6 Things INFJ Says & What They Really Mean

[@Psych2go]

How are you? Who is excited to join our live stream on June 26? Disclaimer: This video's primary intention is for providing entertainment and light-hearted content. For full disclaimer, please read the description box.

[@NGUSpaegoo]

I am good, I’ve been better though...

[@what-ub4sn]

I'm good!

[@emileedhouse8367]

;)

[@maira_counterstriked]

Im feeling like im flying :D thank you for asking! what about you?! hope you're doing good too! im really excited for yourstream!

[@kaelynreyn]

i’m great! i hope you are nice too!! ill try to make your stream :)

[@firemoon9106]

What every INFJ do: - Doesn't answer the phone call - Wait for it to end ringing without rejecting the call (because in our mind that would be more rude than ignoring it) - Search online the phone number to see if the number was a safe number or a scam And you can be sure that I do this everytime unless it's a close friend. Nothing personal, we are just idiots

[@lakshitabhagwat8071]

yes, i can relate it all

[@Musiclover-tm5es]

I don't search online. I wait to see if they call again, or leave a voicemail. If it is important the person calling usually tries again, or leaves a voicemail.

[@Musiclover-tm5es]

In my mind hanging up the phone, and not letting it ring, shows the caller that you could've answered it, rather than that you were busy.

[@kwhatever5806]

why is this describing me lol

[@Ladywildflower1010]

If there's no voice-mail, it wasn't important

[@alwinjohnmathew2921]

INFJ thinks a lot of times b4 speaking a word.

[@Milo-31shades]

And still regret what they said

[@mohammadsiddiq6056]

I don't tho I just SPEAK!

[@greatwavefan397]

INTJs: Finally, a worthy ally!

[@zlandorio2838]

YESSSSSS

[@alwinjohnmathew2921]

Yeh. I too regrets.

[@Potato.495]

As an INFJ, when I ask “how are you”, all I want to do is help the other person if they aren’t doing well enough because that’s one of the tendencies of an INFJ, to help others, and if they’re happy then I’ll be happy for them because people could always use some love and happiness

[@susanlime8012]

Same I'm also an infj and also agree with your statement

[@amruthavalli1260]

Yes it's not the monotone meaningless how are you

[@keiron.4612]

Nobody ever asks how I am I sit in my room most day's in my own world

[@Potato.495]

@@keiron.4612 I think we find our peace in that but we should always have at least one person, be it a friend or family, to talk to from time to time :)

[@happisoul9616]

Yes me too

[@Irystocrat1134]

People always says things like "if INFJ is rare, why does the comment section is full of infjs?" I think because this video is about us and we are interested in mbti and psychology that's why we're attracted to these type of videos.

[@adelaidekeys5244]

completely agree!

[@cloudymew]

Agreed, coming from an INFJ herself/themself

[@juliaostowicz6501]

Agreed! Underrated

[@burneraccountpls]

Thank yoooou :]

[@janielsewell8208]

You. Nuff sed.

[@brandoncriss0]

Being an infj, I completely agree with this. I love being with other people socially, but it is overwhelming most of the time and I'll overthink the effects of what I say

[@dakotaaddison9059]

I like being social but like 30 minutes max and then I’m all worn out

[@spongenoob4409]

Ikr

[@katie5998]

Same, but I think that’s because I exhaust myself to understand every little detail about them (body language, tone of voice, etc). It’s because I do not let myself relax. People are very interesting. How they work is very interesting. But constantly dissecting people, you oftentimes let what could’ve been a really nice present moment slip by.

[@John-ih7gp]

Just a thank you to you and other INFJ's, for only we are the closest to being able to remotely understand ourselves. Sojournering into the depths of understanding, and every once in a while coming back for air for a few minutes. I so badly want to trade hearts and minds with another person for a while, to see their own abstractions, or color in the world. We're such complex paradoxes, it is hardly worth explaining. Keep putting one step ahead of the other. Give yourself some credit for living in a double universe of: fantasy and real life, dreams and realities, concious and unconcious, and lastly, your heart and your mind. It's a war, but I'm hoping for all of us that eventually both become great allies!

[@pauFriend1706]

Yeah, I love gatherings and meeting new people (in a small amount) but it's also exhausting cuz I'm so self-conscious ALL the time, 2nd thinking every word I say. I even read this comment like 5 times before sending it.

[@lunarinara]

That 'INFJs has low energy threshold' really got me

[@srishtiwakhloo4975]

What does that mean? I couldn't understand it. Google gives me answers related to physics.

[@n1etr056]

@@srishtiwakhloo4975 yea ikr lmao

[@darthjayder9914]

it is true though

[@lunarinara]

@@srishtiwakhloo4975 for me that means that I get tired very easily even if I have socialized with very few people at a time

[@srishtiwakhloo4975]

@@lunarinara thank you for explaining

[@24AngelChild68]

*INFJ at a department store* Saleslady: can I help you with what you’re looking for? INFJ: yes please, I’m just looking for the meaning of life…

[@kwhatever5806]

lol i love this

[@mmh8102]

Lol so true

[@dankanronpa8862]

I would just say no, I'm fine and a minute later throw in a late and sweaty thank you 😅 even if I do need help, I don't want to be needy or bothersome

[@chromaticblue3976]

@@dankanronpa8862 Exactly. Say "No thanks, I'm fine." Spend 30 minutes looking for what I'm trying to find, then look and see if the sales person seems bored. If they are doing *anything* at all, then decide they are too busy to deal with me and just leave.

[@samaviazahid8139]

As an enfp all I want is to have an infj beside me gosh so sick of people, can't relate to them ,only u people can got me and make connections I hope to get an infj for me soon 🥺

[@Zim___]

It's great being INFJ because there's a lot of content for us on KZbin lol

[@Psych2go]

What's one thing you like about being an INFJ?

[@luvzlalisa]

I know right!!

[@markof.4361]

Oh, men. Thats so true, i was just thinking the same jajajajajjjaja.

