OUR BIRTH STORY...

[@haileymarshbank3733]

You can tell through this video how this experience has matured Gabe so much and honestly it’s so sweet to see, he’s such a natural dad and Ivory looks just like him!

[@chatikastull2946]

My 1st son was natural-but my twins girls was delivered C-section. I had a rough experience after birth. My incision dehisced and my husband had to pack my wound 3 times a day, help me get a bath. I felt like a young that I had failed due to not being able to care for my babies. You precious baby girl looks just like her mommy, but she could change and look like daddy later. Congratulations to you both from Mt. Sterling, Kentucky 👣👣🩷🩷

[@amandacornett5680]

The same thing happened to me but I had an up and down incision. 27 staples just unzipped lol. For 3 months it had to be backed. Tried natural labor. From the time my water broke, 29 hours later I had a C-section. That they cut into a hernia during. My spinal wore off, I tried to throw my leg off the table and run. Had to knock me out

[@allydani1014]

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[@allydani1014]

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[@emilygehrig5470]

I think she looks just like mom ❤

[@simplynya2432]

As a labor nurse this is the most informative birth story a dad has ever been involved in! Great job Gabe for being so involved and advocating for your wife! Congratulations on your new baby ❤

[@addisonwallace9207]

As a postpartum nurse, we love dads like Gabe! Such an amazing support person

[@itshannah8972]

I love that Gabe gives his perspective while allowing Dru to speak as well. 😭

[@Thinksmart942]

Gabe is the goat! He remembered every detail. I think Gabe can delivery a baby now. Congrats, you two! Thanks for sharing your story. Great job, Drew!

[@morganblair8190]

You can tell Gabe is a natural at this! He is so obsessed with her you can tell. He’s doing great with her 😭😭 ❤

[@alyssawaters3154]

Drue you are a true warrior, don’t ever think you have failed. You brought a little beautiful baby girl in the world and that right there proves how strong you are. I think we can all say as fans that we are so proud of you! Good job momma ❤

[@mprncs13]

you guys SOUND like such parents now 🥹💗 congratulations on your baby girl god bless that everything went well, despite the bumps in the road you guys faced! She’s beautiful 💗🍼

[@briandaaguilar6699]

A new bigger love was encountered not only with Ivory, but for each other!!!! The way you both look at each other is amazing!!!!

[@maiyalynne5020]

Praise God mama & baby Ivory are well. Thank you for the story, sending so much love to your family. ❤

[@Xmisundersto0d]

as a fellow c section mama your feelings were valid! i felt the same way during my first c section! my oldest also would NOT come out natural! i had an emergency c section and felt the same way you did! But let me tell you us c section mamas are still warriors! we have been cut hip to hip and up walking the same day! i’m so proud of you Drue! ❤❤❤ congratulations!

[@Xmisundersto0d]

oh and a planned c section will be A LOT smoother! it’s like night and day! & you can put the in front of a bright lite up window just in a diaper to help with the jaundice color all 3 of mine had it!

[@sherylbrown7957]

Agree 💯 just had my son July 30 2024 at 39 wks via c section because he was breech and felt defeated. In the end we are both happy and healthy and that’s what matters girl.. congratulations motherhood is truly the best adventure 🎉❤️

[@faithholliday4224]

I wish that was the case but I had to stay in a bed 24 hours before they let me up and move around

[@SylvannaCade]

I had a c section as well my birth story makes me cry everytime

[@angiekeown3912]

Gabe you're the man!!! Drue & Ivory are lucky to have you! Definitely the true definition of in sickness & health. And Drue you're not a failure! You did what was needed to deliver Ivory. Way to go mamma!! Ivory is beautiful!! Best wishes to you all!

