🌊✨3 TIPS for EMPATHS--The WATER People 🌊✨

[@deenatime]

The movies! Oh my goodness I get immersed in movies! The emotions are over powering! Glad to know I am not the only one! Thank you!!

[@krishnadastv6621]

Your way of approaching astrology is very impressive instead of using it to predict future and clickbaiting you want to help people through it. Keep up the good work and take care.

[@PuroAstrology]

:) thank you for your support!

[@TheSzutekina]

Im a Pisces and i was an empath, everybody said im too sensitive, etc now i just block my feeling that i learned from my scorpio soulmate. Im not doing this shit anymore ✌

[@PuroAstrology]

Protecting your energy is so important. You matter too. You don't have to leave yourself empty for the sake of someone else.

[@anything4talishas32]

Sun in cancer, 12th house. Moon in scorpio. I need this.

[@brycenas1898]

I am a 12th House Stellium (Sun,Venus,Mars,Mercury and Jupiter) in this house. It's ROUGH so I appreciate you making this video!

[@jessicaluke4172]

the weather definitely affects me!! That’s why I’m here on this video now.

[@PuroAstrology]

🥺 I feel you.

[@PollyPocket2]

Can you make a video on how to read squares, opposition, conjunctions ect

[@PuroAstrology]

I sure will!

[@MinaMZA]

Tip 2 two got me in the bones ! And yes to cleaning, it’s seriously magic. As a fellow member of the dead dads club I’d love a grief video! 💖

[@Uzumaki636]

Thank you for the vids. Oh my god 🥺 don’t do that to yourself. Empath, please know u r great and don’t let others forced you down. I believe in karma. You’re so beautiful and you did so amazingly in the videos. 👍👍👍👍

[@katedee2498]

I just love you, your voice, and all your videos. Thank you so much for all you do queen!

[@PuroAstrology]

🥹 thank you, Kate!! I love YOU! 🙏🏼

[@LeoSunScorpioMoon]

Leo Sun in 1st... but Cancer Rising... Cancer Venus.. Scorpio Moon in 4th... Aquarius Mars... Virgo Mercury... I am super drained! I am listening, Denise. Thank you, love.

[@Oliviasamse424]

Scorpio Moon in the 12th house. I have definitely grasped onto some of these tips over the years when dealing with people who just take take take. Boundaries are so crucial.

[@oakleyturner9544]

I definitely know what you mean regarding the weather. I do feel energized on a sunny day as opposed to a day that’s grey and overcast. I’m a Scorpio Sun (also have Scorpio Mercury & Neptune). I am most admittedly a Summer person, always feel lowest during January / February and most alive in June to August.

[@PuroAstrology]

The neptune! Clear indication there of high empathy.

[@oakleyturner9544]

@@PuroAstrology I am learning so much from you! 😳

[@arwenanduin]

4-planet Sun conjunction in Virgo 12th. Yes, empathic, never realized that in addition to negative energy, it's why sound, light, weather and especially temperature affect me SO MUCH. So many people have told me to clean my room! The Universe sending a message. Stirring up energy makes sense. Stirring up the stagnant water makes sense. And it's why I'm drawn so deeply into pictures and stories? Now I'm a writer--a double-edged sword! Self-esteem is a huge obstacle after all this time. Meditation helps. Thanks.

[@azezrtyuuiopqsdfghjk]

When I'm depressed I put music on. I love music and forget all neg thoughts.

[@aprellevlad]

Great advices. Thank you. I actually participated in Stoic week for couple of years, it is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy that helps adjust a way of thinking, and it really helped not to care much. I am Scorpio.

