Questions I've Never Asked My Wife... But Actually Should?

[@emilyjohnson5009]

The way Kian looks at Kyle is so sweet in this video!

[@KianandKyle]

She's the sweetest 😍

[@josalmon4742]

Y’all are precious and as a single lady in my sixties, I am learning so much of how I need to be in touch with God more at this stage of myself.

[@suewolfgang5130]

The way you two look at each other and open your hearts to each other is very special!!! I always enjoy seeing you together!!! Love you two, God bless!!! 🙌💛🥰

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you mom!! We love you! God bless you and the rest of the fam 💛🙏

[@karalyneirene1591]

I love the background noises and I love even more that its actually whats going on outside your house. 🥰 So calming!

[@KianandKyle]

Haha right! So peaceful 🙏

[@manders8484]

Hey guys, I’m fairly new to your channel… so trying to watch all your videos when I can.. usually daily because I think y’all are great together. One thing that really stuck out to me was how you two look at each other, it’s genuine and real and doesn’t seem forced just because your on camera. I know that no marriage is perfect but it’s obvious that you two genuinely love one another and enjoy being together in this atmosphere. I think your honesty is awesome! And the way you respond to each other’s honesty is great ( I watched Kians questions to you before watching this one). I personally don’t like mustaches alone, I’m more of a goatee and mustache girl or a beard… closet trimmed and maintained. I do like Kyles hair how it is now, looks nice. Would love to do a challenge with ya’ll, maybe on one of the Gospels. I’m currently reading John and love it! Thank you so much for sharing parts of your life with all of us! You guys give me something to look forward to in a future marriage. I pray I find a Godly man who, through their walk with Jesus, helps me grow and flourish as well! I pray y’all are doing well in your new home ( I’ve seen your most recent videos at the farm) and thank you for the awesome Bible study content and videos on your Patreon!!

[@reemaxx2080]

The eye contact between you two is sooo sweet and comforting 🥺🤍

[@tiegz9770]

I feel like I can see you guys' love growing for one another, its beautiful

[@KianandKyle]

It really has been! Thanks for noticing :))

[@josueinthechib]

Kyle hair looks sick like that! Really gives a softer look. Perfect waves..very appropriate for Hawaii 😎

[@KianandKyle]

The Hawaii look was the inspiration haha appreciate the encouragement!!

[@KIMBOTAYLA]

You guys are so refreshing ✨love to watch your videos!

[@KianandKyle]

Amen praise God 🙌

[@yanakebernik491]

i literally smiled throughout this entire video. just the way y’all kept looking at one another was so sweet. can definitely feel the Lords love shining through you both 🤩.

[@KianandKyle]

Yayyy praise God! Thank you 💙

[@meglouise4279]

Kian you look lovely as always and Kyle the long hair and moustache looks cool

[@KianandKyle]

Awww you're too sweet! God bless you!

[@Strawberries017]

I like the stash and longer curly hair!

[@KianandKyle]

👨

[@madisonltree]

You guys are glowing!! Y’all make me miss warm weather and the ocean ☺️🤍

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you :)) we appreciate you 💛

[@ixalthm]

Definitely short hair, SUPER handsome with a clean cut. Not a fan of the longer hair or facial hair...sorry. I haven't watched in a bit, but you both seem to be growing in you relationship. Kian seems more loving, honoring and gentle towards Kyle. Kyle lights up with your loving authentic compliments, keep them coming, I'll bet his love language is "words of affirmation", most men need them.. Kian you have a great husband, who loves the Lord, pray for him daily and watch what God will do...you are blessed. You look beautiful Kian, love your hair.

[@KianandKyle]

What a word - thank you for sharing!! God bless you 🙏💙

[@arbretree5463]

Love how genuine you guys are ❤️! Stay blessed!

[@StrongerThanStroke]

Yes Kyle protect your questions 🤣 Kian you’re beautiful! I love how you’re growing in your role as a wife…gentle wife, I love that!!

[@KianandKyle]

Haha they're mine to ask! She can get her own 😜

[@KianandKyle]

And yes Kian has been so incredible and growing so much it's beautiful to see her love for me in this way and the work God has been doing in her 😍

[@rupabarran116]

I like the question ,if one partner dies will the other remarry .I love how honest y’all answer the question .But Personally for me as a single girl not married,when I get married if my husband dies ,I would never want to get married again ,I really want to be married to one person and that’s it .If I die the decision is up to him .