[@leahhahn7187]

Post partum nurse here! What a beautiful story! And I can say from my experiences with seeing my patients, you definitely bounce back faster with a smooth, planned c section vs an emergent one (especially after pushing for 2 hours! And that is because your body is already so exhausted and it goes through a major surgery). We also LOVE seeing dads like Gabe being so involved and supportive! It makes a huge difference in recovery as well, too!! Congratulations ❤️

[@alexuspeavy1440]

I’m pregnant with my first and seeing Drue relive the trauma made me so emotional. You did it though Mama, look at that beautiful baby girl! 💗

[@brandysanders6454]

I last gave birth 21 years ago and it made me emotional. My story wasn’t like this but it was traumatic in it’s on way. My babygirl was a Godsend to my family. Drue, you did great and you should be proud. And at the end of the day, no matter what the birth story looks like, you and Gabe are Ivory’s parents and the birth is just a second in time in the life of Basham Family, party of 3.

[@TheShaybaby2020]

Dure, You literally had your body RIPPED open to bring that baby into the world. You gave your mind, body and soul to bring her into the world. You are NOT a failure, you’re a heckin’ WARRIOR! I also had to use pitocin, and my daughter’s heart rate kept dropping, I had to have the monitors on her head, and had 19 hours of labor!!! My OB was also not at the hospital, My bed was literally taken off the brakes and I was about to be rolled back for an emergency C section just like you but last second my OB showed up and had me push with the tugging sheet and 30 minutes later she made her appearance into the world. We almost had the same experience.

[@sherrygarza9935]

Never feel like you were a failure. Everyone’s delivery is different. You are a warrior you raised a baby inside of you which makes you a great mama from the start. And to have to go through what you did takes a strong woman. Congratulations 🎉

[@lorenataylorz]

I appreciate when content creators are real and raw. So thank you and continue to be real. Who cares what people have to say. Just know someone appreciates it!

[@lnearnest]

Let me just say….the way you two love each other is truly amazing!!! Baby Ivory is absolutely gorgeous! You two are the most precious parents! ❤

[@Hannah-r8n]

Gabe so in love with his little girl! It’s so cute to see yall become parents! Yall are gonna be the bestt

[@bekahdawson5597]

This right here had me in tears. Birth has scared me. My whole life I said I wouldn’t have kids because of birth. I had my boy 9/15/23. And it was the most perfect experience. But having that experience and it going so smoothly makes me more empathic towards mamas who have a traumatic experience. I feel your pain when telling this story. And I’m here to remind you, Drue, you ARE a good mama. You have prioritized Ivory since day one and will continue to do that. Praying for a smooth transition for your sweet family.

[@neelymcknight]

Ugh when he said he heard her cry I busted out crying! So proud of you Drue, you too Gabe! You both made a beautiful baby girl!🥲

[@alexisulibarri1]

Me too😩 I’m crying so much

[@cyeriagreen]

I can only imagine how hard it was to open up and share your story. I know there are so many out there or may have had a similar story and you guys are giving them someone to find comfort in. I’m so glad everyone is doing well and home 🩷 baby girl is so precious and it’s so heartwarming to see you guys become parents 🥰 yall are doing an amazing job and i pray God continue to be with you and comfort you always 🙏🏼

[@cyeriagreen]

To answer your ending: i have two babies, a girl (almost 3) and a son (4months). Both of my babies deliveries were about the same. I went in for induction (my body does not move on its own lol) i had Pitocin and then got the epidural + water broken. About 14 hours in and 2 hrs of pushing my daughter made her arrival but she had something called shoulder dystocia but was okay. My son after about 12hrs and really 5 mins of pushing made his arrival. His was way more painful. I guess the way he decided to come out it cut off my epidural from my lower half so i felt a lot more with his! I felt so bad for other moms that probably heard me yelling lol

[@KaylaFofayla89]

The way Gabe loves you is truly beautiful! I hope my daughter finds a good man like this in her life when she is old enough. ❤

[@KaylaFofayla89]

And congratulations on miss Ivory!

[@PoiutVioe]

You really don't know how amazing your spouse is until they save you when you're at your most vulnerable and don't hesitate to do so.

[@lindsayschultz5315]

Gabe is such a champ! I love how he was explaining this. Absolute husband goals

[@keyshaunap366]

How many times I cried during this video is crazy. Gabe’s love for you both is so apparent and beautiful. Congratulations❤

[@funnsizedd123]

All nurses are awesome but postpartum nurses are life changing!!!! I will NEVER forget them cleaning my blood and helping me walk, teaching me to swaddle, they were angels and I am beyond grateful.

