What is a Midlife Crisis? Therapist explains the behavioural and psychological impacts.

[@thelonelyghosts9004]

I felt like this was beautifully explained. I’m 37 and in the past few months have seemingly started to feel like I’m “halfway up” myself, certainly in terms of my career. I feel like I’m not making as much money as I could be, I’m not living in the house I want to live in, and generally just really questioning my life and its direction. I don’t know what to do because up until just a few months ago I felt relatively hopefully and validated in my life but now, for some reason, it just feels different. I’m hoping that I’m not alone in thinking this way.

[@JeffAdairKTM530]

your not alone brother - there are many of us

[@joaquinjmp7841]

You are not alone, I’m 36 and started feeling this way similar to what you just shared. Trying to cope and keep pushing

[@Marios_CG]

Thank you for sharing and for the feedback on the video. Yes it sounds like some fluctuations are happening in your life. Questioning is good, it can lead you to discovering more about yourself and what you want. It's the expectations that bring you back down by constantly comparing yourself to a generally unrealistic ideal. Look after yourself.

[@Agent-gh9tn]

I'm 37 and going same thing. I've been thinking about mortality quite a bit.

[@OiVinn-eq1ml]

Definitely not alone. Just keep aiming high & move up. Set goals, have a plan, stay focused. Meet other people

[@bobpenney9973]

I believe I am going through a mid-life crisis with mounting anxiety and depression. I dont spend money bc I am broke. I question all of my life decisions. What used to interest me no longer does. I avoid social situations when possible. I have no motivation. I suffer from chronic pain and fatigue.

[@jasonclarke7422]

How old are you, I’m 49 and been feeling what you have described for the past few year’s. I really don’t like that I have lost interest in most things that I used to enjoy and I’m also not patient and understanding like I used to be. I just feel like a tired worn out lump and am the shadow of what I once was, I eat a healthy diet and try and keep my fitness levels up, but this does not appear to help. How long does this midlife crisis go on for ? it’s really getting me down and I want to be the person I was when I met my wife 25 years ago.

[@bobpenney9973]

@jasonclarke7422 I am 49 years old. I feel the same way. I don't know how long or when the midlife crisis ends. I try everything to motivate myself but with no success.

[@jasonclarke7422]

@@bobpenney9973 At least we know that we are not on our own, even though it does feel like it at times. I hope life goes back to how it was in happier times for us both. 👍

[@locien182]

I feel the same. 38 for me. Wanting to travel see places not even out of my own country or lavish just experience life but have no money to spend due to low paid job. Kids. Bills etc. All my hobbies I used to do I have no time for or money too this both irritates me and makes me feel I'm working for nothing as I literally live hand to mouth. And this then makes me feel what's the point. Iv been depressed for 20+ years but this feels different

[@naterpie]

​@@locien182I'm 38 as well. I'm pretty much in the same boat. I'm struggling with the same feelings. I'm just starting my journey of trying to make a life change. I hope you find answers that work for you. Stay strong brother.

[@paulsantos914]

I'm crying as i watch this. All the boxes are checked.

[@rebeccacsore3697]

me too.

[@tomslitovnieks8036]

Cry and when youre done get to work and build you fking life

[@33Crazydude]

At 46, I found myself grappling with a midlife crisis that began at 44. Despite recognizing the need for significant changes, I haven't adequately addressed them. Instead, I've nervously resorted to behaviors aimed at resisting or slowing down aging, inadvertently causing me to spiral into a state of panic. Paradoxically, this only accelerates the aging process. The frightening speed at which time passes feels like a cruel joke.

[@Velocity-95]

I am 28 and was thinking i am lost i don't know what to do in my life.but i think now life is very uncertain you just need to live in present and enjoy whatever time you have in life when i was 20 yrs old i used to think the same bad things in a different way.

[@kmetzgr9594]

I’m going through this. I’m 40 years and feel unaccomplished. I hate to tell people I work a dead end job and never figured out what my passion is. I have no family of my own and still living under my mother’s roof. I feel like I’m constantly waiting for the day my body starts to break down from old age and just give up on life

[@Hmongboi228]

+1 to your comment. I'm in EXACTLY the same situation except I'm 38. For my mother, she is independent, age 69 but needs somebody there to just "keep the house warm." With me, I've applied for different government jobs (currently work for the government) OUTSIDE of my area so I can move out. My living situation is that I have been living with my mother since I came back from the military and although it is nice to not have to pay rent, it feels as if I have not matured psychologically while in the shadow of my mother. Hopefully you, others and I can snap out of this worrying moment in our life...

