Producer of Show Overwhelmed By The Toxic Behaviors of Cast

Carlos King becomes overwhelmed by emotions as he discusses the toxic behaviors of "problem" cast on the show.
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[@Deputydawne]

As Melody’s manager, I must say this is an eye opening review! It certainly gives pause to many things. The viewers have no idea of the torment that Melody has to press through on many a day for the last two years. I do want to say that insofar as “her career,” Martel is the one who pushed her career and sold Melody to me as a star talent with potential to kill the game so her career was really no big deal to Martel. He may feel a certain way that he’s no longer able to take part in the success of her career or cheerlead her on, and it’s unfortunate bc I believe Martel wanted and still wants the best for his ex wife’s career. He knows she’s a wonderful mother to their amazing kids. I was happy to see Martel at the Christmas show for the kids and he came and sat with us and he was in good spirits (as he should be bc I’ll pull my belt out of my purse lol). They did share their dreams and visions with each other for years as a power couple. Im sure Melody wants his mental health in tact and wants him to be successful as well. Melody goes hard on any project or endeavor she decides to take on, singing, acting, skincare line, modeling, real estate, Love and Marriage Huntsville, clothing line, and wait until see what our 30 member team has lined up next! I say this to say any strong, single woman has to have a backup plan for all backup plans to win for herself and her children. Many of you may not know that Melody takes care of alot of others in many ways while she’s on her journey. To whom much is given, much is required so I cannot let anyone from the cast blame my client for not getting their whole life together as God rains on the just and the unjust. True success requires a certain act of unselfishness! I usually do not get so heavily involved but I’ve got time today and will be making time going forth. I’m unnerved of the untruths being told about our beloved client. Melody is a baby next to some of these people over forty! The viewers have not had the opportunity to see Melody’s growth as a woman on the show because of the few who have not grown up yet! I pray they the understand the assignment very soon bc we’re not here to play about Melody and out 2023 calendar is epic. God is protecting her and will continue to exalt his favored! We are believers and that’s how we will continue to make great strides for Melody. We don’t play about her and God doesn’t either 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. I thank all the Melometers for their support!

[@queenshibadarling]

Wow!!! Thank you for pulling up to the palace and sharing your heartfelt thoughts regarding your experience of the unfortunate situations behind the scenes. As always, we will remain united not only on the behalf of Melody our fellow sister in Christ, but united in our demand for black excellence. Thank you Dawn

[@cherylbrown6976]

All of that part yesssssssssssssssssss lord thank God 😊 🙏 🙌 ❤️

[@suetannenbaum2949]

Nice piece, I don't know Melody & never met her until LAMH on tv. She seems to be a very nice & thoughtful person. I'm wishing her GREAT SUCCESS THROUGH OUT HER CAREER!! May GOD be with her 🙏🙏🙏

[@vickiewashington5334]

Blessings for Me and her children 🙏🏽

[@jenspoetryden]

Thank you for chiming in Dawn Beverly. Noted.

[@jeanturner9792]

Their body language tells the story! Destiny actions toward Mel is like a jealous lover.

[@letitiahudson4112]

Yes and it's Really Scary 😨

[@qusan]

Destiny displays many of the traits of the other reality women who’ve been abandoned in some way by their mothers. Kenya, Nene and Destiny have similar defense mechanisms and volatile behavior.

[@janvaughn2219]

Boom!!!🎯

[@janvaughn2219]

Tisha talks so country and she is a replica of Wanda!! She is sooo jealous of Mel that it’s dangerous

[@kayw0]

@@janvaughn2219 Yep..Country Bumpkins!!!!😆 🤣

[@tangajTANG]

Carlos is showing us how he sees black women, by encouraging this behavior. His track record shows what he's done with black women as a producer. Carlos likes to sit back and see black women embarrassed, humiliated, attacked. Any woman being seen in a positive light bothers him. All his compliments to Melody has been borderline sarcastic, IMO.

[@tangajTANG]

@Catherine Branson I believe he had knowledge of and discussed the idea. Tisha had to have asked if it would be okay to be so bold. Her moves were too confident in getting up and walking off the set. Imo

[@michellej1355]

@@tangajTANG that right there

[@mstk6216]

I'm so sick of Carlos and he doesn't take accountability for his behavior also.

[@joliegurl7527]

Never, big old Queen

[@janeyjones]

@Catherine Branson Well said,!

[@SidneyShaw1214]

I agree about Carlos. He was so disrespectful to Melody at that reunion and honestly that’s when everything fell apart with her and the cast. He has himself in way over his head with this cast and it’s weird that no one higher up has stepped in when he says things like Martell harming himself bc that would mean he would have the capacity to harm others as well and who do u think that would be? Smh

[@carolynminter162]

That caused the birth of the Melometers. After he treated Mel like he did on that reunion stage ALL bets were off. We went after Carlos so bad he was reporting us left and right to IG. He begged Mel to tell the Melometers that he apologized to her and that they were good now and just like Destin said. We are proud Melometers and we say it with our chest and we stand in it. Wanda and Dusty Destiny need to stop blaming Mel's fans for dumb ISH. We don't waste our time on non-factors like her. We go after the one who allows this gang up on Mel. We E-mail the suits who are over Carlos head at OWN, and we call for BLACKOUTS and whatever it takes to stop the hate of Mel who is only trying to live her life in peace and take care of her 4 babies. That's it, and that's ALL.

