Q&A | YOUNG 1ST TIME PARENTS

[@alyssaterry3685]

I used to not think it was a big deal to post your kid, but after watching Sound of Freedom, my views have changed completely.

[@Kkb563]

Please don’t block me as I’ve been following you all since before the wedding…even just showing your child is considered exploitation…it’s a dark world on the internet…please protect that babies privacy and safety 🙏🏼♥️

[@merimichelle541]

I agree. Hope they at least blur the baby out.

[@thebobbleheaddiaries6921]

Yup. They found the holy content grail and the channel and views will explode making them 💰 I already feel bad for the child.

[@carlyosazuwa1713]

Yes I agree! I love them, but there are evil people in this world and we need to keep our children safe. The Bible is against exploitation too

[@fantuckstic]

💯 agree!! Child exploitation on social media should be illegal. I hope YT will ban family channels that show children under the age of 16. Seeing as the age of consent is 16 in most states. But from what little I've seen of these two...they are going to cash in on their baby. They're gonna bring in money on the pregnancy videos and get greedy. So, they don't want the gravy train to stop. I feel sorry for their baby.

[@melissa47550]

To the commenters against them showing their child... what's the difference of showing baby's face and outfits vs strangers seeing baby in person?

[@EmilyNMack]

We are going through infertility in this season of life, thank you for letting me share you and Gabe’s joy. It gives me hope ❤

[@shawna..p17]

Same

[@Rebekah28]

Sending prayers your way❤❤❤

[@taylorriddle2604]

Being able to pray over your baby by name is the sweetest reason ever, so so happy for yall!

[@serenafernandez2892]

you guys are SO respectful when you are talking! i really love this for you!!!!

[@morillomaria96]

I was a first time parent last year and it’s such a learning experience. never let anyone tell you how to parent or compare yourself to other parents. It will come naturally

[@Rebekah28]

Every woman needs to be loved & adored like Gabe loves Dru❤❤ Congrats on yalls blessing🥰🥰

[@alysuem]

“We’re not going to exploit our child” *has already exploited them countless times* y’all are a joke

[@genhigginbotham5195]

The video of you finding out is the sweetest thing ever!!!

[@kristenleblond5047]

Honestly, seeing the love that Gabe has in his eyes for you is EPIC!!!

[@kayleelewis1441]

i’m so so so excited for you guys!!🫶🏻🫶🏻 LOVE LOVE LOVE

[@JordanGodfrey-z9s]

I can definitely relate! Been trying for 7 years, and I struggle to be faithful in my wait but you guys give me a little hope ❤️❤️

[@miscellaneouschatswmistyrizzo]

girl, i took over 25 tests, still have them all!!! we are 1 week apart in gestational age and i’m so excited to watch your videos/updates! God is soooooo good and his timing is so perfect!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@taylornichole7263]

I’m pregnant with our first and we decided to find out the gender just us two and then reveal it to family after. It was so special to have that private moment to soak it all in and have it just between us for a few weeks before everyone knew I highly recommend. Gender reveal parties can be overwhelming but do whatever makes you guys happy!

[@MagenTrimble-i5e]

Since yall are first-time parents, I wanted to give you information that is helpful. My doctor always told me that it's not good to have extra parts in the car seat that don't come with it when you get it and also no blankets in the bed with the baby in a basinet or crib with the baby or no jackets on your kid in the carseat they said it's not safe for winter seasons

[@a123bot]

How do you plan on managing the doodles and a baby? I have 5 dogs myself and no children so I look forward to hearing your perspective ❤️

[@summerbollinger187]

Drue you are so blessed to have a husband to pray over everything with you! I’m so excited for y’all 😊❤

[@delilahmendoza2533]

Drue I love your hair this color so much! Excited to see you both in your parent era ❤️

[@hayleyswitzer8759]

I agree with you guys. Drue and Gabe congrats! Plus I feel like your sister has done a great job with showing your nephew without it being too much.

