poora dekho, end mein aag lag jayegi proper, aur insta pe follow idhar: instagram.com/gangstaphilosopher/
@Ekjaadugar2 жыл бұрын
Bro, Mera gaana sunoge to aapki aag bujh jaayegi 😉😂
@MuhammadIrfan-iu2ty2 жыл бұрын
Toxicity me toh baap hai Indians Bina maa behan ki gaali k khana gale se nhi utarta 😂
@MuhammadIrfan-iu2ty2 жыл бұрын
@@Ekjaadugar apni maa ko suna teri pocket money bdha degi 😂
@gotamsingh30062 жыл бұрын
@@Ekjaadugar L
@sauravt13352 жыл бұрын
Bhnchhod aukaad me bola kr...
@kumaraayush2 жыл бұрын
The rage in his voice shows he is not faking his energy and truly feels for those subjects
@naturelover41482 жыл бұрын
He himself suffered from this toxic parenting so he knows how we feel.
@junkyaritro2 жыл бұрын
Ayush he is feeling the scenario and seeing it in that way. Jo cheeze log face karte hai apne environment mein reh reh ke. Fir bolte hai duniya harami aur chutiyo se bhari pari hai. Bhai khud septic tank se nai nikal na chahtai ho koi aakai nikalne wala. Khud hi ko nikal na parta hai
@awantikakumari8462 жыл бұрын
Har raat sote wakt mere aansu aa hi jaate h , choti si trigger karne wali baat koi bol de main rone lagti hoon and my mental health is truly fucked up ,and my mom's mental health is even more fucked up ,that's why mere saath aisa kar rhi h woh ,mere uthne sone ka schedule unhe itna effect karne laga h ki , meri din ki shuruaat rote hue hoti h ,end rote hue hoti h ,I am hypersensitive every time, and it only depends on me , mereko agar apna aur mummy ka meantal health thik karna h toh ghisna padega ,truly needed this video. Abhi main apne lowest p thi sir,video dekhte hue bhi ro Rahi thi but end m nhi ro rhi , thanks sir.
@Lovealittlehehe2 жыл бұрын
Hope you will be ok same goes with me 🙃
@karanbisht74414 ай бұрын
Great how's your life?
@Mrlightyagammi2 ай бұрын
How are you now ?
@Shofi.2 ай бұрын
It’s hard for some people iam in this situation trying to escape so I can save myself 😢
@roshanvaghela1672 жыл бұрын
Only guy on youtube, who really understands problems, also gives the relevant advice. 💙
@InvinciblePepe2 жыл бұрын
Acharya Prashant also.
@No_One_________2 жыл бұрын
@@InvinciblePepe don't you know Acharya prashant is Fucked up
@incognitospy96362 жыл бұрын
...in India+ acharya
@saurabh38472 жыл бұрын
@@InvinciblePepe wtf
@EnSabahNur-ir5mw2 жыл бұрын
@@InvinciblePepe Achariya has some serious issues
@debolinaroy31232 жыл бұрын
Yess, no one has addressed it, the role of environmental factors, the childhood trauma stress is the key of adult chronic disease, but no one talks about that, rational thought should be spreaded, you are helping me since 2018, and thank you for existing...
@BilalKhan-45662 жыл бұрын
Yes childhood stress has very dangerous nd chronic effects on our personality but alas it is avoided
@visualstoryteller10142 жыл бұрын
I needed this video 3 years ago, glad someone can see the video who needs it now
@cricketupdatesbyashu8632 жыл бұрын
To bro abhi kis cheez ki jrurat h.. Aja chal Baat krte h us bare me.. I m also a life advisor
@rishiraul2 жыл бұрын
@@cricketupdatesbyashu863 bhaiyya apne kya ukhaada hai life me?
@chfsunf1ower2962 жыл бұрын
It's sad how u just explained my childhood , parents were supposed to hold me when i cry , when i fall , when i fail but it was always opposite. But I'll be better than them . I'll never hit my child , never put them through so much emotional and physical pain that my parents did . My whole childhood was just me getting beaten everyday for the dumbest reason possible now that i think . I'll first get independent and get away from these morons who never knew how to raise a child . Their stress , their lack of resources, their failed relationships do not justify hitting and bullying their own child who is supposed to look upto them for love and empathy, case .
@starzzzzzz21332 жыл бұрын
Going through similar situation, i wish u luck brother 👍
@1235-s6u2 жыл бұрын
Best of luck 👍👍We all are running the same marathon.
@aditya_27verma2 жыл бұрын
Ya man I can feel what you're going through , I hope things will get better
@JD-je1sw2 жыл бұрын
To all my brothers and sisters who had to go through this tough time in life ... I'm super proud of you and I know you are super strong and super awesome and I'm grateful to share this earth with you in this life time you will always be the best for me .... lots of love ❤️
@Dank.man452 жыл бұрын
Yakeen Maan,tu khud bhi waisa hai,aur iss baat ko uss samay bhul jyga,aur waisa hi harkat karega... Aur inn kadwi baato ke baad agar tune iska ulta kaam kar diya,to mujhe khushi hi hogi.
