Problematic People

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sWooZie

sWooZie

Жыл бұрын

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@SoniasWay
@SoniasWay Жыл бұрын
I can relate so much. I wish I had people around me who want to talk about solutions rather than complaining and blaming
@HiEv001
@HiEv001 Жыл бұрын
So, what can we do to solve this problem? 😉
@yaska7399
@yaska7399 Жыл бұрын
@DONT READ MY PROFILE PICTURE did this bot just become self-aware
@abhaysinghchauhan4521
@abhaysinghchauhan4521 Жыл бұрын
Sooooo true
@Im_alivexx
@Im_alivexx Жыл бұрын
For real
@shypeoplearehawt8155
@shypeoplearehawt8155 Жыл бұрын
To Miss Sonia's Way. Same here those are the type of people that I want to share my life with regardless of our relationship status as friends family or anything else. Cuz that's so refreshing to talk to a logical very reasonable person instead. Of anyone that's hostile & violent as their first answer
@swoozie
@swoozie Жыл бұрын
Always gonna encourage being the best friend you can possibly be BUT just a reminder that there are some who will take advantage of that
@anotherperson9329
@anotherperson9329 Жыл бұрын
Swoozie the philosopher
@MeMarcusTheCreator
@MeMarcusTheCreator Жыл бұрын
💚
@unblindmymind4737
@unblindmymind4737 Жыл бұрын
Your right. I feel the same way man.
@abdrizakmohamud5305
@abdrizakmohamud5305 Жыл бұрын
ok
@dancingsun2
@dancingsun2 Жыл бұрын
yep
@Audacity567
@Audacity567 Жыл бұрын
my favorite part about Swoozie is that he still dresses like he's in 2010
@amyya9377
@amyya9377 Жыл бұрын
Yet somehow still looks good
@zkwldn7674
@zkwldn7674 Жыл бұрын
fr 😂😂
@feelincrispy7053
@feelincrispy7053 Жыл бұрын
He was a loser growing up for a reason, he became cool with KZbin ect then learnt a style that worked and then never changed it because frankly he doesn’t know how to. Cool people set trends and Swooz ain’t cool. Still a nice guy though. And you don’t have to be cool to be a good person
@DeltaOfNothing
@DeltaOfNothing Жыл бұрын
@@feelincrispy7053not how that works but alright mate
@feelincrispy7053
@feelincrispy7053 Жыл бұрын
@@DeltaOfNothing it’s definitely how it works
@bethh.8840
@bethh.8840 Жыл бұрын
"Everyone wants to be the victim, but nobody wants to be the villian." - swoozie
@appa_w8482
@appa_w8482 Жыл бұрын
I want to be the villain
@raphaeltembo7040
@raphaeltembo7040 Жыл бұрын
@@appa_w8482 @fbi here he is
@Wandervenn
@Wandervenn Жыл бұрын
My therapist asked me yesterday, "Would you say your friends are sensitive?" And I immediately answered yes. Then she clarified, "Sensitive meaning they are sensitive towards your feelings?" And I was like... "Oh... no. Not at all. I am that for them fir most of them."
@annad.4040
@annad.4040 Жыл бұрын
Ooof got me in the feels with this one!
@fred2995
@fred2995 Жыл бұрын
Lmao this is so accurate and timely, just had a convo yesterday with a good friend of mine about how I couldn’t deal with her problematic tendencies anymore and I wake up to an essay’s worth of angry texts from her🚶🏾‍♂️
@Baggieeeee
@Baggieeeee Жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for you my dude that must've been mad surprising to see all of that what even happened 😂
@fred2995
@fred2995 Жыл бұрын
@@Baggieeeee I can’t get into it too much cause yk personal business but basically would come to me for help, but wouldn’t even listen to my advice even though she would admit I’m right every time. Then when I had an issue she half the time wouldn’t help me unless I pleaded with her, knowing that I’d help her out on the spot. And just unhealthy tendencies she had that put her in bad spots. she would never alter her tendencies tho so it’s like a circle
@bubblejuice6544
@bubblejuice6544 Жыл бұрын
i had this one friend in 3rd grade. was also asian but from japan, we were best friends until the next year in 4th grade. He started becoming popular and just being a huge a hole to me when i did nothing to him. he would always say that were friends but i never felt that way about him again. gave him 8 chances and he back stabbed me 8 times until one day i had enough and i just confronted him on discord. said what i needed to say and just muted and blocked him. im going to high school in a couple of days so im happy i wont have to be near him again and could make new friends there.