[@jacklynjustiniano4251]

@@Psych2go being able to help my closest friends

[@ladyteacupii784]

@@Psych2go having so many interesting and vivid dreams. Man i could talk about so many that I remember. Whenever i get bored i would normally just remember some of my best ones and sort of go through what happened in the dream and how I was feeling and try to find a deeper meaning in it. I haven't even forgotten some that I had dreams ago just because I keep analyzing them over and over to find out what they mean. One bad thing is that the same thing also happens with nightmares and irrational fears and stuff. At least I'm never bored though so that's good.

[@stressbytheidiotsaroundme9045]

Person: attempting to manipulate them (in their minds)Infjs : we know what you're trying to do; but we don't fall for it :)

[@graceburns1447]

literally me tho

[@isaiahcampbell488]

Infj to manipulative person: "Everything is fine" (I won't tell you I caught you playing mind games). I'll just develope an exit strategy and follow it through taking as much time as needed to get out with as little conflict as possible. If that person isn't forceful, you'll see less and less of me until you wonder if I was even a memory. If that person is forceful...door slam followed by whatever legal action is necessary. (My childhood was crap and sometimes it took restraining orders and such).

[@stressbytheidiotsaroundme9045]

@@isaiahcampbell488 well said

[@graceburns1447]

@@isaiahcampbell488 wow, yea

[@isaiahcampbell488]

Thanks guys

[@gabriellemaire6530]

Hey, can we just take a moment and appreciate the WilburSoot, TommyInnit and Friend reference at 3:04 ? Thank you, that's so cute. ✨T_T✨

[@Psych2go]

Thanks! Naphia did a great job!

[@rinny290]

yeah the art is so adorable

[@turquoisemoon8453]

This is Technoblade erasure

[@Uhlyuhauby]

I knew it was fishy

[@PhoenixArtz000]

@@Uhlyuhauby nah sally ain't there shes in a bucket somewhere 😔✋

[@hyunjae_18]

Is it just me who hates the question " how are you? " Because you when you answered it that you're fine, that'll be it. Like that's the smallest talk I can ever get. I rather to receive specific questions like " how's school/family/mental health/ etc? " Because at least I know where this conversation could go. Idk if that made sense 😅

[@batatesbey7awel..879]

I mean, yeah it’s an unspecific question. But please remember that some people are just not too comfortable asking big questions like “how is your mental health?” They could be shy or fear that it’s too straight forward you know..but still, it’s ok if you answer to a how are you question by saying the truth like, “im fine but it’s just blah blah or whatever. I hope you get what i mean😂💜

[@shaikhaali7447]

@@batatesbey7awel..879 Thank you!

[@maurivanhanen9208]

I have to get a more specific question if someone wants an answer other than "as always". There's so much I could say that I wouldn't even know where to begin. I don't have anything on my mind by default, so I won't be complaining about work or flaunting some achievement. I answer objectively and meticulously, so the more specific the question, the more digestible the answer.

[@hyunjae_18]

@@maurivanhanen9208 same. Personally, for me, I just don't like ppl asking me how are you without the intention of getting to know how I really am right now, they just asks that because that's what other ppl do to break the silence. I just rather to stay quiet than to make that very small conversation 😪 There is just something more hint of genuine when ppl asks you specifically. That's the case for me.

[@perhaps5095]

Sounds like Si rather than Ni

[@prudencegesta8875]

"Sees the phone ringing and decided not to pick it up" yep i felt that, truly an INFJ move 😌

[@virgo4126]

sure it is

[@Missmagazinebura]

No I don’t answer the phone

[@datboi6954]

1. how are you? 1:02 2. it's not important 1:35 3. can we talk about it later? 2:06 4. but I don't know anyone 2:42 5. can you text 3:13 6. sorry, I didn't quite catch that 3:49 I hope I could help!

[@MinaMina-xn4hb]

Dang you guys are quickkkk

[@ushadevimushahary7296]

So quick

[@chaosdromanah8620]

Ty

[@angelinaz_uwu7647]

Thanks time traveller ! :3

[@ZJCitricAcidGraf.E.T.]

The trick is... How do we get our friends and family to see these videos without _US_ directly showing them? As an INFJ, I don't like telling people things directly 😅

[@ln6964]

Simple. Make friends with an ENFJ and they will be more than happy to solve your problem! Whether you want them to or not. We just will.

[@ChannellSiren]

Okay, so I get extremely anxious as an INFJ, when it comes to all things socializing, I would ask everyone in my family if they have ever taken the personality quiz, tell them my results than continue with that. I hope this helps.

[@carolc2574]

Well sometimes you just have to do the things that you fear, so you conquer it. Show them the video. Send them the link saying it is very important for you. You will feel a bit embarrassed for a minute but then you will benefit from that moment. It is like going to the doctor: nobody loves it but you feel better afterwards

[@jackrabbit3472]

Even when I show they bored by it

[@afa4766]

I'm an infp who have an infj best friend. Sometimes, I watch this kind of videos to try to know or understand him better. Of course I'm not telling him about this tho XD

[@Rishun]

I’m an INFJ. The texting before you call and the ending the conversation one is insanely to the point for me. I always find these videos so cool lol

[@KCDay-eu1iq]

In elementary school I had friends who would talk to other friends on the phone for hours. Not me, can't hardly stand it.

[@ruchirpohekar2895]

Me: how are you? INFJ person: I am FINE!! ( while coughing blood)

[@cloudymew]

Remove my lungs? No worries I'm okay

[@ngaszeng129]

If we haven't died, we're still "basically fine"

[@stressbytheidiotsaroundme9045]

🤣🤣

[@Chebab-Chebab]

Go with: I'll be fine.

[@lucqs367]

Someone: are you ok you fell pretty hard. Me: mhm Me really: AAH I THINK ITS BROKEN

[@margarethak.g.x.2643]

That's true 🤣 as an INFJ i don't like when people answering my HOW ARE YOU only with I'M FINE, WBY? 🤣 That's basically how it ends.

