7 Signs You're A True INFJ (Rarest Personality Type)

[@TrickyTalon23]

They understand everyone. But no one understands them. The INFJ personality truly is a major gift that comes at a major price.

[@gektoast4968]

It is certainly a double edged sword.

[@Tama-re9sx]

Very much so , it’s a balance taht is scary

[@RainierFajardoProduction]

Thank you! I'm INFJ and I think I'm not special

[@joselinawilliams8603]

Unfortunately Ur Right we’re blessed but also cursed

[@neofulcrum5013]

Yep

[@tenzinlhak12]

1. You tend to take an all or nothing approach to life 2. Everyone tends to gravitate towards you 3. You have a natural talent for language 4. You make decisions based on your intuition 5. You absolutely despise interpersonal conflict 6. You are concerned about what others think of you 7. You have principles etched in stones

[@TheDarkness1]

INFJ We are the quiet ones Artists and world changers Musicians speaking through lyrics Truth tellers and people relators When the soul can no longer be insulted Gave love, but it was not given back Taken advantage of by lost souls Those who wage a vicious attack Take back our true power We are here to tell it to you straight Don't want your toxic behavior It's all about love and not about hate What you ask, we will give No problem in giving you advice If you don't listen and keep coming back Cut you off without thinking twice Shades of grey between black and white And if you fail to understand We won't please you if you can't please us Piss off with your controlling demands You can be you, I'll always be me Don't tell me who you think I am Not in the mood for your judgment Because I no longer give a damn

[@tenzinlhak12]

@@TheDarkness1 Dammmm ✨✨ that's beautiful. It is totally I can relate

[@Alpha125]

@@TheDarkness1 This relates to me so much. I'm an INFP-T instead though

[@TheDarkness1]

@@tenzinlhak12 No longer afraid to say what the rest of us are thinking.... Spitting Bullets An animal, locked in a cage Spitting bullets, fueling rage Fangs of a wolf Wisdom of a sage An enemy you don't want to fight Spank you, remind you of your age Platinum tongue, breathing fire Charm even your mother would admire Come back stronger, always a fighter You wanna smite me, go-ahead almighty smiter Words that cut your ego like a knife You wanna stay or run for your life? No character assassination, just tell it to you straight Lock your mind in a coffin, final nail in your fate Bite is worse than the bark All challengers accepted Tuck your tail between your legs You will be torn apart Seriously had enough of this shit Step over the line, be ready to commit Push all your buttons Your twisted logic doesn't compute Final blow completely exposes you You'll turn into a mute No comebacks, unless it's calling me names Look in the mirror, just a window to shame You think you are a wizard, but I'll pull back the curtain Find that scared little child Cowering and uncertain Walls gonna rattle, slam the door When I'm done, you'll be left crying on the floor Get up baby, go grab a tissue You want to get offended? Go-ahead, it's not my issue Exploit your insecurities, seal your own demise The worst of human excrement, a delicacy for flies

[@TheDarkness1]

@@Alpha125 P.S. an infp-t is not the alpha wolf.

[@GeekGirl-ub7ki]

When I found out I was an INFJ I finally understood why I always felt a little different and why no one in my family ever understood me.Also, I was always labelled as weird since they are all extroverted. The conflict thing kills me. I literally suffer for days and I still find myself mulling over arguments years later. I like who I am but its not easy being an INFJ surrounded by people who think you are "too sensitive" so those me-time breaks are so important. I might share this video with people in the future who want to understand me better.

[@kreativev2713]

I can relate to you, I usually feel that my family is a group of individuals that understand one another better. While, for me I wonder why I'm so different (alien). I love helping them no matter what, but feel that when I ask for understanding they don't and think wrongly. I am rooting for all INFJ's out there to don't feel lonely. I always think I am a unique jewel around my family, even if they misunderstand me.

[@snehajain1033]

True that me time is soooo important

[@snehatrivedi2754]

True. i can relate to this. sometimes i feel like why i am getting everyone but no one is getting me. and yes me time is most important to charge up

[@neofulcrum5013]

It be like that

[@07saturn]

So quirky

[@_._skumar_._]

Cheers to all INFJs. Please take care of yourself too. 💕

[@bhumimittal3037]

Ah thanks, we appreciate it.

[@maryamismail7119]

You are right 😅

[@dianaxrose9]

You too :-) have a blessed day

[@AgnesJani-w1k]

Thanks. I appreciate it.

[@brownieboiki]

Thanks, but you take care of yourself too.

[@nishanthmolleti188]

1) all or nothing 2) people open up to u 3) natural talent for language 4) decision based on intuition 5) despise interpersonal conflicts 6) concerned about what others think of u 7) principles etched in stone

[@AS-dw9oe]

As an ISFJ, I am all of those things. I’m confused lol

[@nishanthmolleti188]

@@AS-dw9oe Dont get confused 🤣. Just go with the flow .

[@TheDarkness1]

INFJ We are the quiet ones Artists and world changers Musicians speaking through lyrics Truth tellers and people relators When the soul can no longer be insulted Gave love, but it was not given back Taken advantage of by lost souls Those who wage a vicious attack Take back our true power We are here to tell it to you straight Don't want your toxic behavior It's all about love and not about hate What you ask, we will give No problem in giving you advice If you don't listen and keep coming back Cut you off without thinking twice Shades of grey between black and white And if you fail to understand We won't please you if you can't please us Piss off with your controlling demands You can be you, I'll always be me Don't tell me who you think I am Not in the mood for your judgment Because I no longer give a damn

[@3Y3B411Z]

im an INFP and all of these can be applied to me

[@dbboy2133]

I can definately relate to 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7. Only reazon I'm not 1 is I'm just lazy.😅

[@juneannerubin]

No matter how many times I've tested for this, it always results INFJ. Recently, my current boyfriend also had INFJ results after multiple trials. It's both a blessing and a curse to be INFJs. We're both very sensitive about each other's feelings and often have the same principles and outlooks in life. We also have a very keen sense of deciphering people's personalities. It surprises us how we always have common opinions about people. We work harmoniously around the house. No need to discuss roles, the division of work just flows. The downside is that we also both have the same flaws. We much prefer to be with our own company when in a big group of people, so people would think we're weird or family members would think us uncooperative. We either procrastinate a lot on our tasks or we zone out whenever we're so focused on doing something that we can't notice when the other is calling to us. We've both reflected on our good and bad traits and remind each other when we're leaning towards our bad habits again. My favorite part of the day is when both of us share this common silence in a room and we both get to do our hobbies in peace. Occasionally looking up to the other to check if we're doing okay.

[@thewolfed1687]

Sounds wonderful :) I’m happy u found someone meant for u.

[@ethereal2227]

can you send me the link for the test

[@shamayahuyahsarahl1707]

@@ethereal222716personalities, just obviously with the com.

[@Lazh-_-]

Sounds perfect

[@MsWest-tf6xu]

That's so sweet ❤ Put a ring on it and sign the contract already 😆

[@kayaklow8963]

I actually became emotional watching this. I've gotten INFJ results after testing several times over the years. I have always felt different. I feel like I see things entirely different than everyone else. And I value my differing perspectives a lot, but at the same time, I feel so alone. Being an INFJ is a blessing and a curse. This video did a great job at helping me feel less isolated. 💕

[@IgnitionP]

Cap 🧢

[@maggyneeva3099]

I relate so much to this comment!

[@ronitaharoni9]

I feel like I'm almost a INFJ personality but the hobby thing I don't know about

[@iremfeyza_luna14]

This comment express my feelings so well🥺 Hislerime tercüme oldu bu yorum 💜

[@aislincole7]

Exactly!

[@spinzerus]

I am an INFJ, and I teared listening to this video. So misunderstood and keep trying to be better while others may take advantage of it. Have to learn to be tougher to others, especially because only being tough to those you love will help them grow. Man thank you for doing this, love the comments here!

[@monicamunoz5260]

Men INFJ'S .... The rarest of them all....🥹

[@nikki5399]

“INFJ is the rarest personality type” 100 million people on YT: “omg that is so me!”