[@erica3162]

@@carolynminter162 they say we’re worse than the BEYHIVE🐝 🤣😂😂 #Melometer🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Lady1Breree]

The truth is Narcissists don’t usually hurt themselves bc they think too highly of themselves! They hurt others! Carlos King is an idiot to sit on tv and say he can see Martell has problems but not get that man help! Also Stormi talks of “leaving” as well having tried unsuccessfully to “leave” before. These people need help, not Reality tv jobs! (my opinion).

[@keciawhite-orr3738]

He’s a whole 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@caroleburrell3334]

I been said Tel will eventually do something they'll all regret

[@sharoncoleman6772]

💯💯💯!! All of what you said! No weapon formed against Melody shall prosper.

[@carolynminter162]

Tisha knows that Marsau is very attracted to Mel. She has the looks of the kind of woman Marsau likes and Mel looks NOTHING like Tisha. Tisha is a nice looking woman but she isn't Marsau's type. Marsau checked out of that raggedy marriage a long time ago, and if Tisha didn't allow him to act single in that marriage. Marsau would have been gone.

[@barbaramorgan6313]

Damn excellent summary.

[@af8071]

Whew!

[@blacktitanic1972]

Yawl notice Carlos highlight everyone fake business success but only highlight the dark side of melody life where Mel was lacking an he never highlight her successful career

[@joliegurl7527]

Jealousy is real.

[@roddaniels2976]

True

[@christinelambert4295]

Mel needs to call police 🚨 not call Carlos Thank God continuously Blessing Melody

[@feliciarowser308]

Carlos is so disrespectful towards Melody and given his position as her Boss this is highly unethical. He has favor for Martel and the Scott’s for some reason when they don’t even share their reality on the show . The show mostly is centered around the cast talking about Melody.

[@SystaSoldier]

Queen, last night Aunt Ann put out info about Wanda herself. She said she was given info that confirms that WANDA is the by-product of a “side chick situation.” This whole thing runs deep. Tisha’s grandmother was concubine, and Wanda was a very young teen mother. Tisha has been trained to keep that man no matter what he says or does. If Marsew had his choice, he would have been with a businesswoman like Melody, and THATS why Tisha hates her. Melody (and her mom) represent everything those women (including Tisha) are not.

[@damnpam4680]

And that’s why they jealous of KiKi because she’s smart regardless of her going through addiction he grandfather told her not to fool with them over them meaning Wander and them

[@mlmeek0278]

Totally agree!

[@qusan]

Martell doesn’t have the intellect to battle Kenya. Carlos is delusional!

[@bonniehood5728]

Kenya will eat his weak self alive

[@carolynminter162]

@@damnpam4680 Yes and Keke was raised on the right side of the tracks and a beautiful family home and not the projects and that's the reason Wanda was always pitting Tisha and Keke against each other. They are jealous of Keke plain and simple addiction or not.

[@iamkei6799]

I’m going to say this again Melody really needs to treat Carlos king with a long handle spoon because he is not in her corner. and if melody ever read your comments, I want to say this to her go back and watch all the old reunions and she will see for herself and I want to also say this keep your eyes open and your enemies close

[@lindamcgee53]

Melody need to tell Carlos to STOP talking about them two being Together..He put the battery in hoetel back to act up

[@moniqueayers]

Exactly all of that “when you two were together it was magic” conversation that he likes to have is very unnecessary. Martell is toxic and is a danger to Mel. We already saw the men having to physically hold him back on that Vegas trip. She’s told us that he stalked her while she was on a date. He disrespects that woman any chance he gets. There’s absolutely nothing magical about that or indicates that they need to get back together.

[@jeanturner9792]

That is such a broad statement. Because she is pretty on outside! Oh really Tisha! Just because your Mama didn't in still any confidence within yourself.Mel is not perfect by a long shot, but she has always displayed transparency!

[@EMC1986Hobi]

Carlos loves Martell's toxic masculinity and the way he disparages Melody.

[@lorrainegreen3446]

I agree

[@queenbee9924]

YUPPP💪🏽💯

[@roddaniels2976]

Yes because Carlos is a female gay man

[@misskarun2548]

AGREED

[@halloweaseanderson2673]

Melody doesn’t need to film with Martell

[@jacquelinegrant1313]

Martel, Lathisha, and Marsau need Ms. Ivana fixed my life

[@sensibilityspeaks]

I'm so glad you played that clip of Carlos being all giddy about Martell arguing with Kenya and acting up over at RHOA. I remember hearing this a few months ago and thinking Carlos is misogynistic and doesn't really care for women. SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤔

[@rocg9503]

All the men including Carlos of LAMH have displayed toxic behavior, especially in regards towards women. The video with Carlos sounding so giddy over the thought of Martell going in on the women of the RHOA was disgusting. He is very unprofessional and classless.

