Q&A | Should this be the LAST child?

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[@herbiedustsucker8401]

I appreciate your sensitivity to those struggling through infertility and loss.

[@HopeSpringsFarms]

Would John be willing to talk about the Training or Certifications needed to do his Job? I am a former High School Agriculture Teacher & a big supporter for Career Tech/Trade education. I would love to see him talk about what is needed in Florida for someone to get into his Trade. Alyssa I love that you are sensitive to the fact that there are women out their with fertility issues. I had to make the Heartbreaking decision to have a Hysterectomy before I could have any kids. It was medically necessary. Even when I was struggling with accepting that I would never have biological kids, I was always super excited for Friends and Family when they were expecting.

[@kayakinggrandmakelly7105]

My friend has 15 kids. No twins, and they stayed at my little house last week. They love kids and have done a wonderful job raising them! God provides for them. The man is a pastor to the deaf with a deaf church in Texas and he is also a handyman. The kids range from 11 months to 23 years old. They were bringing a son to Crown College .

[@jessicab8072]

I would love to know more about John’s job and how y’all stay on budget with being a stay at home mom and four kids!! (Help!) Lol

[@christinamanweiler3541]

He has his own business.

[@chaostheory9695]

I have a feeling it's a boy! No matter the gender, as long as baby and mama are healthy, it's a blessing.

[@christinesmith7678]

So adorable how John adores his girls. Your such a cute couple.

[@kc26119]

I totally agree!!🙏🏻😇

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[@marshahenderson9793]

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[@MountainWhispers86]

You guys are so sweet. Question for John: Were you homeschooled? Whats your favorite part about being a dad of 3 beautiful girls?

[@ashleighlancaster1683]

Literally just realised Alyssa is 25 and pregnant with her 4th kid, I'm not judging, it's just so strange when I realise there's people younger than me, who haven't just had a kid, but have had a few. I really need to get my skates on with this whole being an adult and starting a family stuff.

[@nrw7734]

@Ashleigh Lancaster...don’t put any pressure on yourself. You have a life’s journey that is unique to you, just like your finger prints. The important thing is to stay true to who you are and what you want out of life. Alyssa got married as a teenager, which is fine for her, but would you have wanted to be married as a teen?

[@EmilyAndShannon]

Sometimes john seems a little monotone to me but his personality really came out in this video! He was so funny and really seemed in his element

[@homespunhomefragrance5659]

I vote boy 💙 . A “little John” would be so fun and it would be a fun new parenting adventure for Alyssa and John. But a 4th girl would be wonderful too 💝 .

[@cindygartner157]

As a woman who struggled with infertility issues, it breaks that you feel the need to tone down your joy or experience to keep from hurting others feelings. It can be hard for us however, God always has a plan! Btw, a lactation specialist may be able to help with the low milk production issue. Praying for you all

[@virginiastoneking6661]

I am still laughing. Johns is so funny with his answers. You both are so genuine and real. You can see the love you have for each other. Am excited to follow this journey with you. I have been watching since you were a young girl. Much love and blessings from Kansas city Missouri. 😘😘😘💖💖💖

[@sarahn.4775]

So sweet! I love following along on y’all’s journey!

[@onka256]

I love how candid u guys are. Thanks for sharing your life!!

[@TheNoades2020]

Can’t wait to see what you’re having! The girls will be the best big sisters 😊 also think it was very sweet for you to acknowledge and pray for those struggling with infertility ❤️

[@julieorozco1419]

Thanks for answering all of those questions! I can't wait to hear what y'all are having!

[@karenjonte2043]

You guys are so sweet and genuine! Can't wait for the gender reveal....already got my notification set!🤣

[@stephanieblunt7728]

I admire yall so much. You're such a great couple. Thanks for sharing your life!

[@victoriadunnett4745]

You are such a lovely family and so relatable! You two are so wise beyond your years.sending love from the uk

[@carolineochoaperez2382]

I feel the same way about the trying for the baby thing. I found out I'm expecting last week and we honestly weren't planning to try until December due to health reasons. You guys are great!!!

[@mmorrison01]

You guys are too cute and have such a sweet family! Thanks for sharing your life! 💗

[@shelleynunley7925]

Can you share more about home schooling? Love the way you have the room set up for school. How do you plan to balance home school and a new born?