@HimanshuVerma-20002 жыл бұрын
Jo log logical hokar nahi soch paate yaa deep thinking nahi rakhte unhe iss bande ki video Chutiyaa lagegii But vou log jo sach me smjhte kuchh vou smjh jayengay aur kaafi cheeze gain kar lengay inki video se Thnq brother🙏
@ihatediscipline43552 жыл бұрын
My childhood was the same and now I'm 18 and seen alot of fightings between my parents and now I want to avoid any fights and any argument, if anyone talks to me with a high tone voice i get scared internally ( even I have a good fitness, muscularity and height ) I am 6ft but when someone talks a little harshly i get a little scared even if the person is 4ft and not muscular i get scared and also I'm a easy target for bullies. Edit : i was bullied beaten up in front of school, beaten up in class, slapped for no reason by boys and also girls and i never raised my voice now I'm trying to fight for myself and get some courage
@ashuraj27632 жыл бұрын
Same boat as you brother...can really feel ya❤️
@ihatediscipline43552 жыл бұрын
@@ashuraj2763 ❤️ feels good that I'm not alone
@spike.xx_2 жыл бұрын
stay strong my man , life is so long that you have enough room to make yourself from scratch , be proud of yourself that you endured all those hard days and night and still standing on your own legs and holding down your burden on your own ,make your circle good , good person around you will surely help you out in such situations and at the end "DON'T LOOSE HOPE".
@pocogamer34102 жыл бұрын
keep fighting bro
@Tomiokasan992 жыл бұрын
Bro keep fighting for what you deserve till your last breath. It's too late to step back And don't expect anything from people or this world.
@anuragdhanvijay41392 жыл бұрын
Bhai apka title padhke hi hil gaya great video praying for your mother's health♥️
@zer0day4632 жыл бұрын
I literally go to college and spend hours there (even if I don't have classes) just to get alone and peace time. This guy is fu*king right here, Please take care of yourself guys, cut off toxic ppl even if it's your family
@anilavmania37322 жыл бұрын
Same dude, I didn't clear jee and go to teir-3 college. The disgust I see on my father's face is so depressing and it screams that I will remain a failure. My father always fights with mother. I just want to get out of this situation and become a successful person. btw sending good wishes to you too !
@hdkhsjs Жыл бұрын
I did the same but what will you do once the college is over?
@ayushprajapati77662 жыл бұрын
This is my problem but I'm used to it but it hurts sometimes a lot. Sara self confidence aur focus ghus jata hai jab parents kuch aisa keh dete hai which you are expecting to them.
@Geopolitics-ga2 жыл бұрын
Gali kya datay ho dada , video to pura hi dekhagay 🥺
@uniquescience70472 жыл бұрын
lol
@sharjeelosama20002 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@pirate80852 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂
@adityadas58662 жыл бұрын
sahi baat🥺🥺
@brokengenius3152 жыл бұрын
waise gaali khaane ke liye hi iske channel mein itne log aate hai.....🤔😅
@archie8512 жыл бұрын
just wanna say thankyou...thankyou shwetabh for making this video...from last 2 years i have been revisiting my past right from childhood till now and i was feeling very confused abt how my mother could do that to me and ...now when i am 19 and look back at little girl going through gaslighting silent treatments for weeks by everyone in the house...physical abuse...manipulation....taunts for eating a little extra....i was feeling really guilty for blaming my parents u know in india parents have their own GOD complex...and i was very confused abt thinking that my mother is a narcissist i was giving myself every false hope to not conclude...the worst that people can do is to make u feel not welcomed to make u feel that u dont belong....to call u a burden and wish if u were dead of the pneumonia u caught when u were born..they blame u for their dysfunctional marriage...for many this country these people are none other than their parents.... but as they say healing starts the moment we realise we were hurt....thanku for this
@Arnav_222122 жыл бұрын
Same thing happen with me
@archie8512 жыл бұрын
@@Arnav_22212 i am so sorry it happened...and please don't fall into this trap of empathizing with the perpetrators...your parents are perpetrators...don't hate them ofcourse...but they don't give a shit abt u achieving things and becoming independent...as they will lose their easy target...but u have to standup for urself...talk back when u see wrong happening to u....talk back when they belittle u...people will call u mannerless etc...they might turn the whole world against u by bitching abt u Wrongly...but Don't give up...and realise they only care when u achieve something not while u are in the process of achieving it.....its like poori journey me hurdles daalenge lekin agar phir bhi succeed kr gye to end me saara crdit khaane aa jayenge...hum parents h humne kiya..!
