Potty training with Mikko | Level 2 Autism

[@apadillaa]

I work as a behavioral therapist for children with autism. It’s definitely possible to teach her how to potty train at 3. We usually start our nonverbal kiddos with PECS or sign language so they can communicate when they have to potty. We start on scheduled sittings with dry checks every 5 minutes with a reinforcer and gradually fade the schedule out until they’re self initiating. Shes doing so great! She’ll get it down in no time 🤍

[@apadillaa]

We also try to steer clear of the potty training undies and put a pull up over their undies for naps and sleep time so they know the sensation of feeling wet without the mess. Praising her for successfully pottying is so important and making sure that you let her know it’s totally fine to have an accident and we can try again next time also really helps. I hope this helps in some way!

[@aumimaaldouise1910]

fr@@Tameka731

[@christinacairo1032]

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[@Aureliafree]

@@Tameka731girl shut up. unfortunately she doesn’t have the luxury to just walk away or treat Mikko like her other kids, that’s exactly why she made this video. She’s on the spectrum so she’s going to need more attention and more patience than a neurotypical child would.

[@ronkeadenekan423]

We start much earlier in Africa with the same techniques because we would rather our children handle themselves better in school . Diapers are provided in case of accidents .

[@manarcabrera2528]

She did really good for her first day. Mikko is such a sweet child. 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@thegentlelife]

Thank you ❤

[@prettyboy_caden_2007]

@@thegentlelife I'M Level 1 Autism and i don't like to have autism

[@Lynvbgy]

I know this is something you arent even worried about right now. But ive noticed in all the videos that she consistently “W sits”. Shes doing this because she has weak core muscles and her legs muscles are both tight and super loose. She sits like this because it provides a wider base of support. If she continues this she will have some posture issues as well as a higher tendency to walk pigeon toed later or have knock knees. I know its a lot for her but just fixing her legs or repositioning her to sit “criss cross applesauce” or in the “4” position will help her a lot. Also giving her a verbal que of “fix your legs” might help her a lot. My credentials are developmental specialist in the state of NM and i work with autisitc children ages 0-3

[@arielrocks10]

@@Tameka731I mean honestly, I’m not exactly an expert on toilet training, but I work with children with autism and some of my kids are 4-5 and aren’t yet toilet trained due to lack of willingness of the parents, busy schedule or just frustration. That fact that she’s consistently trying is awesome. But toddlers are going to cry..and especially kids with special needs, schools are pretty much expecting that..at least in my state, children with autism can usually go to special needs classes at 3 whether they’re potty trained or not, cry, scream, whatever.

[@dscrerar1111]

​@@Tameka731children who are mainly non verbal use other ways to communicate. Crying with or without tears is communication. Children with autism are all different with regards to potty training. Parents and carers and educators tend to know when the child is ready because they learn the cues from the child. What I dont agree with is filming your child potty training and having meltdowns for KZbin. It's a gross invasion of privacy 😮

[@thenurse8063]

@@dscrerar1111After seeing your comment several times 👏 👏 👏 you made your point…. Is that what you needed? Did you just need someone to agree???

[@thegentlelife]

We’ve addressed this concern in other videos on our page. Thank you

[@thenurse8063]

@@Tameka731 Not at all… if you go back and read my comment and see who it was directed at you would see that it was directed at a specific comment. It was actually sarcasm to someone who is on this wonderful family’s page talking about how they parent.

[@jacqueline-fc8wb]

Hi. Please continue on not letting your daughter "give up " on things you are trying to do. Stay firm but gentle if that is possible. GREAT JOB PARENTS. 😊

[@thegentlelife]

Thank you, we plan on sticking to a plan to help her learn at her pace, with consistency, I know she will get it soon enough ❤

[@diasporaconnecttanzania3521]

You such a good job. You are so patient with Mikko. May The Most High lead and guide you and give you discernment on how to help baby girl in everything. She is so precious.

[@blacdiamond_tv]

Definitely struggling with potty training with my 2 year old with autism thanks for sharing🙏🏾 May God bless Your beautiful daughter & family ❤

[@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts]

Always a pleasure to see Mikko's smiling face. I love to see you employ these gentle techniques as you work with her. ❤

[@feleciathomas4245]

Congratulations Mikko!!! She said "I did it!" I was smiling from ear to ear. My children are 31 and 17 and they both were potty trained at 1. My granddaughter will be 2 in December and she is potty trained already. HOWEVER, each child is different and it depends on when that child is ready and is showing signs that they are aware what's going on. Like bringing you a pamper/pull ups and wipes.😊 If they can do that, then they probably can say pot pot. I also use the potty chart with stickers and prizes and it worked marvelously.❤❤❤

[@brandimartin5140]

My son turns 1 in 6 days and he’s been potty training for a few weeks now. He goes in his pot 95% of the time. So glad to see your comment and know that I’m not crazy and what I’m doing is possible.

