The way these monsters rationalize their actions by blaming the female, turns my stomach!
@NineteenEighty83 ай бұрын
well, the witness did say she was hitting and grabbing himself then he hit her back.
@mistressadina983 ай бұрын
sickening how common this is
@SaGuets3 ай бұрын
@@NineteenEighty8 suuuuuure, the video looks so like it. And a punch straight to the face is so self defense.
@cynthiatolman3263 ай бұрын
The way the victim lies turns my stomach.
@abelis6443 ай бұрын
@cynthiatolman326 Toxic people living toxic livesI've been on my own with my dog for years. I do what I want when I want. It's bliss!!!
@Ch4se63 ай бұрын
Shoutout to the front desk lady for calling the police and speaking out and trying to help!
@tatorgator38113 ай бұрын
Front desk lady is great. I hope the wife was able to escape from her abuser. FYI - victims of DV who are choked/strangled by their partner are 750% more likely to be murdered by said partner.
@lucyhanna51723 ай бұрын
The front desk lady cared enough to call the police.
@deborahapostolou80783 ай бұрын
Definitely, it's too bad that the cop threw her under the bus by telling the guy that she's the one who called. It's not necessary, and it's definitely not cool.
@Tiredofitall-oy7cl3 ай бұрын
5 felony domestic violence charges and another one here? No woman is safe - this animal belongs in prison.
@RiverGirl.3 ай бұрын
Absolutely, it will never get better.
@carycoller31403 ай бұрын
What about her? She continues to take him back. Both are the problem.
@lindarockafellow50583 ай бұрын
Cary collar, there's fear involved in the decisions women make. Even men!!
@genericalfishtycoon38533 ай бұрын
If you get into the situation where this creature thinks you belong to him, it's definitely half your fault. Too stupid to be manipulative, so there's no excuse. I'm sure he's equally the victim as the abuser. They're both clearly dumpster fires.
@marybourgeois52353 ай бұрын
@@carycoller3140Because she's afraid of him. She's got to be DE-PROGRAMMED.
@tomh.75863 ай бұрын
Doesn’t work, doesn’t drive. What does he have to offer besides violence and inebriation?
@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax3 ай бұрын
And he still has a woman. That's the sad part, lol.
@jessw97943 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, things in her life must have taught her not to have any self-worth, so she endures it, thinking she won't get any better out of life because she doesn't deserve any better. I've been in her exact shoes, & it's tough. It takes therapy, support, & time to see any differently.
@preppingforendtimessurviva63263 ай бұрын
@@jessw9794sad , very heartbreaking
@msjanzzee3 ай бұрын
@@jessw9794 I've been there too. You pretty much wrapped it up perfectly. I was able to break away with family support. It was like trying to scrape gum off the bottom of my shoe. I pray you are doing well now 🙏❣️.
@jessw97943 ай бұрын
@msjanzzee Thank you! My family is...difficult, & mostly why I ended up in situations like this. It took a couple of people & hard work to get where I am, & I'm still working on it. I'm sorry to hear you went through it too, & I hope you're in a peaceful place now!!
@lindaburger26953 ай бұрын
Honey, take your dog and run and don't look back.
@preppingforendtimessurviva63263 ай бұрын
Amen
@aussie16303 ай бұрын
She wont leave him. She wasn’t helping the cops or herself.
@PatrickSBellSr3 ай бұрын
"This happens every time I get drunk - she'll make it my fault." WOW, this guy needs to be behind bars for a while.
@Klied3 ай бұрын
Baby you know I love you why do you make me hurt you like this?? -their mentality
@leese.233 ай бұрын
Cameras don't lie dirtbag.
@amandahood78613 ай бұрын
Damn right disgusting
@YvetteFromOuterspace3 ай бұрын
I dated this 1 guy.He's his own private contractor. I cleaned out his work truck and his own personal truck. 2 days later I found condoms in his work truck. So with that being said I went through his phone while he was sleeping. Found my proof. I didn't say anything about what I found in his phone. I got all my shit together and got the fuck on.( 3 weeks of silence )He popped up at my job, I'm a LPN for long-term care nursing home. Luckily I did😢 not work that day. He came up to my job snatched open a secured keypad metal door. He's an ex- marine too.
