Pregnant Amish woman attacked by husband; Bishops convicted of coercing victim to take back abuser

This Week on True Crime Daily The Podcast: In an exclusive story of survival, a pregnant Amish woman escapes an abusive husband and saves her seven children, but she’s shunned by the church and her community turns against her, siding with her abuser. Plus, in another case, three Amish bishops are convicted of intimidation after trying to force an abused Amish wife to take back her alleged attacker in the name of God.
Luis Bolaños joins host Ana Garcia.
Report Amish Child Abuse: 833-44-CHILD; 833-442-4453
Check out our previous podcast on abuse in the Amish community: • Justice for Amish girl...
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[@mwindanji6714]

How very brave of her to face shunning and losing her family and community to give her children a life without violence. What an amazing woman.

[@irenexavier6960]

@@em83998 Hi E M, I’m so sorry that you have so many horrible stories.. I hope you are better now, and if you can, see a professional counselling. I hope all the very best for you💞💓

[@mwindanji6714]

@@em83998 people just don't understand shunned. Even your parents aren't permitted to speak to you. In public, they pass you like you're not there. They punish the shunned *and* their extended family. It's like being dead. She might do better in a mennonite commuity than just dropped among the English.

[@AnaGNews]

An incredible woman

[@irenexavier6960]

Hi EM , I’m so happy for you!! Did you ever try to play some ocean, or rain sound ? There are so many on KZbin, and they can play for hours, some can play for 8 hours or more, and no commercials. Sometimes I don’t sleeping well ((I lost 2 daughters 16 years apart, and I do take sleeping pills every night)) but sometimes it doesn’t work, so my son and daughter were very worry about me, and they found some sounds on KZbin, and it really helps me. I too have horrible dreams and flashback of my first daughter in the car accident. I turn on the sound very low, and it helps me fall asleep, and for some reason, it helps with the nightmares and flashback. I wish all the best for you❤️❤️💐🌹💐🌹

[@SpookMeows13]

@@irenexavier6960 I think that "Love Wins' message goes for you as well in my eyes. You are a mother who lost her daughters (I'm *SO* sorry) and have managed to put back the pieces enough to talk about it and share the things that calm you when you need it. That's *incredibly* brave and strong. I hope you're able to see a therapist or have someone to talk to about what happened. There's no reason to go through that alone. You shouldn't have to suffer those flashbacks by yourself. Having a strong support system is very beneficial. Even if you don't want to talk about it, it's helpful to know you'd have someone to turn to if needed. I think you are an incredible survivor based off what you had responded to the OP with. I hope that you're able to get sound sleep tonight with no flashbacks. I'm sure you need the good rest. I'm sending my love to you and your daughters, who you may feel are far away, but I know they're always near you when you need them. Stay strong, you've got this!!!💜💞💜💞💜💞💜

[@verucasalty5]

I love how passionate Anna is about getting justice for the victims.

[@AshlieMaddox]

I was crying less than halfway thru! Anna got mad! It takes a special person to do her job! ❤ just started watching her and I’m hooked! 😂

[@AnaGNews]

I can’t stand it when people are mistreated.

[@AnaGNews]

@@AshlieMaddox thank you Ashlie🙏🏼

[@verucasalty5]

@@AnaGNews omg you just made my day responding 😲 I'm a huge fan Anna!!!! Thank you for all you do!!!!!

[@amberpilcher9599]

Hello from Georgia, I love the passion Anna has to get justice for any all she comes in contact with too. Elizabeth you are a true warrior for women and a darn good role model. Lots of love and prayers for you and your boys❤❤❤❤

[@EllaGreenn]

She saved not only herself and her children. She saved 7 future wives by showing her boys this is unacceptable behavior for a man. She's a powerful woman and her strength radiates out to many others finding inspiration and courage in her actions. I wish her and her loved ones all the best in this universe.

[@reirei7851]

I thought the same thing. My father always taught me, the best thing a father can show his kids, is to love and respect their mother.

[@marciamartins1992]

God bless her. It was a huculean effort on her part, and it shows how important legal support for women is.

[@LoLoLifeinFlorida]

Agree!

[@meeeka]

You don't know they will be saved; if their father gets hold of visiting them, especially when they are younger, those kids will be attracted by their "poor neglected father" and they will be attracted to and will adopt his mess.

[@indolilyindomitablelily7306]

So true, she not only save seven future wives but also her grandchildren from witnessing abuse

[@rebeccaverta4750]

This woman is incredible, she needs her own podcast. I would love to follow her journey as she continues to grow.

[@elenawilliams32]

Elizabeth, as someone who was a child of a man very similar to your ex husband, I want to say a massive Thank You. Your children now having a home not based in fear and violence is the best thing you could do for them and yourself. My mum eventually got free too. It's wonderful to see the joy you obviously now have in your life. Best wishes for your childrens and your futures. I sincerely hope that life is kind to you going forward. Take care from Australia.🇦🇺

[@trusaunders5331]

Wonderfully put and blessings to you and your family as well as hers❤

[@marycooper8385]

Elizabeth God is in your heart and in everything you do he gives you that glow and light that shines from within you . You are a true definition of a survivor and not only that you are stronger for it You are a inspiration to all women everywhere and especially to your 7 boys who could not ever have a stronger and kinder role model. They are truly blessed to have her as a mother. I am sure they will all grow into fine respectful young men.God bless and continue to shine his light upon you and your children and fill you with his grace and mercy . Stay well darling you will continue to be a true miracle for everyone God never gave up on you and you never gave up on him.

[@vickiebauer7866]

I send prayers to Elizabeth. Such a strong woman. My sisters and I many times talked with our Mom to leave our father because of the abuse she was going through (And us 3 girls). But because of the brainwashing my father did to Mom she stayed.😢 Mom was with our father til she died at age 75 from cancer in 2006. I even witnessed him hitting her a month before she died. Unfortunately(!) my 97 year old father is still alive in 2023. He still ‘tries’ to mentally abuse us sisters, like he did Mom, and my eldest sister is almost to the age my Mom died, but we know better and won’t allow it. Us girls still must take care of our father even though we have had enough of him. But, if we didn’t take care of him, us sisters would be in trouble by law for abandoning the elderly. God said we must “Honor our fathers and Mothers”. My sisters and I will give honor that he ‘fathered’ us, but we have no respect for him.

[@gloriaskinner4065]

​@@vickiebauer7866p

[@wendywobbles1]

I applaud this lady whole heartedly, I am sorry you had to go through what you did to get here today. WELL DONE YOU!!!!

[@paulahayes428]

Amen infinitely 🥰🙏❤️❤️💜

[@carmenirizarry7632]

This is really incredible!!! Thank you Jesus and this two people , and all the others that helped and believed. I pray for all the other women that are in this situation to be able to find a way to get out.

[@carmenirizarry7632]

Also, and most importantly you Elizabeth, and all your strength to be able to help yourself and your family.

[@patricialk4996]

I was shunned after calling the police on my abusive husband and divorced him. Walk away start a new life. I promise it gets better!

[@jaimejheaddy]

How brave of you...that's amazing you fled that abuse...Good for you..

[@totesmcgotes1528]

Way to go! How brave

[@0906blue]

Are you Amish ?

