Sabrina, you are one in a million!! Very few daughters-in-law would be so forgiving and accepting of Justin's parents You should be so proud of yourself for being such a kind adult Their traditions have limited their interactions, and so many people would not be accepting of that This is a huge step I hope it continues
@sharonharris7245 Жыл бұрын
Sarah is mother to Sabrina.
@jesussaves222 Жыл бұрын
She moves in wisdom.and love and yes most people don't or won't due to pride and emotions.
@HandbagDiva Жыл бұрын
Her name is Sarah, Sabrina is their daughter 😊
@lolitamichael6939 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Sarah is a remarkable young lady and carries herself with such grace and charm.💕🥰🌸
@rhemawilliams4983 Жыл бұрын
I guess you meant Sarah. One of the daughters is Sabrina. She is indeed one in a million. She has a beautiful soul. Am not sure tolerating racism, sexism and maltreatment is something she wants to emulate for any of her children. It appears that Justin from his childhood has been conditioned to see this type of behavior as normal. Her in-laws are rude and abusive. That nonsense about having shingles if that was the case why did she cook if she's sick why leave the house at all when Justin could have picked his dad up? She really didn't want to interact with his wife. That's the simple truth and it's sad to know as women that they (both herself and her daughter) are more hateful to Sarah than his dad is... If we don't think it's right to tolerate abuse and horrible behavior from other people why is it ok to excuse it when family does it? Isn't abuse and disrespect abhorrent behavior and should be broadly condemned and rejected by all civilized and functional people?
@erinpolee-koh846 Жыл бұрын
As a black woman, married to a Korean man, whose parents disowned him at our marriage…, I used to watch your videos all of the time because it was so relatable. After nine years, my father-in-law finally started to come around and speak to me. Now that we’ve been in contact for the last two years, we have such an amazing relationship. It touches my heart every time that he calls and ends that conversation with “ I love you.” I pray that you make it to where I am now with my in-laws.❤
@Backyard-opinion Жыл бұрын
Time heals all ❤
@Tee-kc3pn Жыл бұрын
You're a very loving person because ain't no way I'd stay around........My husband is White. Had his parents rejected me when I met them I would have ended the relationship.
@shilohthetoypoodle7288 Жыл бұрын
Not worth it all
@shilohthetoypoodle7288 Жыл бұрын
@@Tee-kc3pnexactly... who have time be in an apartheid in a marriage
@NamuKoree Жыл бұрын
Just like that? It's not true. Also when you are in the situation you never know what you will do. Life humbles you @@Tee-kc3pn
@fayrefitness Жыл бұрын
This young wife/mother has a heart of gold. She could let her ego retaliate against her In-laws and no one would blame her. But she prioritizes her husband and children over her ego. When her in-laws are ready to accept her, she will receive them. Not many women would be able to do that.
@wintersojourn9356 Жыл бұрын
You write the truth. They are all receiving prayers I’ve read in this comment section; I’m new, 1st vlog I ever watched of theirs. & you articulated my thoughts exactly. All I can add is: May our Lord continue to bless this young mother. She sets the best example. I’m kinda ashamed, couldn’t have done the same I don’t think. Esp in my youth….
@TheLinda12 Жыл бұрын
Justin’s dad has always been the most reasonable and I’m certain that he wanted to be there wayyyyy before this day. He just accepted his wife and daughter’s views.. He knows that his grandson is his legacy and will continue his family lineage. Regardless of how he feels he loves his son, he loves his grandchildren. He accepts his daughter-in-law. I will say this, I know his mom wants to go and build a relationship but they have let it go so long that her ego won’t let her and that is a sad place to be.
@sanicheeadkins6362 Жыл бұрын
SO TRUE
@Ntuthu-ZA Жыл бұрын
It is now up to the couple to make it easy fir them by reaching out.
@cashmoneychanel1209 Жыл бұрын
@@Ntuthu-ZAno. It’s not.
@Trelawnyjamdung Жыл бұрын
Give the girl a MEDAL!! Sarah you are truly one in a MILLION! You’re simply amazing; a woman of true CHARACTER and God will bless you. Justin is blessed.
