Questions that I was Afraid to ask my EX

[@kylaknight3655]

I feel like Amber did a good job with boundaries in this video--- also, being appreciated after the fact is hella bittersweet... good job with staying real but also being the amazing positive person that you are. 🌻

[@tiffanymccray3909]

"All this growth for her new dude(folds arms)" I feel u Amber 😂💯

[@nellkee359]

😂

[@queen_s1mba256]

lol she was heated through this whole video

[@julianacheriza1575]

I’m not surprised that she eventually got with a guy

[@richhomiefamoux1726]

@@julianacheriza1575 i mean she was never gay to begin with so it's not really a surprise lmfaoo

[@lizali5588]

@@richhomiefamoux1726 she claimed to be “gay”?? Or bi, pan etc.

[@latonyaanderson1405]

“When I was in a relationship I felt like that was my last”. I felt that. Two years in December I will have been broken up from my partner of 10 years. It still hurts. Stay positive Amber. Talking ish IS a reflection of your character.

[@Prettypetitepisces22]

Some people don’t realize or appreciate what good they had until they are gone. I could tell Amber is very caring and passionate. Ava definitely is tripping for letting her go. Ava all reminiscing missing the little things lol and Ambers all like “yeah well you had all of this and didn’t appreciate it when you did .” Lol

[@denkinoms]

Isn't that a like disrespectful to the new people in their though🤣🤣🤣😅😅 awkward

[@ima.m.1658]

Didn’t she say Amber was aggressive and yelled at times? I don’t think that’s healthy.

[@Prettypetitepisces22]

@@ima.m.1658 still isn’t a good enough reason to leave someone .. clearly Amber wasn’t that aggressive for Ava still to still want a friendship let alone be around her .. also Ava is very touchy in this video…

[@Prettypetitepisces22]

@@denkinoms definitely not

[@ima.m.1658]

@@Prettypetitepisces22 Actually, it is good enough of a reason to leave someone (or go to couples/individual therapy). It can be, but friendship isn’t always the same level of emotional intimacy as dating. Amber must have been otherwise likable for Ava to want to be friends with.

[@Schelsea94]

Love how you guys can still openly communicate about the past without it turning into a disagreement, the respect you have for each other is evident. I hope you both find what you need in your current or future relationships….. However 🥴 Respectfully, I’m still rooting for y’all!!😌

[@TheLovelyStyle]

Amber’s body language was a bit uncomfortable, the crossed arms and cold shoulder position tells me there still might be some lingering affliction towards their situation. Ava’s body language, the leaning in, hand on Ambers thigh, gazing in Amber’s eyes, gives me the impression she knows she still has a strong emotional/romantic influence on Amber. Good video, very entertaining.

[@beya8955]

Omg amazing analysis ! You have my type of brain argh

[@YogiRed]

I see what you mean... we can say we have all the emotional intelligence but body language doesn't lie.

[@lindakinoni131]

I agree

[@nizhonigirl82]

I agree 100% with ur observation. Very nice!! I mite add that Ava being a fem likes the fact that she still has an emotional hold on Amber (the Stem). I had this with my ex too. To know what u can still get out of the ex is exciting and selfish. I hope she doesn't hurt Amber. And Amber, cut the cord. It's time. Hope this makes sense. Lol ☺🤓💯👍🏽

[@chan2009ify]

@@nizhonigirl82 exactly 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@kallye2016]

I ve learned emotionally intelligence and communication intelligence so huge in relationships. You both came together to cause each other to grow into better people.

[@kr1s_os]

I love how they trusted each other throughout their relationship and never cheated. I’m learning this now

[@shanajimenez7435]

This was good. Sometimes you need that moment to be real with your Ex even after you both break up just to help you better for your next relationship to grow.

[@davinawangari3898]

Great video

[@chan2009ify]

Amber still has a emotionally attachment towards Ava that she will eventually have to let go, in order to be able to move on completely. Ava seems like she's moved on gracefully.

