POV: When You Realize You and Your Friend Are No Longer COMPATIBLE

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Күн бұрын

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@royangeloperez8045
@royangeloperez8045 Ай бұрын
guys you need to be on spotify 😢😢😢😢 deserve ma-add sa playlist huhu
@irzzpss
@irzzpss Ай бұрын
AGREE!
@cellynperalta4226
@cellynperalta4226 Ай бұрын
Hinahanap ko din sa Spotify pero walaa. 😅
@dreaming_dreams
@dreaming_dreams Ай бұрын
shrueeee! I'm listening to this while doing my report.
@jjraquel1690
@jjraquel1690 Ай бұрын
This is so true!
@yuri-rd6eq
@yuri-rd6eq 19 күн бұрын
right?!! I listen to them while I chill
@myrroooo
@myrroooo Ай бұрын
It's weird how this podcast episode showed up to me TODAY of all days when I've been questioning what I feel regarding my friendship with some of my best friends. They've been draining the hell out of me, but I keep disregarding my own feelings kasi I am that kind of person who'd be understanding to the point na I'd ignore the feeling na ako na yung nagiging dehado for being there for them all the time. This has been an eye-opener for me.
@byyags
@byyags Ай бұрын
samedt
@MariaRaniEsperanzemSbayan
@MariaRaniEsperanzemSbayan 14 күн бұрын
thats how i started watching POV.
@nim_ignooy_dtsuga7346
@nim_ignooy_dtsuga7346 Ай бұрын
I used to be that person who reaches out. I used to be that person who bridges people. I used to be that person who always wanted to talk things out. I used to be that person who patches things first before others. I used to be that person who sets up gatherings. I used to be that person who always wanted to be with my friends and be there for them. Yes, I used to be that person who prioritizes others. But sometimes, things happen and people change. Even me. Experiences taught me important lessons in life. I no longer feel the need to always be that person. When people no longer value and see you as someone like they used to see you before, the best way to respond is to just stop. When people no longer care, it’s okay to stop caring for them. It’s okay to stop reaching out and just be within your space. It’s okay to not bridge anymore especially when people no longer wanted to cross it. It’s okay to be silent when people no longer want to talk it out. It’s okay to stop patching things up when people have already decided not to. It’s okay to prioritize yourself before others. Yes, It’s okay to end friendships. As we navigate life's stormy seas, we all deserve the peace we need. And if ending some friendships helps, then be it.
@CubSATPH
@CubSATPH 7 күн бұрын
I'm feel sorry for what you experience Brave one, because I see myself in your comment
@kirisu.mp4
@kirisu.mp4 Ай бұрын
but it's also important to note that cutting people off for peace, is different from running away from taking in accountability (as someone who just found out my "friend" who had utang on me, hid his stories on me)
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
Agreeeeeed!!
@kirisu.mp4
@kirisu.mp4 Ай бұрын
omg miss ​@@InkaMagnaye my goddess ❤
@RLCJohnDeCastro
@RLCJohnDeCastro Ай бұрын
It's my favorite podcast episode by far. Knowing when and how to differentiate friends and acquaintances. Also, knowing what and why share something you can go fix on your own as part of being an independent and mature adult. And yes, boundaries are very rarely exercised. We all have to be aware of setting boundaries and knowing what you want your existing friendship circle to be like. Befriending and unfriending some people at any stage in your life is normal. We grow up and outgrew some habits and people. We are constantly changing and hopefully for our betterment. Love these folks. I am inspired to have a podcast from real people and experiences. Go Team P.O.V. ❤🎉😊
@whtvr_clover
@whtvr_clover Ай бұрын
Same kami ni Atty. Anselmo. Very picky sa mga tao. Para talaga sakin my time is very limited kaya mapili ako sa mga pinapakisamahan ko. We just sound mayabang o mataas ang tingin sa sarili but it's just who we are. ❤
@zangchua
@zangchua 24 күн бұрын
pag nakikinig ako sa kanila, feeling ko nakiki tropa lang din ako... 😅 and Im actually thinking A LOT about friendships lately. I NEEDED this today ❤
@ritchelsacal8721
@ritchelsacal8721 Ай бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2506">41:46</a> i was Ms. Inka and Atty. Anselmo before and thought i was addicted to using cellphone and i felt depressed in that i thought di mag stop but need lang i rewire ang brain kasi adulting requires us to be productive. Thank you for this podcast really. Padayon❤
@BUDODOF
@BUDODOF 8 күн бұрын
I love how atty is discovering new things with this new found group, he is open and know how to set limits. He reminded me of one of my friend he’s straight his best friend is his girlfriend and its hard for him to make new friends too so I hear where he’s coming from.
