Questions that I was Afraid to ask my EX

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AmbersCloset

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@kylaknight3655
@kylaknight3655 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like Amber did a good job with boundaries in this video--- also, being appreciated after the fact is hella bittersweet... good job with staying real but also being the amazing positive person that you are. 🌻
@tiffanymccray3909
@tiffanymccray3909 3 жыл бұрын
"All this growth for her new dude(folds arms)" I feel u Amber 😂💯
@nellkee359
@nellkee359 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@queen_s1mba256
@queen_s1mba256 3 жыл бұрын
lol she was heated through this whole video
@julianacheriza1575
@julianacheriza1575 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not surprised that she eventually got with a guy
@richhomiefamoux1726
@richhomiefamoux1726 3 жыл бұрын
@@julianacheriza1575 i mean she was never gay to begin with so it's not really a surprise lmfaoo
@lizali5588
@lizali5588 3 жыл бұрын
@@richhomiefamoux1726 she claimed to be “gay”?? Or bi, pan etc.
@TheLovelyStyle
@TheLovelyStyle 3 жыл бұрын
Amber’s body language was a bit uncomfortable, the crossed arms and cold shoulder position tells me there still might be some lingering affliction towards their situation. Ava’s body language, the leaning in, hand on Ambers thigh, gazing in Amber’s eyes, gives me the impression she knows she still has a strong emotional/romantic influence on Amber. Good video, very entertaining.
@beya8955
@beya8955 3 жыл бұрын
Omg amazing analysis ! You have my type of brain argh
@YogiRed
@YogiRed 3 жыл бұрын
I see what you mean... we can say we have all the emotional intelligence but body language doesn't lie.
@lindakinoni131
@lindakinoni131 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@nizhonigirl82
@nizhonigirl82 3 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% with ur observation. Very nice!! I mite add that Ava being a fem likes the fact that she still has an emotional hold on Amber (the Stem). I had this with my ex too. To know what u can still get out of the ex is exciting and selfish. I hope she doesn't hurt Amber. And Amber, cut the cord. It's time. Hope this makes sense. Lol ☺🤓💯👍🏽
@chan2009ify
@chan2009ify 3 жыл бұрын
@@nizhonigirl82 exactly 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@Prettypetitepisces22
@Prettypetitepisces22 3 жыл бұрын
Some people don’t realize or appreciate what good they had until they are gone. I could tell Amber is very caring and passionate. Ava definitely is tripping for letting her go. Ava all reminiscing missing the little things lol and Ambers all like “yeah well you had all of this and didn’t appreciate it when you did .” Lol
@denkinoms
@denkinoms 3 жыл бұрын
Isn't that a like disrespectful to the new people in their though🤣🤣🤣😅😅 awkward
@ima.m.1658
@ima.m.1658 3 жыл бұрын
Didn’t she say Amber was aggressive and yelled at times? I don’t think that’s healthy.
@Prettypetitepisces22
@Prettypetitepisces22 3 жыл бұрын
@@ima.m.1658 still isn’t a good enough reason to leave someone .. clearly Amber wasn’t that aggressive for Ava still to still want a friendship let alone be around her .. also Ava is very touchy in this video…
@Prettypetitepisces22
@Prettypetitepisces22 3 жыл бұрын
@@denkinoms definitely not
@ima.m.1658
@ima.m.1658 3 жыл бұрын
@@Prettypetitepisces22 Actually, it is good enough of a reason to leave someone (or go to couples/individual therapy). It can be, but friendship isn’t always the same level of emotional intimacy as dating. Amber must have been otherwise likable for Ava to want to be friends with.
@chan2009ify
@chan2009ify 3 жыл бұрын
Amber still has a emotionally attachment towards Ava that she will eventually have to let go, in order to be able to move on completely. Ava seems like she's moved on gracefully.
@ZZ-mh2nv
@ZZ-mh2nv 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Even though Ava was the flirt here...