[@notatall1944]

step 1: hit gym(no gym = go run or push up) step 2: eat healthy food step 3: stop drinking, smoking wasting step 4: save money till it reach 3 months cover expense step 5: re invest to knowledge(for job you want it may take years) step 6: pursue that jobs while that 3 months saving last step 7: if fail repeat all steps again.

[@Junebuggy_2023]

Do not loose faith. You are as young as how you want to be and feel. There are people running marathon at age of 90. Keep your morale high

[@renesilva241]

40 is the best time of your life. O you did something significant between 20 and 40 you should be proud. If you haven't then 40 is a good starting point because now you have experience and still strong, and you still have 25 years to achieve your goals

[@blacklyfe5543]

You should feel ashamed of yourself you're 40 and still living with mommy? Lmao you've got a lot of work to do my guy.

[@w3n33dam1racl3]

Im 35 and going through this. I feel like i want to re -live my 20s. I could have done more, made and kept friends, invested, and traveled more. I wasted my youth. Now Im 35, married, with 2 daughters

[@kenrehill8775]

Wait your turn.

[@deebond4745]

I'm 37 going through abit of this I think. I do have the freedom now because of this.. But I feel I'm hard on myself, like my critic is saying hurry up or like.…i should of learned some things earlier. Gosh. Can feel overwhelming when it gets critical

[@kenrehill8775]

@@deebond4745 was your father present during your childhood?

[@JC_WT]

You have a family. To me that's more than I could ever dream of. At least you have that.

[@randideelancaster9904]

Children are the best way to stay young, you get to experience childhood again! Through their eyes! Jump in puddles, play in the sand, take them places you loved as a child, that's what I have been doing, I had so much fun taking my son to the beach, to the play ground, I'm still young at heart and it's fun!

[@tangbein]

Currently working as a hotel receptionist and it's fascinating how it is people at the exact age range, mentioned in this video, that are the most difficult ones. Any person in his 20's-30's will be completely chill. If there is something wrong with a room/apartment it is not the end of the world.

[@NYCSlim26]

This video is great. Despite the fact that I’ve realized a lot of this with my own therapist over time, you explained this so perfectly that it added even more clarity. Thank you!

[@Marios_CG]

I'm happy to hear that, you are welcome. Look after yourself.

[@JeffAdairKTM530]

thank you for this great summary. I am 35 and struggling to make friends and find another job in my field. I am also not impressed with my financial accomplishments living in los angeles and living check to check. I think I applied to over 300 jobs in my field and failing to land any offers. Its been a weird down turn in my sailing but I am trying to stay positive. I have been able to keep my small family together and my daughter is almost out of highschool. I tried to give her a normal life and now I am trying to find myself.

[@Marios_CG]

Thank you for sharing and I'm glad you enjoyed the video. It sounds like you're dealing with a lot, and going through a mid-life crisis can compound on that. It's good to read that you are focusing on staying positive, it's important and it can take 1000s of failures to make 1 great success, so keep going!

[@martmosop]

Hugs bro...Can I be your friend?

[@avishekgadal7170]

I wish you all the best mate.

[@hancock1934]

I believe the first couple, but after that things become less transparent, focusing primarily on the salty aftertaste. Ultimately, though, I would highly recommend the latter!

[@katc7550]

I just called to find a therapist because I wasn’t sure what was wrong with me. It’s definitely a mid life crisis. I’ll be 51 in a month. I had my last child at 44! I have everything that was talked about and have a 6 yr old on top of it. I’m not complaining! Love her to death but I have become obsessed with my looks. I get compliments all the time that people can’t believe I’m my age but I constantly feel like people are looking at me like “is she the Grandmom” and I’ve been doing hair for 32 years. I am starting to hate it. I don’t want to work and deal with people or my co workers. There’s much more but I hope I therapy helps

[@JC-fx3wh]

You're rare, giving birth at 44 is almost impossible these days.