@emmyetyet3646
@emmyetyet3646 9 күн бұрын
Now this is my kind of podcast. These people are my kind of people. So intellectually challenging and yet so open-minded. I have so much to share huhu. I miss my friends na ganito ko nakakausap.
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye 5 күн бұрын
Aww we love that!! Perhaps one day we can do episodes live so we can interact with comments
@prodmeowsuga
@prodmeowsuga Ай бұрын
SOBRANG GANDA NI MS. INKAA. ANG GLOWINGG 😭💓
@Solgaleosogaling
@Solgaleosogaling Ай бұрын
Agreeee 😍 maganda na dati, mas gumanda pa ngayon 😊 she reminds me of Angel Aquino 😍
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
HUHU SALAMATTTT❤
@shanewalsh4873
@shanewalsh4873 Ай бұрын
@@InkaMagnaye I LOVE YOU MS INKAA
@carlScofield
@carlScofield 18 күн бұрын
ka look a like nya si Kakai Bautista.
@jorceldiesta8585
@jorceldiesta8585 Ай бұрын
I really love your podcast! I’ve watched all of your episodes in just 3 days. I’m only 16 years old, but I’ve already learned so much from you. I want to surround myself with people like you - so positive!
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye 26 күн бұрын
Yayyy!! We’re happy to be your ates and kuya ❤
@ynaesmey7873
@ynaesmey7873 Ай бұрын
so cute
@kemuelbabiera4483
@kemuelbabiera4483 Ай бұрын
grabe habang tumatagal mas lalong nakakatuwa panoorin yung tatlo. very perfect trio talaga. grabe rin yung nabuild na friendship, nasubaybayan ko kayo mula umpisa😅
@jasdungca6043
@jasdungca6043 Ай бұрын
Not sure why my algorithm suggested one of your podcasts but now I'm grateful! Binge-watching your previous eps already! ❤ It will be a nice add-on if you can each have your takeaway to end the session! 🥰🥰
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
Im so happy you found us!!❤
@wraightking464
@wraightking464 22 күн бұрын
Absolutely, you don't have to give up your hobbies entirely; prioritize time management to reconnect with yourself. If you neglect your hobbies and focus solely on work, you'll eventually lose touch with who you are.
@jamieortega6389
@jamieortega6389 Ай бұрын
I have been ghosted by friends and it sucks. I believe you owe other people an explanation if you need to take a break or have an issue with someone. it's called maturity.
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
AGREE
@christiandelotindo6383
@christiandelotindo6383 Ай бұрын
💯
@genemae_179
@genemae_179 26 күн бұрын
no one owes explanation my dear ots called self priorities maybe you should reach out instead
@lunalalala2813
@lunalalala2813 25 күн бұрын
@@genemae_179this applies only if their an acquaintance and not friends. sige kahit hindi na lang accountability. how about decency or just plain courtesy?
@honey88-k9u
@honey88-k9u 29 күн бұрын
Thank youuuu!! I felt I’m the bad gal cutting people off because of negativity but now I can finally move on ❤
@QnMeganF
@QnMeganF Ай бұрын
I like this show. Iba iba yung intelligence nila. Madami ka matutunan. Madami Nako napanood/napakinggan na podcast pero ito ang pinaka matino.
@erindoll4644
@erindoll4644 2 күн бұрын
I'm a healing people pleaser. The lengths I had to go through to prove to people I'm a good friend is unimagineable. But as an adult, I learned to set boundaries and cut toxic people off. Mas masaya pala kapag may moments of peace ka.