[@infjgemini1097]

Psych2Go: Craps out inaccurate content and confuses people by not properly studying mbti cognitive functions.

[@almogxchq5282]

FR

[@sainechan3337]

out of 8 billion people, that is-

[@JeusAlprime108]

Perhaps this so called rarest personalities of INFJ only applied to usa, In Asia, I actually found plenty of my acquitance are INFJ tho. I guess is the culture differences in different society breed different proportion of personalities among the population.

[@Kehkasha_mansury]

Ya because personality test tells about people on a broader sense and many people who have different personality can find each other relatable afterall personality type don't draw strict line so people should go for a personality test rather than just deciding it by only knowing some traits of the personality

[@ellapaige9801]

i’m an INFJ and i’ve really struggling with friendships, especially throughout highschool because they all felt superficial.. i’m also currently studying psychology!!

[@fagdart]

Ahaha so true! Same 😄

[@cosyville]

Superficial friendships are really hard to deal with!!! I dont want to be seen as a snobby person but I really don't like to waste my time and breath on superficial conversations 😨 the struggle is real

[@KrishnaDhaneswara]

this! i only had 4-5 friends from high school which feels so sad and miserable. and good luck on your study.

[@maryelizabeth7420]

Literally same, to the T 😂

[@jenniferanderson6822]

Me with a solid 1 friend in high school lmao

[@spoky1057]

As an INFJ, I must say that we feel like we don't have the right to speak about our problems, and even if We do when the other person doesn't give us the response we are searching for, they make us feel like we are overreacting. We keep complicating things in our head, but honestly, it is very special to be an INFJ.

[@bangtanfriends4977]

true but its not like we complicate things we are emotional and think a lot but they see us complicated and ultimately when you share your feelings and thoughts and they don't understand what we are going through it's an insult and then boom blunder

[@spoky1057]

@@bangtanfriends4977 Yeah, Exactly.

[@nettaboyar9870]

“We feel like we don’t have the right to speak about our problems”. WOW. That’s so true. I always feel like my situation is not as bad as others so I have no right to complain. I work hard and demand a lot from myself, but I feel like this is how we’re all expected to live so I don’t look for a better job. My grades are pretty good but I always feel stupid and lazy and won’t be good at the career I’m dreaming of.

[@spoky1057]

@@nettaboyar9870 yoooo, wanna vent of smth? I'll be happy to hear whatever you have.

[@Psych2go]

Great reflection!

[@Firiq]

I'm an INFJ. I indeed am a great listener. I keep my secrets to myself and I never open up. Everything in this video is true. It's hard to make others understand us. My favourite point is about how everyone gets drawn to us. This is the most accurate thing ever. All we do is just stare at them or maybe nothing and they already start liking us. One of the popular girls made me sit next to her because she wanted me to befriend her. Many people tell that I'm a bit mysterious as I always listen to others and barely share anything about myself. I have the rarest type of INFJ and I'm proud of that.

[@viacii]

being an INFJ is hard especially when you grew up in a family who blackmails, gaslight, guilt trip and narcissist, manipulator relatives and will blame u for their wrong actions literally victim blaming. My life has been full of trauma in this toxic household and being Infj is a blessing to me, it makes me stand on the right path.

[@Psych2go]

Sorry about this. you got this!

[@viacii]

@@Psych2go thank you! ❤️

[@viacii]

carter yeah, until now the situation is still the same but some things got better maybe because I matured more, however, I'm still an INFJ like before. As an INFJ I learned how to handle/ surpass situations even if it hurts cause deep inside I have a soft heart, but being an INFJ is a blessing to me, I hope to u too as well. We INFJ]'s are rather unique than the rest hehe that's why ik that we got this. :>

[@villain__9]

Why is it always us infjs? 😭

[@daniellyrodrigues2090]

I went trough the same thing. I was raised by a narcissist grandmother, abandoned by my mother and neglected by my father. I kinda see this pattern in INFJs. Sometimes I think that for you to became a INFJ (and most intuitives) you have to suffer a little bit more than others.

[@tj11075]

Being an INFJ is difficult indeed. You could be a great listener to others.. but opening up, oh it's hard. And the pt about expressing our thoughts, feelings and emotions through writing was absolutely accurate. It is something that I myself do. Thanks for this video..felt acknowledged 😊

[@Samanthax1221]

hi how are you what are your interests i think i am an infj trying to make freinds

[@meyervisser3027]

wow this feels a little bit INFJ

[@t-owl8345]

It's difficult, yeah. I myself only open up to those who I trust. But if I open up, I don't stop. Sometimes I have problems to find the right words, but I don't stop and go on until I have the feeling that Iexplained it like I mean it. But lately I open up less than a few montgs ago. Maybe it's bcs I don't need totalk about so much bcs I'm happier now, idk. But sometimes I have the feeling I annoy this specific person when tell them my worries again and again. So sometimes I find my own way of dealing with my thoughts (I get better I think), smetimes I go for it...but hesitantly and sometimes I go all in (when I really need help). I open up to people who I trust deeply but that's really just a few. Atm there's only one person I could tell absolutely anything and sthey wouldn't judge me. So...yeah...and I don't want to annoy them so I sometimes try to hold back :/ I also tried to write down my thoughts and emotions. It's not really a thing for me, but there are a few rimes where it helps me so much. So I type a message to myself and most of the time that's the only thing I need bcs my worries cleared up while reading it after typing 👍 there's too much going on inside my INFJ brain 😮‍💨

[@younisbored]

As an INFJ, this is so accurate. I gain energy and positivity from comforting or helping others! I am super kept to myself but around others, I put my troubles away so I can help another person avoid troubles I may have faced. Sometimes it's hard for others to get me but I will know what they mean if they try to explain something personal to me. INFJ'S, UNITE! edit: Please note that this is definitely not accurate for all and I am just stating from my personal opinion and experience! Thank you.

[@MsDogleaf]

Yea

[@faithasogba452]

That's so true

[@likeakittie]

I do very much think we all need to come together and be friends lol I would love to know more about other INFJs in this world!

[@haveasatisfyingday9025]

Same!

[@_kenjayevamadina959_]

I belong this stste all of me

[@damianmontoya3404]

I fall under the INFJ-A, but I urge you all to not let these tests define you. Many of us all want to answer our questions with simple labels and take comfort in them, but just because INFJ might be rare don’t let it make you feel “special”. Of course everyone is unique in their own way, but as INFJs we shouldn’t take comfort in these labels because they’ll make you conform to your current life rather than aim higher, and you’ll hate yourself in the future for this. Don’t let a label comfort you. Find comfort within yourself.

[@nikkibunnyluv]

Same sentiments. I'm INFJ-A too and I agree with u, it's better to stick with your principles and not to be identified with the test

[@WoodlandGoblin]

Exactly.

[@michellel1383]

Typical INFJ response. 😉

[@civillady3737]

INFJ-A here as well. And I was just thinking about this as well. It can be very easy to justify some things that are not necessarily helpful or beneficial to our growth in the guise of “that’s just what INFJs do I can’t change it”

[@yourmother7334]

All INFJs already know this…

[@3rundisciple]

Having a wife with this trait makes me feel incredibly honored. I’m glad I’ve come to understand it more and more through the years. Treat them with gentleness and respect, they are precious and life giving

[@beepjewp4516]

this is so cute :') I wish my future husband will feel like this asdfghjkl 😂

[@Hey-sb9wr]

This is so cute wish you guys the best :)

[@lloydmullins6335]

You better feel honoured, we are awsome

[@laurenk9291]

Your wife is very luckily to have someone who tries to understand you and appreciate who you are.

[@threelittlebirds3361]

Jonah Ullman How absolutely beautiful. Just lovely! Fellow INFJ here, I think all we want is mutual respect and a harmonious world. Blessings to you both 🌈

[@TheDarkness1]

INFJ We are the quiet ones Artists and world changers Musicians speaking through lyrics Truth tellers and people relators When the soul can no longer be insulted Gave love, but it was not given back Taken advantage of by lost souls Those who wage a vicious attack Take back our true power We are here to tell it to you straight Don't want your toxic behavior It's all about love and not about hate What you ask, we will give No problem in giving you advice If you don't listen and keep coming back Cut you off without thinking twice Shades of grey between black and white And if you fail to understand We won't please you if you can't please us Piss off with your controlling demands You can be you, I'll always be me Don't tell me who you think I am Not in the mood for your judgment Because I no longer give a damn

[@mkchristner]

So VERY WELL said!