@Im_alivexx
@Im_alivexx Жыл бұрын
Same here with my online friend I just gave up on talking to her since I realized that I would start mess and I just gave up on trying to stay her friend
@veluxed
@veluxed Жыл бұрын
thats not a "good" friend of urs then
@mtskore
@mtskore Жыл бұрын
Another day, no swoozie...I miss him
@ashfiresunpowernado9419
@ashfiresunpowernado9419 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@cookiecaticat
@cookiecaticat Жыл бұрын
Most of the time, friends usually just need someone to listen when they talk about their problems. Don't automatically assume they need advice. Also, it's 100% harder when you're in the situation yourself so ofc advices would be easier said than done. It's a little frustrating to see my friends staying in toxic situations even after they've talked about it a million times but I choose to be patient and understanding. But if being the therapist friend is draining for you it's completely fine to set boundaries.
@AllyGatorAnimator
@AllyGatorAnimator Жыл бұрын
Was thinking the same thing. My healthiest relationships have come from establishing if the other person wants advice or just a listening ear so we can approach a situation openly, but also have that strong sense of boundaries and balance. I am always happy to provide a listening ear for someone or help them out, but I know they'd also do it for me should I ever need it.
@mcmaschio
@mcmaschio Жыл бұрын
I used to be entertained by swoozie a couple of years back but now im not only entertained but inspired and learn so much about storytelling now that i have a channel … Thank You Swoozie ❤️🔥💯
@swoozie
@swoozie Жыл бұрын
Bro. Comments like this are rocket fuel for me. Thank you for your time and your encouragement
@skillsdoesbasketball6939
@skillsdoesbasketball6939 Жыл бұрын
@@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521 bro who are you
@vergilmontiero2558
@vergilmontiero2558 Жыл бұрын
@@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521 I'm a bit confused
@imraansesay6617
@imraansesay6617 Жыл бұрын
@@swoozie lowkey Swoozie is like every wise sage in any movie combined 😀😀I love you bro keep on being you
@geuxmer2355
@geuxmer2355 Жыл бұрын
He had us in the first half not gonna lie
@kaibrady4469
@kaibrady4469 Жыл бұрын
these videos are always PERFECTLY timed. thank you swoozie 🙏
@amani5609
@amani5609 Жыл бұрын
One thing I like about myself is when I'm telling my friends my issues n asking for advice, I'll admit to them what may have come off wrong or what I may have done wrong in a situation
@ThatsNotGaming
@ThatsNotGaming Жыл бұрын
Funny enough, psychologically we are wired to like a person better that asks us for help. Regardless of what they do in return for us. And every single person is that way for some reason. We feel closer to them as a result. Maybe its because to ask for help subconsciously signals that a person is showing humility or vulnerability by asking for help in the first place. So not actually a bad thing to ask for help, in fact it only helps you. That being said, if some toxic trait really bothers you about a friend, I'd say just talk to them about it. Often times they will do things subconsciously or as a force of habit without even thinking about it. Doesn't mean that they have bad intentions necessarily. If it's causing you grief, don't bottle it up because that will just cause you to hold things against them or feel negatively towards them in some way. Just have an honest face to face conversation with them about it. Point is just communicate with your friend, they don't know what's going on inside your mind either and they can't change their behavior if they're not aware of a problem. Don't be the friend that just bottles things up or fails to communicate because that makes you the shitty friend as well.
@LafemeNikitta
@LafemeNikitta Жыл бұрын
Self reflection is key. No lies detected. Love ya and thank you Swoozie 💕
@CrazyButNice93
@CrazyButNice93 Жыл бұрын
Damn the timing of this video is ON POINT. Just two days ago one of my friends decided not to be friends anymore with one of our mutual friends even tho they were like besties, because the drama got too much. Honestly can't even blame them, they do be right.