[@Heyokasireniei468sxso]

heyoka empath im water dominate, but libra sun libra moon, cancer rising (Scorpio dominant) Gemini in the 12th house part of fortune in cancer in the 12th house Pallas in Pisces in the 9th house (Pluto dominant plant chart ruler the moon , Venus for libra and mercury i was born on Wednesday. Pluto in Scorpio Saturn in Scorpio compassion asteroid in cancer 12th house , angel in Virgo 3rd house and aura Aquarius in the 8th house

[@lydiaburnett9831]

If I let the house get messy and just disorganized my mood severely tanks and I literally just want to sleep all day. As soon as I start cleaning, I get super motivated and social. The weather also really affects my mood too. Scorpio sun & rising, Pisces moon. (Sun & mercury in 12th house)

[@PuroAstrology]

All of this resonated with me so much. I therapeutically clean!

[@michaelanderson8131]

I can totally relate. I'm a cancer sun and mercury and venus in cancer all in the 12th. I'm very sensitive and definitely to lights, sounds and too much heat. I had never considered that before! I can also relate to loud TV and not being able to ignore or drown that out. Always catchs my attention and not usually good. My dad also passed away suddenly about 3 years ago in my early 30s. I never had the chance to fix my relationship with him. Great videos, helping me understand myself!

[@addventures]

first off you’re my favourite second the weather thing is so real ! sometimes I can’t tell whether I’m feeling the weather or I’m just completely in sync with it because it always seems to match up with my mood

[@PuroAstrology]

I know exactly the feeling. *guess we're sunflowers* 🌻(When I was a little kid, I thought I MADE it rain with my sadness lol. Ah, childhood.)

[@michaelanderson8131]

The other day it was cloudy all day. I had no desire to do anything and was emotional all day. So I can relate to what you said about the weather!

[@TracyAmor]

According to my chart, I'm 11x water. I'm Scorpio rising with Mercury, Saturn, & Pluto in Scorpio ♏. With 3 planets in 12th house - Sun, Mercury & Pluto

[@TheJennmolina1]

"They stole my life so that's fine" lol funny

[@maribeldelatorre1269]

Omg finally someone who understands me! Everything you said about not watching certain movies or the news is exactly why I don’t. People don’t get it but it affects me immensely. I found your Channel by accident, but I’m glad I did!

[@PuroAstrology]

Idk if you're into astrology! But when you're an empath, it really helps to understand yourself and why you feel the way you do. And astrology is a great tool for that!

[@maribeldelatorre1269]

Puro Astrology Im super intrigued by astrology. I used to hate being an empath when I was young bc I felt EVERYTHING... but now I feel like it’s a super power, like a secret psychic ability I have that allows me to fully connect with others

[@PuroAstrology]

YES!

[@JodieLee07]

I have Cancer in my Sun, Mercury and Midheaven. I also have North Node and Chiron in the 12th house. I can have a hard time whenever im around a large group of people, i normally come away feel drained for a few days (even with family). I can soo relate to your movie story, I'm a highly sensitive person and everything affects me so deeply. Thanks so much for your video, really helpful💛 Hope you make another video like this!

[@Liquidcadmus]

My sun sign in tropical is Pisces (March 13), I don't know if I would call myself an "empath" but I do have this thing where I sense people's energy whether I like it or not. Generally if someone is very negative, I feel it and it's very unpleasant. This even happens by just looking at someone from a distance. from average people I don't get anything though.

[@PuroAstrology]

Yep, that's exactly it! I think it's people who consciously work on developing this ability into something more... controllable? who are able to "do something" with it. I tell people, as a joke, "I have this really cool ability to contract headaches from people with headaches." It's not cool hhaha. It's just. . . interesting.

[@Liquidcadmus]

@@PuroAstrology I hear you, I don't like being around negative people, it actually makes me physically uncomfortable. But fortunately I haven't experienced what you describe, getting other people's migraines must suck. (or was it just a joke? haha) the thing is, that when I sense extreme negativity, it's like an alarm to stay away from those people. usually if I feel that discomfort, it's an indicator that person is seriously bad news. and by the way, the last part where you mention sensitivity to loud noises and such, I definitely have that. I really really appreciate quietness because of it. (actually lots of things you talk about in this video hit right at home, super interesting how accurate this was)

[@PuroAstrology]

It sounds like a joke but isn’t a joke 😂😭. I also can smell negative people a mile away, and run in the opposite direction. It sucks because sometimes I feel like these people need a lot of help, but just the level of... heaviness they bring. It’s enough to sink us both. So I swim away.