@chan2009ify
@chan2009ify 3 жыл бұрын
@@ZZ-mh2nv yep! But Ava has always been a flirt
@lovelivenic4606
@lovelivenic4606 3 жыл бұрын
Amber looks like she’s trying to protect her heart, it’s obvious feelings are still there from Amber, but she could be putting up a front like she isn’t bother and want Ava to know and the audience that she lost out. She also want to hear that closure and validation which boost her confidence/ self esteem. Meanwhile Ava looks & sounds like she mature and just naturally flirty but also open.
@qwertyqwert2772
@qwertyqwert2772 3 жыл бұрын
It looks like they are ready to try to come back together
@deliceegbe3630
@deliceegbe3630 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think so I see a round 2 to apply the corrections
@lexxymo
@lexxymo 3 жыл бұрын
It was nice to see yall are still cordial. I feel like the 2 public relationships Amber has had (long time watcher 😊) she is always the more mature one taking care of everyone else. I just hope one day Amber will find that person that does the same for her because she deserves it!
@lachsforelle7565
@lachsforelle7565 3 жыл бұрын
Same! She really much reminds me of my ex girlfriend and I also only saw the value after we broke up. Amber you deserve someone who takes just as much care of you as you do of them! You really do! I love you and keep going!
@chan2009ify
@chan2009ify 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, she's very selfless and she's like the type that pours herself into people she loves whether that's platonic or romantic.
@maritzabonilla6660
@maritzabonilla6660 3 жыл бұрын
Lexy, Yesssss I really love Amber. I want her to have that forever soul person that gives as much as she puts into the relationship. She deserves that!
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys🥺🖤🙏🏽🖤
@sarahgibson8866
@sarahgibson8866 3 жыл бұрын
@@AmbersCloset maybe u should try dating another virgo lol...we the best😍
@latonyaanderson1405
@latonyaanderson1405 3 жыл бұрын
“When I was in a relationship I felt like that was my last”. I felt that. Two years in December I will have been broken up from my partner of 10 years. It still hurts. Stay positive Amber. Talking ish IS a reflection of your character.
@helenapoeira1981
@helenapoeira1981 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Amber you are so intelligent and emotionally mature, I could hear you talk all day...hope my daughter's can one day express themselves as you do!
@jmariejay
@jmariejay 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this comment!! idk the way you worded that..."intelligent and emotionally mature" SO GOOD!
@tashastewart5034
@tashastewart5034 3 жыл бұрын
Amber clearly still has some scars from this relationship BUT! It’s the openness, transparency and honesty for me!! Virgo shit!! It’s our season!!! ♍️♍️♍️♍️♍️
@Schelsea94
@Schelsea94 3 жыл бұрын
Love how you guys can still openly communicate about the past without it turning into a disagreement, the respect you have for each other is evident. I hope you both find what you need in your current or future relationships….. However 🥴 Respectfully, I’m still rooting for y’all!!😌
@shanajimenez7435
@shanajimenez7435 3 жыл бұрын
This was good. Sometimes you need that moment to be real with your Ex even after you both break up just to help you better for your next relationship to grow.
@davinawangari3898
@davinawangari3898 3 жыл бұрын
Great video
@kr1s_os
@kr1s_os 3 жыл бұрын
I love how they trusted each other throughout their relationship and never cheated. I’m learning this now
@twinklerose3499
@twinklerose3499 3 жыл бұрын
I remember when I first realized I was gay yall were the only black lesbian couple I knew on KZbin. It helped me so much, thankful for the security you guys gave me
@AmbersCloset
@AmbersCloset 3 жыл бұрын
🖤🙏🏽🖤
@Sssssssslf
@Sssssssslf 3 жыл бұрын
she's not black 🤔
@anna-mariadavis5914
@anna-mariadavis5914 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sssssssslf she is 50 percent black she may choose to identify as black because of her experience and life y’all have this new thing where u think u can tell biracial people what they are and are not that’s not your place.
@belledej7555
@belledej7555 3 жыл бұрын
@@anna-mariadavis5914 I mean it’s not trying to tell them what they are when that IS what they are🤣
@angelarivera8611
@angelarivera8611 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sssssssslf She is biracial they both are.