[@luluah1198]

@@JC-fx3whno it’s not . Please just get out of the west travel the world. I know plenty of Asian women having babies later than this, and I’m in the UK 😂

[@TheAllPapa]

Reading these comments brings me a sense of peace to know im not alone.

[@DK412724]

I am 38 and still feel that I am peaking physically, financially, and intellectually. I am married with 3 kids, and live a very active lifestyle. The secret is to keep seeking a better life. I've never lived in the same house for more than 2 years. Each move was a better environment and a better opportunity. Dont be stagnant and you will continue experience new height and the crisis will be averted at whatever point in life you're at

[@mathiaskanuck6759]

I'm 35. I lived my whole life through my 20s with the same girl. Never cheated, but am starting to think maybe I wasted my 20s away.... And now I'm wondering.... Clock is ticking. I wanna have kids with her... But my other side is telling me to run for dear life and enjoy the rest of my thirties living it up. I feel stuck bro

[@jus3278]

Last year in my 30s and I'm starting to feel this

[@Jeprox_Gaming]

Im 35 going 36 this april and i think in my 30 im already struggling until now with this midlife crisis or its just anxiety or any disorder i think.

[@mangeshkherdekar7376]

I am of the same age.. and having the same feelings 😥

[@Humancnxn]

Ever since I started learning about making YT videos, I must say this is probably one of the best compiled videos. It ticks all the boxes for me. This is excellent work. The message is clear in all senses, my attention was grabbed throughout and I feel like I am walking away with all the value that you intended the vid to give. Keep up such good work, and thank you for taking time to make this.

[@ashirbad3299]

I recently turned 28 and I feel like I've not accomplished anything huge and haven't lived life the same as others my age, I've been feeling like this since I turned 25, it still feels like nothing has changed, I've stopped talking to most of the few people that used to be close to me and it feels like nothing I do now will make me go on par with others at any stage in life.

[@DontCensorMuah]

Youre grown now. Nobody's gonna make you become more than what you are at face value. Finding a career, creating a family amd finding hobbies might be the best thing smoking. Im 30

[@shakenbacon-vm4eu]

I’m 37. High income. Made it in my career as a doctor. Married with 2 kids. It just hit me a month ago, manifested by (it’s so embarrassing), a celebrity crush. It hurts. So. Damn. Much. I have seen someone and it helped. Looking back, I feel I devoted way too much to school and career, and moralized sex and dating to a point of avoiding them when I was in my physical prime (coupled with lack of any confidence with girls). But it’s interesting, cuz my crisis can be someone else’s fulfillment. I really hope it goes away, cuz I’ve never felt this type of pain before, for so long. Thanks for posting this vid, it did help and made me feel less alone.

[@Momo-qo7is]

I have been trying to restructure my life. Every single day I think that death is approaching and what I need to do to be well-prepared. I am 42 years and feel like what I used to do in the old circle of friends is not the right one that I am looking for. I have cut childhood relationships as minimum as possible to release what I feel like it’s not really what I am looking for. I hate to spend time listening to worthless gossips.

[@michaelizzy5148]

Dude. Thank you. I have been wondering what has been going on with me for like two years now. After listening to this I understand way more what my psyche has been going through. Really appreciate this video. This explained everything so perfectly. You even provided the answer as to why I went through this at a younger age (illness in father). Thank you bro.

[@chrishall7915]

Thanks for this. For me, at least part of the problem is the conflict between the feeling of discontent and the knowledge that things could be much, much worse. I keep telling myself I should be grateful for what I have but the truth is it isn't making me happy.

[@OiVinn-eq1ml]

I thiinnkk I’m going through this I’m 32 Anxious what career I want to do for the rest of my life, where I want to move & life, finding the right partner, viewing at what my siblings are doing

[@Krobra91]

I am going through something similar. I find myself also being more introverted because of the pandemic. Its made me want to be around busy bodies, something more active. I am literally looking at larger areas like las vegas, something that has FUN dare i say?