[@adiscorner5668]

Yeah me too!! I actually hate that, i feel like they dont want to be open with me

[@eurasiaedits]

i agree!! i just want people to genuinely talk to me about their day, for some it may be boring, but for me it isn’t. i love listening to people :)

[@Theuser506]

Have you every thought on words to follow up after your answer. With right key words you can already start a good conversation after those words though if the other person you're talking with small talk... Well... Best of luck I guess

[@marcialcabusas9955]

@nicky the cat Try to share yours and there is a probability that they will also share theirs even they already answered they are fine. Because most people asks "How are you" just as a social norm script even they don't really care. So people are mostly aware and just answer "fine". Plus, the other reasons such as they really don't like to tell, etc.

[@quozean777yt4]

@@eurasiaedits Same haha

[@Ccatgrass]

As an INFJ, I tend to shake a lot when I start to talk about something I’m really passionate about (or just voicing my opinions). I feel a sudden burst of excitement to know that people are actually listening to what I’m saying, while I also feel very nervous about what the people are thinking. My hand shake, my arms shake, my face feel warm. I desperately try so hard to make sure that people know I’m not on anyone’s side or whatever I’m talking about could not be set in stone. I’m even a little shaky just from writing this comment lol

[@lolasstuff]

I relate! I get this weird almost teary edge to my voice and an ache in my throat when I feel very passionate, like I’m going to cry. It’s so weird because I’m not sad I just feel very strongly about that topic

[@straysoul1818]

@@lolasstuffOMG this is so true! When I feel like a conversation is very rewarding I can suddenly have a small urge to cry out of nowhere! I also feel like shaking my hands when I get excited about it! It weirds me out

[@lolasstuff]

@@straysoul1818 sooo true omg

[@debbietodd8547]

The fact that we're so rare certainly helps me understand why I have ALWAYS felt like I don't belong on this planet and nobody understands me. I've always felt like the proverbial square peg trying desperately to fit into a round hole. Now that I'm older I just don't try to fit, I am who I am

[@tonimachowdhury2463]

I am an ISFJ but have so much love for INFJ s. They are wonderful!

[@Psych2go]

hi!

[@jacks4705]

I love ISFJ s🥺

[@gonegirrrl]

awww 😊

[@amruthavalli1260]

💜

[@greatwavefan397]

I'm an INTJ; I find INFJs special even though they seem to have more search results on the internet than we do.

[@youflippingdoghnut3085]

When you have no idea about personality types but are still wathcing this because it is psych2go

[@youflippingdoghnut3085]

@Prashant Kumar when you come back to see when you comments

[@youflippingdoghnut3085]

@DJ KZbinr TMJ we had a website called 'unifrog' in secondary

[@fangplays315]

@DJ KZbinr TMJ Don't know if the link will work in comments or not but 16personalities is how I found out I'm an INFJ www.16personalities.com/

[@thishumaniscalledsarah]

@DJ KZbinr TMJ You can read about the cognitive functions with this link as it's more accurate than most personality tests that only look at the letters. But maybe start with a regular test to get an idea. psychreel.com/the-mbti-cognitive-functions/ Hope this helps ~an INTJ

[@saywhatyouwant888]

🙋‍♀️😆😆😆

[@maya.srinivas]

I always felt kind of the odd one out everywhere...and had no clue why I felt that way ! Lately I found out about personality types & got to know I'm INFJ-T...honestly just knowing that people like me do exist & I'm not crazy makes things better, atleast I know who I am now !! 🙃

[@benbovard9579]

Same except I found out I'm INFJ last week and now I'm binging everything about all the different personality types. I knew I wasn't the only one that acted this way. Also Turbulent Squad let's goooooo

[@nimishaxoxo]

I went through the same thing, thinking im different. Always wished I had a friend like me. Still wish.

[@John-ih7gp]

That's so awesome! I'm excited for you! It's unfortunate MBTI, socionics, and probably every other personality typing is only pseudoscience, but... I do believe their are archetypical truths, and there is a massive reason why certain things resonate, and can still meet the great divide of logic and emotion. Don't ever take it as Gospel truth, especially once you are a few thousand hours versed in psychology, ethics, function stacks, animal traits, personality typings etc. (If we ever get close to that :P) We both believe we are INFJS, and that liberates us in many ways doesn't it? It's like finally unlocking the key to our dark and hidden room of complexity and letting the light in. A couple years ago I learnt about it, about function stacks, about nuanced body language, social dynamics and calibration. My whole world got flip inside out. Hey Maya, I understand you. I need you to know this. You understand me. We are mirrors where we can express ourselves. That is, the community we have. Be Well and always Love with no Reserve

[@rhiannalopez3805]

Me too thank you for this affirmation I thought I was the only one!

[@adrianavillarreal6758]

X2

[@felreizmeshinca7459]

Just wanted to wish all the INFJs that are just going through a hard time in life because things don't go your way or people just don't appreciate and understand you. I hope your family understands your better, you have better friends. Nothing beats a close person that understands you, someone you don't even have to say something else to avoid difficult situations, someone you can say what you really mean and and want to say, even though you still feel scared doing so. But having your feelings actually accepted and understood is one of the most relieving things in the world.

[@KCDay-eu1iq]

My husband is amazing and the 1 person in the whole world I trust 99% -_^ i do still like being accepted by others, but he is really all I need.

[@babycarrot8193]

As an INFJ, Pisces, and someone with ADHD, my head is always in the clouds, so I feel bad for people who try to talk to me lol

[@mergewendy7841]

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem

[@mergewendy7841]

Text me via what’s app for recommendation

[@jimmybiemans8264]

Don't answer the person above, it is a scam. Aaaaanyway, as an INFP, Gemini, and someone with autism, I relate a bit too much to your comment. When I finally found like-minded people who appreciate random weird deep facts fired at you at rapid speed, I actually found out that using my voice was my biggest talent. Not despite, but because it was also my biggest flaw. Talents and personality traits are a double edged sword, the more benefits you have because of it, the more detrimental sides there are to it, and vica versa. Sometimes you just need the right community that needs a voice like yours. Keep it up, you are doing okay! 💝🥰

[@PapurrPlays]

I want to understand you more :)

[@MegaAngcar]

I feel you bro it's the same as me i end up ignoring people and then feel bad for doing it as they get angry with me