[@TheDarkness1]

@@mkchristner Thank you. I've written so much truth that nobody bothers to listen to. Empath and the Narcissist An all so common relationship dynamic Starts as a whirlwind, ends up in panic The empath truly has love and compassion The narcissist requires constant validation The narcissist feels truly empty inside Afraid to be alone in their darkened mind Afraid of the voices in their head Believing they're worthless, better off dead The empath has nothing to gain Builds up the narcissist to shut off their pain What the empath doesn't realize Is the narcissist's inability to empathize The narcissist thinks it's a power struggle The empath has all their feelings to juggle Pushing and pulling, a constant fight Waiting for the next rage to ignite Idealize, devalue, and discard The narcissistic calling card The empath is tired of insulting their soul They awaken and take back their control Narcissist moves on to another fixation Unable to live without validation Never to blame, ego increases While the empath is left to pick up the pieces

[@mkchristner]

@@TheDarkness1 wow… that was incredible too! I feel that one… I just got out of that dynamic myself! Keep up the writing, it’s insightful, well put and amazing.

[@TheDarkness1]

@@mkchristner Thank you. Over the last year I've unleashed everything. I've written over 1100 of them. Nobody seems to want to publish poetry. All I Want Just want one person that listens With an open mind to understand One with only pure intentions Willing to lend an open hand Gave too much to wrong people Used me for my understanding Been villified and victimized By the empty and demanding I want the truth to be heard Setting free to all humanity Understand love and creation Sick and tired of the Insanity Just one, best friend and lover A queen that supports the king One with the undamaged psyche That sees exactly what I bring What if I said I'm not like the others Feel no need to pretend Trust in me, I'll trust in you Laughter to the very end

[@TheDarkness1]

@@mkchristner I'm the Man in the Mirror I am your mirror Returning energy A reflection of your inner being Heightening senses Opening your mind Glimpses of what I'm seeing For what you do not like in me A direct reflection of you Triggering feelings Opening wounds Path to awareness and healing Insecurities rise Tempers flare Laughter clears the air Mirror sees behind the mask The true self The one hiding from shame As energy cannot be hidden Polarized in light or dark Resonating in the soul Negative entity of fear Looks to reject love Feeling unworthy Internal battle of voices Angels and devils Voices of past ring loudly Affecting choices Consuming in shadows Efforts to break free Pulls the ropes tighter Truth resides in the heart Lies cover up fear Slowly darkening awareness Internal gaslighting Coping from false indoctrination Unable to see reality Caught in a dream of illusion

[@kyoko16]

It's a curse for me, no one cares about someone that endure double the emotions nor understand, i prefer being alone now

[@ilandghost5012]

*As an INFJ, you are emotional but is also strong in logical issues, but OVERTHINKING SMALL DETAILS can make you doubt yourself thus causing anxiety and trust issues. But you still try to understand others*

[@safasulub2462]

It's crazy that just 4 letters can explain a whole lot. I've taken many tests, and they've all come out as INFJ, and as I think about you just described my whole "life". I am really glad that I am an INFJ. Not that I just have that personality, but that I can make a great impact on people.

[@dimunnpabebet7040]

Not really

[@safasulub2462]

@@dimunnpabebet7040 ?

[@House_of_Killjoys]

If you are really interested, look into cognitive functions and function stacks of the types

[@rosienell4446]

It’s not 4 letters- LOOK AT THE COGNITIVE FUNCTIONS AND STOP WATCHING THE PSYCH2GO CRAP!!

[@gdwiggy3612]

@@rosienell4446 yess exactly

[@skylerporter9563]

This was very insightful! And the part about literature and writing...SO ACCURATE. I'm a INFJ and I write deep novels mainly focusing on each character's inner thoughts and turmoils. So many other things hit home as well!

[@phynx639]

As another INFJ this was insanely accurate. My friends often confide in me and have given me the constant nickname of "therapist". I do my best helping others, I immerse myself in it. I have a large social circle despite being extremely introverted, and I try to retain a connection with every one of my friends despite the large amount. Even so, I find it extremely difficult to open up. So much so that I fool myself into thinking that I do sometimes.

[@zagorith14]

INFJ's are interesting. Some are considered to be completely introverted and some to be extroverted. In reality, we're ambiverts. Social "chameleons" in a way. We can present as extroverted in groups and that's why being in a large social circle is pretty doable for INFJ's despite preferring smaller groups and more intimate settings with closer friends. So long as we can separate ourselves from continuous socialization. I agree with the confiding and opening things though. As much as I love helping others and them confiding in me, I feel an extreme discomfort talking about my own issues to others. Only opening up to those very, very close to me or those I can sense have similar traumas that make them kindred.

[@lalmalsawmi0537]

It’s so hard to open up as an infj,I open up only when i want them(my loved ones) to be vulnerable to me,so i could help them and understand them better.But no one knows my absolute secrets and struggles.

[@Samanthax1221]

@@zagorith14hi what are your interests i believe i am an injf not completely sure, i am trying to make friends as an infj,

[@Samanthax1221]

@@lalmalsawmi0537hi what are your interests

[@adriana27100]

I always say I’m a free therapist to my loved ones but sometimes you need to cut them off bc it can become draining! ❤

[@MBMan-uw1xm]

This video spoke to me so much. It’s hard being so introverted yet wanting to go out there and help so many people. It’s weird because it’s almost conflicting sometimes. And the investing into hobbies and goals is so accurate too. I get burnt out sometimes if I don’t make a conscious effort to watch myself.

[@kerstingravel8160]

My own experience is that you can help people the most in on by one conversations. When you got a connection it works really well.

[@Samanthax1221]

@@kerstingravel8160 hi, what are your interests, i am trying to figure out if i am an infj, do you believe yourself to be an injf thanks

[@kerstingravel8160]

@@Samanthax1221 you should do an MBTI test and you will get the results. Give a true and fast answer to every question. Not all INF‘s have the same interests. You can find tests online.

[@Samanthax1221]

@@kerstingravel8160 kersting thanks i did a few tests a year or so ago i cant remember what they were if they were MBTI tests but they came back as infj but i am not sure what that means or says about me, i feel like i am different to everyone else but i am not sure if that is my personality difference or due to trauma, is it possible trauma could cause an injf personality type, i have zero friends and never have i feel different and unlike everyone else, maybe i am just messed up or maybe its because i have some rare personality type, i would appreciate your insights,

[@kerstingravel8160]

@@Samanthax1221 kzbin.info/www/bejne/iauWoXh4dphjsJYsi=OpM_PXY6rDGQfj73 ( this is the difference between infj a and infj t) this might could be helpful

[@MK_k3vin]

Being an INFJ I can confirm, fact I can see and feel emotions WITHOUT even having to see them. I can hear it in their voice or by the amount they talk. also being an INFJ you would have to be careful of being manipulated by people. However once you're starting to recognise manipulative behaviours you're going to get used/hurt allot less as you prevent yourself from being. However the only downside is... I personally tend to ignore myself and still get myself manipulated/used

[@tomriddle9167]

can you? interesting...

[@annyeongchingu6965]

huhu that's right the "manipulation" always get me

[@mnm_003]

LITERALLY EVERY WORD ON THIS COMMENT IS SOOOO TRUEEEE Wthh I literally almost screamed. I was in another room where one of my family and this person that we know were talking and I could hear them bc it was very quite. After they finished talking I was talking with my family and they were like idk what happened but I was straight away like she was obviously lying (and I was right bc the person turns out was completely lying). Up until that point I thought I could only know these things when I’m physically observing their expressions and body language but it was like I could FEEL their thoughts / intentions through the way they speak. I guess we observe in our hearing just as much as through sight.