[@the14thking]

Love to see your favorite astrology books

[@PuroAstrology]

I have a video on that!kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKmYpHyngb5mmKM

[@bradm1813]

Thank you for the video… Pisces sun and moon man here… on my path to learn myself, I found the stoics as well! I love the meditations! I luckily have a Capricorn rising sign or I think I’d just be a puddle of water :). ✌🏻 ❤️ 🙏 💧

[@sherilee9517]

You are such a gift! Thank you, girl! ❤️🙏🏽 I resonate 100% with being very effected by the weather, and movies, and music!! But I actually really like horror movies. That’s the Scorpio in me. 🤣

[@JoytotheWorld11]

Virgo-style discernment, decluttering, health consciousness, and organization is SUPER important for people who are very sensitive to their environment Pisces-style.

[@PuroAstrology]

YESS!!!! Nothing relaxes me more than decluttering a junk drawer. I sometimes start cleaning when I go to other people's homes. I realized recently that can be seen as rude lol. I always thought I was being helpful/productive/self soothing hahaha.

[@JoytotheWorld11]

@@PuroAstrology Haha well hey, you can clean my house any day! XD

[@apotheclypse]

"I don't care, they stole my life, so that's fine." Lmao GIRL! I really love that timer trick, thanks for sharing that! I also have Sun and Mercury in the 12th house and the sensitivity can be so hard to deal with; not only in relation to my own emotions and others'' suffering, but also sensory input like you said, like lights, sounds, physical sensations etc. Have you read the book The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron? It gave me so much comfort personally and stopped me feeling so weird and different. And I also lost my dad already when I was 21, so I'm all for you making a video about that :)

[@PuroAstrology]

I love that book too! I wanted to mention it but didn’t wanna go overboard 😂. It was such a relief to finally get some explanation to my “weirdness” and it really did help me to find little tricks to feel at peace. That mercury in the 12th house is so cool but... hypersensitive! 💗🙏🏼 I salute you as a sister of the dead dads club.

[@bradm1813]

Thank you 🙏 I needed that reminder :) Pisces sun/moon man here and I struggle trying to be a strong man when I’m gentle... think m&m :) Married to a STRONG Leo/Scorpio which I find tough as she’s the strong one

[@aroacilynn]

OMG the weather affects me so much. When the sun isn't shinning, I feel like I have zero energy and motivation. I chopped it up to maybe I'm just overly dramatic lol

[@heavydreamer]

Thanks for this 🙃

[@lexirubyrose]

Yep, I am REALLY effected by the weather!

[@PuroAstrology]

🌻

[@janelai]

This video helped me alot.. Thank you very much for sharing.. I will watch it again..

[@creepykittah3169]

Thank you for helping others beautiful

[@manonzamble6384]

When you have cancer ♋️ sun, Mercury, Mars, Venus and all of them in the 12th house

[@TheMelodyofLogic]

Thank you for making this! I love the idea of adopting a stoic mantra. I’m a Pisces Moon. During times of high stress ( I have very bad anxiety so this is basically every day) I just basically disengage Lol. I’ll definitely be applying that so I can stay here and actually learn what it is I’m feeling instead of trying to constantly escape. I also get affected by the weather, and need to do some kind of physical activity on a regular basis. If I don’t I quickly sink back into anxious depression and just stew. Thanks again, really love your content!!!

[@PuroAstrology]

💗🙏🏼

[@saistrology]

💯 Pisces sun, Venus, Mars with moon in the 12 house. I have strong Mercury in my chart so that helps keeps me afloat. I also have awakened to how people have exploited my ability to empathize (I no longer project my compassion onto others).

[@PuroAstrology]

[@dominique4432]

Great tips Denise!

[@SaucyMegRossy]

You're beautiful and thank you for being brave and showing us your perspectives and light. I can relate tremendously with everything you have said.