[@the_happy_hiker]

So excited for you all! I can’t say congratulations enough! ❤

[@lifeassaraa9967]

We started trying for baby #2 this month. I know I will be just as shocked the second time. For some reason it surprises me every time that my body can do this with Gods grace. I’m so thankful for you both 🥺❤️

[@aleesharenea1334]

It's a surprise every time no matter how many kids you have I'm pregnant for the fourth time and was shocked even though I have 3 kids already. Good luck.

[@lexikeopuhiwa]

Your response was perfect! Excited to see your baby and the journey. ❤

[@ashleyc.8378]

I was convinced I was having a girl because I was so sick, but then we found out it was a boy with a blood test. I still wasn’t convinced until our ultrasound 😂❤

[@jordanp6659]

If you’re comfortable could you make a video about everything you’ve tried when dealing with infertility issues? So happy for you guys❤❤ I’m at that 2 week wait now and it’s so hard

[@peachypeachh__]

The way Gabe looks at you is just pure love! You married the perfect man for you. ❤ God is so good.

[@Jay-sv3xg]

In regards to the morning sickness. I was so sick when I was pregnant with my boy for the entire pregnancy. For my girl, I have absolutely 0 morning sickness, nor was I sick. Either way, what a blessing! Congratulations 💙🩷

[@alliehutmacher6771]

I’m soooo excited to watch this part of your life!!!

[@prettylittlepaperbacks]

We are here for y'alls next chapter, praying and cheering you on!! 💖🙏🐻

[@gabriellacarrier9487]

Love yall so much and so happy for you guys!! Baby Basham is already so loved🥹 Can’t wait to watch this next chapter!!🤩

[@GoneWithTheGail]

Also: if you’re making a “career” Of vlogging-learn to rather stop screaming at the camera or fix it in post production. It sounds like you’re trying to scream so loud that we could hear you without the use of the speakers on the TV.

[@cindybaker2765]

Y'all are gonna be great parents it's totally normal to be scared I sure was happy to watch your family grow

[@mandachelle.]

We are a two mom family and preseed/prenatals/ovulation tracking worked for us too! I found out 11 DPO and was for sure by 14 DPO! I was pregnant March-December 2022! Our daughter is such a little miracle baby! I’m so excited for you guys!! I’ve said it so many times before but congratulations!! You guys will be the BEST parents! I think you’re having a girl! ❤

[@Hailey-mg4yk]

Im currently in my 2 week waiting period and it just makes me so anxious. We really tried this ovulation cycle. Had a miscarriage in October and just praying for an angel baby. I'm so happy for y'all and sending all my best wishes and will be praying for your sweet baby.

[@RhondaGray-j2p]

I'm so happy for y'all , y'all are gonna make good parents. God bless you both, & this new little baby...

[@victorialopez1236]

Congratulations! 💖 I am having a girl and did not have any morning sickness. My husband had all the symptoms. ☺️ currently 40 weeks & 1 day!

[@BRE_BRE07]

Yall have grown so much ❤ now going to be parents ❤ i pray for a healthy 🙏 pregnancy, remember dont worry about the haters or what they hsve to say!

[@jacobelizabethcombs1138]

When i found out my tests were all negative i was so sick. Turned out i was superrr early but blood work showed up of course and then after i found out by blood work the tests gradually showed up.

[@rosalopez9163]

Y’all can find out first and then revealed it to your family together in a cute way so in a way it’s a gender reveal for them 😊

[@christinabrooke7755]

I’m so happy for your family 💗

[@allyboyd9938]

I’m so over the moon excited for y’all! 🩷🫶🏻

[@RebeccaPirkle-wr2yn]

Congratulations on the pregnancy 🥳🎉🎶🎵💗💙! I Think It's Going To Be A Baby Boy 🍼🐥💙!

[@hayleewhitley2267]

I’m so happy for y’all!! I’ve been sick since I found out and I’m 32 weeks now! I was convinced it was a girl but I’m expecting a baby boy! God bless yall!!

[@skylerguthrie2706]

Have you guys had your first doctors appointment?? That made it feel so real for me!!

[@AliDawson-x6d]

Your content grows as your life grows. Your content is all about y’all’s lives. So as life changes your content changes. You are now pregnant so your content will reflect pregnancy. When you are giving birth you’ll have a birth content. Once y’all are parents your content will shift to being parents. Because your life has grown. That’s so normal and there’s a lot like that! And that’s okay!

