Pour Minds - Episode 150 - Hold It Down for What? Ft. LightSkin Keisha

Hey y’all! This episode features LightSkin Keisha and we discuss Holding somebody down and fighting for your relationship vs leaving , Are men better friends than women, masturbating in a relationship and more!
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[@Mshellokitty161]

When she said “you’re already planning to bring a child in the world with a deficit in their life” i knew this was going to be good!

[@jmjackson20081]

YESSSSS LOL

[@jnicoleondemand3253]

Period

[@jetlifejoe9380]

True

[@DreaAndLex]

Lmfaooo.. Y’all crazy, it was a healthy debate.. We respect our girl opinions even though it’s different ❤️

[@meshaun9]

EXACTLY..AND THIS PERSPECTIVE WAS NECESSARY TO GIVE. I LOVED IT :)

[@Saiuriyon]

Man Keisha went in, promoted accountability, and presented logic. 😩🏆🏅🐐👏🏽😩🙌🏽

[@aliciabarbour2454]

No shade but it’s nice to see someone with a different mindset on here for once loveeeee Keisha

[@deyanae4058]

this !!!!!

[@marcuisgoree5182]

I always said they focus on one coward once they focus on all audience that’s when the views will go up

[@Mia-il4ee]

Same thing I said! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@apdapacman4427]

Yesss I agree lol…. Both of them two lady’s changing they mindset when Keisha walked in. Go check the other interviews with other people. They talking reckless

[@ashleywifey13]

I agree!!

[@ArtisanMuzik]

Very impressed by Keisha. She respects marriage and men in general.

[@nathanmyles3785]

The Keisha girl is a breath of fresh air hearing that from a young woman like her. These comments make me extremely happy to be my age and have found my wife before social media exploded. The way most of you view life is so depressing and I'm shocked to read 80 percent of these comments from the females, only a few grown women spoke here.

[@FireAngelChris]

Happy for you and I am so ready to find my wife because how most view life is crazy.

[@PhilBlack718]

I expected it from the rapper . She was actually the sensible one . The other two woman will just be single baby mothers if that . She said” dudes aren’t built like her married father . Is she built like her married mom ?

[@therealsyxx]

@@FireAngelChris good luck family. You will

[@FireAngelChris]

@@therealsyxx Appreciate that’s big time and I have a good feeling I will.

[@MrTru2it]

@@PhilBlack718 Exactly 💯 Facts!

[@drivendancer]

As a Pour Minds regular, I'm only 19 minutes into this episode and I'm glad that this conversation is taking place for your audience. Ladies its okay not to go along with today's culture of dating.

[@RVANae]

@@IAMWATER7 It's actually not "you're" as you typed. I'm not sure if "you're" trying to correct her but she used it right. Your = one's possession You're= you are Example @Iamwater you're wrong.

[@RVANae]

@@IAMWATER7 Kevin Samuels said Black men read & write at a 4th grade & you proved it.

[@gladyswilliams6058]

@@RVANae I don’t think he was correcting her grammar , I think he was saying “your audience = black women” , which is probably mostly true , and that’s crazy how you brought Kevin Samuels into it and he had nothing to do with it 😂

[@RVANae]

@@gladyswilliams6058 Do you not understand how you are (you’re) audience doesn’t make sense? Are you serious 🧐

[@RVANae]

@@gladyswilliams6058 Please don’t try to interpret what someone says when they clearly meant what they said. You’re defending someone that’s wrong and that doesn’t make sense.

[@Gorgeouschi_]

Kiesha asked what needed to be asked Lmaoo so funny straight out the gate!

[@cookiecookie8259]

That chic comes across as authentic...I like her music and vibe

[@ArabaApau]

Keisha is soooo real! I love how real she was being with Drea. In a way that was loving but was like “girl there IS better out there!”

[@jnicoleondemand3253]

Amen not hating or nothing just girls having a good real ass conversation and all staying real and true to they self even if they don't agree

[@meshaun9]

YESSSSS I second that!!

[@jvo1741]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eYG4Xqdpitt1p6s #mustseetv !

[@Hacked222]

U can read Keisha whole vibe and what she thinking by her facial expressions

[@shes60lovely]

Facts... She was most definitely ready to go... She kept it cute though

[@deeznutz8320]

@@imsoy2k Because she puts babymommas like you in the spot with your little Treyvon shooting up the block

[@NESGTorro]

@@imsoy2k you had that response ready huh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@clarenceoneal7282]

She aint feeling drea but like lex

[@jamiarandall3675]

As a Virgo we don’t like to always be talking sometimes we be thinking of other shit. Not in a rude way we just be thinking hard like she said. Plus, she’s kinda chill and all this loudness is kinda not her all the time. Plus, we listen and think.