[@lotus9616]

3:08 I love how they still add Wilbur, Friend and other Dream Smp Characters

[@desertkelp7669]

rip ghostbur o7

[@lotus9616]

@@desertkelp7669 o7

[@PhoenixArtz000]

@@desertkelp7669 o7

[@abdullanierway860]

@@PhoenixArtz000 o7

[@Premsine]

@@abdullanierway860 o7

[@dontsmokekids9556]

My best friend is an INFJ and this video made me realize all the mistakes(that they didn't seem like mistakes to me) I did to make her mad at me even tho she forgives me in the end despite everything I do..makes me learn so much about her..it all makes sense now.. ❤️❤️

[@Psych2go]

That's great :) Consider sending her this video as support :)

[@gemmasaccount]

The video: “Sorry, I didn’t quite catch that.” Me: *Hears random noises because I’m too busy daydreaming* Me: *Thinks* The video: “Sorry, I didn’t quite catch that.” Me: *Smacks head*

[@gemmasaccount]

Sorry I meant this: The video: “Sorry, I didn’t quite catch that.” Me: Hears random noises because I’m too busy daydreaming Me: Thinks “What did they just say ?” The video: “Sorry, I didn’t quite catch that.” Me: Smacks head

[@lucillerose5552]

So true😂😂😂

[@aeshikajyotshna852]

@@gemmasaccount you can edit your comment, won't be much of an issue.

[@derealratos6332]

@@aeshikajyotshna852 i think hes gay

[@marianna2721]

I never like to talk on the phone. Text please. And never stop by unannounced, anyone else hate when people drop in on you?

[@rheannonfultz6449]

When I discovered I was an infj-t, I was confused about what it meant, but these explanations have made me understand the way I am so well! Do any other infjs out there tend to overexplain themselves while texting? When I am communicating with others through text, I find myself talking to others the way I would want them to talk to me. That is, being so clear there is no reason for them to ask me to re-explain myself. I think I do this because it gives me anxiety when I need to ask others to re-explain themselves; being clear myself is a way to spare the other person from that anxiety, which I assume they have, even though it's very possible they don't. 😅

[@technosyrup]

YEeessss!

[@lyiengzheng505]

Same

[@liamlindsay6082]

This is so true. Like texting friends, i say something and then explain it or make a comparison so its easier for them to understand exactly what I’m saying

[@kateeldridge2629]

I almost can't text, I end up calling the person because I can't type it all.

[@mikogoh2732]

yes 😅

[@Cation_bibliophile]

I am gonna start studying psychology to be a therapist this channel inspired me!

[@greatwavefan397]

I'm learning psychology to treat people as they're meant to be treated.

[@amsy-q4y]

I'm an INFJ-T and this is really accurate-

[@ada3659]

same:)

[@kirtu9035]

impossible-

[@kirtu9035]

idk if i am because i am empathetic and consider myself to be an introvert, but i say impossible as it makes up ONLY 1% of the population so there have to be more traits of an INFJ

[@kirtu9035]

@ghostwarrior9 ohh thank you for the info :D

[@kirtu9035]

@@istari1392 i took it im infj apparently

[@meenaahuja7866]

Everyone agrees that psych2go is " The Most Consistent " when it comes to uploading videos

[@Psych2go]

I agree! We release one video almost everyday LOL. - Cindy

[@Simon0501]

@@Psych2go Don’t you feel tired about that?

[@trinaq]

Precisely, this channel always delivers fantastic content!

[@kirtu9035]

@@Simon0501 they have a well built team with probably well planned schedules, so with the right amount of teamwork its less hard :)

[@greatwavefan397]

Steeeve: *am i a joke to you*

[@Mathrubhootham]

I wonder if there any INFJ who didn’t had any childhood traumas or not having an emotionally unavailable family. Man, their possibilities are infinite with such favourable circumstances. Or is it the trauma that moulds an INFJ 🤔

[@katie5998]

Probably a mixture of both nature and nurture. Two people can go through the same traumatic experience, and come out of that experience affected differently due to both their own past experiences, but also how their general dispositions towards life are. INFJs are the result of both nature and nurture, in my opinion. As is the case with everyone’s personality type. No life is easy, or without it’s traumas.

[@birk3nstock]

That’s me. I had a perfect childhood yet I somehow am an INFJ with a fear of abandonment.

[@John-ih7gp]

My life was hell. Out of anyone or anything I could relate with, it's Guts from Berserk. I've always found it difficult to connect with people who live in sunshine and skittles land, where everything was damn near perfect. However, I'm so thankful for the hard road, and do believe the hard road is what creates some of the most real and in depth people. I know that is why I resonate with so many of you in this community, because of your depths or atleast your willingness to dive deep. A thought I have had for a few months on and off, I'm just so thankful for my lead Ni, in it's purest and truest form. Ni is like an Eagle taking flight. (More specifically the wings of the eagle taking flight.) Scoping all the landscapes around it, taking it all in: the wind, the noise, the sights, far reaching, penetrating deep across all distances, scanning frequently. It has a way of gliding effortlessly throughout the day. Then Boom!!! We are fixated (Ti!) Ti has locked onto its prey to grab hold on of that which is spotted. Moving closer to grasp it, contending with the object, willing to plunge into the depths of waters with our talons fixed onto that prey, or daring to hold onto it until we tire in the sky. Our Fe is the regurgitated remains given to our family. They always appreciate the sustenance, even though it is not in the most blended form. Our Fe builds a massive nest for our loved ones to be housed in. But our true and effortless passion is one with the wind and our sails. It is our beauty of the heights and depths we can reach, and it is only accomplished when we are not holding onto our object, nor vomiting our ideals. Atleast that is where my soul truly lives in peace. With my wings in flight!

[@lyiengzheng505]

Perhaps... maybe

[@Missmagazinebura]

I have childhood trauma

[@jaydehall5117]

It is so hard to explain social events that I am comfortable with to my husband who is introverted but not an INFJ. I know that most of his friends and family see me listening in on a conversation and occasionally sticking in a one liner or a thoughtful comment and think that I am afraid to join in. I am just like, “no I was the exact amount of involved that I wanted to be. In the same room, listening, and only occasionally adding comments. This is me joining in. I know you could forget that I am here entirely and that’s what I want, thank you. Unless you would like to calmly discuss a philosophical question or talk about books one on one. We could do that too.”