@MomentsInTrading3 ай бұрын
If you listen to what he says at about 8 minutes in, he has a warrant for felony DV, his 5th time if he is convicted. Plus this case. What he didn’t explain clearly is that he will get repeat offender status when sentenced, so he is probably looking at 10-12 years.
@gracevictorious39223 ай бұрын
Why is a grown man running around shirtless and drinking while his wife is at work?
@ComaLies2253 ай бұрын
Because he’s a leech and she has low self esteem. I hope she gets out of that relationship
@looknbakatu3 ай бұрын
@@ComaLies225, You said everything!👍🏾
@lisaschuman31563 ай бұрын
Living in a motel?
@annjepsen16213 ай бұрын
@@lisaschuman3156 It's more common than you'd think.
@davidcaves18723 ай бұрын
Because he gets away with it. Not this time!🎉
@farmyardflavours3 ай бұрын
The victim mentality 🙄
@bivvystridents37523 ай бұрын
They all do it .
@NicoliRavioli1173 ай бұрын
@@bivvystridents3752Yup. It is NEVER their fault. No matter what. They never accept blame. “Come on baby, you know I love you. Why do you make me do this to you??” 😒🤨
@stansbruv31693 ай бұрын
Thank you for calling the police desk lady!
@leigh423 ай бұрын
Also shame on the officers for arresting a pregnant man. Clearly nothing is his fault.
@nycatlady23143 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@deborahwingard7763 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@OhCeCelia3 ай бұрын
👏👏🤣
@marilynsmith3653 ай бұрын
And they cuffed him behind! Thoughtless!
@davidcaves18723 ай бұрын
Good one, Leigh!😂
@demonictelevision94273 ай бұрын
I love it when the tough guys become pathetic cry baby, music to my ears 😔
@TheTrueandRealBuggo3 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 why is this funny?
@rustyshackleford11143 ай бұрын
True story here: My uncle was a major jock. High school football player. Toast of the town. Got away with anything and everything. Had an ego the size of Texas. Problem is, he wasn't good enough to play college ball and he graduated high school, became a loser, and started crying about how nobody loved him when he got drunk. Off of two whole beers.
@tedwilson28443 ай бұрын
@@rustyshackleford1114 TRUE STORY! I DON'T GIVE A SHIT!
@rhondacoleman6303 ай бұрын
She claims she didn't get punched in the mouth however she seems as though she can't open it much to speak . Never defend a drunk who is violent with you .........next he could turn on your child . He needs help ............but blames her 🤔
@phoenixlee79493 ай бұрын
He already turned on her dog
@tammyhart64673 ай бұрын
I’m actually scared for this poor woman. 😢😢
@looknbakatu3 ай бұрын
you can be scared for her, but until she gets scared for herself, will this situation change.
@dashawnrobinson64362 ай бұрын
No way
@jonkirk13093 ай бұрын
What a coward.. if he really wants to off himself then bite the tongue... He wouldn't off himself ever, just another failed tactic to not get arrested
@downhomesunset3 ай бұрын
Yeah-IDK why so many people think stopping at the hospital is a ‘get out of jail free card’!!!!!
@dashawnrobinson64362 ай бұрын
Like, I can’t breathe?
@jenxstv10673 ай бұрын
He is a classic abuser, every abusive man blames their partner. It's disgusting and it makes me sick to see a coward of a man like this
@zukosmom37803 ай бұрын
Broke my heart to see her in such denial. I hope she gets the help she needs and divorces him
@kalnfornia3 ай бұрын
She’s probably scared to death of being killed if she spoke up
@starlitestarbright5143 ай бұрын
His manipulation tactics are horribly childish and dangerous.
@Theheadgiver3 ай бұрын
Gotta love how he blames his behavior on alcohol. You know you can just, not drink right?