[@novelbeauti5073]

I had to hit like after Keisha put Drea on game "women have to hold themselves accountable for who they give their attention too..." yes!

[@BK-tj4fw]

The awkward moment when you realize that Keisha is talking about gimme gimme gimme girls on a podcast hosted by gimme gimme gimme girls 😭

[@dasugo]

Best place to have the conversation

[@MrTru2it]

Facts!

[@MELOSINCE87]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@meeclucc8695]

in they defense they saying gimme cause they already got

[@tee1736]

exactly like they talk about getting things a lot so its kind of no vibing

[@liveentertainment4841]

Cooking and cleaning are survival skills. We should ALL know how to do them. It shouldn’t determine if you bring anything to the table🥴🥴

[@FALUKYOURMOM]

facts , that why I hate when girls say that;s what they bring to the table.

[@princessdianaox]

Yes it’s giving pick me, it’s so cringe I hate it

[@naima8703]

Omg for real. I hate when Men ask this question. Like can you cook? Both genders should know how to cook & clean. That’s basic af & shouldn’t even be mentioned. Embarrassing

[@NBA1529]

You'd be surprised how many of these new age thots can't cook.

[@FALUKYOURMOM]

@@NBA1529 LMAO

[@ThaFinestMusic]

Light. Skin. Keisha. THANK YOU for being a beam of light, I love her perspective, her mindset, her holding all women, including her peoples here, accountable. THIS is very promising and healthy, necessary dialogue that will bring forth progression if more women are on her level mentally and emotionally. Loved every bit of what she brought to the table, no pun intended.

[@abigailj2485]

It’s so funny seeing some of the comments calling Keisha a pick me because she never once tried to make men seem better than women. She said BOTH parties need to be held accountable in relationships and how they contribute to the demise. I can see why she doesn’t have much female friends, especially in ATL because women ain’t tryna hear the real

[@GETBIG4WARD]

I live in Atlanta and you right unless you are promoting fuckery most women and MEN in Atlanta not trying to hear it half the people in Atlanta can’t even read to be honest

[@exceptionallife4768]

Better to be a pick me than a pass me.... Lonely old and drunk with nice furniture that cats pee all on

[@FireAngelChris]

It’s also why she even have a man. Those people attacking her are the types of ladies she was referring to. They didn’t have a problem with the other harmful rhetoric. It’s the selfishness that caught them. “Like how dare you ask me to give the same energy to a man that he gives me”

[@WrestlinginColorPodcast]

@@exceptionallife4768 telling people they gonna be by themselves is not an insult LMAOOOO

[@exceptionallife4768]

@@WrestlinginColorPodcast 👍🏿

[@serenamonet9456]

Keisha is 1000% correct Idc idc she’s RIGHT

[@BASICALLYBASICNAILS]

Keisha is a TRUE VIRGO. Come through w the LOGIC & probing questions. No tolerance for BS

[@shenellrichardson4936]

Forreal.

[@kdennis2461]

As a Virgo I can be honest and say she came with the judgment and boring uncreating backward perspective

[@BASICALLYBASICNAILS]

@@kdennis2461 I don't know what was so backwards. Perspective is subjective... and while I do agree Keisha may have been a little judgy, I don't think she felt anything different than someone joining the show for the first time

[@jvo1741]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eYG4Xqdpitt1p6s #mustseetv !

[@finertips375]

@@dontdomeboo81 😂😂😂😂ouuu

[@sincerelylatasha]

Keisha has a real perspective, very mature. Talented, funny, and understands her value, period.

[@yournextguest]

More so she understands the value in a man.

[@killanumba23]

Didn’t know Keisha was so intelligent👏🏾 way to teach these city girls. This is the exact type of women to avoid fellas !

