Preacher's Daughter interview-Elizabeth

[@johng6637]

I am a 71 year old man and Elizabeth told my story. She is a very healing presence and I wish her blessings always.

[@raaaaaaarr]

Wow I'm so sorry. Also so happy to see old wise ones on the internet.

[@lordpazuzu]

I've listened to this twice now. I thought to myself, she is telling me my life right now.

[@valentinesouthest2806]

🍀♥️🍀

[@tonyprice5344]

Same here. Being a preacher's kid isn't all it's cracked up to be. Dark days and deep emotional scarring that I'm still in therapy over.

[@larryschuitema7493]

Metoo jon,I'm 65,well we made it,stopped the bleeding.

[@boomer891]

“If you give up being a martyr and victim you have to take responsibility.” This hit HARD. I will be thinking of this statement for awhile . I just realized how honest this statement is in my life

[@deluxedesserts]

YES, what a statement! Very potent.

[@mikeymasters8459]

Great relatable story.

[@ausgaze]

i dunno, the mother should protect the kids at all costs, I know my mother would.

[@suzannaandrea4306]

Not only but responsibility that word means: YOU gotta dO something. That changes everything cause the thing is on yOu then. It's all on you. Cant lean in2 or cringe in2 that daily nightly victim thing. You paralyze in2 that role. Until it almost kills you. Either way it's not easy

[@mikelee9883]

Still trying to do this🙏🏼 powerful story

[@chasingdestiny923]

"When people are really good to you and you never had much of that, you never forget those people." I absolutely understand that statement!

[@maureencrawford2275]

Elizabeth is delightful, self aware, humble and insanely articulate. When she talked about feeling unloveable, unworthy, she showed a deep understanding. I can see Elizabeth as a professional psychologist. Fascinating interview!

[@jebjim9391]

"He loved me back to life" -- this is the kind of love I want to spread. SO OFTEN that is all people need. Someone who is PRESENT, talking, caring about them and their lives and their stories. Showing the unconditional love that we ALL DESERVE and need.

[@lauramason7445]

Most of the SWU interviews are really depressing, hopeless and terribly sad. This one is truly inspiring. Elizabeth is proof there is always hope if you persevere. Bless her soul.

[@melissap9416]

Because she has Jesus. End of story.

[@Martin-kl7xk]

@@melissap9416 I have seen it be done without any deity several times. You can love God as much as you want, but give credit where credit is due.

[@melissap9416]

@@Martin-kl7xk Oh i give 100% credit to Jesus Christ. I was in a similar situation as Elizabeth as a child. Broken, hurt, abused, ashamed and no self-esteem. NONE. Turned to drugs and alcohol to cope. OD'd, died with a tracheotomy in my throat twice, shouldn't have lived. Ever had the surgeon in the ER tell you to "thank whatever God you worship cause it's medically impossible for you to be alive?" Trust me that got my attention. I heard of Jesus, so being a natural doubter I just asked Him if He was real, and if He was to show me. I said it out loud. My life was turned upside down 100%, for the better. He fixed me, cleansed me and made me new. It's truly a miracle, so yes i believe her, and concur from my own personal experience. I heard him audibly and He's never left. Only reason im still here. Have you ever asked Jesus to show you if He's real? He will. Most people are too prideful to even ask.

[@christineloz1686]

@@melissap9416 read the book of Thomas...Jesus told his disciples that they were already divine...to seek our own godliness as it exists IN us ..not as an outside authority.

[@melissap9416]

@@christineloz1686 you interpreted that wrong my friend.

[@meredithmorris1263]

Elizabeth’s wisdom is gobsmacking. I can’t get over her perspective and evolution. What a woman. I’m always so struck by the courage and power of the people interviewed on here.

[@jessiesantiago4205]

Yes!!

[@kizpaws]

Truth!

[@florenceellis214]

I am a 70 year old listening to this story and admire so much, the courage it takes to share her story. I agree with Eliazabeth that we all just want to be seen and heard: and loved, with no strings attached. For starters:)🧡

[@aliwright1016]

This 'reading energy' aspect of trauma survival is called hyper vigilance. You almost become psychic in an attempt to stay safe..to stay out of trouble...so stressful and exhausting

[@thematriarchy2075]

Yes, but i do treasure it too in a way. My intuition is very well developed from certain trauma. Hyper vigilance is ptsd, i think.

[@aliwright1016]

@@thematriarchy2075 I understand + respect xx we can learn to embrace the wisdoms gained through trauma...(we may also want to be aware of this ability to 'cold read' others...it IS a skill but can become manipulative if we haven't also addressed the anger/pain/narcissism)

[@thematriarchy2075]

@@aliwright1016 That goes for everything in life. If we do not feel centered, we might abuse others, even if we do not want to.

[@roy-haroldthompson4650]

EXACTLY you have to be extremely sensitive to everyone's energy. Humans can be monsters; the mass majority of them.

[@tomlund4951]

Walkin point baby!

[@briannacriscola3519]

My abuser was very “religious” and it definitely skewed my personal views on religion till this day. I’m very spiritual but cannot stand behind religion, it was always a crutch to pacify some of the worst people I knew.

[@nettyvendetti2381]

This is deep but I love this comment a lot 🥺💕

[@baileemiller9862]

We shouldn't blame someone's evil actions on the religion tho...

[@briannacriscola3519]

@@baileemiller9862 I never blamed the religion, I just don’t like how people use it to absolve their guilt. My perspective on religion is tainted but I never said it was religions fault ^

[@davesteadman1226]

A lot of very sick, awful people use religion as a mask to hide behind. Look up the BTK killer. Almost all serial killers use religion or know of its utility to do the awful things they do.

