POV: your wife just donated all her maternity clothes

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Matt & Abby

Matt & Abby

2 ай бұрын

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@laceycurrens1249
@laceycurrens1249 Ай бұрын
“Say yes for mommy “ the most relatable line 😂😂😂😂
@user-qd2li4rk9z
@user-qd2li4rk9z Ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing.😂
@HADLEYHEARON
@HADLEYHEARON Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@awhimdhwani
@awhimdhwani 17 күн бұрын
That was so gd cute 😂
@jessicadowell2041
@jessicadowell2041 Ай бұрын
I just got rid of all our baby clothes and felt all the feels. Hugs. Mama!
@NicoleRubyAnn
@NicoleRubyAnn Ай бұрын
It’s always hard to give away the baby clothes, especially when they had worn them so much 😢
@michellex4744
@michellex4744 Ай бұрын
I did that… just found out baby number 3 is on the way 😂😂
@harebrainzombie33
@harebrainzombie33 Ай бұрын
I'm keeping all mine for when my kids have kids like what my mil did for my husband and his sisters
@Random-artttt
@Random-artttt Ай бұрын
​My mama made a blanket out of our baby clothes@@NicoleRubyAnn
@hannahstewart9898
@hannahstewart9898 Ай бұрын
I don't think I'll ever be able to do that 😭 I can't even stand to change their closets when they need to size up!
@TWaz-Disneylvr
@TWaz-Disneylvr Ай бұрын
I had 3 kids before I turned 28. Fast forward, they’re 24, 21 & 19. I’m 46 & hubby is 50. We had a surprise baby girl 16 months ago. Never say never. 💓
@Magdalene-on-the-scene
@Magdalene-on-the-scene Ай бұрын
A surprise 😂😂 that is some surprise, God bless yall with eternal youth and strength, amen💜🙏🏾
@adararelgnel2695
@adararelgnel2695 Ай бұрын
I had 5 before I turned 28. A 5 year old, a 4 year old twin 2 year olds and a newborn. Great times!
@Magdalene-on-the-scene
@Magdalene-on-the-scene Ай бұрын
@adararelgnel2695 wow!! Hats off to u momma👏🏽👏🏽 im 37yrs old and never even been pregnant before!
@SacredSoulPractice
@SacredSoulPractice Ай бұрын
Yay!!!❤
@lindsay9838
@lindsay9838 Ай бұрын
@@adararelgnel2695 Always wanted twins🥹 You are so very lucky♥️♥️
@melodysmanymisc
@melodysmanymisc Ай бұрын
Say Yes for Mommy. Haha. These two are precious to watch and listen to. I just love them and their new family.
@McBeth62
@McBeth62 Ай бұрын
I had 2 boys and thought we were done. Years later, when I was 43, I had my baby girl. She is the joy of my life and my best friend. I absolutely love my boys, but I am so happy I have her in my life. 💜
@denbyerece5744
@denbyerece5744 Ай бұрын
I had my older son at 28 & younger son at 32 and finally my daughter at 45 last April. Love hearing these stories 🧑🏻🧑🏻👧🏻
@beccajordan5083
@beccajordan5083 Ай бұрын
This is my family. I am the youngest by 10 years, I wasn’t planned though
@nicolel4439
@nicolel4439 Ай бұрын
I had my first boy at 21 my second by at 23 and just had a baby girl right before my 40th bday a year ago...she has a total of 4 brothers 21, 20, 19 and 16....I always wanted more kids after my first 2 but wasn't with the right person...when I thought I was DONE she surprised us!
@wani_1711
@wani_1711 Ай бұрын
wow
@sheenaatchley8168
@sheenaatchley8168 Ай бұрын
I’m 27 weeks pregnant with my third boy now! I will be 38 in a couple of weeks!🥰
@terrimatienzo8395
@terrimatienzo8395 Ай бұрын
Abby, you are a PRECIOUS person. Donating those clothes was such a nice thing to do. That doesn't mean you won't ever have anymore... just means you will need new maternity clothes! 😊 You really blessed some mom's to be today!