[@ZZ-mh2nv]

Agreed. Even though Ava was the flirt here...

[@chan2009ify]

@@ZZ-mh2nv yep! But Ava has always been a flirt

[@lovelivenic4606]

Amber looks like she’s trying to protect her heart, it’s obvious feelings are still there from Amber, but she could be putting up a front like she isn’t bother and want Ava to know and the audience that she lost out. She also want to hear that closure and validation which boost her confidence/ self esteem. Meanwhile Ava looks & sounds like she mature and just naturally flirty but also open.

[@qwertyqwert2772]

It looks like they are ready to try to come back together

[@deliceegbe3630]

I don’t think so I see a round 2 to apply the corrections

[@OyayoTheStorm]

There's something so healthy about giving yourself and ex the time apart, the boundaries, the healthy communication and deep platonic love and respect to grow as individuals post breakup to have a prosperous friendship/association. I have an ex that our bond is so dope that we blur those traditional lines of platonic intimacy to still provide fulfilling love, but not cross lines that creates romantic confusion. I don't know if you two have made it that far, but from the looks of things, if possible, you can be on your way. Love you Ava and Amber

[@bbuthelezi4974]

Wow this was so refreshing. I admire Ava for being so honest and openly vulnerable by admitting her faults. Amber you're amazing!

[@nunyadambiz2086]

Y'all's chemistry is 🔥🔥🔥....agree with the person saying Amber's body language indicates she's trying to protect her heart (Im a Virgo, we are blunt, and we definitely protect ourselves). Ava is open & free-flowing. But, yes y'all, we can see y'all care for each other. Somebody needs to just give in, then you both understand each other's love language and move with love in all things. Time really does heal wounds. Maybe you will find your way back to each other, but drop your preconceived expectations.

[@breanavalentine702]

I’m so proud of you Amber! She stood her ground, no feelings, no sitting close, just “you don’t miss your water, until your well runs DRY” look on your face. Ava is so pretty and I so glad she is being nice and willing to be friends. Glad you both let go of the past and can be friends. Love this video.

[@helenapoeira1981]

Wow Amber you are so intelligent and emotionally mature, I could hear you talk all day...hope my daughter's can one day express themselves as you do!

[@jmariejay]

I LOVE this comment!! idk the way you worded that..."intelligent and emotionally mature" SO GOOD!

[@tionnamorgan8049]

I love how honest Amber is. The freedom in expressing herself to the fullest

[@lexxymo]

It was nice to see yall are still cordial. I feel like the 2 public relationships Amber has had (long time watcher 😊) she is always the more mature one taking care of everyone else. I just hope one day Amber will find that person that does the same for her because she deserves it!

[@lachsforelle7565]

Same! She really much reminds me of my ex girlfriend and I also only saw the value after we broke up. Amber you deserve someone who takes just as much care of you as you do of them! You really do! I love you and keep going!

[@chan2009ify]

I agree, she's very selfless and she's like the type that pours herself into people she loves whether that's platonic or romantic.

[@maritzabonilla6660]

Lexy, Yesssss I really love Amber. I want her to have that forever soul person that gives as much as she puts into the relationship. She deserves that!

[@AmbersCloset]

Thanks guys🥺🖤🙏🏽🖤

[@sarahgibson8866]

@@AmbersCloset maybe u should try dating another virgo lol...we the best😍

[@Cfoots03]

Wow… that was lovely. Growth… Ava was definitely sending a message…. And to be honest , Ava looked open. In their past relationship video, she always gave a vibe as the “trophy” in the room (as we all should) but when you are in a relationship with an amazing person always their can be two trophy’s in the room… sounds like she feels that now. That’s growth. Ava… you better keep shooting your shot… because Amber (we love you) we do boo.. BUT she has been sneak sending us Situationship vibes in her famous “what’s up y’all welcome to the vlogs” !!! All just jokes… but congratulations to you both… this was great. When do You meet “the one” … people say you will know present/past tense… either way you will know because you just know and feel it in your soul! Cheers to growth and new opportunities for more forever & always! 🥂

[@ebonik6440]

This was a good video Amber !!!!! It was nice to see Ava on the channel. Amber has definitely taught us all emotional growth seriously 😫❤️

[@anointedann1971]

Amber still loves her, it’s undeniable. I can see a lot of closure coming from this sit down. Folks usually don’t appreciate what they had until they lose it and can’t find that out there. Either way, well done ladies!

