Pour Minds - Episode 177 - Your Man is My Man Too

[@Jazznicole]

I saw Drea Nicole at Superica in Atlanta on Wednesday and I said “I love your podcast” and she turned around so fast as said thank you with the biggest smile on her face and let me know that she was sitting with Lex over at her table as well. She was so sweet and I can tell she has really good energy. I just love her!

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you so much ❤️ nice meeting you

[@hodgesjoy7]

Right Drea, technically higher than you...

[@misslee1503]

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[@Jazznicole]

@@hodgesjoy7 what is that supposed to mean?

[@lightingtwinsxp6178]

👀

[@Keriel128]

“Its a time and a place for beans.” “And breakfast is not the time nor the place.” 😂

[@senojoy12473]

I'm feeling this message of women coming together to protect each other. If we as women raise our standards and collectively maintain them, then men will be forced to rise to meet them. Of course it's gonna be a few stragglers who let these men do whatever they want but if most of us could come to the agreement that our fellow woman is our sister and not our competition, then relationships and dating would be so much better.

[@DreaAndLex]

❤️❤️

[@T.MCJ1911]

Yessss i say this all the time. How we gon get everybody on board though 😫

[@tedmonds2049]

This would really be ideal. But it’s too many broken down women who seek male validation for this to ever happen in real life. It makes me sad.

[@shanshan2349]

I def thought Lex was taller than 5'7"...I'm crying 😂😂

[@krocky7852]

I swear she makes it seem like she so big 😭😭😂

[@jaylove9987]

When it comes to women leaving men in relationships/marriages alone, Women need to know how to be okay with being alone and sitting by themselves. Being lonely but mostly bored will get you in fucked up situations lol. That’s a conversation that a lot of us don’t want to hear.

[@bri_anake]

This the one!!!

[@JulianStreete]

Or they could learn to share

[@Leann0ne]

Draya talking about basically being ok with talking to a man in a relationship and not caring as long as she gets what she needs, and then immediately switching the topic to black women sticking together and sister hood is crazy. Complete contradiction

[@naelynn9582]

I love coming back to old episodes 😂😂😂

[@dennisv7294]

This show too litty the vibes be great been watching every ep since 85 and watched the old ones keep it up💪🏾

[@misslee1503]

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[@_Tree]

I'm vacationing in FL.....celebrating my 10yr wedding anniversary.......and still made the time to watch Pour Minds as soon as get the notification Bing!!! I'm really a fan of these lovely ladies 💯💯💯💯💯

[@elashamoss4539]

Congratulations 🎊 👏🏽

[@_Tree]

@@elashamoss4539 Thank you!!

[@sfreeman417]

Love it here. Lex, I just had this same conversation with my sister about how women need to hold men accountable. Men get away with "allowed" cheating because women turn a blind eye to it. Great episode!! Dripping facts, humor and harmonizing!

[@kyzae]

I’m so happy I found this podcast like a year or two ago! So fire! Will always be #1 in my book

[@taykoolie]

44:02 it’s the Leo in us. We love learning ! Brain has millions of facts I’ll probably never need. But imma keep sharing my knowledge .

[@Djteebaby]

Tuning in from Hawaii !!!! Here celebrating my first year of marraige/ honeymoon(covid postponed) !!!!! The girls were getting this view. Don't ever stop ladies!

[@breadwinnerd3217]

Honestly, I’m proud of y’all as women. Yall growing & maturing. Accountability and the ability to reflect is an underrated but Goddess trait in this society… it’s a hard thing to do & good episode! ✨❤️

[@javenjamal475]

Hi y’all are the reason I watch KZbin every Friday period

[@ravenjohnson1131]

Drea and Lex you two are soooooooo beautiful and inspiring. I listen to you ladies all the time on my commute to work. I’ve learned so much from you ladies, and I’m always telling people about the show. Please don’t ever stop doing these podcasts . Rae❤️

[@brittanyb5942]

Lex I'm proud of your growth ❤️👏🏾 We women have got to stop giving men so many options!!

[@experiencesw.danielle]

LMAOOOOOOO I can't unsee Mona saying Drea is doing this singing segment for her friend. It's so funny everytime y'all do it

[@bradmontgomery6321]

Literally “you the only dummy” ‼️‼️ thought you ate that !!!! Lmaooo love y’all bro😂😂

[@MarHend31]

I’m a truck driver and y’all almost made me crash the way I was laughing at this episode

[@kemoracheyenne]

omggg drive safe!!!