@Blessedfamilymama
@Blessedfamilymama Ай бұрын
My sweet baby girl is due on my 40th birthday! Yes you can have more, even in 15 years! 😂❤ I actually think, because of my age, I’m going to parent and appreciate this baby so differently than my other children. Years of wisdom and growth is going to make this so much more enjoyable and relaxing of a journey. I can’t wait!
@kaiaswrld
@kaiaswrld Ай бұрын
My younger sister was born when my mom was 41😂 and she had my older brother at 26 so definitely possible
@laurelshade
@laurelshade Ай бұрын
I was 2 days before my mom's 39th 😂
@user-vm8id9un4c
@user-vm8id9un4c Ай бұрын
lol…lol lol
@graceclover8697
@graceclover8697 Ай бұрын
i hope you stay in good health when they are older! my mom had me at 36 and i’m only 19 now and it makes me sad to see her health declining due to her age😔 i pray everyday for her
@whitestkid
@whitestkid Ай бұрын
A coworker of mine had her third(?) kid right when everything got shutdown for Covid. She said it was the easiest kid to birth&raise because everyone was home already and was also old enough to be able to help out with raising the child. Good luck to you!
@angelicamendes6939
@angelicamendes6939 Ай бұрын
“Say yes for mommy” 😂 honestly being pregnant and raising a family is such a joy❤
@guinea.hill.homestead
@guinea.hill.homestead Ай бұрын
Yes 15 years from now. 😂 I'm 43, pregnant with my 3rd and it was planned. In my 20s I would have laughed hysterically at this option but i seriously wouldn't change this for anything... My kids are 16 and 13. Life is wild. Just be open to all the fun possibilities within it. You got this. ❤
@SummerE42
@SummerE42 Ай бұрын
Abby deserves her lil girl bestie one day 💓
@Lolee56
@Lolee56 Ай бұрын
Maybe she doesn’t want one. Her son is her “bestie”
@graceclover8697
@graceclover8697 Ай бұрын
@@Lolee56the end of the video hints to her wanting a girl, ofc her kids are her “besties” but she can still want a daughter in the future lmao
@Ande.Crys1
@Ande.Crys1 Ай бұрын
​@@graceclover8697but to say to a mom of multiple boys that she deserves her lil girl bestie one day is wrong like her boys are less than or she can't be bestie with them.
@hp6778
@hp6778 Ай бұрын
Is no one going to talk about how she realized that she really had a desire to have more children in that moment, in a truly raw and vulnerable way - and then tried to backtrack and be accommodating but it was clear what she realized. I hope she gets her heart's desire.❤
@EmmaLSU
@EmmaLSU Ай бұрын
“Say yes for mommy” 😂😊❤
@exxtrasweettreats94
@exxtrasweettreats94 Ай бұрын
I had my kids from 17-20 and got my tubes tied. Im now 30 this year. My husband is 40 and were talking about working on fostering children in the next five years. Kids are magical.
@AB-dj1mr
@AB-dj1mr Ай бұрын
My first 2 were so close together that I was convinced I wouldn't have any more. 5 years later I decided I wanted another one. Take everything 1 year at a time.
@lisarae7823
@lisarae7823 Ай бұрын
I held on to so much (all) of my son's baby clothes until he was almost 6. Found out an old coworker was having a boy and I knew they were struggling. Seeing her and her fiancee's face when they realized what I meant when I said I had A LOT..it meant a lot. I felt so good knowing they would have literally 3 years worth of clothes. And the universe thanked us when our neighbors moved and they gave us 3 huge bags of boy clothes that lasted us 3 years. Donating is wonderful.
@kristinasmith3097
@kristinasmith3097 Ай бұрын
@malina_p
@malina_p Ай бұрын
I love how she’s think about other moms!
@caitlinjopepe541
@caitlinjopepe541 8 күн бұрын
Hey my mom had me at 40, world didn't end
@irishamericanpinupdoll
@irishamericanpinupdoll Ай бұрын
I think donating them was a really nice thing to do doll! There are a lot of women who can’t afford many if any maternity clothes and they can be HARD to find in goodwill situations. I’m sure they will go to new mommas who can really use them.❤❤❤
@jessinicole7998
@jessinicole7998 Ай бұрын
I love how emotional and sensitive she is. I feel seen as an emotional wife.
