Q&A - Get to Know Me! 回答问题啦！！

[@themillerfam]

Love this and love you!!! 😘❤️

[@lee-theparagonofGod]

She’s the best.

[@asoomasoom7007]

كيوت 😘😘

[@nijumabasumatary8406]

I whatch your video

[@tovawolk6683]

I’m honestly shocked to hear that she’ll want to go back to China when she’s 18. Does that bother you guys? Does that shock you?

[@aalamk8189]

@@tovawolk6683 🙄 her life her choices. She is a kid she may say things now and change later plus she is CHINESE

[@jaeyonqs5569]

"i dont hate them but their choice of letting me fend for myself is what i hate the most" penny u r such a beautiful person 🥺🥺

[@Angela_Muwang]

That's exactly what i was thinking of....

[@misslucylu]

Its ugly, dont say shiiitt

[@aliciayan520]

从你被你爸爸妈妈带回美国的那一次视频就有关注你了，很开心你在美国这边生活的很好，并在短短几年学会了英语，也没有忘记母语。 加油！！

[@zarasen4048]

Hi Penelope! My birth parents did the same thing and i definitely relate to not hating them but hating their choice of leaving me at the mercy of the world around me, not knowing what would happen to me. I am so in awe of your bravery to decide at your age to leave everything you knew and come to the US to live with your beautiful family. your courage and strength inspire me

[@charmaineho0822]

你正面和堅強的態度真的令人佩服！短短幾年就一口流利英語，的確很棒。繼續努力💪 祝你事事順利

[@dangol7534]

感恩你的养父母吧。你很Lucky 她们给了你无限的爱。让你在美国受好的教育。有一个温暖的大家庭。你的美国养父母很伟大。

[@fairytale1130]

Appreciate your effort to put in subtitles given though I can understand you very well 👍🏻😊 You are an honest and brave girl, way to go!

[@alex.s2023]

Beautifully honest video. Thank you for sharing! I loved the fact you used Chinese and English interchangeably. The subtitles were a beautiful touch

[@window6340]

你真的好成熟好棒。你一定要上大学哦，大学生活非常美好，大学也为你以后的生活打开了很多的门。若是担心给家里带来经济负担你可以向政府贷款，同时也可以半工半读。贷款的钱，以后你一定是有能力还的。上过大学找到的工作的工资平均要高些，用这差额化一点点时间先还清债务。绝对值得。而且若你的SAT考到一定程度，有不少奖学金的机会。你是温暖勇敢也非常聪明的女孩，祝你开心同时也努力追梦！

[@ap548]

You should talk or share more about how you feel about your adopted parents & siblings.

[@stephanie9658]

You are so inspiring. You have a good heart, I wish you the best in everything you do😘

[@gigitang7911]

IKR

[@jesuschristismysavior8890]

Ikr

[@jasg771]

我不能说能完全感受你的痛苦，但从痛苦中走出来的确不容易。你很坚强。不要感到不幸，反而我觉得你很庆幸有个那么充满爱的国际化家人， 住在美国也让你的英文进步，前途无量，以后你会有很多发展机会在美国和中国。现在最主要是享受你的青春，向往更美好的未来，别去找抛下你的父母，对自己好一点。you are inspirational🙂

[@pemponchai6718]

You have the most amazing adoptive parents and siblings.

[@cheerbella2660]

你很幸運也很幸福，祝福你，我也是被我父母丟在街邊！被我現在的妈妈撿到，30歲了，妈妈對我很好，感恩，

[@meilingcheong2092]

你太可怜了

[@wctoronto]

Thanks for putting the effort to include English subtitles. I’m Chinese, born and raised in Canada. Cantonese is my 2nd language and I don’t speak Mandarin, so it helps. Love your honesty/candidness and love the Linky ending. LOL!