[@OiVinn-eq1ml]

@@Krobra91 I feel you. I didn't know that I have isolated myself from being "in the zone" or "just living my life." It wasn't until I realized that I have missed out on a lot from family. I still see them now but not so much within the last 4 years. Now I feel a gap between my siblings. But I didn't explain my realization & hope they could forgive me. As for your comment, what area you staying at now? Vegas is great! Not sure about the weather though lol

[@Krobra91]

@@OiVinn-eq1ml I live in the Portland Oregon area. My biggest issue is that I feel like somethings missing. I keep looking for it changed jobs, found myself happier found myself more appreciated but at the same time I’m not finding joy in things as easily. It’s hard for me. Enjoy doing like building legos to help me concentrate or practice patience, I find myself wanting to be more authentic and do things I love but realizing I’m just not there. Then the struggling of getting up sometimes and just taking step and step…

[@OiVinn-eq1ml]

@@Krobra91 Bro, I feel the same way! lol - Hold old are you? That's awesome you're in Portland. Thought of moving there. Have you thought about Seattle? Best cities next to you. I think for us, the best thing is keep our minds occupied & staying focused. It's when I get out of the "zone" is where I start to feel the Fomo.

[@PrabhjotSingh-ku5nv]

I think extra merital affairs also part of it.. I think fear of loosing what we had in our life.. Ignites the fear of death

[@isaiahsalinas818]

Thanks for the video! I really needed to hear this. I realized that Im having a midlife crises at only 21 years old.

[@Marios_CG]

Thanks, I'm glad you liked the video! Perhaps more a quarter-life crisis ;) you are very young but yes some elements from a mid-life crisis can occur earlier depending on what expectations you have on yourself/from others. Look after yourself.

[@kevintraynor4508]

I'm 46 and wish I was your age again.

[@deepworker6228]

​@@kevintraynor4508 what would you advice sir to you at your 21 Because I am only 17 and still I am having these issues Can you please advice something to me

[@greeksurferdude]

​@@deepworker6228Find your passion and follow your dreams!

[@GanymedeXD]

What nonsense … midlife crisis! 🤣 The main problem with midlife crisis is you entered midlife … own mortality is inevitable and there is no real time left to make desired changes … with 21 you are not even fully developed … yet … the problem with checking symptoms online … as if you say … yeah you are pregnant as a male as you share symptoms! 🤣

[@abrahammnjama7962]

Am glad I listened to this video.its timely for me. Very clear and relatable.

[@Tovertuin]

The midlife had to do with the uranus opposite, around 42-45 years of age. Need to become a more authentic self. There is an inner reslesness from unresolved issues, mostly emotional.

[@majorspade9629]

I love my job but it won't pay enough to buy a house. At the same time if don't want to waste my time that is reserved for family with a side business work. I am also scared to founding a startup as I need to 100% secure the needs of the family. Struggling with this for about a year now. I'm 35

[@EricSPizarro]

i will be 40 in a few weeks and I have this a couple of months, I think I am now closer to death than birth (assuming average death age today) and think about the world, the past, and death.

[@sasha48189]

I’m 45, and feel like that a lot I’m I don’t even like myself anymore more lost,,

[@melody5684]

Yes I feel like a rat running in that wheel

[@sunflower6434]

😢 😭 I’m going through a midlife crisis…..I’ve thought and questioned all of those things, eg: the meaning of life, my past, my future, money, achievements, passions, illnesses, dead, things I won’t ever get, etc

[@mathiaskanuck6759]

You're not alone bro. I know that doesn't fix it... But plenty of us are going through it

[@tankslapper4686]

I’m 24 and idk wth I’m doing with my life …. I’ve finished my studies … Did engineering and finished MBA.. I just feel like I chose all the wrong options … Now I can’t get a job and don’t have anyone to depend on(which i do not want to) I don’t know if its midlife crisis but it is a crisis for me… Idk what I’m gonna do and really stressed… I haven’t been great on health too … and from where i am its very tough to get part time jobs or small full time jobs where you can actually survive on your own…

[@GanymedeXD]

What nonsense … what midlife? Midlife means you are old … you feel old … your body tells you you are old … you have limited time left … and society prevents you from doing a lot of things … with 24 you are at your physical max as your body just finished full development … if you share symptoms if a pregnant woman you are not pregnant when you are male … like googling symptoms … headache is definitely a brain tumour!

