"Love is when two (or more) hearts build a safe emotional, mental, and spiritual home that will stand strong no matter how much anyone changes on the inside or the outside. It demands only one things and expects only one thing: that each person be his or her own true self." neil struass love is not blind it sees the truth. trauma is blind. true is a simple love between two NORMAL PEOPLE(not great people stupid) how can person that can't and didn't experience true love guide people to a good and healthy relationship? how can a person that express her true identity as a great person guide a person to self fulfillment? if you say that you are a person that gives another person your love and affection based on your value, then you must believe that jesus or god doesnt love you. if you believe that your love is something that you give willingly to someone then you dont know what you can control. Love is not a chess game or war. Love is not always about carrying the burden of the other person. Know the difference between true and pure love and seduction.