@amadeodgiorgio2
@amadeodgiorgio2 2 жыл бұрын
You said Ava was stuck up the first time you guys met, that's the vibe I got from her the first time she was in your video. Never liked the girl, never trusted her. Just keepin' it real.
@kallye2016
@kallye2016 3 жыл бұрын
I ve learned emotionally intelligence and communication intelligence so huge in relationships. You both came together to cause each other to grow into better people.
@anointedann1971
@anointedann1971 3 жыл бұрын
Amber still loves her, it’s undeniable. I can see a lot of closure coming from this sit down. Folks usually don’t appreciate what they had until they lose it and can’t find that out there. Either way, well done ladies!
@jmariejay
@jmariejay 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN 🙌🏽
@nunyadambiz2086
@nunyadambiz2086 3 жыл бұрын
Y'all's chemistry is 🔥🔥🔥....agree with the person saying Amber's body language indicates she's trying to protect her heart (Im a Virgo, we are blunt, and we definitely protect ourselves). Ava is open & free-flowing. But, yes y'all, we can see y'all care for each other. Somebody needs to just give in, then you both understand each other's love language and move with love in all things. Time really does heal wounds. Maybe you will find your way back to each other, but drop your preconceived expectations.
@Selenas627
@Selenas627 2 жыл бұрын
Amber radiates so much maturity. So beautiful to see you be respectful and take the high road on a whole new level. such a beautiful inspiring human. It's amazing to see Amber treat Ava as more than an ex but also a human going through needed growth while having so much self-respect.
@JavelleElaine
@JavelleElaine 3 жыл бұрын
Two exes in a room, being engaging with each other? This is why I love Amber. So mature and real with her emotions and the situations she puts herself in. Taking notes📝📝📝
@bbuthelezi4974
@bbuthelezi4974 3 жыл бұрын
Wow this was so refreshing. I admire Ava for being so honest and openly vulnerable by admitting her faults. Amber you're amazing!
@breanavalentine702
@breanavalentine702 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you Amber! She stood her ground, no feelings, no sitting close, just “you don’t miss your water, until your well runs DRY” look on your face. Ava is so pretty and I so glad she is being nice and willing to be friends. Glad you both let go of the past and can be friends. Love this video.
@bebeentertainment22
@bebeentertainment22 3 жыл бұрын
CAN YALL JUST GET BACK TOGETHER 🥺 My Anxiety Can’t This 😩😩😩
@tionnamorgan8049
@tionnamorgan8049 3 жыл бұрын
I love how honest Amber is. The freedom in expressing herself to the fullest
@ashleyforeign205
@ashleyforeign205 3 жыл бұрын
Even though I don’t personally know amber she really helped me figure out who I am and that coming out to my family is my choice and I do it on my time… she’s such an angel and deserves the world 🖤
@OyayoTheStorm
@OyayoTheStorm 3 жыл бұрын
There's something so healthy about giving yourself and ex the time apart, the boundaries, the healthy communication and deep platonic love and respect to grow as individuals post breakup to have a prosperous friendship/association. I have an ex that our bond is so dope that we blur those traditional lines of platonic intimacy to still provide fulfilling love, but not cross lines that creates romantic confusion. I don't know if you two have made it that far, but from the looks of things, if possible, you can be on your way. Love you Ava and Amber
@ebonik6440
@ebonik6440 3 жыл бұрын
This was a good video Amber !!!!! It was nice to see Ava on the channel. Amber has definitely taught us all emotional growth seriously 😫❤️
@Cfoots03
@Cfoots03 3 жыл бұрын
Wow… that was lovely. Growth… Ava was definitely sending a message…. And to be honest , Ava looked open. In their past relationship video, she always gave a vibe as the “trophy” in the room (as we all should) but when you are in a relationship with an amazing person always their can be two trophy’s in the room… sounds like she feels that now. That’s growth. Ava… you better keep shooting your shot… because Amber (we love you) we do boo.. BUT she has been sneak sending us Situationship vibes in her famous “what’s up y’all welcome to the vlogs” !!! All just jokes… but congratulations to you both… this was great. When do You meet “the one” … people say you will know present/past tense… either way you will know because you just know and feel it in your soul! Cheers to growth and new opportunities for more forever & always! 🥂
@chillypowderful
@chillypowderful 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like Amber still loves Eva 💕
@katty992
@katty992 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@readingsbygenevieve8479
@readingsbygenevieve8479 3 жыл бұрын
I think that they both still love each other.