[@jangnara6033]

Thanks. It helps a lot to discover a name of what i'm experiencing in these past years. I thought I'm going extreme.

[@3rz-rhymesreasonsandwritte437]

This video didn't touch on the midlife crisis situation of where a happily married man with adult children change overnight. My son in law suddenly wants a divorce and suddenly their kids lives such as walking a daughter down the aisle and becoming a grandparents for the first time doesn't matter so he claims. All he wants to do is work for 12 month stints at the Antarctica and be with the penguins. It's left a family devastated and this video makes a midlife crisis sound so easy.

[@mjo1337]

Who wouldn't want to work with Penguins tho..

[@dans5662]

I'm not sure if this is what I'm going through. I'm 38 and just kinda feel like my life is spinning around a turd bowl, but not going down the toilet, but not getting out. Like I just kinda maxed out and am going through a cycle of crappy jobs.

[@dr.beckyspelman]

Sorry to here this. Sounds like you are hoping for some positive change, this is definitely possible if you put your mind to it.

[@wilmalay32]

Thank you for this enlightening video.

[@edmondopowell]

what if you``ve done all you wanted to before it and then feel what now. emptyness for example

[@shanehamilton6708]

Holy cow I had know idea this could be happening to me at 57. It’s been going on a couple of years but it’s getting worse. I had my only son at 40 and just that is scary. I was looking at the mountain and figuring out how to climb it now I’m looking at the horizon and I can see the end. I want to change pass decisions but those ships have sailed and the walls are getting closed in. This is a very strange situation I have found myself in and it totally sucks

[@alisaa3999]

I think it starts at age 40. That is the start to mid life crises.

[@latinrapinstrumentals]

There isn't a magical number, a lot of people in their 30s get it as well.

[@sauravmisraz]

I am 40 now, and this midlife crisis suddenly started for me. infact I would have easily get rid off, but there is a catch. I had a massive brain stroke back in 2015, making me paralysed, so its almost the entire day I spend on bed, may be working on computers or going thhrough social media on phone. and suddenly I started feeling irritated all the time, nothing makes me happy, I do not like anything , family members saying I have reduced interacting with them drastically. and due to my condition, I can not even go out and spend some time with friends as well. Its not possible for them to come to my place everytime I feel like, since they have their own priorities as they are not paralysed. how cab I get rid of this mental trap?

[@Nuevaplaza]

I’m at 19 and am feeling this way

[@SilviaRodrigues-d2t]

Im 39 and going thru it... my husband 51 yrs old is quite satisfied and never had this issue. I knew him since i was 18 and he was 30 yrs old... Is this a problem with our generation? Millennials?

[@silent_thoughts95]

I'm 29 an i have 2 big regrets an feel like i have no way in changing them. One is fine but moving away from my family is the other an I feel like I can't fix it, I want to move back an be in their lives daily again but what gives me the right. Now that I choose to be with them again when they wanted it for so long.

[@Sky-Child]

My partner says I am having a midlife crisis. But how can you re-live your youth out drinking and having fun when actually you didn't do that in the first place? I've been an old married lady since I was 18 and I feel like I have missed out on so much

[@tonyarriola4454]

I was wondering if I was going through a mid life crisis or just losing my mind. Hopefully therapy helps me with that

[@timizo691]

My now ex wife of 14 years came down with triple negative breast cancer a few years ago. She was stage 3. She met a friend a few years younger who had the same cancer. Her friend’s cancer became metastasized and she died a few months later. Not long after that she decided to divorce me. I am absolutely destroyed.

[@EETSTHECREATOR]

I’m 29 and feel like I’v ticked off EVERYTHING. I have lived an absolutely crazy life all around the world and now I’m sat here just bored.

[@GanymedeXD]

What nonsense … the core problem … age .. you do not have at that age … when midlife crisis hits … there is not that much time left to make the desired changes … as you are too old … not that much time left … your body tells you … you are not as you as 30 any more … and society sets an age limit to a lot of things … definitely not 29 …

[@V3NOMXIII]

I'm feeling it at 30...

[@GanymedeXD]

Yeah and men are pregnant sharing some symptoms …

[@PrabhjotSingh-ku5nv]

Such a beautiful .... Explanation... Thanks

[@essenenaziriteyirmeyahu851]

Why the labels? Why can't men just be tired of everything and everyone after unrelenting bombardment of wives, children and work.? 😢😢😢

[@sanitary103]

Great point. I am tired man.