@deniselaforgia874 Жыл бұрын
So happy for you Justin that your parents are coming around. You’ve been so patient and loving to your parents! Bravo!!!
@sweetangiegirl1 Жыл бұрын
Sarah is so loveable and thoughtful. I can't imagine any mom not being proud to have her for a daughter. And those babies are absolutely adorable!
@rhemawilliams4983 Жыл бұрын
Because she's racist. If Sarah was a Korean woman I doubt this would ever happen. I wonder if she stops to ponder what seeds she's planting in her own daughter's garden when she decides to treat Sarah this way?
@lashandajohnsonjohnson7632 Жыл бұрын
Wow!! You have three children now! I can't believe it. They are so beautiful and keep praying over them. I am so happy that they are slowly but surely coming around. I wonder if Justin's sister is married with children. What in-laws must remember, if you don't want anyone to mistreat your child you don't mistreat anyone else child. I hope she prayed over the food before eating it.
@sammierose1150 Жыл бұрын
@@rhemawilliams4983 and Sarah is half Filipina! So at least she’s half Asian, but I’ve heard in the big three East Asian countries (China, Korea, and Japan) colorism is a big thing and discrimination against darker skinned Southeast Asians is unfortunately commonplace. 😔
@HandbagDiva Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy Justin’s parents have softened & are starting to be in the children’s lives. Jayden is so adorable!
@annwonderspirit7543 Жыл бұрын
DITTO!!! All the kids are cute ~ brother Jayden is adorable & friendly 🤩
@brandispry576 Жыл бұрын
I am so excited that Justin’s parents took part in Jayden’s 100-Day Celebration in their own way. It was so thoughtful of his mom to make homemade food for the celebration. And I can tell his dad seemed happy to be a part of the celebration. What a blessing from God! I am so proud of both Justin and especially Sabrina for keeping open hearts and being so forgiving of his parents. That’s how God wants us to be.
@nesse40 Жыл бұрын
I personally believe your daughters softened their hearts. And Jayden, being a boy, sealed the deal. Plus you asked them….as grandparents to look after the girls during Jayden’s birth. Making them feel important and included despite that they were the one to break the tie. But, make no mistake, boys are sooooo important in the olden Asian culture which has somehow permeated through this modern era Congratulations! Though for all your efforts! This came about with your relentless pursuit to have their grandparents in their lives
@lashandajohnsonjohnson7632 Жыл бұрын
I think it is because you had a boy. That caused him to step out to visit.
@nia1518 Жыл бұрын
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@WeezyJeffersonYo Жыл бұрын
They had no interest in the girls. They had a boy. Personally, I wouldn't have eaten her food nor fed it to my kids.
@islandgyal507 Жыл бұрын
Jayden looks just like his daddy! Baby's just so cute! Justin, I'm happy that your parents are coming around. There are so many people praying for them and your family.
@jackelinegomez6186 Жыл бұрын
He’s got mommas nose,eyes and lips but somehow has daddy’s facial expressions 💗 such a sweetie
@kira8808 Жыл бұрын
Justin, I’m so proud of your Dad for breaking off from your Mother & Sister’s clearly toxic hold. Seems he has put his foot down and said, enough and he wants to know his Grandson. Sarah, if these people took the time to know you, they would love you like we all do. I’m so sorry that this is your reality.I hope the girls get all the information and get to make the decision when they are older, if they want to have anything to do with Justin’s family. Hopefully they all come to their senses that true love is strong and is evident by your beautiful family.
@dianejones7584 Жыл бұрын
Justin was spot on when he said that it took a boy for them to come around. Boys seem to be more valued in some, if not all Asian cultures. Happy that Justin’s parents extended that olive branch.😀
@robincrawley9794 Жыл бұрын
I believe it is because the male child carries the family last name/seed till death. The female child does not, because in most cases when they marry, they take on their husbands last name. The male child produces seed! God Bless!
@julies48a Жыл бұрын
Your patience and constant care toward your parents won them over. What a wonderful gesture by Justin's mom cooking for the party. I hope this is just the beginning, Grandparents can't get enough of their grandchildren. Kudos to you both for being patient and not swallowing the bitter pill of resentment.