@denisesantillan1492
@denisesantillan1492 Ай бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1380">23:00</a> there's a reason talaga why people don't like someone. I've learned this the hard way. Notice how they talk about people who don't like them, they can do that to you as well
@ynaesmey7873
@ynaesmey7873 Ай бұрын
yay! new episode! i finished the previous eps and even repeated it, petition for twice a week posting!!
@prodmeowsuga
@prodmeowsuga Ай бұрын
yess please 🙏🏻
@liezlpitogo8616
@liezlpitogo8616 Ай бұрын
After I saw the podcast re: toxic Filipino traits I was drawn to your podcast.I subscribed right after…For once,3 intelligent and smart people who can blend well…Nobody overlaps anybody…keep it up…Not at all boring…Simple and yet my laman..👍👍👌👌
@elordelynalacida3612
@elordelynalacida3612 25 күн бұрын
I used to be that person who prioritizes others and loved to be hang out with friends and of friends and scared of being alone and left out like very extrovert person. But when pandemic came, I realized that being alone is the best part to know yourself better. They're still my friends but I'm not the same anymore. I love the peace and space I need. I love the new me even though they said that they don't like the new me, that I've changed, I don't care as long as I'm happy with a few and true friends and love ones.
@thinkswonwoo3164
@thinkswonwoo3164 Ай бұрын
as a guy who grew up with more women around me, I never find it comfortable hanging out with guys who tends to objectify women, or men who's a bit unruly, so I've had more girl friends than I had guy friends. But I agree with Atty. na guys tend to talk more about their interests, but it's a case to case basis. and one point is that it's more enriching to have girl and gay friends because you get to receive the more mature talks with them because they have no filters and has nothing to prove, unlike men who tend to show off their masculinity with other men.
@TheFatBiker
@TheFatBiker Ай бұрын
This chikahan is to the next level! Love the combination of 3 different personalities. ❤
@tishamissytekiko943
@tishamissytekiko943 Ай бұрын
I had friends back in high school who ended up backstabbing me. I felt so betrayed, like they all ganged up on me. The story goes like this: I was the "good girl." I didn’t want to cut classes because I was scared of failing, and I took my studies seriously. My parents invested their time, effort, and money for me to go to school, and I didn’t want to disappoint them by rebelling, especially since they were already stressed with my other siblings. Meanwhile, my friends would often say things like, "Let’s skip class later," or "Let’s hang out somewhere else." I never joined them in those activities. Despite that, whenever they missed anything-assignments, projects, or pointers for exams-I would always help them. I’d let them copy my work and even teach them. One day, one of our classmates passed away. We all went to the wake, feeling sad and reflective. Out of nowhere, they decided to have an "open forum." I thought it would be a time for us to bond and express our thoughts, but I never expected it to turn against me. They started saying things like I was "too competitive," a "killjoy," and that I was a "teacher’s pet." I was blindsided because I thought we were all good-I thought we were best friends. People often say high school is the best time of your life, but for me, it wasn’t. Imagine experiencing this at just 14 years old-the trauma stays with you.
@ujireongi8162
@ujireongi8162 27 күн бұрын
this frienship is so unexpected! love seeing you guys together doing podcast
@patrickdavid9798
@patrickdavid9798 6 күн бұрын
This podcast makes me sane. Thanks guys
@KZ10_okamoto
@KZ10_okamoto Ай бұрын
Ms.Aryn looks like Michelle Gumabao. Ang ganda 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@SharinaSaripada
@SharinaSaripada Ай бұрын
True, naaalala ko sakanya rin
@forfangirlingpurposes
@forfangirlingpurposes 14 күн бұрын
Now I can't unsee it haha
@erineclair
@erineclair Ай бұрын
this is such a good podcast! I'm definitely following this :D it took me awhile to cut off people too from my life but i think i did good when I confronted some first before i cut them off. some i don't really think about anymore and just do. but those who mattered, i try to salvage and when i can't i just give the closure and part ways.
@marge_que_shi
@marge_que_shi Ай бұрын
New Fave! Almost watched all of your episodes.. learning a lot keep it up.. aliw ako Kay attorney, always a fan of Inka and now a new Aryn fan 😊..
@charlemarcelo602
@charlemarcelo602 2 күн бұрын
I love POV podcast. Stay up guys!
