First Time LEAVING My Baby *36 hours away*

My anxiety was extremely high for this trip... thanks for helping make it better ‪@calebandabby‬ ‪@DELLAVLOGS‬
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[@oliviaperriera2583]

Abby had me actually laughing out loud in this vlog!!!!

[@MattandAbby]

Right?! Abby’s a hoot! She’s freaking hilarious

[@peaxchcolla2964]

Ik I was wheezing 😂

[@iioxii417]

❤

[@braceletastic12]

ME TOO 😂😂

[@chloecrawford7226]

Mat and abby if you guys see this your one of my favourite youtubers EVER you guys make me laugh and keep me for than entertained thank you for making such nice content that makes people so happy 😊

[@ashleywilliscannon3177]

I remember bawling the day I took my daughter home from the hospital because I realized HOW MUCH MY MOM LOVES ME… and they don’t prepare you for the amount of love you have! Abby, you’re doing a FANTASTIC JOB! Glad you got a little “mommy break” and that Griffin was so happy to see you. He ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY KNOWS WHO YOU ARE, and HE LOVES HIS MAMMA!!! ❤

[@alejandrahernandez3112]

I am the eldest, and my mom told me that when she had me she called her mother to tell her that she loved her so much because she too realized the immensity of a mother’s love.

[@jasmincass573]

I was the opposite I cried because I knew I was going home by myself with no help.

[@jasmincass573]

I guess it's different when your mom is still alive

[@ashleywilliscannon3177]

@@jasmincass573 I’m so sorry that you didn’t have that opportunity to share with your mom… but I believe she’s an Angel watching over you and your baby.

[@trillix9864]

The fact that I’m just a 14 year old kid and I feel so much excitement, sadness and joy watching u guys on KZbin is great cause I feel like I’m being brought into ur life and thinking that not to long ago my mom was going through the same thing while I was a baby makes me so much more determined to make my mom and dad proud of what I become in the future, I hope I take care of my kids and support my wife like u guys do to each other and yeah I love u guys and I hope ur life keeps on going beautifully to where u guys can look back at it and proudly say “I wouldn’t do anything differently”

[@aurum496]

The sweetest comment 🥺💗u growing up a nice person!

[@gacha_cookie2659]

Oh my yep

[@jobdiaz8844]

I never thought being a parent would evolve in so much emotion. But after watching these recent blogs, I feel like it’s just so humbling to see how parents adjust and feel when they have kids. Me watching these actually makes me considered to want to be a dad in the future. Btw Matt, you got this!!!

[@mr.mrs.j7599]

So many people have been having kids older, I think it discourages young people to start having sooner. These two are a breath of fresh air! That you can be young and find love AND *be mature and have kids. I think they should go into what made them feel ready for marriage "so young" (why they felt mature/ what their parents taught them ect.) and make a video about it. Not that they are "so young" it used to be the norm. But I think the modern mentality that you're supposed to be young and live it up in your 20s have messed things up for the past 20 years (or 30).

[@jobdiaz8844]

@@mr.mrs.j7599 I just for me feel like everyone has their time when they are ready. For me I’m not atm because I haven’t found someone yet but when I do, the time will come. 🙏🏼

[@BeerKillenRedneck]

🙄🤦‍♂️

[@jasmincass573]

It's taking me 2 years to adjust and I don't know when it's going to happen. Being a social butterfly to a homebody is depressing

[@AaryaGhuge]

Abby saying “my boys” is sooooo sweet ✨

[@gracekennedy4100]

I am a parent and this was so hard when my little one was young. I know the feeling of guilt but know my daughter is 15 and know I only think of the next time slot I can have time alone! ❤️

[@dal8228]

@Shaun The Good Doctor I’ll

[@llogue6032]

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[@jasmincass573]

Well she is old enough to stay at home where you can have time to yourself. With a 2 year old I can't even get a pedicure

[@ssbekind]

Hand scrub with hydrogen peroxide and warm water scrub with soap and let air dry. Pretty much any stain will come out, especially if you catch the stain right away On a different note I absolutely love you guys! You're amazing people who love to spread fun and are truly kind! You're amazing parents and Griffin is absolutely adorable!!

[@maddyjohnson8829]

Matt's smile and constant affection when she got home is so sweet!!!

[@kylepollak6188]

Waiting for the coming out of the closet vlog.

[@rebornbabydolllaramaysmith462]

That’s dog new trickssm Love youile

[@teaganvantonder5795]

I love watching you guys. I literally went back and watched all the pregnancy videos right from finding out you were pregnant. I am 22 and want a baby with my husband. You are so relatable and so genuine. I LOVE YOU GUYS!!