[@lindabarginear4499]

⁰😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊​@@jaimejheaddy

[@empressnannah3830]

Nicely said I left my abusive husband many moons ago. No regrets ❤❤❤❤❤

[@michelleharden2307]

She has dearly touched my heart. Thoughts and prayers for her and her children.

[@jeannerountree952]

I loved that she used the newspaper to educate herself about abuse and how to help herself. She is smart! God bless!

[@yolandagrabowski6043]

I can't rely on cyber news. I've educating myself from some strangers teaching bout narcissistic abuse.

[@mastiffsal8185]

@jeannerowntree952 God bless? Really? God's been a lot of good to these women so far, what with it being religious men, backed by other religious men, that are - yet again - the abusers. And god's gone out of his way to do bugger all about it. No help for the victims, no punishment for the abusive scum responsible.

[@moniquelewis7839]

⁠@@yolandagrabowski6043 I will give her much credit for educating herself period. She came from no electricity, and without any knowledge that what was happening to her was wrong, to being able to trust even one outsider. However she did it, she was successful!!

[@grandmapamm]

A family,that won’t stand behind their family member who is being abused is just as bad as the abuser.

[@wandamccarthy6013]

TRUTH!....

[@janetbrooks.akaspiritwalker]

100

[@tesskaiser2190]

Agreed, my parents stood by and said well you picked him. This man tried to suffocate me with a pillow and was convicted of assault with a deadly weapon. They make jokes about it at 84 and 92. I still coparent with my abuser. My parents have been happily married for 60 years..

[@beckyjbarker]

Been there. Even through cheating and beating... they thought his money was worth it. Thank God I just left and ended up with a person I knew since 11 but didn't "know" him (just in passing). We have 7 kids. It's been rocky too for the first 12 years, but the past 5, it's been great. He finally grew up as well. ❤ but never has he been like my first

[@myrnawashington9057]

Better without them.

[@vpierce3842]

This woman is amazing - through everything Her faith was not diminished, she has remained positive and has broken the cycle of abuse, and giving her sons a better life

[@PamelaHunter-q4i]

I will pray for you that you’re protected, and every day I pray for all the souls in purgatory because they cannot pray for themselves after they die and go to purgatory so we have to do the praying for him and we have to hope that somebody will pray for us when we go on. So don’t forget the people that have passed already because they don’t have any power for prayer.

[@beccagee5905]

​@@PamelaHunter-q4iPrayer after death can not exchange a life lived in sin. Only repenting from sin, and the belief that Jesus paid the price for one's sins will.

[@dianemiller3682]

I applaud the strength and tenacity that got her and her children out of there!! Her bravery is nothing short of amazing! Being shun is probably the worse feeling on earth. I cannot imagine the pain and agony her courageous decision was to bear. Sending lots of love and prayers to her and her children ❤

[@wrp3621]

I come from a family of 7 boys. My Mom taught us how to read, cook, sew , don’t be afraid of hard work and the difference between right and wrong. She’s still my hero.

[@carmeneckmann8841]

Awesome Mom!!

[@LizHILTY]

Thank you for your kind words of encouragement ❤❤

[@finalflowerchild]

WRP. Your mother was so wise to teach you those skills. We never know what the future holds. Should your spouse become ill, injured or heaven forbid die, you will be able to step up and not be dependent on women for help. If you end up being a long-term bachelor, you will be prepared to run your home. Your mother was a forward thinking woman. She was a great example of a fem-----.

[@CrimeAllTheTime]

​@@finalflowerchild of a what?

[@Ninjasnail1926]

My mom is my hero too!

[@lovewins9267]

Watching her face light up when she was talking about buying her first vehicle in cash and her first house melted my heart. Hearing that she was able to upgrade to the vehicle of her dreams AND purchase her own 3 acre sanctuary made my day! Such a strong woman and amazing role model for her boys! Wishing her and her family the absolute best in the future 💜 God bless!

[@transistic]

Elizabeth your voice is heard!!! It is disgusting what you have been through and how the Amish people have treated you!!! I am So happy for you and for your future!!! Yes, God has truly blessed you!!!!

[@jackieelliott2992]

AMEN 🙏 Elizabeth. God is walking through this ordeal with you and guiding you.

[@IchigoOren]

Yea she bought a car even though its bad for global warming. Horse and buggies are more earth friendly. There's a reason why Amish have low rates of cancer compared to the NON Amish American population. 😂😂

[@jean9l187]

​@@IchigoOren wow, lower cancer rates? Even though high exposure to cow and horse exhaust? That's a lot of methane, you know

[@IchigoOren]

@@jean9l187 Well Amish communities do have lower cancer rates compared to NON Amish communities. That might make you mad but oh well.

[@maryjordan7724]

Thank you for exposing these abusers and their abuses to innocent decent American women and children. Thank you for encouraging, educating, and helping the abused. Elizabeth is simply amazing ! God continue to bless her and her children. Anna and Louis, you are warriors for God.

[@AnaGNews]

Elizabeth is amazing

[@janiceableitner6077]

They❤try I

[@Dougland214]

I would think not just American women I don't know why you put that disclaimer in there. All women and children

[@jamjam8793]

What a beautiful smile Elizabeth has despite what she had to go through! Wishing her the absolute best and hoping other survivors are able to get out as well!

[@riag.253]

Elizabeth is an amazing woman. So strong and courageous. What she has done and how she has stood her ground is incredible. Her boys are going to be such great men because they have such a wonderful mom raising them.

[@AnaGNews]

She has been through so much

[@stanbyme7874]

Thank you for mentioning the boys. THIS journey is so important to show her boys how to treat Women in the future.

[@selfesteem3447]

Agreed. As a grown woman now but when I was a little girl I would beg my mom, constantly bug her, not for the Easy-Bake Oven, not for the Barbie doll RV, but mamamamamamamamamama can we go live in the woods. That's how I said it. One day she grabbed me and shook me and yelled at me got all up in my face and said no no no we can't go live in the woods and don't you ever ask me again. She wouldn't leave my abusive father until that is until she found out he was sleeping around behind her back having affairs. She got a phone call from a man one day it was on a Sunday. It was during the summer time. Man had recordings where he had surveilled my father and his wife talking on the phone and he was divorcing his wife. He was calling to tell my mother that his wife and my father have been having an affair and it was something like one or two years that the affair had been going on. That's when my mama finally left him. She wouldn't do it for us, but she did it herself. It destroyed all of my siblings, they are people that turned out to be just like him. Except, for my one brother, the brother that my father had beaten so bad and all different types of forms of abuse to extensively making him mentally handicapped. Mothers who leave abusive relationships and put their kids first get a standing ovation from me.

[@blyt5046]

@@selfesteem3447 thank u for your story,,God bless and i hope you and your family a lot of healing😊

[@joycefranklin8981]

@@selfesteem3447 Amen. I hope your brother is living a safe life now.

[@NoFear69262]

Hearing the tale of that ‘man’ forcing her to have sex after her water broke is horrendous and I am so sorry she had to endure such treatment.

[@vivalavie5754]

The husband is really a sick monster. The Bishops are sick also.