[@jaelynsheldon461]

Oh my goodness sweet Drue! So glad you and the baby girl are well and everything turned around! 🩷🩷🩷 You are so strong!

[@autumnbarwick6415]

y’all are so strong and i’m so glad you have gabe. having a good daddy & husband is a GAME changer!

[@samanthah7865]

Gabe just talks to the camera so natural as if we’re sitting right in front of them! Congratulations! She’s perfect!

[@denvirclarke3]

So amazing how much Gabe took ahold of the reigns and rocked it in dad mode! I can only imagine how scary this was for you Drue. I just had my second baby on August 6th and he had heart decelerations during labor as well. If I didn’t reach 10cm so quickly and push him out in literally a minute and a half (very quick coached pushing, yes I tore 2nd degree) they were going to take him via c section. Both of my births were fine but I would still describe the experience as traumatic honestly. Even my first birth where nothing “went wrong” I would still cry talking about it for weeks. I too couldn’t have done the postpartum recovery without my husband. I see women whose husbands don’t even stay the night at the hospital and I’m like HOW. Thank you for sharing your story. I loved watching. Will be cheering y’all on through parenthood. Ivory is a lucky girl!

[@dizzymae123]

You did not fail, Drue! You kept ivory safe for 9 months, it was Gabe’s turn to take care of her AND you. Ivory is lucky to have you both! Our baby also did the 24 hour jaundice treatment, we had to laugh and say he needed a tan after being in hibernation for 9 months . that was the most miserable night of our lives but we look back and realize how far we’ve come! My babies heart rate also kept dropping during labor and I will always remember the fear it brought everytime they said it.

[@stephaniemoan3654]

you’re not alone in your feelings! with time, we accept the birth story God gave us and the most important piece, our babies, are here. 💛💛 congratulations drue and gabe!!

[@abbyholloway380]

I’ll be honest, I was not the biggest fan of Drue and Gabe. But hearing this story, man I feel for them. I feel like Gabe matured so much through this experience and I grieve for Drue and her birthing experience. Drue, you’re not a failure. You tried you very best and literally had a major surgery to birth your baby. She knows who her momma is and you two will be best friends. You have to remember to take care of yourself and give yourself time to heal so you can be the best momma you can for her. Use your village so you can rest and recover. I can’t imagine not getting to hear my baby’s first cry and not hold her right away. It’s okay to grieve the birth you wished you had, there’s nothing wrong with that and it doesn’t make you a bad mom. You truly did all you could to get her here. You are still a great mom!

[@Raven_Rays7]

Being a new mom and recovering from having a surgery is so hard and it’s okay that it toke some time. Gabe did a great job stepping up and taking care of Drue and baby. I’m so happy you guys have a healthy baby girl now!!

[@briandaaguilar6699]

I clicked so fast!!!! Congratulations to you both!!!! Being parents is the most wonderful blessing in the world!!!! You both are going to be amazing mommy and daddy to Ivory girl!!!!

[@AmandaPanda2489]

Meeee too!!! I love them! They are so great! What a blessing

[@angieyoung4817]

Yes!! Mee too!! They are ALL precious!! 💝💝💝

[@MissOksoonerfan2000]

You guys are wonderful story tellers!! Such great detail!! I’m glad everyone is doing well ❤ you two are going to be AMAZING parents, anyone can see from your videos even before she was born!! Congratulations!! I don’t know you but I’m so proud of you both!! ❤❤

[@janettecw9934]

You never know how great your husband is until they have to help you out in your most vulnerable moment and not thinking anything negative about it.

[@KrioeLrin]

When your spouse comes to your aid when you're at your most vulnerable and doesn't think twice about it, you truly do not realize how wonderful they are.

