Postpartum Update | This is HARD, Body Changes & New Challenges | Annie Jaffrey

[@erinevermay8926]

You speak so beautifully about this Annie and it is all so true. One thing I learnt over time was that my partner was willing to help, but I had this idea that to be a perfect Mum, I had to do it all. And if I could care for the baby, clean the house, make dinners, whilst still trying to look good, that was a successful day. It took time to let go of that idea. I had to realise that I was still a good Mum even if things weren't perfectly in place and even if I couldn't manage everything the way I did before. A new way has to be forged and it requires team work. Over time I learnt to ask my partner for help and realised that he never said no. So I think (in some cases) our partners are willing to help but perhaps don't know where to start. Since the woman spends so much time breastfeeding and settling the baby to sleep, the partner views this as her role, however it's physically and emotionally exhausting. It's great to see that you and Mo are communicating now and figuring things out. Good on you both!

[@annaburke8537]

It's crazy that we think of it as "helping us" when the partner is taking care of the baby. It's his baby and house too!! ❤

[@erinevermay8926]

​@@annaburke8537 That is so true!

[@d26s10]

And with allll of this, you’ve still been working, editing and posting content. Your amazing Annie! You’re doing absolutely fantastically so don’t get yourself down. Baby girl is so lucky to have a mama who’s motivated and so focused on health and well-being.

[@alenatorres7071]

I have the best hubby and dad to our 2 boys, BUT it was definitely a learning curve. Newborns always want their mama. So it's kinda like mama takes care of baby and daddy needs to take care of mama.

[@RMND424]

Annie, I commend you for such an honest and open video - as a fellow mama, I can so relate. I hope that when you feel alone or overwhelmed, you feel comfortable enough to ask your partner for help ❤. When I had my first, my husband initially felt kind of helpless, because newborns are so mama-dependent, especially with cluster-breastfeeding, and I ended up feeling really alone in the beginning. But, once we realized the ways he could support me (like doing the cooking and cleaning, bringing her to me in bed so I could breastfeed while sleeping, or even just being a present and stabilizing force during my intense hormonal ups and downs), then it really made me feel so much more supported, and it made him feel so much more involved, so it was a win-win. I know everyone's plan and dynamic are different, but never be afraid to explore different forms of support from those around you if you are feeling overwhelmed ❤. You are such a sweet soul and your daughter is lucky to have you ❤❤.

[@steffc8611]

Very surprised to hear Mo didn’t help out a lot at first, if I have heard that correctly? I hope you’re getting a good level of support now, you’re doing so well Annie ❤

[@alicekarin9747]

I don’t know why, but I have sensed that since the beginning. I hope he’s supporting her more now

[@olgaszumilas1471]

I don’t like the word „help”. He is also a parent not a nanny. I think she is doing everything

[@Utube322]

To be fair, it is also an adjustment for dad. They will find their groove

[@lisaroselouise]

Or maybe she meant not having her family close by to help. Im sure that is hard

[@monikagrtr3649]

@@lisaroselouise I don't think that this is what she meant. Because she said he is helping her at least in the morning now.

[@len4ita]

Thank you for being completely honest when sharing your motherhood experience ❤️ You are such a positive, glowing human doing your best to grow a little one (she is blessed to have you as a mom 🌸

[@Elizaw342]

Annie, I just love the way you discuss the deep feelings of amazement combining pregnancy, delivery, and everything after. I felt that too….the power and beauty of creating a human being! The deepest of love for our children ❤

[@equivocarse85]

I believe that being a new mum is always harder than we think while being pregnant but one has to discover on her own . It's definitely a challenging period, you learn a lot about yourself and you get to appreciate your parents so much more.

[@sophiag4718]

My baby boy is nearly 4 months old and honestly it’s been a rollercoaster. One of the hardest parts for me were the days after having him via c section- feeling helpless because I couldn’t go to him straight away when I’d hear him cry, it would take me 5 mins to get off/on the bed. I think also the lack of right support from my family (my husband has been amazing he takes morning shift with our baby for a few hours so I could sleep in despite being up at night with me when baby wakes) has been tough. It’s all worth it though when I see his smile, that undiluted, pure, full of love and trust smile that’s reserved just for his mama and papa.