[@Lanceallenhall]

Those things make you tired and worn out over a span of decades. Maybe you reached a breaking point in that exhaustion, or maybe you're having a mid-life crisis, which leads you to think about being sick of the things that were always exhausting but fulfilling... until you started to question if it's worth the exhaustion. I don't know enough about your life to say which it is for you. The point is just that many people think about mortality and begin to reevaluate their priorities in that context, around the middle of their life. (Many men are worn the crap out on a very deep level around this same time, but that's a different issue that may or may not happen around the same time and may or may not interact with each other.

[@dcodex520]

Thank you for the insight, this help

[@dosentexiststill6428]

I've recently started to fear death I cant stop thinking about dying and what I'm gonna do with my life I'm still young (13) but I just cant stop fearing not just for me but I'm scared about my family leaving and never seeing again and I'm afraid that if I die or my family dies it will just go blank every thing just disappears no matter how important everything just disappears...

[@jonrixbus]

It is true that everything changes. It can be scary, but at the same time it can be exciting depending how you look at it. It's natural to fear death. It is not really a fear of death though, because death is impossible for us to understand, it's more a fear of the unknown. Fear is not the enemy, fear makes us feel alive.

[@pennylane5432]

We are made up of energy and energy cannot be destroyed only transferred or transformed. We won’t just disappear and become nothing once our bodies die. ❤

[@internallycombusted1]

45-60 isn't midlife unless the life expectancy is 90-120. its more like 35-40 is midlife

[@shanehamilton6708]

That’s not true at all. Coming to terms with your own mortality hits people at different ages. Realizing that time isn’t infinite in terms of life. We all have made decisions that impact the rest of our lives and trust a time is coming when you will dwell on what your life would have been like if you would have made a different decision.

[@SavageSanto]

I’m ONLY 31 and I’m already going through a Midlife crisis… 😢

[@cutehoney14]

I will be turning 30 by the end of this year so maybe what im going through right now is this „midlife crisis“ but im not very sure cause i have been wanting to change several years ago back when corona just started i quit my job in a company where i have been worked for more than 7+ years and it was a Hard time back then to find a job not just because of the pandemic but alltogether i couldnt bring myself to apply for another Job because i do think there is more to Life than just that so overall it took me nearly 6 months before i got another job…but now im back at it again After got fired nearly 4 months ago. I dont even know yet where to go next or what to do next (career Change, moving to another city or do i just have to get my shit together and apply for the Same job i dont even want to do anymore)…😢

[@GanymedeXD]

There is no ‘midlife crisis’ with 30 … men are also not pregnant despite experiencing problems a pregnant woman might encounter … core problem is … own mortality awareness … due to age the desired changes are often unachievable ad you are too old … with 30 you can do whatever you desire to make a change …

[@yabbadabbindude]

Hell I'm 33 and going through a midlife crisis

[@alexlanning712]

I had a mid-life crisis,and the funny thing is,I re-invented myself,and now,twenty years later,I havent been in better shape,"emotionally"!

[@mathiaskanuck6759]

Can I ask how old you were?

[@alexlanning712]

@@mathiaskanuck6759 I am autistic,which was diagnosed wrong,and it all came to a head, between 45yo-55yo,and i didnt get the "right"therapy until 65yo,but the worst period was,as I stated

[@alexlanning712]

Friend,the funny thing is,Mid Life Crises, can be a most, "self-defining period"!

[@joeyzalman8254]

thank you fot this!

[@fudoshin28]

Thank you.

[@alicjaalvena1120]

i seem to have midlife crisis since i hit 20 xD

[@HateLove444]

I’m only 23 and I’ve feel lik I’ve ruined my future over charges I got when I was 15 it’s preventing me from doing all the things I want

[@mathiaskanuck6759]

Bro I'm 35, live it up man. Seriously, you are a BABY, you have the time... Just don't waste it. Don't waste it on Anger, don't be lazy, go out and socialize, get a sales job and stack your money then invest, stay fit and stay in the gym..... And your reward, party. Have fun with as many girls as possible, but keep your classiness... Don't become a f**kboy. Work hard, play hard. Be there for your loved ones, BUT most important... Take care of yourself first, cause no one else can. 👍 You got this buddy, don't waste away your twenties like I did.