[@batanglagalagsamanila]

I like your way to understand happened in your life you are so nice humble sweet kid so nice Siblings to all stay safety you are so amazing lovable girl sweet sister

[@yiyezhou2011]

琪琪，我好像从来没看到当你的妈妈与说话时，你能看着她的眼睛，不是要刻意讨好谁，那不是你的个性，但是如果有一天当妈妈在与你说话时，你能不躲避你的眼神，我想那一刻，应该是你能和妈妈情感交融了。祝你幸福快乐。

[@我在尘埃里]

YAMI HU 我也感觉她和爸爸比较亲，不知道是不是我的错觉

[@fayey4896]

从你们家主频道10k订阅的时候就开始关注你们了，看到你们现在那么多订阅关注和支持真的替你们超开心的！好心疼你被抛弃但是还好你遇到了真正爱你的父母，而且你们家的气氛真的是超级好，互相尊重互爱很让人羡慕诶. 继续努力哦，会一直关注你们的！

[@涵涵-z9d]

等你工作了，好好的报答现在的父母。

[@antheacai6413]

加油 不要搭理一些莫名其妙的问题。你值得现在的生活；）

[@NNKKLXX]

Hey girl, our experiences are kinda similar and I feel you. 你才十多岁，想念家乡的时刻肯定很多，不是说你不爱你现在的养父母，而是说中国文化，中国朋友给你的emotional attachment真的很多。你没有办法完全放下一切来开始一个全新的生活，因为毕竟你在那片土地上生活了好多年。请你不要被评论里的消极评论所困扰，他们作为外人来看这件事情，他们认为如何如何，他们又不是你，他们有没有在十几岁就背井离乡过。As long as you understand what you are doing, and make the best out of it, I respect whatever you do and I trust you won’t forget your adopted parents even though you may be apart from them.

[@maryw7221]

You are a very smart girl. Within 3 year’s time, you pick up English just like that. It is amazing

[@deepikasingh8058]

I love how emotionally mature and brave you are penny.... I like how you express your feelings and Thoughts without filter... Keep going and be best Love from India..❤️❤️❤️

[@susangalpin4967]

Hi, Penny! How magical that your life's path has led you to a world of possibilities ahead! You will show everyone how to deal with life's challenges by staying connected to the past while at the same time looking ahead to an adventurous life! You will soar high! 💕

[@nonondriessen]

You recently turned 17 and I remembered you did this Q&A. I love how consequent you were and still are. I see how you manage to stay loyal to both your families. How hard you work to bring East and West together.

[@jenndizon2157]

My heart is just melting with gladness. I just discovered your channels a week ago and got addicted watching your family videos. Im so amazed how our LORD JESUS CHRIST called your parents (Amanda & Stephen) to build a beautiful diverse family. May the LORD Bless you, and keep you and shine HIS face upon you, be gracious to you and give you peace. Kudos, Stephen and Amanda! Good job Penelope!

[@palazzovictoria6713]

To love and appreciate Miller fam 感恩是华人的其中一项美德

[@user-K.J]

哪里都是如此

[@Ringelsocke.]

Hi, I can totally relate to be divided in two. On one side is the region I was born and I grew up until I was 14, on the other side the region I live now, where I built my family. I will never be able to tell, which place I love more and the older I become, the better I understand that I don't have to decide. English seems to have only one word: home. In German it's Heimat and Zuhause and in Chinese it's Jiāyuán and Zàijiā (I think). Congrats on your second video! 🎉 I really like the way you switch between...combine the languages. And you went right into really personal questions. 😯 I hope for a third video, GO GIRL! 😉👍🏻

[@josephsabu4472]

i like you i am from india from KERALA love u may god bless you

[@alex.s2023]

“I want to...your mom” hilarious. I swear that joke is still hilarious every single time I hear it.

