your dad to divorce his mom and “txeeb” the two boys to make your dad love your mom more but your mom didn’t love the boys. The older son deal with his depression by rebellion. Then he married a poj nrauj, your family judged her from the beginning and didn’t like her because of her status. Your family is to blame for his death. Your family stole everything from her and brainwashed him. Karma will catch up to your family!

[@yuxianlee2864]

😢

[@Zary2024]

Sadly the wife will get the money sooner or later. Her boys will give it to her when they turn 18. But at least you held your word and saved it until they are adults.