I Was Married.. | My Divorce Story | Corey Jones

I held this story in for so long, I figured it was time to share. It felt good getting it out and it finally being uncaged. There's always a deeper story to someones journey. Everything that you see from me is from trials and tribulations, and unfortunately had to go through this situation at a young age. I hope this story inspires you to keep going no matter what, your yesterday doesn't have to be your tomorrow. Things change, people change, feelings change too. Keep your head up at all times, if its a situation you can't control.. don't let it eat you up! Thanks for watching and supporting me.
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[@CoreyMJones3]

Don’t let this story or maybe a past similar experience that you may have had dim your outlook on successful relationships. Relationships can work with the proper communication, transparency, authenticity, and just the sole fact of wanting to be committed to each other. I didn’t let this experience alter my opinion. As you can see this video is not to bash my ex wife. It’s just to share my story in hopes to shed light and inspire. This happened 4 years ago, I’ve learned from this experience and leveled up. With that being said I will not tolerate any bashing or negative comments towards my ex in the comment section. That’s not the purpose of this video. Those comments will be deleted 💯🙏🏾

[@tommylikes4511]

I throughly enjoy this story time .

[@liquitapuckerin6702]

Well said, KING🙌

[@nocapp6180]

Thank you....

[@michelleal9439]

I hear and feel you in so many ways because I went through the same thing with my marriage and divorce. We’ve made it and we’ve grown. 🙏🏾

[@patriciasmith8662]

I am so sorry this happened to you..😞 This is not your fault! SHE had a choice to do or not to do. She CHOSE to do!!! May you one day find someone that loves you like you love them and respects you like you respect them 🙏🏾 All ladies do not do that!!🌹

[@keifjonz]

As a black man, who is a therapist and who is divorced, I must say I applaud your skill approach to healing. May God bless you as you move to your next chapter. We men need to talk to each other more.

[@USArmyRetired]

@Keith D. Jones Everything That You & Corey Jones Talked About Deals With The "Red 💊 Pill".Because In Today's Society Women Want Traditional Old School 🏫 Men;But,They Do Not Want To Be Traditional Old School 🏫 Wives 🆗️✅💯💯

[@sharicamonet9675]

@@USArmyRetired I was talking about this with my aunt. I feel like generations change and then change back. It seems like moms generation were like "independent women'' mindset and the woman doesn't cook regularly, or nurturing her partner. Anyway, I think the new generation is getting tired of the feminist movement and are moving towards the more traditional man/woman connection. We want to love and take care of our man, our love, our air that we breathe... I am grateful to have found someone. But because the other women are more visible and vocal, the loving, nurturing and supportive ones get looked or lumped in with the rest. My advice, is educate yourself, choose a partner based on the RIGHT reasons. Look for substance instead of superficial things. This goes for men and women. Of course this isn't fool proof, losers fall in our laps sometimes. But keep the faith✌️

[@anbrown78]

@Keith D. Jones. Agreed. The healing is a process but to see a black man be so transparent, vulnerable and strong at the same time is encouraging. I pray he continues to heal and let God lead.

[@schafvonkidd2032]

How can we connect with you Black therapist?

[@ellabelle6695]

Great❤❤❤

[@bereketweldegerima7828]

It may sound weird but bro you are lucky you came out of this kind of relationship as early as possible. And the fact that kids are not involved is the best thing.

[@nunya8]

Fuck ya.... hidden blessing. Too many women out there.

[@bizz626]

Yup

[@jatall2797]

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamen!!!!!

[@Strength_In_Wisdom]

Very much so bless

[@camisnyder3460]

Definitely. Glory be to God. Now he can be blessed with the woman God has planned for him.

[@jennpul1015]

As a woman who will never cheat, i will say this; the moment that you realize that a woman has a tendency to cheat you should run. Not cheating is about respect for yourself and your body as a woman. Its never about the man or the relationship. A virtuous woman would never feel comfortable sharing her body , or having anything intimate with more than one man. A tendency to cheat means when problems come, she will cheat, and problems always come

[@JohnBeezy3]

I agree. I see some men trying to do things to prevent their woman from cheating. If you think that she would cheat in the right situation, oh she gonna cheat at some point. Just a matter of time.

[@cyrusthegreat3299]

Well said, dear lady.

[@JamMaster0011]

Never say never.

[@iwishyouwould9985]

@@JamMaster0011 NEVER!

[@ThatManDWill]

why do people go looking for MONOGAMY when MOST can't even practice it !!!

[@jerronjackson6613]

This is a real man. He never even cheated on her. He’s definitely going to be blessed beyond measure. Very well spoken.

[@E03Avery]

😂😂

[@latetotheparty184]

I assume you mean he will be blessed after he dies, as in blessed in the afterlife. That much is true.

[@Phromate]

As a divorced man myself. I felt how heavy this was on you Bro. I appreciate your transparency. Once you find that one woman you prayed for, you’ll see how much easier it is to love again. I’m a living witness. Been remarried almost 5 years now.

[@JulianSteve]

Congratulations on being remarried🙏🏾‼️

[@jbill7808]

I'm glad u find happiness in your new marriage

[@Morgan24_7]

I'm glad you found someone instead of becoming bitter.

[@Onlinesully]

@@Morgan24_7 plenty options other than remarry or bitter. Heaps of options aswell Anyway best to you all

[@sidersproductions941]

I'm here for this story and congratulations brother!

[@Surgicaltechmom]

Cheating is not a mistake, it is an informed decision. They know the consequences.

[@brandongriffin110]

Doesn't matter I'm not trying figure out what Vows ppl are taking... Everyone seems to be like these fortune 500 companies taking any loopholes available

[@rebonemakhura5175]

True, tripping and falling is a mistake, not deciding and acting. For me cheating is the highest form of betrayal. The intentions, the lies, the deceit, no it can't be a mistake, sorry.

[@hothotheat3000]

The act AND hiding it, making a fool of him. I know a guy who was cheated on and the wife cheated on him. Made sure to cheat with a guy who looked similar to her husband so if she got pregnant, she could pass the kid off as her husband’s. She got caught, and got dumped. Other guy was in it for sex, so he bounced. Husband is with someone better. She’s alone now and says she regrets it. Nope, she regrets getting caught.

[@tanikanakeyalewis4202]

When He learns to Stop "Conquering", and "Conquerment", His Lesson will be Learned. 😶.

[@ravendove6944]

I feel most people don't see, know, or feel the consequence until they get caught.

[@monicabrownhayes]

I felt like a failure after my divorce and one day I saw this quote, “Failure is an event, not a person.” An event that occurred in my life that did not work out; the marriage failed not the people. I applaud you for giving it your all and being transparent. I hope other men are brave enough to share their truths. Great video!

[@patriciaforrester6955]

Thanks for sharing!

[@speakupken]

“The marriage failed, not the people.” Whew…..thats a good 1.

[@olijoswt3951]

Thanks for this 😊

[@Kendonezia]

I'm going through it right now...please pray for

[@ddmound]

@@speakupken yeah rite! The ppl is the mariag e. h marriage isn't te ppl.

[@HaInspiration]

“Sometimes God makes you go through things so you can see the other side; so you can be a better you!” ~Corey Jones

[@ddmound]

2 B exact! that is not true! Who told you that? You go through whatever you go through bc of ur sinful ways. If you were to make up your mind to do that which is right in God's eyes, then what things are you talking about going through, other than life? It shows you really don't know Him. The Lord said very few find the Heavenly Father. You do not and cannot find Him just bc you accepted Christ. You must forsake you wicked ways (unless you can say your ways are his ways) and fulfill righteousness. No one can fulfill righteousness on the internet. If you fulfill righteousness by walking with the Lord and taking his yoke(s - one s hidden) and enter his two rests, then he will reveal the Patyr; to you. Why would the Lord introduce you to the Patyr' when you refuse to honor your word to depart the sins you ask him to forgive you of? You are not a teacher. What are you?

