PUTTING WIGS ON KIDS IS PROBLEMATIC 🫣

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Thee Mademoiselle

Thee Mademoiselle

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@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
This is absolutely bonkers. Anyone who sees this as OK is part of the problem and I said what I said. 😩 let the kids be KIDS 🫠 SHOP HERNEST NOW! www.hernest.com the Hernest makeup vanities link: www.lkt.ink/s/ewjC Use code "MSL15" for 15% off EVERYTHING
@Mani_Talks247
@Mani_Talks247 5 ай бұрын
Facts that's like how I got jumped on for correcting people who were coming at jazziekid for her daughter's hair being frizzy. Kids will be kids, they don't care about aesthetics adults do.
@iposttoxicshorts
@iposttoxicshorts 5 ай бұрын
4 YEARS LOCS??????? Girl how!? I swear ive seen you wearing fros and fro ponytails and doing ur 4c hair on camera!!
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
@@iposttoxicshortsgotta check them video dates lmao 😂 but yup been loc’d since July 2020
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
@@Mani_Talks247people need to teach their kids to be KIND 😐
@sexygirl7223
@sexygirl7223 5 ай бұрын
Right I that in my comment let kids be kids
@softbutterfly_xoxo
@softbutterfly_xoxo 5 ай бұрын
Then they wonder why black women grow up hating their natural hair 🤦🏾‍♀️. This shouldn't even be a thing!
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@TheeDeadDoll
@TheeDeadDoll 5 ай бұрын
Right, we had relaxers that made us hate our hair. They’re getting lace fronts to hate theirs. The cycle continues. 🥲
@softbutterfly_xoxo
@softbutterfly_xoxo 5 ай бұрын
@@TheeDeadDoll fr!!
@smawrtygowty5269
@smawrtygowty5269 3 ай бұрын
@@TheeDeadDollmy momma did this to me at 4 years old.
@browniewilliams3393
@browniewilliams3393 5 ай бұрын
The only kids that should be wearing some wigs are the children who lost their hair due to illnesses, cancer etc. this is ridiculous. Let these children be children.
@SaweetDee22
@SaweetDee22 5 ай бұрын
This!
@Darkstalker1012
@Darkstalker1012 5 ай бұрын
Fr
@shakeykirkir
@shakeykirkir 5 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@fujimotochiaki2487
@fujimotochiaki2487 5 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with this!💯
@mahoganysreign6360
@mahoganysreign6360 5 ай бұрын
I agree
@ochukoasiafor5834
@ochukoasiafor5834 5 ай бұрын
I genuinely hate that kids are wearing wigs. 🤦🏾‍♀️ Natural hairstyles are out there for them like braids with beads, etc.
@dani.1170
@dani.1170 5 ай бұрын
right?! And it's just as cute, probably cost just as much as it does to get a wig too.
@larrenlistens
@larrenlistens 4 ай бұрын
I’m 42 and I still miss that click-clack sound.
@danillibaylis6156
@danillibaylis6156 3 ай бұрын
👍🏼 🙌🏾 🙏🏽...
@jennbati6277
@jennbati6277 3 ай бұрын
@@larrenlistensevery girl loves it 💖😅
@BlackRedBlueBerry
@BlackRedBlueBerry 2 ай бұрын
​@@larrenlistens its never too late to wear something again!
@sharissharee-pm2kq
@sharissharee-pm2kq 5 ай бұрын
I don't see white, Indians, Asians putting wigs, front on their kids hair. They make their hair pretty with their own hair
@notgoodatonlinenames9943
@notgoodatonlinenames9943 5 ай бұрын
Talk about it, but if you call this out then they'll start to complain about how this should be okay and how it's none of your business 🙄
@Jenali1978
@Jenali1978 5 ай бұрын
They have a good enough hair type that doesn’t require having anything else in it.
@TheHomegirlHealer
@TheHomegirlHealer 5 ай бұрын
@@Jenali1978you are part of the problem 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
@ariannapommells
@ariannapommells 5 ай бұрын
@@Jenali1978all hair types are good enough
@NoNameNomad....
