Answering Your JUICY Marriage Questions | Finally Talking About Birth Control?

[@Bleigh1584]

Both my girls were conceived on birth control and my first was when I was 18 and not ready at all! But God knows best and this week she turns 18! Both of my girls are the biggest blessing and honestly I wouldn’t change any of it because it made me who I am today and them who they are today 💕 so I agree with you Kyle either way God is still in control! Kian your hair looks so amazing!!!

[@KianandKyle]

Wow what a cool story! Such a blessing! God bless you and your family 💛

[@naturallygigi3294]

I’m new to your channel. Just discovered you guys last night lol. But so far, I’ve been loving and enjoying your content! Also, I love the fact that you’re both saved and keeping The Lord at the center of your marriage! Love that so much. God bless you both, your family and ministry!🙏🏾🕊️💜

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

fifth comment!! big fan, please reply!!

[@alexandrah678]

😂🤍

[@alliechristensen9570]

😂😂😂😂

[@audrey0707]

I don’t see a reply back from them🥺 lol 😆

[@linasilva7365]

😂

[@KianandKyle]

Hey there! My wife has the same name as you! So cool! Thanks for your support 💙

[@shealovesfashio]

Okay! I feel like you guys have so much chemistry in this video I don’t know what it is… maybe it’s all the baby talk haha…. but you guys really play off each other well here :)

[@KianandKyle]

The baby talk 🤷‍♂️😂 thanks though! We appreciate you!

[@photographybyliamanderson1659]

Handsome is the sweetest thing ever. So special

[@nannyheather5640]

You both have so much Godly wisdom on these topics. I appreciate you both being so real. Your love for one another is a true gift from God and shows in every video you put out! Love you all and praying for you!

[@KianandKyle]

Aw thank you and praise God!! We really appreciate your love and prayers 🙏 Lord knows we need them 😂

[@noggy19]

You guys should do these kind of topics on a podcast..you are both so raw and honest!

[@KianandKyle]

Been a hard time getting there but we will eventually 💯 we appreciate you!!

[@proserpine3332]

I really hope you guys have a long and wonderful marriage together, I’m happy you both have found someone that you love and that has the same beliefs.

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you so much! We appreciate you!!

[@Love-like-Lucy]

Love your honesty.

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you!!

[@lexijacksondoula]

We did natural family planning and it worked really well for us :) didn’t have any “scares” Plus I got to know my body really well through the 2 1/2 years before we started trying. Did it through breastfeeding too!

[@KianandKyle]

Great testimony 🙌 Thanks for sharing!!

[@thuylinhnguyenly4945]

Cool. I’m not married yet but I’ve always thought about that, and I also heard that the Church doesn’t allow any type of birth control including condoms. I’m still figuring out. Want to know as well if the frequency of sex is comfortable/enough for you both? And what do u do if you want to have sex on those unsafe days?

[@kellsieharter]

I second this. NFP is the way to go!!!

[@m_cami_rc]

The intros are always so fun! 3:13 - 3:36 😂😂😂 Wrong word choice. I am 21 and single, but I LOVE watching your videos, because I can learn something new. Also, I agree on the birth control answer. It can cause a lot of bad things to women's body! If you change to natural family planning, would you mind sharing how it works and your experience? The outro made me laugh too 😂 you guys are so funny. God bless you! Hugs from Colombia 🇨🇴❤️

[@KianandKyle]

Yay! We appreciate you! So glad you enjoyed!! We will keep yall updated for sure 💯God bless you 💛

[@allthingshealthy2314]

Loved this video and how transparent you both are. I SOO relate to the “getting busy” with a needy dog. My dog always has to be included too, it’s so hard. The only thing we’ve found to work is to put him in the closet with the door closed but of course he barks his head off which is distracting. We usually put on music to drown it out. Such a process!

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha food in a box is our go to move… takes him some time to get it out and eat it 🙌

[@apracity7672]

Muzzle him

[@kristinasoutlet2831]

@@apracity7672 DONT get a dog if your gonna just muzzle them or put them in a closet!?!

[@apracity7672]

@@kristinasoutlet2831 nothing wrong with muzzling a dog for a short while

[@georgiewilliams8758]

Loved this video. Thank you both for being so raw and real. My husband and I love watching your videos and love the light of God that shines through you both.