[@abidex16]

@meechie what did Job (in the Bible do)? What was Job’s sinful way? I would be glad to know.

[@jm4236]

​@@ddmoundWhat you said made zero sense. Seriously, I GUARANTEE you've had things in YOUR life you 🤡.

[@chloecat9095]

She wanted the relationship to end from the jump she didn’t disguise his name and left her iPad on YOUR night stand and then told you she had him over at the hotel! She wanted you to break it up she didn’t want to be the one to pull the plug

[@ElKabong965]

That part

[@arabiasantigo4870]

Facts..Thats exactly what she did

[@UriyahMommy]

Yes

[@crystaldoesthings7754]

She never wanted to be married or the relationship . You are exactly right. Him putting her in a hotel was not the right move it gave her the green light for her to be with that adulterer. Smh.....smh.....smh.....smh

[@honestlyspeaking905]

Exactly

[@carmenjackson90]

My first marriage ended in divorce, single with two children under 5 , after 5 years of struggling I met my husband and I had two more children. Which also added 3 step children. We are going on 22 years of marriage this June. Focusing on how to do things better and learning from previous mistakes is what helped.

[@folayanayoyinka9677]

It really hurts, this is what i feel right now. Feeling betrayed, even with the red flags you were still trying to fix things. Your story is a motivation for me.

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

Man, the fact that there are men who really value relationship/marriage is awesome! Kinda gives me hope that one day I'll get married to a God fearing, monogamous faithful man!

[@lefty206]

@@TheRTM why are you even worried about what she's doing with her own life? Seems like you need to spend more time worrying about your own

[@TheRTM]

@@lefty206 Why are YOU worried about someone (LIKE ME) being worried about her life?..And then you have the nerve to tell me what I should do with my time..? (b*tch please!🤨)…Maybe you should follow your own advice regarding “time management”😑. But hey if you’re going to allow me to occupy space in your mind (rent free) I’m not going to complain.😂

[@glorycarrier3712]

That's my prayer too sis 😊🙌🏾

[@nicoleowens2318]

@@TheRTM what's funny is that you call God an "invisible sky daddy" showing your limited perspective and understanding but you're telling her to grow up. Where do you think you came from? What animates your soul? Where did it come from and where is it going? If you can't answer these questions then you have no standing when telling someone their beliefs are unfounded. You can say humans have probably misunderstood God or the universe throughout history because like babies, we can't conceive of something so much more complex than ourselves, but you cannot say with any certainty that God, an intelligent creator of any kind, doesn't exist. The fact that you think consciousness comes from nowhere or appears by some random chance says you haven't thought things through very deeply. I suggest doing some of that before trying to clown people online. To people who HAVE given it some thought you sound juvenile and ignorant. The funny thing is, the ones who are the meanest to others are the ones who don't believe in something bigger. Is that a coincidence? Probably not.

[@lefty206]

@@nicoleowens2318 Sis, you said it all lol. I was gonna respond to that loser but I have ANYTHING else better to do with my time!

[@24POWERS]

We don’t talk enough about the heaviness of grief. People who can pick up pieces after heartbreak and forever the hero.

[@elenam9435]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@LFortune]

Corey, thi is the first time I've watched your channel. What an introduction. I just want to applaud you integrity and the empathy you so clearly exhibit. Betrayals of the heart are some of the most treacherous waters to traverse. Thank you for sharing your story and happy that you made it back to shore.

[@marisha_for_real]

This came on my KZbin feed and watched the entire video! I understood everything you said! Went through this with my ex and also shared my story on my channel! Thank you for sharing your story!

[@glendaknox9257]

What's sad is that man is going to have his fun with her then kick her to the curb. His action alone by wanting to mess with a married woman speaks volumes about his character. She ended her relationship thinking her and this trainer will be together but he will never be able to trust her. Also he's probably telling her and a few other women all the same thing. It sad.

[@Teddymwenda]

She wanted some excitement. "I'm married but I'm doing this type of excitement"

[@Rollinghard7]

@@Teddymwenda that's not excitement.That's childish behavior and how a lot of people become unalive.

[@jameshill927]

Facts

[@velwright2211]

Right

[@Jujubean9795]

Nah, she probably just wanted a quick and easy way out of the marriage. He wasn’t making much, they were clearly struggling financially. Women get tired of fulfilling their ‘wife duties’ just to come home to a man that can’t provide financially. Women know that men divorce when the woman cheats. Simple. She wanted out.

[@abisolaabisola7357]

This man is definitely marriage material. His Character is embodies a man.

[@edwinascantlebury6435]

First time to see you. I am touched.Hope you find the woman who deserves you.,.

[@tuyet7886]

Idk this man, I'm not talking about him, but men can be like this n still cheat on a good woman. Half way in the video, he didn't say he never cheated. Lol. Just saying.

[@q.t.gamingfamily]

I was about to say how do you know HIM? Many youtube personalities are playing a role like actors in amovie. This story has holes. They always say "I never hit her, I did everything for her" but leave out the cheating, hiding finances, destroying friendships, constant accusations.

[@AMMA83]

@@tuyet7886 So true lol

[@ericahamilton4943]

Yes he most definitely is

[@clarissahoward1901]

Your story has encouraged me to know, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@coachj2024]

Never seen your channel before. KZbin suggested this video and this was a story I needed to hear. I wish you all the best in success and I commend you for finding your way back “you”. Thank you for your transparency. 💪🏾

[@trulyshanell3143]

It takes a strong man to be open about being cheated on. Most men in today’s society seek revenge, & take their hurt out on other women. Wisdom and maturity at its finest 👏🏽

[@tonyacarpenter9033]

Yep..I call them Adult Boys..Not Men..

[@trulyshanell3143]

@@tonyacarpenter9033 I’m with you !

[@joeblack6921]

Sounds like you cheated

[@trulyshanell3143]

@@joeblack6921 get the hell out of here, you’re one of them lil boys we were just talking about

[@godsgirl7201]

😭😳🥺

[@kimjohnson8471]

Baby Boy, word to the wise: No matter how hurt & lonely you are, NEVER pour your heart and soul into anyone who doesn't want you.

[@champion-drive]

yeah but he didn't know she didn't want him until it was too late.

[@sophiamazyck9764]

Definitely sorry things happened this way for you. Sadly, I can relate. The pain, I can attest to. Praying for your continued strength and happiness! Thank you for sharing and not being bitter.

[@adriennemerkerson6412]

This was definitely a blessing for me to see this today. Thank you for sharing. I am going through the exact same thing right now. It's actually crazy how similar our stories are. This has given me a new hope. I still struggle some days because this literally just happened over Christmas. But I know I'm gonna be okay. Thank you again for this. And God bless🙌🏾

[@msgaffney2357]

Damn, my dad went through this with my mother. He finally moved on and remarried a woman that loves and appreciates him♥️

[@guivenchy3524]

You should condemn your mom

[@curtisgraham6987]

Tell me about it. My dad was hurt yet he still told me to love cherish and take care of my mother!

[@beetlejones2661]

Don’t be like her.

[@Ramohlaboli]

Thank you. You have no idea what you just did for me ❤️

[@kvinche8120]

Hope your not like your mother, call me

[@thepr3tty116]

I HEARD SOMEONE SAY IF YOU CAN TELL YOUR PAINFULL STORY WITHOUT CRYING YOUR HEALED. #DETROIT #LOVE 🤗

[@jbmiami9010]

I hope your correct baby.