[@joanodom2104]

@@baileemiller9862 "We?" How dare you dictate what she can or cannot blame for HER personal religious trauma! You have not a clue what she suffered! How arrogant and presumptive on your part! Leave the suggestions to a trained therapist.

[@rinkitink1965]

Growing up a pastor's son, this is some raw truth. Much of this is far more common than most know. Some, if not all of this never really goes away.

[@janellejulianajoy]

I was going to ask about this. I've seen so many stories over the last few years like this one; and yours. Is it really this common?!

[@rebeccagutierrez1960]

@@janellejulianajoy Wow! This is so terrifying. My husband was a pastor. He was the real deal and I and my children loved him so much. He lived what he preached. He died of an illness in his seventies. I'm so sorry that this woman went through all this.. The hypocrisy of some people is unbelievable. And they affect so many people in a negative way. That is not a true gospel message.

[@olive0eyes0]

Most of them suffer from grandiose/malignant npd, check out Sam vaknins video Narcissists & their relation with God

[@iammrsburke]

Same

[@kirstenbaisner215]

@@rebeccagutierrez1960 sure it is, stop kidding yourself. Child sacrifice and crucifixion is good news to the chosen ones of the bloody oath cults.

[@badieazzouz1352]

This is my favourite channel on KZbin , and I really appreciate what mark is doing , all the sacrifices and work put on his work , and I'd love to see behind the scenes, how it all happens

[@wesleyalan9179]

Same!😁👍

[@sierrajay6512]

Definitely humble me

[@dollcrazy300]

Yes, this channel allows us to be kinda intimate with others in a less scary way. I actually feel a connection to the interviewees and the other people who watched these videos when I watch them. We need each other.

[@tmusa2002]

Same and this is a top ten favorite interview for sure. This channel has helped me become much more socially aware.

[@Quashhop]

I definitely feel that way too & agree!

[@territhetankedupterrapin6592]

That bit when she said about her drug and alcohol counsellor who was the first guy in her life who wanted to love her without wanting to touch her or anything...that's when my eyes filled up because that's such a rare thing to people who've suffered and it's something I've felt while watching a number of these interviews with different people and with friends I've made in the past who have told me of their traumas, like I just wanna support their healing. People don't deserve to suffer at the hands of others and it just sucks that we live in a world with so much suffering. 😔

[@ms.martiegallego8834]

As a Female she shouldn't have a male counselor !! I am a retired Counselor, and damn near ever make counselor I've worked with don't follow the First Ethic of the Helping Professions !! Do No Harm !l! Yet they have a hard time with barriers ! They think it's okay to get into relationships with their client's !! That is a Big No !l

[@jamesculley845]

@@ms.martiegallego8834- That is absolutely correct…except, in this case, the result seems to have provided some actual healing ❤️‍🩹

[@yurimodin7333]

@@ms.martiegallego8834 maybe he was gay?

[@richardbayne7566]

I had sex with my beautiful therapist and it was one of the best things that’s ever happened to me. She helped me get over an abusive cheating girlfriend. Best sex I ever had. It was of course consensual and mutual attraction. We both orgasmed a lot, so… The key is it has to be non coerced and consensual….

[@CarolAnn-gh9fl]

Her councilor crossed a serious line.

[@lilgreenridinghood3633]

The same thing happened to me as a prepubescent girl I was being molested in the dark. My father’s secrets (and many men in church) are still protected by my entire family and I have been disowned for speaking about it now as an adult. Still it’s the best thing to happen for me to get away from it all and focus on my mental

[@marcihf217]

I am sorry this happened to you. Gad you are free now. Sending you lots of hugs.

[@estheradao]

I’m so sorry this happened to you, I wish you all the best❤️💋

[@elizabethecarlisle1045]

My heart absolutely breaks for you. This is so prevalent in our communities, it's ridiculous. "We're only as sick as our secrets" I'm sure you've heard this said but the first time I heard it, it rocked me. May God hold you in the hollow of his hand 💕

[@karenhill9495]

And God wept.....

[@SandraAnnEvans]

That is AWFUL! I CAN’T UNDERSTAND HOW THEY GET AWAY WITH IT? HOW MANY CHILDREN HAVE TO BE RIPPED APART BY THESE PERVERTED MONSTERS? GOD BLESS YOU TRULY!

[@maryjancsar3767]

I've NEVER met another woman that spoke so many words that have come out of my own mouth. God bless her for being well adjusted after every thing.This is an incredible story,behind the family portrait.If l haven't said it enough,your work is awesome.Thank you💙

[@stephaniemeteer6897]

Elizabeth, I just want to say thank you, as someone who endured physical violence through the entirety of my childhood its very difficult to feel understand. Your story made me feel seen. Sending blessings.

[@loriannlocke4831]

Me too!

[@dennishaynes2334]

What a pretty smart woman, you'd never know what she had gone thru looking at her. Seems so well balanced now, it was a terrible journey but look who she is today.

[@CMASH_TX]

Looks can be deceiving 😉

[@seedofabraham0149]

Everyone has a story with different levels. It's about overcoming them and not justifying becoming what many have in succumbing to those childhood traumas.

[@carriekup]

@@seedofabraham0149 you're right. Everyone has a story. And it really is the easier way to just give up and not fight for your sanity, your health, your emotional wellbeing. Even though "giving up" looks like such a hard life for those who chose it, it's so much harder to pull yourself up.

[@tundrawomansays5067]

@@seedofabraham0149 I suppose that’s what you’d tell Combat Vets and I bet that *really* helps them deal with their PTSD./s Many of these people have grown up in domestic combat zones and as a result are “coping” the best they can with C-PTSD.