@Geneo-en5km
@Geneo-en5km Жыл бұрын
Love this video.. I've learned that when I kept friends like this and was around all that negativity that over time I started picking up on the character traits of them people . You start to become what you put yourself into. Have a great day
@kittychesh
@kittychesh Жыл бұрын
I honestly needed to hear this Swooz. Thank you so much for this video; it gives me reassurance that I’m not the only one feeling that my close friend had become somewhat problematic.
@lebonzorjames9499
@lebonzorjames9499 Жыл бұрын
SwooZie has been through it all and shares his knowledge to his students. Truly, a top tier teacher of the game
@Pixelynx
@Pixelynx Жыл бұрын
This whole video killed me. I literally was JUST having this conversation with someone with me ignoring the red flags of someone with this tendency just a couple days ago, and I myself finally watched Jujutsu Kaisen like 2 months ago. 😭
@junglekxngtalkswrestling
@junglekxngtalkswrestling Жыл бұрын
Favourite character on JJK?? Mine are Gojo and Itadori...well, Sukuna too😅🔥
@katchkartoons
@katchkartoons Жыл бұрын
@@junglekxngtalkswrestling Gojo and Fushiguro for me.
@junglekxngtalkswrestling
@junglekxngtalkswrestling Жыл бұрын
@@katchkartoons 🤘🏾🔥niice
@asmrreading4330
@asmrreading4330 Жыл бұрын
No, you’re completely right I had a friend Mac she was like this every single time we hung out. It was her complaining about her family, and how she couldn’t do anything because she made a promise to dead people to keep living life like this, even though she’s soooooo miserable, and has no way to change it, even though she really did it was just too much work. So glad she’s out of my life. I am happy.
@Ceres_24
@Ceres_24 Жыл бұрын
Listening to Swoozie's storytelling and advice maybe makes me realize that we need people like him to support for a friend in need, thank you, Swoozie for being a true and real "you" to show us what a support friend needs for those people who have big problems in life to guide and support them in a right way! 🙏🙂❤️
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 Жыл бұрын
this is a good lesson to talk about, swoozie :P its best to cut off the toxic.
@swoozie
@swoozie Жыл бұрын
That line about being codependent was a future reminder for me to me
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 Жыл бұрын
@@swoozie heard that ^_^
@justalpha9138
@justalpha9138 Жыл бұрын
To answer the question of the video thumbnail: some of us are good at giving others second chances, and some of us also give people the benefit of the doubt FAR too often. It's the reason why I don't really have a lot of friends, but the friends I do have always have my back.
@Myb077
@Myb077 Жыл бұрын
Honestly when I shifted my position from the center of the circle to a background guy, it changed my whole perspective of the people i was hanging out with. Never knew i had so many toxic people around me that i called my “best friends”. I learned that i was always ready to help but nobody was ready to do the same for me, being alone has helped me realize that only you can help yourself in this world, people may come for a moment or a little while in your life but that doesn’t mean they’re permanent. You get to learn what the nature of the other person you’re interacting with in just a glance and with that you can find real real people who can do the same for you what you did for them. Distancing myself from toxic people is the best thing I did in my life although I’m still to find someone to trust n rely on i still find being better off alone rather than being in the worst company.
@senpieloven
@senpieloven Жыл бұрын
Swoozies advice is worth its weight in gold. Great role model. Im always happy to see him on my feed cause no matter what its a must watch
@dreamydoc
@dreamydoc Жыл бұрын
I didn't have a lot of friends growing up either, in my late teens early 20s I started making friends and was easier as I grew up. However I also had the same problem where I attracted either takers, or codependent people or ones that just didn't have my best interests and kept me around because I was useful. Thankfully I dropped so many "friends" in my latter 20s and things are much clearer in my 30s. You can smell the bullshit a mile away at this age lol, that's why I love my 30s.