[@en6els811]

stand up to what they are doing to you. it might be hard but its the right thing to do, they're the problem not you.

[@dreama.]

Exactly. Everything in this comment I can relate to it It's like I know what's gonna happen, I know what they're doing to me is wrong, yet I still choose to keep on going this path

[@sofiaisabelmartinezmunive8770]

As an INFJ, I felt really inspired and identified. Yes, we somehow find easy to help others, and not just that, it is part of our identity, a part of our happiness, but we are very misunderstood by others. We are a very rare personality and also introverted, this are some of the reasons why we feel like we don’t belong, but that doesn’t mean we are a piece of the puzzle that doesn’t fit, is just that we are different, and that’s okay!! Once you get to know us, you’ll love us! Our personality is like a beautiful rainbow with an secret inner, noisy storm. I loved this video, it made me understand myself a bit more (self-knowledge), each day you learn something new. 😁

[@test4fun118]

I think u guys are ultimate form of human being .. Able to have both 50% emotional and 50% logical thinking Amazing

[@julieannemarfil]

I'm an INFJ. Before I took a personality/psychological test, I already knew that I am an introvert person. But I was surprused that my result was labeled as INFJ-T.. This video is like sharing who I am to everyone. Thank you for making this video to introduce us to everyone and for them to understand us.

[@ellecapone1337]

Yay! A fellow INFJ-T ! 😄

[@Leo-ds5dt]

Please don't take the 16personalities test, it's not an accurate Myers Briggs test and it's based off of the big five test. The term "T" (Turbulent) and "-A" (Assertive) does not exist from Carl Jung's MBTI. You should learn about the cognitive functions of the mbti types to learn more about which type you really are.

[@Leo-ds5dt]

If you want a test to take you can try Sakinorva or John's Personality Test. Although, finding your mbti type through self researching is much better.

[@m2255-e3n]

@@ellecapone1337 Same

[@tomriddle9167]

you're not an infj-t as that doesn't exist. i suggest reading up on cognitive functions if you want to know what your actual mbti is. there is no -t or -a, it's made up by 16 personalities. you're probably an fi dom if you empathize with people easier and are introverted. best of luck.

[@nisshoku1568]

As a INFJ, I personally have a love/hate relationship with my personality, and it being rare, to be honest, only makes me feel frustrated and more lonely, which is weird because I'm person that people go to when they feel lonely or misunderstood, but at the same time, I don't want to give up on my personality either, which creates this feeling me being dissatisfied with myself, but very aware that it is just an emotion that will pass... Eventually at least that is what I hear from older INFJs.

[@M00nban3]

I don't mean to make you feel bad, but it's more like you learn to get along with it. Eventually you learn to cope (and even enjoy) your lone time and your unique self. It's not like you can find people who easily gets you and INFJ tends to repel other INFJ; not because you don't like each other, more like you find where you are needed. In the end you end up being a light, not finding a light.

[@nisshoku1568]

@@M00nban3 Thank you, your comment didn't make me feel bad, I understand what you mean by we learn to cope, and I'm fine with other INFJs oddly enough we the type can not talk for a year and come back like no time went by. 😅

[@youknowwhatiamsayyin]

The fact that even I have the same love/hate relationship with myself 💀

[@thewolfed1687]

I used to kinda hate myself. Still, now, I’m proud to be a Weirdo! It’s become part of me and now I’m happy I’m unique and different. After all, that means ull never find someone like u or me. I used to think I was no one but I’m happy I’m not alone. You can do this thing!

[@youknowwhatiamsayyin]

@@thewolfed1687 Yes, don't hate yourself again! We INFJ really have great personality then people think..

[@Loaflie]

I'm tearing up watching this. As an INFJ, my heart feels warmed. It feels like someone knows what we go through, as though they just dug into our lives and know exactly what goes on. Being an INFJ is beautiful. But being beautiful is what every personality is as well

[@psych2gomandarin]

Summary 0:00 intro 0:54 1. You tend to take an all or nothing approach to life 1:28 2. Everyone tends to gravitate towards you 2:06 3. You have a natural talent for language 2:37 4. You make decisions based on your intuition 3:01 5. You absolutely despise interpersonal conflict 3:34 6. You are concerned about what others think of you 4:03 7. You have principles etched in stones 4:54 ending

[@SteezysWorld]

Sounds like someone w| an ego instead 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@WholesomeAnimationbypsych2go]

Thanks for putting this together!

[@youknowwhatiamsayyin]

@@SteezysWorld And that's why INFJs says that people don't understand them cuzz they really don't

[@Jackal_El_Lobo34]

As an INFJ, I’m not sure if I agree with #2 to be honest.

[@lybo1581]

Can someone explain me the difference between INFJ and INFP please?

[@kelsiewarren6069]

This was actually kind of encouraging for me (an INFJ). My husband is quite opposite of me and sometimes we clash because of my “etched in stone” moral compass and need for alone time. Thank you for this!

[@leighcarlson87]

Same with me. I’ve been married twice - widowed and divorced. Neither husband fully understood me. The guy I’m with now doesn’t either, but he tries.

[@Ashera5469]

even if they don't if they still love u thats all that matters

[@CircmcisionIsChi1dAbus3]

I hope people arent equating rare with valuable. It's not a pokemon card. There are such things as personality disorders. My mom is INFJ and she's a horrible mother.

[@leighcarlson87]

@@CircmcisionIsChi1dAbus3 Yes. Serial killers are rare too. Hardly unique in a good way!

[@CircmcisionIsChi1dAbus3]

@@leighcarlson87 lol precisely I’m not always a big fan of this channels just 100% victim or positive sunshine videos, there’s always two sides to positivity lol

[@taurus7119]

i almost cried watching this.. I resonate with everything, and i learned that its okay to be like that. Its okay to not want to talk to others, in a big group. Its okay to love to be alone. Its okay not to be popular, or the one with the biggest Friend Group. I always thought i have to change myself to be more extroverted, for others to like me more. But why? There is no good and bad personality. it’s just the way it is!

[@pearl3465]

exactly .. even i did feel that changing myself to extrovert would help me but then i thought its better to be a therapist for all rather than changing yourself to someone who u not are. i hv always prayed to god to make me a person who is capable of helping others and is only dependent on god. when i realized that it was being true, i dropped the idea of changing myself

[@sern.21]

So very true. I also resonated with everything and it kind of hurts in a way. This video...it's looking into a mirror. I can relate that I used to think and believe there was something wrong with me...for most of my life in fact. That sucks. To go about life believing you're broken and you need to be fixed somehow. But as a personality type this rare, you come to believe that you're the only one like you - and for that reason it's just you and the world. Now I understand it's not just me and while I am different, I'm not just broken. Sometimes I still feel broken though since people don't understand the real me. I read about these comments where two INFJs found one another and have a happy relationship and I am happy for them. I am approaching my mid 30s and wondering if I should find a way to be happy on my own but I am uncertain what that looks like. I'm talking about true happiness, not just status quo. Should I just be content with a good job? It seems like such a shallow pool I'd be standing in, telling myself this is enough. But would I believe that? Maybe given enough time. Many say they would not trade their INFJ status; good for them. I am not so sure if I had the chance. I can't seem to reconcile if the trade offs would be worth it.

[@taurus7119]

@@sern.21 Every personality has different struggles. So why change? The only difference is that ours is the most rarest, but being on the internet you see sooo many INFJs that you think how is that possible to be so rare, hahah. Also happiness depends on many other things. And you cant always be happy.. I for myself learned, to accept how life is, accept all the struggles and search for the good in everything AND appreciate what you have,never forget what you have and what you already achieved. Being alive also is something to apreciate ! I wish you good luck on your journey.