[@thepr3tty116]

@@jbmiami9010 WHY YOU SAY THAT BOOPIE? I THINK I'M RIGHT. I DON'T REALLY GET EMOTIONAL OVER THING'S TOO MUCH HOWEVER THE DEATH OF MY GRANDBOY THAT I SEEN WITH MY OWN EYE'S WAS HORRIBLE. THAT BRINGS ME TO TEARS FOR MY DAUGHTER.

[@DanaeLaurenTolbert1]

Very true. When anger and/or tears are present, that is a clear indicator that you are not healed.

[@jbmiami9010]

@@thepr3tty116 I say that because I can tell my painful story without crying but it still hurts. And I think if it still hurts one has not healed, it’s only been a year but I’m ready for it to pass.

[@thepr3tty116]

@@jbmiami9010 AWWW I UNDERSTAND AND HEAR YOU. GUESS WHAT?? I BELIEVE YOU TOO! MAYBE I SHOULD'VE SAID IT DIFFERENTLY? I'M GLAD YOUR NOT IN THAT SITUATION ANYMORE 😌 🙂

[@tonyhector4842]

Man your story touched my heart. Your story resonates with me because I’m going through this now. The pain is unbearable, the lies hurt, and your video is inspirational. Thanks for posting this -

[@CoreyMJones3]

Stay strong 💯

[@lajuaneharvey6314]

Corey Jones I appreciate that bro I have been there. I respect that we share the same struggle and I made it thru and I am glad you have too. Blessings to you !!! Stay strong stay powerful 💪

[@bougie-nel362]

Going thru a divorce now. Met him at 20, we have 2 children. I'm 34 now and he put me thru the ringer. Gave him my 20s and took his excuses, I can't sacrifice my 30s. I felt like a failure too, but in the end I know I did everything I could to only be with someone who did nothing to better the situation. I wish him nothing but success, I will always have love for him but my spirit/ trust/ heart was dead within our marriage. I am not bitter I am better ♥

[@sumikoshawcoleman1709]

Can we all link up? ☹

[@courtcourt2444]

You’re story is literally my story from being married entire twenties to having two children. Made up my mind i couldn’t do it in my thirties. I was miserable my entire twenties. By time I divorced, I was numb and just desired peace. Wasn’t even hurt or angry anymore. God is great and I’m just being patient to be blessed to marry again and that it will be a TRUE man of God. Blessings to you.

[@kevinfowler8712]

What about the children? My big sister was impacted negatively by the split of my mother and father and it bothers her to this day, and I remember the awkwardness of being around my stepmother whom I never liked.

[@chattingwithjojo]

I always like to share this with people. My mom and stepfather have been married now going on 11 years. My mom came in with 3 kids in tow. Met my stepdad at 36. She was convinced that no one would want her. He didn't have children. My mom was willing to have her tubes untied and do it again but he didn't want to put her through it. One day we were together for Christmas and he said that he was happy that we allowed him into our life. I was floored. Like sir, allowed you ? We are happy you are here. We needed you more than we realized lol. I never expected my moms first marriage to go the way it did, and Ididn't expect him to be an unavailable dad but it happened. But we all got a lot more in return. And my mom and stepfather are still very much in love and going on trips every other weekend 😂. She was proof that even when you've given up God has other plans.

[@bougie-nel362]

@@chattingwithjojo same here my Mom divorced my Dad ( he was toxic) she remarried my StepDad and he raised us. They are still going strong, my Stepdad has done more for me than my Dad ever has, he is my Dad.

[@mopheme4211]

A wise man once said, I quote. "In the midst of chaos there is also opportunity". Big up my brother!

[@nanali7245]

I love that quote ♥️ never heard it thank you for sharing

[@nathanaeljoseph2226]

Chaos is a ladder

[@Sammy-rb3gg]

As fate would have it, I was drawn to listen your story! Big congratulations on speaking your truth and being vulnerable. When listening, I could hear that it was hard for you to share your - now the deeper levels of healing begin.

[@JimmyBridgesBowlsAgain]

Ive been there my brotha! My story is very similar with the exception we owned a home, had 3 kids and were married for 18 years!!! My younger brother told me “do everything you can to get her back, if it doesn’t work, you’ll have no regrets” he was right, i tried alot of the things you did and one day it hit me, its over. I bounced and didn’t look back. Life has been amazing!!!

[@CoreyMJones3]

Facts! That’s our job as men. Exhaust all efforts and if it doesn’t work out at least you did what you had to do. Big ups bro! 💯

[@melsparks8885]

Bro I'm not gonna lie to you, I am definitely afraid, I've been alone and dying an old man by myselfI love the company of the opposite sex I love competition I love to be around someone that I care about, Someone that I can love unconditionally and they can love me the same way unconditionally. I believe it was Chris Rock that said this or made this comment that, Women children and dogs are loved unconditionally, When you start dating that woman and you explain it to your homies what's the 1st thing that we say to each other man has she looked as what we're at about. When a woman dates and starts explaining to her home girls, what's the 1st Thing that they say what kind of Job does he have. Because we think on such different levels and it is tru.

[@JimmyBridgesBowlsAgain]

@@melsparks8885 Chris Rock is right and you will be fine trust me. Sometimes I sit there and I'm like "whoa, am I gonna be alone the rest of my life?" but I know better, I have my peace of mind and I can enjoy female company at my choice. I'm 62 and I can go anywhere I want, when I want and if I want female company I just keep it 100 with them about what I want, I know there are alot of "I's" in there but hey, Im love the freedom

[@purewisemarian]

Wow, I don’t know how I ran across this channel. But we as women need to hear a male point of view of being betrayed. We feel this often In relationships as women. God bless you brother ❤️

[@lisbethpichardo7755]

I know right, i’m so glad i found this video too.

[@sharon1212ish]

Me too

[@noonelikeyou13]

This is my first time on your channel, I don’t even know how this popped up on my feed but You are highly favored by God. In this life, God has a test for EVERYONE to go through so he can use you to tell others about Him. All praises to the most high. Your true queen isn’t far. God knew of this in advance ! Your time is in his hands.

[@vevp8287]

Right, I've never been on his channel before either. For some reason it KEPT popping up as a suggestion. I'm glad I watched tho

[@pichendaomm2079]

Same.

[@JessBlake2]

@Elegance A L'Excellence, Wait? What? So he deliberately hurts people so they'll worship him? Why does he need to be worshipped? Why can't he speak for himself? What's wrong with him? Your definition of being favored is for someone to hurt you so you'll tell others how great he is? Sounds like he a sadistic, immoral monster.

[@deerami5920]

never had much.. love my Daddy Jesus' It's Great ... no marriage.. no _Sex..

[@francisthompson6168]

I enjoy your story you will be fine as times goes buy it will get better we all have been there before GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH THERE ARE BETTER THINGS TO COME ..EVERY THING IS DONE FOR A REASIN JOY WILL COME IN THE MORNING THIS SHELL PASS OVER.

[@vet344]

Man I know that feeling you went through, it gave you compassion for people that have gone through this type of situation. Keep your grind up and keep moving forward as long as you keep yourself moving positively God's grace will bless you bro. Stay blessed!

[@TheToywa]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. Its lots of people hurting and suffering and hearing someone who has come through from the other side is encouraging. God bless you!

[@colinhalliley111]

When this man learns to trust himself again, he can trust another one more time. When you have been betrayed its hard to forgive yourself for not knowing . You feel stupid , hurt and every emotion you don't want to feel . One day that person will feel these emotions when they get burned. Thank heaven no children were involved. It takes time . One day it will not hurt the same. God heals all wounds . Stay strong !