@royalbandit8106
@royalbandit8106 Жыл бұрын
I can understand Swoozie's frustration, but, when people come to you with their problems it is seen (from a psychologist perspective) As them seeking emotional support rather than practical salutation. He's right that it's not fair to be the "therapist friend", basically, but I just want to point out that (depending on the person) it does come from good intentions and (I'm sure Swoozie's done this) a way to that can help them realise what they're doing is to tell them what those constraints negative conversations are doing to you. Hopefully that helps 🙌 IDKU
@Leshenn
@Leshenn Жыл бұрын
Psychologist here too! Yeah, usually you can't go wrong with listening, but advice giving/problem solving can hurt a friendship if it's not done tactfully. Either way, people tend to feel best when they're heard, and listening is almost the best way to support someone. At the same time, friends are not all endless pots of empathy, and we can get taken advantage of or grow resentful if used as therapists if they are not. IMO that's when an honest conversation needs to happen. Usually, in my friendships it might start with the "what kind of help do you need right now" followed by "here is what I am willing to give" or "I've been here a lot for you lately. Real talk time/Here is my line in where the listening might change to something else to preserve my sanity". It's fair for friends to want to be heard. But if they are telling you the same story 100 times or not respecting you outside of your role as a friend therapist, not great. It's possible to have conversations that are empathic towards what the friend wants while advocating for our own boundaries. And often times people who find boundaries to be disrespectful are the exact type who won't treat you with respect if you stop serving a role for them. Honestly, one thing I like to do is to do with a friend who I suspect could be using me is this: When they ask for my immediate support over something that isn't a crisis, I give a soft boundary. For example, if they text me at work or right before dinner needing support about something, I'll ask them if I can get back to them after I get done with the thing I need to do for myself. All my really boundary supporting friends say "of course!" and we will get to talking about them during a time that isn't intrusive to my routine. Not as good friends have historically saw it as selfish and push back. They've also been the same people to over-rely, externalize the responsibility of their mental wellbeing on others, and not see a reciprocal friendship as important. Also, as a disclaimer, I don't really pull that move just to test people. But the situation is likely to come up in regular life, so I use it to test the waters if I'm not sure how to feel about a friend's reliance on my support. This last chunk is definitely more from experience and opinion, but I find it a relevant example of a first-step to establishing respectful boundaries.
@drewvehmeier5658
@drewvehmeier5658 Жыл бұрын
@@Leshenn I have enjoyed listening to your TedTalk! Genuinely, this was great to read. I don't really have friends like this but it's definitely a topic that I want to discuss with my one-and-only best friend. If anything I want them to reflect on me, by external conversations, if I tend to do it.
@ThBMc
@ThBMc Жыл бұрын
I told this person to stop bringing up negative subjects and conversations but they won’t stop, what do I do
@Karma_return777
@Karma_return777 Жыл бұрын
@@ThBMc reinforce the boundary by walking away, hanging up the phone, or reminding them of that boundary and redirecting the conversation back to something else. If that doesn’t work and you find yourself exhausted with trying to do that, I would suggest taking a break from the person or cutting them off completely.
@krimmuxd7384
@krimmuxd7384 Жыл бұрын
Thanks swoozie for your videos
@cablewaffel7957
@cablewaffel7957 Жыл бұрын
I've definitely been on both sides of this. Sometimes I complain about the same problem, then deal with it terribly, and other times I'm listening to someone tell the same story for the fiftieth time, and I'm comming up with fifty different ways they could solve their issue. We all can be both people, just remember that the people you complain about probably share more in common with you than you think.
@dancingsun2
@dancingsun2 Жыл бұрын
Hearing about drama from a friend that has to do with a mutual friend is the worst. It feels like you have to take sides but i just listen and try to understand their feelings, and then personally take into consideration how the mutual friend may be feeling and not get involved.
@Mrs.Short92
@Mrs.Short92 Жыл бұрын
I got tired of friends doing that. I had one certain friend that became an askhole and before I knew it, she made it like i was the problem. When I cut her off, people started seeing who the problem really was. Now I'm getting apologies left and right
@HexIsme
@HexIsme Жыл бұрын
That's the "nice" thing about toxic shitheads, they usually win the short term but they sabotage themselves and others too much to withstand the test of time. Snakes always end up eating themselves when they run out of targets. The sad thing is just how many people they usually get to fall for their nonsense before said people wise up, and not all of those people can swallow their pride enough to admit they bet on the worst pony in the race, re-examine their actions and apologize to who they were manipulated against.
