Pursue Your Dreams AND Keep The Girl - A Guide

[@IhakzLIFTS]

Man Fit, you really boosted his confidence here this is what he needed… or he would’ve for sure given up on him self✊🏽

[@princelevi1804]

My brother changing life’s out here . Bless up

[@truepower3652]

As a hooper this hits

[@MentalityMike19]

"she's still poor too'" rocked me dead omg wtf 🤣

[@scamcreds]

🤣🤣🤣

[@dylantynes8233]

I was really good at playing football in high school. I remember not making the varsity team after spring training.. not because of my lack of skill but I fucked off finals week for a GIRL and tanked my GPA from a 3.2 down to a 1.4.. fast forward after high school. I married that same girl, bought a house, bought 2 cars and 2 years after being married she wanted to split and I lost her. I also chose to settle in the sales job that I got out of high school and didn’t go to collage at Chico State all because she couldn’t go. Some of the worst decisions I’ve ever made.

[@morefitxfearlessclips-official]

thanks for sharing this so hopefully other guys don’t make these same types of mistakes

[@sajansuganth8967]

Sorry to hear that. Ain't nothing left but to pray. That's the only thing that can bring peace in circumstances like this.

[@randolphwh9551]

I agree as long as she doesn't try to ruin ur dreams many women are dreamsmashers

[@ah00dii85]

I feel bad for bro, he is in a dilemma bc he doesn’t have the support from his girl and fam bc they feel his dreams is far fetched and not realistic. But FitX is right, he can’t give up and try his harder and be around people that is just as hungry for it as him.

[@WILLAIM20]

He has a good head on his shoulders for his age 20

[@bendikok6619]

Nah tf fit x is wrong. Follow your dreams is cool and all but this man’s dreams are pure delusion. It’s like how every other kid in grade school says they wanna make the nba. This kid can’t make the d2 community college soccer team as a sophomore or junior. Do you know how insane you need to be to go pro? I’m not saying it’s completely impossible, but it more or less is when you’re 20 and not even d1

[@Lackifall]

I feel like there should be a middle ground. If you have a dream, chase it. Chase it as much as you can. But you have to keep in mind that something like being a professional athlete also takes having elite genetics on top of hard work. So you have to be prepared for a plan b if your dream doesn’t work out.

[@a5dollars]

The better question is what has he done to prove his dedication to his family. If you’re kid sits in his room all day obsessed with soccer but has no results I’d tell him to grow up too

[@charithlanka]

i 've been in a similar situation last year and I wish I had someone like this break it down for me. luckily i made the right decision. this man helping all the brothers out. BIG DAWG

[@UR-9820]

He’s a good boy I honestly wish him all the best he’s somone I’d deffos be friends with. 👍🏽👍🏽

[@ramneeksidhu907]

I love fitx unfilter way of talking i love to get advice by someone who said truth on face rather than someone who just turn things around for hours not telling truth

[@ballifjulien9640]

Deep. Great advice Fit 🙌

[@Scruffmcbufff]

When I was his age, I dated a girl exactly like this. She was applying to be a police officer. She said I couldn’t pursue X Y or Z while I was also pursuing my career in law. She was wrong. I was able to do all the things I wanted and now I’m a practicing lawyer. She’s a cop. Probably making less than I am now.

[@coopc97]

I had everyone around laugh when I said I was starting my business straight out of high school and even teachers were saying I shouldn’t but i did and it’s successful now . I have one of the best detailing business in my region and not even 10 years in business yet

[@alexcunha7891]

good luck brother.

[@imsocentral2872]

All he really needs is support, one thing he missed out on in his childhood is building bonds and making friends who will always be there for him. Now he’s relying on unaccomplished people for advice or opinions in his life.

[@getsugaallen6612]

Who's accomplished?

