Pre-marital SEX & ABORTION- let’s talk about it. |

[@jorocinak1238]

No body wants to take responsibility. Everyone wants sex with 0% of the consequences...

[@treefiddytwoo]

if that were true, why were any of us even born?

[@Kingdom_Heart]

@@treefiddytwoo We were born because of the ending result of sex. Which is exactly what it’s for. It isn’t primarily for enjoyment but that’s the way society teaches it. If you haven’t looked around then you haven’t noticed that the main reason everyone is in an uproar about the overturn of Roe v. Wade is because everyone wants the sex part but not the accompanying procreation. It’s like someone saying I enjoy playing with fire but I don’t want the burning part or the heat. They treat abortion and plan B like a magical eraser.

[@ritchierich6133]

been saying this for years. the pro choice movement has nothing to do with a woman's right to choose. it's for her right not to be responsible for her choice to have sex.

[@ritchierich6133]

@@Kingdom_Heart exactly, there are 3 reasons for sex, reproduction, pleasure and creating a bond with your partner. but the primary reason for sex is to create life.

[@victorious1929]

Christians are hypocrites. If abortion is outlawed, so do all forms of birth control, no pulling out, nothing. Let’s say I’m married and Christian, You are not suppose to be on birth control but they are. Cherry picking

[@hamulerrickdon]

The pre-marital sex campaign does exist. It’s just so heavily focused on women and girls. When I think about it…my family has been wrecked by people who have been so irresponsible when it comes to sex. It takes 2 people. But I have found that the most reckless of the 2 is often times a man or young man who has never been taught that the boundaries of sex in marriage is to his benefit as well. Not just women! I pray that we have more men stand up like this and counsel young men as well about pre-marital sex. When men start to understand that pre-marital sex ALSO has disadvantages for them I believe we can make progress on this front. Thanks Tim for bringing this conversation to the forefront.

[@tawanda34]

This is what I love about marriage… A man stands before his community as vows to love and protect and keep himself only to this woman… And the community blesses this couple. And so when she shows back up in the community, belly swollen with child, we all celebrate that this blessing has been given life. That the man and woman are not just one, but this beautiful child that a physical manifestation of love, loyalty and respect- literally blending the live force and DNA of the man and the woman into a living being- an actual living testimony of the two becoming one flesh. Let me to encourage you to pursue this relationship in a right and honorable way and not rob the blessings from you, your spouse and your child through disobedience. Sex is awesome! God created sex. He wants it to be a wonderful part of your life. He laid out two paths- his (where the blessings are) and the world’s (where the heartache is). The choice is yours.

[@eddiemoise8079]

God also instituted marriage. The whole bible is about God marrying the church. He created it. That's why the enemy (the devil) is doing everything he can to pervert it or get rid of it completely. By promoting people to live in their truth... Or like Allister Crawley once quoted "do what thou Wilt." This is the exact opposite of what God commands. This tells people to do what they want.... People need to stop trying to live in their truth, and start living in "THE TRUTH" which is Jesus Christ of Nazareth The Son of the living God and the risen king and savior of this world.

[@bigty8901]

Awesome comment...

[@healthytoxin]

🤘🤘🤘

[@treasuremeri9135]

This was GOLD!!!!

[@sexy302010]

Beautifully said

[@yahdig.solid_leonhard3814]

In the words of Pastor Darby (R.I.P.)... "FORNICATION is our problem"

[@sistahlight-2-danations]

Steven Darby was that Dude❣️🙌🏽

[@carlenewilliams7093]

These are the kinda teachers the world needs . He always speaks raw and truthful 🙏

[@johnorji360]

Since, I discovered this man. I know the Spirit of God raised him up in this age and time. A fan of yours watching from Lagos, Nigeria.

[@octaviakf]

I’m just glad he said if people & not if women cuz the war on women out here is something serious smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@aeronblitz9347]

"You still delivered the baby, you just delivered it in pieces" wow.

[@MsMookalate]

Yeah they waited too late that’s at least two late periods later

[@patriciawatkins7314]

Yea that was deep

[@LIGLIG-d7s]

They should make that into a billboard next to planned parent hood.

[@RoyaltyK]

Abstinence until marriage is the way to go💯

[@joab757]

It is facts that we bring every last relationship into a new one. It’s why we were designed for 1 person. And love is a choice. You can be in a bar with 10 10’s that you have a ton in common w and love all their personalities. You just choose who you love. It’s a dedication, a devotion to God and God’s word and the person you choose to love

[@JustMe-gf1ko]

I LOVE & NEEDED what you just said Sean....wow, wow. Wow!!!!!! God bless you!!