@vergilmontiero2558
@vergilmontiero2558 Жыл бұрын
I've gotta know, was askhole intentional? If so idk that's kinda clever.
@Mrs.Short92
@Mrs.Short92 Жыл бұрын
@@vergilmontiero2558 the way she was doing it, she'll ask for advice or opinions. Once you give it, she wouldnt take it, but would lie saying that she took our advice and whatever her situation was, it got worse. Then she'll ask for advice or opinion again. Next thing you know, she started telling everyone how horrible of a person you are.
@ItsHiipr
@ItsHiipr Жыл бұрын
Right. I love this video especially the part about self reflection and seeing yourself whole- even the toxic parts
@jazz19990
@jazz19990 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, I relayed so hard and it made so much more clarity for me.
@jojowilliams8965
@jojowilliams8965 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate Swoozie for a lot of his friendship videos. His influencer lifestyle isn't super relatable when it comes to gf/bf relationships, but usually he's on point with these videos.
@jayofficialcodm8015
@jayofficialcodm8015 Жыл бұрын
I swear every time I see a notification from Swoozie my face always lights up with a smile😂❤
@angelinasengsouvanh8979
@angelinasengsouvanh8979 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching swoozie for ages and have taken all the advice he has said in his videos and it fr has made me such a big hearted loving person that people like, and a bonus is I like them too!!
@matthewhhawk17
@matthewhhawk17 Жыл бұрын
I've actually been thinking about my circle of friends lately and wondered if they have my best intentions in mind. I think your video game me some good insight on that. Thanks for another banger Swooze! Keep them up!👏👏
@bad.luck.
@bad.luck. Жыл бұрын
this is perfect timing
@taintedlogicng6985
@taintedlogicng6985 Жыл бұрын
I had a friend like that in middle school. Loved drama, even (especially?) when he had to invent it himself. Could be so funny and chaotic, but also make me feel really angry and sad at times. Luckily, he went to a vocational school after 8th grade.
@kareemdalil3468
@kareemdalil3468 Жыл бұрын
Swoozie's life XP is over 9000, I've been a fan for 8 years and some of the life lessons you've given I've applied to my own life plus you were a big reason why I decided to university and get an illustration degree
@ladySandra
@ladySandra Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. So true! ❤
@kimi8833
@kimi8833 Жыл бұрын
Just remember everyone, all relationships are about giving and taking. If you have a perfect balance where both people are giving and taking equally, then that's usually a good relationship. If one person is giving or taking more than the other, then something's gotta change.
@TyToClean24
@TyToClean24 Жыл бұрын
You know it's going to be a great day when swoozie posted
@christopherrose9507
@christopherrose9507 Жыл бұрын
You talk about the real shit nobody else acknowledges this is why I love your channel swoozie
@vergilmontiero2558
@vergilmontiero2558 Жыл бұрын
1:05 -1:13, I've been saying that recently I'm glad I'm not the only one who notices that. Always more than one side to a story. Thank you Swoozie!