[@KianandKyle]

Yeah it's a tough question. Couldn't actually imagine ourselves in that situation. Praying healing over all those who actually go through it 🙏

[@rupabarran116]

Aww y’all reply ❤️🤗

[@ericacato8043]

Kyle looks like the dad from ‘This is Us’ with the mustache lol

[@KianandKyle]

I said the same thing!! Giving me that young jack 👨🏻

[@Michele_Back]

Not gonna lie, Kyle does look Jewish with his hair long and curly haha. Y'all will make cute babies for sure 🤗

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha thank youuu 😝

[@Thegracefilledjourney]

The goatee was giving the toy restorer from toy story 1 vibes and now the mustache is giving JB mustache phase vibes 🤣

[@KianandKyle]

hahaha oh my 🤠

[@FINEDIAMOND]

You’re such a beautiful couple and you set a very good example in communication! Much love! ❤

[@MoTheCrown]

Another great video!! You guys are glowing! I’m curious what books Kian recommends that has helped with being more gentle, less controlling etc? There’s a few verses that have helped me with being slow to speak, but I’m curious if she has book recs ☺️

[@KianandKyle]

Love and Respect however it has been brought to our attention that there are some unhealthy views about sex within it so just be cautious of that if you are going to read it - very powerful book and helpful in many ways but use discernment when it comes to that :)

[@darcyellis8214]

Kyle looks good !! The curls and mustache are nice

[@KianandKyle]

Haha thank you!!

[@sarahedwards39]

Id love to see a video of you guys realigning yourselves with God and connecting with Him :)

[@KianandKyle]

As we do - we will share :)

[@sierrarosethompson1053]

Love the long hair on Kyle 👍🏻 also I miss Kyle’s you tube channel you really have a way of explaining scripture that makes it easy to understand ✝️🌷

[@KianandKyle]

Aw thanks! We appreciate you and please pray for me (Kyle) that God would lead me back into that form of ministry... I miss it too but need God to give me the motivation to do it again 🙏

[@sierrarosethompson1053]

@@KianandKyle okay I will 👍🏻 I understand that because since the pandemic started I’ve been preparing to start my business again but it’s been a waiting Season somehow God hasn’t put me in front of people again and it’s been so frustrating because I know it’s in his timing which I a bizarre feeling to want something but know it’s not quite time. How ever be encouraged that people definitely need it in these dark days! I will pray for you. Hi Kian 🙂

[@daniellefaucher3347]

Loved this video!!!! Also LOVE the long hair but I’m all for people rocking their natural curls!! Also love the stach and it all totally gives off dad vibes in the best way! So keep it around or bring back when that season comes around ;) love you both and appreciate your content! Loved these questions!

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha thank youuuu! We love you too!!

[@michaeldickens3357]

You kids are hilarious. Love you both.

[@tobiblocker2588]

Definitely liking the long hair!!

[@KianandKyle]

😎

[@linseymcguire624]

You guys are too cute!! 🥰

[@robyn905]

Why does Kyle actually not look bad in the Hulk Hogan stache 🤣Kian you look so cute and cozy here! Loved the video

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha stopppp! Thank you 🙌

[@quincya2855]

Love the long hair! Keep it!

[@KianandKyle]

👀👀 just might have to!

[@bethanyclark9105]

Definitely long hair for Kyle! I so look forward to all your videos, such an inspiring couple! Keep being awesome you guys!

[@KianandKyle]

Too sweet thank you so much for saying that! God bless you 💛

[@krista8709]

I love how you both got an opportunity to do this!

[@KianandKyle]

Us too - it was so much fun and quite powerful for us!

[@loveisthekey4evr]

Kyle, short hair and no facial hair. I love the birds chirping. Nice background noise. I love watching your videos and how genuine you both are. God bless you both and your marriage. 🙏💝

[@KianandKyle]

Aww thank you so much! God bless you! 💛🙏

[@amygiommetti1661]

Great video love the mustache and the long hair

[@KianandKyle]

Thank youuu

[@hvbpieringer]

Honestly, the moustache and longer hair really suit Kyle haha :)) What a fun video!

[@KianandKyle]

Woohoo!! Thank you!

[@newcreaturechannel]

"it all makes sense now" Cracked me up!! haha

[@KianandKyle]

😂😂

[@1991faithy]

You guys are my favorite people !! your videos are funny but very informative

[@KianandKyle]

Yayyyyy we appreciate you!

[@gabl3400]

When Kian said “ok im excited” 😁

[@KianandKyle]

😆🙌

[@haleybodell8948]

Kyle is so sweet while he’s listening to you 🥺

[@KianandKyle]

My favorite person to listen to 😍

[@josalmon4742]

Kyle is very handsome either way. A hunk!!

[@ElizabethLovesFitness]

Love the mustache and long hair.. Kyle looks like Tom Selleck Miami Vice area.

[@KianandKyle]

Ayeeee I'll take it! 😂

[@lilianteek965]

Short hair please, for Kyle!