[@ashleywilliscannon3177]

My daughter turns 18 in three months, and I STILL feel like this when she leaves for more than one or two nights! (It was worse when he dad left us when she was only four… and got visitation every other weekend. I used to act all happy with her when he picked her up and then legit BAWL the ENTIRE WEEKEND while she was at his house!) Abby, you’re doing a FANTASTIC JOB!!! (Also: I used to have just as much milk production as you do, she nursed until she was a year old) ❤

[@ellienichols671]

I love y’all so much, I’ve followed y’all nearly since the beginning, I love how much you care abt leaving griffin it’s so sweet, y’all are the best parents love y’all!!!!!! ❤

[@addiebrown7883]

Your feelings are so valid. I feel that way for leaving my kids to go to the store. Breaks my heart. Your a wonderful momma! 💕

[@brendachaves6375]

Matt thank you so much for all your hard work editing!! I really appreciate it. Love your vlogs. Best family channel.

[@kaylee7852]

I love you guys hope griffin is as adorable and healthy as can be!!❤

[@hopeg02]

Dude you putting my entire name caught me off guard I feel famous 😂😂😂 my name is hope griffin

[@R3AALITY]

This was a very emotional video,and I'm glad you showed us this. It's something every parent goes through!

[@ot5stan]

Abby is soo funny omg. I'm glad she's so positive and upbeat despite being sad about leaving griffin. She's a great example of how mother's can retain their own identity and personality while also being an amazing momma. She's got balance totally figured out. Loved the vlog, more like it plss!!

[@Jitmommy33]

The babies do remember your pheromones. When he was smiling at you right when you got home I loved that.

[@sallyfahrlander6342]

I love your channel!! Thank you both for genuine and high quality content!

[@rahelfausch8256]

The way you're comforting your wife everytime she cries touches my heart deeply and brings me to tears. My husband mostly gets angry and is disgusted when i cry so I have to do it silently when I'm alone. You have such a beautiful relationship, may God bless you!!!

[@uggsandnlechoppa]

L husband, you should get a man who understands that feelings are just another part of life and that it is 100% okay to have them.

[@rahelfausch8256]

@@uggsandnlechoppa In the beginning of our relationship it was very hard for me, but then I learned how he grew up and it explained a lot to me. But nevertheless I miss his comfort during tough times.

[@ishjoshi4576]

My comfort channel...no one like you guys... watching your videos just makes my heart smile❤️❤️ you are doing a great job...we love our Lil dudeeee❤️

[@PositiveBluebird]

it will be okay Abby I promise. keep up the great work Matt and best wishes for a speedy recovery! 💕🥰💕

[@crystalmasters8582]

Oh Abbs it sucks every time. You’ve gone through so much, enjoying your little alone moments is so great.

[@kelseylopez5580]

You are such a good mom Abby!💕

[@sofia101]

matt's massive smile when abby came home 🥺

[@amandamills6181]

Griffin absolutely knew you!! That smile & intense gaze were pure love! The marathon nursing session backs up my argument!

[@viviennekent]

First and I love how vulnerable you are being with this whole pregnancy and raising griffin it’s so great seeing how raw and real you are being I am a mom and I am 13 it’s greta to see another mom being real and not trying to sugar coat it love you ❤❤

[@mckenzie8764]

your 13??

[@SophiaLovesJesus]

@@mckenzie8764 ikr shes 13?

[@elsierichardson9003]

Are you a teen mum or 13 weeks pregnant

[@langersfr97]

That’s what I was thinking. You’re a mom and your 13?

[@keelee5548]

I love you guys

[@selinamattocks]

You look so stunning for not long having a baby. Its only natural to miss your baby specially since its your first time leaving him. Your fantastic parents x

[@martinam7806]

We are starting to try for baby with my husband this month. The good thing is I am not on any contraception for many years, but we already know it might not go smoothly. Videos like this give me so much hope and joy that one day I will have this feelings and being a mom ❤❤❤

[@korinakemm2185]

The way griffin looked at Abby when she returned made my heart melt! Glad you got some girl time! Can't wait to see the vlog with griffin & dad time (:

[@brogthefrog1560]

i love y’all!!! you are such great parents and love griffin so much!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@PANTYDROPPER-mf9et]

cute. just too freaking cute.❤❤❤this was a great lil vlog! the ending was adorable...you guys genuinely seem so loving and happy to see each other.

[@hadynbrookman8590]

I love your videos so much! I love the way Matt holds griffin!! Matt was soo sweet when Abby was sad!❤️💕

[@kenneditompkins3609]

Happy 3 months Baby Griffin!!!!!

[@JayyandAbby]

I KNOW ITS HARD TO LEAVE THAT SWEET BABY ❤

[@iamshae1175]

I’m soooo proud of you Abby . I know that pain all too well. I didn’t spend the night away from my son until he was over 1 😅 he was breast fed as well. It’s something about that connection that makes your stomach hurt when you’re away too long

[@tylerandkylie]

✨My Wife and I have thought about this with expecting our first! You guys are great, love the videos! ✨

[@Kelly.Morrison]

Good job momma! 👏 proud of you!