[@Nilesedge]

You look beautiful Annie and your baby is so sweet. I hope Mo is being a supportive husband and father and helps you out ❤

[@mollytaylor3669]

This is great stuff Annie, thanks for posting! I really like your fitness journey. I was wondering if you could answer a question for me. Have you ever used any of these custom meal plan tools? I got one from Next Level Diet to help me lose some weight and I actually like their plans. Was just wondering if you've heard of or tried any of them yourself. Thank you!

[@graceseel7658]

I resonate with this experience!!! Thank you for being so honest as this is what women need to hear and know before having children. As a single woman we are taught to be independent and we can do it all on our own, but raising a child truly takes a village. In western culture we seem to have lost this understanding and expect ourselves to keep house, appearance and work straight after having a baby but this is no good for baby or mum. You are doing amazing and I'm sure you will be able to fully bf again too! I'm so happy you are finding your new flow ☺️

[@lindenmckay5846]

your vulnerability is so beautiful and refreshing and needed on this superficial, virtual world. Thank you for having the courage and the bravery to be honest and real, praying over you and your recovery and all the emotions and feelings, sweet and sour, that go with that!! xx

[@rayyban1]

You are doing an amazing job. Truly from my own experience and talking with other moms - partners being equally involved is the utmost importance and creates a bond and safety net between the 3 of you so when times get tougher than the normal baseline ( a day of gas, teething, sleep regressions, first cold ) it is like you are unbreakable as long as you are together. Regardless If breastfed/ bottle fed / formula fed / the partner to the mother has to be fully sacrificial to the baby and the mother for the balance. It takes a little time to adjust but hang in there ❤ I highly recommend sleep training - takingcarababies worked wonders for us and our little angel slept thru the night with minor regressions from about 8-12 weeks old because we were extremely consistent with sleep training. Sending you all the love on your journey - you already are succeeding. Xoxo

[@ClassicKina]

So happy for you Annie! You’re doing a great job. I want to give you the recognition you deserve, giving us creative new content every week while going through new mom challenges, you’re simply inspiring. Thank you for your hard work and dedication, we appreciate everything you’re doing! ❤

[@lexiebrady6036]

You describe it perfectly, Annie! I have a 1 year old. Just some encouragement for breastfeeding… know that it is probably the easiest thing for the outside world to make mothers doubt themselves about. There’s all this talk about needing formula or not producing enough or needing to weigh your baby after every feed, etc. just remember what you already know - your body innately knows what to do! Just keep going and keep trusting it will sort itself out (barring real issues like oral ties, sickness, etc) there are times of less supply and it doesn’t necessarily mean anything more needs to be done. Your body and baby know what to do! You’re wonderful! Congratulations ❤

[@rachaelcolman7534]

Your journey into motherhood is identical to mine! I am actually shocked to hear someone givesuch an honest account of it. I wished I'd seen this when I had my boys. They are 9 and 12 now. Take good care of yourself as well as the great job your are doing for your beautiful family xxx

[@marimeskas54]

Dear Annie, bless you for your honesty. Motherhood is tough, specially with newborns. You will get past it and everything will fall into place. Love from a mother of two 🇦🇷

[@hanaparizkova770]

Thank you Annie for being vulnerable with us. Being a new mommy is not ideal all the time, I was there too. I did not understand why my boy is crying all the time because I am soo calm person 😀. But we managed and now he is 13.5 and we have a beautiful relationship. It is amazing how you are able to appreciate other moms out there too. We embrace you. Nalia is so beautiful. It will be better, stay strong and be gentle with yourself. We are here to support you.

[@mairav1]

I felt the same way when I had my first. It does definitely get easier when they start sleeping through the night. I now have a 3 year old and a 1 year old and I work full time and go to grad school full time. It is mentally exhausting and mom guilt really gets to me however I will be graduating very soon which makes me keep pushing forward. Thank you for showing the real and raw side of birth! You look beautiful and will get through it within a blink of an eye

[@AB-yl3mp]

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!! So refreshing to see someone speaking openly about how difficult the transition into motherhood is. It's so normal and should be discussed more often. I definitely relate to your experience. YOU'RE DOING A GREAT JOB and YOU ARE A GREAT MOM. Sending love and light to you and your baby girl!