[@mayanse.w5130]

妳的美国父母很伟大，了不起的家庭。

[@asianangel5400]

Hi Penelope, my name is Joy. I follow your family's channel. I think you were very brave to come on here and share your story. It was nice getting to know you. I'm also adopted. I was adopted from Korea when I was 22 months old. Im now 42, lol. My parents abandoned me at 6 months of age. I was born with a genetic disorder called albinism. Im legally blind and i have no pigment in my eyes, skin, and hair. My chances to be able to live happily in Korea might have been difficult because of my condition. So I'm glad God allowed me to grow up in America and be able to become who I am today.. One day I hope to find my biological family, but if not, I know God would have planned it that way for a reason. Im married, a mother of 2 children who are teens, and a Pastors wife here in rural PA. Being adopted can bring you through tough days, but i know for a fact that when God plans your life things are meant to happen, even if it brings tough days sometimes. You have a beautiful spirit and I know God has big plans for you. I pray that God blesses your life's journey and that you have much love and happiness.

[@user-qwertyuiopasdfghj]

You are so good Penny! An amazing girl you are !

[@hopeb379]

Loved this video Penelope! I’m excited to see more!!

[@herdoublelife]

Hi Penelope I really love the video! A lot of the comments are saying how lucky you are to have a family that loves you and gives you a home in the US. I know you already know this but I want to say your family your parents your siblings are also really lucky to have YOU!! You are such a brave, driven young lady and I’m sure they are and will continue to be so proud of YOU!! 嘉琪我觉得你很幸运有了爱你的父母和家人的同时，他们也非常非常幸运有了你！你的勇敢热情都给这个家庭带来了独一无二的颜色。很开心看到这几年你的变化！我们和你的家人一样都很为你骄傲。加油做你自己吧！

[@katewagner6505]

I love you and am so happy you made this channel its so cool!

[@katherinekaufman9856]

Penny, You are such a strong and brave girl. I love the Chinese/English format. I had to subscribe & like!

[@pilgrim5217]

I am so impressed with you Penelope, you are smart, eloquent and beautiful.

[@monalizajamali3799]

I hope you will love your adoptive parents (Stephen and Amanda) n all yr siblings wholeheartedly in due course because without them, you wouldnt be where you are right now... There is nothing wrong with maintaining your relationship with yr chinese foster family but remember your priority is your family now... You are blessed to have a family that really loves you no matter what n who u are Penny... Stay strong, positive and kind always...

[@dotgoodwin4312]

Nice to hear more about u. You're lucky to have this family to care so much about u...

[@lohstacy1]

好高興認識妳。妳感染了我，妳沒有把不好的記在心理，至少現在沒了吧！繼續把正能量傳紿身邊的人。讓更多人見證妳的勇敢，妳的美和善意。相信明天會更好! 我們一家人也好想念中國，特別是中國的美食。We r not allowed to go to China yet, the border is still closed due to coronavirus. We hoped to travel to China soon. Can't wait😂 all the best to you sweetie. God bless you and your family😘. 期待妳下一集的KZbin...

[@travelingincanada239]

我相信随着你的成长，你的想法和计划也会修正，不要太纠结，到时候你才有当下的选择。

[@weizhang2834]

她一定会回中国的，我坚信这一点

[@mariecurie4696]

6:45 literally me when i hear my parents coming to my room to check if i m studying or not 😂😂

[@bakerlegsir7505]

Omg this is hilarious

[@andreahenning8076]

Oh good, I'm not the only one 😅🤣

[@iolol2023]

你真的好勇敢。两年前无意间看到了视频，没想到又在网络上遇到了。希望你过得越来越好

[@suedoyle4526]

Thanks for telling us more about you Penny. It’s so interesting. Though you found it hard to adjust, in years to come you’ll be enriched having two families that love you dearly ❤️ You’ve an inner strength that most people don’t have. You’re a lovely young girl. Best wishes to you from Ireland ☘️🇮🇪

[@mycall3816]

羡慕他们的教育方式，也佩服你的勤奋努力，独立思考很重要！你回答的非常好。

[@margaretneanover3385]

I trust that history will show the many having kids live in a lot of fear. That the deciding might be due many reasons but the strongest is most likely fear of unknown. How to care for or how to get through the many wars and public harm that had run strongly ...even recent the decisions about how earth shows a type humanity that turns similar to animalistic because the shadowy type influence. I truly hope you do not feel alone . there are many ethnic here and between the meanness there are those not liking cruelty attitudes. We too have many things crossing minds that leave less peace. We need to learn how that comes back. I like you reaching out and videos of strong parent support. It shows we do have capable love and ethics that are still here. You'll do great I'm guessing. Your whole family shows love before attitude ...