@NoNameNomad.... 5 ай бұрын
​@@Jenali1978all hair is "good enough " we just have to learn how to look after it and there's so many tutorials on KZbin now that anyone can do it. KZbin taught me to look after & style my curls
@harrisindustries314
@harrisindustries314 5 ай бұрын
Too busy playing dress up with their kids instead of properly raising so they're prepared for adulthood. The parenting these days is abysmal.
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
It’s really sad fr
@kathleenking47
@kathleenking47 5 ай бұрын
Bunch of single moms. If Dad was around, hed stop this
@aarchivedd
@aarchivedd 5 ай бұрын
@@kathleenking47you don’t know. dads don’t save everything especially if they’re no good either lol
@adams8830
@adams8830 5 ай бұрын
Kids play outside in the heat, sun, and dirt. Why would they be wearing a wig to do that? Their real hair or some braids is appropriate.
@InfamousTing-tu5wq
@InfamousTing-tu5wq 5 ай бұрын
That and dressing their kids grown too
@JayKennedy101
@JayKennedy101 5 ай бұрын
‼️‼️‼️
@cniknik9863
@cniknik9863 5 ай бұрын
Literally my first thought. I also was reminded of that viral video of the little girl who cut all her braids off after she just got them done because they were too heavy.
@aarchivedd
@aarchivedd 5 ай бұрын
they barely do that anymore they just be inside on their ipads and phones
@Denver-LaLa
@Denver-LaLa 3 ай бұрын
Kids nowadays don't play outside like we did in the 80s and 90s.
@Hawtestyf
@Hawtestyf 5 ай бұрын
Some peoples scalps haven’t even felt the sun in months 😭& thts sad
@kweenmckenziii9194
@kweenmckenziii9194 5 ай бұрын
I’m people but it has seen water and moisturizer and quite frequently 🤣🤣🤣
@bellaroserela
@bellaroserela 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣 outta pocket but true😅
@michinsaeggi-dakcho
@michinsaeggi-dakcho 5 ай бұрын
in years. just style after style after style.
@aprilchanel8029
@aprilchanel8029 5 ай бұрын
Simple, wear your own hair and nails around your kids. Let them see you appreciate your own natural beauty.
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
I really feel like that has a lot to do with it fr. My mom never wore anything around me except the occasional sew in and ofcourse relaxer and in turn I barely cared for anything except those things but ultimately only did what she did 🥲😂. She never wanted me to but she couldn’t ever talk me down from it because she did it herself.
@aprilchanel8029
@aprilchanel8029 5 ай бұрын
We as black people need to be more unapologetic about conforming to what is socially acceptable for us. At the end of the day we lose ourselves and love of our selves when we continually cover our natural state. These women’s judgement has failed when putting wigs on their children because they adapted to what normal.
@leeyahdior
@leeyahdior 5 ай бұрын
Right. We can Tory work corporate w our natural hair and taken seriously w it
@ziesha.marie11
@ziesha.marie11 Ай бұрын
That’s what my mama did
@Crystalbella1999
@Crystalbella1999 5 ай бұрын
Kids should to be taught to love the hair that grows out of their scalp, not feel ashamed by covering it with a wig.
@kathleenking47
@kathleenking47 5 ай бұрын
Or a weave
@keairekemp9013
@keairekemp9013 5 ай бұрын
Then they be wondering why they kids hair ain’t growing or why their child have self esteem issues. These folks be projecting their insecurities onto these kids
@rhondadenis3469
@rhondadenis3469 5 ай бұрын
My daughter grew up with her natural hair. She told me that when she was in elementary school teachers would ask her if her hair is real. Black people in our own community believe that our hair doesn’t grow. It’s mind boggling.
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
So sad fr smh
@ladygrimm6661
@ladygrimm6661 7 күн бұрын
Man I remember when I used to get made fun of for how my hair was because I didn't know how to wash my hair by myself back then yet I was one of the few girls in my class who wore their natural hair while these girls ages 11-13 were wearing lace fronts and sew ins and what not
@shakeykirkir
@shakeykirkir 5 ай бұрын
This is disturbing. There’s a lot of things children shouldn’t do that has been normalized these last couple years. Let kids be kids instead of your friends or meal tickets. And I meant that last part especially. Edit: Also, there are creeps online that will use children’s faces or photos and do unthinkable things with them. Dark web stuff. I wish these parents would really think about that when posting their children in revealing clothes, wigs, nails, makeup, etc. Everyone doesn’t think your child is “cute”. Protect them.