[@LLStark]

Are either of your children autistic like this baby? That makes a huge difference you know. Can't really compare your children with hers if they aren't. That wouldn't be fair.

[@aishaghalaini6033]

She definitely said the word "read" as she was flipping the pages. She is so wonderful🎉

[@glennfields8121]

Way to go Mikko! You are progressing so nicely! I am happy for you and you too Precious.

[@thegentlelife]

Thank you so much!

[@Rebecca-l6f]

Two years old, and three years old is naturally that it’s good practice that doesn’t mean they will get it immediately but learning it is the most important part.

[@pamelaferebee3648]

I love how you both care for Mikko. She is truly loved. She will get it. Blessings to your family 🙏🏾

[@nicoleford7127]

It is never to early to start potty training especially when you have special needs children. Both of my children were trained by 2 years old. With everything consistency is the key. Also the potty should be kept in the bathroom so that she knows where to go when she needs to go to the bathroom. Set up a schedule like when she first gets up in the morning , after breakfast before and after lunch and before bedtime.

[@ohtartarsauce6301]

Yeah idk…when I was a baby I potty trained at 2

[@misspeaches2217]

Mom said she was in her "safe space" in the hallway. I'm sure they will transition when the time is right.

[@dscrerar1111]

Yeah the bathroom is also a private space, no filming 😮

[@thenurse8063]

Some of this advice is great. I do feel that it does not matter where the potty is kept in the first few days of training. Getting them to use it is the point. It’s not hard to transition to the bathroom.

[@janmeyer3129]

I think kids vary a lot. My son was quite dyspraxic, so we weren’t expecting it to be a quick process, but he surprised us all by not needing any ‘training’ at all - he just started using the adult toilet by himself. We provided a step for him to reach it after he nearly fell in trying to climb up to the seat, but that is all it took. He did not sleep more than an hour or two at a time until he was about 7yo, so nights were no different to days (left a light on)

[@GETYOBAGMONIQUE]

Wow she has come a long way what a blessing to witness and i love the fact that you and your husband are so patient and accepting of her i know its not always easy

[@dscrerar1111]

You want to witness a child go potty? Wow 😮

[@GETYOBAGMONIQUE]

@@dscrerar1111 really she covered her up 😂 shes showing people ways of how to handle a child with a disability and autism and showing her progress I can understand it could be uncomfortable for some people to watch but hey that's on the viewer me personally I wouldn't tape it I would just talk about the experience

[@sophialee642]

Mikko's just simply the best in a large way!🎉My heart soars with pride to see how she's thriving! You both are doing a phenomenal parenting job...KUDDOS!🎉🎉

[@hannahhammond2595]

The way she just melts into your guys arms warms my heart.

[@magdamagdalena3938]

I am touched by what wonderful parents you are.Mikko is so lucky to have both of you by her side❤️❤️❤️

[@Lala214]

She reminds me so much of my baby girl Milo! I tried to potty train her at 2 & 3 but she just wasn’t ready. Then finally a week before her 4th birthday she got it! Got her trained in about 4 days. She turned 4 this Aug and is fully potty trained day & night. It’s tough with our asd babies but she will get there even if it just takes her being a little older like my girl. You’re doing great mama! Go Mikko! 🤍

[@candacehembrick8861]

Yay Mikko!! I just say go with how she wants to go with it. If she feels like going potty, ok if she doesn’t ok. See how comfortable Mikko is, that is how I did with my child. I had 2 potties for her one in the bathroom she uses most and the other one where ever she was playing. Sometimes she will surprise you and just go on her own. You all are doing amazing! ❤

[@dscrerar1111]

Did you film it for KZbin?

[@thelovelycamille528]

@@dscrerar1111 Why are you watching? I swear you KZbin Karens are a hot mess.

[@NtricateMynd579]

​@@thelovelycamille528I agree. And she did use a blanket to cover her. She's sharing her challenges to help others yet there's always a critic. 🙄

[@angelacleveland75]

🥹 I'm so proud of her! Watching her read was the bestest! 🥰

[@LolliMolly09]

Her vocal words and signs together at the same time is awesome!! She did great with the potty for her first real day.