@sidd25982 жыл бұрын
I can relate completly 💔💔
@Monika-oj2zp2 жыл бұрын
same thing happened with me.... And I thought that there's some communication barrier that's why it's happening. But whenever I used to express my emotions , I expected that she would understand me now but nopes... I was always seen as the girl who is throwing tantrums which backfired me. It became more and more toxic as the time passed.She started to do it more as I was getting weak and exhausted. Not only I was suffering mentally, i was suffering physically too (severely underweight) but still she didn't care. After 3 4 yrs i realised that the only way left is to stay away from her. Anyone who is reading this if ur suffering from such relationships it's okk everything will be fine in the end, nd don't blame urself u have already tried enough to fix it. It's okk to walk away from such relationships for ur own peace of mind 💜🤗
@junkyaritro2 жыл бұрын
@Archie you know the worst thing in our society is this half knowledge of things. And secondly the God complex which you mentioned is another fuel addition factor. I am not trying to promote blasphemy here. But the psychological understanding of things where in you are told that parents are gods form and all elders are God and teachers are God. This is soo not fair because the abuse inflicted on a child comes mostly from these soo called figures. Who think mai toh bhagwan hu. Seriously Tu bhagwaan nai chaman chutiya hai. Be very very modest and never consider yourself to be the best at anything. Learning is an ongoing process. And when you need help reach out. I know it becomes very difficult for a child to trust someone else or a stranger when the so called God figures are the ones who inflict the abuse and say that don't mix up with the outside world. No one will believe you. Because they are trying to protect their arse in the name of privacy. And being called a burden to the child which has happened with me as well. As I had learning disability as a child I know the mental sociological long term effects it takes. I knew at some point I needed help. And I reached out. So that is why when ever I see a person struggling I try to lend in my hand. If they wish to accept it. And some thing we all should follow is lending the helping hand. If you have come out of such situations you will definitely know how to help someone else.
@tridentgameing61922 жыл бұрын
Yes I also facing some problems in past but when started to watch you and acharya prashant and understand things most of things are on track now and feeling more happy about it 😇
@surajvaidya68542 жыл бұрын
This video came at very right time.. I was dealing with this bullsh** . This video will really help me going forward
@SeraphimZodGaming2 жыл бұрын
this is what we call content ❤
@amit72982 жыл бұрын
Chant "om namah shivai"... Regularly. Be empathetic to everyone every organism. Connect with God... You will get every solutions and road. God's light will come to your life in different different forms. Be kind, be thankful.. No matter what you go through.
@omkarshesh2 жыл бұрын
Sorry bhai kuch glt aagya tha aapke barme
@rohitnayak99522 жыл бұрын
Ohh Bhai....🤔
@Dank.man452 жыл бұрын
@@omkarshesh jaise?
@Dank.man452 жыл бұрын
Sahi kaha,inhi sab chizo ke karan vegetarian Bana,aur yakeen Maan,1 chiti tak nhi maarta hu consciously...
@AnshuKumar-fi2jy2 жыл бұрын
Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare
@lijojacob96682 жыл бұрын
Shwetabh's feelings expressed in title and thumbnail 😂😂🔥🔥
@shirwadkaryash4602 жыл бұрын
69👍🏼
@hecker222 жыл бұрын
The only time he give opinions unscripted in public
@deletedaccount0112 жыл бұрын
@@shirwadkaryash460 💀💀
@shirwadkaryash4602 жыл бұрын
@@deletedaccount011 😁😁
@cupcakedoctor28892 жыл бұрын
I made it 369🦊
@rosie_desire2 жыл бұрын
I needed this video so much for about one year ago. I was going thru severe family problems and I shared it with 2 3 friends but they had no solution to give. Most of the people were showing sympathy to me which was frustrating me even more. Bcz I needed motivation to live a happier life. I wanted to be happier but I couldn't be due to unpredictable circumstances around me. But I got the motivation in your words which I needed the most. After watching this video, I've got so much courage and have become so much optimistic towards my life. I literally had the mentality that life will never get better. Thank you so much 💕
@Aryan-tz7zk2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@atreezzz69162 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro for making such topic now i can share this to my cousin dealing with this shit from childhood she is now 17
@krish52785 ай бұрын
Thanks A Lot Shwetabh Bhai Ye Video Ki Bahut Jaroorat Thi Mujhe 🙇🏻❤️
@mahiaggarwal62862 жыл бұрын
This is the number one content i needed at this point of time.
@iamqafka2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much bhai. I promise aik din aesa kuch achieve kar lunga ki abhi jitne bhi problems face karra hu saari worth it lagengi
@immigrationadviser47112 жыл бұрын
Take my words this is the single most effective video to first of all self introspect and then self cure. Thank you from New Zealand.
@themysticman53782 жыл бұрын
I was in a toxic friendship with a girl , she was using me for her work and she was manupulating me , i finally decided to ignore her by watching your videos posted 4 years ago where i know about many bitter truths. Thanks to Swetabh Ganguar for saving me from a very dangerous friend zone. By your videos i am now focusing on myself by working on my body for 6 months. I am focusing my studies to crack my jee exam in 2024! Edit- Thanks to everyone for your suggestions!🙂
@ManuSharmaCA2 жыл бұрын
I am also watching this to leave friend zone because this was ruining my time.
