[Q&A] Bucket Lists, Kids, and Houses

[@chipmunkkk3]

Not going to lie, stacking your fridge with a bunch of food is really romantic. haha

[@TexaninTokyo]

I tried my best :D (Ryosuke)

[@Laurajanehahn]

I can just picture your future children being told the worst dad jokes

[@RachelandJun]

omgggg cutting all the girls makes me so mad lol And then on the other hand we have Jessie Graff in America (my hero)

[@TexaninTokyo]

+Rachel & Jun Riggghhhtttt??? Ugh. It was such an (ugly) shock. Jessie is so freaking amazing, by the way. Major girl crush.

[@noeinroad7294]

I agree with Grace on the kids and KZbin thing. Remember all the pictures your parents took when you were little that they now have the urge to share with your friends/significant other :) Imagine those being shown to people all over the world. And some people are just troll and will post negative comments for no reason. Leaving your kids out until they can choose to be in a video is for the best. Besides they will be your kids and you should raise them how you choose.

[@BobbyJoeXForgotenSB]

more so baby trafficing, where deep web users use random online pics to sell other kids

[@grantcivyt]

I don't really understand this concern. I love my old baby photos, and it may be that the kids will one day wish they had *more* photos of their childhood, as I do. I really don't understand the baby trafficking concern. There are lots of things to worry about with kids, but that one isn't high on my list.

[@BobbyJoeXForgotenSB]

grantcivyt if you were a parent (unless you are then i dont know)

[@grantcivyt]

Yes, I'm not a parent. Are you saying it's an irrational, emotional concern that comes from having kids or you're actually able to explain it?

[@BobbyJoeXForgotenSB]

grantcivyt pretty much the first but there had been times where the buyers come looking for the real baby, even cases where the seller gives the buyer doxed info on the parents, including the address to go kidnap the child

[@jourdan8149]

i like that you won't be putting your kids into your videos and social media and all that, really is a smart move and very thoughtful!

[@nktigger99]

jourdan beesler yes, I love it...and that it is an awesome thing.

[@TexaninTokyo]

Thanks for supporting! I really appreciate it (Ryosuke)

[@Jacgun5]

Ryosuke is just the epitome of cool... You're awesome dude, probably the most real youtuber I've seen :)

[@TexaninTokyo]

Awww thanks!! I am really happy to hear that!! I don't even know if I am qualified to be called a youtuber~ haha (Ryosuke)

[@LaCeiba1924]

I find it kind of creepy that people are so quick to ask youtubers when they will get married and when they will have children. Those are such huge life decisions. I realize that they are happy occasions, and that people want you to be happy but... I also sometimes think people want to see weddings and babies just because they think it's cute. They're bugging complete strangers to hurry up and make life changing, difficult, complex, and very private decisions just because they think it'd be oh so cute. To me, that's just rude! Your life pace and life decisions are your own!

[@brebre4ya1]

LaCeiba1924 That's not creepy. Its just normal. I have had family members I met that same day ask me every personal thing to the moon. I have been asked "when will you get a boyfriend" or even assumed I wanted kids. Its human nature that when you see a couple you wonder when they will take the next steps. It's not weird to ask questions regarding their past but its weird to ask questions regarding their future? Everyone asks these question and they are only creepy and offensive if you let it be.

[@chary361]

It was a Q&A (?)

[@LaCeiba1924]

In the case of relatives, I find that more annoying than anything. People shouldn't assume, they shouldn't pry, and they shouldn't nag you to hurry about such large life decisions. The fact that it's common doesn't mean it's necessarily ok. You also need to consider *how* the person asks the questions. If you look at many youtubers who are in relationships, you'll notice they get quite of bit of comments nagging them or pushing them to get married or have kids, making assumptions that they even want kids, or speculating that they're pregnant without any reason to think so. And THAT is what I find creepy. The fact that people will ship people on the internet and fervently speculate about and pry into their personal lives.

[@riviell]

However, regardless of how people ask, "When are you having kids?" do realize that you are basically asking, "When are going to have unprotected sex with your husband/wife?" and that's just CREEPY. And rude.