[@jmariejay]

AMEN 🙌🏽

[@ImDeeNicole43]

It is so cool that you can sit and be real with each other. The fact that y'all are so mature about this is insane. Thank you for teaching ex's how it is done

[@alanaban1840]

Girl friend # girl friend / this is a man and a woman in disguise/ easy to see the man / woman and woman cannot have kids 😢/ do not think of it / twisted affection/ do not mix up love and lust

[@Selenas627]

Amber radiates so much maturity. So beautiful to see you be respectful and take the high road on a whole new level. such a beautiful inspiring human. It's amazing to see Amber treat Ava as more than an ex but also a human going through needed growth while having so much self-respect.

[@driaj155]

Man I don’t think y’all should’ve drank before this. There was a lot said verbally n in body language. Y’all both still have feelings for each other and are both still very much attracted to each other. I feel y’all both are leaving room to get back together

[@JavelleElaine]

Two exes in a room, being engaging with each other? This is why I love Amber. So mature and real with her emotions and the situations she puts herself in. Taking notes📝📝📝

[@VictoriaMarch13]

Virgos are definitely very passionate in every aspect of our lives especially relationships! When a Virgo loves you they love you in such a beautiful way that even if y'all split you will never be the same. ❤

[@MinorityandWomensBVLLC-jc7yl]

He'll nah ruuuuunnnn

[@FER-is7ft]

Amber has such a big heart. I hope she finds love that's reciprocated to the capacity that suits her.

[@twinklerose3499]

I remember when I first realized I was gay yall were the only black lesbian couple I knew on KZbin. It helped me so much, thankful for the security you guys gave me

[@AmbersCloset]

🖤🙏🏽🖤

[@Sssssssslf]

she's not black 🤔

[@anna-mariadavis5914]

@@Sssssssslf she is 50 percent black she may choose to identify as black because of her experience and life y’all have this new thing where u think u can tell biracial people what they are and are not that’s not your place.

[@DaigeeDeJ]

@@anna-mariadavis5914 I mean it’s not trying to tell them what they are when that IS what they are🤣

[@angelarivera8611]

@@Sssssssslf She is biracial they both are.

[@ashleyforeign205]

Even though I don’t personally know amber she really helped me figure out who I am and that coming out to my family is my choice and I do it on my time… she’s such an angel and deserves the world 🖤

[@jeremiaewing-chow3038]

This was amazing definitely felt the growth between you guys ...could tell that the love is still there 💕

[@jacquelynrincon7945]

I think there’s still so much real love between you guys and it looks like you guys could still have a chance when you’re both are ready not to lead with your egos. There’s real genuine love there Like the real deal kinda thing

[@amadeodgiorgio2]

You said Ava was stuck up the first time you guys met, that's the vibe I got from her the first time she was in your video. Never liked the girl, never trusted her. Just keepin' it real.

[@nicoleallen9221]

Set ur boundaries Amber she still flirting...Mind games are real

[@julzamidala2865]

I was heartbroke for you both back then and for the future a bit too. It was so good to hear you go deep and share what you learned and that gives me nore hope too. Thank you

[@HighPriestessK]

I am so proud of you, Amber. You are so young and so wise. I'm proud of you.

[@bebeentertainment22]

I just love the bond! You can be friends with your ex!!!