[@sadieperry]

I’m an INFP who is very happily married to the most wonderful INFJ and your video describes him to perfection. Can’t wait to share this with him! 💛

[@greatwavefan397]

A male INFJ? That's gotta be interesting!

[@Alya.Mcorney]

My biggest wish is it to marry an infj I'm an infp girl can you give me tips how I can i attract an infj because I have a crush on an infj guy

[@shy_8427]

I always rethink about what happened that day in the evening and reflect on my actions in certain situations. Reflecting and rethinking helps me prepare more plans in my mind and helps me to know what I can do different/better. It gives me peace of mind

[@marwaosman4134]

After a long time i finally see that I'm not an INFJ . Compared to real INFJ I'm more extroverted & love small talk actually enjoy it . I'm not there to always have deep talk with people . I'm also not so super intuitive . I love being present and enjoy sensory stuff . I can't imagine being blocked from sensory realm . I'm also attracted to humanity so this is the only thing i have with them in common

[@kritisharma8068]

I am an INFJ. My friends and juniors in school (I study in a residential school )thank me to cheer and motivate them up and appreciate me that i talk very well and counsel others very well. I love that selfless feeling and wish i could change a lot in this world. 😇😇

[@Amanita._.Verosa._.]

Helping others changes a lot in their worlds. They are lucky to have you.🖤

[@JAPHETMB]

INFJ gang where you at?👀

[@___Steinn___]

✌

[@Persimmonyyy]

I like these kinds of videos on the MBTI personalities, but I haven't seen *any* on INTJs. As an INTJ, I would really enjoy seeing some videos on this type! INTJs are not the rarest personality type, but we're up there, and tend to be at least as misunderstood as INFJ. I just think it would make a good video topic! :)

[@georgeb5262]

A lots of more personalities need attention.

[@meowl9749]

I also want one on INTP

[@tellmewhyaintnothing]

I want one of ALL the personality types! It'll be awesome to know more about them

[@SoCalRegisteredNurse]

I’m an INFJ-advocate, so I tend to be a little more outspoken, especially when I see wrong or harm being done to others

[@John-ih7gp]

That's exactly right! Do you find you have no bounds on your willingness to stand for what is right? As if most days we walk around a bit bashful and gently, yet can stand 12 feet tall and take on any monster that opposes our moral compass?

[@maddisondeane9592]

Don't think I didn't see that Dsmp reference at 3:04 it's so cute!!!

[@user-mh9od2hl5w]

Everyone: If INFJ is the rarest personality why is the comment section filled with them. Well world population- 7.9 billion 1% of that is 79 million people. Comment- 2K

[@goldranger2]

Plus, not to mention, if you're scrolling through your KZbin recommended feed, and you know your mbti personality type, if you see a video about said personality type, you're probably going to click it.

[@delilah2157]

RIGHT? people can't even do basic math smh

[@Loomzy]

When they heard the word "rarest" they probably thought only around a thousand or hundreds or something smh

[@rachelclare8795]

BECAUSE all the I.N.S are utubing it indoors on their own and all the other types are having family arguments or going to parties and stuff.

[@fl3640]

@Logan Legend that study was filled with risks of error and bias. Don't take these statistics seriously.

[@meenaahuja7866]

Petition to remove the dislike button from all psych2go videos cause they're so good

[@moroi6559]

I sign

[@KayTAURUS57]

How about a petition to remove the dislike button in general. I don't really understand why it's there in the first place. If you don't like it, then leave. Nobody is forcing you to watch something you don't like.

[@greatwavefan397]

Some social media actually don't have a dislike button.

[@KayTAURUS57]

@@greatwavefan397 I didn't know that. What are the names of them?

[@mangoeverse2930]

@@KayTAURUS57 Instagram, Twitter

[@chaosdromanah8620]

When you're not INFJ but still do half of the things on this list

[@kirtu9035]

yeh

[@lobaloxrajobs9354]

Why do you call it oven when you of in the cold food of out hot eat the food

[@lobaloxrajobs9354]

I'm an INTP but I do all of these because I just don't get attached to shallow relationships that can make me lose my time... 😔

[@rasamo9264]

I am not infj but I do all of these

[@pri_shay_dior]

@@lobaloxrajobs9354 " ... What they really mean." Your why is completely different than the why of an INFJ. That's the point.

[@AspenBreeze]

Me: sees friend and Wilbur in the thumbnail Also me: starts sobbing

[@cherry7397]

INFJ here, with my close friends i just skip the "hey how are you" and just go straight to the "hey this is what I was thinking!!!" and they do it now too and it's SO MUCH BETTER

[@missiviolett4818]

I would never say "can we talk about it later?" since i think it's rude and the other might think I'm not interested in him. I would rather talk to him until I'm near death from too much socializing than telling him that i don't want to talk right now.

[@MOCHi-qf6ob]

INFJ the most rarest personality In comments: full of INFJs💀 Edit: for all who r arguing and misunderstanding this comment ...for god sake this was just for joke ..and don't take it seriously...and stop arguing in the comments... oH MaN hoLy Sh!t!!! thank you for so many likes!!💜💜

[@jasidesigns]

Lmao exactly

[@greatwavefan397]

Second rarest is INTJ, especially in females. (I'm a male INTJ, BTW.)

[@prettywomen9092]

So what do u expect it's an obvious thing 6 billion pe0ple only 0.0000000000000000000000....................................................3&so on~~~ that much density of population commenting might think logically

[@9erfaithful481]

Facts

[@waminalkent6705]

Cause INFJs enjoy youtube videos more than social gatherings. 👌

[@domgo349]

As an INFJ, I am surprised on how accurate this is! Great video 💝

[@sheilawilcox4133]

As an INFJ, this is SO me!!! I can't count how many times I've thought "I don't want to go, I won't know anyone there." I've also answered "how are you?" with "fine" or "I'm good" when it's someone I don't know or if they're not asking because they're actually interested. The more times a person ignores my response, the more worthless responses they get from me. They won't listen anyway. That leads to the "it's not important" phrase mentioned in the video. Many times I've ignored the ringing phone to text the person later. Phone calls seem like such an invasion of my alone-time.