[@marjorieaugustin7893]

My husband had a child outside our marriage I found out when the child was 4 years old 😳 he have stolen 4 years of my life. To make matters worse as if it can "we have no children together I had 4 miscarriage throughout the miscarriages I was heart broken praying to God so I can give him his first child but all that time he already had a first child. I thought I married my best friend 🤦🏾‍♀️ after the pain the great destruction and damage was done I realized sometimes God must break your heart so he can save you.. for so many reasons now I can say that I'm the lucky one.

[@cgyj]

Oh no he shouldn't trust he need to focus on himself and his purpose he should be angry its not negative its only bad if he uses the wrong way its good to hate sometimes it gives concentration and purpose

[@roniellecopeland]

@@marjorieaugustin7893 I’m praying for you. I’m so sorry you had to experience that. New love will come and he will regret it…

[@freezelacold8184]

Story of my life. Its hard to forgive yourself

[@narrowroadtraveler4167]

I m trying to understand the logic of this comment he's not at fault what is it to learn of trusting in uerself if uer not the unfaithful one u can always trust uerself never trust another flesh an blood human being an u dont have to mistreat a person not to trust em

[@Christine_1829]

My story is similar… My ex husband and I were newlyweds and he went outside the marriage. I also felt like a failure. I just didn’t understand… We have been divorced now for about 9 years…Let me tell you without God in my life I couldn’t have made it. At one point it felt like I just wanted to die!! Now I’m 37 female; been doing quite well for myself.. Thank you for sharing!!

[@furrsmith8131]

No disrespect, I am just curious; you were 28 when you got a divorce, what made you feel like a failure? Why did you feel like dying? Was it the love?

[@AngelettaANance]

Praise The Lord.I got married it never worked. All I can say is everybody that got together, GOD didn't put them together. There are times we get ahead of God and things just are not going to work as we planned it. Stay in the plan of God, we have to WAIT ON GOD. Blessings to you trust God. 🙏🏽🕊🔥👑🩸💜🌹

[@MrsButtersworth82]

We have a very similar story. The Only difference is I have been divorced for 2 years now. I was embarrassed and heartbroken.

[@mlmlsmith2505]

Blessings to you ❤️

[@Wharbuckz7]

@@furrsmith8131 she weird. A man and woman have different sexual anatomy its not even a comparison when another man conquers your girl glorious guts. Smh

[@teecake7]

This story is so relatable. Thank you for being so transparent. I'm divorced as well so this really hit home. I'm not sure why this video popped up on my recommendations but I definitely needed to see this. What an inspiration you are. I wish you all the best on your journey.

[@KierraJayy]

Thank you for sharing this bro! I’m going through something similar, but with my husband. Your story has given me some hope in my situation. This hurt is so real. It’s so crazy because I feel exactly how you felt. Keep being great!!!! Blessings to you!

[@tamaramichelle4326]

It’s important who is in your circle as a single person and it’s even more important who is in your circle as a married couple! You are the company you keep!

[@lisamitchell2501]

What's that saying " birds of a feather flock together. "

[@LWFWCLebanonTN]

Amen

[@xoangelicaf0523]

@@lisamitchell2501 that’s not always true! My friends are single and they never try to stray me of single ppl things knowing I’m married

[@benitacolmus4571]

@@xoangelicaf0523 thank you..I appreciate you & your comment. The side eyes single friends get esp during rough martial patches is real👀However some of us are rooting for all that you are in any capacity.. we know what the other spouse puts up with😉😁plus we’re usually wanting & hoping for our own forever future any time any day soon…

[@creating1_c1999]

@@xoangelicaf0523 Single or married, you are in good company, that's the premise behind "birds of a feather". Positive people are both married and single.

[@lydiagibbs1001]

Lord heal this young man. Restore him so that he will be able to love again. Let him look to you, cry out to you, and love on you as you guide him in Jesus name Amen.

[@patricenelson-blair6812]

Amen

[@tracyjolicoeur3963]

@@patricenelson-blair6812 ]

[@tonyacarpenter9033]

When I heard him speak on it. It hurt to know. Especially when you have someone attempting to be a good human/man.

[@tonyacarpenter9033]

He did what most men don't understand. He took accountability for the relationship as the head. He attempted to bring them into a different space She wasn't mature enough to be ready for him.

[@Everyoneisanartist776]

In the name of Jesus

[@victoriamilligan8014]

You’re story touched me! You went through this but this story needed to be told because someone has went through or is going through this same situation. I’m so glad that GOD use this situation to transform your life. You are GREATNESS and I’m so happy for your success! May GOD keep you & bless you!❤️

[@christdrivesme]

The disrespect and coldness is what gets you. It’s crazy how good these women can mask who they really are. The sad part is the fact that most men will go through this at some point in their life, because of the culture we live in. Bro, you’re a better man than me for giving her so many chances trying to make it work. Even though things didn’t work out, I’m glad there was a light at the end of the tunnel for you and you’re thriving.

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

These women? He was married to one person, not these women.

[@christdrivesme]

@@Michelle-pn9xt Since there are many more women out there like the one he was married to, I was correct to say these women meaning other women like her. You may not be and that's fine. But lets not act like the majority of divorces are not caused by women or their infidelity.

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

@@christdrivesme Divorces are caused by issues with the man or woman or perhaps both. It could be cheating. It could be faith in God. It could be an incompatibility issue. It could be financial. You never really know what is going on with another couple. We all have baggage. Some of us simply have more or less than other people. God will always send the right person to you. If you pray and ask God to send a wife, he will send someone who will love you and only you forever.

[@sheltonj20]

I went through this for 16-years and as a black man it placed me in a mild depression. I went to therapy, prayed, and moved on. Thanks for sharing 🖤 fellow black men let’s heal.

[@tosinadesoye281]

How helpful was therapy?

[@nonhlanhlamaribe7050]

Be strong ✊

[@murraymachado401]

Fellow humans, I love you but hate sin. There is no club for ya'll as there is none for us. Pffft, Yeah, your narcissism is showing pal, get one, a good one but DEFINITELY..... ......get a bloody grip.

[@novaheads]

I’m not black I’m brown but I want to heal too

[@el_fantasma3]

@Tosin Adesoye it helps but really you have to heal yourself

[@jeffnyoka4904]

the pain of realizing that the person you trusted and was sacrificing a lot for, the person you thought you made feel safe and you never mistreated, yet is entertaining other people, is the WORSE. you cannot compare it.

[@annaleebillings]

How about...you find out That Person put sewage debris into your food / watch you eat it and then also purposely inserted the same into your private parts doing sex. I don't Know...but much can Top that.

[@jeffnyoka4904]

@@annaleebillings Jesus. That is evil. I am so sorry you went throught that. Wishing you healing and strength. I think betrayal of any sorts is evil.

[@brandyyolidio4213]

@@annaleebillings That is criminal they should be charged with attempted murder garbage can be poisonous

[@lovethyself94]

Been here except worse he got someone else pregnant and told me on New Years Eve!! Worst feeling ever in life is heartbreak with a side of baby that is with someone else that is not your wife

[@lovethyself94]

@@brandyyolidio4213 Facts

[@arnoldmckay5435]

Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable! Your story will help many. Powerful. Praying for your continued healing. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@CoreyMJones3]

Thank you bro!

[@crystalg.1906]

Thank you for using your platform to share so transparently such a painful experience from a man’s perspective. It sounds like you found great purpose in your pain and that is all any of us that have gone through similar experiences can pray for. Be blessed🙏🏽

[@karinaflower5907]

It wasn’t failure, it was a blessing. Thank God you found out the truth before kids got involved because that would’ve made it 121% even more harder to break ties.