[@TheCraftsman-hq1nw]

Pressure makes diamonds.

[@Teerifficgolf]

Rest makes dough rise

[@allardvanderstarre]

i feel i am doing the same thing over and over again, but i cant do much about that, a powerless feeling...i stopped goingtothe gym..... its too costly and i lost my interest

[@pepayplays2035]

I went through my midlife crisis when i was twelve

[@GanymedeXD]

Yeah and a man is pregnant when some symptoms fit!

[@JoshuahMyles]

Im 29 about to be 30 and im having that now. I have 2 kids and dont know who I am. I could write a whole paragraph butnyou get the idea.

[@sharpie3811]

You’re perfect, yes it’s true.

[@ladyannelleva4768]

How do you tell someone who doesn't know they have a midlife crisis?

[@__simply_April__]

I’m not having a mid-life crisis.. I’m just interested in the topic for some reason 🤔🤷🏽‍♀️

[@HolySpirit7771000]

Good job buddy, good video

[@dr.beckyspelman]

Thanks for the visit

[@dr.beckyspelman]

You are very welcome!

[@uklmngubane5661]

Am having this in my early stages_

[@enterusername4650]

I'm gonna be 25 in a few months and I feel obsessed with the past.

[@lorettaelliott4481]

Excellent

[@Zekr0_]

26 and having this.

[@mathiaskanuck6759]

Bro PLEASE.. PLEASE put these feelings on hold, you're young enough to do so. I just turned 35 and wish wish WISH I could be 26 again...... It comes fast man, so live each hour of each day to fullest bro.

[@matisyahup613]

Im 37 and I feel im going through this crisis now. There is this excitement to life in your teens and early 20s, that the future is going to be great. The older you get, the wiser you are, the more you realize that life is not predictable. Many things are out of our control, and I feel that life did not turn out the way I thought it would. This may have to do with the fact that in general I think the world has gone downhill since when I was a teen in the early 2000s, so even a teenager today in 2024 probably is not as happy as I was back in the day. Probably the best thing I can do for myself by now is jog and lift weights, it just makes me feel better and I sleep easier at night afterwards.

[@ciggnature5334]

How am I having a midlife crisis at 25

[@dr.beckyspelman]

Sorry to hear this, quarter life crisis are also very comment as it’s a new stage of your life where often people experience new challenges as a result of interpersonal relationship challenges, career challenges and much more.

[@samyafawz3695]

Great video .. thank you .. I definitely felt it when I went back to dating after being happy and single for 4 years .. I was healing then .. I am 43 now and I think now life is telling me something .. I stay away from distractions as much as I can so I can hear life’s whispers .. I wish everyone a smooth, healthy and happy mid-life call ☎️🤗🤍

[@Barnaclus6]

why am i having this at 26 😭

[@missantrafalgar782]

What if you started thinking about your immortality around the age of 19??

[@greeksurferdude]

Everybody does but it's not in the same sense. At 19 your life is just beginning - seize the day!

[@GanymedeXD]

Mortality … immortality 🤣

[@bobpenney9973]

That's good bc you have plenty of time to do the right thing.

[@1972jjb]

Can all the 37 year olds stop trying to own this, at their not yet midlife, relatively young age?! (Unless you know you're only going to make it to a fairly modest 74?). For the properly affected majority of us, it's like hearing a chorus of people say; 'Yeah I 'only' make £50k/year too..' !

[@Janalyn1212]

It CAN make them dangerous! I believe it has been manifesting...

[@LB00146]

Mine started at 17 which was many years ago! Haha

[@johnathonwhyte2826]

This is not completely correct. He speaks of stereotypical behavior and it is misleading. There is midlife transition and midlife crises and they are completely different. Midlife crisis is unhandled grief of loss. (Identity, loved ones, youth, etc) it depends how much value you put in it. Every person in a mid life crises pushes their spouse away. Why? According to him it is because tou are reevaluating your life. That would be wrong. It feels that way but it is actually a breakdown. When you have to much unhandled stress, you have a nervous breakdown and your nerves are "confused". When you have unhandled grief you have an emotional breakdown and your emotions shut off. The behavior is a symptom of trying to find your emotional 'self'. The emotions will come return after coming to terms with your grief. Why such a broad timeframe in life? That is the age when most emotional trauma occurs (parents passing, children moving out). It is all unhandled grief. It is an emotional breakdown. Do not destroy your life thinking it's your body telling you to change it.

