Q&A: remarrying if the other dies?! |

[@Astergarden]

15:55 the way pat slumps into her chair is hilarious, love you guys😂

[@RaphJonathanTan]

ok now we REALLY need to hear about the nuru massage🤣😂 a whole episode on it may i add please hahah

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Okokok! Let me try to churn out an episode. HAHAHA! - Pat

[@marcchoon6519]

I'm in my early 30s and lost my wife to cancer a month ago, this video helped provide some perspective for my situation, thanks.

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Hello. I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Thank you so much for spending 20 minutes with us. - Pat

[@frecks28]

Love the episode as usual. Very real and genuine. Every couple will have their challenges. It is how you learn about each other and try to make it work. It is an art to stay married.

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

It is really an art to stay married. Thank you for your support! - Pat

[@nevets1209]

John's mindset is really admirable (hope it won't change). Pat is so cute with her reactions 😂😂😂 hahaha fangirling here. i just admired that despite how modern the world is now, there are still people like you who stick on their morals. cheers to forever for the both of you.

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Hello! Pat is a very simple person. HAHAHA! Thank you for your support! - Pat

[@zidoka789]

Both of you look good in your couple prisoner outfit! Its always nice to hear John's wisdom. I don't always have to wait for a new TDK episode with him in the cast with this channel. Thank you for the content! Just a thought, people always talk about their love language to be receiving but never giving. I have noticed that a person's giving and receiving love language can be drastically different e.g providing acts of service but doesn't care for receiving it. Would like to hear your opinion on that.

[@sabrenastatique]

😊😊❤❤😊😊😊❤

[@jennn9637]

I dont think ive seen a more candid q&a video… i feel that i have learn from this video, thank you for making it :)

[@hilaryho2362]

13:36 this become real af at this point. I didn't think I'd be scared shitless at such a wholesome video

[@fluffyangelzx]

can Pat do like a skincare and haircare vid??? her skin and hair is like daaaamn niceeeeeee 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Hello!! I try to slip in if i can k! :D Thank you!! - Pat

[@shonekinlee8019]

Really like the genuine style of talking from the video. Able to feel the real couple feels like.

[@plainMapleSEA]

Really enjoyed watching this couple channel, felt so real and genuine. PS: Pat's side of the nuru massage please!!

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Thank you for your support!! Okok! Wait for me. Im slowly filming my side of the story HAHA! - Pat

[@plainMapleSEA]

Omg you guys replied! Looking forward to that episode!

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Thank you for your support!!

[@mercuryjpg]

ricky gervais' afterlife was so good! cried a lot, laughed a lot. wishing you guys an eternal life of good health and happiness!

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

RIGHT!! I love that show! Thank you for your kind blessings! Wishing you the same and more.

[@ATownes]

Always watching both your videos make me feel for you both are the sweetest couple.

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Awww thank you :) - Pat

[@stevenvincent2475]

This unique couple is really open, really love you guys ! I really learned a lot from your videos.

[@alexsim_]

Find a wife that looks at you the way Pat looks at John

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

How i look at him? Hahahaha! - Pat

[@weileong6438]

Agree.

[@shonekinlee8019]

@@JOHNPATCROSS with an admiring eyes… those are eyes full of love..

[@verntingfan9003]

you both are soooo cute!!! I love the way Pat looks at John!!!! OMGGG the puppy eyes 🥺

[@khokl9288]

Please keep up the channel good work. Enjoy watching both of you alot

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Thank you for your support! - Pat

[@grys9245]

Subscribed! Great episode. And some very funny parts 😂

[@Jay-xs3wn]

5:05 jeez I was thrown off just as much as jon 😂

[@kayabuns]

6:33 killed me hahahaha

[@xiaopang254]

Yay new episode!!

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Yay! Thank you for watching! - Pat

[@lolhaha4825]

Hello John and Pat!!! Could Pat talked about her career outlook/progression? I’ve always been interested to get into product manager however I have no relevant experiences hence would like to understand how I could break through. Also, what is the daily job scope / tasks for a product manager? Or if Pat can do a day in my life kinda vlog… I am currently in a role where I handle both internal and external stakeholders!