[@HailiesAnimalFarm]

Momma you are not a failure. You did great. Gabe is awesome telling this story and a great person for helping Ivory and Drue. Cannot wait to watch more videos of you guys becoming parents. You are already amazing parents and Ivory is absolutely beautiful ❤️❤️

[@09eatmydust]

I had to comment…girl…never take him for granted, because he is one of the rare ones. I had a very similar story with my first birth and what I would have done to have had such loving , caring, and attentive hubby like yours that genuine cared as much as hers. Y’all two are absolutely adorable and are going to make awesome parents. Also, the way you husband described with such detail and knowledge, shows just how intelligent and supportive he is. He was so meant to be a dad! Mom, you are also going to be great and remember it is all a learning process…that’s for sure!!!

[@merilissekleinrock7034]

Drue, the level of trauma you experienced is more than anyone should ever have to deal with. It is very fresh right now, and it will take a long time to process. There is a whole grieving process you will go through, and the trauma will sneak up on you when you least expect it (I say this from personal experience). But please know, you did NOT fail, you are a warrior. You are so unbelievably strong. And you are an amazing mama.

[@daleewalker492]

So proud of you guys! You’re not a failure! You done something so beautiful! 💕 Ivory is beautiful! Can’t wait to watch her grow up!

[@dorigarman4153]

Congratulations! She's perfect and Drue you delivered your baby through fear and anxiety and put her first. You were a Mom even when you feel you weren't. Cant wait to watch her grow! Thank you for sharing.

[@sarahzapien-lh9le]

you guys are doing AMAZING. god has a plan and you guys are going to be so so much stronger after this!

[@graciesalazar8193]

The way you can hear Gabe’s pain when he talks about not being able to be in that room with you after experiencing everything you went through. It was said so beautifully and you did an amazing job Drew. The way us mamas will do anything over again for those babies no matter how traumatic. Your story is amazing and she’s so lucky to have you guys as parents. God is so good- you guys are all healthy and home and able to tell your story to the world. I had a c section in May and I know recovery is brutal so take this time to rest and take things slow. Use all the help you can and ask for help even when you know you can do it on your own. Hormones are wild after birth so cry when you need to and pray all the time. You will get through this beautiful season you’re never alone. 🤍

[@shannonvoss5262]

Drue…. Our stories are so similar. I was crying with you because there’s no words to explain when they tell you C-section after you made it that far. My boy is 3 months old and you’ve brought back so many little memories that hit that mama spot 🥺 God bless you and your family. ❤️

[@chaylihowell8092]

so happy to see y'all on the other side of this with your sweet baby :) she's beautiful and you CRUSHED it mama!!

[@tybusha]

This was comforting because I didn't hold my baby until 36 hours after his birth and I felt all the same things. Momma, we are amazing, I'm so happy for you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@earthyadventurer]

I love how Gabe is so involved 💕 Parenthood looks amazing on both of you 🥰

[@brendaquintero6241]

Not me being 39 weeks pregnant crying seeing this 😭😭 Congratulations 🎉 so happy to hear your all doing well 🤍✝️

[@marissamaxine4093]

I’m 15 weeks and cried too!!

[@catyg5908]

C section mama here! I totally feel you. Saw my baby for 2 seconds before she was transported to a different NICU 30 minutes away. Finally got to the same hospital via ambulance around 3 am. Couldn’t hold my baby for the first 4 days. She wasn’t eating the first 3 fourth day nurses were feeding her plus sending nutrients she needed through her IVs. Finally now feeling like I can talk about it. (She will be 10 months tomorrow) but i definitely understand the traumatic experience. Felt awful because I wasn’t progressing, felt awful because I couldn’t hold her, felt awful because i couldn’t feed her. After 7 days in the NICU we were able to bring her home and it was the biggest blessing.