[@KianandKyle]

Amen thank you so much! We appreciate you guys and pray blessings over your marriage 🙏

[@rosecloud]

Honest question - what are your thoughts on free choice and consequences of those choices? If God is sovereign, then does that mean we have no free choice?

[@KianandKyle]

This is a GREAT question and a much deeper topic that deservers more than just a youtube reply but I will simply say we have free choice 💯and we reap what we sow (or in other words we have consequences for our actions). This does NOT take away from God being sovereign, the 2 can (and do) coexist together! Maybe we can touch on this in a future video or when I start my channel back up I can do a video there explaining in more detail! I would encourage you to seek the Lord in this question, search His Word for what He says about free will and sovereignty, and even ask this question to a pastor or leader of your church and see what they have to say about it. Disclaimer: if they say the opposite of what I just said, make sure you come back here and let me know so I can dive deeper into why God says otherwise. Appreciate you! -Kyle

[@caracharles8564]

I am so invest in this couple... they feel real at peace and manifest the desire to serve God through their life... i don'tcknow there is something about them that keep me hooked and i love it... also handsome is a plus😉... Good job guys... and we need more of that is okay with you guys...

[@KianandKyle]

Wow you're so sweet for sharing this! We really appreciate your love, encouragement, and support 💛definitely will be more to come so stay tuned! God bless you!

[@caracharles8564]

@@KianandKyle thank you... love you all the way from Haïti

[@cristinadiaz984]

Kyle’s explanation of his ideas for birth control was so funny 😂

[@KianandKyle]

😅😂

[@tahlialeez]

The ending is gold. Would love to hear a video on just birth control and condoms

[@KianandKyle]

Thanks!!

[@homemakerontheprairiee]

You guys are the best, the ending discussing what to say and Kyle just throwing Kian off with the part 3 lol 😂 you guys are the best. Also God told my husband and I to have a baby and I stopped taking birth control, and we didn’t even know if we wanted kids before that. Gods plan really is the best plan!

[@KianandKyle]

Haha glad you enjoyed that! And amen! Praise God 🙌

[@kaarinamiller3999]

You guys nailed it with the birth control talk! With both my kids God told me when to stop taking the pill and when to get my IUD out! He is totally in control, but I love hearing your personal conviction!! So awesome 🙌

[@KianandKyle]

Wow soooo cool! Thanks for sharing 🙌

[@oliviatucker1587]

I love your marriage videos. Such great advice and I love how y’all are so relatable and honest💛

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you! God bless you 💛

[@yuliyasamoylenko867]

You guys are so fun to watch, love how you guys are so transparent in your thought process:) thanks for letting us in on that. There were quite a few very distracting moments though- through out the video😏 It’s interesting to watch when it’s not super clean/edited but it felt hard to keep watching at times. Was still so great.

[@KianandKyle]

Appreciate your thoughts and input! Thanks for watching!!

[@katelynnmonty3853]

Just want to say- I was on BC for 10 years. Got off of BC about 2 years ago. We did condoms for about 6 months because we were scared also! But now I track when I am ovulating, its really helpful! And we're also in the mind set if it happens, it happens. :)

[@KianandKyle]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@callyjosephine1118]

Your channel should have way more subscribers than you do. Your videos are amazing. Just found your change on Saturday and I’ve been binging!

[@KianandKyle]

Awww you're sweet thanks for joining our family and for your love and encouragement! We appreciate you! God bless 💛

[@vanrenae88]

The lady comp is an amazing option for birth control/ natural family pla

[@KianandKyle]

We'll have to look into that!

[@jessimitchell2051]

I really appreciate Kyle’s opinions on things like birth control. It was so sweet to see you two have trust in God and submitting to one another with your decisions. I don’t see too many godly men speak their thoughts on birth control and so I’m grateful to have heard Kyles thought process. Very helpful for me as I am getting married in a couple months and need to discuss and decide things like this with my man.

[@KianandKyle]

Praise God! Thanks for sharing this and we appreciate your appreciation! Congratulations on getting married soon!! We pray blessings over this new covenant you are about to enter into and that God would remain in the center of it and keep you united in love and unity in Jesus name!