[@MeYou-nr6nk]

I had to comment when I saw the thumbnail picture for this video. I was certain we wouldn’t see anything like it till you ‘bounced back’ and had your toned flat stomach again. I really appreciate this.

[@asmaa_vlog_85]

I just randomly found her channel in my recommendation now i'm obsessed with her videos She's so freaking talented.♥️🍡💗💗💕🍨🍨🥰🥰💖🍧🍭💘🥳🎡🎂💞

[@Elizaw342]

Yes, 💯 agree

[@nakjon]

Same for me about 1 year ago

[@letsgohawaii8084]

Love her

[@marinastoyanova7009]

Great! You will love her personality and content!

[@geodisafadi2423]

I've been following her for the past 8 years ! She's the best 👌

[@sophiamcevoy]

Hi Annie, just reading between the lines a little bit here. I might be wrong but just wanted to let you know it can take Dad’s a litre bit of extra time to adjust too. As women we go through all the physical changes and so much of the physical labour especially in the early stages is forced on us. It’s not uncommon for Dads to not know what to do or how to help and feel overwhelmed by all the changes. It’s lovely for Mo to be doing the early morning feed. In hindsight I wish I’d had my husband do this more as it definitely helped him to bond earlier but the pumping is so exhausting! As I’m sure you’re figuring out one of the most exhausting parts of Motherhood is the mental load. People say don’t be afraid to ask for help, but asking involves thinking and you just want someone to figure it out and help rather than having to be instructed. I hope you and Mo find a good groove. It’s one of the toughest parts and it changes as the babies change and you have to continuously communicate and readjust. Loads of love to you all ❤️❤️❤️

[@DeepaGrewal]

I can relate to everything you’re saying Annie. Postpartum life is extremely tough and you definitely need support. With the sleep deprivation, learning how to care for and understand your little ones needs, figuring out breastfeeding, the bloody nipples, building up your milk supply, the roller coaster of emotions, the discomfort in your private areas. The list really and truly goes on and I’m glad you actually discussed these things because it’s EVERYTHING I experienced 2 years ago with my daughter. If you’re still feeling uncomfortable down there, I would recommend a donut and do sitz baths daily with Epsom salts. It’s very healing. With building up your milk supply, you have to be consistent with your pumping. A hospital grade pump is life changing! But keep is mind you need to be consuming enough liquids and calories in order to produce enough milk. The days I didn’t have enough time to eat a proper meal because I was busy with my daughter and didn’t have help, were the days my body couldn’t produce enough milk. Another really important tip is to warm up and massage your breasts downwards so your pushing the milk towards the nipple. Always, always warm up the breast area and massage the milk downwards when you’re ready to nurse and pump. It does make a difference. Things will get much better. Your baby girl is adapting and so are you. You can do this! ❤️

[@stephaniebates3812]

Appreciate your honesty. I knew taking care of a newborn was going to be difficult but there are a lot of things people gloss over.

[@TheAutumn1176]

I think the hardest thing about being a new mom is the pressure that is on them. My daughter is in college now, but I remember how much pressure I felt, & put on myself. Annie, I think you are very wise to go with your gut & supplement! I breastfed my daughter until she weaned herself at 10 months during the day, a year for nighttime feedings. However, I also supplemented & pumped because I was EXHAUSTED. As a baby, she didn’t sleep well, & often had colic. I later discoverer (by going with my gut) that she was (and still is) allergic to milk. Bravo for your flexibility in supplementing & pumping! She is one lucky baby girl!

[@MsBritabroad]

My preemie is now almost 16 and I pumped all the time he was in the NICU only to discover that he was allergic to milk protein. It was a hard lesson, especially with a preemie whom you work overtime to protect and nurture. Sigh. We ended up using a very expensive formula for him, and completely overfeeding him LOL! He was a chonk!