@reginagilby11013 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Flowervibes1013 ай бұрын
There's something called ✨️addiction✨️ and you can't "just stop" drinking. If it was that easy then rehab wouldn't be a thing
@ominous272 ай бұрын
He actually blamed the lady for doing stuff when hes drunk lol so even worse
@dashawnrobinson64362 ай бұрын
You’re homeless? Just buy a house!
@dashawnrobinson64362 ай бұрын
@@Flowervibes101KZbin commenters aren’t the smartest
@tjbaden3 ай бұрын
Pretty amazing how he went straight to victim mode with the cop. Dude is an alcoholic who needs more than intervention.....he needs karma in jail
@ByHerHand3 ай бұрын
This is what I deal with everyday. Violent abusive men blaming women and children for their shtty life choices and using them to release their rage and frustration. I hope this woman gets the courage to leave sooner rather than later.
@LilyJ00003 ай бұрын
Sending you love and strength to get thru your days. I can imagine it gets hard to deal with💔💓💔
@lisaa70113 ай бұрын
Shot me, but these handcuffs are too painful. Omg there is no amount of jail time that’s gonna fix this.
@GregorioP4r4g3 ай бұрын
"I want to kill myself!" So what? Go ahead, stop talking about it.
@Flowervibes1013 ай бұрын
😅😅
@diamonddave163 ай бұрын
It’s an unemployment solution
@JayNAmyHiatt3 ай бұрын
What set him off once he got in the police car? He was somewhat ok before that.
@MishaDalila3 ай бұрын
@@JayNAmyHiatt Never let a drunk person near a mirror for too long. You can see at 10:30 he saw his own reflection on the glass. He probably though it was another drunk guy or just seeing himself in the mirror as the miserable human he had become.
@dawnboese66133 ай бұрын
All because he couldn't smoke 😂 he even says it. You wouldn't let me have a cigarette so I want to die then. Wow
@traciway57293 ай бұрын
Not the dog😭
@taniesha643 ай бұрын
Her face is swollen and she's going to defend him. Being drunk is not an excuse to abuse your wife. She needs to leave it's going to get worse.
@MegNotTheStallionАй бұрын
As someone who has worked with DV victims for over a decade, it is very common for victims to say nothing happened or try their best to keep them out of jail. They fear how bad the beating will be when they get out or that they'll be k*lled
@doodlebug363 ай бұрын
“Every time I get drunk this is how she acts.”
@maryhoang80813 ай бұрын
So he’s got 3 felony warrants for domestic battery and he’s doing it again
@deborahapostolou80783 ай бұрын
Why would the cop say that the front desk called. He looks like the type of guy that would retaliate.
@R.Sole881093 ай бұрын
Exactly, as the officer, say you had a report but weren't told who the RP was.
@Flowervibes1013 ай бұрын
He can say that if he wants lol 😆
@deborahapostolou80783 ай бұрын
@@Flowervibes101 I need Google translate, I have no idea what you're trying to say.
@Flowervibes1013 ай бұрын
@deborahapostolou8078 yes you can you goofy 🤪
@Spitsixx6-dj7of3 ай бұрын
Damn deadbeat
@chrischristoferson11913 ай бұрын
Ahhh so it’s HER fault you punched her in the face? Gotcha.
@Meow_19923 ай бұрын
" I'm gonna throw a temper tantrum like a two year old, even though I'm a grown adult "
@winkey38763 ай бұрын
Ohhh a warrant for DV…makes sense 🫠
@alisong23283 ай бұрын
Is he boasting about having 5 DVs? And it's never his fault, right?!
@YvetteFromOuterspace3 ай бұрын
Ladies, listen up. Protect your children, protect your education, protect your money, and last and not least protect yourself.
@dashawnrobinson64362 ай бұрын
Yourself before all of that. Be better for yourself to be better than others, type of thing
@WoodlandT3 ай бұрын
That backseat performance was pathetic, pure manipulation. The dude is a sociopath
@Missangie8273 ай бұрын
Drunks ruin everything! That's how SHE gets when HE gets drunk? really?