[@jazzlyngonzalez930]

Really admire how honest you guys are🤍

[@KianandKyle]

💛💛

[@meganeliana2465]

These are my favorite kind of videos from you guys! God bless you and your marriage 💓

[@KianandKyle]

Yay thank you and God bless you 💙

[@laurenpineiro4199]

I so much appreciate that you adjusted the volume whenever Handsome barked 😂😂

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha I got you 👍

[@The_faithful_princess]

Definitely enjoyed! It gave me a lot to think about

[@KianandKyle]

Amen! Praise God 🙌

[@naomikonigkramer243]

You two are so cute!! I have been married for 10 years and I really enjoy some of your advice. 🙂. I totally agree that God will give you babies when the time is right, no matter what birth control you're using!!🤔. I love your honesty and openess.

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you so much we really appreciate your love and support! God bless you 💛

[@Thegracefilledjourney]

Your explanation on condoms (I am also understanding of both sides, but personal conviction tells me no, not for me); would you say that your decision is testing the Lord by justifying it with faith and believing that He will bless you with a child in His timing? Honest question, literally no hard feelings!! Just want to gain or give some insight on it. God bless you both!!

[@KianandKyle]

No it's not testing the Lord in any way - it's just our personal conviction at the moment we've been following :) God bless you too!

[@krista8709]

Love the beginning!

[@KianandKyle]

Yayyy :)

[@krista8709]

Kyle is so unfiltered in a good way! Love your relationship

[@Vessel_ofCHRIST7]

Ahahaha! I’m hollering😂😂😂 handsome wants the kisses to himself. You guys are hilarious. And Kyle trying to explain that situation lol. And Yes babies are no joke. But a miracle from God. Praise the Lord for wisdom! Amen 🙌🏾🔥

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha he gets so jealous! Thanks for your love and support 💛 we all about His wisdom out here 😜God bless you!

[@kelseycayer7086]

As a headphone user, I highly appreciate you lowering the sound when Handsome was barking 😂

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha I got you 😜

[@nicolelanae98]

the birth control situation is so relatable for my husband and I too. I stopped taking the pill before we got married and neither of us want kids or see ourselves wanting kids. He may get a vasectomy one day. We thought no married couples used condoms and that it would be weird to, so its nice to hear that another young married couple went that route! Although he is worried that it will take a lot of the pleasure away🤔

[@emilystanzione925]

This is a great convo!! 💜💜

[@KianandKyle]

Thanks for joining us 💛💛

[@kita3256]

Love you guys!

[@KianandKyle]

Aw thanks! We love you too!

[@HaileyAubert92]

Obsessed with your legacy

[@KianandKyle]

We appreciate you!

[@hannahfriedrich4482]

Hawaii looks so good on you guys 🙃🙃

[@KianandKyle]

🙏😎💙

[@courtneyhoing]

I love seeing y'all grow 🥰

[@KianandKyle]

Praise God! We appreciate you 💙

[@Ms_808]

I love how real you both are! Kyle is getting into the local vibe. Laid back and just enjoying life on the island. Lol He's going to be on Hawaiian time before you know it. Lol Keep on doing these videos, so funny and enjoyable. I hope you both vlog more on adventures on Maui!

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you so much! We appreciate you 🤙 God bless!!

[@MoTheCrown]

Yay another video! Can’t wait for part 2, hopefully you won’t make us wait til next week!!😅 but totally fine if you do too haha. I feel like this channel is one of the very few channels I’ve been watching in this season. You guys’ personalities and laughter remind me a lot of me and my boyfriend in a lot of ways so it’s always fun for me to watch! Hope Hawaii is treating you well.

[@KianandKyle]

Woohoo thank you! It got a bit delayed but it's on its way!!! We appreciate you!!

[@nourishedheiress]

I love these videos! hahahahaha Handsome trying to get some love was the funniest part!

[@KianandKyle]

LOVE that you love and accept Handsome 🙌💙

[@kshealieceartistry358]

This was all over the place 😂😂 not in a super negative way. It was just an interesting watch lol

[@KianandKyle]

Gotta keep it interesting 😜plus we tried to go the unedited route again so it's not as "clean" and organized as most videos that are gone through and edited. Hope you enjoyed!

[@Stephanie123-v3w]

we recently got a puppy and dam dogs are so needy i love her but sometimes i need a break

[@KianandKyle]

Haha right!!

[@elle8388]

9:35 They lived in a car for 3 months?