@cherryandsunshine2 жыл бұрын
Ho jayega bhai JEE tera 💪🏼
@PrakritiSenpai2 жыл бұрын
Wo manipulate ki yah tum soldier bane the💀
@hiraushan2 жыл бұрын
tum class 10th ke hokya
@PrakritiSenpai2 жыл бұрын
@Aman Modanwal nhi It's one of the shwethab video were he also told and my personal experience in daily life also That boys giving unnecessary and Unrequirable soldier in hoping that we will get impressed by them And when we say no they hate that girl and says she was manipulating them ✌🏻kabhi kabhi room se bahar nikal ke real life dekha karo toh sayad janoge ki kya ho rh You are literally trapped in bubble of judging others
@sanyamsharma1342 жыл бұрын
I WISH I COULD LIKE FOR 100 TIMES. GREAT VIDEO ON FILLING THE VOID WITH SELF LOVE AND CARE : )
@rohitnayak99522 жыл бұрын
Self love is distoying humans
@pogboy5372 жыл бұрын
It will get better guys you aren't alone. It will take time but keep taking a step forward. Take care guys.
@rachitgup022 жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you. two of your videos one on adhd and this one is so relatable for me thank you for doing what you do. Thank you so much really needed your perspective. Before i didn't know what's the need for this content but now i do when I dig deep.
@Bilalriaz.2 жыл бұрын
Teray jaisa bnda puray India Pakistan main ni ,,, champion hai tu ❤
@harshitamishra30582 жыл бұрын
This video is soo soo relatable to me...lga ki mere lie h . meri story h Puri...I have narcissistic father..and the environment of my family is genuinely very toxic......since my childhood I have seen a lot....that I can't describe in words thanks swetabh for making this video..... It's really motivating 💜
@DeepakkiBoard2 жыл бұрын
I'm literally going through worst phase of my life.. One day I searched my thoughts coming in my mind swetabh video just changed my perspective.. Although alot has happened but still able to handle my situation with his help
@MedhaRusty902 жыл бұрын
Much needed for this day...Goung for therapy tomorrow. You said all the things just apt for helpung anyone facing childhood toxicity results in their adult life.
@gaminguceyt2 жыл бұрын
Always Love The Perspective Shwetabh Gives❤️👌
@apnizindgi83952 жыл бұрын
You are telling my whole life story. Same words jo mera dil mujhse khta h
@beautifulworld54522 жыл бұрын
Shwetabh bhaiyya ...thankyou so much for this video ...🥺💛
@anshpreet7042 жыл бұрын
yaar shwetabh sir has really in-depth knowlege in almost all the things. i don't know how they gain but i really want to know about the good social books, knowledgeable websites, forums, podcast from shwetabh sir perspective. So we can also gain some good info from the internet.
@snehilsinghhh2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@coolguy22272 жыл бұрын
I mistakenly read the title "pura video dekh kar sirf hilate hi raho" 😂
@bishal00692 жыл бұрын
😏📸
@exploring23002 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kadumpabin61882 жыл бұрын
Me too😂
@PSSutradhar2 жыл бұрын
Sahi Time pe apka video milta hy 🙏 thank you
@AliBaba-iy1vg2 жыл бұрын
Bhai jbse apke video dekhne laga hu mera aas pass ke log bolte h ki mai sakt londa ban jaunga wagera but I know after listening to you i have become more responsible in life and now I know what are my duties as a son , lover , student , friend, brother and a human. Thanks for making my life much simpler not in all the ways but many ways . ❤️🙏
@dmzzvlence97522 жыл бұрын
Hello sir ( Anyone reading this please reply) This is my daily schedule 7-8:30 - Yoga, and preparing for office. 8:30-10 - Travel to office 10 - 6:30 - office 6:30 - 7:45 - travel back home 8 - 9 - Gym 9 - 9:30- Prepare dinner 9:30 - 9:45 - dinner 9:45 - 10: 30 - video editing 10:30 - 11:00 - learn new songs on guitar/record vocals 11 - 11:30 - read book Sir how should I get more time as I am unable to get success and still struggling. How should I get success faster and escape this 8-8 job loop. Please help as I am suffering this since 3 years and people behind me came forward and are successful.
@DrMRiu2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir🥺
@thehound11692 жыл бұрын
I am so Inspired by shwetabh, just by watching this video. Even though not in a degree, he has so much knowledge about so many things in neuroscience. I am impressed. Like to kmow about all this I had to study for like 2 years in my degree. Hats off shwetabh.
@nitinmanglani46712 жыл бұрын
It feels like... He knows all my personal life and he is directly talking to me.....great bro... Shwetabh nd prakhar are gems..
@bipinsinghal45832 жыл бұрын
not prkhr
@TrailBliss_2 жыл бұрын
Prakhar...☕️☕️☕️🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TrailBliss_2 жыл бұрын
Asli id se comment kro prakhar😂😂😂
@thehuman28612 жыл бұрын
Mine life too.. 👍 At least this video...
@Fazalrahman7_2 жыл бұрын
@@TrailBliss_ 😂😂
@lukesh-632 жыл бұрын
Going through exact same situation. I'm Killing myself everyday inside my mind. I was thinking about moving out but at the same time was holding back Thank you shwetabh for making this video🙏❤
@Jitin_mishraa2 жыл бұрын
Let's fuckin go guys , just achieve your goals , live your dreams , make your parents happy , change profession if you are not satisfied , keep changing till you are not able to pour yourself in your work , kaam hi jeevan hai , toh kaam esa chuno ki usme flow karo , or kuch nhi chahiye jeevan me 💯💯🌻 thank you shwetabh bhaiya
@kadumpabin61882 жыл бұрын
Let's go ..I am ready
@pratimashukla45882 жыл бұрын
CURRENTLY ...THIS PHASE IS GOING IN MY LIFE FROM 5 YRS. ...!!