[@marybaker1993]

You two are so sweet and such awesome people and parents.very loving and kind.i hope your pregnancy gets better as far as you being sick.i wish you the best.take care.love you guys.thanks for allowing us into your lives.i really enjoy it.

[@loriyensho2053]

You guys are the cutest!! I love how genuine you are!

[@conniebarber4582]

Y'all are the sweetest couple!! John is so cute and funny!! Alyssa I think you're an awesome mom. God bless you both and your whole family.

[@mariekastigar2294]

Thanks for the Q&A! Love and prayers to you both. 😍❤️🙏🏻

[@meaghanheredia8391]

I have the same heart condition but mine was not fixed during my oblation. I was able to safely carry and deliver healthy baby boys three years in a row without any heart complications. My heart condition changed after my third delivery, so make sure you stay in contact with your electrophysiologist throughout your pregnancy. I hope this delivery is safe and easy for you!

[@ozarkldy8117]

I love that you guys are doing this! I only learned about your family in late April when I went to my oldest daughters for her 4th baby & I fell in love in one episode! But since you guys are further away & not filmed as much, especially John, I really had a different impression of you before. It's fun & nice to see this relaxed side of you guys! My questions would be does John's family help you guys with the girls as far as giving you date nights or pitching in when Alyssa is unwell, etc. & are you guys still swapping off w/John staying with the kids at night & Alyssa doing extra cleaning jobs? Also, I can't resist asking after 3 1/2 kids, has Alyssa become more laid back about the house looking perfect? Stay safe & God bless!

[@cristamoore3513]

They have things to drink, tea, that helps with milk supply before delivery and drink after birth of baby as well. My oldest daughter used it and it helped.

[@muststephie45]

I love watching y’all‘a channel. Your videos are great! Sending hugs and prayers and lots of love

[@margosurrell9953]

I got pregnant once and was told I wasnt about to but then we lost the baby early on so yes prayers are more then welcomed

[@lauralogan3046]

Alyssa, thanks for being willing to share about your experience with nursing and formula feeding. I wanted to exclusively breastfeed both of my babies, but didn’t have enough of a supply either and had to supplement (& eventually entirely feed) with formula. I felt so much guilt about it even though it was something I couldn’t control. It helped me so much to hear other mamas didn’t exclusively nurse, so I’m sure you sharing your experience will help others ❤️

[@cyndid716]

Tell us more about John! How big is his family? What do you all do with the family? Love watching your videos, you two are so precious and hilarious 💗

[@emmylove9912]

You've got that enclosed back porch you could actually build it up two stories for much more space. If you purchased it.

[@mandyrodriguez1003]

You guys have such a sweet family and I love all your matching outfits! Where do you get most of them? Do you all ever have “fans” recognize you when you’re out?

[@kc26119]

Good call to go to the hospital! You all are young and very wise! 🙏🏻

[@helenbell1988]

Awe some very detailed questions there !! I am just happy for you all and for John ,,. What do you do for “you” time ? A hobby or sport ? I hope all continues well with the pregnancy.... I am pleased your going to the hospital because better safe than sorry but no one is foreseeing any issues so that’s great news 😁

[@shelleygee6921]

Awesome, I love Q & A! Thanks! You two are the cutest together❤❤ Happy Labor Day weekend👍✌

[@foreveraftergirl]

I totally feel ya on the milk supply, 3 months was about as long as I could do it too. Fed is best!!! You go girl!!

[@carole3995]

So excited to see what your having!!!

[@tammythompson776]

I am a new subscriber and can't wait to meet your whole family. God is good all of the time. AMEN

[@kathyking8675]

You two are so fun to watch!

[@heidiholom8086]

Praying for you every day!

[@margenn3889]

Congratulations and best wishes for a safe and happy pregnancy and delivery.

[@trudyadevine9350]

You two are so cute hope everything goes well. Love the bates and John you are adorablr

[@christylee1963]

I love your family! I love seeing with your husband, you can feel God's love between you, and your girls are so cute! You vlog is Christian values, clean fun and a busy family, Love it!

[@CarolynDenise52]

Enjoyed your Q&A. Alyssa you look great. I never got morning sickness like what you are experiencing, but I did get the flu when my other 3kids were sick. Also, John and I share the same Birthday, Nov. 21. Take care and God bless you all.