[@PuroAstrology]

I'm glad it resonated with you, Megan

[@MJ_MAGHA]

Great advice and insight 🙏

[@MierRocio]

I'm pisces rising and I love watching emotional videos on youtube and cry for hours , I cried listening to demi lovato and shakira singing in french I'm so lame lmaoo

[@PuroAstrology]

Rocío Mier LMAO 😂😭😂😭😂😭. I have neptune on my ascendant so this is relatable.

[@curiouslyunruffled]

That arena analogy was spot-on, haha. I totally abide by that. All your tips are truly helpful and I can say that with enough trial and error and experience. Also, like you said, I realized this much later but it's so important to filter out fake/toxic people from our lives in order to live life lighter and doing the same has really boosted my self-esteem. I believe that being surrounded by positivity is key for us empaths to be able to normally function. Also, doing what we love to do more often. That always helps me! :3 And finally, please do make a video on strained relationship with a parent. I'm truly sorry for your loss! I've been estranged from my father for as long as I can remember and would love to know what you've got to say. Thanks again for this video bc I'm sure your tips will help a lot of fellow empaths out there, I'm glad our conversation sparked this out of you! :)))

[@PuroAstrology]

[@curiouslyunruffled]

@@PuroAstrology Yay! 🌻❣️

[@patrickmarino2347]

Thanks for your videos, they do help. Never was sure if I was an empath, it's most likely, though. Sun, mercury, venus in 12th. Moon in 1st.

[@PuroAstrology]

You for sure are. 1000000%. BOTH the 12th house involved and your moon in the 1st house.

[@michelledavidson9835]

I love the rain... I would say I’m an empath...

[@maybeitsree1942]

Are we twins omg. I’m constantly cleaning out my rooms lol I’m doing it now for the new year. It is a major way to keep my energy positive. I hate the news it makes me sad too. New subbie 💕

[@PuroAstrology]

Gotta keep those stagnant waters flowing. I'm cleaning for the new year too right now hahaha!

[@axe9448]

Im a Cancer sun&venus and Scorpio moon& pluto. And i have mercury in 12th house. I don't know if i would call myself an "empath" but i can read other people mind. Thank's for your qoutes it was very helpful ❤️

[@PuroAstrology]

You definitely are a water person! 💗

[@seabea31]

Have you ever thought about podcasting 😭?

[@PuroAstrology]

hyggemoments I WISH! I would love to have a podcast, but unfortunately Mina lives a whole ass state away from me 😭. And my local friends are normal upstanding citizens with real jobs 😂😭😂😭😂😭. *but let’s put it out into the universe*

[@seabea31]

Puro Astrology will do 😊 what about you on the podcast?

[@chelseachamberlain6770]

I don't have any planets in the 12th house. My north node is there but no planets. However, I am a pisces rising. I'm also an 8th houser. I didn't even know I was an empath until I was told like 6 months ago. So thank you for this.

[@Snakefishie]

I've been using this without even knowing 😂😂😂

[@roimatamassold4730]

Yes weather affects me Pisces sun rising moon leo

[@PuroAstrology]

Those rising moons!

[@AMIT51177]

Who are you? How one can know about someone to their in-depths? I strongly believe that you are a "Master" of your beautiful life changing work that's called Astrology. Yes, I'm an Empath and the Weather affects me strongly enough that if sun shines I shine and feel energetic and when Sun goes down in the evening I feel very unrest! I'm also very very Sensitive too due to which I can't get out of the bad experiences, thoughts or sayings very easily! For example if someone says that something explicit or unbearable things happen in a web series or movies it affects me very intensely without seeing it and I can't get out of it and it stays with me! Its very disheartening to see that many masters and geniuses of this world like you don't get their deserving recognition, fame and above all the respect for their invaluable knowledge & wisdom. I wish and pray for a hidden gem like you to truly get what you deserve! Love you.....

[@annaluna3208]

Moon in the 12th, neptune in the 1st love this

[@reducetheatoms]

Where is the video about losing a parent ? I think I haven't watched that one and I don't know if you posted it yet. Also thanks for the video :3 you are really kind. It reminds me of someone who told me "12th house sun are genuinely good people" hehe.