[@melodybennett9508]

You are an amazing woman. You children are blessed to have you as their mother. God is truly on your side. I am saddened that you had to go through all you went through. May God continue to bless you all. 🧑‍🦳💕

[@bevwinn1369]

@@melodybennett9508 How is god on her side, and why is god not on the side of all the other abused people?

[@jerryscray1789]

​@@bevwinn1369 my thoughts exactly

[@user-cy4vw1qj9m]

That is cruel behind words. The beast.

[@lilianajankovic737]

This lovely lady deserves all love in the world

[@heather4089]

Every human being deserves to be loved, she’s not the exemption.

[@lisajeter9511]

Maybe when she gets out in the Real world she will realize it’s okay out here. She can have a family and friends that will support and Love her and her kids.

[@jaybee1248]

Elizabeth should write a book! What a brave woman ❤. Prayers for her family.

[@mastiffsal8185]

@jaybee1248 Yeah let's pray. Cos this proves, yet again, that religion is wonderful and attracts the best quality of persons.

[@susied.3376]

Yes a book. I’ve read the author Beverly Lewis many books about the Amish community. Her story should be on paper for all us to learn from.

[@Gothchops]

It's such a rare insight into a closed-circuit world. A book that could help help other women still locked in there xx

[@mynameiseve.1]

@@mastiffsal8185 how does this horrific story prove anything about religion?

[@annettehuffman4449]

@@mynameiseve.1because Amish is a religion

[@anambelle3]

As a survivor of this kind of religious abuse from parents, I wanna say thank you for bringing exposure to these things and please please please shout it louder until everyone understands what these poor women are going through and why they can't find support if they go looking for help to get out!!! Its terrifying, I can't even explain how scary it is to walk away from the only life you've ever known and the people who are viewed as wise and knowing telling you you're going to hell for what you are doing.

[@shirleylambey1553]

Why dont the government shutdown all i mean all the amish religion since this is the practice shut them down they R evil very evil these brother s pregnant their own sister sheer evil nooooo no a million times nooo

[@shirleylambey1553]

GOD BLESS YOU ELIZABETH UR STORY MAKES ME CRY AND OF GREAT STRENGTH UR A GREAT AND STRONG WOMAN TO BE ADMIRED KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK GOD FAVOUR ON U AND UR CHILDREN IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@shirleylambey1553]

Thank God for u Elizabeth very blessed darling stay Safe and be Blessed every time

[@shirleylambey1553]

I love you ELIZABETH ur so wonderful God's favour darling be Blessed

[@shirleylambey1553]

GOD'S FAVOR DARLING I KEEP SAYING GOĎ S FAVOR ON U

[@upshitcreek998]

Elizabeth I just want to tell you, you can replace “my kids are spoiled” with “my kids are blessed” they are blessed to have a strong mama like you. You are an inspiration to other women in your community and many other women around the world! I don’t know you but I’m proud of your strength! You did this far sooner than I did. I regret letting it go as long as it did, but I’m glad watching videos like this back in 2016 have me the courage I needed and so please keep sharing your story. I know sometimes it just feels like it gets old to share or maybe even just wanting to let it go and move on with your life and never look back but please do NOT underestimate the power in sharing your story! Stories like yours, saved myself and children’s lives. I appreciate it! ❤❤❤

[@l.w.4701]

@Up Shit Creek 🎉right on!🎉

[@c.a.5808]

Beautifully said my Dear. It sounds as though you also have shown the same strength as Elisabeth. It may take us time to Value, Ourselves, and make the change. But whatever the catalyst is, we tire of it, or perhaps for the safety of our children. To get to that place, and help ourselves and others, it always Starts with us... May God bless you, and your family, stay healthy and safe 🙏

[@Ginny347]

😢

[@Ginny347]

​@@c.a.5808 😊

[@grammyh5784]

@Up Shit Creek YOUR KIDS ARE BLESSED ALSO & YOU ARE ALSO A INSPIRATION TO MANY‼️ NEVER UNDERESTIMATE YOUR WORTH💯 🙌🙌🤟😘🥰🥰😉🙌🤟

[@paradigmshift9166]

May this woman and her children continue to be blessed! Glad she was able to escape her horrible circumstances.

[@hi-d12forlife]

I love that she mentioned that the definition of rape should include men too, just goes to show how much she really educated herself. Praying for continued health and happiness for her and her kids.

[@beautifulmermaid718]

I know that part really made me tear up, I love how smart she is! She really has educated herself and through that I know her boys are going to be alright. She didn’t just leave physically but she is mentally adjusting and breaking away from what she’s know for ever.

[@PamelaHunter-q4i]

Well, frankly, if I’m watching the news correctly and reading all the stories about this, it’s the men that abuse, women, and the children and rape him I mean, let’s face it. And they get away with it, because the general juries, and the government will not take the music and slap it in their face, I’ve seen where they murdered somebody a girl away and made and raped him and then murdered him and got off like after 10 years that is just plain vicious evil and I’m tired of seeing it in the mood and the news all the time it’s always a man beaten up murdering girls, five and six whatever I’m sick of it I don’t know where you or any man and I’m talking to the men here think that you’re so special that you have something special and it’s all right for you to do that ever. Not only that you’re teaching your sons to be dogs like you sorry I’m tired of being quiet about it. It’s about time. Women really got mad. I know men are taking a beating from women and women livers but this is a serious thing where they take a woman’s life and the children and it’s got to stop.

[@notthecheshirekat2596]

I was so impressed when she said that as well. She did a better job of educating herself in that restrictive environment than some people with Google at their fingertips every day. This woman is amazing.

[@blackwidor]

He literally kept her pregnant and vulnerable. I'm so mad at him. Want to hug her. This crap happens us too but at the very least we know what it's called! He's an evil man.

[@cosmicmuffin322]

That's what every man in those large-family no-birth-control communities does, whether it's intentional or not. Amish, Mennonites, Mormons, conservative Christians, Muslims, etc, etc. That is what always happens when women don't have basic rights.

[@iamV10010]

​@@cosmicmuffin322 💯

[@AnaGNews]

He is evil

[@mllee2008]

@@cosmicmuffin322 every man??? Don't do that...

[@vielryleb3690]

Yes so sad y do all the amich women have to constantly be pregnant and pop 14 kids in some family s I hate the amich way of life I regret being born into an amich family # fuck the amich way of life

[@rosebudadkins6803]

My mother was a Midwife for over 40 yrs. Delivering among the Amish & English (as they refer to us) alike. She delivered women at home and hospitals. She delivered generations of babies. She would tell us she had to kick the men out of bed. They would be with the women right after giving birth. No waiting 6 week minimum for them. It’s sickening! The women were treated for infections, tears and a few would need surgical repairs. The men cared nothing for their pain & plight. My mom was very protective of the women. She counseled women to leave. The Amish retaliation was real and scary. We all had to be careful.

[@ariesgirl9592]

Wow! That's insane!