[@matthewcarrubba2976]

Congrats to you on the news that you are expecting a new baby and my thoughts and prayers are with you for a safe and healthy pregnancy and God bless you all and stay safe and healthy. Love 💘, guys

[@reniekittelhinnenberg8593]

John, I understand you work in HVAC. Is this a family business? Is this the kind of work you expected to go into? If you had other work interests, what would it be? I love watching The Webster Family videos, your family seems so genuine and down to earth. Thank you for sharing your life.

[@Quilter1970]

Love that you guys are so “real”. John, do you own the A/C business? How many siblings do you have? If you don’t own this house, how can you do so many renovations?

[@rosebeth8045]

His family does

[@ashleighlancaster1683]

some landlords really don't care as long as it's done professionally and tastefully tbh. Especially when it's a long term lease.

[@kc26119]

Alyssa- how does your Cardiologist feel about you having more children?

[@ElizabethRodriguez-lj7ys]

You guys are the cutest and I love how John loves his girls💖💖

[@PriscillaBeb]

Y'all r so sweet. Happy that Y'all r blessed for a 4th time. Alyssa and John pls pray for my daughter. She's going thru alot health wise. God bless y'all

[@pinkywilliams8063]

Love you guys so much... excited for the baby

[@VictoriaMorrisa]

Hey Alyssa! What did you like and dislike about growing up the way you did? Which things from your childhood do you implement and not implement with your own kids?

[@sarahn.4775]

What is one of the hardest things about being a dad? And what is one the most rewarding things? (Besides the one you mentioned!😀)

[@conniecravens6270]

My oldest son was born on 2.17, thought he was gonna be a valentine baby ❤ Best wishes to you all 🌻

[@kristinerickson8350]

Yep!! Your having a boy! I craved fries from Wendys with my son. Praying for a safe delivery!!

[@sandybayes2252]

Adorable couple beautiful family. John, How is your gardening going? John, what food do you absolutely not like? Do you have daily prayer with your family? How can you stand the humidity in Florida?

[@taylorallmon]

My first thought when you said you thought about moving was "oh gosh what about the new closet?!" Lol i love master bedrooms and closets and that killed me!!

[@dlynn1228]

Congratulations...such a beautiful family

[@sierrawilson6632]

Question for each of you: How do you get time alone for just yourself and what do each of you like to do when you get that personal time away from the kids?

[@sherryturner8729]

John what are your hobbies and do you plan on coaching any of the girls in sports? What is your biggest pet peeve? Favorite color? Will the annual Valentine party be put on hold, early or will y’all have to miss it? I enjoyed hearing all about this pregnancy. Congratulations!!!

[@joanncookson7856]

Just started watching your videos. You have such a great family. What does John do for work?

[@Chuloon]

I don't want any children so its really neat to have a look into a family that has more than the average. I'm really excited to find out what you're having!

[@Nikkim17484]

I'm the same way John. I can't remember the days/weeks/months age thing either

[@kerryblagg7757]

You two are so cute together! For what it's worth, you will never regret having more children, but you might regret not having them, so if you're on the fence in the future, go for it. I love big families!

[@jannekeeisenga1343]

thanks guys for your Q&A and wish you all the best ! greets from the Netherlands

[@catherinerooks9964]

I'm happy yal are going to have your 4th baby. Allie is sooo cute about wanting to have a little sister. I think yal have a great mindset about what the gender is. Either way you'll be happy with either. That's always a positive way bc some people are like "Well we have a birl, now we're hoping for a boy".

[@TheNavajoMama]

I would love to know about savings tips, food budgeting, and how to garden. John, I would love to know how you do one on one with the girls. Id also love to ask how you're able to stay in shape while still providing and partnering up at home. Do you both work out together? How did you find a babysitter? How often do you have date nights? How do you communicate through disagreements? Here's one for Alyssa, how do you organize your vehicle?! I'd love to see that. 🙌🙌🌿

[@kathyfelton7602]

Questions for John. I know you have siblings. Where do you fall in the family line up. Are you close to your siblings and their families?

[@nessasbestdiy]

This was awesome... I love John's answers!

[@staceya.8779]

John, how did you know Alyssa was “The One”? Y’all are so cute! 🤗

[@nickyoxendine8135]

Did you join the family before or after the Bates first TV show, and how did you feel about being on TV? Love keeping up with you guys!

[@eeg122]

Hi and congratulations on baby #4. You guys have a beautiful family. About nursing; research "best foods to eat for nursing" and "foods to avoid for nursing". Food plays a large role in our milk supply just an fyi.