@Anounceof Жыл бұрын
This is HUGE!!!! screaming for you guys!!! Beautiful beginnings
@eileenedmonson9485 Жыл бұрын
Don't apologize to us for not doing more videos. You guys have your hands full bringing up the next generation! Congratulations ❤️
@azedel7151 Жыл бұрын
I don't think "it took a boy" is entirely the reason but more that they had already seen the girls twice, so some of the ice was broken. It was nice that Justin's mom cooked for the occasion (and drove Dad there) and that Justin's dad participated. I hope that things keep moving forward for you all. 💙👶 *Happy belated 100th Day, Baby Jayden!* 👶💙
@dorothymccaskill7221 Жыл бұрын
So happy for your family! As a grandparent I knew they would eventually come around, because grandchildren are very special.
@paulemcj2446 Жыл бұрын
Justin, Your love, respect, and patience with your parents are admirable. Watching on and off since you got married.
@MsMaggie4u Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching your journey since day 1. In fact I literally cried at certain let downs. (I won’t bring them up.) I am over the moon overjoyed that there was such a breakthrough. Mom making a meal, especially the soup, was a great sign as well. Also, she could have stayed in the car and not even go to the front of the house so THAT was very telling. We are moving forward for sure.
@denisepatterson416 Жыл бұрын
Your babies are growing so fast I remember when you were pregnant with your first daughter. Love your family. Thank you for sharing with us
@joybrooks564 Жыл бұрын
I was touched through the screen, seeing Jayden and his grandpop together. Nice seeing the grandparents have decided to get to know the grandkids
@sbug2705 Жыл бұрын
Jayden looks adorable in his traditional Korean clothing. 💙
@iwanttobelieve5970 Жыл бұрын
Awww, he looks more like Justin as he gets older. He's beautiful like his big sisters.
@bobabiz Жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!!! I’m so happy that your dad came over to celebrate!! It’s a huge step!!!! 🎉🎉🎉
@karenh2890 Жыл бұрын
He's such a cute little guy! Glad that Justin's dad came over and his mom made traditional food. It's a good first step.
@jemma5117 Жыл бұрын
I am a 2nd generation Korean-American and with very traditional Korean parents, I know it seems very intimidating but I think you trying to make contact would’ve been better. If you have another opportunity, even if it’s awkward, I encourage you to try. This is such a positive step forward!
@whiteheart6827 Жыл бұрын
Justin said it right. It took a boy. Bittersweet. But a start.
@mskennedy80 Жыл бұрын
sarah you are built different and very strong and forgiving. i don't think I could tolerate this type of rejection based solely on my race. you're the sweetest and hopefully they get to know that❤
@hildegardepoulos-duran3463 Жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord!!! They are coming around! So happy for you Justin!
@jennyvanderwalt6806 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful that Justin's father came for Jayden's 100 day celebration. Hopefully next time his Mom will join his Dad ❤
@blahlissa Жыл бұрын
This fills my heart so much! His mother making food is such a huge step
@mrs5675 Жыл бұрын
I love that Justin's Dad came. I think he always wanted to be a part of the kids life, I just think Justin's mom had a lot to do with him not being around.
@BrioaZ Жыл бұрын
Definitely the sister has to do a lot with it
@genniejefferson6588 Жыл бұрын
Look at that cute boy looking at his dad.this is one beautiful family. Dads genes are strong. That’s great Justin’s parents came over and he looked so so cute in his KOREAN DRESS. Wonderful parents.
@noseyrosey718 Жыл бұрын
omg this is amazing I'm soooo happy for you guys this much progress with Justin's parents makes me so warm inside and happy ❤❤ you could say yes it took a boy but at the same time ever since Justin showed his mom pics of the girls they have been way more willing to be involved and acknowledge the kids. His mom making the soup is a big step, because that's for you guys not the kids.
@l.sanders1618 Жыл бұрын
Just be careful eating something from someone that dislikes you and watch your kids around them. Other than that, I’m happy they’re coming around.
@Acherrywithasmile Жыл бұрын
I said the same thing. I am so happy for them but you can never be too careful these days.