[@debigodsey]

WOW

[@Iuxinterior]

this aint a church its a cult

[@JamieDoe472]

When are we going to understand that religious right should not exist not in lieu of some of these rights at best but at the expense of people's rights? Teach your children, teach them morals and show them a great role model they want to be when they grow up. But don't indoctrinate them! Don't use religion to instill fear in your children to get your own away. Give them an education. Don't threaten expulsion of the community especially within family. Don't force them to work insane long hours under dangerous work conditions for a little to no pay all for the idea of saving the world or correcting one's behavior. Don't starve children. You're right to freedom does not give you the right to take away that right for your child. Misappropriation begins where it can begin. This honor system the court has and believing that no parent would take advantage of their child even for religious beliefs as abhorrently wrong and we have seen it time and time again. Children deserve the right to safety, and freedom, and the right to prosper. I know it's controversial, but even if they're female... SMDH laws need to be changed people. And everyone of you complaining about CPS just so you know we expect CPS to be mind readers we haven't actually change laws to mandate any kind of scrutiny into domestic abuse accusations. This is a structure and a system that has stood for far too long.

[@PABrown-je1yp]

Sorry, this seems demonic to me. It’s either a demonic religion or demons hiding behind religion.

[@akelajoconnell7369]

She is so strong and amazing. It took a lot of courage to make the necessary decisions for herself and her children. I hope she knows how much her story will impact and inspire others who are going through the same situation. Hugs to her!

[@evam.2101]

Thank you all for helping victims/survivors. I am proud of you Elizabeth!!!!

[@adetweiler100]

Yes, as an ex amish woman I can tell you that the minds are indeed tweaked. That a kind way of saying it. I call it mind control because that's what it is. It is high time that our law views the Amish as not outside of the law. Thank you for bringing this to the people. Speaking from experience, Anna D.

[@pauldeangelis7481]

Wow, please forgive me, my comment was a bit short sighted. I couldn’t imagine anyone else as being “ex Amish” so I thought Elizabeth must be a trailblazer. I had never heard of anyone leaving that community. I apologize for that and I applaud you as I did Elizabeth… Xoxo

[@adetweiler100]

Dear sir, There are actually many of us who have left and most of us have horror stories we could tell. I also applauded Elizabeth for leaving her abusive husband and speaking so publicly about it. I know the intense force of energy she fought against when she left the church. She is a hero for sure.

[@TheNinnyfee]

Not only in the Amish, women are groomed from childhood all over the world. Almost all religions, princess movies from childhood, you name it.

[@ashleypatten2304]

You are so right. People see the Amish as these peaceful people that are so good. However, they ar e a cult just like the FLDS that marry woman off as teenagers and the men can treat them however they want.

[@hannahe7556]

@@TheNinnyfee princess movies from childhood? Would you stop!? Can you not see how insensitive and ignorant that is in regards to the comment you posted on? I and oh so many others watched princess movies as children and are not victims of dv or abuse or groomed because of it. That kind of nonsense discredits actual, real abuse. Disgraceful. Also we know women as a whole are oppressed, but this is about this mothers story, and indeed this commenters too as it’s the same topic.

[@terisasam5604]

Elizabeth's story is also mine. I spent 10 years in a very abusive marriage. Every kind of abuse plus he was abusive to my boys. I praise God for giving me the strength to leave the night I did. I knew if I didn't leave that night, I would probably be dead. So I am so blessed to hear another woman's strength to say ENOUGH. Thank you for sharing this .

[@luciennetaylor4608]

So happy you found the courage❤

[@clairpennels]

No one, unless you have been there, truly understand what it is like to leave your home to get away from an abusive husband.

[@janerohr8055]

God bless you

[@atlguera564]

I'd ❤ to be able to speak with you sometime. I'm a victim of the LDS church (cult) & unfortunately, my ex- husband took my kids and fled to Utah, violating our custody agreement. This has warped my mind & made me blame God, on & off throughout my struggles. It's so painful. And our country gives so much freedom from religious persecution. That's the wave he rides to keep them isolated and cut off from the real world. My life has been over since the day he took them & he continues to torture my soul from afar, keeping my children to use as his pawns in what he thinks is a game.

[@atlguera564]

​@@clairpennels especially if they have an ounce of an advantage. If they have power....it's much much worse.

[@PT.chiquenjfc]

As a trauma therapist who has sat with excommunicated women, I have heard this same story many times . So sad the victims are vilified

[@gowest5145]

This is so deep. It is so entrenched now. It is so bad, people have no clue.

[@PamelaHunter-q4i]

@@gowest5145 it was planted in the very beginning by men who wanted to control their wives and all the money, and have sex whenever they wanted with whoever they wanted. They were the evil ones filled with Satan from the very beginning men who have to have the control so they can beat up their wives, rape, their children, etc. etc., they are like the pedophiles. They are the pedophiles they are abuse abusers, and.

[@Faretheewell608]

She will not get any child support either

[@PT.chiquenjfc]

@@Faretheewell608 sadly my client is the one who loses her child bc the church deems her unfit mentally 😢

[@kelelizabeth]

I am also a trauma therapist (actually in this woman's area) and have worked with a few of these Amish women. I hate that it's so "normal" here for these things to go on. Not just with the Amish but with several of the church communities around here.

[@sunnyshine4621]

This lady is a hero for putting her children first, which should always be a priority for a mother ♥️ I'm sure it has made her a stronger person from what she has dealt with. God is her guardian angel 😇

[@SharonWard-dx1sv]

Amen ☁️🎺👼💒🙏🌹✨

[@sarahmccord7767]

I agree with you 100%: This woman is a hero and an absolute pioneer in her community. It took so much for her to stand up the way she did. I am in no way trying to minimize her actions or your statement. But, as a whole we need to stop putting the prioritization of our children’s wellbeing solely on mothers. This is an ideal that should be demonstrated by BOTH parents and as a society we should voice this expectation. Especially in communities like this one, so much of this responsibility is placed unequally on the shoulders of women.

[@esmemorgan8117]

Q

[@catherinemcmartin8275]

This woman is a pioneer. She has set an example for other abused Amish woman, men and children to follow. Sometimes it takes seeing one to go before us, before we have the courage do it ourselves. Bravo, strong lady. Thank you for bringing this to the public platform.

[@MsLady-gb3gy]

❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

[@lowespringacres7838]

The Amish community is grossly corrupt!!!

[@tinaloops]

This lady was so eloquent and I really appreciate how great of a listener the host and guest host were.

[@Ephods]

Excellent reporting as a 71 year old who was shunned at the age of 22, I can say it’s indescribable horror and even though you learn how to step over it there’s always and forever effects. I praise CHRIST JESUS for your work!

[@steviehayes9270]

Amen❤

[@Matilda-y]

Sending love ❤

[@2ndhandSue]

Shunning is the worst thing that can happen to an Amish woman. They live in such close communities that the woman cannot help mingling with her shunners every day, to be reminded constantly of her "failures" as a good Amish woman. Elizabeth is a very strong, determined woman, and I can see her being a huge asset to helping other Amish women to escape from toxic home environments.

[@suigeneris2663]

That’s the point.

[@racheldoesacrylic4089]

Narcissists are everywhere it is frightening i don't know what the hell is going on with humanity they don't change /never knew what it was called till recently x

[@beccagee5905]

​@@racheldoesacrylic4089So true, mental health issues, seem to be exploding, in the past few years.