[@zee_lolaj7382]

Yes Indeed 👌🏿👌🏿

[@lizbatiste7352]

What a beautiful man.Strong,intelligent ,kindness and love. You deserve everything good happy that you’re moving forward. Positivity,positivity it works and helps me cope with life.🙏❤️

[@vuyaninhlanzizibashise892]

Tell me about it!!!!👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

[@benjaminslife9424]

I know that feeling of being a failure when you put all you could into a marriage but there was nothing you could do. I agree thankfully there was no children involved because that complicates everything.

[@hothotheat3000]

I KNOW THATS RIGHT! My God, as soon as he sent her to the hotel, I knew what would happen. So sad for him, and so sad for her. She will never be able to trust this new man, because a man who will happily pursue a married woman is not a good man.

[@roznichols371]

I remember, nephew. This was a well made and well thought out presentation. You've released it and will help someone. Keep growing and moving upward. I love ya!

[@arliciawalker]

YES it was, true heart felt, and release of all healing to take place,

[@daniellemadison7068]

Healing now from a situation. Need to hear this . Thanks .. I was starting to Believe men was heart less . I left comment on this one cause I live the family support though times like this

[@lamar78us]

@@daniellemadison7068 I feel you , I am healing from a ugly divorce myself.

[@daniellemadison7068]

@@lamar78us Hang in there.

[@lamar78us]

@@daniellemadison7068 Thanks but I'm feeling so much better. The very think I tried to hold on to was the very thing God was showing me that I didn't need to be happy or complete.

[@KBeautyShine]

Wow this was deep. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable, there’s power in testimony. I hope you find love again and I’m glad you’re not allowing a failed relationship determine how other relationships will turn out. Love from MA ❤

[@tiasmith1724]

Congrats Corey! Truly an encouraging testimony. God is able! ❤

[@Morgan24_7]

He is so correct. Betrayal is the worst. My heart goes out to him.

[@GGEarly]

Betrayal and not willing to take accountability for your hurtful actions, pisses me off!

[@doslingreen7891]

I can't imagine my brother, but God knows the plan He has for you , that's to prosper you and you will prosper. Be bless🙏

[@bagboy71]

As a man in this situation, it is the most loneliest position to be in because when your going through it, you cant really talk to anyone about it. Its embarrassing, belittling, and a huge blow to your self esteem. Woman have support groups and they automatically get the benefit of the doubt. But when this happens to men it makes us look weak, feel weak. Through that suppression builds anger and distrust. Sharing this had to been therapeutic I'm sure. More men need to share these experiences because it happens more often than we think.

[@patriciaforrester6955]

You are so on point! It annoys me so much when I see the generalization of our men that they are always the one to be unfaithful! And yes, we always seem to get the benefit of the doubt & that is soo wrong! But, things are changing, small though it maybe.

[@aida087]

Hope you're getting through it day by day. I know some men who are going through this and I never could stand the constant "man-bashing" that exists in this day and age towards all men because of a man or two who did them wrong. And even though, I myself have been through this with a common-law marriage and, so I always defend men that have been basically taken advantage of by women today who only think of, and aspire to get attention, have her wild a** friends and "the bag" at all costs instead of, realizing they have a "good" man who work hard for their marriages, their money, their children because good men DO exist!! You can always start your own channel, podcast or blog to help you get through this as well as other men. Good luck to you.🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@ddmound]

bagboy that is BS! Who wants to hear about another person's failure? I don't! It is saying experiences (of others) are the best teachers. tHAT EXPERIENCE IS WHAT IS CAUSING THE NORM WITH RELATIOBSIOPS THAT DO NOT WORK. DMML! What he describes is his contribution to the failure of the norm that he attests does not work. FYI the ONLY WAY women feel superior to men is in da bedroom if she cannot perform to her expectation. It should not be that way, nor will it work that way. And that is bc that is the only place he is permitted to rule over her. Who is their right mind wants to rule over a woman when it is the greatest gift you can give by letting her make her own decisions. Your desire shall be to your husband and he shall rule over you. He spoke similar words to the murder Cain about satan. If he doesn't (rule) then she will feel superior to him (sexually) bc she last longer. This is not the way my Heavenly Father designed sex to work. The problem is, without the knowledge of the woman's sexuality, which has to be taught to individuals actually learning how to satisfy her. This is when experience is the best teacher. Let me enlighten you about her sexual frustrations. It is all bc of what she is missing in the experience. The knowledge tells you how to make her cum. The teacher of all is our libidos. It can only teach you as you progress with it. that progression is always an increase in time spent erect inside her. (this is by both ages) She has no other gauge that is acceptable as reasoning. Again, she feels helpless! Its in my buk! But bc I feel sorry for you guys this is her orgasm system and how it works in terms of her total sexual satisfaction. The different (rite qik) is how men and women are stacked. I am only concerned now about females. She had three levels and the first one is the hardest to understand and deal with and that this why it is hidden even and primarily from her. If women knew how to satisfy themselves, why would they need you? But the truth is they would tell you! Women are the prize guys! And you are letting satan take then away for you. It only was made to work one way. Why should it work any other way when perverted? (rhetorical) The first level is the most profound and stimulating. She has 5 erogenous points that must be connected in the order they are arranged. Each point represents the intensity of that point. Up to the 4th point (1-2-3) she has three steps to each. The 1st point is the clit. (we'll call her doris since she is the door keeper - you heard of the cartoon doris the explorer? Well this is doris the clitoris!) She must get off twice within a minute of penetration and this is where most will miss it before they get There. It is called the violation of the unwritten protocol for penetration. (the secret is 1-3-5-5-3-1) Its in da buk! Anyway, the first level is for the first hour that is supposed to "feels like a roller coaster". The second level represents the time and space for her to be in female superior position. If she is she will never complain about equality. It makes her feel like she is "walking on a cloud". This counters her anxiety in the world called free-floating-anxiety. This causes her to wreck her relationship by displaced aggression. (completely subconscious) The third level is actually for shared sexual positions, whereas 1st is mainly male superior (ruling over in missionary not the whole hour, duh scartty cats) and 2nd female superior positions. (again not entirely the whole time) But third is for lateral and G-spot. (the latter must be rotated into to work the way they should) if you do it right she will say "it feels like she is dying"! That is the pain of orgasms she is seeking and minus what everyone is trying to offer her which is just plain pleasure. She needs extraordinary pleasure with the pain of orgasms which take time. IT IS ALL ABOUT SPENDING MORE AND MORE TIME ERECT INSIDE YOUR WIFE BAREBACK! What's the problem! You finish oo soon when she is just getting ready to get started to cum.

[@JohnBeezy3]

Not to mention, she has more than likely lied and badmouthed you to her family and friends. They will tell straight up lies to become the victim. Even if they are caught cheating, they will somehow blame you for it. For example, she will lie and say you were abusive so that everyone will “understand” why she cheated. It’s sick.

[@NyomisWorld]

Thank you for sharing your story and willingness to be transparent and open! Continue to be blessed!

[@minniememvrde5515]

I just came across your video and just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. Everything you expressed hit home deeply but at the same time it was a blessing. Hope you are at a different place and getting stronger each day. May God bless you both in your individual lives.

[@Nimonjeua-Ndiangang]

I went through this in the relationship with the mother of my children. We weren't married but, I wanted to be more than anything. She broke the bond with countless emotional infractions against our trust which ultimately buried my self esteem.....and I stayed and prayed that the day would come where I had the strength to step and when I did, she's never been the same. I literally have had to be her lifeline for survival over the past 16 years and I have the children with me etc etc. Me and my woman of the past 16 years, pray for her and do our best to help her out eventhough she's angry at us alot for doing so. Her guilt of how she did me, makes her feel that we enjoy seeing her go through. It doesn't, it still hurts. Life just goes on ya know. Had it not been for God's mercy, I'd have never survived what I endured in that situation.