[@kenamo649]

I love you guys 🥰💯

[@KianandKyle]

So sweet we love you too 💛

[@vaneenusa1776]

Hello from Houston, TX!

[@KianandKyle]

Hello!!! Glad you're here :)

[@raegancolling4102]

Not any shape..size… or way…not size” 💀 🤣😭

[@KianandKyle]

😅😅😂

[@mikak2988]

Have you guys heard of the big five personality test? You can also get join you guy’s test result and get a couple’s report. Pretty cool yoooooo

[@mjalphonse]

Totally off topic, but what are the birds/animal sounds in the background? I hear it in all your vids now!!

[@KianandKyle]

Just birds outside - we have all our windows open and they are everywhere lol

[@christaparham]

What’s the podcast!?

[@KianandKyle]

Not out yet but in the “works” 🤗 stay tuned!

[@christaparham]

@@KianandKyle oh I meant the podcast about birth control that you mentioned!

[@lisah565]

11:39 I think you have to be careful with your dog. He did the same thing in the previous video (at the end)....

[@KianandKyle]

Thanks for your concern :)

[@valentinavadillo]

But God also respects our freewill

[@JMKrech]

Love the wisdom on birth control hahaha

[@KianandKyle]

Hahaha thanks!

[@estefaniaramirez6626]

Saying using condoms is safer than PFN means that you are not properly informed... With PFN you are certain of when is your fertile window, which makes it all a whole lot easier because therefore you know when to and not to have sex. I'm just pointing this out because I think it's important that people don't get confused with "I use any method because no matter what God is going to give a kid if He wants it".. PFN is much more than preventing kids :(... This really disappointed me 😅

[@KianandKyle]

Sorry to disappoint you and thanks for sharing :)

[@amygiommetti1661]

Love Hansome my German Shepard does the video same thing!! Great Video

[@KianandKyle]

Haha too funny! Thank you!

[@KAYUnwaveringInTruth]

Yesssss love it

[@KianandKyle]

Yayyyyy :)

[@KAYUnwaveringInTruth]

You guys are so cute and the best!! Lol it was so funny I stayed up till 3am just watching these Q + As that I missed. 💕😂

[@linasilva7365]

😂😂🙌great video yall funny

[@KianandKyle]

🤗🤗💛

[@madisonltree]

So excited to watch this 😌☺️ love you guys!!! Jesus loves you more 😉

[@madisonltree]

HAHA side note died laughing at the handsome barking part… our dog is the same way 😂😂

[@angelahinojosa5338]

It’s all apart of following God’s will and trusting him. The same goes for birth control. I hope you guys pray more about this topic. You are a smart and faith driven couple. I would discern this. What you explained Kyle is testing the Lord. And that’s exactly what we shouldn’t do as Christians. That’s repeatedly doing something wrong and then being like well if we wants it to happen then it will. Real life example: someone who drives recklessly could say well if he wants to kill me then He will or if he wants to save my life then He will.

[@maristella3730]

Exactly. We have to pray everyday God to give us wisdom otherwise it will be a disaster.

[@vivaeuropa]

Wow I love this comment. Not to mention since birth control causes many health problems to women I can't see how that's honoring the temple of Christ especially when it's hindering natural functions of the body.

[@tiagonthego]

Omggg I sent a question, hope it’ll make it! It was about bad/morning breath🥴😂

[@KianandKyle]

😂😂

[@alondrah_29]

Member i said He is not handsome hes Hanful i stand by it lol 😂💕🙃😁😆

[@KianandKyle]

Both are accurate 😜😂

[@AkosuaSerwaa-]

Am I the only one the dog destructs🤦🏿‍♀️?

[@KianandKyle]

Haha you'll learn to love him 😉

[@kamahorodaphnepatra]

This is so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@loudlittleroar675]

Shape form or fashion 😂

[@KianandKyle]

😅😂

[@itz_kal5157]

First!!

[@KianandKyle]

You're first twice 😜

[@georgesinkie6644]

Just a point to consider, an IUD does not stop conception but it does abort the baby.

[@emmablankestijn3495]

Me dog does that too!! She gets in the middle of kisses and hugs and start licking everyone 🤣

[@KianandKyle]

So needy 😂🤣

[@vanessar5124]

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

[@KianandKyle]

AMEN 🙌

[@bellavita3097]

If you think a dog is needy wait until you have children.

