QAYBTI 1AAD WAXYAABAHA FURIINKA DEG DEG AH KEENA | WHY DIVORCE RATE IS HIGH IN THE SOMALI COMMUNITY?

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in my opinion, the first thing why Somali people divorce is, communication. Somali women expect a lot from Somali Men and they don't communicate their expectation. the second biggest issue is that Somali Men expect a lot from women, such as doing everything in the house and not helping unless being asked over and over again which creates frustrations and distance from men.

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Faadumo Ahmed That's so true sister especially out here in the west, I am apprehensive of Somali women because of their lofty expectations they have become more like western women, I spoke with a Scandavian Somali girls and they are much more balanced than in the U.S or UK why is this so common?

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In the west Somali Girls/women are not dependent on Men anymore for food and shelter, because there is alternative way of getting them, therefore, Somali Men have to make up with other support to women, such as house chores. let's be realistic, why are you here if you are not willing to contribute to this family in any way? The problem with Somali women is not expressing their expectation very clearly and expecting their un-communicated expectations to be cater to by Men, which creates animosity within the marriage, and hence divorce becomes a solution. Somali Men also expect women to do everything raising and holding the family together without any support.

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Faadumo Ahmed I can't say I disagree, expectations from both sides are destroying the common ground which should be stated from the beginning thus communication is the biggest key.

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Waa run wlhi 🙄🙄

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Faadumo Ahmed agree

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We are busy counting the number of kids like money. But this is not about quantity it is all about quality. There are a lot of irresponsible people on both sides. If you cannot take care of your kids don't have them.

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Saafi that is true

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Oh Dear, it is not that easy, Off course, Both sides are at fault, However, Women deal with a lot of burden and stress trying to fix everything, I guess it is "women's thing" but, Somali Men need to step up to also raise children and help with house chores.

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Anigaaba maanta furiin qarka u saaran baby sanad jirana waan heystaa qurbana waan jogaa marka asxaabey isoo duceeya inuu qeyrka i waafajiyo insha allah

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um hanaan isha allah wl safe your marriege

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um hanaan waan kuusoo ducaynayaa in Ilaahay idin xafido insha Allah

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um hanaan Alleh reerkga hkuu dhawro

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um hanaan abayo sheydanka iska naar rerkaga dhaqo furin haku dagdagin ilma abahod wax udhama maleh

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Mashalah alaaah ni barakeeyo AJ iyo & Fado.... Furinka asbabo badan aya keeno maso kobi Karo 2 wax hadan kaso qaado... 1.Alle kacabsi yaran gabar si sharaf leh reer koda ku siiyo ina u aragto qof xajadada ku gudatit sarirta kaliya maaha qofka dumar wa qof qiimo intas kawen ah waa mujtamaca barkisa wa qof ka mudan dulqad ixtiram naxaris iyo waxi lamid ah... 2.raga qaar waxe radiyan qurux kaliya ma eegan wanaga qofka fikorkeda aqlaqdeda dabecade Lakin hada qurux un radisidi tii wadada mareso wa damcesa...... Waxa ku so goobaya qofki rabo xaskisa ine noqoto tii dunida ugu quruxsaned is shaada ka dabool dumarka ajnabiga kaa ah Kuna qanac xaaskaga.... Hagabnato haburnato ha madoobaato Ina ku qanacdo tii alle ku qore..... Kuna faan xaaskaga waayo waa tii kuu rabese ubadkaaga magacaga wadan doonan ilaa qiyamaha... Asc

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We miss vedioyadan oo kle fadna

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Inti fatna and Aj tayerto like isaraa

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Ibro- Sham

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me i don't have problems with my partner we always happy with our marrying Alxmudailallah

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Manshallah

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Shugri Abdullhi Alhamdulilah

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Salaam all of you walaalo. Hadaan isku dayo waxyaalaha furiinka somalideena keeni kara waxa kamida: 1. Ixtiraam la'aan kaaso aysoo hoosgelayso qadarin la'aan iyo kala danbaytii oo aam meesha jirinba. 2.isfahan la'aan kaaso ay kamid noqon karto inay dadku isu tanaasulka waxa layidhaahdo uu meesha asagana ka baxo. 3.wada tashi la'aan oo uu soo hoos galaayo wax wada qabsigii oo yaraaday.