@erisunflower
@erisunflower Жыл бұрын
I feel this way too hard... It’s why I tend to sit back and think, “I gotta do better/be better this and that” and just wanting to be a kind/good friend or even relative all around. I do self-reflect and think maybe it’s me that’s attracting all these problematic people into my life and I gotta, as I have mentioned before do better because I used to be that person who would talk about my problems but then snapped out of it and would rather focus on solutions and not complain ((or just suck it up because it’s life lol)). Then again, I do have one friend I hang out with and unfortunately is the type to complain, talk smack etc etc and as much as I feel bad, I wanna keep my distance even though I do keep in mind that she is a human being by the end of the day but only she can help herself, really. Lastly, it’s not always just friends/co-workers that act this way, it can also sadly be family in which I embarrassingly admit happens a lot in my own fam. I remind myself NOT to be like them and to just keep doing better and so on. 😅
@gigikenneth
@gigikenneth Жыл бұрын
Where is Swoozie? 🥹
@adonis3085
@adonis3085 Жыл бұрын
Wow this video could’ve come at a better time, literally had to cut ties with someone who I called a best friend a few weeks ago. This friend was always gossiping and complaining about her friends and co-workers on a daily basis to me and it was so emotionally draining and took its toll on my mental health. Loved the video sWooZie 👍🏽
@NxGenFPS
@NxGenFPS Жыл бұрын
You really drop videos at perfect times that help me with the situations im dealing with forreal
@marquavisbrown1718
@marquavisbrown1718 Жыл бұрын
When Is swoozie coming back?!? I miss listening to him talk about problems everybody has or at least had once! Come back swoozie! Please?! KZbin misses you
@boobski0399
@boobski0399 Жыл бұрын
bros almost 50 give him a break 😭
@marquavisbrown1718
@marquavisbrown1718 Жыл бұрын
@@boobski0399 I know he almost 50 I'm just acknowledging that swoozie is one of my favorite KZbinrs and saying what everyone's thinking we all miss him
@darwinmiguel6824
@darwinmiguel6824 Жыл бұрын
I haven’t seen swoozie in a cool minute ! love the animations and the stories they’re so 🤌🏽
@NicecutGexe
@NicecutGexe Жыл бұрын
Y'know, watching this, I think Swoozie makes a really good roll model, hearing the way he talks of caring circles and also mentioning to care for your circle is a nice just slice of life reminder of morals and ethics and general empathy which I think is quite admirable.
@aidenardiel1226
@aidenardiel1226 Жыл бұрын
You are genuinely a damn genius. Can't tell you how many times your advice has helped me LOVE YOU SWOOZIE
@JDSol
@JDSol Жыл бұрын
Swoozie man I have to say that I love your videos. I've been watching since 2018 when I was in Middle School. Now I'm a junior and truly love your videos man keep it up!
@zofus101
@zofus101 Жыл бұрын
Always a good day when swoozie post
@Smashologist
@Smashologist Жыл бұрын
Bro, I've been watching you for over a decade now. So much of your advice has helped me navigate dealing with people, friends, and most of all, myself, throughout my early 20's and now late 20's. I had a friend who fit the Anakin analogy to a T. They were fun and we got along and at the same time, almost every time we talked it was them blaming/complaining, so much so that, they'd supersede an ongoing convo just to complain about an unrelated inconvenience that happened to them. For a while I would listen and hear them out noticing they want to vent and overtime I realized I was partially enabling that behavior. I was transitioning myself to be a therapist and not sticking to my original job as a friend. I explained to them how that behavior was affecting the friendship and me, they didn't like that. After much back and forth, I stepped away. Sometimes it's okay to be by yourself or have less friends instead of keeping bad company. Your vids helped a lot realizing things like that and I appreciate it 🙏🏾
@candicenethand.family9825
@candicenethand.family9825 Жыл бұрын
I just love sWoozies words they encourage me he makes me realize what like I've done wrong and then I'll say sorry to my friends and I realize what I did swoozies words encourage me so much thank you swoozie
@Ravencycle21
@Ravencycle21 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for always making me day
@dizziy9801
@dizziy9801 Жыл бұрын
People with problems attract problematic people. 😔
@isabelrodriguez5588
@isabelrodriguez5588 Жыл бұрын
Swoozie I love you so much bro, like you posted this video like not even 2 days after I dumped off a toxic friendship I've been in for a while now and this video made me feel a bit better knowing that I'm.not the only one that thinks those traits are wrong. Love you
@elijahpotter1350
@elijahpotter1350 Жыл бұрын
I relate so much thanks for the awesome advice swoozie 😄
@evanwilliams2802
@evanwilliams2802 Жыл бұрын
I listen too swoozie when I play video games because his voice helps me concentrate
@evanwilliams2802
@evanwilliams2802 Жыл бұрын
@Llify I do not know
@Lando_-tr3es
@Lando_-tr3es Жыл бұрын
Damn back to this upload schedule
@gracieherisse3828
@gracieherisse3828 Жыл бұрын
SWooZie I rewatched almost all of your videos three days ago. And then I was gifted with this. you just made my entire week!