[@lovebug6388]

All facts! Sadly I hear more women talking about abstinence and more men talking about they can't go against their primal urges. Then they rabbit trail off into how monogamy isn't natural and animals don't mate with only one for life. I then know they know NADA about nature. Simply justification as to why they shouldn't have to exert discipline over their bodies and sexual desires and women should be chaste.

[@corpax2319]

Respectfully, this is just untrue at least in the U.S. Women are increasingly sleeping with multiple partners, having children out of wedlock and demanding the right to kill it. They also preach about how they need no man, they are growing more hostile and toxic towards men so subsequently a staggering number of men have left the dating scene simply because it is no longer worth it to pursue these dysfunctional women. Marriage rates have already started to show a massive decline and it is understandable why. As to the primal urges u talk about I'm almost positive that represents a minority of men and is possibly from your own personal experience with men.

[@virtuousdove8555]

MAN I LOVE LOVE LOVE You. I’m soooo grateful for God bringing you guys in my realm Years ago!

[@SetApartLiving424]

Listen, I had an abortion at 13. And my body was stuck in childbirth/child rearing mode. I became even MORE hypersexual and still yearned for the 1 I had taken away. I became a believer in Christ at 20 yo, was in college and became pregnant again, but I vowed to God to give this child back to Him. I had my mini me, and finished school with my then husband, now ex husband. Now at 26, I realized that having sex outside of the container God made it for was the reason I struggled so much. I am now abstinent/ celibate and engaged to be married sometime next year and I’m so happy I’m finally learning the discipline to just say no. I low key have to lean on God everyday just to fight for purity.

[@eniolorundaekundayo1100]

Yes sir where is the campaign against having sex before you get married!!!

[@tuereredivine9821]

You better say it!!!!!

[@classy2329]

So genuine question here do you genuinely believe that teaching abstinence is really the best option over teaching safe sex? For the record I'm not trying to be a dick just want clarification because i don't see how that would work

[@francicabrown5047]

There no longer is a campaign for what GOD says/GOD's way! What's good is bad& what's bad is good! SMH Despicable!

[@eniolorundaekundayo1100]

@@classy2329 To prevent teen pregnancy in the southern states of America. Yes. Because the Republicans wanted to say they are doing God's will so do everything in the holy scriptures.

[@eniolorundaekundayo1100]

@@francicabrown5047 You are right both republicans and democrats agenda is never going to do right or follow God's will.

[@deeed4902]

Amen brother! Clearly the Spirit of God said the exact same thing to me the other day…having sex out of wedlock, has results!

[@jacobjorgenson9285]

Having sex IN wedlock has results. And about 50% of the times it ends in divorce. Wedlock means fuck all and surely God don’t give a rats ass about it . It’s a mental construct to get married , constructed by man, to control man

[@ngreat4390]

Having any sex has results. The problem is that with PmS your emotional safety isn't protected by any contracts and as such you're roaming the wilderness

[@traceydumase]

Somebody tried to argue with me that spiritual ties don't affect men the same way. That's another lie from the enemy to keep our brothers broken. The Bible says that sexual immorality is against oneself. No gender specification. If you're having premarital sex, it most definitely comes with concequences whether you are aware of them or not 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jacobjorgenson9285]

@@traceydumase the bible also tells us to stone unruly children at the edge of town, so let’s just leave that ridiculous book aside

[@sgtdos5077]

has *consequence(s)

[@clintonoliver3965]

This man is just out here doing the Lord's work... I love that man

[@sincere531]

Dang! You still had a baby it was just in pieces😢

[@annagrace1159]

Modern day child sacrifice😓😓😓

[@MsMookalate]

Yeah they waited too late that’s at least two late periods later

[@sistahlight-2-danations]

If you love me keep my commandments. If anyone do my commandments and teach others to do my commandments will be great in my Kingdom.

[@lizperry4875]

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about 1.3 percent of abortions were performed at or greater than 21 weeks of gestation in 2015. In contrast, 91.1 percent were performed at or before 13 weeks and 7.6 percent at 14 to 20 weeks.

[@sheilasmyth5874]

Brilliant! And it’s SO IMPORTANT that YOU are delivering this message. Amen- have to teach/explain as you have done so eloquently. That pre-marital sex is no-go Appreciated your graphic descriptions of the whole thing- made the whole thing so real. Thank you Thank you Thank you

[@checkuponlove]

Great point “ your still delivering a baby, just in pieces.” Wow powerful💯

[@eniolorundaekundayo1100]

Real talk brother!!!!!