[@sensibilityspeaks]

@@rocg9503 agreed all of the men are extremely misogynistic. Yep Carlos should he ashamed of himself but he's not. 😒

[@karlanixon9368]

@@rocg9503 that part and it’s sad

[@misskarun2548]

I called this too...BRAVO is never with the💩ss they will learn 🙄

[@scoop42day6]

I recall the episode when Marsau and Tisha were going back and forth about being from the other side of the track. Tisha said in the scene it’s like saying you look pretty for a dark skinned girl. Marsau said why do I need to feel bad you got picked on in school Tisha. Tisha said when people say that that is an insecurity for her and she is mad that Marsau would bring it up. I think when Tisha looks at Mel, it is reminder about her insecurities when it comes to her skin complexion, where she grew up, and how she talks. Tisha just uses the Mel is trying to break up my marriage as a way to keep Mel as a punching bag for all of the insecurities she carries.

[@blackankhbutterfly]

It’s so sad because Tisha is a beautiful woman…hope one day she sees that…but it maybe too late…she is 40 or so

[@carolynminter162]

@@blackankhbutterfly Yeah she is 41, and Marsau shouldn't have married her because he knew Tisha was NOT his type, but he also knew he could run all kinds of games on her and she would believe it because she will NEVER think she is the prize because she thinks Marsau is the prize. Marsau will be the one to leave because you better believe that he is IN LOVE with his mistress but he won't leave until those kids have aged out of child support. The way he refused to renew his marriage vows, and he couldn't even say a few nice words about her. Let me know that he didn't want to hurt his woman because she watches the show, but he didn't give two damns about hurting his wife on national TV. This is ALL Alleged and my opinion and what I truly believe.

[@kerrytaylor9440]

Nailed it

[@fayecoleman9384]

I have to say this in Tishas Defense this is what she thinks and how she feel and no one can change that…it’s like when a person says they have pain and we are saying they are drug seeking

[@cherylcrowe1473]

Well Said 😊

[@dgsch-nc92]

I agree. Carlos can't be hosting another reunion. Martell and the Scotts needs to be removed from the show immediately.

[@lorrainegreen3446]

I agree

[@jeanturner9792]

Carlos King you are not qualified to counsel Martell!

[@pamelaparker5053]

Destiny and Tisha are in the same level playing field. Filled with hate and envy for other women...imo

[@joliegurl7527]

Low, negative vibration, attract each other.

[@coramcmorris3082]

Carlo's jealous of Mel and Carlos King always shade Mel because Carlos wants Martel

[@sensibilityspeaks]

THIS 💯

[@joliegurl7527]

He pretends to like Mel, we can see it. He loves Martell , it’s all in his voice.I would not be surprised if he got some of that, down-low stuff.Can’t stand Carlos. Y’all are expecting way too much from Queen Carlos. We see you!! Mel is so protected from all the evil. Carlos would love to run Mel from the show. He Carlos is a gay man, that hates women, after all, he is good friend with Funky Deniva, who hates Black Women, especially if they are fat!!!

[@sexybrownsugar7862]

Carlos King can have him wrapped in a huge red 🎀bow.

[@Tootsie26]

And at this point, i believe Melody would dress Martel up in clothes that fit, add a beautiful bow and hand him right over to Carlos with a coke and a smile😂😂😂

[@erica3162]

@@joliegurl7527 😂. You’re probably right about him getting some too

[@alabamabornball9957]

Notice how he said Martell was over there playing with the girls. As if Martell belongs to him.

[@Myculturalcanvas]

DESTINY WAS VERY CLEAR IN SAYING MEL HAS NO BUSINESS BEING FRIENDS WITH LABERRICK because HE is friends with Martell.... SO WHY IS HER FRIENDSHIP WITH MARTELL OK??? PLEASE TELL ME WHY THIS IS OK?

[@feliciarowser308]

Destiny is crazy and will say anything at this point

[@carolynminter162]

She knows LB has told Mel exactly why he divorced her and Mel has told him the lies she made a mistake in believing because she was Dustiny's friend. That's what Dustiny in on. She NEVER thought that Mel and LB would mend their friendship.

[@feliciarowser308]

@@carolynminter162 Everything backfires on these people but they continue to humiliate themselves like fools

[@fayecoleman9384]

Because when it happens to them they don’t like it

[@barbaramorgan6313]

Get ready for the truths Melody holds on Destiny this year. LB been talkin.

[@erica3162]

Personally I believe when Carlos said he was afraid Martell would harm himself he really wanted to say he’s afraid Martell might hurt Melody instead but afraid to say so.