[@TheDemiFan4Evr]

When you don't think about adoption, artificial insemination, or surrogates, I'm sure that is creepy. More than one way to have a child.

[@chelsealeilani64]

Ryosuke is so damn adorable the way he looks at you. True love!!!

[@rosiejackson7574]

In terms of the whole baby thing, it's totally up to you guys. Grace please don't feel guilty if people keep pestering to see your kids or pestering you to get pregnant. It's your two's child, no-one else x Wishing you both health and happiness.

[@teraphIl1000]

OMG, now that you mention it, Ryosuke IS exactly like Gon!

[@TexaninTokyo]

Right? RIGHT??

[@vishakhkumar9542]

:D

[@hebquad]

His biggest regret is a poor hoodie choice....he's my hero lol

[@hebquad]

Update...new biggest regret: saying he doesn't want a house

[@lthughes]

I just wish they'd come back 😭

[@Cruzin105]

Your smile at 3:11 was cute when you recalled Ryosuke calling you beautiful. Was a lovely story ☺️

[@astropgn]

7:25 What if they already have 4 kids and we don't know because they aren't 16-18 yet? I want to believe!!

[@snake_gal2]

i think there would be more stress evident in the videos, and clues... like toys, jump cuts etc

[@tomboi1978]

A nice thought but can you imagine 4 kids in that tiny apartment?

[@Ken_sent_me]

thats not impossible in asia

[@tomboi1978]

True. They can get pretty efficient there. Hard to hide all the evidence tho :-p

[@meowsaidthecat5338]

You're not familiar with that extreme hide& seek game show in Japan?:> Kids being stuffed in walls, with new wallpaper over it. Etc. I forgot what it was called, something with 100,000 yen?...

[@OddityUnleashed]

Dude, I totally get you on the poop thing hahaha! Especially when you have an amazing crap, you can look at it with a measure of pride and say, "Yeah, I made that."

[@DasPingu]

The Poop mission bit had me rolling 😂😂 you're both too awesome Grace and Ryosuke!

[@candicerubio7660]

The one piece of advice I will give you about the whole kids thing...there is NEVER a good time for kids. Don't over think it, if you want to have kids...get started lol life is to short. If you are like I am and can't have them...then enjoy yalls life! Have fun and spend it together. LOVE YALL!!

[@MelisaenHongKong]

Candice Rubio so true, thanks for saying it :)

[@TheMusachioedBrony]

Candice Rubio I couldn't agree with you more!! I have wanted children since I can ever remember, and it took me two years to get pregnant the first time. I remember when we were packing up to leave the hospital they handed me my daughter, and this wave of surreal panic swept over me and I thought, "Wait...what?? You mean you are going to give her to me? Oh. My. God!!! What do I do now?" You are most certainly never, ever prepared-no matter how many you have. You just have to close your eyes and leap.

[@agresticumbra]

My brother kept waiting for the perfect time, then our father died, and he concluded that if he continued to wait for the perfect time there would be no grandparents around to share with. Eleven months after our father died, my brother and his wife had their first baby.

[@candicerubio7660]

I'm so sorry to hear about your father. But I agree, thank you for sharing!

[@Flint1545]

I study chimpanzee baby poop for a living. Until Ryosuke, I thought I was the only one in the world who loves poop and talk about poop all the time!

[@SayHelloHelli]

My primatology professor, first day of class, introduces himself by saying "I study shit. who can tell me why I do this?"

[@Flint1545]

Cool! I'm a primatologist too. What is your prof's name?

[@SayHelloHelli]

I'm so terrible with names. I took the class a while ago. I think it's langergraber.

[@Flint1545]

HeyHay Awesome! I know him. He is co-director of the field site I work at. :)

[@SayHelloHelli]

wow! small world :D

[@tinycandypanda]

I agree with letting them choose. I mean, when they're old enough to have an opinion that they can voice, it's definitely a choice they should be allowed to make for one. However, as parents having this type of concern this early in the game totally demonstrates how aware you guys are. Frankly I'm just glad!