[@johnnycorn7225]

I know it's a late comment but I really feel this one, especially the phone calls during our favorite patch of alone time. It's like one else understands why we need alone time!

[@fabiolaalmeida4458]

PERFECT!!!!! Yesterday I finally took the personality test, just to make sure of what I already knew... I'm a true a INFJ... I relate 100% to all videos you produce! Once my brother asked me the reason why I was sweat in a gathering at the house... it was 6 degrees (Celsius)! My answer was that I was overwhelmed with so many faces and voices and all I wanted was to go to another planet, I was 8 years old!!!

[@VyvyanB83]

As an INFJ, I related heavily to the sixth point about daydreaming and zoning out. I know others find it annoying and even rude, but I can't seem to help it. Its like I just slip away unknowingly sometimes and I feel awful when I have to politely ask someone what they just said. Its not that I'm disinterested in them, its just that my mind drifts to different and interesting ideas alot

[@KCDay-eu1iq]

Did it all the time in school!

[@Grayfromthebog]

I'm sitting here after seeing tommy, wilbur and friend like someone just asked me what I want for dinner very confused and trying to think. you my friend are invading all the fandoms

[@EMS12000]

What an amazing video, I had taken the test, but after this, I can see that I'm a true INFJ after all Also, I didn't know that being an INFJ is a rare thing!

[@lyrrose._.journals]

I can do relate to this video, since I'm an INFJ. I am so happy that at least someone can tell what I feel and the actions I take. I have never felt more related to this than anything. I can't believe I'm a rare personality type too, which was surprising.

[@AbhishekKumar-de2dj]

2:20 This is what majority of INFJs are about . Conversation or communication skills are the weakest part in INFJ personalities. And it becomes even harder when communication is in distorted/indirect form. INFJs think a lot and hence mess up everything when they speak or communicate even though they have clear pictorial image of situation or what they want to express. And this is the reason why even the slightest of situations or communications become complicated for them and at last its a whole lot of mess created. Thats why they distance themselves from the people who dont understand them. Its truly bizarre that people expect good communication from them knowing its their weakest part because they percieve everything in a different or profound way , you might never be sure why are they doing it until that person directly tells you. Things are tough for INFJs mannn!!!

[@vaniiiaasteria6140]

I love how Tommy, Wilbur and Friend are in the thumbnail

[@foxyloon]

Yep, I relate to these quite a bit. Especially the "how are you" question, as I can't help but think of the several times I opened with that question to a friend I hadn't talked to in a while, and I just get a superficial "I'm well, how are you?" Typically, in response to that, I just unload all my thoughts with a long text that reads like a novel, and they tend to get overwhelmed by it.

[@RY-os9vw]

Same!

[@sheryawady8737]

I am an infj and I am going to share this video to my friends so they just know what I mean and maybe one day they will understand me better thank you for all your videos and keep going❤️👍❤️

[@KarunaPreetiBaraKaku]

That's why INFJ is a pure soul locked down in a body. As an INFP I can tell, Psycho2go simplified This Paradox in 6 notes, which took half a dozen unresolved argued in a row for me to do with my INFJ boyfriend, alone (for a year) . ~ now I admire him for the same which I hated him for 🙈🌸. :|

[@theone1873]

The overwhelming feeling of understanding more what's going on in a room then almost all the people in the room. It's always so many vibes , energies, and waves flowing. #exhausting. It's a un explainable feeling , "feeling someone's core soul"

[@MagnusThomsen05]

when i sometimes go to read a book, i start forgetting what is just read, because of my mind slowly dazing away to other thoughts. i always have to repeat the things that i read because of this, and makes it uninjoyable to read, because it's unlikely that i can get hooked on the subject/story.

[@lobaloxrajobs9354]

INTP trying to know more things about my INFJ girlfriend (: Despite being the rarest type INFJ is really well documented 👀

[@Psych2go]

Aww that's so sweet of you! 😄 What's the most interesting thing you've learned about your girlfriend as an INFJ from the video?

[@sugaaa679]

Pls this is so cute- I wish you and your gf all the best in your relationship!

[@gheyghey8958]

lol same here but i'm an entp

[@lobaloxrajobs9354]

@@Psych2go I've learnt that they're really invested in interpersonal relationships. When my girlfriend and I talk together we can have very different ways of thinking but both of our points of view add to the image of a situation we're making. Our cognitive functions play a lot as well since INTPs (TI-NE-SI-FE) can help with INFJ(NI-FE-TI-SE)'s Introverted Thinking (TI) and INFJs can help with INTP's Extraverted Feeling (FE). I help her when she feels like she has no issue and needs some external input. She helps me think more about the consequences of my actions on the world and people around me. Cool cool (^:

[@dude4171]

Ya'll before saying you are an INFJ, make sure to have studied the functions, do not rely on tests as they are not accurate enough to determine your true and inner personality. Studying the functions is the best way and the true way. Stereotypes are also very popular, so this plays a big role on destroying how a real and authentic INFJ would act. Not every description you see on the internet about INFJs are true, they are really stereotypical. Just study the functions. This is coming from an mbti and enneagram addict and who has spent the last 2 years studying it.