@Random_Tecro
@Random_Tecro 5 ай бұрын
I don’t mind kids wearing wigs but don’t post it online. period.
@MelanatednNature
@MelanatednNature 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@dani.1170
@dani.1170 5 ай бұрын
no, not even a friend would do this to you if you were a CHILD. Friends make sure you're good, they don't purposely hurt you or use you. This is called bad parenting not being a friend.
@InvisibleRen
@InvisibleRen 5 ай бұрын
Saddest thing is that it’s not even just the dark web anymore. And none of these platforms care, reported comments will just sit for weeks and months if not eternity.
@shakeykirkir
@shakeykirkir 5 ай бұрын
@@dani.1170As in they view their children as their friends instead of their child.
@Ms_Introvert_4_Life
@Ms_Introvert_4_Life 5 ай бұрын
I wish lace fronts would go back to the theatre and movies and STAY!!!
@MelanatednNature
@MelanatednNature 5 ай бұрын
Same 😂
@keyahninaylor4974
@keyahninaylor4974 5 ай бұрын
Same
@alleahsasseville
@alleahsasseville 5 ай бұрын
Wigs,eyelashes,nails....😒 just have FUN being a kid!!
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Uhm…they wearing lashes? I’m gonna cry if I have to go down that rabbit hole.
@dani.1170
@dani.1170 5 ай бұрын
THE LASHES GET ME EVERY TIME.
@aushaheart8258
@aushaheart8258 5 ай бұрын
​@@TheeMademoiselleYes they are. My 13byear old daughter said the girls in 6th grade are wearing lashes, acrylic nails and wigs!
@joll_d1303
@joll_d1303 5 ай бұрын
@@aushaheart8258girl I was wearing 3 braids in my hair looking like a dragon💀 when I was in the 6th grade.. I feel bad for these kids today.
@zynedibee
@zynedibee 5 ай бұрын
A wig on a child is WILD!! To the moms that don’t feel like doing their kids hair give them locs! My daughter is extremely tender headed and going on her second year loc’d. Her hair is always done, it’s long, she’s happy, I’m happy and she’s 7
@Trynnitty
@Trynnitty 5 ай бұрын
6:10 She is literally crying. This is not okay. She’s not even old enough to hold her head still 🙄
@Ashecaty
@Ashecaty 5 ай бұрын
God this trend is getting wild, we got mothers laying down a quick weave on babies. What next, setting them up with acrylics??
@michinsaeggi-dakcho
@michinsaeggi-dakcho 5 ай бұрын
that and lashes. lashes might come first since they clearly can’t stand their own actual features.
@crysamor6596
@crysamor6596 5 ай бұрын
I’ve seen videos of these happening too. It’s crazy
@cniknik9863
@cniknik9863 5 ай бұрын
I went to a beyonce concert back in 2018 I think and saw a little girl with long bright blue acrylics on. She couldn't have been more than 10yr. It was shocking.
@DivineAscensionswithEmma
@DivineAscensionswithEmma 5 ай бұрын
When my daughter was growing up, I had her hair in ponytails or braided. This is terrible what they are doing to their children. You can tell they are not comfortable.
@kathleenking47
@kathleenking47 5 ай бұрын
Snoop dog, started MEN doing this ..with barrettes Back in early 90s
@fantasytraveler
@fantasytraveler 5 ай бұрын
It giving generation trauma from beauty standards. Look if it your hair you have every right to style it how you please, but give your kids edges a chance! Dont let what wigs/ overstyling do what perms done to us.
@queenleo5578
@queenleo5578 5 ай бұрын
I agree kids don’t need wigs unless they have alopecia, lost their hair to chemo, etc.
@leileyaravencroft
@leileyaravencroft 3 ай бұрын
I think being in theater is okay for them to wear wigs but it depends on the character
@queenleo5578
@queenleo5578 3 ай бұрын
@@leileyaravencroft I agree. Stage makeup/wigs are okay also. It protects their hair especially if they do it often
@Dannniellleee
@Dannniellleee 5 ай бұрын
I am a FIRM BELIEVER in *letting kids be kids and enjoy their one chance at childhood.* They have the rest of their lives to battle peer pressure and others’ expectations.