[@erinreamensnyder2248]

Thank you so much for being so open and transparent about your experience! I'm about 7 months pregnant with my first and appreciate anything I can learn from other modern women going through this life-changing experience!

[@nickiharrington5269]

Thank you for being so honest. I have recently given birth and you have said a lot of things about the recovery of giving birth... not being able to sit down properly, etc and more that people don't usually talk about and it has given me peace to see it from another persons point of view and to see that is wasn't just for me. You explain it so beautifully and peacefully as well. Thank you 💖🙏🏻

[@filippina13]

So beautiful in your transparency. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. It encourages so many to speak their truth. Versus hiding behind a façade. No one life is perfect. May God bless you and your beautiful family. Take care ❤❤❤

[@jencam2002]

I have 2 sons, 20 & 18, and the saying “ The days are long but the years are short” is so true. I don’t think anyone can be fully prepared for parenthood till it happens. I will also say my two sons were very different as newborns/ infants. My oldest was the easiest baby while my 2nd son had colic and gerd that required him to take medication to keep food down. So while I was a not a first time mom with him, he was very different from my first. All that to say that each pregnancy and baby will be different. It does get easier and once baby starts sleeping more and you get more sleep, it will make parenting easier.

[@anisamohammed8104]

Thanks for keeping it real. More women need to do this. I could never relate to those who went onto instagram and showed that they could do it all and still look like a supermodel.

[@jannamosinyan4317]

Hands down you are my favorite KZbinr 😂 have been following you since NYC days. Can’t believe you are able to keep up with your KZbin along with other things happening ☺️ are you delegating ? I invested in house cleaning during the time of my pregnancy and thinking about hiring part time nanny ( or house help) when our baby girl is here in November. I am both thrilled and terrified 😅

[@mariavelazquez7532]

Yes Annie getting help in the beginning especially as a first time mom. I just had my second son 12’days ago and my mom was able to help me these past days. It has been a huge blessing! ❤❤❤ Take care love and take it as easy as possible 😊

[@thiscorner102]

Hi Annie! You’re doing amazing girl! It’s a hard change especially when your family isn’t around, this literally takes a village. If you can afford or get a night nurse when you’re having those days when you’re really struggling, get a mother’s helper to come for a couple of hours every day, Glad to hear Mos doing the morning feed! What I found super useful is that my husband would do any feeds at night before midnight and after 6am and I would do everything in between. Witchhazel did wonders for my own healing, making sure you go outside everyday, as much as you can sleep when the baby is sleeping! You’re doing such a wonderful job and you look so incredible!

[@thiscorner102]

Breastfeeding is also super hard for 99 percent of women and it’s an awful feeling. I had the same issue with my son as well. If she starts getting constipated (1 poo a week type of thing) she may be lactose intolerant, you may be able to get a blood test to find out and save yourself a bit of stress!

[@cococgb5389]

Look at You Annie! Such an inspiration.. I understand the struggle .. You are bouncing right back ! Thank You for finding the time to visit with Us ! Big love to you Three ❤️❤️❤️

[@sarahrostom8111]

Annie, so much respect for your honesty with how much mothers go through. I appreciate your positive but real approach. 💕 Sending you prayers for this challenging time!

[@ashhhh4975]

Everything you’re going through is so normal! ❤️ Something that helped me SO much was joining a mothers group. Having friends with bubs the same age who can relate to everything, talk to and catch up regularly was just the best for my mental health. We are all so close and our second babies too. I could say a million “tips” but every person is different and you will find your groove too and what works for you and your life. Lots of love! ❤❤

[@kellybulai]

Thank you for the honesty. You're doing an amazing job and look fabulous in process! Wishing you all the best.

[@miSZdahlm]

Congratulations Annie! 💞 Thank you for your honesty! I hope Mo has been more helpful through out the process..

[@ruths4774]

My daughter was born in December, and I wish I had heard someone speak as frankly as you have beforehand. It is a beautiful time, but so so challenging, for all the reasons you mentioned. I am glad you are getting more support, it truly does make all the difference. It does get better! Wishing you and you family all the best. 💕

[@Thefairyprincess1]

It's really nice of you to share your honest experience without sugar coating, it is very helpful to know from other moms that we are all in this together💗. Thank you Annie!