[@chelsvandezande9876]

I'm. 2x c section mama. My first was emergency fully put under and I felt sooo robbed and had to grieve for a long time. Takes a strong mama every birth is beautiful ❤️

[@lightingmyfire]

Same experience for me the first time. It was so traumatic. Second was a scheduled c section and it was SO healing for me. Definitely takes strong mamas 🥰

[@CourtneyBowman-h7y]

Drue I know you probably won’t see this, but I just want to tell you I had almost the EXACT same birth experience with my first. I labored for over a day and a half, ending in a c section as well, needing general anesthesia too. I just want to tell you, it is possible to have a positive birth experience after this one. Getting to pick a day, and go in without laboring that long, and getting your epidural, is such a different experience. It is so exciting, and your healing will be night and day after your body not being exhausted before even starting surgery. My second and third CS were a breeze! You are NOT a failure. Just don’t forget to take care of you!! You guys are adorable, and such good parents already! Congrats ❤️

[@christine2781]

Fellow C-section mama here. My oldest (28yrs) C-section 5 1/2 early and breach, my second(26yrs) was V-back, my 3rd (20yrs) was C-section after 48hrs labor with no progression, my last baby (17yrs) was a C-section because I had already had two previous C-sections. Your feelings are valid sweet girl. She looks just like you Drue, definitely your mini me. Congratulations on your beautiful baby.

[@BreannLowe]

Ivory definitely has Daddy's dark hair, but has Mommy's most beautiful looks

[@amandagil7712]

As a 38 year old, this warms my heart. You guys both are amazing parents. And I do not know you all personally, but I believe you two are amazing human beings. All the love from the Netherlands

[@sheilahampton6574]

Congratulations Basham Fam! I'm so happy for you guys!! Ivory is so precious ❤

[@snj1993]

This video made me cry!!! It made me recall my labor/trauma and how upsetting and how bad you feel because you can't help and do anything for your baby!!! My daughter was in the NICU for almost two months and had to be under the lights and hated the glasses as well!!! I am so glad Ivory and you are doing so much better Drue!!!

[@mariahandsons]

I had my second c section (after my first being an emergency) on 8/23 (our babies are so close in age!) and let me tell you, it was such a redemptive experience. So much less scary + so much more peaceful. Don’t let it scare you from more kids, it can be so much better next time. ❤

[@nicolepadilla663]

You guys are so amazing, I totally understand how Drue felt when told she had to have a C-section. I went through the same thing with my daughter. Lots of hugs and love to you guys….love watching your videos and following your story ❤️

[@cherylpelletier3165]

Wow!! Weren't going to exploit the kid, huh? And you start out from the beginning . Liars , liars

[@toridetray262]

Amazing job mama. And amazing job Gave for stepping up for your girls and being the best husband and daddy. Blessed girls. Birth is a roller coaster! Nothing you can 100% control mama! ❤

[@clarebridgeman9773]

I can’t understand a word she says, she’s sounds like she is on fast forward 😂😂

[@aplainjaneproduction8285]

If you watched this on the DCP channel, it was

[@kathleenwilliams1049]

Tha k you for sharing your story so openly. You are so strong and brave! My first, I was induced at 39 weeks. Labor for 36 hours. Pushed for 2. C section. I was awake and got to hold him that day. My hips are also too narrow. I had trouble bonding with him at first. He's almost 5 and I love him so much! My 2nd is 18 months. Planned c section. Sooo much better. I got to hold her before my husband, he held our oldest first, and it was so sweet ❤ praying for you through your post partum journey. You got this. All 3 of you! So excited for you.

[@jaynehearld3357]

You are so strong!! I had a similar traumatic experience, but wouldn’t change it. I was losing a lot of blood and wasn’t able to hold my daughter and she was born. My husband had to jump right in, just like Gabe. I was on bed rest for 5 days after an infection. Dad was doing absolutely everything for me and our daughter. I was in awe! Both you and Gabe are amazing parents! Ivory is going to be so proud one day to have you as a momma!

[@abbyvance1092]

This was so sweet! The love you two have for each other is so evident. I ended up having a c-section with our daughter in May, too.. I had a terrible car accident at 11 weeks pregnant and actually broke my back(from T8-L2 so I have rods and screws in my spine), 8 ribs and my cervical collar. I had to learn to walk again and everything and have permanent nerve damage in my right leg so I can't feel it. Long story short, I had to have a c-section due to my injuries. It wasn't what I had originally planned, but I wouldn't trade it for the world. Our experience with it was truly a blessing and I would do it 1000x over for her. Thank you for sharing your real, raw story with us! You ARE strong, brave, and a wonderful mama! So thankful for a healthy mama and a healthy baby!!! God is good!