@celebritymediamadness3981
@celebritymediamadness3981 3 жыл бұрын
@@readingsbygenevieve8479 yeah
@sexychocolate282008
@sexychocolate282008 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like they do too!
@billione2938
@billione2938 3 жыл бұрын
i think that they will get back together in the future
@driaj155
@driaj155 3 жыл бұрын
Man I don’t think y’all should’ve drank before this. There was a lot said verbally n in body language. Y’all both still have feelings for each other and are both still very much attracted to each other. I feel y’all both are leaving room to get back together
@VictoriaMarch13
@VictoriaMarch13 3 жыл бұрын
Virgos are definitely very passionate in every aspect of our lives especially relationships! When a Virgo loves you they love you in such a beautiful way that even if y'all split you will never be the same. ❤
@MinorityandWomensBVLLC-jc7yl
@MinorityandWomensBVLLC-jc7yl 3 ай бұрын
He'll nah ruuuuunnnn
@Monica-od6mj
@Monica-od6mj 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like you both have matured enough separately to give this relationship another go, together, if you both are currently single. Anyone watching this can clearly see the chemistry, mutual love and respect for each other. 😍 #Ava&Amber2.0
@dionneappuhamyge25
@dionneappuhamyge25 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr, I was just going to say the very same thing.
@elleroLUV
@elleroLUV 3 жыл бұрын
Amber has someone, they seem very happy
@richhomiefamoux1726
@richhomiefamoux1726 3 жыл бұрын
@@elleroLUV she's single
@thrillamantic
@thrillamantic 3 жыл бұрын
yes. I agree
@SnapszDuhh
@SnapszDuhh 3 жыл бұрын
@@elleroLUV LMAO Amber is single. Where on earth did you get that from? And Ava is in a relationship with a man.
@ImDeeNicole43
@ImDeeNicole43 3 жыл бұрын
It is so cool that you can sit and be real with each other. The fact that y'all are so mature about this is insane. Thank you for teaching ex's how it is done
@alanaban1840
@alanaban1840 11 ай бұрын
Girl friend # girl friend / this is a man and a woman in disguise/ easy to see the man / woman and woman cannot have kids 😢/ do not think of it / twisted affection/ do not mix up love and lust
@antoniaarmstrong717
@antoniaarmstrong717 3 жыл бұрын
I love Ava! She has an amazing personality. I'm happy that you all are still cordial ❤
@tonyaleach8222
@tonyaleach8222 3 жыл бұрын
Love the relationship y’all have now
@judithchilcoat5852
@judithchilcoat5852 3 жыл бұрын
I did not like the "old" seemingly stuck-up, narcissistic Ava and couldn' figure out what Amber saw in her. Over the years, Diva Ava mellowed and seemed to learn the world did not spin on her axis. Still, I was a bit shocked when you broke up. It's good you can kind of talk about it without rancor. Best of luck and love to you both. This was a good idea.
@FER-is7ft
@FER-is7ft 2 жыл бұрын
Amber has such a big heart. I hope she finds love that's reciprocated to the capacity that suits her.
@jacquelynrincon7945
@jacquelynrincon7945 3 жыл бұрын
I think there’s still so much real love between you guys and it looks like you guys could still have a chance when you’re both are ready not to lead with your egos. There’s real genuine love there Like the real deal kinda thing
@ToDaMaxxx
@ToDaMaxxx 3 жыл бұрын
When an ex speaks badly especially with passion over an ex, it screams emotion to me. Bad emotion is still emotion. It's just what's resulted because you're angry at this person you still love after they did something to you. I was dodging women who do that. And 8f Ava was my current and I watched this video...she was touching your thigh, eye contacting you, just too touchy feely. I wouldn't like seeing my current do too much with the ex. Plus it appears she does it cuz she knows she still has a hold on you.