[@rmbr343]

This lady is very special! She is a smart, brave, loving Mom who did what she had to do to protect herself and her children! I know so many other women are going to look at her and think "I can do this!" Good job, Elizabeth!!

[@AliciaGuitar]

My family is not Amish, but very religious. I went thru a similar thing. I called police, my husband admitted to hitting me in front of everyone and threatened kidnapping me (again), and still my family told the cops to stand in a circle, hold hands and pray that we stay together 🤦‍♀️ it was bizarre... the cops actually did it! Thank God a female cop pulled me aside and gave me a card for the domestic violence program. I have been free from an abusive spouse for over 10 years now. I am still religious. Its not religion that requires women to stay with abusers... but a misunderstanding and misapplication of it. A man who does not care for and protect his family is worse than an infidel... even slaves are freed if they are abused... the Bible actually does support abused women escaping, but evil ppl twist scripture to something it is not supposed to be.

[@nicolebesser3548]

Thank you

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

I'm gobsmacked that the police actually went along with standing in a circle and praying instead of helping.

[@Loriburnett]

Sick!

[@ruthgoebel723]

So very well said. So many blame religion which is so wrong. Thank you for sharing!

[@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim]

@@ruthgoebel723 *”With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil - that takes religion.”* _-Steven Weinberg - Nobel Laureate, Physics_

[@deborahmiller4927]

What an inspiration this women is to have overcome such adversity & survived such hanish abuse. May God truly bless this women & her children. Thanks for standing strong Elizabeth!

[@JennyS-iu8zx]

This woman is an ABSOLUTE HERO to me ❤ God bless you & I pray you an your sons are well.

[@mariaskinnider115]

What a brave strong woman. Lucky boys to have her as a mother. 🌻🌻

[@meeeka]

Hope they don't take after their dad, in any way.

[@a1waystreet-j86]

What a brave woman/mother. Thank you for bringing such horrible acts against women & children to the forefront. Please keep us posted. ✌️

[@annmariehammond2749]

Ambitious lady

[@noellavisagie7635]

This women is so resilient and powerful .Thanks for sharing

[@lildebboston455]

What an amazing and incredible woman. No one deserves to be abused verbally, mentally, and physically ever. I believe in her strength and I hope her life moving forward is as wonderful as she is.

[@believen_uboo3705]

I love how she beams when Ana and Luis praise her bravery. To know you are doing the right thing is one thing, To have others back you up outside of your community, when the people who are supposed to love you the most turned their backs on you is such a powerful statement.

Love this comment! So true! Thank you for watching...Respectfully, Luis

[@jazz797]

100%.

[@BebaPerezCandita]

The most admirable is that she confront not just leave her home,she confronted her religion,the she had the strength to start a completely new world for her!! With 7 boys!!! OMG!! She is soooo admirable!!!!!❤❤❤❤

[@jodimyers410]

She is literally blocking and breaking generational abuse! The strength and courage it takes to do that is beyond incredible. She knew she wanted her boys to be raised differently. ❤

[@timmorgan8634]

Amazing woman! Thank you Elizabeth for coming forth and bringing these things to light. Hopefully it will encourage others to stand for what is RIGHT.

[@SMcCaskill]

I had a male neighbor that grew up in an Amish sect that was sexually abused by some of the men from the time he was a boy. He was able to break free of them but he was mentally and emotionally messed up until the day he died. Such a tragic story!

[@graciephillips3958]

😢

[@michelleeastwood3960]

So so SAD!!

[@beerlahai]

So sad indeed!

[@johnathanstevens8436]

Healing can take a long time but it IS possible. The first step is talking. The feelings of shame can be very strong so I'll say the same thing I would say to anyone .. you are a part of creation worthy of love, dignity and respect. The more we talk about it, the more people understand they are not alone. I'm sorry I couldn't be there before, but I just want to hug so many of these people. What happened in your past does not have to define who you will become in the future.

[@Doriesep6622]

I had no idea. How awful

[@uzo435]

What a brave woman! Her life turned around full circle! I hope she feels proud of herself! She's essentially her children's savior! I'm so glad she did right by them and herself. Praying for continuous protection and growth for her and her boys.

[@tamararutland-mills9530]

Dear One, if you ever read this, please know how deeply you touched my heart with your intelligent and eloquence. I am fighting back tears listening to you. You were telling my own story - 25 years ago - so many similarities! I took my three children and left a 15 year marriage and a home that was almost paid for, my teaching job - everything. I thank God every time I think of it that we were able to get away from him. Leaving a fundamental religious background isn’t easy (how well I know) but there is so much freedom in Christ once you step out in faith and allow God to meet all of your needs. He will never fail you. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@kayakingirl7252]

Beautifully said ❤

[@sandythornton5552]

Thank you for sharing yours! Happily ever after?

[@tamararutland-mills9530]

Yes. I am so grateful to have gotten away from his physical & mental, emotional abuse. He would have killed me by this point with the loaded gun he kept in the bedroom closet. I could never persuade him to lock it up - even with three young child running about. I have so much peace and happiness now in exchange for financial mobility. Your peace and well being are worth all the tea in China.

[@amandawhitney6255]

💜✝️💜✝️💜

[@evangelistdaisybryan4429]

Wow it is so shameful to know that they can alter the word of God for their own abusive game

[@heatherwhite3490]

Good for you young woman! More power to you!!! You and your children stay safe!! 😊❤

[@sarahtrew6894]

I can't seem to put into words how inspiring I find this story or this woman. From having the strength to leave her community (knowing they will shun her), to educating herself for the betterment of her and her children's lives. Just... Incredible. Elizabeth, you truly are a super woman.

[@karenneill9109]

Genuinely inspirational.

[@PamelaH_HappyVibes]

Good morning Ana and Luis - thank you for helping Elizabeth. My mind is blown because I am sure the Amish girls and women feel THEY are to blame. This is heartbreaking. ❤ I am so happy for this woman, she is so brave! Elizabeth is a real role model for Women that are being abused in the Community. My heart breaks that she can’t live within her Community though. She sounds like she absolutely loves her family. I wish her and her boys nothing but, happiness and love!

[@selfesteem3447]

Exactly, have you seen Eli Yoder's Channel on KZbin ?

[@AnaGNews]

She grew up within a loving family - how could anyone be prepared for this.

[@PamelaH_HappyVibes]

@@selfesteem3447 - I have not, I will check it out.

[@PamelaH_HappyVibes]

@@selfesteem3447 - I just checked him out. He is FANTASTIC! What a great guy! I wonder how he figured it out, ya know?! I want to respect everybody’s way of life except if you are causing harm. That is NOT ok!!!

[@beloved505]

My mother had 6 boys & 4 girls. God bless her soul. women like you & my mother are phenomenal no matter the race it crosses all dimensions Happy Easter Anna, Elizabeth & Louis 💔❤️🙏🏾

[@AlexaCBrown]

💌☀️🙏

[@AnaGNews]

Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏼

[@doreenhall1705]

Thank you Ana and Luis for all your hard work and what your doing

[@Flawdagal]

This! I'm working on number 3 and that's hard. I could not imagine 7 or more. She's a phenomenal woman. So was/is your mother! God bless and Happy Easter to all! ❤

[@Reina.Nijinsky]

I don’t know u and I am not going to comment on ur circumstances growing up. But I have a friend who came up in a similar super-large household and she had a very hard time. Her parents were on welfare and lived in Section 8 housing. The children as they grew up, were into drugs and petty thefts and 3 of the siblings are now incarcerated. I hope u had an easier time while u were young!