[@LidiaCPadro]

G~d is Great🙏

[@deesmoove5852]

Nothing but respect for you and yours brother

[@christiemosley2796]

@@deesmoove5852 Not many men would have done what you did. Men normally walk asap. Men do this to women regularly.. Glad you are ok.

[@LA.4.LIFE.76]

I have a son and while I disagree that this woman forcing you to provide for her while with another woman I’d never teach him to do this especially a woman he was not married to. It’s his choice but I do my best to teach him to avoid emotionally unstable women who prey on good men to be their life support. Take care of the child the woman is not your responsibility but you see these women are so selfish and evil they play the victim and manipulate you good men and you allow it. I commend your efforts but yeah she’d have to get cut off 16 years is to long but to each their own!

[@GoddessofLove77]

May your blessings be bountiful and God protect you and your family! Your a good soul,with a kind heart.

[@ParahSalin]

Many people love the idea of being married until they’re actually married. Fidelity and respect are rules numbers 1 & 2. Hope you find real love again like I did.

[@vidadrah3492]

Your calm demeanor as you narrate this is admirable. You just got a new subscriber. Best of luck to you.

[@tanorah3710]

Corey, first of all thank you for your vulnerability. I'm sending you Divine Love & Light should there be any part of you that remains unhealed. Situations like this can sometimes be a blow to our confidence and sense of security. But it seems you REMEMBER who You are. Never forget. Congratulations on all of your success & more to come!

[@luv6579]

I am a proud Mom of an amazing young black man. He IS going through the same thing (we all have been here before). Luckily he didn't marry the girl, however, that doesn't make it any easier. So, I am sending this video to my son too, because he needs to know it doesn't make a man or anyone weak, foolish, or a failure when someone hurts you after you have given all you can. Cheers 🥂 to strength, healing, growth, love, and everything else that challenges us to be better.

[@davidmarvy6788]

If ur son had a father and wasn't raised by a single mother, he would be desirable and women wouldn't use him and cheat on him. Single mothers r to blame for everything.

[@kellietaylor9913]

@@davidmarvy6788 how is it a woman's fault a man isn't there

[@thevegene]

@@kellietaylor9913 Exactly! Men always cry “single mothers are the reason for the state of our community “, NO! It’s fatherless homes and fatherless children that suffer. Mother’s are abandoned with the children and have to make do while the men get off the hook and can place the blame on women for THEIR failures and shortcomings.

[@luv6579]

Who said anything about being a single parent? 🤣🤣. The "troll" is hilarious, 🤣🤣. It's obvious someone may have Mommy issues, 🤔. Don't even waste the keystrokes ladies. All Luv

[@luv6579]

@Tiffany Thomas, it never seems to line up where both people in a relationship gives 100%. Please don't ever waste your time waiting to see if/when things will change or get better. We pretty much know early on that it's not gonna work out but we still..................wait for it............

[@marbledavis6034]

It seems like honest kings and queens don't always find each other at first......BUT God always has a MASTER PLAN!!!!!

[@velwright2211]

So true

[@karenmoore420]

So true,we do Sometimes think,that it's God plan and it's not.

[@bornwithclass2365]

Yes we very rarely find each other

[@cookiewoo9693]

Right

[@yasminotieno4645]

True

[@BigSosayNYC]

Salute you sharing the story and being able to grow from it!!! Keep doing your thing!

[@DaInfamous0ne]

I been thru this before. I learned to love myself more after my divorce. I refuse to get in a relationship now. I realized I won't be happy and prosper with a new woman.

[@woosahwitchelle]

Thank you for this !!!! I was married for 12 years.... I loved him.... lack of communication and his family was the cause of my pain..... fast forward I'm married again.... happily.... please don't give up.... 💜

[@joycedavis9996]

congratulations and excellent advice❤️

[@AshAlexander212]

She didn’t sound mature enough to be married. Glad that you were introspective enough to think through all of this and to forgive her. Proud of you for keeping the faith. The best is yet to come! 🦋

[@lkofie6670]

AGREED, INDEED

[@lisa196409]

When you forgive someone it's healing for you and the person that you're forgiving. Never allow your anger too conjure up and build up in your spirit because it could kill you it could turn into a cancer. You are beautiful and wonderfully made and I pray that you find someone that will appreciate the love that you have. You're perfect.

[@alphabetquo]

let's not chastised one or the other. Let's usher in forgiveness for them both. Were human.

[@LifeWithRoyalet]

They could’ve worked it out but this generation don’t know how to use all these great resources, they could’ve killed the old them and rebirth a new stronger union

[@lkofie6670]

@@LifeWithRoyalet Frankly, infidelity is at least a legitimate reason to divorce. I mean we're not talking about "Oh we just grew apart" b.s. as a reason to divorce or waking up one day having a huge argument and separating because her husband "keeps leaving his clothes on the floor..." Those are petty reasons to divorce. But for goodness sakes she cheated on her husband and then tried to justify her choice by saying "he was on his phone too much," and "he didn't pay attention to her"...childish. To be totally honest, I'm even surprised he wanted to salvage the marriage knowing in his gut she was already gone. Hell, he tried to work it out already when they went to counseling...he really could've just went straight for divorce court and no one would've blamed him.

[@Kssmr]

I’ve watched and read alot on breakups in the past two weeks, this by far has given me the most comfort thank you for sharing your story 💯

[@CoreyMJones3]

Anytime 💯

[@dakotahe.4166]

Thanks for being so brave and vulnerable in sharing this story. I’d never seen any of your videos before but this one came up on my feed. I went through a similar situation and can agree, worst most indescribable pain but God will turn it around for your good! Stay encouraged and keep sharing your light!

[@CoreyMJones3]

🙏🏾

[@taurusbunkley6107]

My brother, this is awesome that you shared, we as black men need to know that it’s ok to show emotions. We lose so much from not sharing what we are going through. Keep doing your thing. I will always share your content.

[@user-nr8vb8cz4x]

So true we need more men like him to step up

[@geelee5273]

Why you black man want it too be okay to show emotion I have never seen my mom or no adult woman in my family cry throughout my whole childhood but now these days all you black men want to do is cry be treated like woman say the white men is out to get yall cheat be gay have fame yall wanna do everything but be real men and fathers crying don't make you a men crying and emotions are for children

[@womenaftergodsheartsarah5677]

Wow this was soo powerful

[@jezebeltourmaline2068]

Can we remove the race card please? Like seriously? Are you trying to promote separatism?? It's okay for men PERIOD to show emotion. Whether your black, white, green, brown, yellow, or red.

[@Brother_frojd]

@@geelee5273 So we as men are not supposed to show emotions? God himself (or nature if you prefer) gave us humans the ability to show expression for what we feel due to 6 widely accepted basic emotions such as: Happiness, Fear, Anger, Surprise, Sadness. Myself am a 31 year old male that stands 185cm tall with a current weight of 93kg. I have been doing martial arts regularly for the past 10 years or so including a few competitions. Am also a commercial diver Who's away from home living and working on a boat 6 months a year doing all types of hazardous tasks. And although I'm "fairly" big and strong and working in a hostile environment (under water) in a profession that is overwhelmingly dominated by men. I still can cry in certain situations. Mentioned height/weight and work so tell that all type of men cry regardless of who they are and what they do. Soldiers cry and so does firefighters and police officers to. It is a natural biological feature us humans have and always will do 🤷 But then yeah there's also fully grown crybabies (men). And I agree that this group is a tad too much. They cry in all situations.. Scared = cry Happy = cry Hurt = cry Angry = cry Lonely = cry Nervous = cry Etc, etc

[@denisedavis6076]

I understand your pain! I was a stay at home mom for over 20 years, I had 7 kids. My hubby left me and I pleaded with him to work it out. I never felt pain like that before. Well it been 5 years now and two degrees later. My God has truly been with me. Thank you for sharing and when it is time you will find that special one.