@blkicestorm6981 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I don’t know if I would’ve had the guts to eat anything prepared by a woman who does not even like me or acknowledge my existence. They are too accommodating to his parents, because I could never put up with that much disrespect…
@WeezyJeffersonYo Жыл бұрын
Yep, I wouldn't have eaten it nor fed it to my girls---whom they had no interest in meeting.
@satis7561 Жыл бұрын
She was not the only 1 2 eat the food. Justin's own dad and Justin ate the food ,along with the girls. She would have made her own family sick if there was something in the food!!!!
@michellemckinney4678 Жыл бұрын
At 4:37 I burst into tears! Such beautiful family pictures.
@sparassidae8938 Жыл бұрын
Sabrina is a lovely woman. So beautiful and expressive. How can the grandparents not love her!!!
@hibosamatar3224 Жыл бұрын
YOU CAN TELL JADEN IS A PAPA BOY. THE WAY HE KEEPS STARING AT HIS DAD.
@Ceelle2 Жыл бұрын
Justin and Sarah....your hearts must be full. Thank you for sharing.
@Just-Princess Жыл бұрын
Sarah is literally an angel. I'm so happy this happened. The food looked amazing. I really hope this means there are more gatherings in the future. Baby Jayden is beautiful ❤. Congratulations on your family!
@marlynmorgan3658 Жыл бұрын
It was so sweet of Justin's dad to attend, and very cool of his mother to take his dad there, and to return for him, also to cook for the occasion. That's a start in the right direction. It can only get better! 😊❤❤❤❤❤
@joybrooks564 Жыл бұрын
Jayden is so adorable. Chubby babies are so precious
@traceygilligan1201 Жыл бұрын
WOW, that is so surprising, and heartwarming at the same time. So hopeful for the future, and congratulations to Jaden on 100 days since birth, health, success, and happiness for all of the days ahead ❤
@shane6242 Жыл бұрын
So glad to hear, I never thought your parents would come around in any capacity so this is quite a step!
@helenfuentes9539 Жыл бұрын
You guys are a long-suffering couple, lots of people would have given up.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Congratulations
@pearlinecrews6826 Жыл бұрын
Awesome news! Children melt those hearts especially a legacy.
@MoDavI-sl7iy Жыл бұрын
Your kids are SUPER CUTE 😊 ❣️👏🏿
@Ohgrowup1 Жыл бұрын
The most adorable babies… ALL OF THEM!!! Such a lovely family! It has taken some time, but well worth the wait for his parents to come around. This is the beginning of a wonderful relationship.
@cynthiajones1290 Жыл бұрын
Wow I am overjoyed that Dad came to the 100th day celebration. My goodness a long time coming!!! This proves that the love is still in there in their hearts for Jason and kids❤❤❤❤
@Trinity25Apr Жыл бұрын
You need to get a video bell. Throughout everything Justin's regard for his parents has never diminished, it may have wavered a little but he has so much hope. It has to be noted how Korean the children look, this in no small part has been a catalyst for the parents interest. Now a boy has been added, their cups are overflowing. The soup was a nice gesture and I look forward to something more welcoming and penitent on their behalf toward Sarah happening. Baby steps but they could be significant. Happy 100 Days Jaden 🎉
@lingfongchung25 ай бұрын
Sarah, you are great! So are your Mom and Sister! Thank you Justin for mentioning that a grandson might be the impetus for the meet at your home. You, two, are an inspiration!
@alishaschafer3069 Жыл бұрын
Happy happy tears Justin and Sarah! This is a HUGE huge step in the process of healing the family. The humility displayed by all of you is so incredibly moving. This is so beautiful. And look at that dish grandma prepared! Oh my. God is sooooo good! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@LetaLuvaLuva Жыл бұрын
Wow! Congratulations. You all have come a longggg way! So nice to see Justin’s mom and dad’s hearts are expanding. Happy for your family. Cheers to hopefully more family memories that you all can build.
@jasminearroyo67 Жыл бұрын
Baby Jayden looks so cubby and sweet my goodness ❤
@rascaldog5303 Жыл бұрын
Congrats on your dad coming to party. Group picture was great. So glad you put up your baby pictures, so precious!