[@lilmaus11]

Awhh at the huge smile on grace's face when ryosuke mentioned she was beautiful while sick

[@j.l.mcfadden7326]

Moving to a new country can be very hard. She is on the mark when she said make friends quick.

[@DeviousWeaselUK]

Ryosuke: I was born with the mission to spread poop out... That tickled me 😂

[@Alpha17x]

Lol. Ryosuke makes me laugh in every video. He seems like he's a really fun guy.

[@perfectlyhopeless]

You two are the sweetest couple I've ever seen online, I swear

[@basiabasia3387]

true, and I wish she stopped regretting the beginning in Japan, ... one learns and living in the past doesn't help, ... I would like to have a cauliflower head rather than banana one, .... did he say banana and two persimmons, ha ha haaaa

[@Vera-wg7np]

Perfectly Hopeless ikr

[@ezzelofficial7563]

Ryosuke's sweater story was the saddest thing i've heard in my life

[@zaiga2995]

A month later..."We are going to have kids soon". That was fast, I guess you guys are great at making decisions and calculating risks. I wish you all the best :)

[@PongoXBongo]

Love Avatar! You two are a bit like Sokka and Princess Yue. Plus Ryo could probably do an amazing "My cabbages!" impression. ;)

[@TexaninTokyo]

I want to be the cabbage guy! haha that would be awesome! (Ryosuke)

[@t3mptr3s]

We've been rewatching Avatar with our kids and my boyfriend always says "My Cabbages" when we're in the produce section in the supermarket.

[@riduku6222]

"My poop hats!"

[@papaquonis]

I feel like we see your "this is me being supportive face" in most of your videos. 😊

[@TexaninTokyo]

Yup! Pretty much!

[@RaineZahra]

I just discovered your videos tonight. I’ve sat here and watched 5 in a row and I must say that I find them to be very entertaining. I feel like what I find to be most compelling about your videos is the dynamic that I see going on between you two. Both of you just seem so close to one another. You’re having all of these new experiences together and it doesn’t seem like you’re taking anything in your life for granted. You’re both grabbing life by the horns and it’s REALLY inspiring. I like seeing you two in your apartment, cooking with one another, sitting down having a great meal together, having out of the ordinary fresh experiences, but also doing mundane everyday things. It all feels so very romantic and real. It’s obviously very neat to learn all of these new things about Japan as well. My lifelong best friend stayed in Japan for a few months and lived on a farm with a young couple. He helped them build greenhouses on their farm over the course of a few months. The stories he had to tell me were certainly very very interesting to me, so watching your videos is a bit of an extension of the curiosity that he sparked in me. Keep making videos, please. You've earned a longterm sub. PS im from the US. Ohio.

[@Anna_Stetik]

"You made me a planet? Aww, thank you." LMFAO! I love you guys already.

[@Mhikel2814]

Post Videos more often please. I'm a new subscriber since yesterday and i just caught up on all of your videos xD

[@astropgn]

Been there!

[@MrMcFranky]

well that sounds veeeery familiar :D

[@Mhikel2814]

lol.. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feel this way.

[@shirine1989]

I know the feeling XD Actually they used to post more videos before (about 7/8 per month), not sure if something's changed recently, if they have more work or focusing on other projects. But yeah love them, they are awesome!

[@abayless8962]

Buy Grace's comic books, then you can read them while you're waiting for more videos. They're adorable and fabulous! No, she didn't tell me to say that- it's just what I've been doing. :)

[@zynthio]

I had to hold a loud laugh in during the middle of the night. Ryosuke is hilarious

[@cherrymintism]

i really really love when you see how grace is telling the story of when she were sick. you literally can see the love in both faces

[@chaos9494]

A very reasonable stance on the kid thing. Personally, I'll probably share only the most inoffensive pictures of my kids when the time comes. But, I don't have the same kind of internet presence as you guys. Your kids will probably appreciate you keeping them offline at first. I've also experienced the isolation thing first hand. And you're right, it really sucks! We're moving again soon and I'm basically going to put all my effort into building us a new social circle as soon as possible. It's easy to take that kind of stuff for granted but it's so important.