@User-jd9ut
@User-jd9ut 3 жыл бұрын
People should aim to feel pathetic after a break up tho because I feel like that’s the only healthy emotion we’re you can truly say I’m honestly over it
@babygirl6420
@babygirl6420 3 жыл бұрын
O my Amber. This is YOUR PERSON AND YOU BOTH KNOW THAT. I hope you guys find your way back to each other.
@1stladiestv303
@1stladiestv303 3 жыл бұрын
This is a typical situation of straight girl got a chance with popular stud. Didn’t know what she really had and fcked up. Some people are better off just friends. And their chemistry is better that way. Amber was too much for shawty.....just my opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️
@toineyprince5581
@toineyprince5581 3 жыл бұрын
I am proud of Amber for all the boundaries in this video!
@jeremiaewing-chow3038
@jeremiaewing-chow3038 3 жыл бұрын
This was amazing definitely felt the growth between you guys ...could tell that the love is still there 💕
@AFOS94
@AFOS94 3 жыл бұрын
I think everyone’s being hard on Ava. They are drinking lol when I’m liquored up, I can get handsy accidentally cause I’m more loose. Also, No one is a perfect person. Not even Amber. We live and we learn. Lastly, That was Ava’s first relationship with a woman. There was going to be mistakes realistically. Overall. I’m glad they have gotten back to a better space 🥰
@karasays01
@karasays01 3 жыл бұрын
This relationship did concern me. I'm glad that you both were able to discuss this. I think Amber still loves Ava, and is hurt. Ava has a new experience to help her in new relationships and she will be able to discuss falling for a woman.
@manifestationsofblack7946
@manifestationsofblack7946 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are manifestating y’all’s relationship back❤️🧘🏾‍♂️🌬
@savanahjade5090
@savanahjade5090 3 жыл бұрын
I’m watching this and smiling cus what a cool thing to have with someone who u once loved or just love differently now... Not a lot of people are able to do this and u definitely don’t see people praising and recognizing this as a healthy way of life enough. Dope video 💙
@EvieNefertiti
@EvieNefertiti 3 жыл бұрын
This made me want y’all to get back together. Even though I have no idea what y’all went through so it doesn’t matter lol. I shed a little tear.
@jmariejay
@jmariejay 3 жыл бұрын
omgeee RIGHT??
@HighPriestessK
@HighPriestessK 3 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you, Amber. You are so young and so wise. I'm proud of you.
@bebeentertainment22
@bebeentertainment22 3 жыл бұрын
I just love the bond! You can be friends with your ex!!!
@shanikawright7832
@shanikawright7832 3 жыл бұрын
I honestly think things between you both can go back into being a relationship rather than a friendship . Because it was just stuff that was just unclear back then . But great inspiring video. Well done.
@EdwardSanchezProductions
@EdwardSanchezProductions 3 жыл бұрын
It’s great to see that exes can be friends
@julzamidala2865
@julzamidala2865 3 жыл бұрын
I was heartbroke for you both back then and for the future a bit too. It was so good to hear you go deep and share what you learned and that gives me nore hope too. Thank you
@MarielaSantana1
@MarielaSantana1 3 жыл бұрын
I love everything about Ava! Those curls 😍 And Amber your facial expressions 🤣🤣🤣
@hazeleyes1976
@hazeleyes1976 3 жыл бұрын
Ava is not a lesbian, that is why they broke up and she moved on so easily💁🏻‍♀️. Hope they both find the happiness they deserve.
@clary5561
@clary5561 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. The thing is: most studs try to turn straight girls into lesbians, which is crazy because they will leave when they start to get bored and just go and get married or pregnant and live happily with a man. They are not even bisexual, they are bicurious
@taymarg4272
@taymarg4272 3 жыл бұрын
Did she ever say that she’s straight though? If so then I must’ve missed it. Can someone tell me where she said that?
@hazeleyes1976
@hazeleyes1976 3 жыл бұрын
@@taymarg4272 yes she dated men before and after amber. She has said it many times.
@taymarg4272
@taymarg4272 3 жыл бұрын
@@hazeleyes1976 I didn’t ask how many men she dated. I asked did she ever mentioned that she’s straight? Her dating men does not equal to her being straight lol.