@ariz347
@ariz347 5 ай бұрын
The crazy part is, the kid’s head is still growing and they won’t be able to wear that wig ever again once they grow out of it. Unlike when you’re an adult with a fully developed cranium and you could wear that wig for forever as long as you took good care of it. It’s a huge waste of money in the long run 💀
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
It is smh. People do not think.
@samanthagraham5387
@samanthagraham5387 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! I was wondering if I was crazy for being like " my mom wouldn't even buy me more than 3 pairs of shoes because I'd outgrow them so fast- why spend so much money on a nice wig when the kid is still growing"
@ella4175
@ella4175 5 ай бұрын
I feel like the time where we had “unflattering pictures” of us during our childhood is gone. Like we use to have pictures where we had tans, pimples, crazy hair after a long school day or from playing on the playground all day. But now it’s just kids wanting to look like adults and being “perfect” all the time with a ton of makeup. Idk it’s kinda scary
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
It is. They don’t have an ugly phase 😂😂😂
@mahoganysreign6360
@mahoganysreign6360 5 ай бұрын
Makeup , wigs and crop tops or something on children are problematic has nothing do with sexualizing children it’s due to acting ur age
@AnnastaciaGreen-Malcolm
@AnnastaciaGreen-Malcolm 5 ай бұрын
Not only wigs but some of the outfits .. my lord 😢
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
The outfits are outrageous.
@MartiJo
@MartiJo 5 ай бұрын
my baby girl definitely will be going through the “bubbles and barrett” faze 😹
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Okkkkkay same.
@naestudios0826
@naestudios0826 5 ай бұрын
Same smh 😭
@cniknik9863
@cniknik9863 5 ай бұрын
Same ❤ it's cute and simple.
@Princess_Diariess
@Princess_Diariess 5 ай бұрын
I think the main question here is why are parents doing this? Because of generational self hatred. I don’t necessarily think the main issue about kids wearing wigs is that they are “too grown” but mainly because it is anti black. Putting a wig on a child teaches them that their own hair is not enough. Wearing a wig subconsciously teaches a black child self hatred, a self hatred that will follow them as they grow and as they grow they will find more ways to hide their hair and feel shame of the hair that grows out of their head.
@Random_Tecro
@Random_Tecro 5 ай бұрын
I don’t think it teaches self hatred, it’s like makeup, just because you wear it doesn’t mean you hate your face.
@liahlove8297
@liahlove8297 5 ай бұрын
You nailed it. My thoughts exactly!
@dontrelate465
@dontrelate465 5 ай бұрын
@@Random_Tecroso you would be okay with your non teenage child wearing makeup and wigs on a daily basis to school?
@Random_Tecro
@Random_Tecro 5 ай бұрын
@@dontrelate465 why not? I honestly don’t think creeps care if your child has makeup or not.
@dontrelate465
@dontrelate465 5 ай бұрын
@@Random_Tecrothis wasn’t about pedophiles but okay.
@Kaylajoy_420
@Kaylajoy_420 5 ай бұрын
My thing is…i be seeing these videos of wig glue that is suuuuuper resistant….who tf would want that on their edges 😭😭😭… also, i feel like a lot of these moms are living vicariously through their daughters and trying to monetize off it.
@wildsiempre3716
@wildsiempre3716 5 ай бұрын
Especially the light skin mixed girl from Nola ! Her mama black black! It’s giving I finally got a mixed child !!!! Let me make Mula off this child
@arnellaj.9146
@arnellaj.9146 5 ай бұрын
It’s sad and I don’t even have kids
@michinsaeggi-dakcho
@michinsaeggi-dakcho 5 ай бұрын
clock it! because I’m tired of them labeling everything as a protective style, meanwhile their hair is constantly breaking off bc of these styles. a protective style also includes simple two strand twists and locks, but yet you never see them in their natural hair ever. if you say it’s a constant perpetuation then they get mad, the sooner they stop running from themselves then maybe we can actually get the nonblacks to stop their foolishness when it comes to black women.
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
That parrrrrrrt, shit is purrrrre foolishness.