[@mlester738]

I’ve legit had this same thought. There’s no such thing as sex safe. It’s always a risk because of babies, infections, etc. I’ve learned that God is a God of boundaries. It’s a reason why he says wait before pursuing certain things. He’s not withholding anything from us, but is protecting us through postponing gratification.

[@shibaarmybrat5749]

Actually alot of wives have abortions too

[@achavis0609]

Definitely understand his point of view. But there's some married women with husbands that no longer want to grow his family. Turn and tell their wives to have an abortion. So it's not more so pre marital sex. But definitely a mindset that needs to be demolished.

[@michelleo5215]

What is the rate or statistical data supporting this circumstance. I would gather it’s not as frequent or statistically relevant.

[@lovebug6388]

If he doesn't want anymore children how hard is it for him to get a vasectomy? That's much less taxing on his body than an abortion is on a woman's body. Just f*kg selfish😤

[@Goldenswayzee]

@@lovebug6388​​⁠ not necessarily. Me and my wife just went through this, this month. We have two children and she got pregnant again and she really didn’t want to go through the process again so soon. It ain’t right, but we did what we had to do. It was her choice to make and I didn’t want to force something on her that she didn’t want to do. And I’ll be getting a vasectomy early 2024.

[@swedmerson90]

I just wrote a paper about this last year saying the same exact thing, that the campaign should be more about ABSTINENCE because if you abstaining you ain't getting the clap, if you're abstaining you ain't having unwanted babies. (This is also an issue with the baby momma single mother hates the baby daddy - Boo that wasn't your Boaz, you let the wrong one plant seed in you and now you mad because the relationship is corrupt, it was outside of God's will to begin with, you're not mad at him you're mad at sin. The Bible says that we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, wickedness in high places) But sadly abortion is bigger than just two people not wanting to take responsibility, the blood that is shed from those babies is apart of ritualistic satanic worship which is why it has been one of the most difficult things to get rid of.

[@tiffanyslaughter633]

Health care worker here... it's all true called the SILENT SCREAM ...

[@JustMe-gf1ko]

Wow. How sad....silent scream - THOSE 2 WORDS... P.O.W.E.R.F.U.L. whoa 😢🙏🏽🤕

[@tiffanyslaughter633]

I resigned 2020

[@tiffanyslaughter633]

@@Ozzfan-yt7bv I'm asking did you read my last comment.... I've resigned from health care. I can't unsee reverse what I've been exposed to it was apart of my job... still being warm, bodies, parts as an ex health care worker... 10 plus years several surgical procedures...male and female... takes its toll on your mental

[@tiffanyslaughter633]

@@Ozzfan-yt7bv I'm asking are or have you worked in health care before? Being on a team and having to be flexible at all times all locations. From the adult side 25 surgery rooms that approximately 3 to 4 cases per room let's say 24 scheduled procedures and the 25 is left open for various traumas. ExLap, Cranial, Cardiac and Emergency C-section these are trauma carts that HAVE to be ready 24/7, this count is not excluding Day surgeries or the children's hospital or pediatric surgeries...and Harvest.... still remember my first time being asked for a body bag.... atmosphere was real 🤫 quite...I've been blessed to see life beginning and a mother saved at the same time

[@tiffanyslaughter633]

@@Ozzfan-yt7bv So the answer is no, no background in health care.... be blessed

[@FB-ch5yz]

Premarital sex is a fact of life. Condoms, responsibility, accountability and morality is what is needed

[@TheHatchet2]

The campaign against that was forced out of the classroom. It's still exists, it's just not allowed to enter the public square because we can't have religion in our classrooms

[@gigichica]

True!!!!! So impacting!!! Yes, where's the campaign against sex before marriage.

[@PeriwinkleFairywinkle]

People who are married can also not want kids?

[@romae6182]

Many married people get abortions but they don’t want to talk about that.

[@melissa6507]

I listened to the podcast. So refreshing and eye opening.

[@wordsofwisdomlife7957]

Real talk man! God bless you 🙌🏾

[@jercoryiac1537]

It’s sad because they will crusify him for saying the truth. God bless him for saying it anyway because FACTS

[@too1508]

The answer is yes it would and does still happen in marriages lol. Some? yeah, more like very few women wait 6-7 and beyond months and sometimes it’s for medical reasons, but most abortions occur within the first 10 weeks lol.