[@imsocentral2872]

@@getsugaallen6612 I said unaccomplished

[@Yeasalotnopr]

What does that even mean technically everyone he grew up with would be unaccomplished 😂 wtf was that statement? 😂

[@imsocentral2872]

@@Yeasalotnopr of course I wasn’t speaking about EVERYONE in his life is unaccomplished, just the people he decided take advice from/long term advice

[@A.M.1.]

That boy going through it 😅 cant even answer basic questions

[@JamesMvula-g1q]

Hard facts Fit.🥶🥶🥶

[@sabian8601]

This is the exact situation I’m in and this is probably the best advise I’ve seen anyone give… Basically what my mom told me. It’s whatever about his girl being not supportive but It kinda sucks his own parents aren’t supportive of his dream as well

[@tyreese2008]

He made the team I just googled it

[@joshua6792]

Im happy for bro! I was in the same situation as the guy but it ended pretty badly for me (not too long ago)

[@AA-zx7zn]

What position does he play ?

[@dmarley_mal]

Fellas listen to fitx.He's where he's at for a reason. The good brother has wisdom and knowledge! Keep inspiring these young guys to be the best version of themselves!

[@morefitxfearlessclips-official]

thanks

[@lionelronaldo7156]

​@@morefitxfearlessclips-officialyou ain't fitx bra

[@IbrahimHassanDayTrade]

i love these video because it relates to my generation of my ppl

[@Bulldog22224]

I think this dude needs to network and think about how he can get seen by promoters and recruiters too. He’s 20. He still has time but not a lot. He needs to position himself up better for success fast Let’s say he is good, which he could be. He looks in shape and plays a lot goes to gym. If he’s good at a community college nobody will give a fuck. This dude also needs to think how will I get promoters to look at me. Or go to showcases or events. Going pro isn’t just being good. It’s also impressing people.

[@moreld9831]

Interesting, but football (soccer) does not work like other sports in the US. European teams are not interested in Americans when it comes to football; they would rather choose a mediocre European player than a decent American. The best chance at going pro in the US is to play football at the D1 level and then declare for the MLS draft. After that, you can impress and then climb the ranks and eventually play for the top European teams. It sounds like he's already on a decent path to go D1, as good junior college players often transfer to D1 programs.

[@Tazinh_0]

As a soccer player this one hit bro fr

[@kristoonz]

Homie goes to the same college as me haha.

[@R.A.N]

Hy tell bro to lock in if u see him 💪🏿🔥

[@HellnahLrizz]

Did he make it to the soccer team

[@feitanportor3350]

tell bro its okayyy

[@Slitherjah]

@@HellnahLrizzit’s been a month gang

[@Atlantafalcons_for_ever]

They be soo nervous 😂I can tell he shaking

[@zuvlet]

Bro what? what did you expect from someone opening up about their problems?

[@Energetics95]

Bro, we all had dreams when we were 20. Your brain is still developing. Just wait till you're 25 and you will see world differently. Do what you want, but you cant have it all.

[@xyfrq6631]

bro said he doesnt know what a 4runner is lmao

[@ah00dii85]

😂😂😂

[@raymondburks9993]

I’m glad fit was supportive of his dream to go pro in soccer but I think bro hanging out with the wrong people because he thought his own dream was crazy 😅

[@morefitxfearlessclips-official]

it’s usually like this

[@johnnyp3839]

Hey does anyone know if bro made it? I hope he did.

[@6lav]

hope so too

[@teej70]

why do these young kids always need to be in a damn relationship?? just stay single, focus on your long term goals and block out the noise!

[@morefitxfearlessclips-official]

Cause humans need healthy relationships in their life to be happy. There’s a reason why the worst punishment in prison is solitary confinement. Telling men not to worry about a relationship is dumb

[@davidtisane4163]

​@@morefitxfearlessclips-officialTHIS AIN'T THE REAL FIT

[@morefitxfearlessclips-official]

I never claimed to be

[@maazmohammed9269]

Not trying to sound mean or anything, but not everyone will make a honest living from playing a soccer, apart from it being as a hobby. Pick your battle.