[@roddaniels2976]

Crazy Martel will on hurt women not himself he should be reprimanded instead of begging to bring his ho on the show he's lucky he's got a job

[@marylawson8817]

Martell scares me some one like him worry me because I think he's capable of harming himself and anyone else but one thing we can say is that the Scott's Brothers will always have his back because Martell can blow their marriage out the water.

[@coramcmorris3082]

I believe Carlos King paid funky to go off on Mel Carlos King is very sneaky and we see right through you Carlos King

[@joliegurl7527]

Yes with all my heart and soul. That stuff Funky said about Mel, came directly from Carlos Queen King, period

[@roddaniels3499]

I agree

[@jennifermaynard3901]

This review was needed Queen I’m an ability analyst and works FMLA and everything you said about CK is warranted in regards to Martell ability to work. This was some free insight information for Carlos and Own network

[@punkinpunkin6524]

Yaaaasssss! Give it to ‘em Queen! Your commentary is spot on!! I think once LaBerrick realized who Destiny really was he filed for divorce. I remember a scene when Maurice asked Martell does he talk to Destiny and he responded saying either everyday or all the time, something to that effect. Whew, your breakdown of Tisha and Wanda is very interesting.

[@brendabeautiful3096]

GM,queen ...allegedly Moses have a anchor Monitor..

[@premiumondemand7720]

I GUESS we NOW KNOW what the CIRCUMSTANCES is😜😆🤣😂

[@floramercury]

At the end of the day doesn’t an organisation such as the OWN Network have an obligation regarding the Duty of Care for those in its service - otherwise does it not leaves itself liable to be sued by anyone/everyone who’s appeared on its shows. Surely whatever they signed beforehand can be challenged legally.

[@coramcmorris3082]

Because Destiny and the Scotts brothers and Carlos King all from Detroit have you noticed that Carlos King never mentioned anything about funky and they all knew about Destiny sleeping with Martel and they all knew about Martel was hacking Mel phone

[@joliegurl7527]

I noticed

[@vashticollins8315]

Someone from authority in the network needs to shut this all down before lawsuits from below come to the fore.

[@carolynminter162]

Dusty Destiny is still on her Mel hate train this morning going to different bloggers. As long as Carlos keep allowing Martell, Wanda, and Marsau and Tisha come after Mel for NOTHING. The Melometers are coming full force on Carlos, and everyone else who has ANYTHING to do with that show. The reason why Carlos keeps Dustiny around. It's because Tisha needs her to keep going after Mel. Tisha don't have Wanda now and Kimmi isn't entertaining that foolishness only because she is sick. Tisha needs Dustiny and Carlos loves the Scotts and Wanda. Dustiny is going to spend any man on that show or behind the scenes money that want to have a little fun with her. I wouldn't put it pass Marsau and Maurice to have already tapped that, because Martell doesn't care. It ain't no fun if the homey can't get some.

[@kaystar3434]

He's going to lose his shish when he finds out that Wanda, his buddy, has accused three bloggers of calling and threatening her. Sounds like lawsuits to me!

[@tamaramorgan3491]

I absolutely agree with you 💯. Anything for CLOUT. PERIOD ‼️

[@porshathompson19]

And it's all lies... those bloggers are not wasting their time calling Wanda.

[@advocateforinjustice6731]

Latisha is so evil and dark inside. She needs help.

[@advocateforinjustice6731]

Destiny and Tisha have the same trauma Bond.

[@advocateforinjustice6731]

That part!

[@gtzion6501]

I came across a blogger: " name was deep conversation" : she made some great points, no other reality show goes on the internet and bashes the cast members and bring out trash and toxic thing on the internet. Bravo don't allow this and so it is not done. They air their are differences on on television; to give the audience something to look forward to. Please pass this on to Carlos and whoever is over him: have every cast member on Love and marriage Huntsville banned them from the internet when it come to bashing each other and leave all that for the show.

[@erica3162]

I like her commentary as well. Deep Conversation w/ Shun!

[@deb9201]

He has tried that before. Didn’t he?

[@misskarun2548]

@@deb9201 the pillow episodes on #RHOA still has me like 🥴😏

[@WatsGoinOn55]

I agree with everything u said Queen Shiba love your channel ❣️

[@audreylyles6797]

When is anybody going to say sorry to Melody that’s all I want to know

[@caronenkhonjera760]

They never will. & for that God will continue to elevate her more & higher than them in their presence.

[@qusan]

Does Carlos not get that Melody left Martell? SHE left HIM!

[@MsVaughnKitty]

I can’t believe Tisha came out of her mouth to say Mel of all people, the person that helped you and your family, has a dark soul. My God….

[@fayecoleman9384]

Deflecting

[@barbaramorgan6313]

Tisha and Marceau are traitors. They will reap what they have sown.

[@dreamkitty]

literally gave them a business. gave them a car and home to stay in when they didn’t have it. it’s crazy.

[@MsVaughnKitty]

@@dreamkitty say it!

[@robinlove4080]

That part

[@michellejohnson6879]

Bravo 👏 Thank you Queen for breaking this down. This needed to be said!!!