[@adrianax228]

Pisces sun, mars and saturn with a cancer moon 😆 if the sun doesn’t shine or my rooms not clean I feel my whole mood shift

[@PuroAstrology]

🌻

[@dreamyanushka]

I have issues with the word empath. Like cause it sounds like this would make me a nice person, but because other people’s feelings just overwhelm me SO MUCH. I have found that by age I’m really selfish about my space and peace. I cut my empathy for people, and build walls and restriction not to let them affect me. I wish I could learn to not let people into myself and use my intuition to help others, but it just makes me sick. And in return I’ve turned really cold and private about my empathy, making me very self centered in some way, so consumed by my own feelings. And that doesn’t really follow to the positive connotations of empathy. Dark side pisces thing 🖤🖤

[@PuroAstrology]

I 100% understand and share your feelings. You have no idea how much. I think it comes from years of being drained. I see red flags a mile away and I run in the other direction. I can always tell when someone will overwhelm me. And finally I'm at a point where I realize, I COUNT TOO. I matter. I too am a person, and I don't have to deplete myself to make someone else feel better. That's not right or fair. You've sparked a video idea! (Also, I am getting hardcore dejavu right now. It's freaking me out lol.)

[@dreamyanushka]

Puro Astrology thank you for having created such a comfortable space to share personal and private thoughts. I’m very grateful :) it’s less lonely and useful in practice in “the real world”

[@shaunaireland9161]

I have moon Saturn Uranus in 12th with Neptune on my ascendant . If I see or hear an animal hurt or in distress I literally die . Everything in my being hurts and feels so deeply .

[@hsanchezisidora]

Pisces sun, venus, saturn, mercury in 12th house and scorpio moon, pluto in 8th house 😅 im working so hard to heal. Also I don't believe someone is or not an empath, I think that empathy is a spectrum, and people are more or less empathetic

[@PuroAstrology]

I agree!

[@mariacatalinacosovanu3738]

I have the sun and chiron in 12 house, a lot of water in my chart and i totaly resonate..when the sun hides in the clouds i have little to no energy, i don't whach the news because i cry everytime i see something sad and it takes a while to get out of that mood, i cant stand scary movies and I avoid them

[@PuroAstrology]

🥺🙏🏼 we are like flowers! 🌻

[@nightsky199]

As a 12th house Scorpio Sun/Mercury...8th House OOB Cancer moon..I approve of this message. 😅💯😐 It hit really close to home and I’m grateful you made it...the weather comment got me, I use cloudy rainy days and chilly Midwest winter weather as an excuse to stay in and escape into my 12th house..and I know it’s not healthy, I def got to work on my empath coping game. I got some work to do.... The ability to lose myself in music/movies is too easy and a catch 22...it can be therapeutic at times but also detrimental cuz I can fry out my nervous system with too much stimulation and too easy to become the very thing I love consuming SMH. Music/movie/social media FASTING are a must and it helps to reset my ANS. Fun fact: Teddy Roosevelt was a Scorpio 😁

[@PuroAstrology]

That is a spicy ass moon you have! And I don’t remember where you have Virgo, but I remember it’s there-so there’s a lot of processing going on. Teddy Roosevelt 💗.

[@nightsky199]

Puro Astrology LOL yep, and my Virgo Mars/Venus tries to put that “spicy ass moon” in timeout as much as it can...as it should

[@PuroAstrology]

hahahah "as it should"!

[@philliprokkas195]

Take note from the stoic water bearer personalities haha

[@D3ck3rCain]

Arena puts u in public spot light. Just focus on the duel.

[@lailamuusa]

Enjoyed ur videos alot!, can you talk about pisces moon

[@PuroAstrology]

I have that video on my moon sign playlist :).