@bevgipson2056
@bevgipson2056 Ай бұрын
We adopted 2 at the age of 44 and 1 at the age of 45 and now they’re 21, almost 21 and almost 20. Loved every minute of it! Never too old!
@Danversdiary
@Danversdiary Ай бұрын
I'm glad that Matt reminded this gorgeous soul that she is in fact still young❤
@megane.1073
@megane.1073 Ай бұрын
We stopped at 2 and I felt sad about it for a decade. Even with the fighting and struggles that came with my 2, I still wanted more. It wasn't until I got a cuddly cat that I was finally at peace. I'm so very thankful we stopped at 2 kids (and I was only 21 when I had my second). If you stop now or have more later, that longing for another baby is hard to get over. Stay strong momma ❤❤
@morganchapman2150
@morganchapman2150 Ай бұрын
I had both of mine by the time I was 18. Here I am 27 and still going back and forth with wanting to start over or just deal with the 2 I have 😂❤️
@virginianielsen3480
@virginianielsen3480 Ай бұрын
@@morganchapman2150that would be such a hard decision! But it sounds like you’ve got lots of love for your kids and will be happy and complete whether or not you go for another kid. Good luck with deciding! 🥰
@theIEgames
@theIEgames Ай бұрын
This was also before matt notice that now less clothes means MORE CLOTHES because she got rid of some she can get more
@GlitterEdits-sm1nc
@GlitterEdits-sm1nc Ай бұрын
Yes 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@marialivingston8154
@marialivingston8154 Ай бұрын
Lol my mum literally had me at 41, there is always hope ❤️
@rachelfaithmanning
@rachelfaithmanning Ай бұрын
Have more kids! 💕 the more the merrier. Children are blessings. It’s good to declutter too! You can have fewer/better maternity clothes next time around and like you said, other mamas can use what you donated!
@mendusha
@mendusha Ай бұрын
Its actually.. I just saw your short that you were donating your clothes with such a joy and commitment but then I just saw this side of doing it as well, sometimes I think I make things such a big deal but I guess its because everything has different perspectives
@lovelykel1261
@lovelykel1261 Ай бұрын
Abby is so in touch with her emotions and let’s it flow whenever 😂 I love it ❤️ I have a friend like this she’s a crier and we all think it’s adorable 😂
@UnstoppableMorgan
@UnstoppableMorgan Ай бұрын
A lot of people don’t take into consideration how difficult it is to have children that have years between them. Nobody wants to do the same activities and everyone is going to different schools! Raising a two year old and an 8 and 9 year old is so challenging! Have kids close together. Everyone will want to go on the same rides at the theme parks and eat the same food… etc. if you want more kids, girl just go for it!
@megn5148
@megn5148 Ай бұрын
Yup dont have kids but even just babysitting girls 4 years apart can be difficult. Older one wants to play games younger one cant understand or messes up. Younger one wants to run around and play and jump on things or knock something down older one is building. I can't give older one as much one-on-one time as I'd like to because I have to keep younger one from trying to seriously maim herself or break something in the house. I love them both but its a venn diagram for stuff they like to do and there is more in their individual circles than in the shared space.
@mommag2608
@mommag2608 Ай бұрын
This may be your reality but it’s not everyone’s. There’s a 5 year age gap between my first and second child and it’s been great. Don’t try to scare people out of waiting or having age gaps just because you didn’t like it. It makes people feel like they have limited options.
@kaseykasket
@kaseykasket Ай бұрын
My brother and I are 11 years apart and we have an amazing relationship.
@TheWholeEntireCake
@TheWholeEntireCake Ай бұрын
@@mommag2608And there’s a 8 year age gap between my twin siblings and I and it was horrible.