@Honeyyhazellemon
@Honeyyhazellemon 5 ай бұрын
100% Black ppl are the number one consumers possible because a lot of ppl are masking
@tianascrown
@tianascrown 5 ай бұрын
I'm learning to do hair as a 14-year-old (in a week), and it's honestly sickening when I see parents put wigs on their kids just because they're lazy. When kids in middle school go to high school and learn how to, it's acceptable because most of them are mature enough, but for kids, having it forced on them is unacceptable. They can damage their head based on age because the glue could cause reactions or permanent scars on their skin. The kids must build confidence in their hair to wear it out in public, not hide it with a wig. Edit: The glue can cause scarring because if the parents don't put protectant on the skin or don't prep right, it will damage them. But wigs shouldn't be on kids anyway.
@dani.1170
@dani.1170 5 ай бұрын
hello fellow intelligent teen
@mekastayfabsteele5989
@mekastayfabsteele5989 5 ай бұрын
Teaching young children not to love their hair at a young age, this is sad 😢
@BxByDoll927
@BxByDoll927 5 ай бұрын
I’ve worn wigs as a kid and turned out fine …I wore them only on Halloween 😂😂😂 (lemme stop playing so much)
@alexisestrada6755
@alexisestrada6755 5 ай бұрын
😂
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
I hate you 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@BxByDoll927
@BxByDoll927 5 ай бұрын
@@TheeMademoiselle lolll🤣🤣🤣
@ashleymarie2925
@ashleymarie2925 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@faithandlove4899
@faithandlove4899 4 ай бұрын
😂😂
@onikaheadley5649
@onikaheadley5649 5 ай бұрын
Also the scalp needs to breathe . Image the itchy feeling and irritation the kids will be going through when they can't access their own scalp.😢
@welcome2lalaworld979
@welcome2lalaworld979 5 ай бұрын
13 years old is still to young for mines
@tumweonlycommentary2797
@tumweonlycommentary2797 5 ай бұрын
Remember Toddlers and Tiaras?..my older brother called it prostitots...also that movie where little girls wanted to grow up due to peer pressure as well as our modern society forcing sexualization of children, lets not forget the era of Britney Spears, The Jackson 5 etc ..listening to adults lyrics performed by young children, ..These are reasons why Parents should not have children..Children are not show ponies or dolls ...their human beings that need to be guided and nurtured into being healthy, respectful and accountable adults at an appropriate age..not at an age when they barely can comprehend what is good for them without peer pressure from their Parent's and internet friends 😂
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
That part
@Altajp
@Altajp 5 ай бұрын
The internet and social media have people losing their values. Everything for the cloud and that check...sigh
@Yemojaspeakspodcast
@Yemojaspeakspodcast 5 ай бұрын
That’s crazy that they put a wig on them babies. I didn’t get my first quick weave until high school. That is when I started experimenting with weaves. College is when I became natural so it was a short journey for me. My daughters have locs like myself but my older daughter wants her big Afro so I’m taking them out to allow her to learn and love her hair. She goes to school with a mixed group of kids so I think seeing them with their hair out from straight to curly to twist she wants different styles too. Currently going to show her how to take her time and take care of it. By her age I knew how to take out my braids and style my hair quickly but I didn’t give her that expense yet so it’s time. Please take care of your daughters hair and teach them that it’s beautiful. When you see other young black girls give them compliments.
@_dede_lol1438
@_dede_lol1438 5 ай бұрын
They need to Let them kids learn they own hair smh 🤦🏽‍♀️. This is why a lot of black little girls are traumatized with their hair because they don’t know their hair. and these girls be wondering why they babies be baldheaded 😂
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Nah fr. They don’t get that that this alll starts at a young age.
@_dede_lol1438
@_dede_lol1438 5 ай бұрын
@@TheeMademoiselle at one point I didn’t think our hair could grew pass shoulder length. Got internet access and seen all kinds of beautiful black men and women with glorious hair. Loc, Afros etc hair down to their butts, All I could say is I want that.🤩
@Hawtestyf
@Hawtestyf 5 ай бұрын
That vanity is everything !😍😍😍😍😍
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Thank youuu
@ebonih7138
@ebonih7138 5 ай бұрын
Praying social media requires age verification by the time I have kids asking me to join 😂
@destinydevour
@destinydevour 5 ай бұрын
U look gorgeous ❤ my daughter ain't touching a weave until 15, 16 lol
@carmenwilliams8751
@carmenwilliams8751 5 ай бұрын
I did not even think about the skull part....wow, great point Thee Mademoiselle.