@mouseandryforever68483 ай бұрын
Horrible male violence and she is so afraid of him that she covers for him. Abusing animals, women, children: typical make pattern violence
@bajoobiecuzican3 ай бұрын
Some people just can’t live in a civilized society!
@Delatta19613 ай бұрын
The woman works, he stays in a hotel room and drinks, then gets violent, with 5 felony DV charges. Lady he’s a looser, run now, run far and get away
@packersmockdraftsimulator47813 ай бұрын
Always the Victim - the video showed the man attacked her
@Michael-jm7pl3 ай бұрын
Put your phone down and talk to the police
@babyjane873 ай бұрын
She doesn’t want to and she didn’t call them
@Brian-bd5vb3 ай бұрын
@babyjane87 we can debate domestic violence victims mentality forever, but bottom line here is the officers are investigating a crime. She can be charged with interfering with an investigation. It dosnt matter that she didn't call them, or dosnt want to speak with them. If that's the case, then plead the 5th and ask if your free to go, but don't pretend to be busy with a phone call.
@Weeeewriter3 ай бұрын
Sad thing is, you see that everywhere. People are addicted to their phones, zoned out from reality.
@SaGuets3 ай бұрын
I think she is hiding where she took the punch. I already did the same, its almost subconscious, its a denial..
@Brian-bd5vb3 ай бұрын
@@SaGuets I'm sorry about your situation.. I hope you got out and stay out. That denial can be very powerful and a subconscious decision.
@debraperry98863 ай бұрын
Quote " This is how she gets when I am drinking" We see how you get when you're drinking. Her face was swollen because you used a closed fist. We're you bored while she was at work? He had a warrant for the same thing. Girl if you read this, you can survive without him, you said he gets like this when he's drinking. He was already mad at you before you arrived. Been there, done that, he will never change with you because he knows he has a punching bag.There is help out there, I hope you have the courage to look for it
@Delatta19613 ай бұрын
That was the stupidest thing I’ve heard. On an up note, his back tattoos say “one dude at a time”, so he’ll make lots of friends in prison
@looknbakatu3 ай бұрын
i’m assuming You’re speaking from living a similar experience, hearing it from someone who’s been there may be the best source, Glad! You’ve moved on & hoping You’re letting life treat You better!🙏🏾🥰
@truthhurts28793 ай бұрын
She looks like her jaw is broken... I recognise it from personal experience more than once from my ex.
@gracevictorious39223 ай бұрын
Sorry 🙏
@Orlandiannee3 ай бұрын
Literally thats the first thing i noticed her jaw look swollen
@zippymacadoo63363 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. I hope you're in better place ❤
@lynngold18653 ай бұрын
I saw her restricted movement in her jaw/mouth.
@daisy13joyce3 ай бұрын
What a jerk. She always does this when I get drunk!!!! stop damn getting drunk !!
@abelis6443 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for people like this living horribly toxic lives. Where is there joy, love and well-being in such an existence.
@CliffordXHA13 ай бұрын
Freud said "hatred of women starts with a mother"
@toniawhitinger12383 ай бұрын
He already has a felony warrant for DV... That is not a fukń surprise 🤷♀️
@phoenixlee79493 ай бұрын
5 of them
@HEMI-MOMMA3 ай бұрын
How does ANY judge allow him to have any contact with her. He should be behind bars!!! The judge should be disbarred!!!
@Pedro-uu1oc3 ай бұрын
Why are these people always on the phone while talking to an officer? Who tf is on the phone at this time, their lawyer?
@darth88223 ай бұрын
This guy certainly has more than a few problems...
@Mannard743 ай бұрын
Looks like he's got it made.. sent the woman to work while you sit in the hotel she paid for and get drunk (beer that she paid for too?)
@rustyshackleford11143 ай бұрын
Lord Vader is like, "Man, this guy really needs to touch some grass".