[@KianandKyle]

We can only imagine!

[@bellavita3097]

Why don’t you put handsome outside to play when you’re filming? Dogs need daily walks Also the kitchen door would look so cute painted white and then the inside trim painted black.

[@KianandKyle]

Haha he wants to be in the videos with us tho! We can't just give him the boot 😜

[@Misszoecooks]

Second 🤩🤩

[@KianandKyle]

🙌🙌🙌

[@itz_kal5157]

First

[@KianandKyle]

Woohoo!!

[@bros4654]

I'm sorry to all who relate, but I just don't understand pet-people. I like animals, but, man. It's just not for me, lol

[@bellavita3097]

Use C’s and be kid free for at least 5 yrs, you just started.

[@KianandKyle]

2 years will suffice 😜

[@dekuofa1054]

Wwe wrestling

[@KianandKyle]

Not following lol

[@dekuofa1054]

@@KianandKyle can kyle do wrestling moves on Kian

[@jessefoster2832]

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

[@BackOfFace]

JMJ Me and my fiancée love watching your videos! I think it's beautiful that you two started off with the intention of NFP, but it's really unfortunate that you (and much of the Christian community) has come to accept contraception as normal or moral even. Your argument that you're leaving room for God in the possibility of a broken condom is like saying a murderer isn't guilty if he leaves room for the gun to misfire. The intentions behind your actions are clear, you are separating the procreative nature of your body from the pleasure and just taking the pleasure. You should really read more about NFP and why it's different from contraception and give it an honest try. We will keep supporting your videos and can't wait for part 2. God bless! Two friendly Catholic viewers

[@dolphina3794]

i disagree

[@KianandKyle]

We might not really agree here but we appreciate you and your thoughts all the same 💛

[@rawnily4crazee]

I agree, it’s like they don’t trust the female body to work with them. We always demonise women’s bodies to go against us. You can make it work if you let it.

[@maristella3730]

And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also. Genesis 38:9‭-‬10 KJV Using birth controll it's a sin. God already knows how many kids he will give to you (0,1,2 5, 10) and we should accept that. As you said He is in control so do you think a baby will born if he doesn't want? On the other hand if you put your trust in condoms etc and not in God you wil sin.

[@maristella3730]

Also: Children are an heritage of the LORD: And the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; So are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: They shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate. Psalm 127:3‭-‬5 KJV According to God to have many kids its a blessing. This society that we are living in is against God on everything and we have to change our way of thinking and start to think the way God Thinks.

[@nicoleyoshihara4011]

God knows you best and decides how many babies. No form of birth control or contraception. It's harmful to the body

[@KianandKyle]

Thanks for sharing!

[@nicoleyoshihara4011]

@@KianandKyle Thank you for responding!^_^ You both are awesome!^_^❤

[@kileyw.9]

God.. every time I come back to give this channel another chance Kian throws in more of "You must submit to your husband." No, Kian. You don't. Stop putting that in young girls brains. Disgusting. Unsubscribed.

[@KianandKyle]

You're obviously hurt by this topic and we are sorry you haven't experienced the power and joy of this in a God fearing marriage. We are not speaking in a way of "you must"... We are speaking in a way of, "God calls us to". It's not out of control, it's out of love. It's not in any relationship, it's in marriage. These are biblical principles that we believe in and try to live by to honor God and one another. Regardless, we appreciate you and pray healing over you in Jesus name 💛

[@celestebeale7946]

@@KianandKyle Amen

[@kileyw.9]

@@KianandKyle No, I'm hurt over the ideas you put into young impressionable teenagers heads. I had to use your video as a "what's NOT okay" in a Sex Ed class. Then you issued some bullcrap apology... and do it again. It's wrong. Praying for YOU as well.

[@yuliyasamoylenko867]

@kiley I think what Kian is trying to say is the concept of submission is clearly in the scriptures though submission has not always been modeled well (especially with abusive husbands) but I think what she’s getting at is: when it’s done well- it’s very beautiful, life-giving & God-glorifying.

[@sierrarosethompson1053]

@@KianandKyle I didn’t hear anything about submitting to your husband in this video? Not that I’m against it I just watched the video and curious where you mentioned that. Also it’s basically a Christian channel and Christian marriage so I don’t feel there would be anything wrong with bringing that up if you did 💘