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@travispee3503 It's difficult to imagine a mother not sticking up for her kids. Painfully sad.

[@GeordiLaForge1974]

Wow! She has put some many things into perspective for me. I had a pretty good childhood compared to hers, yet I’m still dealing with the trauma of an abusive mother and an emotionally absent father. I guess I have to rethink my life and where I want to go with this pain. Elizabeth is a true inspiration. God bless her.

[@loriannlocke4831]

ML, your trauma is important, too. And you deserve healing.

[@REChronic54]

I think arriving to that conclusion of “I could’ve had it much worse” on your own is kind of helpful because it makes you grateful for what you have. But it’s good to realize this and also know that your experience is valid. Otherwise you end up burying feelings/issues that actually needs to heal.

[@megroll801]

I connect with her on so many levels despite us having different upbringings, fears and happiness. This interview really impacted me. Thank you SWU for bringing this type of content to the world. Really has opened my mind to so much. These videos just bring my inspiration in my own life and hope and also inspires me to find my creativity and reality to my writing!

[@Mrcarva2]

This is the first interview I’ve really connected with. Our stories share so many parallels. I haven’t been able to relate to anyone or anything since this. I wish I knew her and could speak with her.💔

[@sanasainsburys8284]

Same

[@AlltheWorldsAStage444]

Same

[@Eri-cp7ky]

Same ✊🏽 sending you all love and strength.

[@eileenw6002]

Same ❤️

[@susanmurphy958]

Yup, me too.

[@jeneka0989]

She is extremely articulate . A lot of people can relate to her story . She has helped people to understand adrenal glands failing and robbing you of your energy

[@Jessica-og3im]

Such an amazing and strong woman, i could listen to her talk forever

[@Ella-uc8qp]

I felt exactly the same

[@charltonheston969]

Forever?

[@lisafrederick8870]

When your a millionaire you can afford the best doctors\counseling that helps

[@ramzy4458]

@@lisafrederick8870 preach, sister.

[@JenniferJones23]

What an incredible story, I can relate so much to a lot of your experiences. I was raised in the 70’s by an abusive mother and alcoholic father who I didn’t speak to for 30 years and then he passed away from cancer. I love that your dad took responsibility for the damage he caused. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for having the courage to heal and share your story.

[@rogue7272]

She went through so much. She was able to forgive and not all have the strength to do that. God bless her 🙏🏽

[@AlinJapan]

It takes a lot of personal insight and courage to be this jaw-droppingly honest. Despite so much trauma, I see resilience, amazing resilience. Best Wishes Liz!

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Agree. She’s an awesome person

[@rogernadal3999]

Honest may not be the word to describe this women

[@meauxjojo]

This interview gave me chills. I’m so glad Elizabeth is healing and on a positive journey.

[@srichdway]

I am also a preacher's kid of a very abusive family - not just the father, but my mother and siblings, too. This is hard to listen to, but thank you for sharing your story, Elizabeth. I also survived by disassociation.

[@mollypowell196]

I’m a Preacher’s daughter and my Mother was mentally and verbally abusive to me. Dad had to have known. I over apologize all the time and have trouble having friends.

[@michellebarbour5777]

Hoping you find someone to talk to who might help. Elizabeth (Liz) seemed to recover by chatting with good people. I wish you all the very best. x

[@ohiopics]

Powerful message of hope from an incredible woman. I love how her story just poured out in all of its raw reality. The producer of this channel deserves reward and recognition for bringing a platform to all of these stories…

[@yoemephoenix6106]

That was the best shared experience. She is the definition of strength, humility, love and forgiveness that a human being has demonstrated. Thank you Liz your story has and will make an impact to others.

[@2intriguing1]

Her level of awareness is astounding, shes aware of her brokenness, aware she needs and needed help, aware that only spiritual connection can bring you through and aware of her mistakes.

[@robyndismon394]

She didn't become the person she is by herself. Her horrific parenting helped with that big time. Her parents' collective abuse and neglect were bigger mistakes than she will ever make.

[@2intriguing1]

@@robyndismon394 Im aware of that. The immense trauma allowed her to ascend

[@robyndismon394]

@@2intriguing1 I beg your pardon but under no circumstances does trauma 'allow' you to do anything!

[@2intriguing1]

@@robyndismon394 your misery is looking for company in the wrong direction. You clearly aren't Educated or self aware

[@robyndismon394]

@@2intriguing1 Your post is reflective of 1. An innate inability to accept or respect the viewpoints of others 2. The inexplicable need to diminish the value of anything you don't like or understand 3. The repeated failed attempts at sarcasm when wit and/or clarity are unavailable. Live your own advice.

[@Lindy.T]

A very pleasing interview. Slowly she takes us deep into her trauma and trials, yet looking at her and listening to her you see she succeeded where many others fail. A beautiful story and a beautiful woman. Thank you Mark.

[@DC-ut7ph]

“…if my parents treated me like that there must be something wrong with me.” …and now I’m crying.

[@michelleselman8004]

So heart breaking I pray Elizabeth considers becoming a therapist she has an innate understanding of psychological impact of Trauma I feel she would saves lives if she embarks on becoming a therapist she sounds like one. You are Magnificent and beyond phenomenal.

[@michelleduncan9965]

Wow, i agree!

[@mtaylor7307]

It's sometimes difficult for those with the most experience to work in the field due to Complex PTSD which can be triggered from others sharing experiences. Those with substance abuse issues will take the path of addiction programs that are structure based such as AA or NA 12 Step to become addiction counsellors or sponsors.