[@motherearth2414]

I began training my autistic granddaughter at age two. It was going nowhere until her Dad said I will train her and it was done in 2 days because she does everything for her Daddy. I see Mikko acts the same day with her dad. You might want to let him do it. That's what worked for babybird.

[@dscrerar1111]

Did you film her for KZbin?😮

[@Justme-qn3ps]

Yayyyyy! I know how hard it can be, just keep practicing with her and she will get it! ❤

[@dscrerar1111]

Practise in private please!😮

[@sandra-jones]

She is doing so, so well. Congratulations Mom and Dad! Good job Nikko!!

[@lynnpearson4933]

Proud Auntie here! 🗣GREAT JOB BIG GIRL 👏🏽👏🏽

[@CJ-qe7sb]

You are such good parents. The love is overflowing. Remember to take time for yourselves.

[@legendarymayormarylikestur8874]

Is she saying "read" while reading? So cute!!! Potty training was kept super relaxed with my son. I love the books on the topic!

[@HisbeautifulTruth-nl1ch]

So much love between daddy and daughter ❤ I feel sorry for any boy/young man she brings around because he'll have a lot to live up to😊

[@mi2meme2mi65]

I love this I love your video. Becareful broadcasting this on KZbin.

[@dscrerar1111]

Exactly 😮

[@micheleadamson9867]

Yay Mikko!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Using the potty like a big girl, I'm so proud of you sweetie!

[@mrsdaws7066]

Love your channel.. and love to watch Mikko it was so funny when she was reaching to put her hand in the toilet that was so funny.. luv u guys❤️

[@dscrerar1111]

Yeah it's so funny! Lucky it wasnt a number two. Why do you enjoy watching a child on the potty please?

[@pertinasmith8183]

I work with toddlers and I had learned most toddlers become potty trained by three. Girls by 2 1/2 and boys by 3. I feel like every child is different. While most of my kids is potty trained by 3 and some by 2 or before than. I do have some the become potty trained after. I think she would do great I have Asperger's and even though I had a lot of delays potty training I got it down and one of my friends kids who is level 2 autistic got it down too. I say this to say no pressure but you got this! Don't get stressed and Nico would probably love it because of the independent. Plus you put it in her safe spot! Who knows she might just relax there sometimes. You got this mom!

[@dscrerar1111]

Would you like to be filmed on the potty?😮

[@windyharvie4266]

It's fantastic your starting to potty train her. In time, she will become more consistent. So proud of her and proud of you. 😊

[@audreybranner1178]

If you're talking about a child that HAS NO MEDICAL CONDITION then 3 years old is way to late. Mines were 10 months, 13 months & 18 months he was sick & spent a lot of time in the Hospital. The one who was 10 months old stop using the bathroom on himself, but when I put him in my bed he messed up my bed.

[@Juju-x4n]

Shut up… show off

[@BronxRisen]

Tell my MiMi that her internet aunty is so proud of her💪🏽💅🏼💅🏼🙌🏾👑 Sending love from NYC ❤️

[@lorenzocanto1612]

Come on mikko you make progress every day ❤ blessing take care

[@faithhendricks6650]

Yay....😊... Good job mama. You just go with the flow and work her. No rush. It is more effective that way. And when you praise them, oh my goodness, it's the best thing ever.😊

[@saraludwick3097]

You are doing great! Every kiddo with autism is so different! Mine did good with pee but has struggled with pooping. And now is upset with loud flushing toilets at almost 5! It’s such a journey

[@sianmilne4879]

I would poop in the toilet but would always just pee in my diaper, but as soon as school came around I was magically able to go to the bathroom in the toilet all the time 😉 sometimes, they just need a good reason to change, after all they're not the ones having to change the diapers 😂

[@cherry_bear_aestheticd6840]

She’s doing so good ❤❤. Good job Mikko you’re doing so great honey

[@mvina2774]

Signing “hungry” and “eat,” and saying “purple” and “read, read, read!” She’s awesome, and you and dad are too. 💚

[@sherrihawes167]

Your amazing precious and the family connections the best. Love watching your programs

[@b4real2me]

Potty training in my family was... WILD!!! We had this song and dance. The li'l person would run around the house after using the toilet and er'body would clap and encourage 'em. It's like we had a party... 🏠🚽🧻🎼🎶💃🏾🕺🏾

[@marjorieross8238]

For me when I started potty training, I used the every hour method along with constant speeches in regards to potty training. It's alright to let her have those meltdowns & step back all the while in letting her know you are giving her that space to do so.