[@nixtrid2282]

My favourite comment Like to you Firstly you need many hours to study functions and own functions to know own type ( I spend nearly 100 hours studying about cognitive functions and I finally can be sure I'm real INFJ) Sorry if I make some mistakes but I'm not native speaker of English

[@thishumaniscalledsarah]

I'm also an MBTI addict but I didn't really get into the enneagram... I tested as 1w9 but I think a lot of things about typical ones don't match me. Do you think it's worth looking into and how helpful and accurate would you say it is? Thanks ~an INTJ

[@jessn.3851]

Right, the functions are everything. There is a lot of content about very young, immature or undeveloped INFJs, such as this video. I've always been quite direct, but kind, about what I want to say, and I mean it. The only time I say something vague is when the other person isn't going to get something or doesn't need to know. Once INFJs fully develop all of their functions and integrate their Se (well, it's more of a balancing act) they know exactly what they need and what their limits are. They can be great conversationalists and are social to the point where people confuse them for extroverts. Older INFJs have passed through the emo phase/mid life crisis of their youth and are much more playful, light hearted and adventurous. I've lived abroad for years, which has pushed me out of my comfort zone again and again, and while it was an uncomfortable process, I'm a well developed INFJ who purposefully pursues challenges that add to my personal growth.

[@dude4171]

@@thishumaniscalledsarah yes! Also just because you don't act as the typical INTJ does not mean that you aren't one, those are stereotypes implemented into the community and has now changed view of how 'each type should act' which isn't true at all. People say INTJs are always logical, lacking empathy etc. while these descriptions may be true for SOME INTJs, it's not everyone. Some INTJs can also have strong empathy too, really it's all about functions. It's ok to get swayed by the stereotypes by the internet but do remember that it is about functions, not behaviors.

[@dude4171]

@@thishumaniscalledsarah wait a minute, what do you mean by typical ones? Are you referring to the descriptions of a 1w9?

[@Libra8410]

As an INFJ, this is very accurate

[@meiyuying6514]

Ever start a conversation and then have a whole other hypothetical conversation in ur head (going into all the possible deeper meanings and subtexts) while the other person has already shifted topics and you come back to and realize this but you think it’s rude to admit that you zoned out but also really want to know what they are talking about😅

[@cvent8454]

Everything said here was so spot on...the not picking up the phone, preferring texting over visits, phone calls, and daydreaming were so perfect. Me to a T. Thank you!

[@blacksheeptheunwitness3239]

Every single one of these can be correctly applied to me as well INTJ-A here

[@greatwavefan397]

I'm an INTJ-T and want to learn about this interesting personality.

[@shaikhaali7447]

I feel like people from all different personalities can relate to other personalities. It’s not like only INFJs feel this way and no one else in the world, we all share similar traits sometimes.

[@alannawatson1997]

Can we do every personality type, ik it might take a while but I think it would be interesting

[@shaikhaali7447]

Absolutely! That would be a great idea

[@ethicalcollective]

Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive, safe, healthy and financially blessed Amen ☔️

[@TalesKursped]

as an INFJ, I had to watch this video 4 times just because in the middle of listening, I had to think of something relvent that happened to me in the past and I needed some time to recharge my energy and refresh my feelings so that I can continue to watch this video

[@noway905]

Bull! I'm INFJ. I say what I mean and mean what I say! No interpretation needed!

[@catherinedavidson7145]

INFJs in a nutshell: "I'd like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony" (The New Seekers); also "I wanna set the Universe on fire" (Gloryhammer), not forgetting "I fall in love too easily" (Chet Baker and others).

[@cleanomean449]

“Can we talk about this later?” Me, an INFJ: *stands still while the person rambles about a dog on a skateboard*

[@blacksheep9772]

Another INFJ here. Id be happy talking about a dog on a skateboard though! But answering an unknown caller - nope. ☺

[@isirlasplace91]

My mom is an INFJ. Growing up with her was interesting to say the least!!

[@Holion5604]

This is so me! I agree with everything in this video!

[@leht1617]

dang as an infj myself, i still feel like i ain't infj enough--if that makes sense

[@beyondespa1r]

same, that's why I have stopped to look so much about mbti, if I start to read a lot about infj, it starts to seem that I'm not infj at all.

[@shayla_lesk1542]

I agree too, but you have to remember there are so many different people and even with the same Myers Briggs personality type, we will respond differently to situations. It’d be quite depressing if there were literally only 16 types of people. In truth there are 7.6 BILLION types of people. Everyone is their own type. The 16 personality types is just a category of people who think similarly, but they will still all be different based on their life experiences. So you’re all good! 😊

[@maizzztupid]

@@shayla_lesk1542 thank you. I once made a test to re-re-recheck if I was actually an INFJ and I liked how the website put in order from the type you're the most to the least. I still get INFJ and similar, even if sometimes I don't feel like one. Although, knowing that we all have a little bit of each type makes me happier and more curious to know myself better

[@kirtu9035]

@@shayla_lesk1542 period

[@shayla_lesk1542]

@@maizzztupid I definitely have noticed that I’m most similar to an INFJ, but sometimes I do things that I feel are very different from what INFJs usually do. No ones going to perfectly fit into one category though, that’d be very weird 😂

[@storm2851]

To the one reading this-There are bad days , and they will pass! so hang in there and never question your worth 🤍

[@deveshsinha5970]

Needed this. Thank you. 🤍

[@sunshineshining4167]

Thanks dear.

[@shaikhaali7447]

It’s funny how INFJs are such a rare personality yet I see them everywhere on KZbin.

[@mergewendy7841]

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️

[@mergewendy7841]

Text me via what’s app for recommendation ❤️❤️❤️

[@mergewendy7841]

+ 1 6 7 8 4 2 6 5 0 9 5 From Los Angeles ❤️❤️❤️

[@seaurchinwithahat7559]

Despite being rare, there are tons of people! There's still millions INFJ's out there.

[@notchickensoup2838]

I love INTF’s so much

[@katherinenovak3542]

My close friend is an INFJ. They are difficult to relate to sometimes but the reward is worth the effort. She's even written a poem about our friendship.

[@CreamyToast930]

As a INFJ I try my best not to answer call with my friends and we don’t really call each other,so when my friends are calling I freak out 😂😂😂

[@sugaaa679]

Okay this is random!! Can we get more videos on other types?? I'm an infj but there are other types just are just so interesting and I'd love to know more about ^^ 💜

[@lakshitabhagwat8071]

me too...well we both are army and infj too😄well have a nice day, i see you have a good sence of humour even after being an infj😊💜

[@sugaaa679]

@@lakshitabhagwat8071 my sense of humor? Ma'am idk if being an infj affects it but I can be a crackhead XD and you have a great day too °^° 💜

[@lakshitabhagwat8071]

@@sugaaa679 i can see this by your account profile😂💜

[@sugaaa679]

@kaia amisa everyone loves Yoongi XD what's there not to love about him?