@UnstoppableMorgan
@UnstoppableMorgan Ай бұрын
@@kaseykasket That’s wonderful. I have a brother that far apart too and we are pals. However that has nothing to do with my comment. Have you ever asked your mother if she faced challenges entertaining the both of you at the same time? I know for a fact my older brother was not partaking in the activities I wanted to do when I was a child 😂 I just remember playing with dolls and him asking me to hold a target while he shot his BB gun and I still have a bb in my thigh that never got removed because I kept the secret from mom that I accidentally got shot! Lol
@stephy5821
@stephy5821 19 күн бұрын
Hugs for you mama! Mine are still in my closet and it’s been hard to go through them but this is giving me motivation. You got this mama! 💛
@carolines3953
@carolines3953 Ай бұрын
I’ve had four babies (BGBG) and I’m getting rid of my youngest B and G clothes now as they outgrown them. Two kids have worn all the clothes so they’ve definitely had their wear out of them. 😂 But it’s hard giving it away because it’s acknowledging the end of a chapter that was filled with so much joy. I gave away all my maternity clothes after my last daughter was born and I’m glad another mama can get use out of the clothes. It was easier donating those than it was the baby clothes.
@sunnytheswiftie
@sunnytheswiftie Ай бұрын
I can't imagine how hard it is getting rid of the clothes that have so many memories with you wearing them while pregnant. but thinking about other mothers is amazing❤
@catH727
@catH727 Ай бұрын
Just saw your Tahoe Tshirt. My favorite place. Sister lived there forever
@zitawaterhouse6408
@zitawaterhouse6408 Ай бұрын
We has our first daughter at 18, 2nd daughter at 22, twin girls at 27 and our boy at 29. I still feel times that I should've had more because I had the loveliest time with the others ❤ It's great watching them grow too ❤
@amberplacek9051
@amberplacek9051 Ай бұрын
I had my first two 23 months apart! Two beautiful girls! We thought we were done but now I’m 24 weeks pregnant today with our baby boy and our girls will turn 5 and 7 right before he’s born!💕 God has a plan for all of us and you really never know what’s in store for your future!💕
@josephineserato7532
@josephineserato7532 Ай бұрын
I love how comforting Matt was about Abby giving away her maternity clothes. He's so loving discussing it with me. And the most important is that Matt is open to another baby in a few years. I understand Matt's view about experiencing them both again and the hardship it brought with 2 under 2 but I love it when Matt says we can still birth another again because they are still so young at 25. Enjoy Gtiffin and Auggie. Time will fly so soon and you don't realize they're attending school already.
@dancetiktok4108
@dancetiktok4108 Ай бұрын
Is the babys name really Auggie ?
@MikeTyson-sl6wr
@MikeTyson-sl6wr Ай бұрын
​@@dancetiktok4108 his actual name is Augustus, but they mostly call him by his nickname
@aubriellemorgan
@aubriellemorgan Ай бұрын
At least you started young. You can always change your mind in a few years and still be young enough to have more if you want. ❤ just enjoy the babies you have now and take it one year at a time.
@jacquelinewatson3327
@jacquelinewatson3327 Ай бұрын
Hugs! I passed on my maternity clothes and baby clothes, then got pregnant again. There is time for more.
@saira8972
@saira8972 Ай бұрын
I felt the same way having my first at 34! Now my second will be born a week before my 38th birthday. You got this mama.
@EstherBiss
@EstherBiss Ай бұрын
Even I don’t think I have realised how fast time has gone past. It feels like yesterday running round the house screaming in joy “Matt and Abby are pregnant!” Or “Matt and Abby are pregnant again!!” I love you guys to pieces and your senses of humours are on top- and that’s surprising for parents! 😂 honestly, I don’t know what auggie and griffin did to deserve such amazing parents. Love u guys xxx
@heathermicola3894
@heathermicola3894 Ай бұрын
I had baby 3 at 25 and baby 4 at 34. Then babies 5-9 after that 😂
@pianokeysandcraniotomies3365
@pianokeysandcraniotomies3365 Ай бұрын
You had five babies at 35+? How?? I’m so bummed because I only have one and I’m almost 34. I feel like I don’t have enough time to have all the babies I want.