@NinaNina-tm2mo Жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you both that your patience and understanding towards Justin's parents is now paying off. Justin, you're a good son and Sarah, you're a oood daughter-in-law who didn't give up hope to win the elders' hearts. Jayden is such a good boy listening intently to what his Dad was saying in the first part of the video. Sarah, don't shy away from your father-in-law. Just be the way you are.......sweet and kind. Offering him a drink yourself is also a step to make him at ease with you and realize you're a treasure to his son. I wish you more happiness and more family get together. God bless!
@rhone7939 ай бұрын
Like father like son! Justin’s very Strong genes showing!
@britm8078 Жыл бұрын
Sarah, you have handled this so beautifully over the years ❤ reaping what you sow
@sarahfoster78117 ай бұрын
You ate a most pleasant family in spite of Grandpa’s and Grandma’s responses! Be patient they will come around eventually. I have been through your experience and trust me they will eventually come around . Continue to love them snd show them genuine care!! Your children are adorable ! Please please continue to share your lives with us!!
@mms_2255 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for your family... And that they r comin around. You two are amazing kind people. So HAPPY. I Have tears for u. Don't matter if it took that they did.🎉🎉🎉🎉
@sdjames2580 Жыл бұрын
To continue to reach out to the parents is a beautiful thing as well.
@Reborn2h2o Жыл бұрын
Praise God for making a way for your parents to come . I love my grandchildren and couldn't imagine not wanting to be involved in their lives.
@geniallen5328 Жыл бұрын
What a blessing this finally happened. Jayden looks so so like his dad. You know the saying YOU DO YOU and I will add you do you happily. Blessings to you all.
@Rickrdee Жыл бұрын
Happy 100 days Jayden! I am thanking God for this momentous day!! I have prayed this day would come !! What a blessing. 😢 I believe the day will come when Mom will come. So happy for you Justin!! Sara, thanking God for you heart staying open. What a cutie pie Justin is. They are all adorable, look how the girls are growing. Wonderful, wonderful!! 👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@elisasalas909 Жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, the more people who love the kids, the better.
@charleneogino7092 Жыл бұрын
All of your children are a beautiful combination of both of your faces! I had to cry tears of joy! 😢😢 So happy that Justin's father attended the celebration. His mother cooking and bringing food was a loving gesture. If it took a grandson to change their hearts, that is fine. I pray that this is only the beginning of their continued relationship with your children. 가족을 공유해 주셔서 감사합니다. ❤
@annwonderspirit7543 Жыл бұрын
Can we talk about how cute & friendly brother Jayden is? All your children are adorable ~ not surprised to hear that one of the girls followed the grandparents to the car. The girls paved the way for their brother to sway old fear & together they broke it on down 🙏
@ivyd5485 Жыл бұрын
So glad Justin’s dad came to baby Jayden’s celebration. I’m hopeful Justin’s parents will continue to come around. It may take time so don’t force or rush it but having a son to continue the family name is hugely important in some cultures (not sure about Korean culture). Sarah you have such an amazing heart and spirit.
@the.a.jeffries Жыл бұрын
Mom has come a long way! So happy they came over. Glad Dad gave baby Jayden blessings.
@traceejohnson290 Жыл бұрын
Not really😏
@dotunn Жыл бұрын
Your patience has paid off. Happy for this development
@j.n.8153 Жыл бұрын
Jayden is such a happy baby. His facial expression are cracking me up. Jayden is bringing healing to your father's health. He will add more years to your father. He will return home with a Joy that cannot be taken away from him.
@mara4513 Жыл бұрын
❤🎉❤🎉 I'm so happy for your family. You're a living example of always being loving even in the face of hatred and hurtful attitudes! The embodiment of Love Withstanding 😊❤
@robyndavis680 Жыл бұрын
I am crying with happy tears. Patience pays off. That was a Hugh step
@melissaa.8547 Жыл бұрын
Sabrina is a SAINT. God bless her always.
@salsababy13 Жыл бұрын
Your continued openness to his parents is admirable. I also feel like part of this is because they’re finally getting a grandson.