[@T-T-gmom]

She DESPISE Mel that's why CK is keeping her Dusty Behind. YES you really spoke the TRUTH about them all. Tisha really doesn't like Wanda she just know that her mom. So she respect her. JMO--🤔 🤔🤔. CK has created a Hostile Work Place

[@dianejackson7223]

Carlos acts like he wants to be Melody but the Male version.

[@tawanawebb9162]

Please send this to Mel and OWN Network! This what she needs for court!

[@bibi4294]

Yes !!! Please send to the network

[@queenshibadarling]

You’re more than welcomed to share at liberty.

[@pkjoe285]

🗣️🗣️👍🏽

[@pkjoe285]

@Bibi & @Blackjoy Webb…. Queen Shiba said, “You’re more than welcomed to share at Liberty .” Please send it! I’m not that tech savvy and don’t know how. But I agree 100% OWN would benefit from this commentary. Queen is phenomenal, I love & respect her intellect!

[@roddaniels2976]

I agree Carlos is too involved with martel

[@soulstarmusiclover1254]

Queen Shiba why do you think Carlos continues to try Mel? Play her down as if she failed Martell or was not good enough? I would check Carlos 👸🏼 big time .

[@erica3162]

Carlos is attracted to Martell. All that cryin and theatrics came from his attraction to him.

[@queenshibadarling]

In my opinion partially because she doesn't fight him back on his level. He can't lure her in to misbehave

[@soulstarmusiclover1254]

@@queenshibadarling That’s interesting and disturbing at the same time.

[@sheilajackson2902]

Latisha hates the fact that Melody's ex-husband is fighting for her love more than her husband fights for hers.

[@Designs_Decor63]

Wow that part

[@dreamkitty]

@@lets-talk-about-it-oklol girl … can you imagine your husband lays in the bed talking to you about another woman and then her ex-husband also can’t stop talking about her publicly? from a jealous woman’s POV, something is up with that woman! why is everybody so obsessed with her while nobody gives 2 fvvcks about me or what i do or have going on 🙄

[@dreamkitty]

@@lets-talk-about-it-ok literally on camera where marsau was taking about how Mel feels about Sheree in the bed with Tisha, Martell admitted he missed his family 🤣🤣 nobody ever talks tisha. she’s nobody topic EVER

[@robinlove4080]

Preach! They got Ms. Jackson on em today. Lol

[@robinlove4080]

@@dreamkitty I said that before. I wish my main would lay in our non marital bed and rate 3 other women. Mel, Shree, and coleslaw. Lol

[@karennesbit]

Queen Shiba you gave Carlos the business. He’s too much and not fair when it comes to Mel. We see him protecting Martel and them Scott’s.

[@maryhooks3750]

Tisha said it and she know Marsau has a crush on Melody

[@mspriss49]

Queen Shiba is done playing with this cast and CK!!! Love it and here for it all!!❤❤❤

[@coramcmorris3082]

And Mel not safe around Martel

[@rocg9503]

She really isn’t be it physically, emotionally, and spiritually! Queen is doing the damn thing with this read on CK. It’s needed!!

[@joliegurl7527]

Let’s keep in prayers 🙏🏾, no evil or weapons, will touch her!!🥰

[@alabamabornball9957]

I'm concerned that Martell is going to harm Mel because she isn't backing down to no one and that worries me. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@roddaniels2976]

Own network should reprimand Carlos for not doing nothing

[@dawnyiellemuzyamba5033]

Who’s to say that he doesn’t watch the show to see who she really is? I do agree that she need to go. She brings nothing but negativity to the show. Also the way that Tisha is pushing up on Mel because her husband brought light the situation of her being from the other side of the tracks and him bringing it to her attention that she was mistreated about the color of her skin. In which I think black is beautiful. Kimmo wasn’t haven’t it in which Mel was tired of dealing with it. It’s unfortunate that Carlos King is capitalizing off of these black women demise. It started off great and now it’s to much drama.

[@vanessasimpson7744]

I am scare for Melody and the kids because of the anger outburst of Martell. Production keep covering for him by cutting out his anger outburst. Melody need to go back to not filming with him. Mel need to hold Own accountable when he does anything else because Carlos said he's scare if him hurting himself or others. A threat to his ex and the other cast.

[@roddaniels2976]

We all see Carlos is not protecting melody by not mandating counseling or suspending Martel while he's in counseling

[@roddaniels2976]

If a person is a harm to himself or others he needs a 72 evaluation or suspension from this show

[@Islandspice116]

Queen Sheba, you are right on! It’s like they resent Melody because she came through her painful, divorce, stronger and better she’s thriving. I think they wanted it to totally break her

[@dinkinsdinkins6678]

It because like Marsau said Melody is never held accountable for anything she does

[@qusan]

@@dinkinsdinkins6678 Like what?