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Ws my dears it's true habibty Masha'Allah keep it up the great work you sharing with us habibati and I missed you 😍❤️

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welcome aj & fadma.. anigu wan idinku cusba but adba idin tageraaa thnks..... topic gan waxan uu qadana training sabbto ah wali mawa guursanin big respect idin hayaaa

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Masha Allah Waa topic fiicn ilahey ha idin barakeeyo

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Masha allha waad labo is fahantay ilaahey isku kiin daayo

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Mashllh Aj&fadna wn idin xisnay inbadan

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Macha allah jazakallah kheyr Ah & fadna

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Jamaal siduu u dhagysanayo iyo fadna say u shekaynayso ayan ka helay

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Ahlaam Abubakar ManshallaH tabarakallaah

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Somalia mugdisho haa huno siduu xaaskisa u ixtiraamayo waa wax kudayasho mudan

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Somali muqdisho caqli daro aaku heeso magaca hanooga dheelin

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Ahlaam Abubakar Masha Allah wlhi wa sida gacaliyaheyga iidhageysto alxm 2 qof in ay is fahman is xushmeyan wey fcn tahay

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Samir hassan. That is Reality Allah haku xifdiyo bro

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Amiin abyo allah inwada xiftiyo

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Waa topic Fiican, dhiiragalintina wad ku mahadsantihiin fadna iyo AJ

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One Q. Plz INTA BADAN LABA RA'YI BA JIRA OO ODHANAYA JACAYL KA DHABTII WAA GUURKA DABADII IYO WAA GUURKA HORTII .. MARKA MIDKEE IDIN LA SAXSAN AMA AAD TAGEERSANTIIN?

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Mansha allaah beautiful family may allah blessings you guys ❤️ wada noolaado Nabaad ku wara

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Maasha Allah wax yaabo muhiim ka hadleeysin aniga Iyo xaaskeeyga waa idiin fiirsanaa labadoo tip oo beelo ah aan ka qaadanay

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maansh allah ilaahay ha isku kiin barakeeyo ubad khayr qabana ha idin siiyo

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My two favorite couple let add something is first key of happiness in marriage is being yourself don't ever fake

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Msha allah arin fcn aya ka hadashen Aj & Fadna

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Waa topic fiiicn fadna and Aj horey u socda😘

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Mansha Allah ilahoow isku daa inta nolosha ku lamanowdayba wan jecelahy❤❤

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Abdifatah Ali good point

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Qadan Sweet: Thanks walaalo.

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Aj and fadna Masha allah

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Welcome back guys

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I loved how Aj was patiently listing to fatma an correcting her somali politely 😢 i wish u 2 a happy ending marriage life 😍

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mazha Allah fadumo iyo jamal qoys qurux badan Alle haysu kiin daayo

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😍😍😍ilahey ha idiin barakeeyo fadna nd jamaal

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Great topic

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Part 2 i can't wait. Allah idin sharfo

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Masha Allah nice topic

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Masha Allah Allah Idin barakeeyo walaalyal jamal iyo fadma Gaariga Markaa wadeyso wll jamal kaamirada haegin xoog buu usocda wll👍😍❤💋

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True dear so laabashu wanag 💕😁😁😁

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Wan dhawnahay

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suupan saxarla abayo sidee kugaran kartaa qof dabeecadiisa runta ah waxad ku arkeysa guriga marka aad isguursataan lakin kahore waxuu isaga kaa dhigaaya marka aad sheekeysaneysaan qof masha allah ah teda kale guurka waa nasiib waa qofka ilaahi kuu wanaajiyo teda kale guurka waa god aad gacanta galisay maxa kasoobixi doono marka waa nasiib

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nice topic miss you Aj & fadna nice couple

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Allah ni xafido Hnoyal love u ❤ from borama

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Mnsh aallah wllo ilahay ha isku kiin daayo 💑

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I like sida ninkaagu kuudaawanayo hadalkaaga Iyo aragaagaba wuula dhacsan yahay 💕❤️🥰

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Communication is a key and I feel like some of our Somali families don't even know what communication is , second is compromise and not to have such high expectation from your spouse , and I feel most of us do and that's where the frustration comes in , boys need to be tough from early age to help out more around the house , and girls should learn to speak communicate better , I think most of our generation are so westernized or either bring what we have seen from our parents house, in laws , financial and some of our generation ilaahi ka cabsi la tagay, I feel guuri ilaahi cabsi ka jiro iyo xaasus Allah that's shouldn't be a lot of problem

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masha allh so dhowada idin xiisnay

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Masha Allah

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salaam guys, lets remind ourself that sometimes family get involved with peoples relationship and that dont help😐

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Nuha Mohammed yes a lot of parents break their children marragees for no good reason.

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Isla weynida ragga iyo more expectationka dumarka lbdaa qodob ayaa ugu waaweyn

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