@jazlynjaz940
@jazlynjaz940 3 жыл бұрын
So let me get this straight, she talked about dating men in the past, but never said that she was “straight” and so you guys just labeled her as straight. Got it.
@lovelivenic4606
@lovelivenic4606 3 жыл бұрын
Amber looks like she’s trying to protect her heart, it’s obvious feelings are still there from Amber, but she could be putting up a front like she isn’t bother and want Ava to know and the audience that she lost out. She also want to hear that closure and validation which boost her confidence/ self esteem. Meanwhile Ava looks & sounds like she mature and just naturally flirty but also knows Amber still has love for her.
@MA-ky2ur
@MA-ky2ur 3 жыл бұрын
Amber love you all. Amber I apologize ahead of time if I am stepping, but what comes across the screen, is unresolved issues on both sides , and caring for one another. Wish you both best of luck solving those and moving on. Obviously, you both respect each other.
@Prairie_Gypsy
@Prairie_Gypsy 3 жыл бұрын
She makes amber soo uncomfortable in such a cute way.
@lovelivenic4606
@lovelivenic4606 3 жыл бұрын
Amber looks like she’s trying to protect her heart, it’s obvious feelings are still there from Amber, but she could be putting up a front like she isn’t bother and Ava lost out.
@ceciliatorres2099
@ceciliatorres2099 3 жыл бұрын
Lol it’s not in a cute way, felt like gaslighting lmao
@ToriVictoriUS
@ToriVictoriUS 3 жыл бұрын
Y'all still into each other. Period
@deandraowens7936
@deandraowens7936 3 жыл бұрын
How was this SOO GOOD and SOO BAD at the SAME TIME?! I support you both. Good Vibes Only is STILL my SHAT!👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾💖
@scorpio11955
@scorpio11955 3 жыл бұрын
Am gonna simply say you both love each each other still. Amber is still dying slowly inside at times. I feels same way about someone I loved. We broke up when I was still in love and am sure will behave this way too. I don't know what to say about this video. Coz you'll miss each other. There's still love and you've both learned
@Nkr565
@Nkr565 3 жыл бұрын
What amber said about Ava being like family to her I totally understand
@kcali_058
@kcali_058 3 жыл бұрын
Re-watched several times. Loved them as a couple. Passion vs. Aggression? Was it Venting? You just have to get to know your partner. Their quirks, idiosyncrasies, how they let off steam. As long as it doesn't get physical. Some things you have to overlook in a relationship.
@purplebutterflikisses
@purplebutterflikisses 3 жыл бұрын
Love seeing y’all sitting down and being cool with each other !!
@nizhonigirl82
@nizhonigirl82 3 жыл бұрын
It's the growth for me. Ya'll still have chemistry too. The vulnerability is there too. I love it!! It's so lesbian up in here!!! HAHA Thx for sharing..Its exciting to see how ex's communicate. I especially like the part about how ya'll moved away from ur families to become family with each other. It's my point to my ex..we both exiled our fams for reasons we had..had us a baby and then she leaves me to go back to her religion. Dude it hurts so much. My heart is broken..so it feels good to see u two at this level. I hope we can get there too so we can Co parent better for our one main reason -Our beautiful daughter!!!!! 🥰🦋🐨🐢❤🌈💯
@kristinay.8852
@kristinay.8852 3 жыл бұрын
This video helped me self reflect a lot and think about the emotional journey we go thru in partnerships. Yall funny together too!
@vintagesoul1987
@vintagesoul1987 3 жыл бұрын
As a Taurus I can definitely agree!!! I’m slamming cabinets, slinging doors, stomping around.
@sammitchell1848
@sammitchell1848 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like Ava is tipsy and she’s comfortable around amber and the energy just encourage the flirt between the two
@itsonlyme132
@itsonlyme132 3 жыл бұрын
Amber you seem like a really nice chill person, you definitely deserve somebody who'll love you the way you deserve to be. I hope you find that person. ❤️ PS: You should do recaps of the L Word Gen Q S2 and I'm still pissed off that they didn't cast you. 😅
@Diosarg
@Diosarg 3 жыл бұрын
Ava was so touchy feeling on amber 🥰
@maybeni288
@maybeni288 3 жыл бұрын
but they are friends and Amber might be seeing someone right now...