[@wilkinskimberly]

Drue …. If I could take one word away from you …it would be the word failure… you endure most mom to be’s nightmare… you pulled through like a champ! I’m so grateful you’re still here to tell all of us about it!!! Your awesome!! Good job on the both of you! And may the family life begin! ❤

[@patsysmallwood513]

Congratulations to you both! You are great parents I can tell already. Drue, you absolutely did not fail. You done everything you could. God had other plans that day. I hope your recovery goes well. She’s a beautiful baby girl.

[@annamack6526]

Thank you for sharing your story it’s so honest and real and much needed to support moms out there who have a similar story to you ❤️

[@tonya-k2e]

Omg you both were amazing! What a blessing to have such a beautiful little girl and you both are going to be such amazing parents!

[@tayloraguilar9577]

Just here to say the way Gabe looks at you is absolutely incredible. He loves you both so much & you can tell he truly was torn on how to pick between you two. What an incredible birth story you both overcame.

[@sandravasquez7151]

Awwww congratulations to the both of you 😢❤ thank you for sharing and I hope you have a speedy recovery

[@whitneyganey3306]

You did such an amazing job. Not seeing. Her for that long is so saddening! I am so sorry for that! You are a bad as!! Thank you Gabe for being so amazing.

[@WhitneyMcDuff]

As a fellow emergency c section mom, your feelings are 1000% valid! I had all of those feelings! I had my second baby in April with a scheduled c-section and I was scared to death to have another c section because my first one was so traumatic but my scheduled c section was such a healing moment for me. It was a night and day experience! You got this mama! And way to go, Gabe!

[@simplykay755]

wow, seeing the absolute love and the way you guys look at each other... ❤ I've watched your content for a while but this one hits different.

[@channamundis6629]

Hope your healing well and I can say I know what you went through our story's are literally almost exactly the same. She is a beautiful little girl and you guys will be amazing parents.

[@Amanda-nc5sy]

I’m so glad everyone is happy and healthy!! You did amazing Mama & Dad!!

[@baileyoldroyd2519]

You two are incredible parents, baby girl is so lucky! ❤️ Gabe you are an incredible husband, Drue you are an amazing mama🥰 what an amazing team you both are ❤ as a postpartum CNA dad’s like Gabe are our favorite ❤

[@mistyladner2181]

Bless y’all’s heart ! Gabe your are amazing! And Drue you are a tough one 👏🏼 good job !!

[@AmyMunday]

Beautiful birth story! So glad yall are ok! I enjoy watching yalls journey. Ivory is beautiful. Gabe is such a good husband & dad! ❤️

[@AmyMunday]

Ivory def is her momas twin!😉

[@lindseam7776]

Thank you for sharing your story!! I also had a c section July 12th of this year, very unexpectedly at 36 weeks exact. I went to work that morning and then around lunch my blood pressure went way up. I went to labor and delivery and it started with oh we are just going to monitor you for 24 hours to we are going to induce you to actually you have to have a c section and possibly go to the ICU if your blood pressure doesn’t go down after baby’s arrival. All of that in less than 10 hours!! It was a little traumatic but worth it for my sweet baby boy. Birth is so scary sometimes but you did great and now you have your perfect little girl. I’m so happy for both of you!❤️

[@ElieenRodriguez]

I just wanna start by saying you aren’t a failure you’re a strong/ brave mommy!! I had my daughter at 36 weeks 0 days I had gotten induced due to preeclampsia & high blood pressure I got two epidurals and still felt everything I pushed for 2 hours and baby girl finally came in to this crazy world at 5 pounds!

[@morganarnold2084]

Man so many tears for yall!!! She is precious!!! Congratulations to yall!!