[@amandawalls2495]

This is so sweet and that mom brain is REAL!! LOL The one that made you forget your ID and throw your phone away... it's so real. I regularly left my keys in the door on the outside, lost $100 cash about three seconds after my husband handed it to me and left my phone in the bathroom at a store where it was stolen lol you are doing perfect just laughing your way through it together!! ❤

[@AaryaGhuge]

“I make memories where I go, not always positive ” - Abby 2022

[@marydzibela5626]

Literally this my all time favorite vlog. I love watching Abby just being her! Please more Abby vlogs

[@MarkK395]

You missing your boys so much is a sign of being a great parent! This whole vlog was hilarious!

[@taylorkorth]

This was such a sweet & fun vlog ti watch! I really enjoy seeing Abby's point of view as a young mother, wife, friend, and just woman in general! Love ya'll!

[@janai5074]

Abby, welcome to baby brain ☺️ I swear my babies are up 85% of my brain cells and power. Ive never been so forgetful 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

[@AaryaGhuge]

Love abbys chaotic energy in this vlog!

[@vivi_emgrwm]

awe he’s adorable

[@brookecouillard8856]

I love LOVE LOVE watching you guys!! That sweet baby is the cutest ❤I hope you have fun! I’m a mom of 3 girls, a break is always great! Haha 😆

[@sportsforlife2235]

Love you guys!! Hope griffin is doing well!!😊

[@laurelmakula2835]

The look on Griffin’s face when you came home is priceless. My kids had fun when I left them with Daddy for a couple of days. He did fun stuff with them! Wait a couple of years.

[@shipse1]

Love the video! About TSA checking breast milk, I remember Shawn Johnson posting a video about traveling with breast milk, and she said they’re not required to test it, or even open it, if you don’t want them to.

[@jessahagans3021]

TSA is not supposed to open your milk and test it!!!! make sure you look into it yourself just want to make your travels easy!

[@Madilicious]

The sweetest vlog. Such good friends and an adorable family ❤️❤️

[@jenl5988]

Awwww! His 'welcome home mama!' smiles were so sweet!!!

[@marielpindar6312]

Awwe Matt hyping Abby up at the beginning 🥹💕 Matt is so nice to Abby! I love this! Abby I’m having a baby in a few months and I’m already nervous about this so thank you for this video!

[@reese7299]

I think Griffin knows for sure who is Mommy he knows you’re voice ( I just read that in a book ) because he hears you while you’re pregnant. Glad you had some fun with the girls I know it’s hard to leave Lil’Dude he won’t remember it lol, but you will as all good Moms do!!

[@beverlyt.5526]

Griffin is soooo adorable 💙. My Daughter is 37 and I breast fed her a year. After 6 weeks I went back to work and pumped at work. I started feeling like a cow I remember and my boobs used to get engorged and leak if I couldn't pump them in time. A Mommy's life 💜🙌!!! Western Upstate New York here 💕

[@madisonsummers1791]

giving birth any day now and I cannot imagine how much I'll cry when I have to leave my baby. you did great!

[@Hailxtie]

Awww so Griffin is so cute and hope you are recovering well Abby!

[@surlespasdondine]

I left each of my babies for the first time over night around 2 and a half years, I wasn't ready before. And I was lucky I did not have to of course. The first one went to my grand ma at 2 and a half to practice for when I would be in labour a few months after that. I was happy she could speak already so she could tell me how it was. My babies were also breastfeeding to sleep for the longest time, and didn't take any bottles (refused them), so it would not have worked until I stopped breastfeeding anyway. The did go to daycare part time from 8 months, just not anywhere overnight. I think leaving them for a weekend after a few months would have been insanely hard but also might have helped prevent my postpartum depression.

[@learnarabicwithhiba856]

The way Griffin smiles when seeing his mama, my heart jus dropped

[@ryanrobinson7178]

Y'all are the sweetest parents, y'all remind me of my hubby and I 22yrs ago with our first born. So cute , I adore you both. . #bigfan #loveyourfamily 🧡 Sending love from northern California 💙

[@1012345MB]

The way griffin looked at Abby when she got home 🥺❤️❤️ my actual heart exploded. That’s love

[@carolinemanning2554]

You guys are so amazing!!! And Abby you are such a fighter!! Girl you are so amazing and insperational and I love that about you well I mean I love a lot of things about you lol. Keep up the excellent work! I can't wait to see what God has in store fr your beautiful family!!. Love you guys!

[@abbykorolek7429]

Griffins growing up so fast! You guys are such good parents love you guys ❤ Ps. You guys are my fav utubers!