[@jordanaguon1]

Right?? My husband and I had an abortion. And idk of any woman who’s had an abortion that late into their pregnancy unless delivery would cost them their life.

[@baytown3897]

Seriously I just love all the hot air that’s blown out. Huffing and puffing with no credible statistics to back up the poorly choices words. I was with him until I was like how many months did this dude say?? Does he even know wth he’s talking about?? No research just going to say stuff I’m assuming goes on in the world.

[@too1508]

@@jordanaguon1 hm, I can say sometimes it’s not having enough money in time (and the price goes up each week or month, it can depend) but you knew from the beginning that you didn’t want to keep it. And it happens like that unfortunately. Surgical abortions are pretty tough and get pricey.

[@too1508]

@@baytown3897 yeah I’m pretty sure he was saying triggering stuff (like limbs being taken out and what not) to be inflammatory and just overly demonizing abortions.

[@mimosa.pw2ij]

There is no medical reason to terminate a pregnancy at 6+ months.

[@aprilfoster4725]

There was a reason Plan B used to require counseling and medical professional approval. Indirectly it served the moral obligation and legal and medical. In counseling a woman had to entertain her responsibility to see and contraception. A doctor had to determine her level of competency and responsibility. He legally was seeing to a child and mother medically. The counseling included addressing the act, the thought, and the medical procedure consequences physically for you and a child. Now each time pre martial sex comes about there is at least a thought that proceedes a bad decision of premarital sex.

[@TheGuniverse2k]

I always say that. We have conversations about abortion, single households & kids but never the cause SEX. The purpose is to create life.

[@jodycarpenter6011]

The results of not teaching your kids that poor decisions lead to consequences. So think through what you do and what the consequences are and if they are not to your liking, don't do it!! The decision to have a child or not is made in the bed room or back seat of a car, not 2 to 9 months later.

[@too2manyjs698]

Married couples can still choose to have an abortion... but I get your point.

[@VICTORIOUSONE22]

Accountability is kryptonite to Blackmen.

[@lynnstanley8229]

Thank you for being so brutally honest about what happens in a later term pregnancy when baby is being aborted.

[@milkocrel7154]

You are hundred percent right😢, that is so gruesome.

[@natashasdiary3120]

This is the message to have. This type of campaign would break America because both sides are full of lust.

[@missmlb3842]

fear, lack of responsibility, and unwilling to accept consequences of actions. If we only prayed to God in the midst of these monents...,"God, show and tell me the consequences of this action. God, what will I reap if I do this?"

[@JH-tc7wb]

I'm 100% for everything you're saying except that there are quite a few married women having abortions.

[@traceydumase]

Praise Jesus for His enduring mercy🙏🏾❤️

[@joab757]

And NO. If there was no fornication, there would be no abortion. This is why ppl get so emotional and fight so hard to protect a barbaric right. It’s why 90% say, I’m not for the killing of babies, but…. It’s because they don’t want the personal responsibility. It’s a very very very selfish act. That said, you have to parent to help prevent this. Unfortunately we live in a society that has rejected God and as such, it has become very difficult to work and parent in a culture that promotes sex and drugs 24/7. Especially without God!

[@Dondeez]

What about rape?

[@user-xe2io2go1f]

Married women get abortions too

[@sgtdos5077]

​@@Dondeez🎯

[@mypov4347]

On point in da physical, now remix on da spiritual aspects: curses, barrenness, witchcraft, soul ties...

[@Jackson-pf5jb]

I just found your channel, thank you for bringing the truth

[@markh-s7963]

""Dats some buuuulllllsshhheeeeetttt!!!" - Pookie & Ray Ray

[@flowerbomb9241]

Right! Where is the campaign against that 🤔

[@afroaffirmations]

Where they do abortions at 7-8 months sir? I don’t know one single woman that’s EVER done that so I’m curious.

[@rockstarrayy1883]

pre marital sex > divorce

[@tearriamurphy7855]

Premarital sex isn't the problem, not using any form of birth control is. You can be married and still not want to get pregnant.

[@imanimalaika7734]

Men would be more upset about no sex 😒

[@proudlibra5250]

Premarital sex or not, there's plenty of married couples that get pregnant and decide to abort for whatever reason

[@iblameabel]

People would still do it just at a lower rate, abortion isn’t about premarital sex. It’s about good & evil. There’s been abortions for thousands of years, babies were sacrificed to Maloch back in the day

[@mirv1998]

I get it...and I hear and understand. Married people get abortions too, it's not just a poor, unmarried women issue. But God loves and God forgives.