[@reginamccullough6709]

Hello Corey, I thank you for sharing this story with everyone, I’m sure it was difficult. I applaud you for being consistent and trying, please know that if wasn’t your fault. It was hers she wasn’t ready, you are truly kind. God Bless!

[@moraheem8292]

As I watched your video I started tearing up remembering my situation and you have just given me the courage to one day explain my story. You 100% right it’s the worst feeling but I thank God I’m over it and life has gotten way better. I feel like it was better for my life and sometime God put you through the hardest time before the softest. Bless up brother 🙏🏾

[@CoreyMJones3]

Life gets better by 10x

[@Vonda618]

Strange how a person can see how they hurt you but continue to dig that knife in while twisting it. You've moved on, good for you! God Bless you. 🙏🏽

[@JackDenn]

Before my husband and I got married, I told him you’re gonna have to be with, love, and have sex with the same person for the rest of your life, you better think about that. No need to get married and waste time if you can’t commit.

[@krounsaville3359]

Amen

[@m.x.refrigxolani8365]

What about you? Did you make that same commitment to yourself? Because it's so easy for women to just mess things up for no reason these days. Stupid entitlement.

[@eb4478]

@@m.x.refrigxolani8365 Go get healed. It’s necessary

[@Shayshayboston1]

That's easier said then done..trust me

[@JackDenn]

@@Shayshayboston1 i guess for some people. I’m pretty cool with it. If I wasn’t, I wouldn’t have married him.

[@normdobbz210]

Wow! This showed up on my feel in 2023! Good to see a man bounce back after a devastating situation! Keep striving my friend

[@CoreyMJones3]

💪🏾💪🏾💯💯

[@numbernine3436]

I applaud you're honesty. Most of all I appreciate your ability to be vulnerable. So often we want to pretend we're ok, we're not hurt & that person didn't mean sh*t just to save face. Thank you for showing us it's ok to hurt. Time heals all things if we allow it. Best wishes in all you do. Thank you 💙

[@deb9784]

Dear Corey, one day you're going to find a woman who can love you like you deserve! Those of us who have been betrayed and abused, recognize the amazing man you are--a man you can build a life with! May the LORD continue to bless your journey!

[@samiloveeth7920]

Amen, Amen, Amen 🙏

[@ericthered1140]

Hopefully he can pay for it and leave afterwards.....

[@Mrdemaj1]

@@ericthered1140 I’m with you. If you can’t afford marriage DO NOT do it. Even if you can I still wouldn’t want to lose half of anything I have. After, I built my life over the years to get there. Bro frfr it’s too many stories of men being divorce raped to kingdom come.

[@HealThyLivingQueen]

The fact that you mentioned God says a lot! Always remember, God sees what we don’t. He sees the heart! He exposes people in situations for our good even when it hurts so bad. The Lord will never remove something or someone out of our lives if he didn’t have a even better plan. Just keep clinging to God and everything else will work out better than you expected. God bless!

[@GameChanger597]

God isn't always the one who's removing everything. Sometimes the enemy is at play. I don't think God had anything to do with her cheating or divorce or removing her from the picture. That was all the enemy, but I do believe his one last effort to try to make it work, God was there to give him understanding that the trust was broken and things weren't going to change. I'm glad he saw the truth in her and left. God will eventually bring the right person into the picture for him . Someone he can trust

[@HealThyLivingQueen]

@@GameChanger597 never said God was the reason for divorce. The word says let no man separate what He has joined. So knowing the word is very vital when discerning between the two. But God allowed it to happen so apparently if the Lord wanted a couple to still be together they would be. God Almighty always has the final say so… remember that. You’d be very surprised what the God Almighty allows if it’s in His delight! God bless!

[@DemApplez]

Well said!

[@valeriemccoy2329]

@@HealThyLivingQueen It's the people that rejects God word and then when everyone, die they say heaven gain another angle everyone want to abuse God words for their on benefits. God word mean what it say and it say if the person that did the abandonment or cheating can't remarry and if they do they're committing Aldutress

[@valeriemccoy2329]

@@HealThyLivingQueen It's the people that don't have a relationship with God they know the word but they reject it and think they're still going to make it in because God is so merciful some people go through so much they have heart attacks and other deadly stuff before they get a divorce. It say God chase the one's he love but do you think that stop! Them? No because they use that excuse God is a loving God he doesn't allow bad things to happen to his children but he sonJesus died for us. It is called rejected God

[@drew3693]

I went through this after a nine year marriage and kids. It traumatized me for sure. Takes time to heal and sometimes it still hurts. But I have primary custody of our son and I’m thriving in life. She is now somebody else’s problem (I don’t wish ill on her, I’m just glad not to be with a person like that) God bless this man for sharing. To anyone going through this now, stay strong and you will come out a better person.

[@Mind-H-Walk]

This was definitely a Great watch/listen, much respects on your bravery to share that story, God has a way of uprooting the bad weeds in our lives before he elevates us, God Bless Bro and Keep the Faith!

[@joyl3321]

The blessing here is you found out early on before children or more time invested. This is just God's way of creating opportunity for you to meet a woman more deserving !!

[@KristyJean]

Not so friend, thus saith the Lord: 18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. Luke 16:18 MARK 10:9 KJV "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."

[@Davissavedbygracethrufaith]

@@KristyJean amen

[@dedix6109]

@@KristyJean if his case falls under adultery and unfaithfulness, he can remarry.

[@jamez1224]

Under rated comment! I can't imagine the pain of having to see every now & then a person who cheated on you cause u have kids together. When a person cheats you wanna be done forever & move on man!

[@MrEvansjethro]

@@KristyJean Don't pick and choose, it's clear you don't know the word of God. Matthew 5:32 - But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

[@PeaceMastered]

It's always fascinating, to me, how Spirit warns you about something going on around you. The "tossing and turning" had me instantly like "🎶God is tryna tell you something🎶". It was an unfortunate event but a GREAT MAN came out of it. Good for you! 💛

[@angecynthia347]

My last relationship lost crazy amount of weight, was drinking non stop, anxieties were over the roof, was loosing hair..what was my body and mind not telling me seriously?

[@PeaceMastered]

@@angecynthia347 Drinking numbs the pain. You didn't want to FEEL. Heartbreak is a physical pain & it feels like a brand new feeling every time. Your body was telling you that you were neglecting it. You were so focused on the pain that you tried to suppress it in unhealthy ways. A healthier way is channeling that pain into passion. Let your heart feel the motions, so you can release it. Pain lasts about 15 minutes, Anything after that is self-inflicted. Your body was communicating with you from the beginning but when you started to drown out everything around you, attempting to help, it began to shut down to get you to put your focus Back on you! 💛

[@UGOOMERO]

You said it all! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@cassling2891]

@@PeaceMastered @Cha' Kyha #QueenEnergy i salute u .. that "heartbreak is physical pain and feels brand new each time " IS A BAR 💜💜 A Life Bar.. meaning words to love by 💯..very poignant & prolific ... Extraordinarily Remarkable 🥰cheers 🥂 2 you madam

[@PeaceMastered]

@@cassling2891 ☺️💛

[@godspresciousgift]

Corey I applaud your transparency and honest.I hate you experienced this. I'm glad you have grown from it and not allowed it to make you bitter.The level of forgiveness you have extended is commendable.God bless you and all of your endeavors.Thank you for sharing.