[@pdyches]

Being a mamma is rough!! You really can’t mentally prepare for it. I am a single mom and I ended up hiring a night nurse to come once a week so I could get a full 8 hours of sleep. It’s was magical. Also once you get the hang of the night time routine, the next crazy phase is the sicknesses. They get sick a good bit in the first few years and it’s soooo stressful for a new mom. You are doing great! It does get better around the 4-6 month mark as long as you sleep train.

[@jbillz9034]

Please tell me how you cope with the sickness…it’s personally the hardest thing out of all of it.

[@alexx_catherine]

My baby is 4 weeks and this video is extremely relatable! I knew having a baby would be hard and time consuming but I definitely didn’t expect it to be as hard and time consuming as it is lol. So worth it though just like you said ❤

[@lisagarcia4857]

Thank you, Annie. 4 weeks pp. agree with everything you shared about how hard and how much energy taking care of a newborn is while also being so so in love. Would love to hear more about your journey with a newborn. Breastfeeding/pumping, sleep, etc!

[@little_dunia]

Oh my dear Annie, thank you so much for that video ❤ I already have a three year old, but loved to see your perspective and how things are going. You are doing amazing ☺️👍 Felt so touched by your deep appreciation for moms, because sometimes it’s hard to see on a daily basis what each one of us accomplishes ♥️

[@tierneydias3428]

Annie you are doing so well. It was years ago when I had my baby, however I went through a similar issue where I had to supplement with formula. It all works out. Please don't worry. Learn to accept Help! We all need it and get rest when you can. You and Mo will be great parents. Support one another and everything will fall into place. You are blessed with a tiny bundle of joy!

[@taylorstoltz249]

I won’t be having kids for a few years still, but I love learning about it and appreciate how open & honest you are❤ I can’t wait to document this journey one day on my channel too🥲

[@mominachowdhury7734]

Can you please share your current everyday skincare and makeup routine as a new mom?!

[@kristij685]

Annie, thank you for such an honest, vulnerable, and heartfelt video. I had my daughter 2.5 years ago and I can relate to everything you’ve talked about here. You’re doing a great job…. The love and commitment you have for your daughter is so beautiful. All the best 💕

[@DianaCarolinaB]

Hi Annie, I am currently about to give birth to my second child and looking back, I drove myself to exhaustion and stress for wanting (and sometimes having to do it all on my own) I realized I pushed myself too hard which also affected my breastfeeding journey. This time around I am willing to seek help, I hired a cleaning and cooking lady, I spoke to my husband and daughter about my need to rest and also about the importance of our team work for this new baby. I created a post partum healing team.. Friends, therapist, etc. So don't hesitate to seek help and talk to your partner and friends. I don't have any extended family near me so I had to create my own village. Hang in there and seek support. You are doing great. 😘

[@AndreaPerres]

I’m glad you said you are not feeling like even working out or have the time . I feel that way and actually felt down on myself that i can’t find time to workout . Makes me feel a Bit better that I’m not the only one

[@nyimasitakanuteh580]

The most beautiful cover picture - thank you for showing motherhood in all its glory. Your body is beautiful ❤

[@poppycalliope]

I appreciate your honesty and transparency Annie. You're such a lovely mom and incredible woman, I admire you! 💕✨️

[@carolepigeon]

Being a good parent is so hard! It really is a selfsacrifice!!! But what you get in return is amazing!!! Having so little sleep doesn’t help…it will get better! 😊 Exercise with the stroller is a good idea….I’ve seen young women do that and I wish it was on trend when I had mine!

[@Dreaming0fSunshine]

Annie, I’m sure you’ve been told this regarding breast feeding but skin to skin is a game changer for breast milk production! I had this same thing with my first and yes water and all those things are 100% a must but don’t forgot to do as much skin to skin as you can!! sending all the love 💕

[@agajaniuk5027]

i had a difficult time with ajusting at the begining too. going back towork was hard but a life saver just to concentrate on something else, be more present when im at home and givrme my sanity back.