[@GloriousDestiney]

Im currently learning chinese so listening to you when you speak in chinese its easy to recognize what your saying because most chinese people talk very fast so i cant focus on what theyre saying but you talk clearly and slowly so i can understand and improve my chinese listening so 谢谢你，我爱你❤️

[@jehovahjireh3175]

Ro Marianne I learn mandarin when in Primary school but I hated it as we don’t speak it with the people around. I fail my Chinese or rather Mandarin every year until Secondary school that I give up. I only re-learn Mandarin when my 1st kid was 4 yrs old n in S’pore LKY, ask those that are Chinese to speank more Mandarin. There is a saying or slogan that say : Chinese people speak Mandarin for many years. Now I am able to speak and listen to Mandarin, unfornately when it come to reading I can read very little, come to writing I suck. My writing is worse then reading Manadrin.

[@JOSzeto1]

Penelope, thank you for sharing! I am so proud of you! In such a short time, you’ve shown strength and pride. I really can’t find the words to describe my joy. I’m grateful to your parents, for loving you and supporting you to blossom! You are awesome!!🙏🏼🌷🌷🌷

[@yamapixlover]

You're super courageous girl and you should be so proud of yourself. Just know whatever life choice you make, so be it China or America, it is bright and you are so wonderfully loved.

[@veronicajuliawatioslan1537]

Love u penny as a girl who could understand n accept the past time ..as a phase in life to step forward.. lucky u to have so pretty sweet family in America.. enjoy your days girl.. you are an inspiration

[@hanatruong1670]

You’re so courageous!! For some reason I REALLY WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND😂😂 you seem such a cool person to be with !! You should do a collab with your siblings in your future videos!!! THAT WOULD BE HILARIOUS HAHAHA

[@floriaji2574]

你处理负面的情绪的方式非常成熟，真的很棒！希望你能一直开心快乐。

[@alodiabeatrixpasohil6727]

penny, you’re a beautiful person and i love you so much!!! always stay strong and keeps safe. you have a very lovely family 🥺💗

[@DB-vy1yv]

So proud of you Penelope 😊 your mom and dad loves you and I see that they make sure you and Linky visit China, cuz they see how much it will mean a lot for you both🤍🕊🕊🕊

[@namratashukla3563]

At this tender age you chose to deal with brutal truth, vry brave. But you need not do anything just to make ppl believe u r brave. U r a super girl. ❣️I get hurt seeing ppl asking u question abt ur birth parents n if u want to meet them etc.

[@chalo513]

Great job here Penny Each video getting better and better Sorry you miss family and friend in China One day God may lead you there

[@rebekahjoytaylor8002]

You're so precious Penny! You may think you were born for no reason but you are SO special and you were DEFINITELY born for a reason x

[@charlotteliu2535]

Oh my god I’m crying sweet baby girl 😭❤️💓 you will be sooooo strong 💪🏻 宝贝加油啊(╥﹏╥) 爱你爱你💓 难过了就跟姐姐们说🥰☀️💜💪🏻🍑🌸🥐

[@penelopemiller9452]

爱姐姐们😆😆

[@澳洲文澜会计师]

加油，你是一个幸运的孩子，美国是一个包容的国家。

[@weizhang2834]

包容？靠想象

[@Jay_724]

很开心你能遇到现在的家庭，他们都是非常棒的家人，你的爸爸，妈妈都很优秀。你也一样。

[@maryjeanlamberte8880]

I loveeeeee youuuuuuuu penelope❤️❤️❤️ I've always watched your family vlogs, so as your sister's vlog.. And then, this one. Super excited,

[@Fleeuur]

棒棒哒～ 祝你幸福，没烦恼地成长！You’re an inspiration, lots of love

[@cherrychen1061]