[@chisakiaiko6678]

“Are you or one of your friends INFJ? INFJ is the rarest MBTI personality type out there”, me having 5 friends in total and 2 of them being INFJ

[@daymenpollet4202]

Lol not the rarest anymore by a long shot

[@gonegirrrl]

wow, i didn't know us INFJs were so rare. fianlly, something special about me lol

[@kirtu9035]

you most likely aren't one. these are just the main characteristics so its REALLY unlikely that you are one even if u say/do some things an INFJ does.

[@hosieposie6081]

@@kirtu9035 maybe they are, maybe they took the test. You never know :))

[@kirtu9035]

@@hosieposie6081 true :)

[@kirtu9035]

@@hosieposie6081 k so i took the test turns out i am one??? i kinda doubt it tho i dont feel as though i am one :/ doest that make sense?

[@Sparxkles]

@@kirtu9035 There are many people on youtube deeply explaining the INFJ personality. I recommend checking that out! Thats how I confirmed that I was an INFJ. Remember, u won't *exactly* be like the characteristic, but it will still border up your personality according to the MBTI! You can always take the test again and pay more attention to detail. Have a great day! ^^

[@anikawahal5364]

I always felt out of place and I didn’t know why. Recently found out I’m INFJ and now things make more sense. Feels good to know I’m not the only one

[@Grumpybunny88]

As an INFJ, I finally understand myself better... That feeling to end up a conversation, I somehow believe I'm just being mean or dismissive... Thank you for sharing

[@cubepalette6006]

The way I'm embarrassed of zoning out - cuz most of the time the person may think it's because i didn't like conversation buttt it's just a point from the conversation im thinking deeply about to tell them next but now that things are already awkward cuz they thought i wasn't listening/interested and end it but i was and now we both awkward and i can't tell them about it- * i don't even know i was trying to say but yeah- 😭

[@batatesbey7awel..879]

You can say something like “sorry i zoned out” or just tell them that it’s hard for you to pay attention to something too long..

[@cubepalette6006]

@@batatesbey7awel..879 i do apologize and tell them but it's just i feel bad for zoning out while they were still talking -

[@batatesbey7awel..879]

@@cubepalette6006 it’s not on purpose, and you must never feel bad or embarrassed from yourself! That’s something you can’t control.. just make the best out of this amazing mind of yours and forget about the flaws. Nothing is perfect, and if you keep counting your flaws you will never love yourself. So just think about all these amazing things your mind can do! Your imagination for example, some people have this thing where they can’t see pictures in their head. You are lucky to have the ability to think rationally and imagine things, Anything you want.💜

[@cubepalette6006]

@@batatesbey7awel..879 Aww thank you sooo much for your kind and comforting words it means alot. I'll keep that in mind and i hope you are having a great day/night and taking care of yourself 💜

[@Animallover24678]

3:08 AWW BABY TOMMY AND WILBUR AND FRIEND

[@mergewendy7841]

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem

[@mergewendy7841]

Text me via what’s app for recommendation

[@mergewendy7841]

+ 1 6 7 8 4 2 6 5 0 9 5 From Los Angeles

[@user-bn1uy7is4m]

I took the test 3 times cause i wanted to be sure my personality did not change.

[@greatwavefan397]

Knowing your MBTI seems quicker and more certain when you know what each of the four letters mean and how they apply to you: Are you introverted (I)? Or extroverted (E)? Do you make decisions from concepts and ideas (N)? Or just facts (S)? Do you make logical decisions (T)? Or emotional ones (F)? Do you prefer to plan (J)? Or are you spontaneous (P)? Once you've answered these questions and get your corresponding levels, read the 16 Personalities' article on that personality and see how things line up. I never did this, but I wanted to learn about the personalities listed; the first one happened to be INTJ-which surprisingly checked every box. My score when I first took the test was INFJ, but I was never certain once I read the description. TL;DR: Work backwards; check the results first by knowing what they mean.

[@Lil_lit_Bruh]

test? do you mean by the 16personality test

[@user-bn1uy7is4m]

@@Lil_lit_Bruh yes

[@user-bn1uy7is4m]

And it was infj all three times. I still am not sure lol.

[@user-bn1uy7is4m]

@@greatwavefan397 thanks for the information!

[@ms.saxaphone3896]

I didn’t think INFJ was rare. I’m an INFJ... thank you for the video that I can share with family and friends. I love all your videos! ❤️

[@mergewendy7841]

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️

[@mergewendy7841]

Text me via what’s app for recommendation ❤️❤️❤️

[@mergewendy7841]

+ 1 6 7 8 4 2 6 5 0 9 5 From Los Angeles ❤️❤️❤️

[@harbingerofdark1417]

As an INFP-T, where I cant say this is exactly what I say, it is pretty close. When I watch these videos, I'm always exited to see what I can learn. So i just want to say thanks. Yeah. Thank you for helping me learn more about myself and others.

[@TokoRyu-ts1er]

I think she is INFJ

[@silliestbilly39]

Heyo! I was wondering, I noticed that you have A LOT of videos on the personality type INFJ. Would it be possible to also do in-depth videos on other personality types? (Coming from an INFP). I am aware that there are other videos regarding the other personality types, but none are quite as in depth and fully dedicated as the videos concerning INFJ. Sorry and thank you!

[@waterbudgie]

“INFJ is the rarest personality type, making up only 1% of the world’s population.” This comment section: haha INFJs go brrrr

[@bilal_mirai]

As an infj I can relate 7/10 Especialy the first one it really got my feeling. I do expect people to actually tell how they feel when asking

[@pmmz27]

I’m INFJ-P and all these are spot on 😮

[@zombzlmao6798]

is no one gonna talk about how wilbur soot, tommyinnit and friend are in this video-

[@Jade_-ux7ys]

I was about to ask the same thing