@ruelchaveztulagan3955
@ruelchaveztulagan3955 10 күн бұрын
Yung totoong kaibigan, kahit hindi kayo mag usap lagi, pero pag nag usap kayo ganun pa din ang samahan. Kunti lng tlaga ang magiging true friends natin in life. Some are people we hang out with are those we refer as Colleagues, Common friends pero true friends are hard to come by.
@jasonsarabia09
@jasonsarabia09 Ай бұрын
Guys please more podcast 🙏 I love listening to all of you the whole day
@komisadventure6714
@komisadventure6714 Ай бұрын
As a 36 year old, I stayed away to a lot of things I like because I need to do adult jobs but it makes me sad and unsatisfied about my life. But when I relearned to love my hobbies like Inka, like watching anime and reading manga makes me feel more like me as me when I was younger, I didn’t enjoy my teenage to early 20’s but I am more satisfied now.
@lenygracelandisa4007
@lenygracelandisa4007 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your perspectives about friendship. Watching your POV podcast is my new hobby now. Lovelotes 💕
@kkkataugusto
@kkkataugusto Ай бұрын
watched the whole episode. I am looking forward to new episodes. Love the trio. ❤
@ac98696
@ac98696 Ай бұрын
Omg hahaha andaming talagang relate pag ganyan sa mga highschool lovers na topic. Hindi ko na experience but I heard stories. Always love your show ❤
@brianpalma8127
@brianpalma8127 Ай бұрын
Yung kwentuhan nila, parang feeling ko, kasama ako. Sarap pakinggan
@Ilialaeol
@Ilialaeol Ай бұрын
exactly! I also feel na mga kaibigan ko lang yung kausap ko it's so fun and entertaining pa. best podcast ever!!!
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
Yayyy thats how we like it❤
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
@@IlialaeolBESTIESSS
@NildaMoramiom
@NildaMoramiom 20 күн бұрын
I just started listening to or watching you guys here on KZbin. And it's worth na mag sayang ng oras panoorin or pakinggan kayo . Super happpy na nag start Kayo ng ganitong podcast, marame akong napupulot na bago , galingg mo po Ms Inka and i can't believe bakit biglang may mga bashers ka your so beautiful inside and out , Ang sarap nyo g maging tropa!😎🤗
@NildaMoramiom
@NildaMoramiom 20 күн бұрын
Ohh sorry I forgot I use my mom's phone hahahaha 😂
@maegetonzo6697
@maegetonzo6697 Ай бұрын
Enjoyed it soo much! You guys are amazing!! Please make more content hehe
@gladysoshii679
@gladysoshii679 Ай бұрын
i just saw this POV vid. I love this topic. It's true, money reveals who they really are. I do lend money but to my super duper best friend only because we have a give-and-take relationship. Nung walang wala ako, she got my back and when she hit rock bottom, i was there to help her back on her feet too. Siya lang ung friend ko na kya ko maging gnun kasi sa iba i do what Atty. said about "donation" give what you can afford to lose. It's a rare friendship kasi money is like an acid test eh. Meron talgang nasisirang friendship dahil sa pera. Pero meron ding mga friendship that stood the test of time kasi naovercome ung concern sa pera.
@shairaenot1313
@shairaenot1313 Күн бұрын
I really love smart conversations and how it adds knowledge and opens new perspective. that's why parati ko inaabangan yung mga uploads niyo. To more uploads guys!
@shairaenot1313
@shairaenot1313 Күн бұрын
cutie ni Atty. Anselmo sumabay sa mga girly actions haha
@honey88-k9u
@honey88-k9u 29 күн бұрын
👏🏻 gosh I love your episode this particular vid make me decide to subscribe..