[@-----REDACTED-----]

I find it very commendable and thus support you wholeheartedly in your decision to respect your children's right to privacy! I was actually planning on leaving a comment urging you to do so should an opportunity make itself available, but thankfully there apparently is no more need for that! Good on you!

[@NerdsTravels]

I love your point about kids not being able to consent to having their images online... I feel like a lot of people get super excited and post a ton of pictures and video online, not considering that they can't really take that back later. It's one thing to overshare you own life, but it's another to overshare someone else's, particularly if that person doesn't understand that it is happening.

[@AmeliaAbroad]

Just got recommended this and to know now y’all are still happy and in love with kids just fills my heart so full! 💗

[@bunnyfire58]

Btw thank you for answering my question (asked under my Twitter name))....Ryosuke, of course we know you are smart, btw! LOL! You two are so adorable and fun to watch!

[@bunnyfire58]

ps those poop hats crack me up!!!!

[@kittyflint5049]

"two persimmons and a banana..would be awesome..." RYOSUKE!!!!

[@TexaninTokyo]

This boy made almost a dozen sexual innuendos in this video - I had to cut out most of this. It was so much fun to edit!

[@da96103]

Can we have a R-rated version please.

[@candicerubio7660]

Lol Grace, boys will be boys no matter what culture! LOL

[@megana6131]

Miss you guys!

[@jm6007]

Don't let anyone pressure you on having kids! You'll know when the time is right and if you're not ready yet that is totally fine !

[@ddubfan]

You two are so freaking cute. #RelationshipGoals 💜

[@TexaninTokyo]

:3

[@SuiGenerisAbbie]

They are absolutely darling!

[@TC-8789]

Thumbs up for respecting your future kids privacy until they're old enough to decide for themselves.

[@lifae]

I think it's a good thing to think about social media and what to do when you have children. Aureylian (a gamer youtuber I follow) has a daughter and she hasn't had her daughter in her videos until her daughter started asking to be in the videos (and even then she took some time to think about it). She still doesn't use her daughter's real name. She always calls her Boo.

[@canny531]

I've been married for 19 years with four children. I also have my Japanese "daughter". She came to America as an exchange student 12 years ago. Ever since, she's been family and has been back to see us many times. She went to school in Sendai and lives in Osaki. Now she's married with a 3 months old. I'm so proud and my heart is bursting! Anyway, I fell upon your channel doing research for our upcoming trip to Japan to see my beloved Haruna and meet her baby Yuya and husband Yusuke. I have to say I adore you two!!! So now instead of researching, I'm binge watching! Lol!!! "The cuties in Tokyo show, bing!" ;)

[@stoicshield]

7:10 That's the reason my sister puts up absolutely no pictures or videos of her kids anywhere. At first she not even made stories in WhatsApp. Later she started doing that, but only "we went on a trip to here" type of things and always put something over the faces or her kids, if they were visible. For the same reason - Social Media will be enough pressure for them one day, they don't need to have their baby pictures all over the internet for everyone to see.

[@JnrChiaachen1213]

Who knew watching a Q&A could brighten up my mood so much :D. Wishing you two the best with the kids planning. You could always film the process of raising kids for yourselves and never post them online :P!

[@Tritium8]

I cannot wait to see the video about your Ninja Warrior experience. I was watching the live stream... sadness...

[@AetheriusAri]

can you post a link to the recorded video, please!?!

[@EmiiPie]

I agree with y'all about not having kids in your videos. There are photographers , bloggers, and vloggers coming under fire for putting very personal and potentially embarrassing things about their children online, which, like you said, the children can't really consent to. More importantly, I think it puts even more pressure on kids to try to be "cool" or look a certain way based on comments on the videos or from schoolmates who might see the videos.