[@thereseshine7506]

I'm so glad I found this video! Dear, you're amazing! You picked yourself up and stood against a whole community to save yourself and your boys. Look at you now! You're a true American hero! ❤🙏🏼 You are better than all of those disgusting, evil human beings! 🎉

[@2chooseluv]

I appreciate the passion of Ana and Luis for their humanity in bringing these injustices into the light.

[@1painintheback]

Elizabeth, you are so strong and I am so glad you and your boys are safe!! I got myself and 3 kids out of an abusive marriage and not having any family I know how hard it is to truly raise your kids without support. I struggle every day.

[@purpleandred7]

@Pain in the bAck!! You ARE strong and courageous, because you got yourself and your children out, too, just as Elizabeth did. I know life can be harsh, and you struggle everyday. I hope you have some supportive friends who will help ease the pressure; take some of the load off of your shoulders simply by sharing your burdens together, because iron sharpens iron .. and we grow stronger when we share our burdens and surround ourselves with others who are strong. I truly admire the courage it took for you to leave an abusive home life to provide a safe place for you and your children. You have amazing strength!

[@iamV10010]

​@@purpleandred7 I've never heard it put that way before. Iron sharpens iron... I very much like that. Thank you.

[@purpleandred7]

@@iamV10010 It is in the Bible, Proverbs 27:17 says, As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. I believe that no one has to be alone, because we make ourselves better, and there is mutual benefit, in making others better by friendship and fellowship and sharing our burdens one with another. It is something that has helped me through the struggles in life, by sharing them with others and giving and gaining support and strength together. 💜

[@fininhernandez8264]

Lady, you are a mothet! You have put your 3 kids first and that is what mothers do. Be brave! God will continue to strengthen you.

[@karyannfontaine8757]

Much respect for you! You have quite a responsibility with 3 children. I hope you life gets better as time passes.

[@catherinenelson4162]

Family blaming a victim for abuse is very common. They don't want to take, or even face, their own responsibility for ignoring the facts in front of them.

[@valerieadams3944]

Bizarre.

[@miriamschiro8585]

Soooo glad this brave women stood up for herself and the other women and children. Her bravery changed the shift of the secretive Amish life.. she’s a hero for breaking through and speaking up ❤

[@jennijems7605]

I'm so proud of this woman..what a inspiration..I hope someone listening to this will hear her story and make that first step away from a domestic abuse situation..no matter what community your part of❤

[@voice-of-reason318]

My heart goes out to this kind soul. Thank God that Elizabeth and her boys are safe. ❤🙏🏽

[@MaureenKerr-n9v]

Praise the Lord

[@myb4208]

she’s so great omg i love her. So beyond happy she got out and is safe with her kids

[@chofa6769]

As a senior,Elizabeth was so inspiring. I’m so happy for her & her boys ❤️🙏🏻God bless

[@carinapotts443]

I grew up in Elkhart county. This story hits home literally and figuratively. Had me in tears. This woman is such an incredible badass. May she have the best life. Wow, wow. ❤️❤️❤️

[@taylor-paigeheyman3747]

Born and raised there and I've seen almost all these specials and never seen one out of Elkhart County let alone about the Amish. Was brought up Mennonite and hearing her talk reminds me of the stories my grandma used to tell. 💔

[@rachelseleski280]

❤ X c m.

[@maryjemison1101]

God Bless Elizabeth And Her Children ✨💫

[@elizabethhilty4802]

Thank you 🙏 I am forever grateful to God for everything he does for me and my children. Please keep us especially me in your prayers I need them 🙏🙏

[@bootyjudy9050]

This woman and her children deserve nothing but peace happiness and abundance

[@margaretmears406]

Amen. God bless them! Simply amazing

[@kayecastleman6353]

There is so much joy and humble victory shining from her face! I hope she can build a community of people in her new life to share love and fellowship. She has so much to offer.

[@loutenant2817]

I kept smiling throughout this interview. It took me years to leave my abusive ex but the first step that let towards that path was educating myself. I hope parents are teaching their kids about awareness

[@jeanhargis7333]

She is Amish not LDS!

[@michelleeastwood3960]

THANKS TO THESE REPORTERS FOR SPREADING THE WORD!!! I wished I had money to support this organization because it takes money to do everything.

[@theouroboros1111]

This woman is incredible. I couldn't stop listening to her story. A real hero for her boys. 🙌

[@susieannei5641]

I’m not Amish but after my mother, my brothers and I were kicked out of my father’s house (after years of alcohol fueled abuses) my family shunned us. I always felt that was the worst part of it all (not poverty and the struggles that brings). Shunning is a Terrible punishment especially when it’s you that’s the victim.

[@he7is7at7hand]

I'm so sorry that that happened to you. What an evil thing! It's quite unbelievable that families would do that. Didn't they recognize that the guy was an abusive alcoholic?

[@ckaydw]

I agree. To me it’s even worse too. I can’t imagine being stunned by my family. I can all ways count on my family. So sorry that you had to go through this in your life. The Lord will all ways be there for you honey. He never leaves us and you can turn to him. God Bless you. Much love 🙏🙏🙏❤❤

[@nonacheek2802]

Agreed - my mother's EXTENSIVE Mormon family shunned her and her siblings after my grandmother denounced the church and her alcoholic/abusive husband. It took 60 YEARS for someone to reach out to her, again. Even then, some would not talk to her.

[@eilemoo3272]

I would rather be shunned than abused or dead .

[@eilemoo3272]

​@@nonacheek2802tgat us Jyst Classic Cult Brainwashing - you are so much better than that.

[@amandamarshall1204]

Louis is one of my favorite guest on this podcast. The two of you have really opened the eyes to outsiders of the Amish community. I know I had no idea this was going on.

[@AnaGNews]

He is the best

[@Dougland214]

Look at what Jared from awp accidentally exposed! Child abuse is basically condoned and families when it's happening right under their nose there's no protection for these girls it's a family tradition it's mind-boggling and stomach-turning! The hypocrisy of their don't tread on me attitude stay out of their business and allow them to do whatever misogynistic handmaid's tale crap they want to! Reminds me of Waco also

[@agnesfredericksen9892]

This woman is an amazing example of a strength,faith, and love for her family and deserves everything that is good ! Her faith in God and the love for her children and strength that kept her going is amazing ! I wish her the best in life and happiness going forward . Bless you and your children !

[@liquidlunch3826]

Thank you for giving her a outlet to exhaust this these bullies from her life as well as her boys! She has and will do much to help many woman....you go girl!

[@mcq9667]

What a strong, smart, and fearless woman. She needs to write a book to share her life experience and educate others, especially those in abusive relationships.

[@agnesfredericksen9892]

Most definitely! She really should write a book !

[@pizzabreath96]

This is one of the best episodes yet. This woman is an inspiration to all and is incredibly strong. I hope she knows how much of a hero and how beautiful of a person she is.

