Polygyny is NOT a Right but an Allowance!!!

[@ihsannaji3424]

This don ruffled some feathers 👀👀

[@SsQ119]

i like the direction the brother going in we need more imams and leaders focusing on family structure and issues especially within the blck communities.

[@TheCastedone]

Agreed, we lost alot of good people not addressing this

[@dd470_]

This is deep! I pray more brothers hear this but unfortunately it’ll fall on deaf ears

[@UmmFatimah20]

Allahumma barik- this is the clearest description of rights that I've heard. It makes it easiest to implement.

[@UmmFatimah20]

Question- can you limit the number of kids you have if you know you can't give them their rights? Not for fear of poverty but just that you may not have the mental health to be a good parent?

[@Anthony5830JimenezAJ]

Plus polygyny is exhausting. Always trying to find time for both partners can be a chore. With that If you spend too much time one partner the other might get jealous and it just turns into a shit show. So Monogyny for me. Way more stable and manageable.

[@ST-yc7uj]

Both? 4 wives, dude. Plus quran allows corporeal punishment for disobedient wives which is punishable by law in the west. Its slavery for women nothing more.

[@aboeAimen]

Tabaraka Allah akhi, you opened my view in this. That's way I am sticking to one for now 😅😅😅. In sha Allah ☝🏽..

[@tauhidj2681]

‏جزاك الله خير 🤲🏾

[@elaineakines3114]

Thank you for explaining the difference

[@nikkispeaks1633]

We said brother

[@lavafireground9758]

Finally, a Muslim brother with sense.

[@dd470_]

Exactly

[@hughjazz2390]

In that case wouldn’t marriage in general not be a right either ?

[@ChellyTheGreat]

Yep

[@hughjazz2390]

@@ChellyTheGreat in that case no need to highlight a second wife as being right cause the first wife isn’t, just some food for thought

[@ChellyTheGreat]

@@hughjazz2390 yep

[@practicaldeen5333]

If the woman has children from another marriage it is not the duty of the new husband to provide for them. The children are supposed to go to the biological father once they become of age (12-13 yrs old for a girl and 5 yrs old for a boy). I would consult with a traditional scholar or Mufti.

[@thanaf1045]

Salaams. Be careful brother it appears as if you’re confusing the text. Allah (swt) said that a man can have one,two,three or four wives. But one wife is best. I never saw the word according to you it’s a “allowance”.

[@shabanatasleem3532]

He’s correct because polygamy isn’t obligatory upon a Muslim male. If a Muslim male chooses to go down this route, then as he correctly states there’s conditions that the Muslim male has to meet.

[@kennethshell9814]

As salaamu alaikum warahmatullah the man has a GOD given right to take a second wife period.. stopped brother!!

[@heemgeez2759]

Be careful with certain things that is said in this video he brings no proof or evidence for what he is say polygny is absolutely the right of every man who is upright religious and is able because that's what Allah said in the Quran marry woman of your choice 123 or 4 but if you feel you cannot be just with your time marry 1.also Ali Davis from imaam Muslim masjid just had a class reading from the books of jurisprudence of the scholars talking about how marrying women is not a package deal because the children are supposed to go with their father...some stuff that shadeed be saying be very misleading some stuff he on point but he changes the meaning of things because he is not reading directly from the books he is giving his opinion or view...so there no such criteria that a man has to be willing to take on a wife and her kids...that is a sadaqah if he is willing to but it's not a qualifying factor...