[@sern.21]

​@@taurus7119 Finding INFJs on the internet is easy because we're drawn to this central 'location' discussing the very nature of who we are. In the real world, on average and with all things in perfect balance, only 2 people in a room of 100 will be an INFJ. So yeah, we'll run into INFJs in the wild but only rarely and we likely will never know. So the odds of ending up in a relationship with another INFJ just seems like ridiculous odds to me lol. Imagine two INFJs finding one another in a room full of 100 people... > _Every personality has different struggles. So why change?_ That is a valid point. Trade the problems I know well for some problems I don't know well. I do try very hard to appreciate what I have and remind myself. Here's to hoping in the next 6 months I can find even more ways to appreciate where I'm at in life. Thank you and I wish you luck on your journey as well. ☮

[@hany___]

@@taurus7119 unfortunately, I'd have to disagree I would trade my INFJ personality type for ENTJ personality type. Reasons : ENTJ is a natural leader, bold, imaginative, strategic, analytical, logical, considered to be one of the most successful personality types, so in other words, if I got a choice I'd definitely choose ENTJ Sure ENTJ isn't perfect, they struggle with emotions, can be impulsive / pushy sometimes, argumentative / stubborn, but that's a small price to pay given all the benefits of being an ENTJ Well I know I am who I am and can't change and all that. However, by the theory of behaviorism, we inherit traits from our environment, meaning I could potentially inherit some ENTJ traits by being around ENTJs in real life.

[@mistymusicrecords4659]

I am also an INFJ, and this video certainly confirmed it lol. I’ve taken the test usually once a year and alway get INFJ, and I’m 25 now so guess it’s set lol. I felt heard with this video! Reading other’s comments was interesting too, it’s funny how people disconnected around the world are all facing similar struggles because of a personality type we all share. Shout-out to the other INFJ’s!!

[@haneenasad]

Not an INFJ, but still here to learn about you guys 👀

[@hutchi9135]

Look at cognitive functions

[@haneenasad]

@@hutchi9135 I know about cognitive functions :D

[@rymreaper]

👀😳 y rho

[@wingsofzekke42]

MBTI is not perfect it does not include the two crucial and very dangerous personalities the Sociopath and Psychopath which are common, can mask themselves like INFJs

[@haneenasad]

@@wingsofzekke42 Yes I know. MBTI is just a rough estimate, at most

[@nanamews]

One of the best things about finding out I’m INFJ is seeing clear, solid descriptions in videos like these. I finally feel somewhat understood!

[@Psych2go]

[@Sgt.chickens]

You are not INFJ. IT DOESNT EXIST. ITS FAKE. IT WAS MADE UP BY 2 WOMEN WITH NO QUALIFICATIONS. this entire personality type shit was invented by people like this Disgusting you tuber to Abuse and exploit children into thinking its real and giving them money and attention. it litterally has 0 basis in any kind of science. its just fake. or do you really think you as an individual human are so easily defineable? of course not. you are a unique being not some combination of letters.

[@Philobiblion]

This is all spot on, as they say. I find the affirming cred very comforting. I frequently lose sight of who I am.

[@fluzac1118]

Honestly the most accurate way to find your personality type based on cognitive functions, I was mistyped as a INFP. I felt i couldn’t exactly relate to them so I decided to do a research on cognitive functions it turned out I was a INFJ, fellow Reddit users helped me too haha

[@juice_lime5114]

The classic truth seeking through research, very Ni-Ti in fashion. No assumptions to justify you being otherwise. Did the same myself through months of painstaking research, trying to deny being one (did not work). Have to admit being one...

[@laomedeia5957]

I got INFP-T in 16personalities (SURPRISE!!🥳, like everyone) and knowing about functions I knew I have Ne, so I was an XNXP and I still with the INFP, then I thought that my Ne was too strong to be at the second place, so I was an ENXP and I continue with the ENFP. Everything to finally decide that I was an ENTP. So even knowing about functions is a long way getting to know your true type but 16personalities doesn't give any information

[@justice2963]

I've mistyped as infp too I did the test a few more times though and got infj all the other times

[@fluzac1118]

@@laomedeia5957 ah that is quite the long path from INFP-T to ENTP :,D but also having a bit of knowledge on functions makes me feel a bit more “sure” about it too *the process of learning functions was something too, for me at least

[@cervatillo]

16 personalities typed me right 💀💀 but sometimes i wonder if im entp bc of my high fe btw whats yall typology? im INTP so5w6 514 ILE RCUAI phleg-san

[@wolfspirit220]

I am an INFJ-T. Growing up I always set very high standards for myself and would go into a meltdown if I didn't preform to my expectations. My parents always tried to reassure me that "You tried and did you best, that is okay." but to me it never was. I never understood why I was always this way until I took the MBTI. To say I am introverted is an understatement, I like being in my own little world, taking time to rest up and focus on my hobbies/interests. This video really hit the nail on the head for me. Thank you for your great content. Can't wait to learn more about the INFJ personality.

[@mahmoonakauser3896]

same i feel you

[@user-ui5me3in6n]

so true

[@mtoingehs]

If you wanna learn more study cognitive functions?

[@Me-pn7gq]

I'm INFJ-T too! I relate to you so much!

[@adriana27100]

I remember the first physical fight I was at high school, all the kids were excited and I was literally dragged out to watch while I cried. Everyone was cheering them on while I was crying for this poor boy being beaten. Hundreds of students… it was so sad and really made me realize I’m not like most of these kids

[@patiakreles]

I have had similar experiences and it breaks my heart. Once I was booed nonstop by a huge crowd for trying to stop a fight. I was once hit for trying to stop people from doing something very dangerous, the one that hit me wasn't even on the discussion, I was on the verge of convincing the others and out of knowhere a kick comes flying. Since then I go against my gut and I let people do their shit, it is not fun to have trauma for people that won't care about you. Hard lesson to learn.

[@gektoast4968]

As always, shocking accuracy. I’m impressed with your guy’s data collection

[@Heather90]

Took the test in high school, in college, and at thirty-INFJ all three times 🖤✨

[@d3nny_s3mpai]

Meanwhile, I as well took the test three times However, the result was always different (one of them was INFJ) 😑 However, each of those three do compliment my personality 😊

[@Krishnapriya1]

Same got same INFJ results when I took it twice in Degree and post Masters

[@jennywhitehouse4800]

Me too - even did it for work and again got it

[@THE_OFFICIAL_DARKMASTER07]

Same!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@cervatillo]

name 3 cognitive functions

[@TheShinyScouter]

As an INFJ, I see all of these within myself. It can be tiring trying to balance everything all the time, but I'm overall happy with the hand I've been dealt in life. I also really like writing! It's a really fun way for me to channel my thoughts and feelings into something fun, new and creative that I can share with others! It makes me genuinely happy to write stories and it's always been a big passion of mine.

[@nuruls7606]

Samee!! 🤗

[@TheShinyScouter]

@@nuruls7606 :D

[@ashvergent]

I love writing too!! It's so relaxing to write out what I'm feeling and thinking. Also sharing it or re reading my words always brings me joy and clarity 😇

[@shirleyusman6120]

Mee too!!

[@knullorp-s360]

Love writing,reading,drawing,craft,music..etc 👍

[@lilsky.b]

I used to be an infp years ago, but, since i had some thoughts of changing and realizing that i was another person, i did the test, and finally became infj, i do relate to, but i had to get more into it, because i didn’t knew what’s means to be an infj. Thank you for the video! it’s useful 💗

[@SilverStyles01]

Found out I was an infj and at first didn't believe it but watching videos like this makes me believe it

[@yashmii]

same !!

[@tom-is-grinding]

Yeah me too my guy

[@Andeexx]

As an INFJ this is so accurate for me. I always felt like no one really understood me or that I was feeling so lonely, or something was wrong with me cause people weren’t like me but it does make sense that it’s rare for people being INFJs cause that’s why it has been hard and rare to connect with people who’s just like me and understands me. I love to help other people and their issues, while I hate talking about my issues. And also, love to be alone to do my favorite hobbies or to be with a small group who i’m comfortable hanging out with but that’s very rare. Mostly it’s the family i’m comfortable with though.

[@SteveSnowin-yj6os]

As a matter of fact INFJ’s actually like going outside to hang out they are more like the extroverted introverts rather that fully introverted. But good.