[@becomingnovah41]

with my first i stopped feeling her kicking & ended up having to have an emergency c section at 25 weeks due to a placental abruption, both my girl and i were hours away from death, shes 4 now and thriving.. i finally felt ready for another child 4 years later and made it to 33 weeks and had to have an emergancy c section… 1st was in the nicu for 106 days & the second for 48 days ! i felt like a failure too but let me tell you, you are SO strong drue and you did not fail! youre amazing for enduring that & everything you went through ! youre an amazing momma already💖💖💖

[@ericasherwin1033]

Gabe and Drue you truly went through a trauma! I would recommend seeing someone to talk through it❤️

[@triciahebert2155]

We have such a similar story. every thing you said i feel so deeply, but you did so amazing momma and I’m so happy you are both safe and y’all are home taking care of that sweet baby girl!🫶🏼

[@cherylharris7157]

You guys r doing so good Ivory is a lucky lil girl to have such sweet parents like you guys Love ya's❤

[@kyleehansen84]

Drue! I just have to say you did from the sound of it so amazing! I just wanted to tell you a little bit of my birth story! I was on Pitocin as well. I went to about an 8 1/2 before I got the epidural. It ended up failing I was still a little bit numb but I could still feel everything and I had my son at 36 weeks. And now I’m on another journey with my daughter that’s coming in February! Don’t feel defeated that you weren’t there for your daughter you brought a beautiful baby into this world with lots of love. My son was also very jaundice but he did not have to be under the light. I’ve heard lots of other stories of moms that don’t get to see there kids for DAYS and it’s heart broken to hear moms that have to go through that but it’s great that you have a wonderful husband by your side! I don’t know what I would have done without mine. Much love! ❤️

[@Virginiasmile]

My heart is so full. Thank you for sharing your birth story Gabe and Drew. I'm sorry things were difficult but you both handled it the best you could. God was with you every step of the way and the blessing of baby girl is proof of His love. Congratulations family! Drew, please don't be hard on yourself. That was a lot and you're an amazing mom already. I see it 💖. Gabe so very well done husband and dad!!!! Continued blessings Basham Family ❤

[@AllisonWilson-h3m]

I was very lucky to have a successful induction, very little pitocin and things moved along great. 2.5 hours of pushing was TOUGH, but I made it through and we got to meet our little girl June 1st. I am with you Drue, I worried about that dang epidural for 9 months and it was nothing just the sting from the numbing. I honestly think it all looks worse than it is and I am so grateful the anesthesiologist kept everything covered till he was behind me. I was a ball of nerves the whole time and was so embarrassed how many times I told the nurses I was scared but they were amazing and helped me work through the fears (along with a great hubby like you Gabe!). Men are amazing too, but God knew if they had to do all this the human race would not have kept going 😅. Great job momma and congrats you two!!

[@hannahchampion6489]

Thank you for sharing your birth story! Ours is very similar, I pushed for 3 hours and turns out my pelvis was too small as well and ended up having to get a c section with my baby girl as well! It’s nice to know I’m not alone! You have such a beautiful baby girl! I’m praying for healing for you mama! Congratulations!! 🩷🥰

[@paulacalle2186]

I’m so proud of you both! My heart aches for 0:15 what you both went through. I will say your love for Jesus and your trust in him is evident in how you both have navigated through this first week! Your strength, courage and humor are why you will be amazing parents! God Bless your entire family! It just gets better from here! ❤❤❤

[@ashleycissell8142]

Exactly everything isn’t perfect or goes as plan. Drue your a badass for going every part of child birth possible!!!

[@sarahzapien-lh9le]

Drue, this was really amazing.. and scary at the same time.. my baby was born in March and it went perfect not one single thing went wrong and your story just shows me how grateful I am for that happening.. I know every birth is different and I hope my next birth goes just as smooth as my first but you truly opened my eyes to be more aware of things that can happen.. Congratulations on your baby girl & I hope the best for you and Gabe !!!