@pratimashukla45882 жыл бұрын
@Victor James Kerketta Yes! I am being I have also to make by brother strong ...✌🏻
@rajkittur19982 жыл бұрын
This is a very in-depth topic and people don't pay attention to it by listening to those who claim that they know everything.
@WisdomIsAwesome2 жыл бұрын
Hila diya!
@aajkagyan8372 жыл бұрын
Maine bhi
@VNaavi2 жыл бұрын
Both my parents grew up with parents who would verbally abuse them and taunt them so that they would grow up to be responsible adults (the logic).....my parents were very neglectful towards me and growing up with a schizophrenic brother....he was violent....ever since i was 6-7 yrs old....i have been experiencing constant fear of getting attacked by him (strangulation) OR verbal abuse from parents...... The cherry on top is that when now i confront my parents they would just act like they are the victim here.....plus i did show signs of depression 7 yrs ago while i was getting ready to for counseling...my mother pulled me aside and said "the moment you step inside that room (for counseling) you will be known as a PAGAL just like your brother so it is up to you whether to go or not" .....and i didn't go..... Thank You mom...... I could have had an easier life as a 15yr old but thanks to you..... nothing as beautiful as having toxic parents.
@tanned_cosines_2 жыл бұрын
lmao meri behen ko bhi same bola tha baap ne, pagal bolenge log ab bipolar disorder hai usko -_- anti depressent lene padte hain :/
@SumitKumar-pv6wg2 жыл бұрын
I have good parents but my 5'2 Height is my biggest truama
@VNaavi2 жыл бұрын
We need to normalize going to therapy.... what's the use of education if we still think therapy is not for us... even a healthy person needs to get his brain checked....the brain is going to be with us until we die then why do we neglect it?
@ashmit36752 жыл бұрын
@@SumitKumar-pv6wg isn't it insecurity instead of truama???
@AnkitRaj-pr2ml2 жыл бұрын
As u mentioned..hila dala🙌
@brokengenius3152 жыл бұрын
This one is a banger ! pehela laga video sirf abusive parents pe hogi.....but end tak in a way wide range of problems are touched.....and the end part really hits hard......
@FaizanAhMed4272 жыл бұрын
*I can releate so much I am also in this toxic environment my father is also narcisst and he is beer adict because of his abusive behavior i also feel depressed and face anxiety issues.* *I am currently in matric class and not financially independent*
@junkyaritro2 жыл бұрын
Shwetab bhai bahut sahi baat kaha the toxic stress is soo bad. I have my own personal experience with it. Not just toxic stress and stressful mental emotional situations create a massive impact in a child's growing up. The thing is that never fight in front of kids in that way. Problem hai toh sort out karna seekho. Once you have a child you have to forget everything and focus on the child. And people fail to understand this kind of environment starts a chain reaction of effects. Kuch baar aisa bhi hota hai that I have dated people tried to help at a certain point but until and unless the person is not able to put the effort. And they tend to get into similar toxic relationship in the future. And then that comes out on the right person. And then they start being abusive. So please guys if you need help please get help. Please reach out to us we will help you out. Hum bhi nikle hain iss situation se.
@rocky65882 жыл бұрын
sir when will you launch your new book? btw the rudest book is really good☺
@Krutarth_Vaishnav_2 жыл бұрын
Ye poora video main ache se relate kar pa raha hu kyuki main khud ye sab kar chuka hu.. Bas mujhe nahi pata tha ki ye saari cheezein mere sath hui hai is wajah se meri mental health improve hui hai.. Aaj poori process pata chali.. I love your videos shwetabh bhaiya! 🙌❤
@DeadPool-tl4ec2 жыл бұрын
Shwetabh brother thank you so much i by chance followed your advice way before you release this video and now I'm really happy and feeling like a person I also had toxic parents and in short I was living in straight hell So I just told them i wanna study in a university which is far away from my hometown so I started living in hostel It was hard to convince them but I did it and finally I'm free feeling like a bird 🐦 You are a great Problem solver shwetabh brother. 🙏🙏🙏
@Anonymous-pq6bg2 жыл бұрын
Bhai mein nahi kar paunga ab convince meine toh fees bhi bhaar di hai kya karu Ghar mein na toh padhne ka mahul banta hai na hi jeena ka
@DeadPool-tl4ec2 жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-pq6bg mere hisaab mai agle saal transfer wagera hota hai toh dekhlo Yaa fir simple cheez ghar mai raho hi Matt sirf khaana khaane aur sone ke liye Ghar jaao Baaki dosto ke saath khelo, ghumo yaa fir liberary wagera mai padhai karne jaao. Koi Hobby club join karlo jaise koi cricket club yaa Aisa kuch. Ghar pe raho matt in short. Mai suggest karunga tum acharya Prashant ko sunna suru Karo tumhari life sudhar jaaegi.