[@candycorn3690]

I can't believe u guys stoped doing videos

[@kianaazadi1146]

When I first moved to canada I did the same mistake and I didn't go out anymore and I got social anxaity for 2 months and it was so hard but now im doing volunteer work and im much better now

[@ksmb124]

I think you are right about not posting your future kid's lives on social media. I am always amazed at how much insight the two of you have. You are very well matched ! ♥

[@kazbar7611]

I completely agree with you about children not being able to consent to being online. I really respect your decision to stop your KZbin channel while you start your family. Even if it goes me an that I miss watching you both. I hope you are both doing really well. And I love watching your old video's. X

[@NouveauArtPunk]

Good going on the kids thing, actually, I completely agree!

[@TexaninTokyo]

Thanks for understanding! I appreciate it!

[@virtualwalkjpn1298]

Your video really struck me. I've been living in Japan for the past 7 months. I haven't been reaching out to anyone. It has caused me to feel super home sick and very depressed. I stay at home all day doing nothing. The only person I talk to are my friends through facebook and my husband who is gone most of the day. I really should be reaching out more and start making new friends. I thought I was the only one... you had the same experience. It's really encouraging that I'm not alone. That other people have gone through the same thing.

[@PurpleLuci]

Can't wait to watch this! Seriously become very obsessed with your channel! I love it! Feel like I've watched quite a lot of them. Wish there were more :-( hope you've had a lovely day!! :-)

[@crittert7828]

I love you 2, so great together. I appreciate your decision about kids & social media. All our grand babies are on there but the youngest has a mother that doesn't go a day without posting a picture - it bothers us. She's 6 and there's hundreds of pics on all forms of media. There's so many bad people out there, scares us🎈

[@catcubus]

Not having kids is also an option, as I'm sure you both know that having kids isn't a necessity for a happy marriage. :) I *love* my niece and enjoy spending time with her, but I also enjoy the fact at the end of the day she goes home and I get my nice quiet home back with my hubby. ^^

[@hapajosu]

You both are such beautiful people. Grace being introverted and Rysoke being so extroverted crazy and doesn't care. I really enjoy your vlogs. Please let him make more simple easy cooking videos. Much love!

[@TexaninTokyo]

Thanks for enjoying our vlogs~ Yay :D

[@ayumesakura]

Your romantic story touched me to tears. I hope I'll find a best friend husband someday. Love your vids :)

[@huntonion]

I love Cauliflower, no matter how you cook it it tastes amazing

[@Venjasmine]

WTF THEYRE SO ADORABLE IM GONNA SHIT MYSELF A TOASTER

[@thelazybug4441]

Haha, I'd like a house inside an airplane too XD actually lately I've been looking at so many "tiny houses" and I really love some of them and the whole concept ^^ That was really funny by the way, when you realised he didn't want to buy a house XD

[@seeleschneider8896]

You two are hilarious hahaha The Hunter x Hunter answer was what I guessed before yall said it lol

[@ryudada]

at first i thought he was gonna say hisoka (like everybody else)

[@centaurea5293]

it's so nice to see a couple like you guys...like there are so many divorce stories I hear about these days both in the news and around me, but I watch you guys and it's kinda comforting to be able to think "yup, these two will definitely last until the end"

[@sallydoom]

Totally agree on the kids not being filmed consensus you guys made. Keep up the good work. Much love from Austin.

[@AdorableAcushla]

Aww! Your story of Ryosuke's most romantic gesture made me tear up.

[@shewhoiskyleful]

Ryosuke's answer to the how vs why question was so smart!

[@Cara_girlwithhat]

No matter what the topic, your videos are always a joy to watch.

[@Mommapunkin]

I've been married for 40yrs and if I could change one thing about my husband, it would be for my husband to as romantic like Ryosuke is to Grace...

[@Deathoutofhell]

I really liked the part when you talked about your first months in Japan, Grace. I feel like this happens to me allot, like over the course of the past few years. I do get to new places, work and living situations and not even in different countries. I just find myself failing at reaching out to people. It is so tough. It is just nice and I appreciate it that you share your thoughts and feelings about it. And thanks to you and Ryosuke for making these fun and entertaining and often thoughtful and caring videos! :)

[@1ytcommenter]

such a cute couple. grace is getting prettier day by day it seems.

[@kisachan32]

Ryosuke should make a tiny crown for his poop hat so it can become the poop hat king

[@iShoppd]

You two make me feel all warm and snuggly inside. I would love to see pictures or hear you describe the personalities of your families. What are your siblings ages? What do your parents look like?