[@valkyrie1066]

My grandparents were raised Amish. ANYONE in that community needs a phone, a ride, a place to hide if necessary, they've GOT it. I feel you, sister.

[@nancyearnest1043]

Got news for you a lot of them have cell phones

[@juliemuller4089]

@@nancyearnest1043and that has what to do with someone offering help? Who cares if a lot of them have cell phones?

[@laurend3607]

@@juliemuller4089They can call the police.

[@Knight_Mode]

She’s still so full of life and excitement after all that happened. So brave and amazing and full of kindness.

[@beloved505]

OMG! Anna what a horrific story. God bless you for your humbleness & Integrity🙏🏾

[@AnaGNews]

Thank you Beverly 🙏🏼

[@Amandavg]

I’m amazed by Elizabeth’s strength and resilience in the face of a whole community and culture that grooms women from a young age to accept what they are told and what ever is done to them. She fought not only for her safety, but for the future of her boys and for access to knowledge however she could obtain it. What an amazing person she is!

[@MsWest-tf6xu]

Elizabeth grew up Amish. Had a lovely life due to godly parents before her sociopath ex husband acquired her. The good things are true. There's good and evil in every culture. We are now at a time in history that we can more easily shine a light on what's been going on in the dark since the ancient corruption of mankind and correct injustices. Shocking but none of this is new under the sun. Exposure is painful but it's a blessing of opportunity.

[@lynnetrathen4587]

Omg I would love to have seen the look on their faces when she told them BLUNTLY that she was NOT GOING😂😂 you dear are a beautiful young woman. Stay Strong 🥰🥰

[@prazup49]

Keep fighting for yourself and sons. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@aliciaburchell3012]

This is so heartwarming. I've been in an abusive relationship before but WOW how much worse was this sweet Amish lady's situation. I love that she didn't lose her faith...she adapted it. May God bless her abundantly in her future endeavors. She gives me hope.

[@debrahhansen6679]

She broke the chain and that is something to be proud of! I wish I could give her a big hug. May her and her beautiful children be blessed always! ❤

[@janellmast3848]

Wowwwwwww.Thank u for helping Elizabeth have a voice.❤❤

[@jskeyboardwarrior-pe9kn]

You should get a book written Elizabeth. Get your story and voice out there as a reference and a sourse of education to other Amish experiencing abuse. You seem to be a very strong and smart human. Thank you for sharing your story and experiences. Much love and prayers to you and your family.

[@jodimyers410]

Elizabeth has such a beautiful spirit and soul. It’s such a terrible shame to have to be shunned by her own family who loved her due to her abusive husband. Her husband ruined everyone’s lives. I commend her for still speaking lovingly about her family. It seems she was sheltered and her parents were sheltered and that’s how no one clocked his deviant ways.

[@Bueller.Bueller.Bueller.]

I think a healthy father/mother and her having a sheltered safe childhood helped her. She was able to know it all felt wrong and eventually get help. I think the love she received from her family gave her the strength! That and faith!

[@ecm958]

The Amish are not assimilated with the society or laws of this Country. This is very dangerous. The church has too much power. It is a cult. There needs to be better outreach to help keep the Amish people safe.

[@jodimyers410]

@@Bueller.Bueller.Bueller. yes, however sheltered parents lead to sheltered kids.

[@Bueller.Bueller.Bueller.]

@@jodimyers410 somtimes yes but not always, however seeing a loving family helps to know what it should be like just like many people repeat the abuse they see

[@mjhoover3038]

I am so glad to view this... I am ready to leave my relationship. Not Amish but leaving becasue of psych abuse. She has shown me I can do it again. Thank you.

[@SJC49]

Again? Is this your second experience with abuse? If so, you KNOW it won’t get better. Get out now! Please!

[@IchigoOren]

Abuse is all over the place, not just in the Amish community. Looo at the abuse rates in America. The rape and murder rates as well.. Its sickening.

[@pennyc11]

Find a therapist who specializes in you kind of abuse. My insurance company helped me find a qualified one. Be brave. A better life is waiting for you and your family.😊 Find a good support group like YWCA. You can do it. I did.😊

[@smfarrie2943]

@@SJC49 these abusers are good at convincing their gfs/wives that they changed. Sometimes they do but it doesn’t last for very long.

[@smfarrie2943]

Please have an exit plan ready. Once you leave, do not go back. Leaving is the most dangerous time. Good luck and god bless.

[@conniegerard6484]

What an amazing mother and woman. Good for you having the strength to do what you did. No one should get away with abuse! No matter what religion!!

[@ashleykolar2321]

What an amazingly awesome and beautiful woman and mother! The amount courage that had to take and as a woman and Mother who is a survivor of my ex's physical, verbal ,sexual,financial.....abuse! You are an inspiration to other women out there . Especially being from the Amish Community and this all being so foreign to you. Stay strong sister ❤️ I will say prayers for you and your family.

[@IchigoOren]

You sound like a bigot. Especially from the Amish community? You act like that only happens in the Amish communities and not in NON Amish American communities. Do you say the same about Islam or nah?

[@wendybathew5814]

Be strong dear lady and stay strong for your children

[@meeksadorable9311]

She makes me so much more appreciative of my life. I needed to hear her story. She joins the real world and she's just taking the world by storm. Accomplishing so much while standing up to this monster and a whole community that supports him. All the while still smiling, my God she's a ball of sunshine. God bless her and her boys and keep them all covered! ❤🎉

[@jodimyers410]

I couldn’t find the words to describe the feeling that her beautiful smiling face gave me. But “ball of sunshine” is 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻

[@jocob1215]

Thank you for what you’re doing. As an ex Amish I get all the flashbacks of how very difficult it is to break away and I didn’t experience the personal trauma she did. I also miss the same things she does.

[@heavenlymajesticking]

Hey perhaps you can get in touch with ex Armish support groups! Best wishes to you! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@CherylMcLe]

Thank you for using ur voice to speak up. Other women will look at you and be strong enough to stand up for themselves. Good for you. Strong woman …

[@mamaindy61]

You are such a brave woman. I was in an abusive relationship an it was so hard to get out of it. I’m so proud of you. God bless you and your family.

[@ardevenuta37]

As a grown man, I find it different to keep a dry eye. So many would've believed that God had abandoned them. She knew that God, just as in "footprints" recognized that the Lord did carry her and gave her strength and determination. ❤ It would be a pleasure to know her in real life. My wife, a total advocate for abused women, would too; as she'd many years past, endured abuse. God Bless Elizabeth.