@tormentanoire4914
@tormentanoire4914 5 ай бұрын
Foolishness and Phuckery😡….some are just a lost cause.
@IsaacDaniels777
@IsaacDaniels777 5 ай бұрын
My nieces hair wasn't growing well and my sister chopped it off and grew it back with products that she made specifically for my niece. Im happy my sister is breaking some of these generational curses
@JamilaColeman
@JamilaColeman 5 ай бұрын
Moon girl and devil dinosaur did a wonderful episode about black hair. If y’all got kids (or a little black kid inside of you that still needs healing from the childhood hair trauma) y’all should check out this episode!
@lunav9827
@lunav9827 5 ай бұрын
Great video as all always! 🎉 truthfully these children’s clothes are looking grown now too. Smh Imagine walking into an elementary class with all these lil girls in wigs ! 😢 I hope this trend stops .
@clenasmavanklompenberg6524
@clenasmavanklompenberg6524 4 ай бұрын
That's why kids act grown because they are allowed to have adult things
@ashleysartattack5600
@ashleysartattack5600 5 ай бұрын
I havent tuned in in a while and I was like, ooh! Look and long and beautiful your locks have gotten! I remember when you first talked about getting them and how you saw the vision for where they would be one day. 👏
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Welcome back! Yesssss you remember lmao. 😩🥰 I forgot i talked bout that fr.
@karamelmocha4535
@karamelmocha4535 5 ай бұрын
This is crazy. I have a five year old. I keep her hair in braided designs and her hair is down her back. When she was a baby she used to pull her hair out when she would get upset so she had patches of hair missing that grew out with some love, oil, and moisturizer. I can’t imagine putting a wig on her head while her hair was growing out.
@Xgold1
@Xgold1 5 ай бұрын
4:00 I absolutely love your Vanity especially that light changing switching. Uh OMG I so want to buy one as soon as I get my bedroom rearranged.
@M_G12love
@M_G12love 5 ай бұрын
My daughter has type 3b hair but when she was younger she wanted hair that looked like mommy which is type 4c so I got her a lil Afro wig that she wear just in the house it made her happy other then that I don’t play about putting other stuff in her head 😅
@alexbella99
@alexbella99 5 ай бұрын
The vanity is mad pretty ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@indiaburke21
@indiaburke21 5 ай бұрын
GIRL YOU LOOK SO PRETTY!!!
@ieshallure
@ieshallure 5 ай бұрын
Your locs ar gorgeous
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@JamilaColeman
@JamilaColeman 5 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! It’s not just hair! There’s a reason hair is associated with glory. That black community needs to relearn to love our hair again. Take care of the natural if you gonna do braids or wigs and teach our babies and kids the value of their beautiful natural hair even when giving them braids. Not cover it with wigs like it needs to hide! Also taking care of their natural hair is great bonding time and away from the iPad except for some sit and watch while I put oil in your scalp. Lol I know that struggle is real too 😂❤
@Kariberri208
@Kariberri208 5 ай бұрын
Oooh girl your locs are looking luscious ❤
@vonnaville7560
@vonnaville7560 5 ай бұрын
It’s the hair for me everytime 😍. I mean the Locs is flourishing hunny.
@LoveLife-up2vn
@LoveLife-up2vn 5 ай бұрын
Wow!!! i didn’t know people was putting lace front on the babies now smh.. My daughter is a teenager and don’t wear wigs.. I’m 😳
@latashadjefferson5465
@latashadjefferson5465 5 ай бұрын
7:12 No..... It is not perverted to want to protect your kids, our kids from a whole world/community of disgusting creeps that do look at our children in that way. Any grown person and or parent knows that. So why would people willingly put their kids in such outfits, costumes whatever. 😮😮😢😢
@bamsrevenge
@bamsrevenge 5 ай бұрын
Chile the first time I bought a wig I had to get a job and buy it myself 😭 my momma was not playing w me
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Ooooop lmao
@michelleb3048
@michelleb3048 3 ай бұрын
It's teaching self hatred!! I am grown and black and my childhood mantra from my parent's was, " you are beautiful the way you are!" I wasn't even allowed to wear make-up until I was 16, by then, I didn't need it nor want to! Different times😢
@ifitdontapplydontyoucry
@ifitdontapplydontyoucry 3 ай бұрын
What an important video 😊 its up to truth tellers to help protect the next generation from foolishness. God Bless.