@mazzy1313 ай бұрын
Gaslighting at its finest. "Every time I get drunk, SHE acts this way". From just a visual of the video, in my personal opinion without sound, or what went on behind closed doors..It looks like she wants to walk her dog and remove herself from his presence. And maybe he just doesnt like when a woman walks away from him. But she needs empowerment, counseling, and good people around her, to lift her up! He needs help seeing what alcohol does to him, and situations while under the influence. Alcohol will fuel that jealousy and it will only get worse, until someone ends up seriously hurt or dead. I hope this woman can find her inner goddess of strength to move on and love herself. Because SHE is worth it!
@Flowervibes1013 ай бұрын
My friends ex likes to verbally abuse and embarass my friend when he's intoxicated. The amount of times we had to split them up at the bar 😩
@mazzy1313 ай бұрын
@@Flowervibes101 so sorry to hear that! I hope by mentioning him being an 'ex' that she no longer has contact with him.
@Flowervibes1013 ай бұрын
@mazzy131 no they live together and everything. He basically provides for her. It's really complicated but I'm just glad she's a strong woman. She isnt timid or shy and I have seen her hit him so it's basically a domestic problem but he's the aggressor
@mazzy1313 ай бұрын
@fabulous.22 geeze that's tough. I wish you the best on that situation, as a friend I'm sure it can take a toll.
@patriciaharden5253 ай бұрын
They are not supposed to be in contact or anything!!!!! Crimes against each other... Why???
@bigfudge59783 ай бұрын
I got one against her... She has three against me.. Every time I get drunk, it's her fault!. Good grief
@saleendriver3 ай бұрын
Needed the burrito restraint
@just-a-cupcake3 ай бұрын
I hope he goes to jail for years. Give that woman a break. She could hardly open her mouth! He's boo-hooing about his pinky hurting??!! 😂
@nerlyferistin63613 ай бұрын
Please divorce NOW!!
@annettekosten27523 ай бұрын
What a pathetic person. She needs to run far, far away. Ridiculous. The way he's whining about his arms, I don't think he actually wants to die. He's a big baby.
@Brian1Graves3 ай бұрын
Threatening to kill themselves is just a ploy to get into hospital and once at the jail, get a room alone under supervision.
@leesashriber50973 ай бұрын
Unbelievable. 🙄
@AshMc19703 ай бұрын
“This happens every time I get drunk, and then she makes it MY FAULT” Yeah buddy it’s all HER fault 😂
@jknephew3 ай бұрын
He wants to die but cries about his hands hurting? Hmm, what’s wrong with this attention getter?
@houseofbroke3 ай бұрын
Not sure who was more desperate to get married ... him or her.
@arjanpetersen3 ай бұрын
cry baby
@monbrat30643 ай бұрын
He continue to be charged with domestic violence 🤦♀️🤷♀️ He needs to be locked up NOW
@SugarSugar54543 ай бұрын
This poor girl needs to run -- far and fast ❤😢
@LennyCash7773 ай бұрын
I'm not currently in the best of shape myself, but I don't think she can achieve either of those things while running...
@marybeckham44953 ай бұрын
Drunk and Domestic Abuse. 😢 Knowing she'll get it worse if she talks. Girl, whatever it takes, leave. The man get raised thinking hitting women okay? Guessing. The child is watching. 😢
@lesleysullivan64583 ай бұрын
This one was truly sad. He knows he beat his wife, doesn't care to stop drinking, but instead asks the police officers to shoot him. Both of them need some serious help.
@terifreeman10953 ай бұрын
Please young lady STOP the violence. Quit letting people get away with domestic violence.
@jazcatFL3 ай бұрын
Really scary, that he still doesn't get it. Everything I get drunk she gets like this. Crazy.
@jaygold44673 ай бұрын
Uncivilized.
@tomh.75863 ай бұрын
Most of them.
@atomant19803 ай бұрын
I have ALWAYS told men, if you Hit me, you better make sure I don't get back up, because when I do I will return the favor. It might not be right that second but I guarantee they would never hit another person again.
@SaltNCheyenne3 ай бұрын
Oh, he pulled a Diddy, didnt he?