[@haydenpeebles5794]

Are you gonna share when the baby is due? I am so so happy for yall!!!❤

[@TheBashamFamily]

Yes very soon🤍

[@ginagalpin5145]

Showing and talking about your baby is exploiting them period. Don’t make excuses for it. When your baby is here and you put that baby on here you will regret what you said in this video because people will call you out. All you people make excuses when you know showing and talking about kids gets you a lot of views and lots of money and we all know that’s why you all do it.

[@oliviamorgan2784]

I have watched you guys since your engaged era and i love your content so much! I always feel like i’m just on FaceTime with my best friend 😂 Anyways, I am super excited for you all and this new journey! I got engaged in July 2023, Married at the beginning of December 2023, and then found out I was pregnant with our first at the end of dec- 2 days before my 21st birthday !! it was such a surprise and not planned at all but 1000% Gods plan for our lives/marriage and a little blessing from Him!!! I am Praying for you momma and baby❤️🫶🏼

[@kaceypartin]

With my first child. I had Morning sickness so bad and a really cool fan blowing on me really helped. Awesome. I would keep snacks next to your bed. I would wake up in the middle of the night and I would eat a snack that helped As well

[@AshtynEvans-y9q]

I can’t wait to see this beautiful journey unfold and how ever ya’ll reveal sweet baby’s gender i know it’s gonna be a sweet special Moment for you both to experience together but i don’t have a preference what baby is but as long as he or she is a happy healthy sweet baby 🤍

[@dyllanmueller2403]

Loving Gabe's hair so cool 😊

[@angelbary1589]

Sooo excited for y’all!! I had four girls and every pregnancy was totally different! So ya never know ❤

[@Mikayela4444]

So happy for you guys! Hope that I’ll be a mom someday soon as well

[@mariealar6886]

They look /act 14 , have some growing up to do and quick.

[@annaburns8793]

I had morning sickness everyday my whole pregnancy with my last. I couldn't eat big meals. I literally ate snacks all day every 2 hrs almost. And I felt sick all day, so I sucked on hard candy.

[@aubreyleo9889]

Loved watching this! Definitely love exactly how you explained how your page plans to go! I agree this is a lifestyle page and I'm excited to see this new chapter and the many chapters to come!❤❤❤

[@SS14CC]

The thing is if your content changes, that’s fine!! Post what inspirers you. Post what makes you happen and is relevant in your life. A lot of content creators go through this. If your change becomes all about your baby it’s fine as long as y’all are happy.

[@fantuckstic]

So, you think exploiting babies and children for money is ok?? "Just as long as THEY (D&G) are happy!" Who cares about pedos online using their baby content for disgusting things?

[@maryacosta6979]

Did anyone else keep rewatching the part where the dog jumped over the couch & die at their faces.. no? Just me?! 😂😂

[@TheBashamFamily]

😂😂😂

[@kaylabartle7529]

Pretzel have been my most recent thing to snack on before bed and in the night Also when I was sick with my last 3 pregnancies I loved cheese itz , gold fish , saltine crackers , ginger ale , lemon candies helped me a lot

[@celinatalk]

Thank you guys for being so transparent & sweet in this video 🩷 I am very happy for you guys! Congratulations!!

[@karlymahoney5227]

I went through so many medical tests and procedures, and two medication cycles before I got pregnant. Many many tears, prayers, and trusting that God would allow my husband and I to grow our family. We started our TTC journey in September of 2021 and I found out I was pregnant in Nov of 2022. Our baby boy was born in July 2023. The entire time I was pregnant I kept calling the baby he before we found out he was a boy. Trust your instincts. Praying for a healthy pregnancy for you. ❤

[@kaylabartle7529]

I hate morning sickness with all 3 of my pregnancies. ( girl , boy girl) this pregnancy i haven’t been sick like at all just headaches and nausea, and the other pregnancy symptoms but no throwing up

[@shanigriffin]

Drue and Gabe, could y’all please say a prayer for my husband austin and I to conceive this year? We have been ttc for 2.5 years now and we are officially giving it to god and his timing!❤️

[@ShelbyDeniseLyles]

We were 100% convinced we were having a girl! We kept saying “she” and “her” too but once we saw that ultrasound of that little boy, we were floored!! Don’t feel ashamed if you have a little bit of gender disappointment, because it is so real! Took me a week or 2 to to come to terms with having a boy!