[@dscrerar1111]

Meltdowns and potty training should not be filmed NO!😮

[@darlabrown1413]

Congratulations mikko,this is her child,she can do as she pleases.

[@thatgirlPAIGE94]

Great job to you both!!

[@LifeLoveBliss]

Give her that dignity. She's more than capable of learning. Also, consistently putting her on the toilet is important. We don't "sometimes" use the toilet as adults, so it's a good idea to solidify the message "we use the toilet whenever we need it" -❤ coming from a parent who's also on the spectrum and works with this population

[@jasintamoore3372]

Mikko so cute 🥰 I hope she will find a way to speak to you right now she is doing the best she can. So adorable!!!

[@kmoliere504]

That "ottt!" at the end of the intro 😂

[@storiking650]

Not true, all 3 of my mother's children, including my nephew were all potty trained completely by age 1. It seems like as the years have gone on, parents have gotten more lax & as a result, they're at an age where they are no longer babies, they are "young children" but still are not potty trained. I think 3 is much too old to not be potty trained & still wearing a pamper in particular for average abilitied children. The expectation may be quite different for a child on the spectrum as we must give an appropriate consideration to their delays & ability to understand. Mikko on the other hand, I DO BELIEVE IS HIGHLY INTELLIGENT & CAPABLE OF UNDERSTANDING, so now that you've started, I have NO DOUBT she'll knock this thing out the park in NO TIME!!!

[@marygarcia456]

She always says Thank you, she has more sense than most adults facts!!

[@nicolegolden7555]

I feel Mikko exhibits behavior of child who is always rewarded but no true discipline. Discipline is not a comforting pat on the back to reinforce her negative ways. I'm not saying to pop or hit your child. But she understands so much more than you may see...from outside eyes looking in. You have leverage to get her to use the potty. She wants to wear the training pants, but in order to do so let her know that's what goes on for potty use....it's not easy no potty training is, but discipline is a part of it. Gentle life or not. Good Luck

[@janeford218]

OMG. Please ignore this person. You both are doing a wonderful job for your daughter.

[@dscrerar1111]

The thoughts behind this process are reward good behaviour, ignore bad behaviour.

[@Emily-wn2qj]

She may be autistic, but she's very smart and intelligent. She knows what she's doing a lot of the times

[@ohkaypretty]

good thing nobody asked you

[@ppiper6807]

Congratulations, she is doing so well

[@everythingrosey4813]

Good job!❤

[@genevievearchbaker8604]

4:40 my thoughts when I don't wanna hear someone talking, sometimes very hard to not actually scream 9:11 so cute that "I did it" from miko

[@elnoradarby2209]

Mikko is surely growing up very nicely....thanks mom❤

[@stephanie6831]

Congratulations Mikko 💜💜

[@almondkissed3794]

My son is two and understands the concept of going to the toilet. He even will pay the front and say “pee-pee” or pat the back and say “poo-poo” but am still having a hard time getting him to stay on the toilet!! Like would rather rip his dry pull-up and pee in the floor 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@renettegordley3493]

My babies were potty trained right at three. It seems like if you potty train them before theyre ready they might wet the bed more. Because its not registering to hold it in their sleep.

[@judywright4809]

So wonderful. I am smiling for you all. God Bless!

[@pauladavies6705]

Great little girl and family you all just melt my heart ❤

[@beccablount6322]

You are amazing parents and potty training is not easy for any child. But she is trying I'm so proud of her

[@joyfulsista]

Where did you find those training pants ty

[@heavenkelley5608]

maybe a reward system might help

[@thegentlelife]

I thought of that! We will try it next time 💛

[@lmini05]

My daughter was potty trained by 1. I started putting her on the potty as soon as she started walking (9 months). She kept removing her pamper. They will let you know when it’s time. It’s the parents that are not ready.

[@Poo531]

Is your autistic? If not then your situation is different okayyy?

[@nickyjones2709]

Aww well done, brilliant 🎉❤

[@mistressravenlilyscreepybo5493]

Try to make it a game. My son is autistic. We put little circles and targets to aim for. Then he got rewarded. It's just a suggestion. Good luck, she'll get there when she's ready.