[@dinkinsdinkins6678]

@@qusan like inviting Keke over to her sleep over and to the girls trip cook out to talk about Tishia,so it would't be said that Mel told Tishia personal business.That never before scene told it all,plus keke threw Mel under the bus

[@vickiebooth7223]

GREAT COMMENTARY QUEEN SHEBA💯

[@brittneyjanay314]

Latiesha and Marsu got married out of convenience not love .

[@angeliajohnson1228]

Dawn, Thank you so much for speaking out and speaking up! Praise God that He has surrounded Melody with a Godly Manager and a 30 Member Team!!! I remember all of you running to her aid at the 2nd Reunion when she kind of broke down behind stage. It was obvious that she was with Prayer Warrios as you'll embraced her with lots of Love, Prayer and the Word of God! Time and time again we've watched her Mother support her💯%! Then to have her Brother speak out and say: We're not on the show, but don't get it twisted, Melody is not alone!!! To have such wonderful Content Creators who have used their Platforms to bless us with so much love, wisdom and knowledge and a Huge Fan Base that has adopted Melody as our own!!! We will ride with her till the end!!! It's Spiritual Warfare!!! And we know who wins in the end!!! 🙏🏽💝🙏🏽 Thank you, Queen Shilba👑💖👑

[@OpulentAristocrat]

Absolutely trust‼️ we have her back❤️

[@queenbee9924]

Who is Dawn?

[@angeliajohnson1228]

@@queenbee9924 Mel's Manager

[@lorenebryant3955]

Yes, appreciate you Ms Dawn for speaking up Ms Melody your client 🏆🏆🏆🏆💕

[@lorenebryant3955]

Totally agree 💯

[@hairnmore2579]

That was phenomenal as always. I truly appreciate your insight. You always go below surface level. Great commentary!

[@bobibrown3358]

In my opinion, the reason why Carlos keeps Destiny on is because she is a part of the hate Melody gang. She is useful for his plan to frustrate Melody out.

[@roddaniels2976]

Melody off this show will result in a huge blackout an ratings will plummet

[@angelenarobinson6745]

I pray that some big producer on a big show and Network like Tyler Perry scoop Melody up so fast that it would make Carlos head swim.

[@slick3791]

Carlos pissed me off insinuating that Mel pursuing her career is the reason that Martel cheated. What man on this planet thinks of his wife when he chooses a career. Marsau, case in point. He doesn't have time to spend with his wife and family, doesn't even take vacations with them and "claims" its because of work. But he has the time to take boys trips and go to Africa! Whatever Carlos. Mind the business that pays you.

[@seliciaperry5499]

😕 Ma'am, I'm with you about a sexual relationship between Destiny and Martell. Nobody has that much venom for "a friend" who helped them during rough times, unless there's a man in the mix.

[@bfontelroy3964]

Toxic mother’s can ruin children “the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world”

[@mlmeek0278]

I believe Martell and Destiny have had relationships in the Past and Future. I knew it when Martell asked her to put baby oil on his body. You right , Kimmie doesn’t like Destiny because she went to her husband office and giving him a sad story.😂😂

[@QueeningisaHabit]

You had my mom and I yelling at the TV because you are SPOT ON👏🏾

[@queenshibadarling]

Yassss. Tell mom hello from the palace!!

[@priscillaaharper4078]

I love you, the intelligence and the energy you bring Queen Shiba.👑💖🙌🏾🙏🏾😇👸🏽🤭💪🏾

[@yoli56]

Queen Sheba, excellent assessment of everyone 👏 👌

[@coramcmorris3082]

I'm waiting for the police to arrest Martel for hacking Mel phone

[@liesmorelies2722]

I’m wondering if they find him guilty of this, they can arrest him w/o Mel’s approval. Or if they needed her approval would she press charges or let it go BC of the kids?? I personally would press charges BC it’s his behavior and not hers. If the kids are in therapy, they are understanding there are consequences when you do bad things. I would not protect Martell when he doesn’t and hasn’t protect her all these years!!

[@queenshibadarling]

LMAO!!!

[@liesmorelies2722]

@@lets-talk-about-it-ok lol. I hope not. But that explanation didn’t sound right.

[@Theblackbumblebee]

This video is giving me LIFE!!!!!! I've said it before CARLOS is not INTELLIGENT.

[@vanessasmith7957]

Girl you are amazing. You are talking facts and sharing a lot of wealth. I hope they are listening.

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you so much!

[@denisealex213]

You were on point with this!!!! Especially with Tisha!!!!

[@carolynminter162]

Carlos is endangering the life of Mel because he knows Martell could do something to her, and that has become a hostile work place for her and has opened the door for a lawsuit of him, the show, and the network and it will cost them millions. Bravo and Andy won't put up with Martell and they will kick him off of that set if ANY one of those housewives feel threatened. They do NOT play about those housewives, and Kandi and Kenya are NOT to be messed with at ALL. Martell will find out quickly that the way he was getting all up in Mel's face and going after her. NO SIR that won't be put up with at Bravo PERIOD.

[@tawanawebb9162]

CK is a BAN

[@imjustsayin404]

Facts!!!! Bravo will not play!