[@buzzbabyjesus]

These interviews break my heart. I grew up in a weird abusive household, an only child with narcissistic parents. I feel their pain. I know what it's like to try to live when you're broken.

[@oliva1745]

I hope that you are doing good now!🙏

[@buzzbabyjesus]

@@oliva1745 Thankfully, yes. I survived scarred but not broken. I'm in a very good place now.

[@oliva1745]

@@buzzbabyjesus Im glad to hear it! Stay strong!🥰💪🏻

[@pittmanfh]

Her father, if he's still living, needs to pay a heavy price for what he has done. Unfortunately I think there are many more just like him. What he did to her is worse than murder. She survives by the grace of God Almighty.

[@trinadash1805]

He will answer to God one of these days

[@Youre_Right]

The bullshit of people preaching the grace of god is the root of her problem. She is proof their is no god. There are just people using a made up entity they can blame every bad thing on.

[@DollyandWinnie]

@@Youre_Right also, if there was a god, don't you think he would stop this from happening? Total hypocrisy

[@vixen8458]

@@DollyandWinnie 100% where was God when all this happened? Why does no one ever hold God accountable for this shit world?

[@pittmanfh]

@@Youre_Right God saw each and every action. He will make it right. Eternity is not really in our reality now.

[@rishisahgal4529]

Wow. Honestly she's a kind soul. I don't think I could have forgiven my parents, especially my father if I went through that shit.

[@Cuzzakat]

So heavy. She definitely has some guardian angels looking out for her in this lifetime

[@MrMuaythai84]

yes krishna is looking after her

[@krisbaker9427]

Not enough. Should have looked out for her earlier. God allowed this to happen. God sucks.

[@robyndismon394]

@@krisbaker9427 couldn't agree more.

[@Daniii9000]

Her self awareness and ability to articulate her experience is really profound. Thanks for sharing

[@mollsewa]

Her self awareness is astounding. She is so intelligent and insightful. I have so much respect for Elizabeth. ❤

[@karlkidd1]

I completely understand what you mean to never want kids. I'm 40, never been married/no kids. I always said the same thing, I don't want to bring a baby into this world. I grew up in downtown San Jose. I watched my dad leave in an ambulance when I was 14-15, suicide attempt. For me, it was the drugs first, I didn't really care about alcohol. Now, I'm an alcoholic. I'm a badass metal fabricator, artist, yet everything is going to waste. There are so many blessings and beautiful things in life, I'm hoping I can re-wire my brain one day and stop all the sadness & stupidity of drinking. Or, maybe that's just life. Why not

[@Bojan_V]

Hey! I wish you a complete healing💚 and all the very best in your life! Hugs from Slovenia.

[@karlkidd1]

@@Bojan_V Thank You!!

[@karlkidd1]

Jeez I'm just thinking about it now, pot crank acid shrooms, x vicodin coke percocet methadone, DMT... Fuck I've done a lot of drugs

[@aimeerogers6755]

I am right there with you. I rely on alcohol more than I rely on myself.

[@mia_f]

Do what you can! There's always next time...haha

[@pn558]

It is outrageous what was done to you! Hearing about your little brother being abused evokes anger. Your narration is coherent and rational, a testament to your resilience. And being a preacher adds to the abhorrence. You coped as a chameleon , the best you could do. And how the proverbial saying that “dysfunction is a gift that keeps giving” rings true. So appreciate your authenticity.

[@brendaleverick3655]

My own dad was involved in the church when I was growing up. He wanted first to be a deacon, which he became, in the Church of Christ. Then, he wanted to be an elder, which he was held back from, for some reason. He blamed me for it, though I doubt that was the reason. He wound up leaving the Church of Christ and joining the Charismatic movement. He even tried being the head of a small group of his own. He would have Mom and me come kneel at his feet while we took communion. Mom had no problem with it, but I did. I stopped attending his church after that and drifted from church to church. Finally, I stopped attending, but never stopped believing in God.

[@ajh21313]

Coming from pain, abuse, no love… She’s “Bright”… physically, mentally, spiritually! God bless you Elizabeth.

[@lukkymee2000]

Her insight and ability to self reflect is amazing. And her heart, so open to understand and forgive. We could all learn something from this beautiful soul. I think she’s wonderful.

[@alexal.5416]

I am so much impressed of such a clearness and strength. In all this tragedy of her life, she found hersfelf and got guidance through all this drama. Thankyou so much Mark for your work!

[@AlejandroMS67]

A gripping interview, a beautiful and self-aware woman, I'm glad her suicide attempt failed. My only sibling lost his mind back in 1999 at 27 years of age, mainly due to not knowing how to manage the rave drug scene in San Francisco in the early and mid 90s, not knowing when to stop, not being more careful etc. The mixing of ecstasy, GHB, K, and who knows what else, started to fry his neurosynapses, what pushed him over the edge was when he added meth to the mix. Some people were able to handle that drug scene and they came out ok, but some people weren't, and my sibling was not cut out for that kind of drug abuse. Ultimately he became schizo-affective, which is part schizophrenic and part bipolar. It took years to get him diagnosed, it took years to get him on meds, and it's been a hellish road. He's better now, there are still ups and downs, it's not all roses, he'll likely never have a job again and will need to be on meds for life. But he's basically functional, and he's alive. But to be honest, it's like I lost a part of my brother that will never come back, and he too lost a part of himself he will never recover, and it's sort of a permanent sadness that will never go away, you just learn to live with it, and move on.

[@garyteague4480]

I’m a pastor and I truly hope my daughters love me because I love them and this man was sick

[@garrybailey7939]

I can understand how she feels, been down that road myself. Lived in a violent Christian home. Got to the point don't know if you're coming or going. You waste most of your life trying to figure it out. There's nothing that can erase the data bank of your brain. You learn to deal with it through time an it's also a lonely road to walk. May Yahuah Bless You.....