@vivekkumar-ls5df2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot shwetabh bhai,this is a life changing video for me bro,because i am going through the same hell in my life.
@yourgamingspot67542 жыл бұрын
i am 24 i have been facing the same problem, but I know how what to do in life, just every night I take anti depression medicine and sleep. everything repeating like a cycle in my life
@Prapti.p2 жыл бұрын
Same... i am also 24 :)
@Prapti.p2 жыл бұрын
Should we make a group you guys 😂
@chadd4982 жыл бұрын
Same with me it's just that I have never taken meds or pshycatric help
@neerajkumar48912 жыл бұрын
You may get addicted.
@Dank.man452 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@imhiteshgarg2 жыл бұрын
That idea about standing a warrior within you is idea of the century. Definitely worth trying.
@TechyBhai232 жыл бұрын
Shwetabh is the person who understands these types of problem completely,
@arpanakujur27502 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much , i feel your energy this is so important topic
@shobinyad66432 жыл бұрын
Why did it feel like a personal- one on one session. I am grateful to my parents that they provided everything materialistically but I could never develop a better emotional intelligence. Have been suffering emotionally for the past many years. Took tons and tons of wrong decisions and now living through the results of those decisions. Now every day there will be some fights verbally! It is just hell. But for last two years, I have been discovering solutions to internally strengthen myself. It is such a slow burn.
@themarcos15332 жыл бұрын
Your talk gives reality of world..i living in daydream. Always put me down my myself. But your perspective towards life is very diffrent... 'ladayi dusro se nahi khudse hai.'
@Abhisheksharma-vk6sd2 жыл бұрын
killer motivation you give bhaiya 🔥🙌
@Somavacay2 жыл бұрын
Hi Shwetabh, I just wanted to thank you. I've been going through a weirdly emotionally unstable phase, while dealing with Masters applications. Masters is what I've been dreaming of since I knew how to speak, and I've been freaking out that I'll ruin my chances by self-sabotage and these emotions. But your videos are reminding me of the winner I was, and what 18 year old me would tell me if she saw me now. I'm listening to you and trying to focus on my work, I just wish I had found your videos earlier.
@kasmkaskris27712 жыл бұрын
When you read title on notification 🤣🤣🤣
@neptunesodakid73072 жыл бұрын
feels good to know that im not the only one to blame for my nature
@suyashverma152 жыл бұрын
Great advice, truly sensible video once again..✨
@parvaura012 жыл бұрын
yess l promise l ll not leave my hand bro!! tysm🤗♥️
@princejaiswal3352 жыл бұрын
Love u swetabh bhai ❤❤
@JD-je1sw2 жыл бұрын
My boy friend had this toxic family where he was only put down n down ... we were serious about getting married so we both decided to get married and now we are staying away from his family... My dad also stays with us and my husband is so happy now... he is actually happy staying away from his parents and he never wants to even see their faces ... for me I always had a very loving family that's why my parents always supported me in everything I did ... when I went wrong my parents helped me get over that situation and gave me that courage I'm blessed ...
@abhilashasharma44762 жыл бұрын
May Lord krishna bless everyone 🙏🙏🙏taki sab shant rhe
@ananyarautela35942 жыл бұрын
Ek no Bhai!
@awantikakumari8462 жыл бұрын
I will pray for aunty daily ❤️ I promise
@arjunsai3922 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@anubhabchakraborty37992 жыл бұрын
5:32 The smile
@MRANALYSISSCIFACT2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@AAbest2 жыл бұрын
😂
@parthmehta3192 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️ Really Helping Video! Thanks
@rahilamin22392 жыл бұрын
I am living in a very toxic environment rn. Esa lag raha hai jaise life mein kuch interesting chiz hai hi nahi sab kuch bekar lagta hai. Aur childhood trauma bhi hai. Fuck yaar😭😭 I will leave this environment within 1 year
@YogeshRikhari2 жыл бұрын
Literally title dekh k specifically aaya hoon video dekhne, dekhni subah thi wrna.
@Arnav_222122 жыл бұрын
Mein toxic environment mein bada huya. Aaj ki date mein kisi per bhi trust nahi ker pata hu. Bewajah gussa aa jaata hai....jab bhi ghar mein raho toh aisa lagta hai body ki energy drain ho rahi hai or bahar nikal jao toh sabkuch theekh....parents ke bare mein kisi apne dost ko bhi nahi bata sakte hai kyuki Aisa lagta hai woh judge kerenge....