Pray for you Penny~~~ love your attitude and your encouragements! 嘉琪 谢谢你的分享 看到你不仅是语言的进步 更是有强大的内心 神有祂的带领 一生经历祂的恩典！ 世界很大，梦想很多，未知也充满挑战～～期待你精彩的未完待续！

[@Andrew-nd7jl]

喜欢你！！我来了美国也有接触到很多在美国被领养的中国孩子。。。因为国内的环境不一样 因为医疗有限 父母估计治不了病觉得弃养国家至少可以帮助孤儿可以让孤儿能有治病的机会。。。他们估计也有自己的难处 毕竟自己的孩子都是心头肉 肯定是没有办法才离开你的。。。。我在美国读书的时候也做了快一年多的babysitter 给美国家庭有收养中国孩子的 我觉得真的给我们中国孤儿一个很好的家 成长的环境 我真的很感恩。。。看着他们长大我也觉得快乐了很多！ 希望你好好的！中文也要继续学习 因为中文太久不用的话就会忘记。。。。我也学在美国学了韩语 其实我觉得如果会了中文 学习韩语会比较轻松 因为很多东西都是差不多的！ 看看韩剧 和从基础的学起 很快就可以学会了~~~希望初三的你好好的~~~喜欢你的快了和坚强 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈 加油呀

[@jessicanguyen2298]

I really enjoyed watching this--thanks so much for being vulnerable and sharing your experience!

[@tebingye8960]

加油妹妹，世界还是有爱的，老天还是眷顾你的，希望你好好生活每天都有不同的快乐

[@rhonda5056]

I enjoyed your video Penelope. God bless you. Also, you are so beautiful and positive. Keep up the good work you are doing in inspiring others.

[@vanessavanderkramer6588]

Lovely 2nd vlog, Penny and you are doing a wonderful job of them. Your honesty is very inspiring and so many things to consider regarding your future. I know your mum and dad will support you in everything you do as they clearly love you very much. Until next time, Penny! Xxx

[@gma1046]

You're awesome Penny! It's fun to watch you grow and learn. It's going to be most interesting to see what you do in life. It's your choice.

[@fannie_zhao4075]

很高兴可以看到你用中文回答问题 ！加油💪🏻 你不是一个人❤️❤️

[@aliceinbath2850]

Hey Penelope, love you so much so proud of your confidence and can't wait to see you do more. More wins✨

[@emilytudberry696]

Don’t worry about putting subtitles we can understand you perfectly fine! ❤️ I love you and your family so much! Have fun and stay safe, Love from the uk! 🇬🇧🥰

[@rachelmcdonnell4827]

Your story is amazing Penelope ❤ I love how you never forget where you came from and who you are❤ you are so open and honest about your life, you should be so proud of how much you have achieved ❤

[@Sunny-cr8md]

你非常幸运，在美国有这么好的父母，他们很有大爱，你是幸福的！如果亲生父母没有抛弃你，也许也不会对你太好，所以应该感恩他们的抛弃，感谢他们给你生命！BTW.我也很喜欢珍珠奶茶哦，在美国怎么买到珍珠奶茶？

[@liuyuanyuan7070]

道德绑架

[@lucyyang5116]

感恩杀死你的人，因为他让你重新投胎？👎

[@dy7023]

No, you don't need to look for your biological parent. They don't deserve you. You have great parents and siblings now. Take care of them.

[@dy7023]

@Leah The Woman In Camo she said that she will not look for them. I just agreeing with her.

[@getsomeMcDonald]

I was also adopted and never met my parents, but I did not say that I would abandon my adoptive parents. I would still be with them, but if my biological parents recognized me, I would recognize them, but I would not live with them. Maybe I would get along with them like few day because they are biological parents after all I don't want to regret myself.Maybe I'm just too curious about my parents.

[@yapinglin6458]

看着你们的视频 一点点看你成长到现在这样优秀的自己 真的感慨时间过的好快哈哈哈

[@zq4777]

一定要幸福快乐呀宝贝。LOVE YOU!!!