@chaddm6364
@chaddm6364 Ай бұрын
nakakatuwa kayong trio mag podcast, walang sapawan, andaming information na matututunan at ang ganda sa ng timbre sa mic at yung combination nyo haha. si Inka na very articulate at smooth ng boses si Aryn na grabe ang humor tpos si atty. na parang bunso nyo na smart na pwede nyong bullyhin na hndi mapipikon. haha more of these podcast and you guys need to be on spotify asap. more power Godspeed
@JUSTINEBLACER
@JUSTINEBLACER Ай бұрын
This podcast is the most I love
@LeeSean04
@LeeSean04 4 күн бұрын
yes ang accurate nung sinabi ni ms inka sa vulnerability ng men, and also relate ako sa sinabi ni ate aryn na after nya maki pag hangout dun sa new friend she will observed the behavior, mannerism, character nung kasama nya and she will descide if makiki pag kaibigan or cut off na :)))
@ssamsaek.__.
@ssamsaek.__. Ай бұрын
grabeeee, ang tagal kong hinintay toooong part na itoooo
@RenaveMaeLimpiado-ib4vi
@RenaveMaeLimpiado-ib4vi Ай бұрын
my new hobby is listening on your podcast. i really like and appreciate your chemistry and your inputs. it's funny and fascinating to see how atty. blends well in your group.
@dessiunnie1665
@dessiunnie1665 25 күн бұрын
Love listening to you, guys. Feeling ko, kasama ko sa circle hahaha
@mayonana
@mayonana Ай бұрын
Love this! Listening while reviewing!
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
Yayyy good luck!!
@spanishlatte00
@spanishlatte00 Ай бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2152">35:52</a> i really like your mindset atty🫶🏻
@glendygarza250
@glendygarza250 13 күн бұрын
Hooked on your podcast. Perfect combination of these 3 folks, thank you for sharing your insights and busog lusog topics.
@mericrisdumadora6378
@mericrisdumadora6378 9 күн бұрын
Can you also have a POV of workmates. Like your experiences from them and misunderstanding that happened and how you guys solve it. Thank you.
@yunacagayat1478
@yunacagayat1478 5 күн бұрын
This atty. grabe same kayo ng husband ko,, he always say he doesn’t trust anyone even his own family relatives friends,, he only trusted me,his wife. It hits me so hard and feel bad, I started not to talk about him to anyone what’s happening behind the scenes the good and bad.I respect him and love him more and deeper.
@queenbeebam3375
@queenbeebam3375 Ай бұрын
Inka is the perfect example of “don’t judge a book by its cover”. Looking at her, you would think that she’s a party girl na liberated. But she’s the opposite pala 😅
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye 14 күн бұрын
Heehee 🥰
@jemimadevera6920
@jemimadevera6920 Ай бұрын
1 and half hour pero natapos ko at hindi ako na boring! Andami kong natutunan sa inyo😊
@theycallmeferdi
@theycallmeferdi Ай бұрын
fave episode so far ✨✨
@paulaestaris3815
@paulaestaris3815 Ай бұрын
i recently discovered this podcast and im obsessed🤍 you guys should consider putting the podcast on Spotify as well!
@valienvaldez7477
@valienvaldez7477 17 күн бұрын
I just recently ended a friendship with someone. We used to have a chat a group where 3 of us can share our problems, funny moments, or even rant about something that's too shallow. But I have noticed that this one friend keeps talking shit about one person. At first, it looked like she was just ranting and we just comforted her and also advised her to talk to that person. The thing is, she keeps on saying negative things about that person and she's not doing something about it so every time she started talking shit about the same person, we stopped and tried to redirect the conversation to a different topic. And what happened was everytime we had gatherings, she would invite our common friends to join us, and since we didn't entertain her sentiments about the same person, the people she invited to our gatherings were the ones she talked to about the same person. And we just ignored it. Sadly, there were chismis that was forwarded to that person and it appears that we are the ones talking shit about her and that we are recruiting hate. So we cut her off. Ending, she's still friends with that person that she kept on backstabbing. lol.
@MrRalphshih
@MrRalphshih Ай бұрын
Great episode. Entertaining and a lot of insight.