@bS-xo1ij Жыл бұрын
Sarah you and your husband are faithful and patient people, to wait for your father to come to his right mind was a blessing
@lindabaek7488 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful family and beautiful couple inside and out.
@pitoufo Жыл бұрын
You all have the patience of Job.
@mapuche888 Жыл бұрын
Sarah, you are such a blessing. What a strong and patient person you are.
@tamaraneil486 Жыл бұрын
You guys are making progress!! I am so happy for you! It takes more than a boy to get your dad to celebrate Justin, it is the cumulative work that you guys have put in over time. I am so very happy for you both. Sarah once your mil does get past her issues, you are going to be a precious gift to her, you have a wonderful abundant spirit.
@ladyhbar_b Жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful family and his parents visit is progress. Baby Jaden is so chilled and adorable.
@johnnystewart6812 Жыл бұрын
So happy to hear that about your parents. They will eventually come around and you guys can be a complete family on both sides. Take care of each other.
@mrssilla5 Жыл бұрын
Wow ! I started following your journey when I was in high school and I’m 21 now. I can’t believe that this is finally happening !
@Milee74darby Жыл бұрын
My heart is so Happy for Justin he has his whole family everyvody he loves I’m beyond happy love from Newcastle AUSTRALIA 🇦🇺
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Жыл бұрын
HappY 100 Days to Jayden! I'm not gonna comment about "them" coming over to (finally) bask in the glory of the celebration without having put in anY work, respect or familial support because I'm over it, but I am glad to hear that ya'll had a more stress free week, for once! ✨
@kettanistar Жыл бұрын
This is HUGE! I didn't think this day would come, but this is great news! Even mom showed up with food! I hope in time they warm up more!
@deafheart23 Жыл бұрын
I would never want those people touching any of my children. They have been beyond disrespectful to your family and I would use every fiber of my being to ensure the bigots never saw a single grandchild. Children should not be around any anyone with hate in their hearts, regardless if they call themselves family. Beyond disgusting that people can hate their own flesh and blood, let alone innocent children. That they've never tried to see them until now speaks volumes. You two are way too forgiving.
@sonjagood7305 Жыл бұрын
He looks like both of You💜🥰💜Prayers work💜💜Have a Blessed Weekend 💜💜
@glory2081 Жыл бұрын
Step by step, with prayer softens the heart.❤
@velmalegaspi1741 Жыл бұрын
Sarah is so kind and Patient regarding Justin Weird and Races parents. She’s never say anything negative about them. I don’t know if I could forgive them.
@DarlinReal Жыл бұрын
Baby steps. One day at a time. Patience is a virtue. Kudos to your father. Expect your mother to come closer soon.
@swordchild0013 Жыл бұрын
Justin’s mum came as well 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 and she brought soup!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@glendafaatoafe6156 Жыл бұрын
They are trying 🎉 I proud of you for keep trying over the years .one big step . Send picturs of the family and hand made cards from the girls to them thanking for the gifts .
@knjmoorhouse5093 Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear the good news. Love Jayden’s smile! Wishing you all the best. Your constant patience and kindness is exemplary. You countered every thought of “war” with a thought of “peace.” World peace starts within one’s heart, is transmitted to those around us, and multiplies.
@TheSarahlou Жыл бұрын
I love how much you have both kept you're hearts open for Justin's family.. all you have to do now is keep an open inattention to them. Xx
@Acherrywithasmile Жыл бұрын
I am so glad that your in laws came around. It truly takes a village to rasie a family. Just a food for thought and i speaking from experience with my family, take your time with your in laws in regards to spending time with their grandchildren. If your not ready to leave them alone with their grandparents, YOUR FEELINGS ARE COMPLETELY VAILD. Keep a very watchful eye on them with their grandparents. Although I am so happy they came around, it more important to protect your kids. You know your in laws better than anyone, so im sure you will listen to your intuition and move at your own pace.
@maxineluchey3819 Жыл бұрын
Baby boy looks like the both of you equally, beautiful.
@shirleyfretty487 Жыл бұрын
Baby boy looks just like his daddy. So glad Justin parents are coming around!!!!
@onthespotwithtaalibah983 Жыл бұрын
You guys compliment each other. Beautiful family. Thanks for sharing.😊