[@clairebeatty216]

Yes I lovee that your postinggg

[@ReenyNY]

Nice job, Penelope. What is your Chinese name? How do you pronounce it? Maybe you can write it in Chinese and in English letters on your next video? 😊 Also, I'm sure your birth parents had a reason we cannot yet understand for their actions. Your beautiful homeland and culture does have a harsh government and officials at times, so maybe that had something to do with their confusing actions. I'm sure they love you and regret what happened with all their hearts. ❤ Well, it's fascinating to know that as happy as you always seem where you are, your homeland beckons. That makes sense though. That is human nature. You were already 12 when you came to America, and 12 year olds are already very wise and mature. Plus, that is a long time to psychologically bond closely with whomever they live with and whereever they live. All normal feelings! We are all so happy you're here though! Lucky us! 😍 I hope your heart does not ache much anymore, but if so, that would be natural and normal in your circumstances. We (American grown-ups) must remember that no amount of love, joy, sisterhood and brotherhood and privilege -- can stop the yearning for what is missed or lost. I know you will have the best of both worlds when you are grown, and are already having by your 2-year China visits. 🤗 YOU ARE AMAZING AND I LOOK FORWARD TO YOU WRITING A BOOK SOMEDAY ABOUT YOUR LIFE. 💕

[@jadecummings8093]

Ni hao, Penelope! I'm so excited to see you again on your new channel, you're such a beautiful girl who brings good life to us.

[@christianachan9540]

You are beautiful inside and out!:) thanks for sharing your life with us ~

[@lovemar7872]

Hi Penny. Your mom and dad, Amanda and Stephen are so amazing, they have big hearts to love all their kids...China is a nice country so is America. When you get a career someday you can visit your other mama in China whenever you are on holidays....Just continue doing good and be the light and inspiration to others.

[@kayleighsanders2873]

i loved this! and loved how you spoke both languages. you are so beautiful!

[@marziatajahaya1361]

You are lucky cause meller family is so kind.

[@kodygee1917]

I agree with you not to hate your parents. I was also abandoned in China and was put on an orphanage for 10 months so I don’t really remember much but I also don’t know if I would also look for them. Also I don’t know where they are/live and since I don’t speak the native language it would be hard to connect with them.

[@MohamedMahmoud-gh9np]

You speak Chinese very fluently, this is amazing !!

[@tracytu1990]

非常乐观非常善良的妹妹！看见你现在可以开心快乐的生活真的为你感到高兴，加油＾０＾~

[@athalachaves4368]

You are so lucky, the millers are such lovely family,

[@JadeAnahiAlejoSolisDESM]

Hi beautiful Penny! ❤️ Greetings from México. It's really nice to see you on your own channel 👏🏻

[@tommylagan]

Well done Penelope u go for the stars girl with ur amazing family behind you u will reach them

[@reenyny9502]

Hi, Penelope. It's been a year since you answered these questions. It would be fun to see you do another video answering these same questions to see how you would answer today.

[@nonondriessen]

At the end of 2022 I came across a podcast of Stephen and Amanda with the children. You might have heard/seen it? Some of these topics were discussed. It is so wholesome to hear how each family member reacted to that.

[@dahyej8175]

Love watching your new video!!😍 I'm Korean and I'm happy that you're interested in learning Korean!!

[@Nahuneda]

It seems you are still not emotionally attached to this family they adopted you and giving you amazing life you must appreciate what you have ❤

[@monamie8406]

I'm glad you have your own channel now Penelope. Love you!

[@chunshenghu4207]

you are a wonderful girl, you have great parents. I am very happy for you!! 加油 陈佳琪。

[@maryliao7875]

Wow I love you Penelope and it such a beautiful video waiting for more and just love it when you speak mandarin. So lots of blessings to you and your beautiful family always.

[@bethanytong2338]

the cinematics in this are AMAZING

[@generosedenosta3973]

You’re so beautiful and cool 😎 Can’t wait too see more of your vlogs❤️❤️

[@jamesfu6151]

好好待你的养父母

[@zhaobb4024]

james FU 养父养母真是好人