Good Evening, Rabbi New It's a good thing to be able to speak the language of the oppressor because then you can have insite into their mind. Would you say that it is in suffering, where we grow the most, and it is in humor when we can laugh at ourselves, that gives us hope and keeps us strong?- "Tradition." We destroy only what we ourselves want to become - the "Chosen" Children of GD where everyone knows his, Father - GD, and have first place in His Heart, according to a Leo Tolstoy suggestion. Yours is a pensive brief. :) Blessings,