[@test4fun118]

How can others do a better job to let I share yrself and what’s the things u do when u are alone ? (Thx I’m INTP, have INFJ friend, want to be a better friend)

[@happysamoan97]

The trying to upbuild others was pretty big for me. We want everyone around us to succeed and find happiness.

[@renmage23uwu]

Team Introvert all the way! For me as an INFJ myself, I feel like I can relate to all of what was explained in this video, but despite all the bad things that might happen, I will always try to stay positive whenever possible. Sometimes, it doesn't always work out and I just break down and feel really bad and blame myself about what happened, but I won't let that feeling control me. This is why I find doing art is really calming. I feel like this video is very accurate.

[@_Experience_.]

I’m so proud to be an INFJ! I have trouble with friends because when I don’t know enough about them, I find it hard to stay passionate around them. I want a friend that i know A LOT about and agrees with my perspective and such. I struggle with my friends now because even though I see them everyday I don’t know a lot about them and they are so different from me. It’s nice to know that I got a special personality, though! But it also adds to the pressure to put it to use. When I heard that the biggest fear to an INFJ was not putting in their full potential I couldn’t agree more. I’m scared I won’t be able to make the lasting impact I want to in this world, of course I have a lot of time since I’m a young teenager, but I’m scared I won’t be able to do what I feel I am in this world to do. Like what others say, being an INFJ is wonderful, but it’s also awful. I don’t think I would want to be anything else, though.

[@rebbits]

i relate so much !!! especially with what you feel about your friends :'))

[@liddo1656]

I relate too. I am having similar issues with my college friends. Your sharing helps me feel better.

[@sarahthomas2922]

I totally agree!!

[@bora4395]

ok now i understood why i cried when my bff calls me quiet why i like to write every opinion on any paper why i never really tried but got the highest c2 in my english and korean why all my essays are good why i can see bad side of everybody or everything and juidge it why i always make analysis on people conversation the internet it makes life more reasonable

[@noobyish]

i'm an infj and the part where you talked about wanting to leave people better off after interacting with you resonated with me on a personal level. i really do feel bad if i think that an interaction left a bad taste in the mouth of someone i care about.

[@annu.panghal]

I am INFJ Advocate . This video is a blessing. I can relate to every single point mentioned here. Now, understood a lot of things about me. And I won't force myself to change myself from now on. Enough of self doubt, it's time for self-care. I really appreciate your effort for making such insightful content.

[@amirfarhan5134]

Be yourself. I'm INFJ-A too. If age has taught me, be yourself for you and not for others. Our quirkiness is something magical.

[@yejislover9692]

To be honest, since I was little I felt like nobody could understand me, not even my closest friends But the problem was I didn’t want to be seen as a pathetic loser that was constantly sad, I always pretended to be happy and quirky so that people could see me differently. My family doubted me for being to introverted and “too sensitive” and that made me sad knowing I was different. Nowadays I always hear people saying things like “being different is good, it makes you unique!” Whenever i hear phrases like that I feel sad knowing I’d rather be the same as everyone else. I remember once I didn’t want to go up and do prayer in front of the class but this boy, Ben, called me a shy, introverted loser and it mad made me feel really, really sad. I hope some of you guys can relate to me :)

[@sweaterweather8740]

I relate to you don't worry its gonna be okay

[@inoriya]

Me too always feel like it's no point to tell my stuffs to close friends even tho they are close friends but even close friends and family members won't be able to understand. It's true that on some days this can be very sad but on the other day you just need to let yourself embrace and have a different focus point. I once thought I found one people that can understand me fully and got myself too deep into it and when things went ugly the hurt for INFJs are double. So instead of focusing on others' point of view (which is what we spent too much caring) we should focus on making ourselves contented!

[@sarahmitchell8132]

Yes

[@qixue6233]

As an ifnj, we seek significant relationships, including family members. When we found out people around us are not cherishing this relationship as we do, we would rather feel disappointed (which in the eyes of them we are being sensitive). Clearly there is no right or wrong about this. It is your own behaviours. Just always remember to remind yourself you needed to be loved too, which is to care more about your own feeling.

[@test4fun118]

@@inoriyamay I know why no body understand ? Is not rocket and science… What don’t they understand ? Plz tell me , I have an INFJ friend , what to understand better, thx

[@c.m.8068]

As an INFJ-T, who's also a highly sensitive person, I recognise myself in all of these traits. And I can confirm that life can be very challenging at times. I often feel overwhelmed by emotions - not only mine, but the emotions of others as well - and I find it very hard to find an "anchor" to keep me grounded. I have GAD and social anxiety due to the fact that I always try to please other people. And obviously when I fail, I feel miserable and I go into panic mode. It can be very, very, veeery consuming but it's also beautiful. I don't think I would change the way I can look at the world around me, because - in spite of all the struggle - I like being so much in contact with emotions. I feel that it makes me a much more complex person and this is one of my best qualities in my opinion.

[@sev4709]

wow!! as an INFJ-T who's also an HSP, i relate to everything you said! it feels great to know that i'm not alone

[@notyourdaughter]

As an INFJ-T who has GAD and social anxiety as well, I completely agree! When I don't meet someone else's expectations I think about it for days on end and cringe at the thought of it and it makes me feel physically sick to my stomach too

[@jeffreybeyer8439]

I am an INFJ. I’m 57 and I’ve felt very misunderstood my whole life. The emotions I feel for myself and others can be overwhelming at times. I have learned to accept myself and appreciate my uniqueness in the world .

[@randomperson1658]

There is no A/T in MBTI. There is a high chance you took a test which is likely to be incorrect. I advice you to learn the cognitive functions to type yourself- Intj

[@c.m.8068]

@@randomperson1658 Thank you friend; I took the test multiple times and I'm pretty satisfied with the result! I don't recognise at all in INTJ, so I'll stick with the result depicted above.

[@P0lishgirl]

0:29 in THE USA, bro I live in Europe 😭😂

[@Not_human8383]

Me 2😭😭😭

[@gracee.fletcher2206]

A few years ago, I took a personality test and turned out to be INFJ. I took another one this year and it still turns out to be the same! Your channel is very insightful and inspiring. Thank you so much for talking about this!

[@iverreway]

Me too.. i took it 4 times on different times since 2015, and still get the same result..

[@Psych2go]

That is awesome!

[@aakashailajan]

This gave me so much clarity. I keep being told I'm weird for being alone and working on the things I love. Also agree on the principles or morals part. I never get swayed in doing something I don't like.

[@izzatysalleh]

Why is this so accurate? I just found out about my own personality after watching this video. Thanks for this full of knowledge video :)

[@Tarantula_Fangs]

I’ve taken the quiz 3 different times (twice the same one and the 3rd time a different test) and I got INFJ on all of them. I tried to be truthful and honest as much as I could be. Honestly, I know this is considered to be a Pseudo science, but I felt soooo understood once I read all the details. I’m happy to be an INFJ, I know certain aspects of my life are immensely challenging, but I love who I am and what I can do, and what I can bring to peoples lives. 👁️🔥I am considered to be eccentric, but I cherish that about myself.

[@moon_dust_lights3388]

I actually took "That Personality Test' Yesterday and didn't have the idea of INFJ-T, When the results came, I saw that I was INFJ-T. Today I am here to see INFJ-T and is true that I am an introvert in public but with my besties am the most crackhead and also everything that showed here in this video was relatable to me...

[@lauraellian3805]

I thought I was the only one

[@randomperson1658]

A/T don't exist in Mbti. The test is inaccurate. It is very likely that you are not an Infj.

[@cookiebomb2571]

Same goes here.

[@ivarboneless-c8d]

At first I had doubts of being INFJ But when I watched this video I recognized all 7 signs which made me smile thinking this video hit the spot🤣.

[@breadisnice]

Fun fact: The actual rarest type is ENTJ while INFJ is the third rarest personality type according to the new results.

[@Rachel-tp3or]

time stamps for those who need them! --- 1- 0:54 You tend to take an all-or-nothing approach to life. 2- 1:28 everyone tend to gravitate towards you. 3- 2:07 you have a natural talent for language. 4- 2:37 you make decisions based on your intuition. 5- 3:02 you absolutely despise interpersonal conflict. 6- 3:35 you are concerned about what others think of you. 7- 4:04 you have principles etched in stone. i hope everyone has a blessed day/night ty for all this amazing content!!