@av98892 жыл бұрын
sir, you are absolutely right but it's easier said than done - please guide us how to get rid of toxic environment in practical manner please sir
@rajeshthorve46292 жыл бұрын
#ShwetabhBhai I am Mahesh Thorve(18years old, JEE Aspirant) & this guy in the DP is my big brother(5 years older than me & An IITian from IITB)...Since last 2 years I have been using YT, watching 2 to 3 anime,got introduced to DesiHipHop & found alot of nice content creators(lndian & foreign)...& I'm really glad that I found you in 2020(before you met vedant&prakhar)...& these(YT, DISTRACTIONS, ETC.) are one the reasons why I didn't focused on studies....BUT when you uploaded that #ADHD video I was so fu*king shocked, BCZ nothing felt so much relatable...I started journaling & using alarm clock method but never sticked to it...I always quitted(more than A #MILLION TIMES in less than a day)...Still I observed alot of symptoms of ADHD in me #SYMPTOMS :- {like always having 10 to 15 TABS opened in my browser & constantly switching between all the TABS ; In conversations, I always #INFODUMP & thus, people get bored really quickly ; I can't expain anything 'in short' to anyone(can't even expain to myself);when I procrastinate about talking to someone Sometimes, I am genuinely funny, confident(I am not like this in reality); While procrastinating, I speak in english very clearly/fluently(but when it comes to reality, I start having anxiety, kabhi kabhi toh haat kapne lag jaate hai); In conversations, I always get blanked when someone asks me something specific{especially in front of my father & brother} ; always vibrating my legs ; procrastinating ; doing Maladaptive Daydreaming about being in a relationship or about achieving something big{like going into IIT} ; Always made great plans but always failed to execute them even a single day ; then started doing pomodoro & aloted only 3 imp tasks for the day but still couldn't sticked to it ; always started execising but always quitted ; sometimes while brushing my teeth I start procrastinating & waste 15 to 25minutes without even knowing[maybe BCZ of time blindness] ; I only work just before deadlines [even in that I try to waste my time{#Escapism}] OR I work when parent's or my brother scolds me(BCZ I have already told them the truth that I wasted my 2 IMP YEARS) ; etc...........} But I am not gonna tell my parents about it for some time now BCZ they lost all the trust they had on me & they will think that I'm giving excuses. So, the only option that is left for me is to build the trust(which is gonna take some fu*king amount of effort but I will give my best) #OurSocioeconomicStatus :- My father was never rich...He came from a village to here in this city(Aurangabad, Maharashtra) & worked in a hotel {But, I have observed since my childhood that he is really good at talking & have great contacts}...so, our socio-economic status was never that high but now my brother has a job & my father is also earning well(still not really rich by money BUT both are really rich by there heart's & they are giving me this 2nd chance to prove myself in front them & in front of myself)...especially my brother has seen more struggle BCZ of money than me...Also once we had a house of 1room & a kitchen which was really fu*king big for little me...NOW, we have a 2bhk house of our own since last 10 years... After that video, I found a TedTalk of Jessica McCabe(founder of #HowToADHD yt channel) & felt alot more relatable... right now I just got admission into a droppers batch for jee(I am giving another year for JEE)...I know shwetabh that things change slowly & that's why I am again starting for the 1000th time...my dropper classes has started since 2 last days & I need to make an habit of working consistently(WHICH IS REALLY HARD BUT I'M TRYING) ; I am also going to improve my English, Hindi & Marathi(my marathi is good but still I sometimes get blanked [Maybe BCZ of ADHD or SOMETHING ELSE])... #ReasonWhyIwantToGetIntoIIT :- I want to get into IIT BCZ I will have a lot of opportunities to discover a different side of myself more there, I can try & learn different things(hobbies,etc...) there... Also you were gonna make more videos related to ADHD, no pressure...I love these streams as well,I get great perspectives from them as well... Also give us an update on your #60dayDATA (data of your own way to tackle ADHD or something like that) which you were talikng about in one of your livestreams?... I'd been trying since ages to write this, but always quitted... & Finally , Tell me what are your thoughts [ OR Your different #GangstaPerspectives ] on my Story???(Obviously, I couldn't write about my entire life but I think I wrote most of the things) It would be great if you take my problem & make a video(If Possible) on this shwetabh bhai... I wrote all this comment 3 months ago on your ''ghus jao padhai mein'' wala video... Update:- I am in depression, anxiety, & for a long time I was even having suicidal thoughts...But, I told my parents about my depression & my suicidal thoughts, they listened & we had a 2-3hr long really EMOTIONAL talk & now, we are ok...But, still I cheat on myself by wasting days after days...One of the most Important things which I learned from u is 'how to think' & Now, I don't take sides, don't follow anybody, a lot of times I think critically...but, I am not even able to talk properly infront of my parents, I get blank & not even able to make proper sentences/ not able to choose correct words & because of that I often offend them...I am always angry at them for no reason(I just can't control that), I can't talk to someone in a phonecall infront of my parents/brother, My maladaptive daydreaming about me being in a (sexual)relationship with an imaginary person has became a serious addiction, also watching too much porn lately & I cry a lot lately,etc..... So, brother I know, what u are going through in recent times & so that's why take your time bhai & I will wait for days & months for that video, because I know that I will get a new perspective :) Also, whenever I listen music(for 2 to 3 times), then that music stays in my mind for atleast 2-3 days straight & thus, I can't focus properly...So, can u plz suggest me some music(As u have some good music taste)...How to improve music taste? Plz, make a video on my problem(whenever u have time)... Also give us an update on your #60dayDATA (data of your own way to tackle ADHD or something like that) which you were talikng about in one of your livestreams, so,what happened to that?? Also, a suggestion, Plz bring a proper series of video's on #HowToThink BTW, i am really sorry, but I've typed this comment 5-6 months ago & i've been reposting it in every single new videos of yours(except controversy wali)
@raman77162 жыл бұрын
More power to you bro! ✨🤝 You are really aware about yourself and no one can stop you from doing your best. Best wishes 💗
@rajeshthorve46292 жыл бұрын
@@raman7716 💗💗
@jayshimpi98832 жыл бұрын
Hi bro! I am from same City. Stay strong, you will definitely overcome it.