[@AlyshaPrice]

I am having a boy and I cried so hard on tbe way to find out because I didn't want to feel guilty about wanting a boy so bad.

[@amber.l2160]

Your dog on the counter scared the mess out of me at 8:50 ! I’m over here thinking there is a ghost. 😧

[@TheBashamFamily]

That would be moose😂😂

[@gracieglynn-wilson2427]

I know I would LOVE to see like first mom advice as well. Maybe just on instagram or facebook. It’s all in Gods hands and God has plans for everyone. So happy that you and your family have been blessed with a little one.

[@AliDawson-x6d]

I have three babies. Two boys then a little girl. The only one I was sick with was my little girl. I was soooo I’ll starting at 6 weeks and stayed sick until like 20 weeks. I did not puke but I felt like I was going to puke everyday all day but never could puke.

[@johnsonsjourney5309]

Is that puppy in 9:05 ? CONGRATS BTW!!! ❤

[@GiannaRios-p7e]

Where is your couch from ? :)

[@theochoas4758]

It’s always opposite of what everyone is thinking so I’m thinking boy but I’m just happy to see you and Gabe on this journey of parenthood

[@emilywalton4105]

My husband and I have been TTC for 3 months we’re just trusting in God. No test, no ovulation test, thermometer, etc. I’ve been cleared that I don’t have PCOS or may menstrual problems. I have people say it will take years. We are believing and trusting in the Lord that he will bless us with children. ❤Congratulations trust in the Lord when you feeling sick and emotional God is with you! Also protect your babies online exploiting your children means putting them on every video and you receive money for it. Keep personal things private like child name, where you live, baby doctor appointments, etc. There’s a lot of sickos out in the world protect your babies. ❤

[@antoniaspringston4544]

Just wondering. Are you going to be sharing bump dates or anything as you progress along??

[@kaitlynblount7493]

I am so excited for you two!🤍 a little blessing to the Basham family! I also think you are having a baby boy🩵 & I am also super excited we get to do this pregnancy journey together!🙏🏼🤰🏼 & I am also moving to Texas in a couple months!! Hoping we run into each other sometime!

[@cammck2116]

Question: when are you due? I’m due early August. 💕

[@magicalvacationplanningbyk3165]

The last time I was pregnant we did the old wise tales and unfortunately I lost him but he was definitely a boy! And when we adopted my son we didn’t know his gender but I knew in my heart he was a boy it’s mom intuition

[@haeleeard-vi1yn]

your content will continue to grow as yall do! that’s how i see it

[@shawna..p17]

Really happy for you guys❤️ on that note… what’s the car story??? Drue got a new whip?😅

[@ImanisLifeStyle6480]

Love y’all so much and y’all are and is going to be amazing Godly parents and Thea in up ur child in the Lord so I’m excited for u all I love u all so much and the baby ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ashton201000]

I am currently pregnant with a little boy and I couldn’t stand food in general or the smell of cooking until about 14 weeks so you never really know and I have already experienced a girl pregnancy and I was fine with her barley sick in the beginning and then the rest of the pregnancy was smooth sailing. This pregnancy with my boy has been alot harder on me I am older now but funny about different types of food and picky. With my daughter, I could eat anything so every pregnancy is different but I wish you guys all the best and love♥️ you guys will be happy, no matter what the baby turns out to be!

[@jericaharness8383]

Are you going to share your labor and delivery journey ??

[@TheBashamFamily]

That’s the plan! But if it doesn’t work out that way I won’t be upset 🤍🤍

[@emilyplace00]

Do you have a family doctor picked out or a OB?

[@TheBashamFamily]

Of course . That’s one of the very 1st things we did!