[@GETYOBAGMONIQUE]

Great Job Mikko ❤❤❤

[@positivevibesonly9536]

My two boys were potty trained at 2 1/2. It takes time. She will get it. Lots of praises

[@dscrerar1111]

Did you film them for KZbin?😅😮

[@yvettebrown256]

​@@dscrerar1111how can you tell her parents how to raise her,they doing a great job

[@kelliesheehan6304]

😂🙂🙋 You are such a good mum Precious so patient .. Best wishes. Happy holidays.

[@marybowen1630]

❤Great job Mikko!🎉

[@Steph_Said]

Pretty good for day 1. Good job!

[@latrellwilliams796]

Depends upon a child's understanding of things. I was potty trained at age 1. But if your 2yr old on car ride passes McDonald's & asks driver for McDonald's, driver says no & 2yr old asks why...this smart kid shouldn't be peeing & pooping on themselves!

[@DawnGreene]

Good girl!!!😊❤super proud

[@karlenespencer8824]

I love that you both work together.

[@brendaspearman3200]

Big girl that is so good keep up the good work 👏🏽

[@cochiefemeralds3616]

I am son the autism spectrum and was fully trained at a 4.5

[@silverdoe9477]

Even being partially diaper-free is huge! 😄👏 She’s so smart, she knows what it’s all about.

[@beautifuldisaster139]

my non autistic daughter was potty trained between 2-2 1/2 yrs old … my grand baby is autistic & is 2 1/2 now way to early to teach her but most non autistic kids are usually potty trained by 3 if not earlier & u mention non autistic kids aren’t potty trained by 3 either & both my son & daughter were potty trained way before 3 esp my daughter learned before my son but he was trained by 3

[@javajuiice1873]

I’m going to pray for you and your family. Let Jesus walk with you every step of the way through your journey. You are doing an amazing job of raising your daughter.💗

[@KristinAlayna]

She's saying "read" as she flips through the book 🤩

[@starzsaligned]

Good job 🎉❤

[@Faith37471]

I was lucky one of my boys was trained at 18months and the other at 2. She is doing a great job though. What a little sweetie!!!

[@SweetPea-eo8ii]

Congratulations Mikko ❤

[@nisinisi4627]

Nope, she'll be the typical child when being potty trained.....good job Mikko!!

[@CherieButler]

If you believe a kid can be potty trained by one, you're correct. If you believe a child should be potty trained between 3-5, you're correct. Your thoughts will create your reality.

[@Chevonne2000]

No my son have autism I potty train him at 3 year old I keep doing every day till he got it right it took 1 year to get it right

[@ayses3851]

The beginning 😂❤

[@afeminame]

Great job, Mikko and mom. Still wish I could give some insight.

[@HoneyBunnzz]

Ok a little off topic, but her outfits are so cute!

[@mommyleo565]

Whats the brand of the training underwear you got my son is 3 years old as well and his autistic as well i want to get him potty trained as well and I dont know where to start ?

[@Reneesaidit]

My son was potty trained at 2 and had no issues so yes, 3 is ready ready. Soon as they start hiding when they go poop that tells you they're aware and ready.

[@Kooda56]

That a good age to start potty training her I train my nephew at age two

[@darlabrown1413]

You do so well with her,

[@thelifeofelle1389]

I work as a preschool teacher (2s) and all of my schools require kids to be fully potty trained before they can move up to the 3 year old class. Idk if that's the standard anywhere else but now I'm curious 🤔👀 Also (unsolicited advice for anyone who wants to hear it) for the moments when switching between diapers and underwear may be a struggle, what I typically do is keep the child in diapers until they've started using the potty consistently. Simply because it makes for less confusion in terms of "it's okay for me to pee in this so why isn't it okay for me to pee in this," it is also in general just less of a hassle, and for kids who may be more sensitive to the texture of diapers, once they get introduced to that comfier texture of underwear, they will more than likely get upset if you take it away and give them the rough texture back

[@joyhuff6928]

My son was afraid of the toilet until he was 8. Hoping you will have an easier time. They keep the script for diapers a secret. I don't know why.

[@joycepetty2264]

My granddaughter turns 3 in July.

[@cynthiabrown7537]

Good job, Mikko🎉🎉🎉

[@LotteryJunkie7467]

You doing good job.🙏🏾

[@elise596]

I enjoy watching your videos but I think that this one went too far . If she could give consent, I doubt that she would want to have her potty training journey on the Internet for the world to see. I think that other parents can read articles and ask for advice on forums rather than watch a 3 year old girl literally sit on the toilet

[@beulahdukes]

Big Girl Mikko 😊❤. Now don’t touch it Suga 😅😅