[@Blackertheberry75]

@@lets-talk-about-it-ok really??? Smdh

[@beatricemccray7815]

Judge Lynn Toler needs to get them in check I know that she just lost her husband but she and the guy from marriage boot camp or Steve Harvey who is not going to play with him period

[@Legallyontop]

This review made me really sit back and think about the various personalities. I don’t think Carlos dislikes Mel. Someone said Mel is the woman Funky would like to be, but it’s Carlos. Mel is the woman Carlos would like to be. She had/has a successful career, had a nice looking husband, and despite his cheating, still doted on his wife and kids. They have beautiful and smart children. In Carlos’ eyes, how can she leave all that? He said a side baby isn’t a deal breaker for him. He doesn’t like Kimmi or Tisha, but in his eyes, they are beneath him. He doesn’t envy them, but he envies Mel. Mel had it all, and he can’t understand why she would leave what he perceives to be the perfect situation-fine husband, successful business, and a beautiful family.

[@candidbutsweet9613]

You hit the nail on the head with your take on Carlos and Martel. Great Job!

[@queenshibadarling]

Ahhhh thank you 😊

[@jerline11]

On Married to Medicine, Dr. Simone was going to leave and divorced her husband Cecil if he did not stop being friends with this other woman and he stopped being her friend. He valued and loved his wife and marriage more.

[@YesThereisHope]

Totally unethical the way Carlos gaslights Melody!!!

[@rocg9503]

Marsau is grown, was grown when he impregnated Tisha. Just like many other men choose not to marry the mother’s of his children, Marsau could have as well. I agree, he doesn’t appear to be a man in love with his wife. I do think digging into toxic mom’s is a subject worth digging into. Would love to hear more. The lady on family or fiancé is biracial. Word on the curb is Carlos got emotional is because Martell had an outburst.

[@rocg9503]

Yesssss, CK is wrong wrong. All of the episodes where Martell ran up on Mel and others. The times he got aggressive behind the scenes. The time he had an outburst, Mel asked the producers not to film because their kids were involved. CK sounds like a fan girl speaking on Martell vs Kenya. Ewww

[@queenshibadarling]

I think I may take that topic on and see what I can come up with

[@feliciafrazier7180]

Queen, this is my second time listening to this review, you are spot on! Maybe we should have a talk about the mother-daughter relationship and how that relationship is VITAL to all relationships especially with other women. CK needs therapy also, there is something in his childhood that makes him enjoy these toxic behaviors.

[@queenshibadarling]

I think I will work on some commentary for toxic mother daughter relationships

[@carlabreedlove4221]

💯....U go girl!!! Absolutely love your commentary ❣️

[@imunpretentious2525]

Yes, Queen Shiba tell the truth and sham the devil.

[@nataliecassell8027]

Queen you killed it I’m so sick and tired of them downing this woman for a cheating piece of trash they occurred 3 years ago move on . Melody has rebrand herself and they still wanna talk about her . The bottom line I can film with you but we don’t have to be besties . Get over it

[@msbrandon3876]

Queen Shiba you are brilliant!!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you

[@deehurford6891]

This is the absolute best review I’ve heard across any platform that I listen to. I’m on season 3 of my rewatch and you are so correct about everything. It all seems so obvious I don’t see how everyone can’t see it. Carlos’ infatuation with the homophobe Martel is both inappropriate, biased and down right annoying

[@maryakins5120]

I looked at the mothers behaviors of the Scott’s, Martell, Latish and Stormi. The only one raised their child to dream big, go after what you want and keep God in your was Miss Van. Majority of these cast members are stuck in childhood trauma. You are correct Queen when you say Carlos is too much in Martell and Marsau personal lives. He laughs at everything Martell does. Then he turn around and come after Melody like she is responsible for the entire cast. If this season doesn’t come up to par. I will not be looking at another season. If Martell come after Kenya on RHOA Andy Cohen will shut him down. He will not come in a muck up that franchise. Martell is a ticking time bomb. He can’t ride Melody’s coattail and shine. When he meet Melody she was a go getter. Sharee will not let him mess up her coins. Those are seasoned women and they don’t play.

[@mochabay5700]

You don’t know that to be true. You only know what you see, we don’t know these people in real life.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

@@mochabay5700 We see enough to know this to be true. Stop the cap.

[@mccookie9625]

martell and Mel were NOT 2gether when these phone calls were made, if she was leaving Sheree's.....

[@queenshibadarling]

Destiny lie so much we don't know when she was calling that man

[@maishacampbell9784]

Rehearsed for sure and when Mel said well you should be glad I'm out of my life and she was not ready for Mel's response.