[@shanikawright7832]

I honestly think things between you both can go back into being a relationship rather than a friendship . Because it was just stuff that was just unclear back then . But great inspiring video. Well done.

[@tashastewart5034]

Amber clearly still has some scars from this relationship BUT! It’s the openness, transparency and honesty for me!! Virgo shit!! It’s our season!!! ♍️♍️♍️♍️♍️

[@antoniaarmstrong717]

I love Ava! She has an amazing personality. I'm happy that you all are still cordial ❤

[@tonyaleach8222]

Love the relationship y’all have now

[@judithchilcoat5852]

I did not like the "old" seemingly stuck-up, narcissistic Ava and couldn' figure out what Amber saw in her. Over the years, Diva Ava mellowed and seemed to learn the world did not spin on her axis. Still, I was a bit shocked when you broke up. It's good you can kind of talk about it without rancor. Best of luck and love to you both. This was a good idea.

[@savanahjade5090]

I’m watching this and smiling cus what a cool thing to have with someone who u once loved or just love differently now... Not a lot of people are able to do this and u definitely don’t see people praising and recognizing this as a healthy way of life enough. Dope video 💙

[@toineyprince5581]

I am proud of Amber for all the boundaries in this video!

[@karasays01]

This relationship did concern me. I'm glad that you both were able to discuss this. I think Amber still loves Ava, and is hurt. Ava has a new experience to help her in new relationships and she will be able to discuss falling for a woman.

[@hannahhernandez2819]

I love this this is some real mature shit alot of ex's can't do this

[@lovelivenic4606]

Amber looks like she’s trying to protect her heart, it’s obvious feelings are still there from Amber, but she could be putting up a front like she isn’t bother and want Ava to know and the audience that she lost out. She also want to hear that closure and validation which boost her confidence/ self esteem. Meanwhile Ava looks & sounds like she mature and just naturally flirty but also knows Amber still has love for her.

[@purplebutterflikisses]

Love seeing y’all sitting down and being cool with each other !!

[@EvieNefertiti]

This made me want y’all to get back together. Even though I have no idea what y’all went through so it doesn’t matter lol. I shed a little tear.

[@jmariejay]

omgeee RIGHT??

[@kristinay.8852]

This video helped me self reflect a lot and think about the emotional journey we go thru in partnerships. Yall funny together too!

[@ToDaMaxxx]

When an ex speaks badly especially with passion over an ex, it screams emotion to me. Bad emotion is still emotion. It's just what's resulted because you're angry at this person you still love after they did something to you. I was dodging women who do that. And 8f Ava was my current and I watched this video...she was touching your thigh, eye contacting you, just too touchy feely. I wouldn't like seeing my current do too much with the ex. Plus it appears she does it cuz she knows she still has a hold on you.

[@User-jd9ut]

People should aim to feel pathetic after a break up tho because I feel like that’s the only healthy emotion we’re you can truly say I’m honestly over it

[@Diosarg]

Ava was so touchy feeling on amber 🥰

[@maybeni288]

but they are friends and Amber might be seeing someone right now...

[@nizhonigirl82]

It's the growth for me. Ya'll still have chemistry too. The vulnerability is there too. I love it!! It's so lesbian up in here!!! HAHA Thx for sharing..Its exciting to see how ex's communicate. I especially like the part about how ya'll moved away from ur families to become family with each other. It's my point to my ex..we both exiled our fams for reasons we had..had us a baby and then she leaves me to go back to her religion. Dude it hurts so much. My heart is broken..so it feels good to see u two at this level. I hope we can get there too so we can Co parent better for our one main reason -Our beautiful daughter!!!!! 🥰🦋🐨🐢❤🌈💯

[@dymondwalker9062]

Thats it! I need an Amber in my life! Had me at coffee waiting in the car!