[@papialeman]

Psychedelics can help reset your brain under the right circumstances

[@travelingdanceronmodernslavery]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/i2XOoaVjiq-bl5Y I had similar things where my mother was the religious extremist and there were times where if one of us was not wearing our slippers my mom would hit my brother with an electric chord that would leave scabs while other times it didn’t matter, we would walk in with our shoes. I do not understand why religion causes such crazy mood swings and your story reflects mine.

[@chbears07]

Garry, I can say you did not grow up in a Christian home, maybe religious, but not Christian. Many people go to church and claim to be Christians but are not.

[@kal2487]

I'm really grateful you've done these interviews. They really help me process my own trauma. When I see someone else talking about their family dynamics, its just so obvious that people's trauma is no excuse for traumatizing their own children or abandoning their own children to abusers.

[@raelynnbarnes1649]

Thank you Liz. I really heard and felt you. Sober 50 years in September. Still growing and learning. Cheers.

[@saulegrazos338]

She left me speachless… What a beautiful soul 🤍🤍🤍

[@kimberlybaldridge5767]

Thank you Liz for sharing your story. I grew up in a strict fundamentalist home and my mom would do NOTHING when my dad was abusing me. I also escaped with drugs, eating disorders, etc. over the years. My mom has gotten better about not shoving religion down our throats as a necessity (I am an atheist, so we just dont go there.). I can talk to her about stuff now. My dad passed away 11 years ago and I never got to repair my relationship with him. I have been hospitalized 5 times for depression and other consequences from my trauma.

[@sophiasometimes9818]

This lady is an inspiration I’m in a dark place right now but hearing her story brings me some hope Thanks Elizabeth for sharing the ups,downs and ups again.

[@heartofplaydoh7647]

I hope you get out of the dark space soon 🙏🏼 You are not alone.

[@humanoidy]

Sophia, you are love.

[@billyjohnson9166]

Mark your best interview yet.

[@robyn_byrd]

In your opinion of course...It's who you can relate to. There is a video for everyone I would say.

[@dmarr8816]

I agree

[@billyjohnson9166]

@@robyn_byrd yes and my opinion is the one that counts

[@tysuratt1825]

I think someone who doesn’t speak as well that mark gets to open up would be considered a better interview. Mark asked her about her childhood and 40min later here we are.

[@patriciabowman8822]

I would agree. Best one yet.

[@aliciasikes9639]

"If you give up being a victim and a martyr you have to take responsibility." I think this is the most profound statement of the whole interview.

[@Donte821]

A lot of people need to realize that.

[@cocomamacita365]

She was refreshing, a beautiful butterfly. Continue to fly for all of the world to see. You are a symbol of hope

[@janicejacome]

@Nikki St. Clair...She definitely was...you put it perfectly. Hope people don't skip this over, as l'm just about to rewatch her. She will help many with her strength and wisdom. Another good eye opener for me. Just as we look at the thumbnails of the homeless and judge a bit when a person so badly worn down by life is at times NOTHING like what we expected, so would she come off as a typical, rich person who had everything given to them. So far from the truth! Wishing us all much good health and peace. THIS is why SWU is a jewel. Thank you, Mark. Learn something new every day here!

[@biancasequeira9713]

her level of consciousness seems to indicate that she had a lot of therapy. Good for her! Very interesting woman ! wish her the best!

[@maddyx3711]

Her meeting the man during her time in AA with the ex Preacher and her advent of hours of meditation, astral projection, etc definitely have to be the reason or the main source of her life therapy.

[@mstanton2916]

@@viewviewview1236 so is repeating the same word 3x and calling it a name

[@jackieschroeder3623]

This was a heartbreaking story with a beautiful transition to happiness, blessedness, and contentment... something everyone deserves in life. I am so happy for her.

[@mddell58]

Elizabeth is very well-spoken, & intelligent. I feel that she could definitely help other people out. 👍🏼

[@mooneverglance8417]

i find it so interesting that other people who have been abused as a child commonly decide that since they are broken, they know that their child is likely to go through that cycle as well. I'm also an abuse victim, abused by family and groomed by an older 'boyfriend' in middle school up until i entered high school, and i too share the sentiment that i don't want my children to go through what i've gone through, but i believe that i'm aware enough and i'm loved and supported enough by the individuals in my life that i can give my child a better existence than what i had, and that is what drives me in terms of parenthood.

[@Lauren-i8i]

100%!!! 👏👏👏

[@kalynahm]

One of the best stories I've watched on this channel. Honestly articulated; I will be saving this. "I chose to face myself." I resonate with that phrase and am bringing it with me to therapy. Women really are the warriors..fuck. Liz, thank you for being a woman of honesty, rawness, strength, and continuity of self-defined joy.

[@alexrobinson3385]

Oh man I loved the spiritual part especially towards the end of her story! Made me want to cry. She should totally be interviewed on the Jeff Mara podcast as well! His whole channel is devoted to spiritual stories just like hers.

[@babzcandlenook26]

Very self aware woman. Appreciate her transparency. Love love love learning about people you interview.

[@alexandriatb11]

This is an interview that I have to listen to in bits, but halfway through, I feel like she would be a stellar role model for the "imperfect child". The one who doesn't have it all together, who has to piece bits of experience together to form some semblance of a normal life. I hope she is in a position to mentor and help confused souls see their beauty through their perceived brokenness. And I hope you, dear reader, feel love and acceptance through the ugly. You are worthy. You deserve love. You deserve true, unbiased respect for being a human being on this planet. The insight into a mind that has had atrocious things happen, deserve nothing but the best, and to pass on the best of yourself. May we break our collective cycles of trauma and leave a lasting legacy of understanding and softness so that we may be able to be better than what has been done to us.