[@joshua6792]

truu, especially with lots of kids being talented/skilled at sports nowadays. You need to create seperation through connections and be marketable.

[@dre.supreme]

Police cadet?! Bro must ain’t heard about that 🚂🚂🚂 that was ran on that white joint.😂 Leave NOW my g. A shawty talking down on your peace which seems to be soccer… she’ll drain you dry if you accept that type of behavior g.

[@maskedidentity2498]

I mean, she might not cheat, but she's still not a good girlfriend if she not only not supports him, but also plays mind games. Not focusing on this narcissistic bs which are just speculations, but those things are reason enough.

[@laminjawo5586]

I’m from Africa I had the same dream as him to become a soccer player. it didn’t work out for me, I got injured. However, I’m currently applying to med school. My advice for him, he should transfer to a 4 year D1 school. Community college is had for scouters to see you. Perhaps is different in Cali cuz am from NYC.

[@Tytrades]

Imagine Ronaldo had this mindset..

[@MentalityMike19]

Upgrade the car, its motivation

[@Spedfree]

I’ll be honest if he hasn’t even made his college team, he should open up his mind to other options and make sure his college major is a good one job wise. Cause I don’t regret mot making the nba, I would regret not being stable right now chasing nba.

[@jael1885]

There’s a difference between NBA and professional soccer players. A lot more chances of going pro in soccer

[@daimsaeed]

Keep your opinions to yourself my guy, you only get one life might as well keep picking at the thing you want and it aint like you gotta be in it 24/7 balance is key, never give up on your dreams

[@NyaiAdnan-ww2jh]

The last thing this guy needs is support for his delusional dream. He's already 20 years old, 99% of pro players were already in a pro league at that age and this guy isnt even on his college team.

[@jael1885]

Let him be delusional, if he puts in the work he can accomplish anything

[@UnknownUser-nu8ny]

You can be delusional at 20 years old. Let him try his hardest. A lot of great players like Vardy, Bacca, and Drogba didn’t get there chance till their mid 20s. If they listened to you they’d have never made it and been the average joe. If he was 24 now that’s a different story.

[@NyaiAdnan-ww2jh]

@@UnknownUser-nu8ny all those players were at least in an academy of some sort. This guy isn't even on his community college team.

[@bornfrompainjb]

facts i was thinking the same thing

[@s.aureus1254]

Dude is 20 and hasn't made it professionally in football. Hes not even playing for the top team in his community college. Dude is not going professional at all stop telling him to push for that

[@s.aureus1254]

His girl is keeping him grounded because it is too late to enter this industry. Fit is telling him to dump her. Ffs it's the blind leading the blind

[@nicksfreedommma]

@@s.aureus1254 so what at the end of the day, if he doesn't pursue his dreams he will hate himself. he is still young. plus he made the team

[@s.aureus1254]

@@nicksfreedommma I'm stoked for him but you need to know that it's only a community college team. Most professional players you see on TV started at academy level playing for the u12 team and even then not all of them make it to the 1st team. He's 20, if he had it in him, he would have been playing professionally for the past 2 years minimum. I'm not hating on him but Fit needs to be realistic.

[@s.aureus1254]

@@nicksfreedommma Talking about Cristiano Ronaldo of the family. Cristiano was making millions already at the age of 18 and was playing in Manchester United. He is not anywhere close to that level. Always looking at outliers and not the 99% that didn't make it. 'Trust me bro, I'll be the 1%'

[@jorgecuello2697]

He doesn't need to be christiano Ronaldo, messsi or Ronaldinho. He only needs to be good enough to make one of the hundred professional roster spot in the hundreds of football leagues.

[@OGDIDZ]

Fake ahh Kevin Samuels

[@morefitxfearlessclips-official]

That’s a compliment

[@Damthing]

Stop living in a fairytale 20 year is too late to be a baller