[@janelevy3214]

Hi Denise great video you would be a fantastic therapist as well! Yes can’t wait for next video! Thx! I Really do hate criticism it totally bums me out! Funny I really don’t consider myself all that creative as a Pisces 3/20 Neptune in Scorpio 7, can’t draw can’t play a music ha! I guess my creativity is my self expressive personality!! I am definitely prone to depression I expect too much out out of life and most times I don’t get it! Will check out your tips! The Greeks were the best “ Give me a piece of Earth and I shall move the World “

[@PuroAstrology]

That is a good quote that I will add to my Capricorn inspiration list 😏👌🏼!

[@janelevy3214]

Puro Astrology excellent Archimedes btw!

[@robs8353]

Great video with good advice. I don't know if I'm an empath or not. I have a lot of the qualities you mentioned however, i don't really get emotional about other peoples emotions unless I can relate it to myself. Then it affects me. There are times I can completely tune out loud noises and be in my own world and not notice things. I do pick up on vibes and if the vibes are really bad especially in the workplace it does bring down my mood. I laughed when you mentioned about people unloading there problems and emotions on you. I had one person talk to me for a good 8 hours straight about his life. After the conversation was over I passed out and went to bed, (it was late anyways). Should I cut short conversations like that if they don't come with solutions like you mentioned? You had me pondering that.

[@PuroAstrology]

DEFINITELY YOU SHOULD. What I’ve realized is that some people just want an audience. They don’t actually want to change nor do they want advice. It’s (unfortunately) usually people who aren’t heard or paid much attention. So when they get their hands on an empath, they just want to unload. But the reason theyre not listened to is because they lack empathy! They haven’t figured out that conversations are a give and take and that we need to be aware and responsible for our own energy. We can’t just dump on others! So when you feel a dump truck is coming near you, make an excuse and go. Don’t feel bad about it. You really can’t help them, and it only hurts you.

[@wmj246]

Denise! I love you even more now. Stoicism is dope. I've been interested in it for a few years now. Have you heard of the daily stoic by Ryan Holiday? I dont know if you mentioned it in this video. "Misfortune nobly born is good fortune" --- Marcus Aurelius play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=rocks.tommylee.apps.dailystoicism castbox.fm/va/1399054 Man in the Arena! 🤺 I am a warrior! It's no wonder I'm drawn to Spartans, Stoics, Jordan Peterson (JP) and warriors/philosophers in general. Saturn Conjunct Midheaven, Saturn in Pisces in the 10th. South Node in Aries.

[@PuroAstrology]

Malik Williams that Saturn MC! Very grandpa Peterson energy. He’s got Saturn there or is a a cap MC. I always forget. He’s a Gemini so that’s why he’s such a good writer and speaker, but there’s big Saturn energy there. And that’s a 10/10 quote 👌🏼🙏🏼.

[@wmj246]

@@PuroAstrology Thank you! I hope to cross paths with O'l Grandpa Peterson, him and the Dalai Lama. Love em both. Noblemen

[@yonahisika1517]

bein a moon in pisces in 8th can u help me interstand this crazy empathetic psychic combo pleaaase no one talk about it

[@PuroAstrology]

I will be thinking about a useful video for you, Yona 💗🙏🏼.

[@PollyPocket2]

I’m such a 12 house person so much going on there smh

[@TheCarmolly]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Sappyunicorn]

whats your zodiac

[@PuroAstrology]

I'm a Sagittarius :).

[@Sappyunicorn]

@@PuroAstrology I legit thought you were a leo.

[@xaanetllewellyn2309]

Not to be that one, but you forgot to add the link to the Saturn video you mentioned.😕

[@PuroAstrology]

Xaanet Llewellyn adding it. Thank you! 🙏🏼

[@xaanetllewellyn2309]

Puro Astrology yay thank youu 😊

[@nott7884]

🤣same no sun no energy🤭🌻🌤🌈🦋Leo♌ sun and Mercury 12 house,scorpio ♏ moon,mars♂️ in cancer♋

[@ZionWest999]

I wonder if your a Taurus?

[@PuroAstrology]

I'm a Sagittarius :)! My Jupiter is in Taurus, though, so maybe you're THAT intuitive.