[@AnaGNews]

God Bless Elizabeth 🙏🏼

[@mimimutti8760]

Humans help her not god, sorry but true 😢

[@juliecrane9647]

As a survivor of child SA...I applaud you. Your words ring true. Bc of my childhood I thought God had let me down and found solace in the bottle til age 43 when I found sobriety in a 12 step program. I arrived broken, afraid and wishing for death...and it was near. I had 3 young girl and tho I never hit them I did just as much harm in neglecting them. My oldest was 6 and already playing mom. Two yrs sober I found a therapist specializing in childhood trauma. By this time I had come to believe in a God of My understanding. My faith was not restored in any church but only thru a month of praying...Hey if you're there help me not drink today.Then I'd head to a MTG... Around ppl like me who bolstered me .....I'd pray on the way home, Please Don't let my car turn into that liquor store. At night I'd thank this Higher Power not really sure if this was real. After two months of doubt and white knuckling against drink. I was standing in my little kitchen when the words came....I've not thought about drinking for 3 days. The obcession was gone and has never returned My life today is full of joy And peace. When hard times came I knew I'd survive. I don't preach. And I politely shut down ppl who say I need a church to enter their heaven. I work with women who are where I've been. Many go back out and don't survive...some do. Alcoholism is a powerful, insidious and very patient disease. I only pray a little several times daily to be willing to walk His word....to stay in peace and help others. Yes the footsteps prayer is great. I begin each morning with silent words I say to self by poet Emily Dickinson.... Hope is the thing with feathers that perches the soul and sings the tune without words and never stops at all. It lightens me when a man, my brothers, have a good understanding of abuse and all it's Fallout and says no this cannot be ignored. Thnx for your post. Sorry mine so long but I'm a spread the hope girl. I'm a survivor. I hope my words reach one person maybe

[@Wispertile]

I would love to be her friend as well, share a tea and a Bible study. You can tell she has so much joy in her heart from Jesus! I love that. My Mom was that way. I miss her. Thank you for your comment.

[@Wispertile]

@@mimimutti8760 I’m sure humans did as well. But I’m sure God had his hand guiding her. I hope you see a time in your life where you can see Gods hand in your life! I have been in Elizabeth’s shoes and unable to move forward but God gave me the strength. I will pray for you Mimi. 🙏 Have a blessed day.

[@terimcbloom]

She is a testament to the human spirit!! I hope she reached all her goals for herself and her children.

[@alissasmith55]

I do not even know this woman & I want to hug her and hold her tight. Strongest, bravest woman on this earth. Every man, woman, child, who has stood up for not only themselves, but others as well.

[@alifetime360]

Thank you for covering this case & doing this video. My mother & her siblings were raised in the Mennonite church, which is basically one step away from being Amish. A shunning situation happened with their oldest sister due to her becoming pregnant out of wedlock. In addition to this experience, fast forwarding in time, another aunt's stepsons SA'd me when I was between the ages of 5-7; nothing was done at the time & I had to stay silent. Fast forward again to my adulthood. When I finally drew the line saying that I wouldn't be around the stepsons anymore, my aunt said, "Why are you doing this to me?" ------ Another problem was being cornered in church by the pastors & my aunt trying to "get demons out" of me because I wanted to go to a Christian women's conference downtown. ----- Religious oppression of women & the abuse that women in these religions have to be subjected to is wrong on so many levels. Please keep shining light on these situations & hats off for helping these women navigate their ways out!!!

[@jeannerountree952]

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you’re helping yourself at this point. And that you know it’s never your fault and that you did not cause this upon yourself no matter what anyone else says it’s never the victim.

[@tyrajames9037]

😢 3:34 3:41 I try to keep my kids away from stuff like this 😢 it's so so sad that church should be safe but it's not 😢🎉kids needs to be heard

[@jpennstation9760]

This infuriates me. I’m so glad you’re safe now.

[@joycenightingale1669]

Angela, you really need to clarify which mennonite group. I am in a mennonite group that would not be tolerated and abuse is reported to authorities.

[@alifetime360]

@Joyce Nightingale To clarify as best as I can, my mother's family was in Iowa during the time, and the shunning situation happened during the 1950s, I believe. Although each family member ended up leaving the Mennonite church & branching off into other Christian groups, I do recall "Anabaptist" being mentioned quite a bit. Head coverings were worn, as well as women being forbidden to wear pants. So, once everyone started branching out, it was a big deal for the women on my mother's side to be able to wear pants, go to movies & seek further education, etc.,. To clarify: I am not saying that everyone in the Mennonite church is terrible, nor am I suggesting that my experience is the norm. However, each family member that branched out to other areas of Christianity held very tightly to their Mennonite upbringing. Out of fear for what might be done (aka shunning) in other churches (as well as extensive abuses from my biological father to include alcoholic and drug induced outrage, which literally threatened our lives on more than one occasion), it was pertinent - when knowledge of the SA from my cousins came out - for me to stay silent and act normal so as to enable everyone to stay in their respective churches without consequence. My point is that had the shunning situation not occurred in the first place with my aunt, this intense fear of being ousted by "the church" in other Christian groups would not have been quite so intense (probably). Also, I will say, although you requested "clarification" - and I appreciate why you would request that - the level of control & fear that my mother & her siblings lived in (to varying degrees) is very telling of the levels of control that they learned to survive in as children. Having said that, just because my overall family experience - (coupled with the various types of abuse that I endured as a female in varying sectors of Christianity) - might not be tolerated in your particular branch of Christianity (Mennonite to be exact per your comment), well, that does not mean that abuses have not occurred and literally do occur within different parts of "the church". I respect that everyone has the right to believe what they want. As such, I reserve the right to speak openly about my experiences when I am able to, as it might help someone else who has been in any similar type of situation feel as if they're not so alone. Saying all of that, I appreciate that you wanted clarification, but just because you believe that something to the extent of what happened in my family would not happen in your congregation, well, that does not diminish - in any way - the shunning situation my aunt experienced nor does it diminish the levels of secrecy I was forced to survive under. (Try acting normal for years in front of two men who R'd & SA'd you.) My aunt who was shunned was expected by her nuclear family to continue going to an acceptable church (although she had been shunned) and it was difficult for them to understand why she was so hurt by this "church practice" within the Mennonite church that they were a part of. Thankfully, she went on to gain a bachelor's degree and was very successful in her 40-plus years of working as a nutritionist. She had an amazing spirit of survival, which encouraged me during those dark days of silence & she did find a type of peace about it all before she passed. One more addition, my mother's side of the family was German/Swiss & there is a small family Bible written in German that has been handed down and is cherished as a piece of history within the family. Whether this answers your question or not, I do hope this "clarifies" my personal and family experiences to some extent. This is the most detail I will go into in the comments. If you'd like further insight into my personal and family experiences, I suppose you will have to wait for me to finish writing that book.

[@americangirl4522]

This lady has surely learned a lot on her own. She’s had her eyes opened. I am very proud of her and she needs to write her story for every LDS female to have access to it to read. God bless you.

[@paulasheerin9781]

She's not LDS, she's Amish

[@donnapanis8097]

On top of all the abuse she endured, that evil man stole her community and way of life. 😢

[@mistyeyedchick]

People that leave the Amish community are normally shunned and no longer welcome. Not even to visit their family for life. It is almost unheard of to hear of prosecution. Watched ALOT of information on the Amish and LDS community. There is a great documentary called

[@katiekane5247]

​@@mistyeyedchick Derrick Broze covers the LDS crimes.

[@mistyeyedchick]

@@katiekane5247 Thank you!!!!

[@dharmaslife]

There are so many kind and loving Amish folks… And then there are the others that abuse their women and their children and their animals

[@dharmaslife]

@@katiekane5247 LDS or FLDS? Curious!

[@jenniferhoward2127]

God bless you Elizabeth! Thank you so much for your bravery and never giving up.