@MollyGreene255
@MollyGreene255 7 күн бұрын
I love the name auggie because it reminds me of the movie wonder it’s so wholesome
@samanthaaguilar7861
@samanthaaguilar7861 Ай бұрын
Children are a blessing from God. Have as many as he'll give you. No matter the age you have them, you will love every minute with them. I have 12 (our baby Isaiah is in Heaven, he was lost at 15 weeks gestation) and pregnant with number 13. We are so thrilled and blessed. God bless you all
@isabellacarey3069
@isabellacarey3069 Ай бұрын
My mom had 2 kids and then 12 years later had 2 more! She had my sister and I very young and decided down the road to have more. Anything is possible :)
@cindybraunfels8329
@cindybraunfels8329 Ай бұрын
I was 40 and had twins…y’all have a long time to parents whenever you choose.
@michellegaines3568
@michellegaines3568 Ай бұрын
You have a good husband cherish him ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ghostgirl2
@ghostgirl2 Ай бұрын
You could have a kid in 15 years at 40 my mum is having another kid at 40 me and my sister are in our teens and now we are adding another one to our family
@Helloamazing
@Helloamazing Ай бұрын
Aww that's so sweet ❤
@toribrown3982
@toribrown3982 Ай бұрын
​@laurenarkapaw how is that weird? I'm 39 having my first baby. Sometimes things happen that can prolong when a woman gets pregnant. Your comments are the kind of comments that are super hurtful to women who try and struggle with infertility, but then a miracle finally happens. You never know what life will bring. Watch your words carefully. Edit: the person who posted the comment has since deleted her comment.
@SylvieTress
@SylvieTress Ай бұрын
​@toribrown3982 Thank you for saying this! Illness and disability can play a huge role too. My mom had to be in remission for two years, and it was still so high risk that I was considered a miracle baby. I'm 28 and disabled, and very, very sick right now with multiple rare diseases. There's no way I could have a baby at the moment. That doesn't mean I've decided my entire future will not involve motherhood. I still have years to go before being a mom is off the table completely, so I truly appreciate you pointing out that THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, and there are MANY difficulties and barriers to pregnancy that can delay it until later years. I hope whomever needed to read our comments today, did. Because it's absolutely horrid to discredit having children at a later age.
@toribrown3982
@toribrown3982 Ай бұрын
@SylvieTress Thank you for reading my comment. I'm so happy your mom delivered a healthy and smart baby into this world. You seem like a wonderful young woman. You have many years to have children. So don't let society or anyone tell you differently. We can plan our lives, but sometimes our plans can derail. Yes, I'm older, having my first child, but I'm blessed beyond measure. I wish you nothing but happiness, joy, and good health so that when the time comes for you to have children, you can enjoy every minute! As a woman, it's disheartening to tell another woman she's too old to have a child or that it's weird to have a child at an older age. Children are a blessing regardless of when that woman chooses to become pregnant or when nature allows that woman to conceive. We don't know what struggles another person goes through to have a baby. So, women need to uplift and support each other in the journey to motherhood. I wish you love and happiness! ❤️
@graymalkin8145
@graymalkin8145 Ай бұрын
My mom had her first kid at 20 and had her last kid (for now) at 37, youve got so much time!
@lisadegraff7925
@lisadegraff7925 Ай бұрын
Haha, this is so accurate! I really want to throw it all out but need to wait until we get through the last pregnancy.
@s.mohammad2360
@s.mohammad2360 Ай бұрын
You are the absolute sweetest for thinking of other moms who might need them... You're only 25! It seems from his video you guys aren't done having kids and if or when you do get pregnant again you can go SHOPPING ❤
@angelfromabove97
@angelfromabove97 Ай бұрын
My heart. I bawl everytime I get rid of clothes
@BroBray2966
@BroBray2966 Ай бұрын
It feels bittersweet. Count your blessings and live life. You have two healthy boys. I have two boys as well and I always wanted 3 or 4 kids but I am content with the two and life is great!!! 😊
@MaddHeather
@MaddHeather 25 күн бұрын
My kids are 15 years apart and its perfect. My daughter is 19 and my son is 4. One in college and one in preschool lol🤷‍♀️
@abipoole2859
@abipoole2859 Ай бұрын
I had my kids at 33 and 37 years old. You have lots of time.