[@TizzyLisch]

This makes a lot of sense to me. Are you a therapist? Because I could use one! Thanks for sharing this.

[@cheryllynn9301]

You hit upon a very valid point, why does the spouse always push away their partner who has been with them for years. Why do they completely change as a person, all their likes, from TV shows to food, to the way they dress to what they like to do, it all changes, like they leave the older version of them behind. I don't see anything good coming out of these changes; only drugs, court dates, legal issues, alienation from family, new friends that are no good, yet they keep going back to them.

[@theemeraldcity94]

This is my current situation. For the past 35 years I have been a mother and a wife. My husband past 8 years ago and my children do not need me anymore. I feel very alone and abandoned. I am telling myself that there’s nothing wrong and that this is just a normal phase of life. I feel as though I have sacrificed my youth only to end up alone. I am looking for a new chapter,but I fear a difficult ending. Religion helps as far as having a purpose goes,but the day to day emotions are sometimes hard to navigate. All that being said, women that are suffering with menopause get an extra pounding.

[@Janalyn1212]

If it's not dealt with it potentially erupts , can implode OR explode! The problem is its NOT clinically diagnosed

[@kelvinlau9019]

I don't want expensive car but I want a fast car. Does it count?

[@rezselecta2580]

I am 52 single, never married and no kids, I am educated successful and quite cool, I DJ! My friends have mostly all gone or deserted me! I have missed the boat on kids and marriage, I really do need to find a girlfriend and am open to single mum! But my god it has become so difficult, I am wondering have women no empathy, compassion or love left?!

[@rezselecta2580]

P.s. I'm not ugly!

[@rezselecta2580]

P.p.s. I am thinking to leave my job and go travelling, I can afford it!

[@pikachuthunderbolt3919]

Everything has its age Why did u feel before that women would be throwing at u at any age becoz u are men lol ? Honestly if u aren't millionaire , then it would be tough

[@rohitthapa8696]

I think it might be not true for the people who come from the poverty line and below the poverty line or maybe 3rd World Countries! because there are so much involved in their life for daily and basic needs this question comes to them because they don't have space to think about this. will also be happy if a midlife crisis can involve these people

[@andrewgoss6486]

Who WOULDN'T want to look young or own expensive cars???? I think NOT wanting to be young would be a sign of crisis.

[@gregorycarnielutube]

The age setting needs to be considered when having a pandemic where we lost so many people.

[@hawadrammeh8870]

I’m 21 and having a midlife crisis 😂😂😂

[@annekanyi]

💯

[@JamieLi-c6s]

"Midway upon the journey of our life I found myself within a forest dark, For the straightforward pathway had been lost." ---Dante Alighieri

[@emmalouie1663]

This is making me feel worse. Talking about death is probably not going to help my mental wellness at the moment.

[@douglaconti7113]

Yup

[@fouraztecas6342]

I did all the illegal subtances i never had the chance to do. My friends were very young adults. I became vegan.

[@someblackguy100]

I'm 30 thinking That way now 😂

[@janheathen4508]

If you're ever experiencing a midlife crisis I suggest you try to become a drug lord, worked well for Walter White

[@cafeconlechegrl]

Please do one for the people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder? 🤣😂I feel like it’s worse for them…And I don’t feel sorry for those people because their very Evil

[@brandontr8946]

gosh i'm 32 and i'm here.

[@mathiaskanuck6759]

35... Me too.

[@dumpsterfire6351]

Mid life crisis ….or can I just afford cooler things now?

[@Eleinalove7]

I am before my age as usual.

[@davidtucker3538]

47 and i bought a sports car 😄

[@cathygibson5157]

I almost went and got tattoos

[@jape_ph3839]

Shii ive been experiencing everything you said im only 25 years olds i feel like i might die soon 😆