[@claraow6620]

Annie, you are doing an amazing job as a mum. You will eventually get the hang of things, one thing u might wanna check out is 'moms on call'. It works like a charm! You look incredible 5mths pp.! Stay positive, happy and try to get as much help and rest as u can ❤️🙏

[@nicoco143]

She said in the video she is 6 weeks pp 😊

[@xcaboodlesx]

Yes moms are amazing!! And you are too. I am rooting for you and hope you can get back to fully breastfeeding soon. You are doing a great job even if it doesn’t always feel like it!!!!! Lots of love ❤❤❤

[@annaburke8537]

I'm at 40 weeks so I'm looking forward to this time, I hope I look half as good as you do in 6 weeks 🤗

[@Kaylebfinds]

Loose skin and ab separation will get better with exercise! I got an exercise bike after having two kids and it makes it so much easier to workout in the living room while watching the kids ❤️ you look beautiful either way!

[@farhatamin1828]

I went through very similar things recently and just wanted to say you’re doing everything you can so plz don’t be hard on yourself (feel like most of moms are), that’s the advice I’d also give myself also.

[@Back2Beautynl]

Thank you for your honesty about everything! Life can be beautiful and challenging at the same time 🤍💫 I am no where near about having a baby but I am learning a lot. Thanks to you I will be more prepared than ever due to your videos! You are such an inspiration for me.

[@wemol1]

Thank you for your honesty re BF. I had a really difficult time with it when my daughter was born 7 years ago. I too thought it would just happen. It didn’t and we ended up having to go the formula route. At the time I was devastated and felt like such a failure. I still find the whole topic quite triggering even now but feel grateful for anyone who highlights that sometimes it doesn’t go exactly to plan even when you are determined. One word of advice is that any milk she gets from you is beneficial so you’ve already given her the best start you could. Combi feeding is ok if that’s what she needs and if you never manage to go solely to BF that is also ok. The time flies and initially all the focus is obviously on milk so the pressure is indescribable. But as the baby grows you start having other things to think about and before you know it it’s nearly time to start weaning and you look back and it’s much easier to get the BF situation into perspective. 7 years on I now realise you go into every parental decision wanting to do the absolute best for your child but it doesn’t always work out that way but it is always ok. You’re doing a fantastic job, sending you lots of positive vibes that everything works out for you xxx ps me and my daughter are very close and she can’t get enough cuddles and kisses from me even now so don’t worry that bottle/formula will decrease your bond xxx

[@reneeaustin7633]

Omg you look great! Enjoy your time with your new baby girl. She is so precious and this time goes by so quickly. I have been watching you since you were in college. I can’t believe you are a wife and mom now. So happy for you ❤ What did you do to prevent stretch marks? Your tummy looks fabulous. You created a whole human. You should feel proud!

[@frankytalks7941]

Stretch marks are genetic, you either have them or you don't, obviously moisturizing helps but even the most expensive cream won't help if they in your DNA

[@lauren9439]

I loved listening to you Annie! Just remember how well you are doing and how much of an inspiration you continue to be ♥️ and thank you for sharing all this with us! I can resonate with you on so many other aspects of life and listening to this really makes me excited for my future and motherhood ♥️

[@angelikaf.7594]

Hi Annie! When my daughter was very little and I started working out again, I just put her on my mat and she found it hilarious. She was giggling all the time. So when you are ready to start again that might be an option for you as well 😉

[@glarafeili8360]

Annie you are doing so well! Becoming a mother is so hard!! But it gets easier with time. Don’t forgot to ask for as much help as you can, remember it takes a village to raise kids. Lots of love xx

[@haileyjones2187]

Try lactation cookies! They worked for me almost right away, and though I became dependent on them, they allowed me to continue breast feeding/pumping for months longer than I would have otherwise.