@yahzed
@yahzed Жыл бұрын
It can be tough sometimes keeping good people in your circle, but I always try to remain mindful of people and I'm pretty good at weeding out those who don't share the same interest.. nice video though, Swoozie! 💯💯👌🏾
@epicgamer7414
@epicgamer7414 Жыл бұрын
Swoozies outfits are 100/10
@logwana7235
@logwana7235 Жыл бұрын
But with my friends the reason why I don’t wanna stop being friends with one of them is that they have so much personal stuff and information that I’m scared he might be going around showing and telling everyone stuff
@KuroShiiiro
@KuroShiiiro Жыл бұрын
reflection is so vital. every day i self evaluate to keep myself in check & even then thats not fullproof at all
@jessicaingram5407
@jessicaingram5407 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom swoozie! ❤️
@unblindmymind4737
@unblindmymind4737 Жыл бұрын
Swoozie my dude. I've been waiting for another one.🙂🙂🙂
@RaeDSJ8512
@RaeDSJ8512 Жыл бұрын
No, I’m WEAK, because you said “Think of your problematic friend” and I immediately thought about the friend that be talking shit about everybody (and then be having me in some shit because of it) and then you said “you know, the friend that always talks about their problems” 😂💀 I was like…oop. Wrong definition lmaooo
@shaysaysheyy24
@shaysaysheyy24 Жыл бұрын
swoozie I’ve been watching you since 2009 and your videos have always hit, my entire family sits down and watches your videos together, keep up the great work and storytelling! Love you 🥺
@leilaniberardi844
@leilaniberardi844 Жыл бұрын
Really just struck me. I’m going though this with friends now. Just put more into perspective for me. Thank you 🙏
@dbzgirl18
@dbzgirl18 Жыл бұрын
I had a best friend since the 4th grade that I eventually had to stop being friends with after highschool. I stayed in that friendship 3 years longer than I'd wanted to because I felt like I owed it to the friendship of not just giving it up because this was someone that felt like family to me (chosen family) but it eventually got to be way too much and they were more using me for when they wanted to do stuff by that point and just man did it suck but feel way better once it was over. I still have dreams and want to reach out from time to time and I'm almost sure they probably got better over time and maybe we could be friends again but I'm honestly too scared to try, especially if it means going through that again.
@warrenwhites1027
@warrenwhites1027 9 ай бұрын
Dang! Thanks for sharing
@JojoWalker-fv1xm
@JojoWalker-fv1xm Жыл бұрын
Fun fact: You’re less likely to have children if ur biological parents didn’t have any
@desirosethorne4429
@desirosethorne4429 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the brainfart
@Rikkaluvsu
@Rikkaluvsu Жыл бұрын
I always love your damn videos swoozie. All yo videos just hit and i always watch them and after i finish its like "damn thats mad relatable"
@lalaaaaa9070
@lalaaaaa9070 Жыл бұрын
this was a really good video swoozie . so many valid points
@bigajalward5375
@bigajalward5375 Жыл бұрын
Ay man where the hell you at man we miss your videos man c’mon dawg
@Slizezoko
@Slizezoko Жыл бұрын
were you at swooz?
@XxACE-OFSPADEZxX
@XxACE-OFSPADEZxX Жыл бұрын
🤓Where”
@priscillajimenez2910
@priscillajimenez2910 Жыл бұрын
I understand, I used to have a problematic friend and had to cut her out of my life. People will be people but watch out for those who cares and those who don't. Lots of love ❤️ your videos are awesome ❤️❤️
@Sitharos
@Sitharos Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Telling people who they can and cannot hang out with is a deal breaker for me.
@HexIsme
@HexIsme Жыл бұрын
Yeahhhhh ain't nobody got time for high school drama bullshit. Be an adult, talk with the people who upset you. Give them the same benefit of the doubt that you give yourself instead of jumping to conclusions like "Well they're just a terrible person". Work shit out, use your words, not your fists, not the rumor mill, don't use people as your emotional dumping grounds. And as Swoozie said, TAKE TIME TO REFLECT ON YOUR OWN FAULTS and incorporate the possibility that YOU are contributing to the problem at hand. Is it fun? No. Does it feel great? No. But it's 110% worth it to have functional, healthy relationships that last for years.