@AnonymousLioness_97
@AnonymousLioness_97 5 ай бұрын
I LOOOOOVE HOW YOU ARE SPEAKING 🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯💯💯 YOU BETTER SAY THAT! 💯
@mazh3478
@mazh3478 4 ай бұрын
This was a very needed video and it is absolutely ridiculous that there will be sisters who will sit here and justify this kind of behavior. Yet we wonder why😒
@EmpressInner-G936
@EmpressInner-G936 5 ай бұрын
5:05 you’re reminding me why eye got this bonnet on 24/7 😮‍💨🤣
@squishymellowowo
@squishymellowowo 5 ай бұрын
If my child ever asked me if she ever wants a lace front. I will literally tell her wait until you're sweet. 16, that's when you can finally wear a lace front get Your hair nails done. Pick anything she wants at that point❤
@dani.1170
@dani.1170 5 ай бұрын
FR
@BleuJoy27
@BleuJoy27 5 ай бұрын
I come because you say what I want to say😂
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@MelanatednNature
@MelanatednNature 5 ай бұрын
Same 😂😂😂
@ashleybankscoaching
@ashleybankscoaching 5 ай бұрын
The only thing I don't like about it is that it makes kids not like their natural hair. I think they should be taught to work with what God gave them. Other than that I don't see anything ethically wrong with it. I think it's a lil weird and expensive for no reason. Lol
@Rozetastoned908
@Rozetastoned908 5 ай бұрын
the thing that pisses me off is the puffy wigs and the braided ones YOU CAN DO THAT WITH OUT A LACE FRONT OMG . DAMAGING THEY hair like COMMON SENSE GOD DANG
@cookiekun7595
@cookiekun7595 5 ай бұрын
This topic always remind me of the pain i went through as a child when i got my hair permed and relaxed. It was traumatizing because it was a lot of pain a lot of heat and a lot of spankings for feeling pain. Until i broke free from that norm at around 16 and ive been happier since. Its actually motivated me to do my own hair and I learned that i pick up the process faster than i originally thought. Just let your kids learn to love their hair as is. It took me a while to do so myself. But the journey was worth it.
@girsmom
@girsmom 3 ай бұрын
Omg I need that vanity!!!
@cantsay2205
@cantsay2205 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad my mom not only let, but made me be a kid when I was a kid. I wanted to grow up fast, I wanted so many things, and she was just like "no :)" and that was that.
@mytruthmylife8725
@mytruthmylife8725 5 ай бұрын
I need that vanity! 😭 I feel you my ADHD sister! 👊🏾 💜
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Fr fr. I literally need to make my house ADHD friendly. I never noticed how much of a difference little things make.
@havingteawiththedevil
@havingteawiththedevil 5 ай бұрын
Let me just say this: These hair glues and Gluesprays CAN & WILL take off your edges over time with constant use. I feel like now a days too many parents would rather pay dress up and be friends with their kids instead of letting them be children & actually being a parent. The only way i would even let my child get a wig (like the little girl in 0:28) is if it's a special occasion like a graduation, and they would need to be 13+. But a baby? Absolutely not. They don't even have enough hair to scoop into a ponytail!!