[@nicolejohnson5550]

To the Basham family, Congratulations on your beautiful little angel! Ivory is truly a blessing from God. Drue, I've watched you handle social media challenges with grace and faith, and your content reflects wholesome values we can all admire. My daughters adore your channel, and you’ve been a remarkable role model. Now, as a mother, your wisdom and love will be passed on to your own daughter. We look forward to watching your family continue to grow. May God bless you with His finest blessings. Lord, thank you for keeping mom and baby safe. Bless Drue with a speedy recovery and guide both Drue and Gabe as they embark on this journey of parenthood. May they continue to grow in strength, love, and wisdom, raising Ivory with faith and joy. Welcome to the world, Ivory Amelia. You are already so loved and blessed with incredible parents. We look forward to seeing you grow as much as your parents allow. May God continue to bless you, sweet baby girl.

[@laurenbotts6449]

As someone who had an emergency c section the first time 6 years ago… I’m sorry. I know that it was so hard and your a great momma. You will grieve those moments you lost. But it gets better and easier. I’m also here to tell you a planned c section is soooo much better and it will be better. Enjoy your beautiful baby. ❤❤❤

[@stacie.readsandmore]

My first was with an epidural, second was natural and third was an emergency c-section! ❤️ Congratulations to you guys!!! Ivory is absolutely beautiful!! 💗

[@kristilenzo]

Thanks so much for sharing!!!! Sorry your delivery was a traumatic experience. I'm glad you have Gabe to help support you and baby!! I would definitely say having a scheduled/planned C/S for your next delivery will be very different and hopefully much less stressful. I was an L&D and NICU nurse for many years. You ate so rigbt whennyou say every delivery is different. They are all so special and miraculous as well!! I have 5 kiddos... my oldest was delivered when I was 17... I had went into preterm labor woth her at 33 weeks so was on bedrest until 37 weeks. Once I stopped taking the meds they had me on to control eary labor I wentninto real labor at 37.5 weeks, it was fast and furious, a total of 3 hours and 15 mins. I did not want an epidural (I was scared of it), but the pain was so bad by the time I got to the hospital around 2 hours into labor I asked for one anyways... luckily when I sat uo for the epidural I felt like I needed to "poop", they checked me and sure enough I was 10 cm so no epidural(thank the lord because I really didnt want one)... I pushed for 15 minutes. That labor from the start of bad pain to her being delivered was 3 hours 15 mins. Baby number 2, three years later... I woke up in the middle of the night to a "pop" feeling, ran to the bathroom and realized my water had broke. Immediately hard contractions and pain set in. He was born 45 mins after. I delivered at 40.3 weeks. Baby 3, three years later... I was sleeping again awoke in the middle of the night went pee think I lost my mucus plug climbed back into bed and then the hard painfully contractions hit me. We madenit to the hospital just in time. My water broke in the wheel chair and I delivered her in my own tshirt... was a total of 38 minutes. I was 40.1 weeks on delivery day. Baby 4, again three years later... I was cramping all morning and because my labors were getting quicker and quicker we decided to go to the hospital even though I wasn't in real bad pain... it was a snowy day and we didn't want to have a car delivery lol... got to the hospital around 4ish... I was in mild labor the nurse did the roughest vaginally exam I have ever had and that did it... put me into rip roaring labor... the dr had to break my water just before baby came it didn't break non it's own... total labor for him was about an hour (mind you I only count labor for myself as BAD out of this world pain, the mild stuff is easy) and had been happening for weeks with each of them as you know. Baby 5, seven years later... I had high BP and now a L&D nurse, at 39 weeks dr wanted to induce me... I was scared, I had seen so many inductions last a long time and things go wrong since we are forcing a body to do something it's not naturally ready to do... i.pleased with my dr please no induction... dr agreed to let me go home but I had to come to clinic again next day for non stress test and labs... next day BP was still high and he really recommended an inducion (I agreed because how could I not for the sake of my baby and myself and our health). I was so scared and nervous... I didn't want meds so dr broke my water... about an hour later hard painful contractions started and she was born about 45 mins later... total labor from breaking of water to delivery was 2 hrs 5 mins. I was 39.1 weeks. ❤❤❤

[@addicoates4944]

You guys are adorable!! So happy for you and your little family🩷