@epie6517
@epie6517 Ай бұрын
I didn't have my first baby until I was 32, and I had my 2nd baby when I was 36. You have so much time to decide if you want to have more kids!
@Sheisme120
@Sheisme120 Ай бұрын
Aww, you guys are adorable! Whether you stop having kids after 2 or 10, you will still grieve when it’s over. It’s up to you to decide how many kids you realistically want.
@xuanlu8131
@xuanlu8131 26 күн бұрын
She’s precious! Hope you get that sweet 2nd child when it’s time. ❤️
@charlottemilner2375
@charlottemilner2375 Ай бұрын
Every reel on my explore tab always has Abby crying for one reason or another, I’m not the biggest follower but I just want to give her a hug x
@calliegriffith9650
@calliegriffith9650 Ай бұрын
"say yes for mommy!" That's how I feel with two boys 😂
@JackieOgle
@JackieOgle Ай бұрын
Aaah...I get how you felt! I had three kids very close together. I did long for the 3rd child...it was weird having a boy and a girl but really wanted the third!! After that 3rd one, that was it!❤😊 Finished! Look at it like you said you gave to someone who could use them now! You can buy new ones too later down the road!!!
@brittneyzarwel6242
@brittneyzarwel6242 Ай бұрын
This is so real. I'm 39 with a 6 & 2 year old & I know my husband doesn't want more kids but I'm so torn. I got rid of all the baby stuff & pumping stuff. Weirdest feeling.
@carrieellen6727
@carrieellen6727 Ай бұрын
I had 2 by the time I was 23 then didn’t have another til 35 then 1 more at 40 and whoops 1 more last year at 43 You when time of you change your mind but so much better to have them when your younger you have longer with them ❤
@TheForevermeg
@TheForevermeg Ай бұрын
I always donated my maternity clothes afterwards. Styles change, bodies change. I wanted someone to be able to use them right away, I could always find more down the road.
@Lilly-we5wc
@Lilly-we5wc Ай бұрын
YOU GO ABBY !!!!! It’s tough to throw things away lol especially for me my closet is full of clothes that don’t fit
@shanshackyloveduck
@shanshackyloveduck Ай бұрын
My husband and I are in the "should we or should we not have another kiddo." So far we have been on opposite sides of this at different times. 😂
@kaleighdickison
@kaleighdickison Ай бұрын
She wants Auggie to say yes for mommy! So cute and funny!😂❤️
@kimberley2189
@kimberley2189 Ай бұрын
I was done at 6 children here i am sat with baby no 7 growing in my tummy. I dont know i love just being a mum and having my children around me. I litetally love and breathe my life for them. ❤
@Dayna-Punky
@Dayna-Punky Ай бұрын
You know immediately when you're done. I had my 3rd and in my head I was DONE but my heart knew I wasn't. After my 4th I was SO DONE and it was so easy.
@terrahhall8789
@terrahhall8789 Ай бұрын
My husband and I have 10 children. I remember walking through this stage. My advice is have more!! Buy less stuff that doesn’t mean anything and spend it on people which means everything. ❤️
@lenibeni7421
@lenibeni7421 Ай бұрын
Well that many kids is just not realistic for everyone. I’m glad it worked for you guys, but i don’t think that most people would want that many children. Making the decision for "one more" is nothing one should easily say something along the lines of "just make one more" to. Kids should have a good life with enough love and attention from both parents (which gets harder with more kids, not impossible but definitely harder) and they need enough financial stability… not everyone can afford that. Also, especially the attention part, is a huge sacrifice from both parents, you can’t just say "not right now I need a few minutes" because with that many kids you have to spend nearly every minute with one of them to give them what they need. When you want to go out? Well find a babysitter that is ready for that challenge because always having to ask the "oldest" is making them co parents wich can be pretty unhealthy… Having that many children while only being two parents is definitely just something for a smaller minor of people and has to be super thought out. If you don’t think you want or can afford making all those sacrifices please just consider learning to be content with the kids you have instead of forcing more.. it’s hard, especially when you’re still in the little baby phase… but for some people stopping is definitely a better route.