[@FireAngelChris]

We definitely need more ladies like Keisha to sit down with other women in challenging a lot of the things they say. Like 80% of the ladies in the comments are upset at her for speaking truth on behalf of the man but any other time these guest have the same opinions they cool with it. 🔥🔥

[@kckrox6911]

We don’t want a headache either😂😂😂😂…… you can’t tell single women anything today. The all are going look up and be 80 and wonder why they are in assisted living alone. They assume when we say be flexible and feminine means be a doormat. When we are actually saying no man is perfect give them the space to grow and understand your boundaries then do what you need to do to be healthy and no man wants to date a n!gga with a vagina…..Their fantasy of what love should look like is more powerful than any reality we can offer. They don’t want to hear about the real way relationships work. That it can be beautiful and ugly sometimes too….and they want men to think like women but be alpha at the same time….. I literally had a gf who broke up with a man because she called him at 8 pm and he didn’t call her back until 11 am the next morning. He said he went to sleep. She has no proof of cheating. She ended because “just in case” ….it’s weird and I want no parts 😂😂😂🤷🏽‍♀️

[@FireAngelChris]

@@kckrox6911 lol they are insane for real. They don’t want the real reality of the relationships. They want fantasy of what things should be. They better wake up.

[@t_chopper]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@FireAngelChris]

@@t_chopper It’s crazy

[@tiffanylachelle]

Man y’all the reason why I elevated my life I move into my apartment next month love my girls 🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and got my own car with a good job! It’s the glow for me 😘

[@KBlair982]

Congrats sis!!🎉🎊

[@ChannelEmmature]

Aye Keisha kept it 1000! Lex sound like she gone be passing that box like communion for life! I LOVE how Keisha said “You gone bring a child in the world with a deficit” in response to Drea saying she want a baby without a man. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@mholley8376]

Out The Gate Ms Keish hitting it out the park. Yes Ma'am!!

[@sfab5039]

I have so much respect for Keisha. I already loved her as an artist, she’s an amazing woman. The whole package, super respectful, smart, and beautiful.

[@JamalMack]

I’m not gonna lie when my ex listen to keisha on the radio and I heard her rap. I honestly thought she was like another city girl or some ish but listening to the mini clips before I’m about to listen to the full podcast took me off guard with what she was saying so ill give her her props and credit is due

[@amberchantell]

I love Keisha and her perspective on things. I swear I’ve been trying to figure out for so long who she looks like and it’s Gladys Night & Rah Digga.

[@latinagibbs2770]

Yes!!!

[@MrCambry]

Lightskin Keisha was a phenomenal guest, matched the vibe perfectly. Got me thinking about when Love Dorsey comes on the show🤔

[@trigi1343]

Love Dorsey fine asf

[@harlemnights4381]

That a be a good episode

[@kimpalmerA23]

She is such a Virgo her energy so nonchalant and chill😂

[@truthseeker0075]

Great episode, but also could tell lex and drea held back some of their real opinions on dating. Having a BDB literally only came up once 😂😂

[@Lace900]

LOVED this episode!! To the last letter: He live with you and you caught him cheating. Girl say goodbye to that man peacefully and quietly like Keisha said. He doesn’t deserve your body an he doesn’t deserve to share a space with you and your child. Y’all deserve happiness 🤍

[@lickballsful]

It's wild that she plans on being a single parent. Also, its more to raising a kid then just the financial aspect.

[@jarelmorris6816]

Then said they don’t make these niggas like my daddy but are u like yo momma is the question

[@williewoodard5451]

Can’t tell these modern women the truth, they’re allergic to it

[@pareeshaslaughter6798]

It's still a major issue in the black community. Our people need the most work on the development of relationships and communication. It could be a lot more black relationships but the huge disconnection in that area is growing. Especially in America

[@Mia-il4ee]

I absolutely lovedddd this episode. I love Keisha and listening to her talk made me like her even more. Keep shining ladies!

[@a.m97]

Lex is a damn fool .. she said “OOP, not you slugging me” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@TruthHurts.rapgirls]

I really enjoyed listening to this. Especially about women taking accountability. If you want to be married, women should check themselves. Not all men cheat, plus the same women complaining about the cheating, are low key cheating as well and often times more. Also, it’s the type of men we choose. My channel is all about prepping women to become wives. I want the marriage rate to go back up especially in the black community. Keisha was on point on this ‼️

[@darren1212]

Agree

[@kanelife8349]

Love her mindset Lightskin Keisha really brought out some real questions we all need to ask ourselves. When she said bring a child into the world with a deficit in your life.

[@mitchell4f401]

I knew this episode would be a back and forth. They twooooooo different types of women. Neither is better than the next but they def attract two different type of dudes

[@therevolutionsolution7560]

One is BETTER

[@mitchell4f401]

@@therevolutionsolution7560 which one

[@therevolutionsolution7560]

Which one do you think?