[@emilyplace00]

@@TheBashamFamilyI can’t wait to watch your little family grow. ❤

[@ashleytruett5787]

I think the baby is a boy. Also it’s perfectly fine and normal to want one gender over the other and to be grateful for whatever the baby is! Also gender disappointment is very very normal. If you have that when you find out don’t feel guilty or bad. I definitely did the first baby cuz it was a boy and I wanted a girl but it’s all normal. We are all blessed mamas!! 🤍

[@jordanblackman165]

How are dealing with aniexty? And thank you for sharing the fears you had!

[@AllisonWilson-h3m]

My husband and I just found out the gender of our baby and I’m so glad we didn’t do a big gender reveal, we just opened the envelope in the car after the 20 week scan then called people after and I’m so glad we did it that way 💕

[@roses609]

Great Q&A

[@haileymacgregor5866]

2 things to say you guys first of all, congratulations on your little baby in second. Winter due date

[@JessicaW-y6i]

I wanted to tell you that cloth diapers make the best burp clothes!

[@joannabaygar1983]

When i was pregnant with my son. I knoe i was having a boy. Always wanted to have a boy. Now, i have my one and only son. Just be blessed on what ever god gives you boy or girl.

[@taylorhaste_]

Drue you’re literally GLOWING

[@sabrinaholt2853]

I’ve been trying for 2 years now on trying to pregnant, do you have any tips or do I need to go see a obgyn like I just don’t know what else to do. If you don’t want to respond it’s fine just please if you don’t mind keep me in your prayers and hopefully I’ll have my miracle baby soon

[@KarenT1964]

The morning sickness is a myth . I had a boy & two girls . I was terribly sick with my son , first born & not sick with 2nd a girl & 3rd was a girl terrible sick . So , it doesn’t matter gender. 😳

[@heyitsjules333]

SO HAPPY for you two! Im pregnant with a baby girl🩷 can't wait its our first baby!!

[@crystalstuller2649]

It will be enriched with a perfect little miracle!! I will watch all the things!!❤❤❤

[@brittneyrivera4523]

I know you may be still early in your pregnancy but take those bump pics ! I wish i would have taken more with my son and now here we are over two years of trying to conceive for our second baby and i don't have alot of pictures of me while i was pregnant before.

[@GirlBossHayes]

I love when I get that random noti that you all have dropped a new video over here! I know I’ve said it a million times but I am so so over the moon excited and happy for you all! You and Gabe deserve this sweet baby more than anything and you will make the best mama and daddy. I do want to say tho, you all do as you please. If you want your content to be a majority of your pregnancy and nothing else that is your choice. You’re going into a season of your life where you will grow more as a person than any other time in your life and this will be the time where you all hopefully start ignoring ppl and let the nonsense roll off your back. No one else in this world matters besides that sweet baby and your family! This is also where you will find your true people. The people who will be there no matter the circumstances. 💛💛

[@jenniferwright5406]

Questions for Q&A number 2 (that you’re comfortable answering): What have been your biggest pregnancy cravings? Are you going to wait to reveal baby name until baby is born? How do you think the fur babies will react/will you record their reactions? How many babies do you think you want? (You may have already answered this).

[@jenniferwright5406]

Sorry, I commented as I was watching. 😂

[@yasminecastro1148]

Moose getting on the counter at 8:49 lowkey scared me 😂

[@katiebain9328]

not the family vlogging excuses… DO NOT SHOW YOUR CHILD ON SOCIAL MEDIA. Please be better than that.

[@Misspamela2004]

Myob

[@lisacherry7322]

i always wanted my boy first.. so he could be his sisters protector!! my boy is 22 and my girl is almost 16. and he is absolutely her protector, even though she hates it 🤣😂😆

[@kimfellner8853]

I love y’all and am praying!

[@kristenleblond5047]

Keep something by your bed for the am. Saltine's, cheerio's, maybe some oyster crackers. Nothing too heavy. Eat it before you even try to get out of bed. It might help. I struggled with morning and night sickness. Never during the day. First thing in the AM. Then by the time 6:00pm came? I was like, nope!! I couldn't even smell food cooking, look at food, nothing to do with food. I actually lost weight my first 4-5 months pregnant. It was that bad. I know exactly what you are going through. It will pass!!! Trust me!!!