[@m.e.c.1007]

I nearly fell out of my chair with the Why does Ryosuke like poop and his answer. LOL

[@selinesbeau]

Ok that tending the sick story was adorable. That's real love there folks!

[@clydecessna737]

You will be great parents. I agree with the image thing.

[@mistys9338]

Your husband seems like a really great guy. Happy for you! Take good care of him! He's seems so goofy and sweet. Mine is too! :D Hope he takes good care of you as well.

[@noeinroad7294]

Grace is so cute when she's embarrassed :) So glad you guys met and married cause now we have this awesome channel and Grace's hilarious comic! Neither would be the same without this perfect combination of personalities.

[@TexaninTokyo]

Thanks!! I just feel so thankful that I met Grace every single day :D (Ryosuke)

[@dvdraymond]

Ryosuke sound effects on the Ninja Warrior video are a must :)

[@typervoxilations2311]

y'all are too cute, I couldn't stop smiling through the entire thing

[@PlaynationGames]

I would love to see you on ninja warrior

[@emoXjessiX2030]

Awwwwww. I respect your choice to respect your future kids privacy but I will be sad that I won't get to see what they look like until they are teens. I hope that you would do pregnancy updates and maybe baby/kid age updates? Like when they are babies you be like baby rolled over and found their toes. Maybe pictures where we can't see the face and it looks like a fancy art photo. I just love babies and y'all's babies would be the cutest.

[@TheTwinkieState]

Its funny how similar how my Chinese boyfriend (Chao) and Ryosuke are. It's like looking in a mirror lol!

[@nullshock3381]

Your channel is one of my favorites. And, you two are so awesome together.

[@justin2627]

Ryosuke is so creative with his answers sometimes

[@M.Moadeli123]

I love Grace. She's such a soulful character, full of values and dreams.

[@ImUpsetThatYouStoleMyUsername]

She really is incredibly, strikingly beautiful. Cool videos!

[@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley]

This was an amazing Q&A! I missed it though, but I don't use Twitter (less social media, less problems, I say). Really enjoyed the humor. Also I love how Ryosuke delicately weaved around saying "Honey badger don't give a shit!" as he said things like "doesn't care" and "does things its own way." We know what you really wanted to say ;)

[@taymilll]

Lol!! Omg the hoodie regrets. Was not expecting that. So funny! And I feel your pain. Nothing worse than new clothes that don't work.

[@mikleman996]

lol Sharla's twitter picture, food and the face of happiness

[@TexaninTokyo]

I know, right? Love that picture!

[@Anachi474]

ahhh ryosuke is hilarious. Both of your personalities are so endearing! Thanks for making these videos!

[@devalillaheart3320]

Oh, I thought you all were filming this in the forest. Thanks for clearing that up.

[@cooldaemonx7409]

You guys are absolutely awesome... Planning Machu Picchu here, but that won't be for a couple years, next one here is Costa Rican treehouse hotels ziplining through the jungle with toucans over crocodile filled rivers

[@dsebastian26]

Love your videos! I am making my way through your past videos also to catch up. Cute couple! Bless you both!

[@kan0shii]

I wonder if the fact that you felt so lonesome when you first moved to Japan plays in to how your youtube has turned out! I mean, as a fellow introvert, I know how hard it can be to make new friends - it seems to me that the time alone may have really helped your drive to reach out to others, and now look where you guys are! Just the thoughts of a random person. You both rock :)

[@Chinosandflipflops]

Please keep up your videos. It is a breath of fresh life to hear about your lives together and each of your work amidst 24/7 news channels and worldly chaos. I also connect because my girlfriend and I are from different cultures and we both value similar things with you two. Thanks!

[@avidian888]

I really like your aunt's marriage advice! +1

[@girininjoo]

Your aunt's advice is amazing!

[@onlysevenel]

I'm a big fan of Hunter x Hunter too! you two are amazing couple!

[@TexaninTokyo]

Hunter x Hunter is the best :D