@Kobe-jz2zz3 ай бұрын
God forgive me for laughing at your comment Yes, he pulled a diddy
@dashawnrobinson64362 ай бұрын
Try not to bring up black men in joke challenge
@CherrrrBear3 ай бұрын
3:08 she must be scared to death to not say anything about her husband abusing her… scary
@HikarusukeShindou3 ай бұрын
It saddens me that people accept to be in these abusive relationships I just don't understand it
@margie65343 ай бұрын
Maybe he will knock some sense into himself.
@TEXASLOYAL3 ай бұрын
Reminds me of a Jerry Springer episode:"Why are you still with him"? "Because I love him"
@kathi23023 ай бұрын
He should have been charged with animal cruelty for kicking the dog, he even admitted it on the video 😕
@Fred-pq8xv3 ай бұрын
Avoid booze, steroids, and other drugs. They are dangerous!
@Porsche4life3 ай бұрын
You can tell she is holding back tears. She’s scared
@JenniferParker5033 ай бұрын
Bless her. Please, I've been there. I hope she gets help, and gets free and is with someone who lobves her and treats her like a queen. May she know she deserves better.
@theusconstitution17763 ай бұрын
EVERY TIME I GET DRUNK, WEATHER SHE STANDS STILL OR SITS DOWN OR MAYBE EVEN SLEEPING, SHE MAKES ME SO ANGRY THAT “SHE” MAKES ME DO IT ALL😳 FIVE DOMESTIC BATTERIES😔 LEAVE HIM IN THE PRISON! MOST WOMAN BEATERS BEHAVE AROUND REAL MEN…
@jcymngo3 ай бұрын
Kudos to the front desk for calling!🎉
@claudethibaudeau27143 ай бұрын
This is a common that results in women not wanting to press charges. It's a shame because the dude's probably cool when not on booze or drugs, although it doesn't matter when you assault someone and if it keeps happening, quit drinking dude. Assaulting a woman is very wrong and unmanly, in my opinion. Good luck in jail dude, you're going to need it.
@pcgarbage3 ай бұрын
Now you gotta clean the damn back of the car lol
@JigglyPuff7773 ай бұрын
The poor dog is the true victim and needs to be re-homed to a loving family that woman chooses to stay with him that dog needs a chance at a better life that's the real victim!
@drewt27903 ай бұрын
What kind of sicko hits a dog?
@konasmom24573 ай бұрын
Guess he didn’t want the cigarette bad enough 🙄🤥🤥
@patriciaharden5253 ай бұрын
Dang... He got some real problems!!! 😮
@MabelRD083 ай бұрын
This is so upsetting 😭😩🥺💔😔
@Fitkid76723 ай бұрын
Crazy ppl
@kevinhanson78673 ай бұрын
I mean... he was giving the cops permission to kill him. Plus if he was hitting his wife, then he's a danger to society and his family.
@grainherstal19123 ай бұрын
Just stop drinking then if it happens all the time, ffs
@InnaDeep3 ай бұрын
That poor lady probably got that dog to help protect her from this beast. 😒 I could never grasp the amount of self loathing it takes to stay with a degenerative waste of atomic space like this. It ALWAYS amazes me how anyone could let someone treat them this way.
@jmar22463 ай бұрын
The lady didn’t even want help from the hotel worker. I can guarantee you she’ll be back with him.
@calliepeach62343 ай бұрын
Im sure they're still together!!
@gusjones93883 ай бұрын
Note to self: Find out what he drank and stay away from it.
@michaelpedro19393 ай бұрын
I always wonder what happens to cowards like him in jail.
@Grace1957-3 ай бұрын
That went south fast.
@Noledad773 ай бұрын
They had way more restraint than I would've had after watching that video. Wife beaters tend to become "wide receivers" in prison.
@taraleemoore51993 ай бұрын
Makes my blood boil that she'd say the front desk girl was lying! Most people don't care enough to get involved. Now adays when you see someone in trouble, you'll see a bunch of ppl around recording it w/their phones & not 1 willing to call 911!
@BrianClem3 ай бұрын
Never stay with someone that would hit you.
@chelseamae71913 ай бұрын
Time to go their separate ways.
@prestonik3 ай бұрын
"I want to die" + "My hands are killing me." = BINGO!!!