[@MarielaSantana1]

I love everything about Ava! Those curls 😍 And Amber your facial expressions 🤣🤣🤣

[@deandraowens7936]

How was this SOO GOOD and SOO BAD at the SAME TIME?! I support you both. Good Vibes Only is STILL my SHAT!👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾💖

[@Sacred_Heart333]

Amber is SO ANIMATED... lol. I LOVE it. This video is beyond entertaining. It is Beautiful to see how much you have both grown (in many ways). Wishing you both ALL THE BEST. Divine Blessings ✨🙏🏾✨

[@chillypowderful]

I feel like Amber still loves Eva 💕

[@katty992]

Me too!!!

[@readingsbygenevieve8479]

I think that they both still love each other.

[@celebritymediamadness3981]

@@readingsbygenevieve8479 yeah

[@sexychocolate282008]

I feel like they do too!

[@billione2938]

i think that they will get back together in the future

[@lungilemnguni6721]

I appreciate both of y'all watching this actually gave me a clue of conversation i wanna have with my ex girlfriend, we just broke up after 5 years of relationship, walking out is difficult.. ❤

[@itsonlyme132]

Amber you seem like a really nice chill person, you definitely deserve somebody who'll love you the way you deserve to be. I hope you find that person. ❤️ PS: You should do recaps of the L Word Gen Q S2 and I'm still pissed off that they didn't cast you. 😅

[@thesoftspokenpodcast]

I feel like Ava is tipsy and she’s comfortable around amber and the energy just encourage the flirt between the two

[@Nkr565]

What amber said about Ava being like family to her I totally understand

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

It’s great to see that exes can be friends

[@kcali_058]

Re-watched several times. Loved them as a couple. Passion vs. Aggression? Was it Venting? You just have to get to know your partner. Their quirks, idiosyncrasies, how they let off steam. As long as it doesn't get physical. Some things you have to overlook in a relationship.

[@krystalclevinger1671]

Communication and honesty is key no matter what type of relationship/friendship it is. It shows respect and brings longevity into friendships

[@ToriVictoriUS]

Y'all still into each other. Period

[@meaniesmommy1306]

I love y’all. I was waiting on the “we back together “ I think Ava and Natalie would vibe well. I needed to see this I’m going through it.

[@mikacasimir8131]

I miss y’all dynamic 🔥🔥 big time

[@shaeshae2725]

In my opinion you two are best as friends.. The cards read a stronger.. confident..maturer.. selfless person in your life.

[@beautifullyfree7899]

I dunno, I think Amber gets taken advantage of & taken for granted! Like the partners we’ve seen don’t seem on the level of her. I hope behind the scenes she’s happy whether we know it or not, but I do agree there seems to be some irritation here, not my biz... blessings to you Amber, you’re deserving of SOOO much more!

[@_asantesana_squashbanana_]

True

[@jatv1840]

Amber is giving I’m still into you vibes

[@Sammy-cm9ce]

"your black heart made it feel that way" SLAYED ME

[@manifestationsofblack7946]

Y’all are manifestating y’all’s relationship back❤️🧘🏾‍♂️🌬

[@scorpio11955]

Am gonna simply say you both love each each other still. Amber is still dying slowly inside at times. I feels same way about someone I loved. We broke up when I was still in love and am sure will behave this way too. I don't know what to say about this video. Coz you'll miss each other. There's still love and you've both learned

[@vintagesoul1987]

As a Taurus I can definitely agree!!! I’m slamming cabinets, slinging doors, stomping around.

[@bluenightsky]

This is dope. Only one ex I wouldn't have these chill vibes with, but everyone else, I am chill with.

[@Babyyogana]

wowwww i didn’t know i needed to see this video. 😩😩❤️❤️❤️ makes me miss my ex but yea sometimes you just gotta let them go ❤️ Love you Amber!!!

[@yolandarobinson1919]

I applaud you both. You can see the love there. I see that if this was a conversation years ago, y’all might be together.