[@WholesomeAnimationbypsych2go]

Thanks for putting this together!

[@danny_1636]

Watching these videos is really valuable because, although I usually dislike sharing the fact that I’m an INFJ, these videos make me feel understood

[@lalaland5138]

as an infj number 2 is my favorite and hardest to deal with. i love people but i get so overwhelmed by it. im also autistic

[@Pheonixvatoreii]

As an INFJ, this video has helped me understand more about my personality type and has highlighted behaviours I never knew I naturally did, but can now think of solid examples of me doing so. Thanks

[@ジョジョ-r9c]

3:34 hits me hard. As the eldest daughter its really frustrating when you can't help people around you especially your parents. It may not look im not affected but im really broken inside, you know... it feels like i don't deserve them :((

[@adanfloresrodela8599]

Not only is infj the rarest but is also the darkest and most dangerous personality type of all time. I highly ever doubt that infjs and dark empaths are the exact same personality. Both personality traits have both a positive and negative trairs about them.

[@sienna829]

I agree. I'm pretty much a pursuer of many hobbies! ❤️

[@BubblyBerriez]

Same. Like can you blame me for liking sketching, gaming, clay art, bead art, music, and even journaling sometimes. So yeah agreed!

[@sienna829]

@@BubblyBerriez omg someone like me! High five! I guess it goes to show infj people are very artsy and talented! 🥰❤️

[@BubblyBerriez]

@@sienna829 yes! I always feel very inspired to do things after a while, I’ve been doing art for a few years with professional supplies and it’s made me so much happier that I could express myself without having to talk to people and them not understanding :D

[@nah9935]

This is my issue with icebreakers because I just can’t choose one hobby…I have a lot depending on my mood!

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

Ditto. Lover of many things and people (but the latter more-so from a psychoanalytical distance).

[@SeaxresUne]

I have been taking more personality tests in my MFA courses because I'm close to getting my online teaching certification. Testing as an INFJ gave me more insight to what kind of teacher I can be as long as I balance my expectations, establish professional boundaries and avoid burnout. Thanks for the upload!

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for sharing :) Did you relate to the video?

[@SeaxresUne]

@@Psych2go I definitely related to the video, especially about the love of language. I have a BA in English Language and Literature and enjoy writing 5-minute poems for friends and family.

[@THE_KalyArchivia]

Oh man- being an INFJ with like- really bad Aphantasia is the worst too, because like- you get this super specific idea all at once but like- you cant see or recreate it and typically like.. God thats literally kept me up all night, especially when I'm writing and I'm trying to imagine a scene, and I just cant portray it right 🥲

[@legolasgreenleaf6341]

"INFJ is very rare" Comment section on every video about INFJ: "I am INFJ!"

[@Aubye]

I honestly thought that INFJ was the most common just because I’ve seen so many ppl say they are INFJ in any of these personality videos

[@legolasgreenleaf6341]

@Dr. D So apparently those 1-3% of people really likes to watch KZbin videos about their personality, huh? 🤔

[@MisokoFukumoto]

@@legolasgreenleaf6341 I'd think other types too, would watch out of curiosity. Though, those who fit are more likely to make a comment to say that they fit. Thus, you see many birds flock together. Besides, these test result can change due to time and further experience. I was INFP-A. My recent result is INFJ-T. Anyway, I really think it's common trait among us, being introverted and all, to know about ourselves more than to know about others, since ... y'know, that's what most introvert tend to do and start with.

[@legolasgreenleaf6341]

@@MisokoFukumoto I think I rarely see that with ISTP or ISTJ or ISFJ, or ISFP. Probably there not many videos about those personality because they're not ✨rare✨ and ✨unique ✨

[@en6els811]

this is USA statistics, plus a video with INFJ in it is bound to attract most of us. a large majority still use 16p so most are probably mistyped.

[@liliurud2789]

I didn't know this type was rare -- during one of my jobs in college I worked in a building where we were all injfs, some of the kindest people I've ever met. it's also really cool seeing how more people can understand from each other learning about MBTI. I've had the same results for ten years now and it helps a lot in understanding each other and myself.

[@sarahberkner]

At 2% of the population it's not that rare. Although I have no idea how they came up with that number.

[@fuzzylated]

i wonder what was the job... it's really a dream job to be surrounded by those kind of people

[@boykidmanboykidman5420]

Any advice on finding a community like that? Somewhat like minded people?

[@welkeen273]

I'm pretty surprised that you can really open everything what I feel in this video, ngl pretty scary but also awesome in the same time! Keep up the good work Psych2Go!

[@AmityClark-zm5ip]

I'm 10 and an INFJ. It's really, really sad when I'm with my "friend", and I realise that they actually hate me...

[@anonymouse6703]

Awww little one. Don't worry, your good energy will attract a better friend :)

[@kid_rz]

@@anonymouse6703 lmao hahahahahahha

[@anonymouse6703]

@@kid_rz and that's funny because...why?

[@taorenli6542]

Yes, sometimes it feels like I am a human confession room, everyone I encountered or close friends share their deepest secret to me. It is sweet as it means you are trustworthy but it also gives you a heavy burden to carry these secrets.

[@a.krishna3924]

I feel uuuuu

[@nikkibunnyluv]

Yes you love for them to be heard but u also bring the burden with u

[@Zaxlfang]

I took a personality test and got INFJ-A, then this video pops up on my recommended feed and basically lists off all my major personality traits with 100% accuracy. It's almost scary how accurate your videos are sometimes.

[@intuitiveimprints]

Very accurate description of us INFJs. Sometimes it can be so frustrating being one but, at the end of the day, I wouldn’t have it any other way. I find some type of creative outlet is what helps me really get my feelings out as I have a hard time opening up to people. On my channel I have recently started, I film and edit videos of nature in the Greater Toronto Area. I have found this to be very therapeutic for me and has helped immensely in finding calm and peace. I love being out in nature as it’s a very profound and spiritual time for me. It helps me reflect on things and rejuvenate. I try to somehow communicate this through my videos. And I encourage all INFJs to spend as much time as you can out in nature. Anyway, very good video and great channel you have here! Thank you for putting out these most enlightening videos! 😊

[@goon992]

I'm an intp it's really frustrated me that the only thing I cannot understand the most is my gf. She did the test, turns out she's infj and everything just makes sense. These people are very stubborn, super kind and so pure in their heart to the point that it makes me furious. What a godsent gift

[@shio5186]

As an INFJ, I must say this is really accurate. When I was young, I don't understand why I have to take an all or none attitude in everything. I actually wanted to change it but I couldn't. I only understand it after knowing that it's in my personality type.

[@kyuvitv17]

I am an INFJ and this is so true!!! I can relate each and every line of this video. THANK YOU for this! It made my day!

[@e_shima]

So I really am an INFJ.. This is totally me. I've always felt like I'm different than the others of my family and friends. Sometimes that difference felt like odd and weird. I really hated being like that. It's so hard to be open up to people and talk about what I have on my mind. Writing makes me feel much better. I wanna write a book one day but for my lack of confidence, I always gave up in the midst of writing. Hope I can somehow finish writing a book one day. I don't want anyone to understand me cause it's very hard but I just hope they won't find me weird and let me live my life like this. And hope they'll see the good I'm trying to do. Also I must mention that you have a very warm and nice soothing voice that can make someone's day better :)

[@ClimateScamBatman]

That explains perfectly what I’ve been trying to tell people for 46 years.😢great video

[@arielag419]

As an INFJ, I relate to this. I mean, no matter how hard I try to not care about people, I end up caring. After taking the 16 personality test one too many times, I've realized that maybe this is the reason why I feel so alien, despite developing a lot of connections over time. So, thank you for making all INFJs out there feel heard and understood.

[@haas0072]

Yes!! Keep being you and keep caring, it’s your gift!