[@marshawhite6649]

Ml

[@Struieboy]

A sexually abusive priest? What a surprise.

[@lucydaly44]

I admire the place she got to that allowed her to communicate with her family again, I personally believe in distancing yourself completely from abusive people as much as possible. I had to do that personally with a few people in order to heal. No judgement on her, Liz is a powerhouse and I admire her intelligence and insight very much. The very best of luck to her.

[@marylougeorge9890]

Best thing I ever did for myself was maintain distance from immediate toxic family members, including my mom. I didn't totally cut them off because my daughter had good relationships with them. At family gatherings, I would say a few words then get out of their firing range. I quit visiting their homes and talking to them on the phone. Not only did I gain more peace but my self-esteem Increased!!!

[@lucydaly44]

@@marylougeorge9890 You and me both !I have created a barrier between myself and toxic people in my life. Unfortunately my husband still has a relationship with them so it complicates things but we have managed so far and hopefully will continue to, it has definitely helped me to heal, I cannot imagine the state I'd be in if things had continued as they were before!

[@lucydaly44]

@@marylougeorge9890 Question, if you don't mind me asking, did your daughter ever notice their behaviour towards you? Does she understand your decision? I am hoping my child will understand even if they have a separate relationship with the individuals in question.

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@lucydaly44 My sister's in laws were toxic but she had to deal with them because she loves her husband...until her neice tried to fight her! My sis is 5'1" and the niece was almost 6' and 30 yrs younger. My sis got the better of her but family said she started it. Lucky for my sis her husband backed her up and she was free from having to deal with them. He maintained his relationship with his family but after 25 yrs she no longer had to. Sad situation.

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@lucydaly44 My daughter witnessed my arguments with my mother. My fault for wanting my mom to accept, approve and love me as I am. The main thing was I never kept my daughter from spending time with her grandmother or my sisters. I never expected her to, "take my side," and they definitely loved her or things would have been different. There were times of peace between my mother, sisters and I but I got to a point in my life where I absolutely wasn't going to take any more from any of them, by then my daughter was married with a child. I never thought to ask my daughter if she noticed how they treated me.

[@SM-db8gx]

I took a lot from her story. I’m so thankful to her for sharing. Also, can we just take a moment to talk about how a kind and loving man like David just does wonders. I grew up with a father I was not close to. It seems he didn’t really seem interest in spending too much time with my sister and I. He was more interested in who he was married to or dating at the time. My boyfriend is so kind and loving and want to spend as much time with me as he can. It’s really comforting.

[@tallyho101]

Mark, this is your best interview. Liz, please write a book. Your voice is what we the world needs. 🙏🏻

[@matimus100]

praying doesn't save innocent women and children's lives

[@showtime31555]

One of the best interviews ever!🫶🏻💯

[@joycesmith5512]

I'm so happy she finally found her balance and happiness withing her self . Self love is so, so important!! Bravo Liz !!!!

[@angelegabe7770]

WOW, very interesting story, I felt like I was traveling with her on a journey (weird 🤔) through time, and space. I’m exactly 30 years older than Elizabeth yet it seems like she should be my age, that’s the best I can describe listening to her story…Intriguing, captivating, supernatural, experience ✨❤️✨ Blessings To You Elizabeth ✨❤️✨

[@tmusa2002]

It should be turned into a movie.

[@smiles1730]

I grew up in Clayton, in Regency Woods. I walked to your house to trick or treat in the late 80s. I love your strength, as now I know what was happening... I'm so sorry I couldn't help you (Petar Ct,) I'm so sorry.

[@FloatingFont]

34:20 IMAGINE being ill, lying on your death bed, your body is trying to survive, you're trying to calm your mind as much as possible- naturally feeling anxious and maybe a little scared, and your daughter says to you "i just want you to go"..... I don't know why, but this woman frightens me a bit. Its odd, as I'd like to meet her, hang out with her for a few hours, i don't think she's a bad/ nasty person at all. But she just seems a bit vacant and cold.. even when she says wholesome things it kinda doesnt sit well with me

[@terrytezzbigtel]

Amazing story, it touched my heart. Thankyou for the lesson on acceptance. I’m just coming back to recovery and it’s the thing I struggle with the most x

[@blackhorseman]

This lady should write a novel. Absolutely outstanding and extremely powerful testimonial! 😉👌

[@michaeljones5138]

I agree. I was thinking the same thing.

[@Etrielle]

After listening for 4 minutes I'm already so angry at someone calling himself a "priester", a "follower of God" and then being so abusive towards children 🤮

[@REALtalkRenataTV]

14:08: "I'm a child of God, and Nobody can take that from me". Wow. Real talk. I felt that 💛💛💛

[@TheFinisher669]

Insane

[@andykitchen5225]

God, the root of all her issues.

[@philjudd3473]

@@andykitchen5225 No her family are...