[@anzaalex743]

Have been your subscriber for quite a long time, I have to say, I am inspired by your journey from an independent girl to a beautiful mother. proud of u Annie💓💞💗💖

[@beverleyroberts1025]

You are doing so well Annie. I can see how much your little girl is loved. You should be so proud of yourself, you are doing an amazing job. But nothing is perfect and nothing ever goes to plan. You are doing your very best. And you have a beautiful daughter.x 😊

[@exex4321]

Hang in there, My breastfeeding journey started EXACTLY as you are describing it and my expectations before birth were the same as yours. I breastfeed, used a little of formula and pumped pumped pumped and cleaned cleaned cleaned. It was very overwhelming. At 2 months I decided to stop using pump and formula and I said: if this baby wants to feed every 5 minuted, so be it.. I will trust that my body will produce the milk he needs when he needs it. That was the best thing I could had done… yesterday we completed a full year of breastfeeding🎉. Wish you the best!❤

[@libbybenedict]

Thank you so much for being transparent about all of this! She is so beautiful and you are doing great, mama 💗

[@monicawoods4911]

Thank you for your transparency and honesty during this new chapter of your life.

[@semav6349]

I feel you Annie! Breastfeeding was the hardest part - but keep going! I did not give up and I could breastfeed my baby 14 month even though I was only like doing it for 6 month as he was not a good ‚eater‘. I don’t know what happened but suddenly he was so into it and I was able to enjoy the breastfeeding journey :)

[@foreverindecision]

I had a similar experience with breastfeeding my first and then he ended up preferring the bottle and I wasn’t able to produce enough milk. My second baby is now 7 months and I have been able to primarily breastfeed. I did struggle again but I was determined to increase my milk supply. I found that hot tea mama milks up tea really helped along with making sure I was consuming lots of protein, healthy fats and staying well hydrated made a difference.

[@jasminadonners7357]

Thank you for sharing Annie! ❤ I am currently in my first trimester and am getting a lot of positive encouragement from your content! Thanks for putting it all- good or challenging out there 🌸

[@mishuge100]

Dear Anie, welcome to the mothers club!:)) Eversince i become mother, i feel like so awaken, i see the world via new glasses. Before, there were pink, now i see the real world, so bright, colorfull, but dangerous and lonely. Motherhood is one of those things that is different for everysingle mother. Nobody will perfectlly be able to understand me or help me the way i need now. The most importand is to surround yourself with other mothers with simular age babies and simular parenting style, they will be the only one who will be able to HEAR you:) FEEL you. Even now, having 2year old, i remember those first few weeks like in a fog. I know i felt simular, but i cant relate anymore. And enjoy it! Every phase of baby was its +and-, it will never be easier, it will get easier in some things, but harder in other:) You are an amazing, optimistic person and i know you are a one of the greatest mothers out there. Stay strong, stay brave, be you❤️

[@Lovelymariska]

Love this honest video, I am a new mom as well and I completely feel the same! This video made me feel better knowing I am not the only one🙏🏽❤️ You are amazing and doing a great job! 💝

[@unciaciapanca]

You are an amazing mum and doing your best with baby girl. Was it difficult for Monto get used to the new life?I noticed there are no pictures of him with baby

[@TheVioletLounge]

Congratulations! She is beautiful. You look great too. Thank you for your honest update, really helpful for new moms!

[@michellekumar1]

Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing the reality of it all, Annie 🤍

[@AmazingThumbalina]

Thank you for sharing your experience!! Mine was very similar to yours - it's so hard to understand this experience fully until you've experienced it. I think even if I had watched videos like yours I wouldn't have truly understood until I went through it. You're doing great mama!

[@90adrijana]

Dear Annie, such a good video of you beeing honest on this part of your life. Certainly most moms as you and myself saw this period really challanging, it is so normal as your life swifts to whole new and everything is emphasised. Regarding breastfeeding, I have believing that if you have a big wish to breastfeed and you try your best after some time things will get better… at the beginning it is hard as you are learning how to do it, baby is learning as well… but once you get hang of it you will both enjoy just it takes some time for it believe me. I had unfortunately 2 mastitis and it took me 2 months to adjust… after it we had 18months of breastfeeding and I will cherish that period whole my life. But don’t forget, the most important thing is that mother is happy than baby will also be happy 🍀🍀🍀

[@sarah0229]

Hi annie, i am a new mom myself .my daughter is now almost 3 months old. Ive had a lot of challenges also breastfeeding my baby but i always had a lot of milk. One tip i can give you is put a lot of malunggay or moringa on soups , the best is having fresh ones if not dried is ok as well..i know there are moringa supplements also.