@The-Stans
@The-Stans Жыл бұрын
what are yourrrrr toxic traits?? "i fall in love to easily" ANYWAYS how many garden gnomes do you think you could fit in a tuba.
@Cratebox245
@Cratebox245 Жыл бұрын
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@The-Stans
@The-Stans Жыл бұрын
@@Cratebox245 what if they were blue
@racquieblack1217
@racquieblack1217 Жыл бұрын
JJK GREAT anime. It just keeps getting better. I hope you’re loving it 😊 also very relatable video. I went from big friend group to close knit lifestyle. Toxic friends were stressing me out way too much and it wasn’t worth it.
@billycomia2562
@billycomia2562 Жыл бұрын
Story of my life, couldnt have summed it up any better swooz!!
@carlosherrera343
@carlosherrera343 Жыл бұрын
Yo swoozie I missed you post more
@YT-CesarB
@YT-CesarB Жыл бұрын
R.I.P this channel 💀
@MarziPanic
@MarziPanic Жыл бұрын
I find it so funny that this video popped up as I'm going through a reflective period after said topic. This is the second big break when it comes to me leaving a friendship like this. And both times it was the tried and true "everybody wants to be the victim and NOBODY wants to be the villain" mentality. So with each time I go through this type of deal, I make sure I'm not talking garbage when I talk to others about it. I make sure to remember to include what I did because I don't want to paint the other side in the bad light because I know it's a two way street. Basically, I keep it to facts I remember from what I can gather on both sides. Remembering that as long as you're able to realize that you can be the villain, you're more likely to catch yourself faster and have a better approach to things even when things are flushing down the pooper.
@josephndungu4019
@josephndungu4019 Жыл бұрын
Just can't get enough of this😂😂😂💙💙💙, I just wish you could be posting every hour man
@CreateYourWorth
@CreateYourWorth Жыл бұрын
great 👍
@jr6959
@jr6959 Жыл бұрын
Bro it just came out lmao
@josephinepeng
@josephinepeng Жыл бұрын
@@jr6959 WE'RE THE FIRSTS!
@Dxniell89722
@Dxniell89722 Жыл бұрын
You are first
@clickbaitanimated2500
@clickbaitanimated2500 Жыл бұрын
I had toxic friends, one litteraly would try to steal money. Fr, i stoped being friends with him when he got paid by my bully to beat me up. He didnt because he was a pussy, but after that I fr stoped being friends with him.
@clickbaitanimated2500
@clickbaitanimated2500 Жыл бұрын
@llify3316 Btw i beated his ass twice after that. Now when i look at him, he stares me back with the face of fear.
@Afterimage909
@Afterimage909 Жыл бұрын
just recently found you and you were spot on about having a big heart and sensitive 😭😭😂
@luismontero1271
@luismontero1271 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the vid swoozie really needed to hear this 🙏 also yes jjk is great
@EvanMan27
@EvanMan27 Жыл бұрын
Bor swoos where did u go
@ultranovva
@ultranovva Жыл бұрын
These videos are just truly the prefect mix of entertaining and informative, thanks a lot for the great content.
@leahquartey1128
@leahquartey1128 Жыл бұрын
Feeling really stressed and was thinking I need a swoozie video right now Came just in time 🙏🏽
@Baldbeautifulmyrandaj
@Baldbeautifulmyrandaj Жыл бұрын
Always handing out good advice been watching you’re videos for years keep up the good work!
@annay.8511
@annay.8511 Жыл бұрын
I love your shirt!!! I saw Boomslank at an anime con in NC back in 2014, dude has some wicked stuff! Love your videos ♥️
@MysticParks
@MysticParks Жыл бұрын
I'm sick of drama & people's problems not being able to let past .. be in the past
@Cjcb09
@Cjcb09 Жыл бұрын
CanNOT get enough of your videos swoozie, they’re entertaining and you can learn from them.
@NobodyNaboru
@NobodyNaboru Жыл бұрын
Great advice, Swoozie, great points to be made. Can't relate though. I cut everybody out of my life except my mother and my husbando and my gosh I have never been so at peace. The world is raging around me but I am content.
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