@scent4heaven
@scent4heaven Ай бұрын
Good discussion but I hope they expound more about how to be a good friend and what needs to be change in male friendship (as Inka said about high rate in suicide) and what wrong with the mindset for male friendship
@Solgaleosogaling
@Solgaleosogaling Ай бұрын
I think they did. Just like how atty said he likes to be challenged, Inka challenged him to go out of his box and try to create a bonding experience that could potentially form into a friendship. :) My reaction to atty's take on male friendship is quite difficult for me to grasp because I have a lot of guy friends that would be more open to discuss problems or serious stuff with guy friends than I am to discuss with my girl friends. Or maybe my male friends are just more open or secure that no matter what the situation may be, they won't be judged for being real. So, maybe, aside from a tight bond perhaps create a safe environment amongst friends (or even just a friend). Friendship has no gender sabi nga ni Inka :) it having no gender would also mean that you can just be who you are without being judged or seen differently, especially when exposing your vulnerable self. :)
@pergenelegarde2993
@pergenelegarde2993 Ай бұрын
"Need to expound more about how to be a good friend" A "good person" doesn't need to tell or explain how to be a "good friend". It's like teaching a wild tiger not to hunt for food if you said it to all the listeners on how to be the latter.
@geraldquanico3250
@geraldquanico3250 Ай бұрын
@<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="68">1:08</a>:22 Main sis and bro code is always like don't mess with your friend's ex like NEVER lol
@stellar7721
@stellar7721 Ай бұрын
Been watching POV podcast and it was soooo good! ❤❤
@roseannesolis1417
@roseannesolis1417 6 күн бұрын
I feel you Inka. Im the type who don't reciprocate. Often misunderstood that its not their fault. Its just the way we are. We LOVE the ALONE TIME 😅 Same with Atty Anselmo 😅 I dig deep conversations MOST of the times. I also don't hang out.. 😅🤪🤣
@shielamariemarquez8073
@shielamariemarquez8073 21 күн бұрын
ARYN EXUDES SO MUCH GOLDEN RETRIEVER VIBES THIS EPISODEEEEEEE! super cute especially her red specs ❤❤❤
@redtalkshow
@redtalkshow Ай бұрын
atty. was so insecure about his masculinity. men can be very vulnerable to each other tho. this just shows the difference between their generation to the new ones who are fortunately more open to each other.
@lablab87
@lablab87 Ай бұрын
💯
@jaze_ph
@jaze_ph Ай бұрын
Kinda! Hope he can grow and be more open minded.
@oli9220
@oli9220 19 күн бұрын
You can't make everyone gay... There are straight guys. Deal with it.
@oli9220
@oli9220 19 күн бұрын
​​@@MiguiMonkeykpg straight ba tlga homophobic agad?!? th
@Kafka-h5h
@Kafka-h5h 17 күн бұрын
i was waiting for someone to point this out, because i can’t be the only one who thinks so. his attempt at masculinity feels so forced, like he’s overcompensating for something. everything he says seems overly calculated, and it’s painfully obvious how insecure he is. The way he leans so hard into outdated gender stereotypes just makes it worse. instead of coming across as confident, he just ends up sounding clueless and insincere. i hope he learns more from the ladies because they clearly have better grasp on things than he does.
@chinggaygomez2259
@chinggaygomez2259 Ай бұрын
You guys got me hooked! Dasurvvv mapunta sa spotify! ❤️
@YraNarita
@YraNarita Ай бұрын
Huhuuuu yehey meron na pala new upload hahaha make it everyday pls. 😂😂😂😂
@KZ10_okamoto
@KZ10_okamoto Ай бұрын
Always watching from Japan 🇯🇵 marami akong natututunan sa inyo!!! thankyou guysss 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@lenyparagas6086
@lenyparagas6086 Ай бұрын
I dragged my partner to watch your free show in SM BF Paranaque. It was so fun to watch you guys live.