[@caitlinohara9338]

Amber treated Ava like a princess 🥺

[@Monica-od6mj]

Seems like you both have matured enough separately to give this relationship another go, together, if you both are currently single. Anyone watching this can clearly see the chemistry, mutual love and respect for each other. 😍 #Ava&Amber2.0

[@dionneappuhamyge25]

Ikr, I was just going to say the very same thing.

[@elleroLUV]

Amber has someone, they seem very happy

[@richhomiefamoux1726]

@@elleroLUV she's single

[@thrillamantic]

yes. I agree

[@SnapszDuhh]

@@elleroLUV LMAO Amber is single. Where on earth did you get that from? And Ava is in a relationship with a man.

[@THFAN48311]

See now there’s probably one ex I am still chill with but if we ever did a video like this it would be TOXIC! I applaud y’all though!!!

[@SelfLoveIsKey]

I loved the honestly in this video. Delighted you ladies can have fun without it being awkward. Wishing both of you endless growth, love, and positivity.

[@StephanieGuerrero-p3u]

This was 🔥 the emotional maturity 🥹Exes that can acknowledge that for whatever period of time they were in each others journey, that there was love there but can respectfully agree that their journeys need to be separate now, and can still show up with kindness and support for one another is just such a beautiful thing ❤

[@izzychidley]

I love your vibes. Amber, its so good that you communicate these things and put it out there because it will help confirm people’s thoughts, feelings and situations. Such a good talker and good mindset! Literally everything I think but not as a good communicator lol.

[@call_me_mushroom6360]

It's Amber for me😂😂😂the whole eye widening as she hears her ex talk nice about her😂😂🔥

[@11111DZ]

They could be so good together, I was rooting for them sooo much, when they broke up I felt I lost something good I swear. I hope they both happy no matter what!

[@fionakilpatrick9234]

I think Amber thought having a bit space would help the situation & I agree with that x

[@khomotsomaphuthi4099]

The maturity within them both... Love it❤its insane how y'all still look amazing together even thou ur no longer together😭

[@Lilsoso19]

I hope after Ava left amber felt like 💅 from letting this happen, healing. I’m happy you got this out of your heart, no pain needs to be left behind 💯♥️

[@11triciago]

This is an awesome conversation to have w/an ex BUT getting back together after the fact won't work out. You'll both be trying to compensate what you lacked before YET it won't be genuine.....

[@syannasowell2935]

It’s soooo crazy that I found this page again. I used to watch when I was SOOO young lol

[@beautifulmadnesswithbri]

It’s nice to see how mature y’all are to be able to sit down together 💜

[@Beautyflawed81]

I really loved y'all as a couple.. However, I love that you both are remaining cordial.. Plus both of y'all are cute.. Together or a part..

[@shaniceclarke1832]

She treated u like a queen❤

[@TriplechainGaming]

I loved this video. You can tell they still have genuine love for each other ! Wish y’all the best !

[@MsStokeling]

Yaaaaas!! When you talk negative about your ex that’s a reflection of you #LuvIt

[@Isabellabadass]

Amber your faces at the camera. EVERYTHING

[@sherene8903]

Loved this so much. Watching you handling things the way you do, helps me to do better as well. Also, I think Ava still has strong feelings for you tho and you for her as well🤭🤷🏿 Your vibe together feels very organic❤️

[@jordancullen3666]

No lie I watched this 5 times miss Amber and Ava 🤗

[@ifrahkhalif4956]

One of best things in life is when you learn different things from your lover one So you can be better and work on your relationship

[@blo2102]

I've been watching you for soooo long. I think it's the funniest thing watching your facial expressions 😂😂 glad yall kept it chill after the break up.

[@sidoniejordan-olsen7673]

Relationships are hard af just in general, but the grass is only green where it's tended to.

[@nurharapanable]

Now that they already broke up, ava finally more expressive..maybe the suitable just as friend.

[@babygirl6420]

O my Amber. This is YOUR PERSON AND YOU BOTH KNOW THAT. I hope you guys find your way back to each other.