@angexchoo1249
@angexchoo1249 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@RKI20247
@RKI20247 Ай бұрын
QUILTS!, FOLKS 😂❤ love you guys
@donnamcdonald6069
@donnamcdonald6069 21 күн бұрын
She is so sweet she deserves to have all she wants. She is amazing
@TheMelbox68
@TheMelbox68 Ай бұрын
You can wait to have more babies. Like matt said you have plenty of time. I think it's so sweet of you to donate maternity clothing to those who need it. My daughter has gotten used maternity clothing due to donations just like yours and we are all so grateful for that. You did a good thing Abby.
@nessad01
@nessad01 Ай бұрын
Every part of motherhood is bittersweet. You love watching them grow bigger and age into new milestones because it is part of what makes you proud. If they learn to walk and talk early- you love their success and excellence but the memories of their smallness of their infancy behind you is what will simultaneously break your heart. I physically cannot have more kids than my son and daughter. I was already 31 when I was pregnant with my son and I thought I would never be a mom. If I were younger and in different circumstances, I would have loved more babies, but it’s a harder commitment for my situation. It’s so difficult having the stamina for the crying, sleep deprivation and the tantrums without breaking apart while they’re developing sense of autonomy and self. I do love my kids but the headaches during the challenging parts reminds me to take on what I can juggle. I’m just going to accept that I got two beautiful babies and run with my gratitude for what I managed to get. Having a new baby is always a new and challenging adjustment, but I kinda want to keep my stride while I finally have found my balance. I find it helpful when I miss their younger years that it’s much easier to not be sad when I begin to focus on how much easier and fun everything will be when we can take family vacation and not need babysitters- we can take our kids with us and have a fun time out all together as a family. I focus on everything I have to look forward to and then I don’t miss the past at the same time.
@tammydeplata2526
@tammydeplata2526 Ай бұрын
It's difficult letting anything go w sentimental value. But when I donate my stuff to Salvation, I'm there not more than a week later rummaging for a good find and I see something I donated hanging off someone's arm and it mks me feel especially happy when it's someone I can tell will mk good use of the thrifted item ❤
@TheComeBackk
@TheComeBackk Ай бұрын
I know some mama is REALLY happy right now! I TOO just donated all my summer maternity stuff bc Auggie and my boy are same age & griffin and my other son were born on the same day!! & I’m totally contemplating all my life choices 😢 lol well in the way of babies. I want a girl so BAD but it may not be in the cards for me. Ps. Go with your heart! Never say never and if you still feel you maybe wanna be preggie Abby again then you have that option! But for now at least another sweeet mama or mamas can enjoy all of our cute things ❤❤❤
@DeeKate
@DeeKate Ай бұрын
My mom had me when she was 38, turning 39. So 15 years down the road is possible!
@joanaavalos7762
@joanaavalos7762 Ай бұрын
Omg 😂” say yes for mommy!”
@beckyklepper315
@beckyklepper315 Ай бұрын
Oh bless ❤ All the mom hugs! My kids are now 29, 26, and 20. It will be ok!!
@ahall0812
@ahall0812 Ай бұрын
We have 5 boys- I was almost 27 with our first and almost 39 (I am 40 now) with our fifth and final. You have plenty of time and I love that our house will be full for a long, long time!
@murphy00696lauren
@murphy00696lauren Ай бұрын
I just feel like Matt is in such a different place than he was a few years ago, he was all about his family and now it seems he’s changed his viewpoint a bit. I hope they’re both okay, having kids so young is hard man, takes a toll
@lesliev2806
@lesliev2806 Ай бұрын
Honestly as much as it sucks it does make you feel good knowing that you’re giving another pregnant mom clothes because they are expensive, trust me I couldn’t afford maternity clothes so I stuck with old band t-shirts and sweats and it sucked sometimes because I was too embarrassed to go out to a nice restaurant because I had no clothes. So that lucky woman is going to be happy and grateful!