[@TheMohawk102]

So many of these videos . I can relate to and understand and learn from . Great Job Mark

[@isabelleboulay2651]

When you watch an interview and relate to the root of it all. Breaking a child's spirit harms the entire person they will become. Self awareness brings insight and hypervigilence from trauma becomes the energy you share. Elizabeth, it takes amazing courage to face your past, understand it's not your future, find your self-worth and the people who will recognize and appreciate the value you bring. The question is, when someone does care about you, is it too much for you to accept? I've never wanted children. I don't think I'd be a good mother because I didn't get a chance to be a kid. You chose your path before you came here. You are possibly learning karmic lessons from late ancestors. Hope that you are aware that your guides are with you. Listen to your intuition. I've started listening to mine. Forgiveness is for your own healing. You are more enlightened than many. They may not be vibrating at higher levels. Find your tribe. We're all connected. I would really like to connect with you, should our paths meet. My thoughts are with you. 😊

[@lawone7146]

Elizebeth you have a beautiful soul. Your suffering was not in vain. You are an inspiration. ❤️

[@leapatterson2014]

This was a wonderful interview! I would love more like this and follow-ups with them.

[@ravensierra5924]

Oh my GOD me and this women are literally the SAME lol. Fucking creepy tbh. I grew up southern pentacostal and actually in the south.... Crazy how she was going thru all this also, all the way in Cali. I have similar trauma AND similar relationship and self worth views.... Wow. Sending you all the healing energy and all my empathy.

[@sparklesp9304]

How do you deal with the religious aspect of all of this? Are you still a Christian?

[@JayNTaysRVlifePennyshopping]

Y’all my twins then and I’m all the way in kentucky ❤️‍🩹!!! I grew up” holiness” Pentecostal!! 👋🏽! We made it 💋

[@JayNTaysRVlifePennyshopping]

@@sparklesp9304 I still very much love god!! Struggle with trusting people still!! I went threw a part in my life that I didn’t want to love god but it’s all because of him I’m hear you tell you about it !

[@ravensierra5924]

@@sparklesp9304 I am personally not a Christian but I do practice ritualism as a part of my spirituality and that definitely stems from the Pentecostal practices I grew up around as a kid. Its basically a cult lol it made me hate God for years but then I finally found my true beliefs and am just as spiritual as the next Christian. I just personally don't believe in organized religion as a whole , but I recognize that not one person believes exactly the same, and isn't that the beauty of it? That none of us know if we're "right" or what really happens after this life. Its what connects us all 💓

[@ravensierra5924]

@@JayNTaysRVlifePennyshopping I'm from Harlan KY! lol small world

[@robinmartz9052]

I love God. I am a child of God. He has saved me through bad things too. I'm 67 and I'm finally really getting a grip on how much God loves me.

[@donaldjaggers3255]

Well it appears that this individual has some deep seated pain and the one who can heal those wounds is the one they want nothing to do with. Give all that pain to Jesus and you can be free. Let it go.

[@pinkpixieofdoom]

@@donaldjaggers3255 The christian god is supposed to be all knowing and all seeing. He is supposed to be omnipotent. This means God can do what he wants. It means he is not subject to physical limitations like man is. . So either he sees all the horrible human suffering and chooses to do nothing or he is CAUSING people to suffer and then requires them to beg their abuser to make it better. And before you come after me to tell me I need to read the Bible, I was raised in the church. Sunday school, youth group, teens studies, vacation Bible school ect. The god of the Bible is a sociopath.

[@orbitring]

@ Robin . . . This interview is a perfect example of why Jesus came to the earth, confronted the Religious people of His day for their religious treatment of people and condemned it. In return, those Religious Leaders had Jesus murdered by the Roman authorities. This interview typifies what RELIGION does to GENUINE Christianity and that is give Genuine Christianity a BAD name. God is a God of pure, LOVE and in NO WAY does this abuse heaped upon this poor girl, represent by a very sick person called a "Dad", represent GENUINE CHRISTIANITY not God, in any way or means.

[@orbitring]

@@JetSkiSuper7 - You come across as worse than this girl's father. Are you this girl's father ?

[@reesespieces4906]

@@orbitring how would u even begin to compare u imbecile??? Fuck the church and f u

[@well_i_liked_it]

What a great interview subject.

[@potentonion6574]

Elizabeth- you radiate warmth and embody a loving mother. You remind me of myself.

[@1colorguru]

Incredible story. Liz you are so bright and articulate. Let your light shine. Write a book, and perhaps a script, you're certainly capable. Wishing you the best. 💛

[@patrickmullen2914]

From Elizabeth's life she imparted meaning and humanity in this video

[@nichols3126]

"Living life on lifes terms"....she nailed it!

[@aliciam.4866]

Such a similar story to mine, except my father was in a different profession. So glad she was able to heal.

[@karencahill4798]

I am deeply touched by her story.Very articulate and real. We are all broken to some degree . “All things work together for good for those who love the Lord and are called according to His purpose.”

[@04steen]

Very intelligent and honest. You deserve a beautiful life and I wish you all the best.

[@quentindaniels7460]

I was raised in an extremely abusive household with an alcoholic father, so in my teenage years when I went to church, of my own accord, I could see the abusive anger in a good portion of the preachers when they “preached”. Several many times I can recall going into CPTSD flashbacks when their anger would reach a certain pitch. Church would refer to it as “righteous indignation”, but that was all BS. Their “righteous indignation” was really a vent for their abusive anger, and if you come from an abusive home, you know it when you see it. Never will I step foot in another church.

[@bryanm64]

Most churches are loving places with decent pastors. Your personal experience is not reality in vast majority of cases.

[@Lauren-i8i]

I hear you and it totally makes sense. But not ALL churches are the same. 💕

[@aishahismail590]

Our lives have a lot of similarities... uncanny. I'm glad you are doing well ❣️

[@dpz1985dp]

Your profile pic😘😘😘

[@aishahismail590]

@@dpz1985dp thank you😊

[@dpz1985dp]

@@aishahismail590 you should start a youtube channel. Id watch all day 😁

[@johnferris8723]

I married a girl that shared a similar background. It only lasted 6 years. It was hard to let her go. But she had so much trauma from her past she couldn’t feel or love. I think about her all the time. I miss her dearly. All I can do is pray for her.

