Q3 IS ORAL SEX ALLOWED IN ISLAM

[@pkked2]

Medically speaking, oral sex is acceptable. Within certain limits, of course. I m a doctor.

[@enonandosman]

Noted, Doctor. But we need to add that there is a type of infection that is associated with oral sex. It is called "yeast". It is not an STD nor is it fatal but can be irritating and even painful. If a spouse dislike oral sex for this or any other reason, it is haram to force it on them. We discuss a wide range of conditions that allow and disallow oral sex in Chapter 3 of our book Sex, Soul and Islam, Claritas Books, 2023

[@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke]

Humans should be able to possess their feeling, and control their passions. Do not become a prisoner of your lust, Otherwise, every blessing you have will be squandered. People like that lose it all. Being a prisoner of your passion will destroy you. A dog does not understand what is clean or not, and he lets his urges and senses to tell him what to eat, and if humans become like animals and eat each others filth and excrement, God will remove faith from the heart and reduce him or her to the status of animals. Moslems scholars all agree that any other sexual acts that does not lead to procreation is totally banned. Theye are not wrong in saying that people might lose their very faith is they indulge in sexual depravities, and try to please their own flesh like wild hyenas. If you find yourself obsessed with sexual acts, then bear in mind that you will inevitably lose Faith and become atheist or agnostic, and please try not to become like all those ex Moslems who make it their mission to destroy all people of religion and insult every religious figure in the universe.

[@MuftiUbaidullah-Awal]

I pray so Allah gives you proper guidance and forgive you for misleading Muslims into thinking that sex and lust are important part of Religion. Those who watch your video are going to think having sex with their wives is a part of worship, and as a consequence, they will face terrible hardship in this world and the next. If you are the reason for their suffering, then you, as the maker of the video, would also end up suffering like them in black sites, where innocent Muslims are being tortured only because they were framed by non-Muslim mercenaries for fake crimes. We must be focused on Islam, and following the real path of Sunnah. So let everyone be religious, without focusing on love for spouses and obsession with happiness in this life. We were created for the afterlife. Not for finding happiness and love here in this world. The obsession with love for humans is sometimes the reason many women and men become completely broken both emotionally and physically. We came to this world to love our creator and serve those people who are helpless and in far more worse situations than us. We came to this world to help every orphan, heal the sick and ease the pain of refugees and poor people and to serve humanity. Our purpose of life shouldn’t be marriage, love, money, degrees, fame etc. so let preach the real purpose of this life to everyone instead of deluding ourselves with hopes of love and happiness, because it is rather selfish to focus so much on oneself and one's own happiness especially when that happiness is a mirage and is truly not real happiness. Let’s not encourage others to become obsessed with the idea of love and relationships when the world is suffering and those helpless people need every bit of help, we can give with our body heart and soul. Having sex non stop is not part of Deen, because in those black sites, Moslems who were tortured and released never complain about not being able to have enough sex anymore.

[@enonandosman]

We take it you have a good intention to nasihah a fellow Muslim. But Allahu Akbar, we pray that Allah SWT will forgive us if we misinterpret the Islamic messages and He will forgive you for accusing us of misleading Muslims on sex and intimacy. Your views against enjoying sex with your spouse is not in line with the teachings of the Prophet who enjoined fun and play during sex; as well as Islamic luminaries like Imam Ghazali who equates sexual bliss with your spouse on earth to heavenly bliss in Paradise. Stop misrepresenting Islamic sexual teaching as purely procreative when the Prophet clearly instructed us to go beyond these animalistic aspects of sex, and to bring emotionality and sensuality to turn sex into a human and potentially spiritual activity - as according to Imam Ghazali. A good sexual relationship is an important component to strengthen marriage and the family. In reality sexual dissatisfaction has lead to toxic and even abusive relationship that absolutely fail to achieve tranquilly, love and mercy (Q30:21) It can also lead to extra marital affairs, visiting prostitutes, watching pornography, sexual crimes, masturbation etc to fulfil their sexual needs. The current generation gets disillusioned and moved away from Islam as they perceive their Islamic teachers as not giving good practical guidance for their daily life, including navigating sex in this very sexualised society. Thus, we hope that you will watch our other videos or read our book, Sex, Soul and Islam to better understand our messages. We also would like to invite you to a zoom discussion so that we can clarify our differences. Online banter is not fruitful and seriously, we don't need it now or ever. DM us on our IG enonandosman to make this arrangement.

[@pkked2]

There is a huge difference between what is halal and haram and what is considered as "the purpose of Life". Here the debate is about halal and haram.

[@enonandosman]

@@pkked2 Exactly. We are glad when we hear a voice of reason. And even if we say a thing is halal, it does not mean we advocate everything about it. Oral sex is a vast terminology. Unfortunately, too many Muslims today only learn about oral sex from porn or descriptions of it from those who watched porn. Then they lump everything together under one banner and declare all of it haram.