[@renx5609]

Hi Brother, this was so candid and Relatable. Thank you for sharing as it will help so many others process their feelings. Bless up and wishing you a healthy happy future.

[@CoreyMJones3]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@verb0ze]

This is real. Even when you're logically not to blame for the outcome, it's hard to shake that feeling of failure. Time heals that, but in the moment, it REALLY hurts!

[@cassonade8468]

Corey I just stumbled on this video. Am a grown man crying my eyes out. I can feel your pain brother, you're an amazing person. Some people aren't marriage material, and there comes a time when you have to move on. Much respect to you and one day that special someone will walk into your life and there'll be no guesswork. May God continue to bless you.

[@pamelabarnes9558]

Young man I have been married for 28 yrs Nov 1 everyone is not marriage material things have happened n the marriage but no infidelity has been involved Im a God fearing woman of God I chose to live a clean life n God the next 1 come into your life 🙏 1st God will not let you down he will let you know I pray you trust again and the Lord heal ur ❤ there is love true love waiting for you dont you wonder about it be blessed my Son Im 63 yrs old it has not been easy but u will succeed there is still hope!!!!

[@audoochanti7303]

God is with you.and will see you through.I am praying you're next choice will work.Don't give up on marriage it does work ❤🙏🏼

[@danacutter182]

Your a real man Corey, I am a KZbin "auntie"...lol that has been following you for a few years. I am thankful God pulled you through that dark time in your life. I have been married for 23 years and we could definitely write a book. It's good that you did all you could do and I'm sure that gave you peace with the outcome that you really didn't want. I watched you as you went from your apartment to purchasing your home. I'm proud of you! God causes all things to work together and he gets the glory out of it all. Thank you for sharing, Peace and Blessings !

[@CoreyMJones3]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@carljhardy79]

Mr. Jones I just came across this video and your platform and I must first say I appreciate you. I went through a similar situation and while it truly hurts my hurt to know others have been through those situations but you inspiration and uplifting message at the end and also the testimony from God is awesome. I appreciate you my brother, keep striving and I will be supporting you and your platform.

[@nedabee04]

My husband and I went through infidelity in 2015 and as you implied it is a pain that it extremely hard to get over. We are extremely fortunate, we both chose our marriage. Trust was broken but we decided to get rid of anything or anyone that wasn't serving our union. Fast forward 6 years later we are celebrating our 17th wedding anniversary this weekend and love each other more as the years goes by. Marriage is hard and God knew it that's why the verbiage in the vows are written that way. Love conquers all.❤

[@MrLovegospel]

Love conquers all my...my ass

[@leratomabitsela7825]

@far from I suspect is the husband 🤔🤔

[@asweetness424]

Hi Really need to know how on earth can you get over infidelity?

[@lindanelson-bey8992]

U don't

[@feliciawalker1004]

Amen ❤️

[@psychokiri3081]

As a therapist and a person who is single after an 11years old relationship. I love your approach when talking about the past whilst remaining respectful.

[@ddmound]

what kind of therapists are you? I hope not a Sexual Therapists. That means you are Ph.D. Psychologist. Are you? I hope not relationship Therapist. (NDI)

[@tentrickspony8925]

But whenever the roles are reverse, its always less likely that the same courtesy is given

[@tentrickspony8925]

@@ddmound what are you getting at.. Does it matter what kind of a therapist he is? His marriage in nooo way takes away from him professionally

[@kanallyd]

This story came to me while I'm in the story what I feel is unexplainable. After seeing this I have some more hope things will turnout great for me as well.Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

[@CoreyMJones3]

🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@cariocajin]

You are a very strong man. I'm going through some tough times myself. I listened to your story. Maybe there's hope for me as well... Thank you!

[@angelsmith1598]

She made that decision on her own. This is coming from a married woman who hangs out with single mother's and women in relationships. That influence had nothing to do with her decesion. My friends are just that and they do their thing and it's understood that we may not agree with lifestyles but nothing is copied or influenced. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@hereforit2347]

It’s crazy that we can spend years with a person and not truly know them, or that things can be going on right under our noses and we are oblivious. Hone your instincts. Pay attention to your gut. Be observant of small cues and body language. And never dismiss your own thoughts, emotions, or suspicions. Love smart. 🧠 ♥️

[@jslack8973]

Yep the spirit talks to us

[@daisyyall6781]

Amen to this!!! Happened to me put off addressing the signs to long but glad I didn’t ignore it

[@joshuad8466]

Brother salute! Takes a real man to come up on a platform like this and expose his life. You have helped a lot of people. It can only go up from here.

[@timgolden1900]

God bless you, brother. Thank you for this testimony. Sharing your experience has strengthened me. Praying for your continued healing and strength. I've been through divorce too. It gets better. Stay strong and keep inspiring! ❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤

[@CoreyMJones3]

Thanks man!

[@deewarr278]

Corey, you are not a failure, she is. Sorry she didn’t value you. Praying for your healing ❤️‍🩹. God will give you a true love ❤️.

[@brooklynalldaybrooklynalln4254]

God isn't out here building relationships smh. Relationships fail, he will be fine

[@christinme6695]

The Lord Jesus can choose the right one. If we trust in him and allow him to choose. Thank you for being honest and speaking in a positive light about the entire situation. Thank you! Jesus Christ Loves you/everyone and wants an intimate relationship with us. He died on the cross and was risen on the 3rd day so that we could be set free for our sins. Turn to him and trust and in him. He will lead our foot steps down the path that he chosen for each and every one of us. He is the Way, the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the father except through him. Bible verse, John 3:16, John 14:6, and Jeremiah 29:11! He has great plans for us all. I'm a living testimony of that.

[@eleanorblake7224]

I wish i would of met u

[@Jeremiah.k]

@UCOISRtcxL-eWf6Ur0Do0OhQ Yh trust me I’ve started to think that relationships are an arbitrary part of life and God leaves it up to us to free-willingly choose your husband or wife. So we all gotta be sensible and use wisdom to pick a suitable partner or else Gods gonna let you fall for that heartless bad bitch and your gonna cry when she cheat. Romantic Relationships are unfortunately the most shallow type of relationship as they involve so many shallow conditions (like physical looks or wealth) that keep it together. However I do believe that God can guide you to a suitable partner for you but it’s still up to you to decide.

[@lifeisimportantkate]

Amen

[@moseschavez4378]

The one betrayal he immediately was able to talk about was her "bringing him a plate" and I felt that

[@cassling2891]

On God ...maaaaaan ! 😂💜💯¹⁰

[@MississippiGirl0103]

Hadn’t gotten to far into the video and see your comment, but to that all I saw as a young girl was my Grama, Aunts and Mom fix their husbands plates and take it to them not all of them but some and it made me feel good to see it. I saw a family growing up my Father and Mother were married over 20yrs until their divorce once I was grown. And I took my Father his plate more than my mother did and he was an outstanding Husband and Father. My mother never paid any bills he did it all but she had her own business so she basically spoiled the last three of us me and my oldest sister worked, when I got married (divorced now) I always fixed my Husband plate actually in every relationship I have to me it’s just a gesture I love personally and to me it speaks respect, honor and who you are as person.

[@niece585]

@@MississippiGirl0103 I watched that growing up too loved to see my grandparents ans while he was alive i still took him his plate

[@smittywyfe9848]

The way you handle your pain thru this process. I know God has truly guided you. I dont know how I even got to this video but this was the video that hade subscribing to your channel it was very heart felt.

[@mluck7901]

This is my first time on this channel, you told your story with such humbleness and class, I had to subscribe. You seem like such a sweet person. May God continue to bless you.