[@MoreOfSiren]

You know what Lex, since you like deep fried beans and you claim Nigeria you might like Akara lol. It’s a bean fritter so that may be right up your alley 😂

[@tamarad.8709]

36:26 Drea’s face was me whenever people tell me I’m not a stallion because I’m 5’1.5” … I’m 6’3” in spirit 🤣

[@TheCapri88]

Its the rubbing his knees that got me on the damn kitchen floor rn 🤣🤣🤣

[@andrianahale2114]

I love to see your growth from this. I can never be comfortable being nobody side. idc what you giving me. I'm way too good to come second

[@LiyahMarieTV]

Yes!!! I’m working over time and now I’m happy y’all gonna keep me entertained 💕💕💕 for these next few hours

[@stylistlalatoodope]

Lex move the mic more to you next episode, I hear Drea loud and clear! Love y'all

[@niaphoenix9482]

I thought I was the only one I'm glad you heard it too

[@stylistlalatoodope]

@@niaphoenix9482 I kept turning my laptop up I’m like nah it’s not me cause I hear Drea❤️

[@QuoiassssWorld]

Y’all looking so good with the straight hair 🥰💕

[@YouMissWhit]

I have a song request 😂😂😂😂 I REALLLYYYY want to hear Lex P sing Shai- if I ever fall in love again I think she will kill that song& I need old babes to not let a man in prison run her life. He’s in Jail for 10 years in 10 years you can be long gone and you’ll be a whole new person !

[@raeraeallday]

this came at the right time

[@cyrizponce]

Literally was just saying where my girls at 😂

[@theprettyyp]

The way Drea deadpanned to the camera when Lex called her a pony 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😭😭😂

[@MissBolaA]

Hi Drea & Lex! Love you both so much! Pleaseeeee add Los Angeles to the tour stop! ❤️

[@MrD-tu3hp]

It's the growth and maturity for me👏🏾

[@Keriel128]

“You not eating no beans?” “Alright…alright..” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kpacshakur6969]

I knocked out while watching this and woke up to y’all singing Burn, I was weak asf 🤣 and joined in of course. Lex was getting Drea tight “it’s the same beat every time😒” LMFAOOOOOOO

[@tyramckinney6549]

Facts I agree with Lex, I left a man alone cause he kept lying and cheating on his girl. Idk if she really knew about it but I felt shitty continuing that lol situationship lmao and left him alone, felt bad for her but there ain’t nothing he can do for me😂😂

[@nikkiedwards776]

Add Canada 🇨🇦 to your tour stop! Love you ladies!!

[@sisterhoodsorority9625]

This episode felt like wine down Wednesday days love it 🥰😍 🔥🔥

[@bundleofjoyyy]

Lex loves beans as much as me. Shooting them pocket pistols gworl 🥴🤣

[@LindseyShields88]

I’m from the 409 too Lex 🤣 but i’m from Port Arthur. I love when you rep the Golden Triangle!!

[@nettaleanne]

The way I hollered @ “Italian from the mafia” she want a hood Nigga still 💀

[@DreaAndLex]

Know me 😭

[@Cocogodess08]

y'all so cute ❤ I'm loving y'all both having long hair today!

[@lovelyj7125]

Yessss 🔥😍❤️‍🔥

[@DeeNichole8]

First off…I need one of those shirts! Im with Lex, I love me some beans hun! Oh, AND PLEASE COME TO LA! Pleeeeease add Cali to the list😩😩😩

[@Chrysyyyy]

Not Lex only being 5’7. Girl, I thought you was like 5’10 at least. 😂😂😂😂 you still a model though.

[@TonyMrBoring]

Drea has self compassion. Love that for her

[@brittanye_b]

Yessss! This what I’ve been waiting on 👏🏾😍 Edit: Lex P. and I have the same bop of the week cause I’ve been listening to Iced Tea on repeat 🥰

[@queenmuvah3452]

The majority of us didn’t come from NC. 🤣🤣🤣 We travelled for y’all! 🤣🤣🤣 Plus, that song is old. BUT, we were still turnt!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@dawnalford4270]

PERFECT TIMING

[@DawesFashion]

“Is it scratch and sniff” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kikistarr5590]

They way Lex be orchestrating Drea's verses!!😂😂

[@DreaAndLex]

She swear she a band leader 😭

[@taykoolie]

I get into the topics and go read the comments and I’ve noticed a people that comment on this podcast don’t post many time stamps 😩

[@MulaGoHard]

“Look at that neck” 😂😂

[@tayaphrodite]

I just noticed y’all bouta hit 100k subscribers💛💛I’m so happy for y’all💛😁

[@mellothomas9137]

Y’all had me crying laughing Clawd Ham Mercy

[@tish4us2]

Yess Drea!! I love me a man with a Get Money Gut!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I think it's sexy... It's giving very much him not missing no meals!!

[@kookiekae14]

47:30 I choked on my cereal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sidlove5798]

I love you both!! I wish you two blessings peace love along with your family. Gorgeous sistas like yourself shine light!

[@livalittleee1331]

I needed that shirt like YESTERDAY 😭😍

[@jawanajackson7243]

Lex swear she be sanging 😂😂I love them

[@xrossmymind555]

blick blick is def a bop!!!

[@emelliaharris8780]

I'm definitely driving that 6 hours to Chicago when yall come!!! Lmk asap

[@saundra_janae]

LMAO not Lex is only 5’7”!! I thought she was at least 5’10” how she talks. But I’m the same height, so I get it.