[@seekingtruth92]

Queen! This was BRILLIANT! I hope this is sent to CK, OWN, Oprah- worldwide! I stopped looking at the cast and just him when Wanda got so out of hand and Funky showed up… there was a ratchet turn here and he just let it ride. I get triggered when children are affected and they seem to be an afterthought. Especially for CK. You are so right in the lines he crossed and I bet SOMEBODY higher up is talking to him. This is serious and he can’t put bandages on these issues; having Destiny and Martell do a blitz of interviews that are riling up the viewers even more. We don’t want to hear from them. It’s not that we are “Melometers”- for me, I don’t want my people to be portrayed the way CK is absolutely allowing and closely navigating. Again, you did a masterful job on this piece and I’m going to watch and listen to it again on my big screen! I am retired from working decades in Behavioral Health AND Corrections ( and have good life experiences as well) and can say that you know your stuff, Sister! I needed one such as yourself for a life coach back when, but they weren’t called that back then!🤣 However, I’ve always sought professional AND Spiritual guidance when needed! Bravo! I know this is lengthy but you deserve it!💜

[@VanessaLaRaye]

All Hail To The Queen!

[@gtzion6501]

Allegedly, it were stated that martel went of all in the back during the reunion; and destroyed some things. they should have had security to exit him out then. If he shows this behavior now, what did Melody go through while married to him?😳

[@feliciafrazier7180]

@@lets-talk-about-it-ok Young love, you have been there, Melody wanted her marriage and she was hoping that time he'd be what she anticipated; however, a leopard doesn't change its spots.

[@roddaniels3499]

Exactly

[@cshopper1346]

Mel said before the reunion, someone or ones tried to use her car service she had paid for-two suvs-for her and her staff. The driver sent her a text about it because they probably lied and said Mel It was ok but they still tried to make the driver let them use him and then a second time the driver texted her and said they wanted to pay them but this time Mel went outside and told her drivers to leave. That why Mel said she did have an attitude when the reunion started.

[@angelenarobinson6745]

I believe that Melody went through all types of Abuse with Martel that is why she pay him dust now.

[@angelenarobinson6745]

That is good enough reason to be kicked of the show and bre fired.

[@imunpretentious2525]

Carlos portraying himself as a qualified counselor, but where is his clients located? A hostile environment and an abusive relationship would be understandable to a young child. Carlos, make it logical, please.

[@advocateforinjustice6731]

Good morning Queen ❤

[@kerrytaylor9440]

QS bravo - as always! Please do a review expanding on ALL of the mother/daughter relationships of the cast)or lack thereof bc this speaks to the much larger problem within our community imo(incl coleslaw in that review as well plz). The mother/son of the casts would also be good too! ❤

[@indi818]

FINALLY I have found a channel that is concerned about all this behavior. I haven’t heard anyone really touch on it. I rarely leave reviews but ever since this reunion and being an ex DV survivor it triggered me. I’m am very concerned for Melody, MS. Van, and the kids. DV does not have to be physical. My ex is a replica of Martel I tell you. They way they look, body statue, and dress. He also hacked my phone, followed me, accused me of cheating to anyone that would listen. Dragged me to court etc…BOIGHT our kids phones so he could question them. When he would have them separated them in rooms to ask them about me. In the middle of custody battle we had to see a mediator. The mediator spoke with the kids they told everything and he lost his partial custody. He would send the cops to my home for welfare checks , slashed my tires at .. it escalated my point is , if they did not get a hold of this and take it seriously this could end dangerously. To this day my ex-just recently opened fire on the freeway with one of his side chicks for blasting him. I would go after Carlos, he is to blame right now. I hope Mel stops filing with Martel. Someone help her!! She needs a bomb attorney. This is very sad I wish we could reach to whom is over Carlos. Thank you for this commentary and I’m now a new subscriber. And that therapist lady would be Great for this show. Lord I will keep them all in my prayers. Also if anyone else noticed, Marsau wishes Tisha would act more lady like, like Melody. When Tisha became irritated and sent her entire body back on the couch, Marsau said don’t do that sit up. If you notice Melody always sits upright, head held high, & with confidence-all while clearing the room. 😂

[@queenshibadarling]

Thank you for the sub and welcome to the palace. Many blessings to you for getting out of that situation.

[@Kisha12able]

Great 👍🏽 commentary 👏🏽👏🏽💯

[@Quanda82]

Carlos is infatuated with Martell and he don't like Melody in real life...I'm guessing it's Detroit thing...

[@lilflower849]

Queen Sheba, omg I love your in depth commrntaries. Enjoyed so much I listened twice

[@queenshibadarling]

Wow, thank you

[@charnamosely372]

In some of the comments on other channels fans are saying they will boycott next season.

[@joliegurl7527]

I have and will continue, if next season, they don’t bring something new. I promise you, this show will end if they don’t listen and make changes.

[@bonniehood5728]

Jolie I am with you regarding the boycott if there is nothing new. I am so tired of all the old BS.

[@jenspoetryden]

What degree does he have in family counselling ?

[@joliegurl7527]

Absolutely none, period

[@queenshibadarling]

Chile none

[@nataliecassell8027]

Martell is so stuck in high school . But Melody was his person who made him he has no identity without Melody . He constantly needs a mommy .

[@roddaniels3499]

Exactly