[@katherinedennison445]

The birds in the background. Lol 😂

[@KianandKyle]

Music to our ears!

[@Dawnc-7]

Kyle has amazing skin; he looks MUCH better in his shorter hair and no mustache. Show off that amazing skin Kyle!!!

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha what a compliment!! Thank you 💙

[@abigail-yr8ym]

18:50 Dive a bit deeper into what it mean when someone thinks your “naggy” It means: when you raise an issue I feel uncomfortable, irritated or annoyed. I feel interrupted right now. I don't see this as being a problem and I don't want to take this burden on. I don't want to change things or be the one to do it. I want to be left alone and not have to deal with this discomfort right now. Often this is projected outwards, you are being too much of something. This is often done in an attempt to deescalate the situation or to minimize your point of view. This can be considered gaslighting. I will say this can be manipulation. It can also occur on the odd occasion when a person is understress and unable to deal with your complaint. Sometimes it is an atrempt to calm things down (such as you worry too much in an attempt to try and make you feel better). This is because other's discomfort is uncomfortable to us and instinctively we want to make it stop so we feel comfortable. This is poor communication. This isn't because you actually complain too much, rather your complaining is too much for them to handle. This is where getting into the habit of using “I” statements instead of “you” statements is helpful. It addresses what is honestly bothering the person and what they need without attacking the other person. Now I do not know your relationship. The above point is still applicable to you. You could suggest this to your partner however you can't make them change. You can influence them by leading by example. That is if you are feeling the house is a mess and your partner is not helping it is better to say “hey love, I'm feeling overwhelmed right now with this mess. Could you help me to tidy things up? I would really appreciate this” than to say “why aren't you helping to keep things clean? Can't you see the house is a mess? Why can't you keep your things tidy without me telling you? You never listen to me.” The first my bets are you will get a positive response. The latter I would see your partner becoming defensive, claim you complain too much and not lead to the outcome you want, a clean home with a partner who helps you with.

[@gerolynmatos]

kyle - short hair and mustache🤍 love you guys!

[@KianandKyle]

Short hair you sayyyy 👀 haha we love you too!

[@SimplySami13]

i love the mustache!!! but im biased my fiancé has one too and i just love that aesthetic hahahah fits you well though kyle!

[@Bwoood]

I wanna see the stache with short hair in order to decide!

[@KianandKyle]

Once I cut it theres no going back - you'll just have to use your imagination for now :)

[@angelahinojosa5338]

Short hair!!!

[@JMKrech]

Not gonna lie Kyle you look good with the mustache, although clean shaved is the best! Also like the short hair the best

[@KianandKyle]

Haha appreciate your input my dude!!

[@aprilbentley8195]

Long hair, Kyle

[@lalliefutcher5874]

Short hair👍

[@KianandKyle]

👀👀

[@nannyheather5640]

Catching up on the videos😳 I've had so much going on in my life lately with health and teaching kiddos at church! Love you guys and pray everyday for you both❤

[@nannyheather5640]

Btw I like the long hair on kyle☺

[@Kloe875]

Kyle’s long hair looks cool! Once you cut it you might even miss it long and decide to grow it out again though and then appreciate it more🤷🏻‍♀️ so cut it if it bugs you otherwise you’ll just end up cutting it one random day when you can’t take it anymore! Been there lol:)

[@KianandKyle]

Yeaaahhhh thats the thing - once I cut it I prob will never regrow it to this length or longer. So it's either let it go now or call it quits forever lol

[@beautifullykayla]

kyle looks great with that hairstyle

[@KianandKyle]

Thank youuu!

[@KizNic]

It was so funny listening to all the questions and waiting with bated breath to hear my question. Lol! My question was not asked (which is quite alright) but the game of waiting was exciting. It made the video more fun. But the video was great guys!

[@ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275]

What was your question?

[@KianandKyle]

Haha thanks! Now I'm curious what your question was 👀

[@KizNic]

@@KianandKyle Well I feel weird asking it now because between then and now I have learnt that the name "Wolfgang" is a German name lol so it's "normal"... but this was my question: What did you (Kian) think of my (Kyle) last name when you first heard it? And follow up question: Did you initially think "Kian" went well with "Wolfgang" and doodle it or practise saying it when we got engaged? (Not that I have a problem with your last name Kyle, I actually always thought it was cool and thought that it was a nickname or something in the beginning haha! And then was blown away when I saw 'Mr and Mrs Wolfgang' on the cake)

[@KizNic]

@@ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275 My question was about Kyle's last name (because I never knew it was German and thought it was not even his real last mane till the wedding). It was: What did you think of my last name when you first heard it? And follow up question: Did you initially think "Kian" went well with "Wolfgang" and doodle it or practise saying it when we got engaged? (Not that I have a problem with your last name Kyle, I actually always thought it was cool and thought that it was a nickname or something in the beginning haha!)