[@ZACKARDO]

Yes it would 100% still happen, i and my soon to be wife don't want to have kids at least in the next 10 years(we are still 19 and been together since we were 15 soooo).

[@okoo7385]

Good point, but the answer would be yes. Just a smaller rate.. Think in that world we would need people to 1) understand the purpose and value of marriage. 2) We would need to focus on training ppl to understand the selflessness and compromise that a successful marriage requires.

[@joab757]

Oh, and I love this channel

[@jeneeskinner7481]

Definitely want to watch the full episode. The truth hits different.

[@rhondaprice4805]

Straight FACTS!

[@carlilucina1520]

Factsssss 💯

[@brandimyers7238]

This issue extends past premarital sex. Consider adultery, rape, incest.

[@samuelwilliams4019]

But think about it though if sex wasn’t introduced to anyone of those people would any of it take place

[@killhatred19]

MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR THIS GENERATION- NEVER ENETER A CONTRACT THAT SOMEONE IS REWARDED FOR BREAKING

[@Twistidreality333]

Very good point bro

[@angiejones5464]

This a good question!

[@kendracaniggia6021]

THAT PART !!!

[@PTLV-xv3xs]

Amen. Be responsible as an adult. Abortion is not protection against pregnancy.

[@luigigabrielofficial]

Unfortunately it still would be. Because being married doesn't automatically mean people want children.

[@JoyChosen]

It’s DEEPER than your projection of Gods Protection that you are projecting. How can we appear to the broken man’s heart and logic? This entire world is broken. Yes premarital sex is not what God wants for his children nor does he want - Incest, Rapping, Child Abuse, Child Abandonment. Mentally man kind has missed the entire beginning. BUT GOD, he’s making ALL THINGS NEW! He is coming soon, please PRAY for the Children. 🤍🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤍

[@raquelweekly]

Say it again for the people in the back!!! 🗣

[@raymondvaldez4101]

This is the most dramatic shot I've ever heard

[@hereigns24-7]

Truth, Amen

[@Execution88]

Not that I am for or against abortion I literally have no dog in the fight as I am not a woman. Regardless of your religion or personal belief I am not sure how some random man in politics or not even has an opinion about it . It’s not your body and you aren’t going through it. Weird to me

[@estheroladunjoye5138]

The blood 🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸 of Jesus Christ Amen

[@markasmaclean420]

Even in this day and age of pre marital sex - I do not have sex with woman I don’t plan for a relationship with. If I have sex with a woman I am almost always willing to wife her and raise a kid. THIS has to be the mindset or our society is doomed

[@lizelihu5370]

Oof. That’s some real talk right there.

[@ShieldsofArmor]

This dude is speaking truth

[@brianjames3753]

TRUTH!!!

[@wandamajette5000]

Thank you, thank you and thank you. And if you FLEE FORNICATION the guy wouldn't have to pay 18 years of child support if she decides to have the baby. Yep, 10 minutes of lust could become an 18 year commitment. Think about that. Then years later they start a podcast that is dedicated to trashing the opposite gender. When it is really about the decisions/choices that you make.

[@ClayboyBR]

Keep speaking truth, please!

[@ekko3million468]

PREACH!

[@brezneepryor7173]

Well said❤

[@downbad2874]

No one well fight against sex before marriage

[@gwdavey]

Preach!

[@Journey2HealingHearts]

No...Take responsibility on both sides

[@lukewilson9585]

Truth.

[@JustLex98]

Preach.

[@zbrooks1252]

Go. Ahead. Sir.

[@destanturner14]

Man powerful

[@theradiantroomwisdom4every777]

thanks!! yes! word!

[@esterholt1070]

So True🥰

[@bigdawg4205]

I’m going to be honest with you not everyone wants to get married it’s a completely different world in time I completely respect what he saying and I hear it. But with the Internet and half the world Watching porn it’s gonna be real hard to reverse society but it all starts with ourselves hopefully people can wake themselves up

[@ghaywood902]

Facts!!

[@mathapelo4781]

You still delivering a baby your just delivering it in pieces 😳

[@lisaperdue8033]

Abortion should not be used as an easy form of abortion after the fact when self control or another method that does not include pull out because that's not a guarantee.

[@janetpaguilar5086]

That’s it you hit the target bingo that is what needs to be taught.

[@libraalbert91]

Yes.