[@bakgametsimack3131]

The way Abby got herself prepared for that dance...cracks me up. Watched it so many times😂😂😂

[@amberj3941]

This video actually gave me baby fever. Something about griffin smiling at you Abby was so perfect. That moment is priceless.

[@i.love.sza.]

OMG MATT IN HIS DAD OUTFIT❤️

[@TheRashidies]

Abby you are SO ADORABLE! As a mum of 4 kids, this was the wholesome vlog that made me laugh and just brighten up my day! THANK YOU!

[@drewboi107]

I love you guys so much! You never ever fail to make my day! :)

[@Ur_fav_Carol]

So cute❤ love y’all some much your amazing parents!

[@marienorris3093]

Genuinely loved this vlog and how happy Abby was! ❤

[@Jillian7707]

Can you guys please do a newborn must haves/reviewing baby products that work well for you guys video? I'm so curious on what you guys have tried and what works/doesn't work or what was worth/not worth the money!!! I feel like you guys would give honest reviews.

[@foreverbarbie9490]

I had no idea how much one had to pump when breast feeding. Glad you had fun!

[@briannatasto2734]

I went back to work this week and have cried everyday. You are so lucky Matt is so supportive.

[@orkhanmammadov2441]

Abby, we are reading the same book 📚 😮 I LOVE YOU GUYS!!! I am a huge fan of you guys and I watch every video you guys create! Huge love 💕 from Seattle 😘♥️ God bless 🙏🏻

[@kateharrison5136]

So sweet! I have reoccurring nightmares that I have to leave my kids for a couple weeks. I wake up so depressed. The only time I've left them over night is when I've gone to the hospital to have another baby! 🤣🥴

[@Kristakat23]

Abby - this IS SO normal. It's OK. Take so many pictures and videos of Griffin. It helps.. They will grow, and they WILL grow FAST. Growing is a good thing! If this anxiety becomes more frequent. Please tell your doctor 😊🥰 Love your vids guys!

[@ryanpierce7037]

I love how much you love your baby😢❤

[@savedsm]

Looking at your milk supply makes me want to cry. My baby is 12 weeks old and my supply is dropping so low.

[@kennedymckenna676]

i would love to see you guys do more content with della vlogs! You guys are awesome!

[@adnyl6288]

Love della❤

[@AaryaGhuge]

“My only problem with tacos is that I finish them too quickly” 😂😂

[@delilah7957]

Excited for Matt’s vlog😂

[@emmawahl9122]

So proud of you abby❤️

[@blueberrycheetah3967]

You all are so precious I hope all goes well you guys ❤❤❤

[@kylee9733]

matt and abby i love y’all so much ❤

[@Graceajc]

Would recommend TSA pre check!! You get patted down much less and you get to keep your shoes on

[@biancabarone5817]

your vlogs are fire, good job and griffin is so cute

[@presley6456]

Hey I love y’all’s videos I hope griffin does ok when you’re gone y’all are great parents and I just love y’all’s videos

[@Kali64296]

You guys are so amazing love you ❤️ you are amazing parents and doing a great job

[@Kayleeis2kool]

You guys are the best parents in the world!

[@SimplyPreppy20]

It’s amazing to see Abby is injoy her self whilst caring so much about her little Griffen

[@brooklynthoma1034]

Aww I bet it is hard to leave your baby for the first time. You guys have such a beautiful family.

[@ilovechewingpens]

9:15 THE BABYS FACE 😭💀

[@samdoyle6]

I LOVE THAT THEY'RE FRIENDS W BROOKLYN AND BAILEY AHH TWO FAV CHANNELS

[@tanyailes2272]

Griffin 💩 with excitement after seeing his mommy! I've breast fed 2 boys for 5 y wes in total and I can tell you for sure that look Griffin Gabe his mom was pure love! No bottle can replace the breast and comfort but Abby is also Lucky she has great support also! We'll done Matt, you should be proud of your self for the support and encouragement you provide Abby ❣️

[@amelton1620]

Bless ur sweet heart. It is a normal thing. It happens with EVERY BABY YOU HAVE!! Leaving them for the first time is tough!!!! Regardless your an amazing mom!! He will still love u more than anything when u get back. Lol u deserve time to ur self mama whether you think so or not. He’s got an amazing daddy at home taking care of him. I know your so proud of that!!!

[@erin6320]

I love abby, matt and baby griffin! Theyre so cute and genuine

[@Jules8294]

I remember when I left my first born 27yrs ago at daycare to go back to work…I cried the entire day, your feelings are validated as a mom

[@thekaczmarekfamily]

Love y’all so much!! **(Unsolicited advice/Baby Tip - I always go 1 size up on my daughters diapers and since I made the change I’ve never had a poo blowout again.)*+

[@devinbornstein]

That book you were reading is amazing! There’s another too, five chimneys, amazing!

[@bellaangus1213]

Abby ~ you’re a amazing Mom! So happy you’re with Bella and Abby.