[@posljednjavremena6884]

You two are an ispiration.

[@KianandKyle]

Aw thank you for saying that 💛 Praise God!

[@Ms_808]

If you both got tans, you both would look like a surfer couple! Kyle's long hair, surfer boy vibes. Get the ehu color hair...totally surfer couple!

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha goals right there!

[@isabellaaae]

Kyle's long hair 🤌🤌 *chefs kiss*

[@KianandKyle]

😎

[@MichaelaTrue]

Kyle should give up the Bloodshed Bears for lent lol

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha 😅

[@worldwanderingwhittakers]

The death chat is so real! My husband and I say and act in the exact same way when the topic comes up 😭🤣😂

[@KianandKyle]

Right! Crazy to even think about, but also good to be realistic and be ready for that day whenever it does come.

[@femininityfaith7920]

The check in ✅✅✔️✔️✔️😂😂😂

[@KianandKyle]

✅🙌

[@ashleybobiles4472]

Kian - “That’s about to fall off” Kyle - “How did you notice that?” Kian - “I just saw it.” 😂

[@KianandKyle]

😂😂 I should probably fix that now huh?

[@LovingGodLovingOthers]

Y’all are both rocking wavy hair so well, must be those beach waves! ☺️ these videos are so much fun!!

[@KianandKyle]

Definitely those beach waves 😜 thank you!!

[@torbeeeen]

I liked the raw beard part. :D

[@KianandKyle]

😎

[@ttds6379]

long hair -keep it

[@KianandKyle]

Noted ✔️

[@isabellaseely6625]

Kyle's phone chimed the moment he turned to look at Kian at the beginning of the video and I thought the sound was edited in for a second 🤣

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha the timing of things 💡

[@TheIoanna1]

I LOVE the Dog

[@KianandKyle]

🐕😍

[@naphtalimcintosh4189]

1 second Kyle doesn’t have a beard next 2 second he does 😂

[@KianandKyle]

😂😂

[@dearsam13]

Jews are also considered an ethnic group, not just a religion. I recently learned this :)

[@KianandKyle]

Yeah I was getting myself confused there but you're right. Judiasm is the religion :)

[@Dunniedoll]

kyle looks like luigi awww😂

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha stopppp

[@reanne9356]

Long hair :)

[@KianandKyle]

👀👀

[@jondonxo]

"It all makes sense now" lol

[@loudlittleroar675]

You all look so content. Kian yellow looks great on you.

[@KianandKyle]

It really does 😍😍

[@keziahu1428]

The mustache gives “Sir Charles” vibes. Like old English, knight vibes.

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha is this a compliment??

[@keziahu1428]

Lol, yes, it’s a good look, very different 😁👍🏾

[@maevelouise06]

also how old are the two of y’all ?

[@KianandKyle]

I, Kyle, am 30... Kian is 27 :)

[@maevelouise06]

how do you guys feel about lgbtq+ ?? i am apart of the community and i love your vids 😌

[@KianandKyle]

We love all people because all people are loved by God 💙 thanks for being a part of the family! We appreciate you!

[@Fugazinome]

4.20 25%

[@mjalphonse]

Hair long but without product! Or short.

[@KianandKyle]

It's so funny because I dont use much of anything - just this curling cream Kian always wants me to use lol

[@JordanSophia]

Y’all are so funny together… loving these vids! There are great plans on the Bible app that you guys can do together🙌🏽 One that was really good is “Who is the Holy Spirit?” I like the long hair Kyle, it’s definitely more beachy-like🤣 I feel like it fits with the location change and it makes you look younger which is never a bad thing!

[@KianandKyle]

Yes such a great app! And thanks for the recommendation and encouragement! God bless you!

[@JordanSophia]

@@KianandKyle no problem!

[@bygrace24]

You should get your DNA done 😀 I'm half Jewish, half Finnish 50% of each xxxxxx Jewish is a nationality. Love Handsome playing between you 😂💙

[@KianandKyle]

So cool and I just might have to one of these days! Isn't he the best tho!!! 🐶😍

[@jessefoster2832]

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

[@KianandKyle]

Amen!

[@maevelouise06]

when are you guys gonna start trying for kids??

[@KianandKyle]

Over the next year or two :)

[@TruthBeTold4ever-j1n]

I love that your husband is Jewish (blood).... JESUS our Hebrew Savior. 🙏 And your wife is beautiful inside and out.

[@vuyon5317]

Not tryna be shady. But is Kyle not like cutting his hair anymore?

[@KianandKyle]

Growing it out