@angienamoto
@angienamoto Ай бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="68">1:08</a>:21 I can perfectly relate to this topic. Haha. We are 2 couples in our barkada. Me & W are very close friends and both in a relationship, his gf & I became besties and my bf at that time also became close with W's gf because of me. We don't have any problem with it kasi the 3 of them were living in the same subdivision and we've all graduated in the same school but different batches. So we're basically acquaintances even before the relationships, fast forward, me & my bf used to hang out at my bestie's apartment & sometimes with W also, and everyone's cool with it. Until biglang naging cold si bf sakin and asked for a cool-off, but he can't even give me a reason why, then after a month, he broke up with me. I've had a conversation with W and he told me that their relationship was on the rock too. He mentioned to me na parang trip daw ni ex si bestie na gf nya. My bestie got mad and became distant with me dahil gumagawa daw ako ng issue, but little did we know, my ex was still hanging out pala to her place kahit wala na kami, I was so shocked because I am still on the process of moving on, and it was totally inappropriate knowing that she & W are still on. But eventually, their relationship ended. Months have passed, and I've been seeing my ex & bestie on my dreams being together. One day, I accidentally saw a group photo on Facebook, and they were together in it, and that photo was taken at my ex's house during fiesta. 😆 Then, later on, na-confirm namin na sila na nga, they we're just trying to hide it from everyone kasi nahihiya sila samin dahil para kaming nag-exchange ng mga jowa. Lol 🤣 After 3 years, they broke up din naman, the girl friend & I we're able to patch things up but not the friendship anymore. 😅 But the good thing was W & I remained close friends until now.
@jadeluna9623
@jadeluna9623 Ай бұрын
thank you for this podcast~
@nickvergara5978
@nickvergara5978 Ай бұрын
Kaya pala familiar si Ms Aryn isa pala sya sa Spit hahaha Anyway, Gandang episode na naman hehehehe
@sheyesteban523
@sheyesteban523 Ай бұрын
This episode is so... for me. My roommate and I were just talking about these types of friends.
@ron_opulencia
@ron_opulencia Ай бұрын
I find it very relatable. No time for toxic friends. 😅
@leahsarah275
@leahsarah275 Ай бұрын
this podcast is so good
@rowenamoramion2460
@rowenamoramion2460 12 күн бұрын
Naho-hoke nanaman ako sayo Ms Inka. , Dami pa akong gagawin hahahahah!!! Kainis hndi nakakawa mga podcast nyo gggrrrhh!! Btw I'm happy for atty Anselmo para new friend na natagpuan , Meant Meant to be kayo g tatlo yiieee!! Advance Happpppyyy new year po!🎉📌🤗
@hayleycrizzelle4629
@hayleycrizzelle4629 Ай бұрын
You are the average of the people you hang out with. If you want to change your life, you've gotta change who you're spending your time with.
@girbaud07
@girbaud07 29 күн бұрын
the lawyer is setting too much standard when it comes to friendship, It makes it superficial. Friendship comes naturally, Deep conversation agad? but he doesnt want non sense conversation? inka is correct, deep conversations starts with non sense interactions, He is in the wrong paradigm of syllogism. masyado din syang focus sa machismo norm and apparently he is in the level of being trying hard na. Dami pa nyang off sa concept of friendship. Nag cecreate pa sya ng division when it comes male and female friendship,
@jaze_ph
@jaze_ph 29 күн бұрын
agree!
@neilsilario9742
@neilsilario9742 28 күн бұрын
I agree. His opinion kinda irritates me. 😂
@girbaud07
@girbaud07 27 күн бұрын
@@neilsilario9742 yes. in his fb page videos, he has a lot of non sensical opionions and uneducated comments. I hope his viewers will be critical enough to filter and be objective. Dont get me wrong, thats his opinion pero ang cringe and very subjective creating divisions and misunderstandings.
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye 26 күн бұрын
Sharing conversations with people who have different opinions is how we all learn from each other 🤗 in the same way Aryn and I learn from what experiences Atty has, he in turn has been learning from us too❤ a lot of adult life is living the way we were raised, whether that way was “right or wrong” we will only find out as we venture into the world and interact with it. We can’t help how we were raised, but we can learn better ways, and the three of us are all open to learning 🤗
@girbaud07
@girbaud07 26 күн бұрын
@@InkaMagnaye hi inka, dont get me wrong, it was also just my valid educated opinion on how atty. is viewing things on his perspective. This is i guess not solely directed to this video but most of his opinions in social media. I myself is a lawyer. Believe me, madami kaming lawyers who somehow became a bit off with most of his opinions esp. with his legal advices online. (Wont go into details) I guess this is just a constructive feedback on him. Just please continue to guide hime then. Thank you.