@LadyJ95
@LadyJ95 5 ай бұрын
I’m glad I haven’t seen this on my TL, but the only time I wore a wig as a child was when I was going through my grandma stuff in her bathroom
@khokhopuffs
@khokhopuffs 5 ай бұрын
I know dam well, my scalp continuously itches when I have on a weave or wig. Beating my head, tearing my nails from scratching, using combs to dig into my scalp. Just imagine the irritation the child is going through. 😢
@PrincessAnimakerGirl
@PrincessAnimakerGirl 5 ай бұрын
I know this video was made 4 days ago. But I want to say my honest opinion, I honestly think that kids need to be kids. Meaning kids need to wear clothes, or accessories that right for there age and not have to wear wings or any clothes that are to grown up for them. Also the wearing the wig part, if kids have cancer or any condition on their hair, then they can wear the wig. But for parents thinking that it is okay for kids to wear wigs and not teaching them what the value of hair care is, it is a problem. I feel like parents need to teach kids that natural hair is a blessing and that is really important because if you don't teach the value of hair care for your natural hair, then they would get confused and then they will think that their natural hair is not beautiful. That is all I wanted to say. Thank you so much Thee Mademoiselle for making this video. I feel like your video is good for spreading awareness of this wig on kids situation. I hope you will have a great rest of your day. God bless you.🙏👑✨💕
@leelee5593
@leelee5593 5 ай бұрын
This is crazy af😢
@PeopleOfPower
@PeopleOfPower 3 ай бұрын
I am so glad someone spoke the truth! People may not want to hear but they need to hear it. When these kids grow up with traction alopecia from wigs being glued around the perimeter of their head they gonna wish their real hair had been left alone. 😏
@whenyouwishuponastar6643
@whenyouwishuponastar6643 5 ай бұрын
This feels like somebody living vicariously through their child. We have to think about what’s going to build our children into confident, happy adults…. Not what’s gonna be viral. Come on. Pre K with a lace front??
@deltasaves
@deltasaves 4 ай бұрын
I had dreads for close to 10 years. I cut them in 2021 for various reasons and have been through the gauntlet of styles. The one thing my parents made sure for me was that they knew i loved my hair. Right now, ive had my natural curls out. Ive had some individuals in for about a week and a half because its made it easy to pull back for work and i can still wash it. The eczema on my scalp has come back really bad due to stress and having had some hair thining from it, i work with it how i can whwn it acts up. Theae poor little girls are learning to hate themselves more than i ever did growing up being in competive dance.
@kianajoseph3628
@kianajoseph3628 5 ай бұрын
OMG your locs😍😍
@natyalicia2665
@natyalicia2665 5 ай бұрын
I love you so much. Giving us top notch energy, talking about somethings that really need to be talked about and always keeping it 10000000! 2:51 and you are incredibly gorgeous natural!
@TheeMademoiselle
@TheeMademoiselle 5 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@DeborahCook-hw5jq
@DeborahCook-hw5jq 4 ай бұрын
So true. It's getting real bad.
@mlamarana
@mlamarana 3 ай бұрын
Setting up your children for predators because, we refuse to let them be kids and dress them up like a 25years old 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
@theeotakufam6825
@theeotakufam6825 5 ай бұрын
Yeah that's not appropriate lol. What happened to the barrets and bows? Lol
@Xgold1
@Xgold1 5 ай бұрын
0:18 Oh no Mamita, no. You do not need a wig when you have hair. That is for people who barely have hair or no hair at all or just for dress up.
@ladygrimm6661
@ladygrimm6661 7 күн бұрын
Bro this honestly reminds me of grade school when I used to get made fun of for how my hair was yet there was girls who were ages 11-13 wearing sew ins and all sorts of lace fronts
@niaanais895
@niaanais895 5 ай бұрын
Kids need to be kids
@noobplayz6798
@noobplayz6798 5 ай бұрын
My girls were 13 before I even let them get they hair flat ironed. Ponytails and braids period
@ambersummer2685
@ambersummer2685 5 ай бұрын
In a crop top too😭 She’s still losing her baby teeth and she’s dressing like a teenager/young adult?
@vodoumyers
@vodoumyers 5 ай бұрын
Whatever happened to kids being kids???
@sisiscastle3573
@sisiscastle3573 5 ай бұрын
👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 that’s I have to say about this video!!!!❤
@kaylasworld_
@kaylasworld_ 5 ай бұрын
the world is DISGUSTING i literally don’t gaf
@austinkayla8
@austinkayla8 5 ай бұрын
1 sec in the video..... Got enough for a wig, but no fire alarm batteries?
@dontwatchthat869
@dontwatchthat869 5 ай бұрын
WOAH i thought i was the only one who thought this, didn't know it was a thing
@kashnow9279
@kashnow9279 5 ай бұрын
I remember girls used to do pony tails and braids up into highschool then that's when the hair presses and weaves would start and make up or nails etc for prom and just becoming more adulting after 16
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