[@tre12124]

Her man ain't nothin special 🤣 y'all swear

[@JennJennntv]

5 minutes in & Kiesha being the girl that I love. Im glad she dropping gems, I Love her & Coca relationship

[@eboneeburgess7496]

This is awesome,seeing beautiful women talk about these things without negativity was great to watch! Love Pour Minds you guys keep up the great work, also light skin Keisha was great I hope this won’t be the last time she visits. ❤️

[@Null467]

I love the different perspectives!

[@bry9895]

We need more women like keisha!!! women like her are the one's you marry

[@demlord5062]

Nah niggas just don’t want that

[@yudahel8521]

Big facts, have my back baby

[@cshakeria6881]

she got engaged too!

[@darren1212]

Facts

[@raiya86ify]

Keisha was so honest i loved her here and on everything else please have her more.

[@LaKae444]

Hey LSK!!! I luv the way she thinks. You have the right to desire whatever you please in a partner. And letting go is true freedom for real!

[@farahsa7127]

After that interview, I have so much respect for LightSkin Keisha.

[@clifthasupaproducer8757]

Keisha is madd cool! 💯 Diggin the perspective she brought to the show.

[@DreaAndLex]

Love her!

[@kianadean3810]

Loveeee this episode perfect guest for different perspectives love y’all as always Big Mama this hair the one!!!!

[@latifahjohnson5538]

I say the same thing Keisha says about friends “I’ll pray for you and wish you the best with your goals but you can’t sit at my table anymore”

[@prettymillz033]

Love this episode. Ya’ll were having so much fun ! Lex plays!

[@itariighoroje3817]

Lexp a comedian fr fr 🤣. She need to really think about doing it officially.

[@samanthasarwah8185]

Absolutely loved this episode! love me some Keisha, her mindset is everything .

[@jaylaa247]

" forever get my lick back" 19:00 🤣i felt that lex lmaoo

[@DreaAndLex]

Lmfaooooo

The ending song was everything! Ya'll killed it.

[@bigsisterology]

When Keisha said I’m a Virgo, I was like I knew it 🥰 cuz we think things so deeply and internally when it comes to friendship, relationship, etc. we analyze and observe EVERYTHING but immediately show loyalty once we see for who the person really is and being honest with the person.

[@ebonydurham4859]

Them: “Y’all know we never have guest” Them: Having mad guests lol

[@DreaAndLex]

Well we can tell you a new listener 😂❤️

[@ebonydurham4859]

@@DreaAndLex Lmao I am 🙈 heyyyy

[@dejapalmer5982]

Lex: I’m forever getting my lick back Keisha: no no no no 😅🤣

[@missbrownies7403]

Karma is me 💎

[@governorstash8168]

Keisha just got even more attractive. Dumping logic on their feelings. Wish her all the best in her relationship.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

They will not invite her back

[@diamond4270]

​@@GETBIG4WARD 🤣🤣

[@jasminelewis1348]

I haven’t even started listening yet and I’m excited!!

[@annaCoutureFalorin]

Need more conversations like this. LK kept it real 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@lizg451]

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS my faves giving free game on “how a woman thinks is how she lives”🥰

[@Greatestpersonever2doit]

Keisha is so true! Accountability! Views 100% matched

[@chelbels16]

Omggg yessss yal snapped with this one I love her and then I get to watch my favorite 2 podcast ladies I’m here for the winnnn

[@raeraelynn2963]

Loved This Y’all had different points of views everyone can relate too ❤️

[@LifebyJazzieey]

Ayyeeee I just know this episode is gunna be lit 🔥

[@i_am_esol]

First time I watched a whole episode straight through….Light skinned Keisha has a new fan!

[@chillcharm7822]

I love this episode ‼️ GIRL POWER HAS BEEN TAKING OVER BABY it’s me over here shaking my head yesssss this whole episode

[@dsymonespot]

This was sooo fun to watch and listen to!! You guys gained a fan in me! 🙏🏾🥰❤️🎙

[@BarberShoes47]

This was a really good episode ladies!!

[@CD-iz7rp]

Yes!! Thanks for putting me onto Ari Lennox ladies! Down here in Aussie we get music so slow 😭 she’s amazing 🤩

[@TheCHYNAG]

Best episode of 2021 💎 Transparency, great dialogue and open mindedness. I laughed a lot like always, yet walked away with gems.

[@itstriceym.4152]

Keisha speaking facts no lie. This convo was definitely needed!

[@terreshap]

She a true Virgo fr! Loved this one girls ❤

[@sabreaj]

Yeeeessss I’m so excited for this one. My fellow Virgo queen 😘

[@roselynrodriguez9577]

Love this episode!! Grown Women opening up about past or present relationships I definitely relate ❤️

[@Reeses710]

Love the different perspectives & the collaboration of different mindsets....Lex is hilarious!!