[@christiewoolyhand8104]

I had no idea y’all don’t own your home you live in now! Praying things workout for y’all!! Question for John would be if you had a day off what would you do?

[@amiebaker7484]

Congratulations you guys!🎊🎉

[@MandaWard71]

I've 7 children from 2 marriages....at 37 I realised I really didnt want to be changing nappies in my 40s so Edward was my last. I had hyperemesis gravidarum with him. We lost a child between him & his older sister. My older 4 are in their late 20s & my youngest is 11. I was 19 when I had my first & 37 when Ted was born. Already a grandma to 4 so life goes really fast. Enjoy every second. Love from the UK

[@stephaniehowell17]

Love watching this family!

[@jeremyharrison8334]

Mini cribs are great,that is what I purchased for my youngest granddaughter and absolutely love it.

[@tillygiresi406]

Blessings for a healthy pregnancy🙏🙏🙏

[@lauraodenwaldt8545]

I hope that question makes sense. If not I can always rephrase it

[@janettejohnson776]

Congratulations!!

[@Chelebelle1120_]

John is so funny!! Since poor John didn’t get any questions this time😂, here’s some. What’s your favorite thing about each of the girls? Which one is most like you? Which one would you say is most like Alyssa?

[@pennypacheco512]

Such an adorable family. I love your vlogs and your girls are such sweet little girls. I am kinda hoping for a boy. What fun the girls will have taking care of him and how lucky he will be to have three sweet sisters. A little girl would be great too because you make beautiful girls. Alyssa you are so sweet and a great mom and John a great dad

[@judymaminski3370]

John I think you are a wonderful husband, father and friend to your girls. I keep you and your family in my prayers all the time. I know how it is raining 3 Daughters since I have 3 daughters.they are all grown now but it was a wonderful experience having them. I did want a boy with each one. The funny thing I still Romberg what I was planning to name each one. God Bless and I can’t wait to find out what you are having. ALL BABIES ARE A BLESSING NO MATTER WHAT THEY ARE! Stay safe.

[@cathrinefrydenlund3180]

Mama of all boys (and auntie of a whole bunch of girls) here. My question for John: What do you enjoy and appreciate the most of being a dad to all girls? Do you look forward to or are you anxious about having 3 teen daughters in your house in about 10 years?

[@rubygriffin2558]

John what is your favorite sport to play? What sports did you play in high school/college? How many siblings do you have? How many sisters and how many brothers?

[@donnaspeer4073]

I love you guys your stinking cute ,great parents good people

[@teresaschneider6726]

My best friend from high school her mother had 15 children in 15 years. That was in the 80's. Good luck you and John. Be safe and careful. Bates family are awesome. I wish the show was on for a hour. Please UP TV. If it happens let us know. 🙂

[@katiebaird7330]

Question for John... what is your favourite thing about each of the girls?

[@heidiholom8086]

Hoping u have the baby 3 days early on my birthday!

[@Nunyabusiness82777]

I bet it’s a boy.. The bigger bump out front and more sickness.. We’ll see.. Happy and healthy ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Mrsmadison45]

Some of the questions people ask are private oh my goodness 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@mamatofive1]

Love watching you two together 😊 Watching you here compared to on your family’s show is SO different! I love this look into your life with you filming, editing, etc. yourselves! Can’t wait to find out baby’s gender! Either way, so excited for your fam! ❤️

[@theWebsterFamily]

Thank you!!! ♥️ We have loved having our own little space to share our lives.

[@montyollie]

I legally changed my name!! I am so glad I did! I love my new name.

[@rubygriffin2558]

Question 28. Do you nurse or bottle feed? It was a good question because I had to stop breast feeding my son when he was around 4 months and I wasn’t sure if I was the only one. Thank you for answering that. 😌 Enfamil is the best!

[@vickikurdziel7975]

You guys are to cute. Love watching your family. 😘😀😁😍😍

[@deannaraye2358]

John what do you give advice first time father and any marriage advice

[@loulajohnson3429]

Congratulations 🎉🎈

[@cherylsuds7882]

Our son was born on Feb 17th, he was due the 19th, my husband’s birthday. We had been married 9yrs and 2 weeks, when he was born. His heartbeat fooled everyone, I was told it was a girl by everyone. So happy he was healthy. That’s what counts. Fertility problem’s. So he is our only child. Congratulations !!💕🇨🇦👍🎀🎀🎀👶🏻