[@victoriaswain8897]

You have an amazing, balanced and wise outlook. Thanks for the video Annie.

[@sakshidayal1344]

You are awesome. I have 2 kids now and it was super hard when my first one came and only thing I wanted was to get away n go back to work. I m not proud but it did help me to get away to be able to bring positive experiences. Please try n find a way to find some time in the day where you get break.

[@soocouture]

Being a mom is the hardest job the planet you’ll ever love ❤️ with regards to breastfeeding, pumping and supplementing in the first 2-3 months has actually shown to affect breast milk production negatively. Unless baby is dropping weight or not having wet and soiled diapers, there is no need to supplement. Your body knows what baby needs. A pump is not an efficient as a baby’s latch so your body stops producing the amount needed for your little one. I would reach out to a lactation consultants for support/guidance if it’s a journey you wish to purse/continue. Don’t get discouraged. Babies also go through so many growth spurts where they don’t seem satisfied and just want to nurse found the clock. This usually lasts about 3 days and totally normal to help increase supply. It’s definitely no easy task. You got this mama

[@madalina3711]

Hello Anna . Just be strong and enjoy this time because is flying out so quickly , i now is hard on the start but be positive , try to go out and enjoy with your friends, and share your happiness of being a mum. Just enjoy every minute with your princess. I pray for you 🙏 ❤️ 💛

[@emz_xo]

Annie you are such a beautiful kind and caring soul 💓 I wish we were friends in real life 🥰 Thankyou for always being so real and honest with us. You are a wonderful Mama to baby Narlia and she is just as beautiful as you 💖

[@marinastoyanova7009]

Thank you Annie for always sharing so openly! Enjoy this beautiful time 💕💕💕

[@kristynahavelkova8984]

So true and thank you for this video! Currently a mum to 8 months old boy and it does get easier..still takes a lot of time..but a lot of incredible involved! ❤️

[@becciba5515]

THANK YOU for the thumbnail!!! You Look amazing and this is so important for everyone to See. ❤️❤️❤️

[@whitney6252]

Annie. I am sure you are aware but make sure for milk production you are eating a snack before or after feeding your baby. Also lots of water, oats, coconut water, and different vitamins all help with milk supply. But either way you are doing an amazing job. Breastfeeding can be so challenging. You are not alone in this! God bless you and family 💕

[@hollyparsons4234]

Only 10 mins in but breastfeeding was so hard for me for 10 weeks but now my little Boy is 3 and we are still going strong so it does get better but yeah you just never know how hard it is till you’re doing it!! You’re doing amazing!! Asking for help is so hard so I’m Glad you’ve communicated your needs with Mo as hard as it is to ask it’s so essential. Also my twins are almost 3 and I still don’t put myself first/have “me” back. Some weeks I manage 3 workouts others 0. It’s such a head fuck choosing between you or your kids but I am getting better it’s just so so tough so sending you lots of love!! Walking is the best, mine were young during lockdowns when we could only walk so now I walk daily that’s my non negotiable! (And ideally the kids nap in the pram so it means I get me time / exercise while also being with my kids so total win win) xxx

[@neza8628]

I had the same problem with breastfeeding and since my baby was quite small to begin with, I used formula from 2nd day on and of course tried to breastfeed as much as I could possibly.

[@AndreaB140]

Omg thank you for being so real 😭💖 you are such a beautiful person!!

[@cbnextdoor74]

You’re doing amazing!! Congratulations on your beautiful baby, blessings to your family.

[@nadiakalam1985]

Hi Annie… when I was watching your videos I felt like I went back five years before… I went through the same situation as you do now…I am really happy that you try to embarrass each and every moment… what I didn’t do and feel guilty all the time… You give such a motivational advice to each and every mom… I feel like each pregnant and newborn mom should watch your journey of motherhood… you are so honest and explain everything so nicely… May God bless you and your family ❤…

[@Kaymitlit]

Thank you so much for this honest feedback and the knowledge tips on motherhood 💖