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you!

[@theekiarajayy8610]

Ooooh I’m about to watch while I workout! 🥳

[@flirty28able]

I can't take Lex serious, she's just tooooo funny 😂 🤣 😆

[@fashionablylate6860]

I think this episode and the one with RL are officially my top two fave guest appearances. 💕

[@marguerites.4860]

Watching this at work and I am fully tuned in!!!

[@alvinwest0304]

It's amazing how they stated what they want or like then walked it back as soon as Keisha told them the opposite.

[@abigailj2485]

Yeah that was annoying. Just goes to show what they really want is what Keisha is talking about

[@pricellanirk5008]

Keisha s a REAL one❤️❤️❤️

[@ComedianNemaKatt]

Love the vibes! Can’t wait for my day on the show!🤞🏾💜

[@rosschaos1183]

One of THE BEST episodes hands down👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@travisthomas9129]

How ironic that’s she’s engaged now 😍 love to see it

[@AR-il3kx]

This was an interesting episode, I'll just say that.

[@user-rm1lm3rt7e]

Whew Chile 🤣 it was definitely that

[@shes60lovely]

Very 👀

[@FireAngelChris]

🤣🤣

[@kaylabell3855]

One of your best episodes by far. Keep it up ladies!

[@TackyChicLifestyle]

I was just catching up on the last episode only to find you uploaded a new one 🙏🏽

[@ThugDrina]

Period guest back to back. The people really love Pour Minds 🤗

[@Tunde1306]

Yo Keisha bringing out the "Power" canonical studies lectures. 😂 Smart af and a great person to talk to. You all are.

[@SuperNimsisland]

IM SCREAMING I HAVENT EVEN WATCHED AND THIS IS ALREADY GOING TO BE MY FAVOURITE EPISODE

[@driafibromyalgiafighter9342]

I love love love LSK! Her music is lit! And she's doing great on TV as well. More blessings to her, so so proud of her❤

[@ayeshamonique298]

Loved that real talk!

[@Dabratzz485]

This video made me like/support Keisha even more. I do feel like modern women will ask for a traditional man but aren’t traditional wives themselves. You want him to take care of you and pay all the bills…but he will come home to a dirty house and unseasoned food😬😬

[@nathanmyles3785]

👏👏👏 Exactly

[@kaimobley5324]

The house being dirty is bad enough but...MY FOOD NOT SEASONED!!? YOU GOTS TA GO

[@9thwonderboy]

THANK YOU!!!! FACTS!!!

[@Wanderer25]

Tried that once, just once. Some women don't realize it's about peace. At the end of a long day of grinding no man wants to come home to dysfunction and war. The problem is most of these modern women are too lazy for the work required for the men they truly want. Well have fun with the F-boys and deadbeat babydaddies.

[@Dabratzz485]

@@Wanderer25 I can’t lie. I lot of women are like that and it’s sad

[@randihaskins2987]

I love this interview! My mindset is very similar to Keisha and it is so refreshing to hear it for once. A lot of these females just take take take instead of giving and reciprocating. Great interview, great guest, and great conversation from a WOMANNNNNN!

[@ms.don2u534]

Sooo glad y'all did this cnovo this so needed forreal for this ladies out here not all but alot need to here this ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙌🏽💅🏾💅🏼

[@KiidTwirk]

The ending was so fun ❤️

[@BASICALLYBASICNAILS]

that awkward moment when they asked how to stay snatched and they all had surgery.. OOP 🥴😂 DIET SIS 😂😂

[@DreaAndLex]

Now see😭

[@FKACIGS]

Surgery & Diet and Maintenance 🙂

[@Daibella]

Love it. Y’all are awesome! -Daibella

[@KBeautyNyc]

Honestly, i can understand from each woman’s perspective in this discussion.

[@tyramckinney6549]

Yasss Keisha speaking facts!! 💯💯

[@brittanidavis4877]

I'm crying Lex only letting Ryan take his dates for donuts, coffee & conversation 🤣🤣🤣🤣Momma Lex got all the rules 😭📝🍩☕💘

[@thuglifebabii8874]

Givin y’all sum props this was a great interview convo was on point 💯💯💯💯💕🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kiahlynn1859]

Hey! I loveeee yalll show! The topics + conversations be giving what needs to be gave! Period. Have yall done a topic on girls shooting they shoot to men. I wanna know y'all perspectives.