[@arjunsasangan9342]

really loving the content and vibes

[@vhalia]

I love After Life, it’s an amazing movie. Every time I watch it, I would 😢😢😢😢😢 Try watching Finding your feet….another moving & inspirational movie

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Its touching and funny at the same time right! Eh but its not a movie leh. The one we watched is a series. - Pat

[@vhalia]

@@JOHNPATCROSS yes, you are right, it’s a series.

[@ImMochiAlyyyyy]

WAH I really wanna hear Pat’s side of the Nuru Massage wehhhhh

[@ngsy8193]

What is compromise-able and what isnt?

[@kellychong6477]

I really love Pat’s personality. Confirm makes a good 姐妹! Damn 爽快 personality.

[@yieldm232]

Hi Pat, how do you deal with insecurities (if any), when Jon is in the media industry? (E.g. having to interact with so many attractive women, being away)

[@Glitzyglambmp]

You’re so pretty Pat! In and out! You’re both such a beautiful couple❤❤

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Awww thank you! 🤭 - Pat

[@stevenvincent2475]

@@JOHNPATCROSSyeah would love to see a video about what you guys like about each other’s personality. and how to make sure you have a good personality !

[@trishuang8377]

The both of u are just so sweet la 🥰

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Thank you! - Pat

[@randychan360]

Acts of service = Do things? 😉 Pat, come on. 😂😂😂

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

It is what!!! Its the act of doing something to make the other feel the love. - Pat

[@strategos11]

doesnt reckon mean think?😭🙏

[@animemachinex3]

just curious, if john is so religious from the beginning, how come premarital sex was ok for him?

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

His criteria for his partner is only to be in the same faith. But how strong? Not relevant. :D - Pat

[@amk573]

To put religion as one of the criterias, I feel is a very silly thing. So what if your entire ancestral ashes are put in his church, to me it’s just a coincidence and that’s it. Religion is a very personal thing and one should never impose your beliefs and expectations onto others. But when a religion imposes a non-believer to convert inorder to have the marriage recognized, this is a big No No for me. 😊

[@manyue2003]

What ? I thought you finally going to answer the Nuru massage question. I have asked since your first video but ok I will wait patiently for the next video. 😀. Bonus question. Though not common in Singapore, would u guys consider open marriage say after another 10 years ?

[@jen5138]

lmao, they are opposed to cheating so obviously not. Can tell they take the sanctity of their marriage vows seriously n rly love each other.

[@manyue2003]

@@jen5138 Definition of sanctity is different for every couple. Some couple will see going for nuru massage as crossing that line. We should not define it for others, not saying you do, just saying we should all be more open minded.

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Hello! Soon k! I trying to churn out one episode just on that. - Pat

[@justintan3761]

Afterlife is awesome. Slight Dark Humor, but awesome. by Ricky Gervais.

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

Yes! Funny and touching! Too brilliant. - Pat

[@ashytxh5506]

would u still go ahead to marry ur partner if ur partner family dislike ur partner and the family?

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

I think it depends on why they dislike my partner and his/her family. If it is for superficial reasons like wealth, then I will ignore and go ahead. But if my family saw some red flags in them, then I think worth considering again. - Pat

[@awkwardsmile]

The sad thing is men are visual creatures. Once a lady take for granted her figure and lose attractiveness in the eyes in your partner, most guys will lose the attraction to their partner. This in addition to the lady's personality. But if wife is hot but ugly personality then gg.

[@JOHNPATCROSS]

I wont say all men are like this luh. I've seen men who stuck it out with their wife who sacrificed their figure to give brith and their husband still love them a lot kind. Most important is cannot be complacent. - Pat

[@awkwardsmile]

@@JOHNPATCROSS agree on both points. Not all men but quite a large number of men and def complacency.

[@joeylim261]

lovely couple🥰🫶🏻

[@vishaalinivasanthanathan7452]

🧿

[@rossh9892]

Promo`SM

[@benwong2061]

Algooooooooooooo

[@hhspore]

Cute couple. From aunty H

[@evangelinelim7174]

Have kids lah.

[@Aaleeexy]

u 2 need to have a kid for sure. just 1.

[@vishaalinivasanthanathan7452]

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