[@queenmuvah3452]

Girl I was at the show like, she’s a little ass 5’10. 🤣🤣🤣 she was still giving stallion… just mini Stallie. 🤣🤣🤣

[@avarenee5710]

Live show in St. Louissss??! Im excited💕

[@iyokigrey]

Drea, my mother always said it's fair game unless he is married

[@rocketforever2150]

It’s not even fair game then. Seem like that ring is a magnet to certain types of people they will still cross that line 😓

[@majesticchics5412]

Lex is preachin the word tuhday! I love it! Drea be babblin 😅

[@Shylovee]

Drea said “how much we talkin?!😏” 🤣🤣🤣‼️

[@Harold10ful]

Polygyny should be explored more and accepted more openly it would solve a lot of BS.

If only it benefited women but most men only want it for their own gains.

[@Harold10ful]

@ It benefits women a lot when all parties take it serious. I'm not talking about some swingers thing and then calling it polygyny or a man having 9-10 wives but a healthy regulated situation where it's taken serious works wonders and the women definitely benefit actually more than the men do if I'm being honest.

[@laurenelise12]

Polygamy

[@Harold10ful]

@@laurenelise12 Numbers don't support that, unless you add in lgbt which is a different convo entirely

[@laurenelise12]

@@Harold10ful how do numbers support polygyny?

[@KanoniNaire585]

I agree with Drea. I like a man with a money belly. They seem to be the most fun and love to feed their women… and spend a good penny.

[@EverydayGworl]

Girl if you don’t stop answering them prison calls…that’s will stop all that! Lmao

[@KennGaskin]

Drea was not having it with the beans lmaoo 😭💀

[@dejapalmer5982]

Happy Friday pour crew 🥂

[@mariaholland9176]

YALL LOOK SO GOOD!!!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you ❤️

[@rozay2155]

The shirts are fire 🔥 I want one 😞

[@DeeNichole8]

I definitely need one

[@beautyfolse4249]

Roll that beautiful bean footage! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@DreaAndLex]

😭😭😭😭

[@michelletburke]

I love this episode and I also think you guys should add the word or the day 😌💯

[@DreaAndLex]

We got you!! ❤️

[@kpacshakur6969]

I can’t wait for y’all to pop out to NY, imma act a fool 🤪

[@shaymackbeauty]

Can’t wait for y’all to come to STL❤️❤️

[@lilsislaura]

My favorite podcast💜It sound like Lex's mic feed is not as strong. Is it just me?

[@MsReneeToU]

Nih Lex u tricked me cuz I def thought u were apart of the 5'10 and up club the way u was talking lol

[@dejapalmer5982]

The married men/men in relationships is cool until they have a baby or get your pregnant. That’s when you snap back to reality.

[@misslee1503]

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[@kayonnaroberts1988]

Facts

[@savagesunflower1865]

Never cool

[@chels4956]

"You're giving pony" LOL!!!

[@CeoFrann]

When they started calling all the cities that they were going to be at, it started sounding like TSU by Drake😂😂❤️

[@FreshAsARoseABlog]

1:12:02 Lex P: Girl, f*ck that man. I’m free. 😂😂😂 I cannot breathe!!!!!!

[@taykoolie]

44:30 “take me to the king.” 134 in an hour is crazy

[@josiedaisyy5543]

brooo why is mom cooking beans as I'm watching this episode LMAO I love beans too lowkey Lex

[@kiamonet6970]

I can't wait til y'all come to Chicago 😭

[@EverydayGworl]

‼️‼️Come to Jacksonville, Fl pleeeaasssssse‼️‼️

[@pscih7149]

Y'ALL COMING TO ST.LOUIS?!??!?!?? AYEEEEE I'M IN NERRR!

[@key2the]

That lil but when Lex says leave the tall guys for tall women and Drea says “no… why would I do that. They be looking for us…” ICONIC 😂😭😂😭 Which non-Auntie is gonna make this a TikTok sound because this Auntie has no clue how to do that 🥲😂😭

[@AmScram92]

Are the mics really low? Something is off with the sound. But heyyyyy

[@kdennis2461]

Like the prophet Pharrell said: CHEAT ON YA MAN MA, THATS HOW YOU GET A-HIZZEAD

[@aliciaantoinette3881]

It’s the lighting fa me 🙌🏽

[@ladyd1471]

Lex voice when she sang that black street lyric 🔥🔥🔥

[@motts913]

This is a real topic this week! 💯💯💯

[@louisianacookingwithkay]

44:37 Not take me to the King 😂😂😂😭

[@alexandriareyes3234]

Lex was hitting those notes though 😂

[@hdeen4610]

The transition to beans within the aunty joke..Lex ready for stand up or at least comedic movie

[@jhightower57]

Lex w the vocals I see yu girl I know I’m late I’m catching up 😂

[@GlamorousKiema.]

Y’all both look good in white. Y’all always wear dark colors. Y’all look good af

[@louisianacookingwithkay]

Tha Houston ole skool never gets old ever. 🤘🏾

[@misstiannae.9047]

Lemme tell y’all how the beans in the English breakfast DEF don’t taste like our beans lmao. I was thinking cookout beans, and nah 😕😭