[@willieyoung4818]

Wow,,,,,,that statement really hit home..

[@Lovelynene899]

I hope you’re alright ❤

[@shanbanan7414]

I'm sure she thinks of you as well. Those of us that are that broken that we can't love or feel, actually do feel & love deep down behind the walls we've built. We never allow anyone to see this part as to NEVER be truly vulnerable. Thank you for loving her.

[@camiba6773]

Thank you for understanding her. I had a mentally abusive child hood relationship are hard and the stress of it can trigger you. I have the similar feelings as this lady and a lot of people who go through this have to do it alone

[@weevolvetogether]

Prayers are always subservient to actions.

[@clairemacauliffecarroll263]

Every child deserves a parent. Not every parent deserves a child

[@johnnyutah6056]

That's awesome!

[@yanmck-sam5472]

Well said!

[@sheiladavidson8305]

Religious beliefs and rage. Man what a recipe!

[@kimandrews4608]

Well said indeed. Tragic.

[@ctrl_alt_delete4729]

Very, very true 🥰

[@sharonpower4658]

I totally relate to this, I was raisied in a very religious house full of sexual abuse, when I went to the police as a teenager I was kicked out of my family, Best thing that ever happened and Ive gone on to make a really good life for myself xo

[@willsmith39]

Wow - that's incredibly impressive. I grew up in a fantastic loving household and still have a brilliant relationship with my folks to this day and yet even with all their support I've really struggled in life in terms of my metal health. I've done well I guess career wise and financially but have always struggled with depression. So you being able to do what you've managed to in spite of having such an abusive childhoods is truly incredible to me. You should be very proud of yourself.

[@robburrows2737]

I'm so glad you had the strength to report them and get away and save yourself.

[@patremagilbert8787]

Sorry u had to go through that. U are a warrior.

[@alfa5243]

Oh that is so sad about your brother. Makes me cry.

[@pinkpugginz]

extreme religious behavior in the home is linked to sexual abuse

[@poloseason]

Went to high school with Liz. Hung out with her little brother a little bit. Had a slight inkling from him that things weren’t great at home, but had no idea it was that bad. I’m glad to hear you’re doing well now Liz

[@ryanbruner8928]

I went to TG schoo,l until maybe 2nd grade,and her Dad's church until I was maybe 11? I would have never thought this about him,so you just never know?!! I also had a crush on Liz when I was young!

[@matthewson1000]

@@ryanbruner8928 I am also from Texas, what was the pastors name and what church was it?

[@ryanbruner8928]

@@matthewson1000 it was in California,her Dad was from Texas originally, but I don't know where?

[@AlienatedArtist]

@@ryanbruner8928 her dad's name was Tom I never met her, but wish I could lol

[@serenityfreedom3096]

I had a similar start minus sex abuse & religion. Me and my siblings were all punching bags. My disgusting dad was shocked when I didn’t go to his deathbed. Instead of going to his funeral, I enjoyed a peaceful day being grateful he was gone. Mom is an idiot who enjoys a comfortable retirement that she earned by looking the other way or shopped as our childhood was robbed. Today I am a nurse and happy after overcoming alcoholism. I have claimed my adulthood and my rough beginnings have become compassion and understanding for the hurt people I encounter. Unfortunately, my siblings have absorbed my dad’s narcissism and turned on me when I called our childhoods & dad what they were. Today, truth is my friend & I like my life.

[@GretchenlKlein]

I am 72 y.o. Hearing Elizabeth speak *almost* gave me courage to tell my story. Once again fear has me parakyzed. It's a vicious cycle.My abuser died this past summer having never apologized. Typical shit in my family ~ take no responsability, and carry on as if nothing ever happened. I think I watch these videos for the comfort they give me knowing other people have been through what I have. I can't change what happened, but, I can and do LOVE these *sucess* stories . . . they give me hope, and help me identify what I am feeling. Thank you Elizabeth for articulating what I can't ~ you touched my protected heart. I wish you well.

[@eileenoconnell8416]

And you just told your story!! Bravo!

[@GretchenlKlein]

@@eileenoconnell8416 HaH, *that* was easy! :-) Thank you for that insight !!!!!

[@heathernikki5734]

@@GretchenlKlein you're a brave soul 💕

[@John_Lete]

This may be a message sent in the wind yet felt led to say that Jesus loves you so much. No religion, simple truth. I would like to recommend a person whom it is not about the person but the message he puts out which if you give a chance, I believe will help greatly....the messages given and in simple truth. Yankee Arnold, please look him up and give the message a chance and you will be blessed spiritually. 💙

[@Anonymous-km5pj]

God bless you, these vids certainly provide a larger perspective to even when it looks good it isn't

[@justdrea6048]

“I was fully aware of my brokenness, and I didn’t want to put another human being through that.” THIS!!! 💯 If more people thought like this before having kids, the world would be a better place!

[@jamiecrawford8133]

I have watched a lot of these but not all. Has any other woman that Mark has interviewed ever said this?

[@Bella.favela]

@@jamiecrawford8133 yes! Several have 😊

[@lindaschultz7900]

Beautifully written . . . . peace on earth starts at home !!!

[@chuchaftw]

Yep! Many people in the channel say it

[@johnboy6594]

You are so right. Only in a much more sane world. Who knows where its all going.

[@operationseekingtruth]

“Loved me back to life” Thank goodness for people that show true love of other people.

[@Lauren-i8i]

AMEN!

[@alisade127]

I was so afraid she was going to say she got in to a relationship with her counselor. Thank God he was a good man.