@paolopineda4812
@paolopineda4812 Ай бұрын
Ako when I cut a person off, I don't respond, I don't talk.... as in wala.... sometimes I block
@luisasolomon9291
@luisasolomon9291 14 күн бұрын
PREFECT TRIO..MY NEW FAVEEEE AWWW!
@guiamaekylagarcia4724
@guiamaekylagarcia4724 Ай бұрын
Yehey may new episode na❤🎉😊
@lycapaner7740
@lycapaner7740 Ай бұрын
love this!
@paolopineda4812
@paolopineda4812 10 күн бұрын
Kailan ba susunod na episode ng POV. Ganda kasi talaga ng usapan nyo heheh
@heyitsmesarah21
@heyitsmesarah21 Ай бұрын
Blooming si mimah Inka❤
@melkava23
@melkava23 Ай бұрын
This is great podcast... ❤❤❤❤
@roxxpat5307
@roxxpat5307 Ай бұрын
ito talaga yung podcast na inaabangan ko eh. sana may vlog din yung tripled date nyo hahaha
@visenti2986
@visenti2986 3 күн бұрын
my take on <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="75">1:15</a>:51 is that i agree na thats life, you cant have it all. nut also kinda agree din sa kay miss inka
@julieorozco6915
@julieorozco6915 Ай бұрын
I cut friends when they gossip because if they gossip to you, they can gossip about you. so avoid then hit cancel.
@ryokibaby
@ryokibaby 28 күн бұрын
Maka dulo naman! Lols 🤣
@hezzyt.2471
@hezzyt.2471 Ай бұрын
I hope Atty would refrain from doing generalizations based on gender.
@goodmorningfrommt
@goodmorningfrommt 20 күн бұрын
It’s his POV 😂
@1001godknows
@1001godknows Ай бұрын
I like the POV of you guys, but I think most of the opinions are way too logical and lack the emotional side of friendships.
@elstonecreation6402
@elstonecreation6402 Ай бұрын
Maybe that’s how they handle emotions. logically which is a good thing.
@deejay3284
@deejay3284 Ай бұрын
Puro “T” siguro mbti nila, walang ‘F’ haha
@InkaMagnaye
@InkaMagnaye Ай бұрын
Interesting! What part did you feel like we didn’t get to cover?
@jhaymaylo5709
@jhaymaylo5709 Ай бұрын
I think as we get older we must be logical rather being emotional. Maybe that's why the POV they're giving is more Logical.
@supdoug
@supdoug Ай бұрын
True. The girls are trying their best to balance it tho. The guy is a MEH. They need to find a better guy host if they want this podcast to pop off
@izahalamares2159
@izahalamares2159 Ай бұрын
POV the best!!! di basta chikahan sarap pakinggan para kadin kasama nila.
@rinsab4951
@rinsab4951 27 күн бұрын
at 35, i'm all alone na talaga. ayaw ko sa environment ng academe kasi sobrang perfectionist ng mga kasama ko to the point nawawala na common sense. opposite sa nakasanayan ko sa pnp dati na kailangan street wise ka din. napakababaw connection ko kahit kanino, namatay na ang nag iisa kong bestfriend way back college. sa ganito na lang naikot buhay ko: turo maghapon, uwi sa gabi, asikaso sa bata, basa/house chores, 4hrs tulog. repeat. pulis asawa ko kaya minsanan ko rin makausap
@viijan28
@viijan28 Ай бұрын
Sarap makinig sainyo!
@jeongv8553
@jeongv8553 2 күн бұрын
Cutting people off for your mental health, peace of mind and happiness..I'm all for it.. Have a super close group of friends in college (or thats what I thought) and then I found out that they went out of the country without even inviting me or just asking if I want to or something..so I cut them off..then their next gala, one of our friend who is an OFW invited me (out of awa or what🙄 puhlease) so I declined.. One friend from that college barkada is also my hs barkada and then he have the audacity to remove me in our hs gc like whaaat? And not even 1 of our hs barkada asked me what happened or what..and he used to be my best friend..sooo
@lunalalala2813
@lunalalala2813 25 күн бұрын
kasama ko kayo while working hehe..makes me more focused.
@zenyfajardo9400
@zenyfajardo9400 Ай бұрын
very educational, i love u all
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