@Sunil_13_711 ай бұрын
Same city..
@Abhinavsharma-ut6xs2 жыл бұрын
the idea of doing best in whatever resources you got is amazing like michael bisping became the middleweight champ with one eye he could have of i dont have one eye i have bad knee and just retire but he didnt
@neerajsahani97842 жыл бұрын
Good work
@rishabhkhatri2022 жыл бұрын
Someone commented 'abhi hilane ka maan hai nahi ' And i died
@prajeshparekh71752 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this since childhood now i became 22 i'm glad he talk about the level of tangencies behind it i thought this is my problem only cause i tried to make understand to my close friend but he also said it's normal...people around me never gonna understand this...that's why i'm into healing & spirituality Brahmacharya deeply i don't want to attract such relationships in this material world so im trying to make myself worthy...grew up with this environment i have lost and killed many little things about me like been in one sided relationship thrice and broken myself up in the past and continuously healing myself through manifestations or letting go of the things in life still im with my family but i do isolate myself in a room which look-like storeroom but i having a desk and chair i will try to moveout physically completely will plan for new home even while getting a first job. Thank you Shwetabh bhaiya LOVE YOU 🧡
@manviiam2 жыл бұрын
This is really what I was looking for. Even though I don't see any violence in my family. But I'm struggling a lot mentally. It feels like my life is stuck and is not moving forward even if I'm hard working towards my goal. You said absolutely right. One has to physically distance him/herself first. That's why I'm looking for a job out of my city and as far as possible. I literally have no friends at least not like-minded and supportive people. I often cry a lot. I am black sheep of my family. That's why everyone despise me and underestimate me a lot. That's why it feels so lonely. There's no support from my family. And it is giving a lot of trauma, negativity and stress. My brain is constantly on the negative phase even though I'm aware and conscious of it. I've no people to share my feelings and that's why it's bottling up inside. I'm really tired of pretending who I'm not. My mother and society expects me to be in a certain way to live in a certain way but I just can't. And it's getting frustrated day by day. I've had many suicide attempts and sometimes try to commit horrendous and horrible acts. You literally give me a sign to physically distance from my family. And I will not ignore it. I'm a very curious person so I often think about how serial killers and criminal's minds work. And how they become what they are. I've done a lot of research about it. And what I found is what you said in the video. It's all about toxic environment and childhood trauma that pass through parents to child. That's why it's been for centuries. People who have had brought up in a very toxic and violent household are more likely to become criminal. The chaos and violence and crimes you see all around the world is the direct product of all of the trauma and very f**ked up mental health. People who are traumatic and with f***ed up mental health are more likely to act out their trauma and suppressed rage through violence. And I can guarantee because I myself experienced this trauma by first hand. Now I can completely empathize with these people. Thank you Swetabh for bringing this topic and awareness to general people. I have a very great interest in psychology and philosophy. I've got all this knowledge through my curiosity of human existence and mind. It's very very crucial to heal your trauma. And the very first step is to get far away as much as you can physically.
@manviiam2 жыл бұрын
@T-REX ANIMATIONS Hi! I'm open to friendship. We can get to know each other.
@arpanakujur27502 жыл бұрын
Peace be with you , n god bless you ... Don't hard on yourself
@ameyjangam24852 жыл бұрын
@T-REX ANIMATIONS damn nice desperation bro! Hehe
@_o66292 жыл бұрын
@T-REX ANIMATIONS your last comment is so baseless yet again proving men can't maintain platonic relationships.
@nakulpareek72752 жыл бұрын
@@_o6629 yes phle mujhe B lga ek to achaa ladka mila, last tatti comment krke sb gud gobar kr diya isne😠😡
@pranyashukla48352 жыл бұрын
Great video shwetabh bhai Needed this.
@PrayasGadge2 жыл бұрын
⭐ Amazing, I mean this one was really really great, thank you so much for being there with me in my mind every single day.
@MenkiBaat2 жыл бұрын
shwetabh bhai Perspective 🔥On point
@axxryn2 жыл бұрын
what I think is when this generation in future become as father then something really gone change in a positive way✌️❤️
@rahulshastri92782 жыл бұрын
I just want you to say Thank you @Swetabh!! You are doing a great work.
@anishkumar99152 жыл бұрын
His title and thumbnail is enough to motivate you
@tarkshya1152 жыл бұрын
Your video notification is my new stressbuster ....
@harshparashar22372 жыл бұрын
When I got the notification of this video and read the title it feels like he is personally saying this to me only...😂
@razzaqahmad73972 жыл бұрын
Bhai Jo hai apne pass use mai apna best do....or Rona nahi .....kya positive thoughts hai........❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏 Ase he humlogo ke uper kirpiya banaye rakhe.........