[@nickidaisydandelion4044]

It's wonderful to care. But you have to protect yourself at all times. Don't struggle with narcissists. Send them love remotely. Meet only with compassionate people.

[@mtoingehs]

Hey so uh the 16p test isn’t the most accurate thing? Ye I have been mistyped before and if you really wanna know your MBTI just study cognitive functions?

[@nickidaisydandelion4044]

@@mtoingehs I was at the other house for over a week. I'm never too lazy to reply. My haters know that I always reply when their comment to me is fair enough. I watch documentary films on cognition and neurology sometimes. Much of what is being summarized in school literature is merely an attempt to organize things into groups and categories. It's never meant to say you have either this or that or if you have one you can't have the other. Most people have a bit of all groups or several groups. I just have all Asperger's and INFJ criteria points.

[@mtoingehs]

@@nickidaisydandelion4044 ??? What does my name have to do with MBTI? And being a hater sounds like a lot work I just kinda forget people after awhile. Don’t know why Asperger’s is part of this but okay? But sometimes cognition could be different stuff and sadly I just found out the person who owns the 16p thing I guess in someway of trade mark or copyright is now like a cooperate company :( and their making fake stuff to earn more profit. Anyways I didn’t really understand much sorry just got back from a tiring day. Ye feel free to share me your thoughts I love discussions when people answer back!

[@aviviastar7177]

As an INFJ, I think we are just all Starseeds, here on Earth to make the world a better place and to raise the consciousness.

[@kimjisooedits]

So true everything about this video....being an INFJ personality....no one in my class really understand me well if they have been close to me yet...and yes we do take things on our emotion.... that's why I'm very sad sometimes 🙂 A great video ❤!!

[@ItsMeKarno]

As an INFJ, I feel like all of the points are a bullseye even though I've come to realize that some of these point apply to me, and I didn't even know that about myself. Thanks for making this video!

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

I also found out about it a few months ago, when I watched several videos about INFJs and then knew it has to be me. And so did the test say. :D

[@yeetboi3863]

I thought this video was older nvm it’s the other one

[@ayako_samaa]

Hi

[@sahara4791]

@@ayako_samaa WHY IS THIS 6DAYS AGO

[@sahara4791]

@@ayako_samaa 4DAYS*

[@HoshiSiorah]

?? 4 and 6 days ago???

[@SillySamWho]

@@sahara4791 Welcome To Time Travel

[@Tama-re9sx]

I got the result that I was an INFJ-T about a few months ago and was very confused on why it was so rare. Yet I even knew from my own mind set that I wasn’t really like others. So this video really made me feel exposed upon how my brain and structure of life works. Yet thank you for the wonderful content and bringing light to the rarest personality type . I am proud to relate to this video and be apart of 1-3% in the USA.

[@fluzac1118]

Ahh infj-t you took from the 16personalities web right? Because the test there is inaccurate I would recommend finding your type based off cognitive functions! :) which is the jugian mbti

[@polapruzinska6728]

you took Big Five test, not MBTI test. Big Five is also a personality test, but it’s different and doesn’t mean the same as MBTI : ) sakinorva is a good MBTI test, but the best way to type yourself is to learn about functions

[@yoon2917]

I took it again using the recommended MBTI tests and still INFJ and INTJ. Pretty interesting

[@Tama-re9sx]

@@fluzac1118 I took the preferred method and I still got the same results.

[@polapruzinska6728]

@@yoon2917 you just have amazing introvert intuition haha

[@pacarter7169]

As an INFJ there are a few people who are drawn to me… but as a cashier/clerk, I am well liked because I am helpful and curious.

[@Rachel-tp3or]

i commented on the other video not sure what i am between infj or infp ❤️perfect timing!!

[@sassylittleprophet]

I remember when I first took the test and read the INFJ personality description; it was my first major step to (one) understanding myself, and (two) feeling seen, understood, validated, and a little less alone in the world and existence in general.

[@musicalmeg19]

I felt the same! It was incredibly eye-opening for me and quite liberating. I remember feeling like I wanted to cry because I finally felt understood.

[@Brudlee]

MBTI is just astrology for people who feel they’re too smart for astrology.

[@sassylittleprophet]

@@Brudlee okay, and . . . ?

[@Berrychanmangobutt]

@@sassylittleprophet are sure you infj

[@sassylittleprophet]

@@Berrychanmangobutt yes. Very sure

[@celkii8839]

Number 4 rings so true for me (I’m INFJ, so they all really work for me) but this one especially. On tests, I tend to go with my immediate gut feeling for an answer, and unless I’m truly not sure, I never go back and check. No one around me understands this method, but so far it has worked much better for me than going back and reading over the questions and making myself overthink. If I overthink about it, I tend to pick the wrong answer. My mom was absolutely baffled when I told her this is how I take tests and that I score well on them. Often I am asked questions such as “what if you read a question wrong?” And I answer with “if I go back and read over questions, I tend to miss more answers overthinking than I would have missed by reading something wrong.” It’s something that I’ve found to help me and it’s crazy now realizing that is it something to do with my personality!

[@Anni-lo2ty]

A sum-up of an INFJ: As contradictory as it might sound, we INFJs aren't as rare as people make us out to be. The only reason we have the stereotype of 'being rare' is because we relate to so many people, that when we do find out that relating to people, understanding and permitting them to voice their own opinions and needs without judgement, whether they choose to do so, or do so because we have literally known their intentions since the second encounter we had with them, is actually part of our personality type and isn't just an emotional and mental affliction where we just... understand everyone and can't hate any person because we see their point of view, the idea of us understanding everyone is so wild and radical, described as a personality and identity, that the contrast to how little people understand our own views and opinions, are staggering. The thing with INFJs, folks, is that, we give you the space to present your case and will judge you according to the fruit you bare, and not by your circumstances. We listen you out; we give you the full benefit of the doubt. And, we expect you to do the same. When we come without judgment and with understanding, we expect the same! But the thing about this, if you judge us before knowing our intentions, thoughts or motives, you are judging the wrong person. If you do not allow us to share with you our true intentions and motivations, you will be fooled for as long as you do not try to understand us, too. If an INFJ is judged and not given the chance to explain themselves, you will go to your grave knowing you have fooled yourself. Because we don’t think basic. We don’t live in the moment. We analyze and read your next actions based on every single thing you have communicated, whether verbal or non-verbal. You are not a secret to us, and you don't fool us. And, if you do not give us the chance to explain ourselves, you will go to your grave knowing that you were outwitted by a psychology nerd with a PHD in conspiracy theories. But like, with feelings. And you can go to your grave knowing we probably forgave you at some point.

[@rorshadowz]

Omg I'm in love with the dancing animation in the outro 🙊❤️❤️

[@Psych2go]

Glad you like it :)

[@twistedtheorist4321]

I have taken the test twice, and both resulted to INFJ. After watching this vid, I would say I am a 100% INFJ! I truly resonate to all the situations mentioned. ♥ Thank you so much for this.

[@_.xandxr._4714]

I've struggled with making friends alot . All my life infact.I relate to everything on this list.I took several personality tests and got the same results INFJ.Im actually so happy there are people like Me out there.

[@dimitarfroze8046]

For 30 years I thought there was something wrong with me and that I am the only one. Glad to see so many infj ppl here

[@qutiequirkycorn888unicorn]

I heard about the MBTI last year. I took it today when I was at school because I've seen fictional characters with their personality types along with their Ennegram and Zodiac sign. And the results were INFJ. I was concerned if there was something special about it. And it was: being the most rare type. I don't like suffering from stress, I enjoy being creative...Which I find kind of accurate.🤔

[@liyuan2654]

Of course! A fellow human that also doesn’t enjoy stress, just like me.

[@sholbgreat]

Where did you take it

[@TheRogDawg05]

i took this test last school year and I am an INFJ. I got it and was like, "cool." I didn't think it was so rare

[@br_xwneyez]

genuine infj here, this video covers everything there is about us quite well. i have trouble focusing and concentrating on things alot, writing some things down def help. i have been writing a diary for almost 5 years now and i can say that is prolly my fav thing to do ever...great video