@stephaneg.9451
@stephaneg.9451 3 жыл бұрын
BODY LANGUAGE DON'T LIE...when we can see that Ava was really emotionally open and accountable for her actions Amber still haven't completely went over the process of healing. Your arms are crossed Everytime it comes to something really emotional. This conversation was a brilliant idea but one thing was missing Amber recognizing where she failed in the relationship. Whenever I looked at something you talk about her it made Ava seems like she was that only one messing up the whole 3 years. Amber kept justifying her actions saying that she did it for her that's call EXCUSES. Sometimes even if we think we're doing our best that doesn't mean our partner are sensitive to this kind of act (love language). Don't misunderstand me, I've seen Amber going through a whole different and spiritual journey and I feel like she's definitely a wonderful caring and loving human being. But we human need to stop justify our actions and take responsibility. You moved out because you wanted to because it was better for you and because you were hoping that it would benefit her your relationship and at the end you were hoping she would move with you in your bigger apartment. Buy how can you do something for your loved without communicate first with her About this. Did you talk to Ava about wanting her to move with you in the new apartment? You said you wanted to keep dating het but how? Honestly guys, you're living with your partner and she's moving out when things are not the best and telling you she's still want to date how would you feel ? Honestly I feel like you were loving her the way you would have like to be loved by her but do you guys have the same love languages? You guys are beautiful souls and you definitely still have a deep and wonderful bond so take the time Amber to see things maybe on a different perspective and take responsibility. Yes you were a wonderful girlfriend but that doesn't mean that you were the perfect one for her at that time even if you feel like it. That was definitely a beautiful and deep exercice. Wish you guys the best 😉
@nunyadambiz2086
@nunyadambiz2086 3 жыл бұрын
Wow insightful! Really good points...
@stephaneg.9451
@stephaneg.9451 3 жыл бұрын
@@nunyadambiz2086 thank you 🙏🏿 It seems like I wasn't the only one seeing those things
@stephaneg.9451
@stephaneg.9451 3 жыл бұрын
@@NewNew44519 appareciate you 🙏🏿
@hobi-wan-kanobi2016
@hobi-wan-kanobi2016 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@gemin-i2248
@gemin-i2248 3 жыл бұрын
You are BRILLIANT🙏🙏
@Sammy-cm9ce
@Sammy-cm9ce Жыл бұрын
"your black heart made it feel that way" SLAYED ME
@beautifullyfree7899
@beautifullyfree7899 3 жыл бұрын
I dunno, I think Amber gets taken advantage of & taken for granted! Like the partners we’ve seen don’t seem on the level of her. I hope behind the scenes she’s happy whether we know it or not, but I do agree there seems to be some irritation here, not my biz... blessings to you Amber, you’re deserving of SOOO much more!
@_asantesana_squashbanana_
@_asantesana_squashbanana_ 6 ай бұрын
True
@justice_rizzo
@justice_rizzo 3 жыл бұрын
*I love that Amber did this because I feel she got the closure she needed to fully move on. She's a beautiful woman and she deserves a woman that will cherish her and treat her like she treats Her and more. I wish you the best Amber you deserve it* 🙏 *HAKUNA MATATA* 🥰
@hannahhernandez2819
@hannahhernandez2819 3 жыл бұрын
I love this this is some real mature shit alot of ex's can't do this
@mikacasimir8131
@mikacasimir8131 3 жыл бұрын
I miss y’all dynamic 🔥🔥 big time
@nurharapanable
@nurharapanable 3 жыл бұрын
Now that they already broke up, ava finally more expressive..maybe the suitable just as friend.
@Sacred_Heart333
@Sacred_Heart333 3 жыл бұрын
Amber is SO ANIMATED... lol. I LOVE it. This video is beyond entertaining. It is Beautiful to see how much you have both grown (in many ways). Wishing you both ALL THE BEST. Divine Blessings ✨🙏🏾✨
@Beautyflawed81
@Beautyflawed81 3 жыл бұрын
I really loved y'all as a couple.. However, I love that you both are remaining cordial.. Plus both of y'all are cute.. Together or a part..