@arpilclark1
@arpilclark1 Ай бұрын
I had my first at 21 and my second at 23. I said no more but i just had my 3rd at 32. You have so much time! Xx
@praveendunuwile3541
@praveendunuwile3541 Ай бұрын
I definitely feel like you guys have a girl out there, somewhere and just waiting for the right time. ❤
@ChloeMoscatt
@ChloeMoscatt Ай бұрын
August is such A CUTE
@user-ps2nk7uk7c
@user-ps2nk7uk7c Ай бұрын
You deserve new maternity clothes Abbey if/when the time comes. 😊
@Lidiaspamms
@Lidiaspamms Ай бұрын
My younger brothers name is Auggie and it lights up my day when I hear you say it because if reminds me of how my mom used to say it ❤❤
@brittanycox-alderson5013
@brittanycox-alderson5013 Ай бұрын
Abby I love your sweet little heart ❤️ you are just pure good babygirl! 💋
@bronwyn117
@bronwyn117 Ай бұрын
I was amazed at your happy attitude while donating your clothes and then I see this! Of course you would have a moment of sadness!
@juliegrossman-13
@juliegrossman-13 Ай бұрын
Even though it's hard especially since it was during a time where you felt happy and looking stunning especially when expecting to give birth to your child doesn't mean that it has to stop. Right now may not be a no to more having any more children since you already have two little ones who are a lot of work at the moment but when the time is right and sometimes more manageable with two older brothers will help when you two do decide to have more children. It doesn't have to stop here and who knows if you would fit back into them when you decide to be pregnant again so when the time she's come, might as well treat yourself to some new ones that will be trendy for that year. Don't pressure yourself just because of all the good memories that you with those clothes that you have pictures of you in them and like you said another expecting mother will need them
@MissMcCulley87
@MissMcCulley87 Ай бұрын
My kids are 14.5 years apart... It's such a beautiful bond they have 🥺
@SusieQ3
@SusieQ3 Ай бұрын
I got rid of all my maternity clothes last spring. Last summer was great with a much emptier closet. Last fall I got pregnant again, and had to repurchase a whole new maternity wardrobe 😢 can't wait to meet this baby, though! Also, I'm 38.
@user-fg2be5nk3z
@user-fg2be5nk3z Ай бұрын
Love u guys❤ Can't believe griffin is so big now❤
@HannaS763
@HannaS763 Ай бұрын
It’s ok my mum had me at 37 stay fit and you mind and body stays young don’t let age stress you out you guys are still so young
@mama_j1629
@mama_j1629 Ай бұрын
I had my first kid at 19 and my last at 38 so you have many more years to decide if you want more 🫶
@Hammingitupable
@Hammingitupable Ай бұрын
I'm 42 and have 5 kids. And have had a hysterectomy. My oldest will be 18 and I still struggle knowing I'm done having babies. It is still emotional for me to give away my kids things. Hugs Abby!
@lizzlovett2176
@lizzlovett2176 Ай бұрын
Abby! It's wild how many fake couples are online! That are having babies and doing this on purpose like sharing their kids LIVES for $$ & not go to school. Or further life! It's sad. I'm so glad when I KNOW ur story it makes it so much more 💓
@kspiller737
@kspiller737 Ай бұрын
This hit hard. I know the feeling, being unsure if you're done. So relatable
@michellegreen4365
@michellegreen4365 Ай бұрын
Awwww Abby! You did a good thing by donating to another mom in need. It’s definitely an emotional thing though! Hugs!! ❤
@daniellecroce7
@daniellecroce7 Ай бұрын
It’s okay, if you have more babies you can get some new maternity clothes and you’ll be able to donate those to more mamas after your use too!
@Adventures_in_AK
@Adventures_in_AK Ай бұрын
You just had two babies so close to each other. Once they are a bit older decide. You don’t have to decide now ❤
@dixie407
@dixie407 Ай бұрын
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