@jatv1840
@jatv1840 3 жыл бұрын
Amber is giving I’m still into you vibes
@THFAN48311
@THFAN48311 3 жыл бұрын
See now there’s probably one ex I am still chill with but if we ever did a video like this it would be TOXIC! I applaud y’all though!!!
@meaniesmommy1306
@meaniesmommy1306 3 жыл бұрын
I love y’all. I was waiting on the “we back together “ I think Ava and Natalie would vibe well. I needed to see this I’m going through it.
@missiejohnson4253
@missiejohnson4253 3 жыл бұрын
So cute. I missed you guys. Cudos to the both of you for being mature and staying friends. I've seen you'll in the background of other videos (ezeexnatile) and I think it's great.
@lungilemnguni6721
@lungilemnguni6721 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate both of y'all watching this actually gave me a clue of conversation i wanna have with my ex girlfriend, we just broke up after 5 years of relationship, walking out is difficult.. ❤
@shaeshae2725
@shaeshae2725 2 жыл бұрын
In my opinion you two are best as friends.. The cards read a stronger.. confident..maturer.. selfless person in your life.
@dymondwalker9062
@dymondwalker9062 3 жыл бұрын
Thats it! I need an Amber in my life! Had me at coffee waiting in the car!
@krystalclevinger1671
@krystalclevinger1671 Жыл бұрын
Communication and honesty is key no matter what type of relationship/friendship it is. It shows respect and brings longevity into friendships
@sidoniejordan-olsen7673
@sidoniejordan-olsen7673 3 жыл бұрын
Relationships are hard af just in general, but the grass is only green where it's tended to.
@11triciago
@11triciago 3 жыл бұрын
This is an awesome conversation to have w/an ex BUT getting back together after the fact won't work out. You'll both be trying to compensate what you lacked before YET it won't be genuine.....
@SelfLoveIsKey
@SelfLoveIsKey 3 жыл бұрын
I loved the honestly in this video. Delighted you ladies can have fun without it being awkward. Wishing both of you endless growth, love, and positivity.
@kaylan.4271
@kaylan.4271 3 жыл бұрын
No negativity, Amber please let this be the last straight woman u deal with 😭😂 I cannot 🤣
@lizali5588
@lizali5588 3 жыл бұрын
Straight? I’m confused 😭
@clary5561
@clary5561 3 жыл бұрын
@@lizali5588 why are you confused?
@lizali5588
@lizali5588 3 жыл бұрын
@@clary5561 I thought she liked both or something
@jrichie3799
@jrichie3799 3 жыл бұрын
@@lizali5588 a lot of girls like both but only have real romantic feelings for another gender.
@lizali5588
@lizali5588 3 жыл бұрын
@@jrichie3799 I’m wondering if she ever mentioned her sexuality tho ?
@Stormysayswhat
@Stormysayswhat 3 жыл бұрын
Earth signs are passionate lol… we say what we mean but it’s not usually our intent to be offensive.. we just want you to really feel us and the energy behind the message we are trying to get across. we really are softhearted and caring at our core ✨
@bluenightsky
@bluenightsky 3 жыл бұрын
This is dope. Only one ex I wouldn't have these chill vibes with, but everyone else, I am chill with.
@feliciadshawn8477
@feliciadshawn8477 3 жыл бұрын
My perception....The body language of both Amber( crossed arms and body positioned away from Ava) and Ava( sitting with body towards Amber ) tells it all. Amber seems like she gave and gave and Ava didn't give enough emotionally and physically(not talking about sex). Amber seems like she still has pinned issues with Ava and Ava knows she messed up. I think both women are great in their own way. I think the reason Ava(straight) fell for Amber is due to the ora that Amber as around her. Ive watched videos of them together and videos of Amber by herself and with her friends. AMBER YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON! OH..yes, as a Taurus..when we are mad dont mess with us AT ALL!!!!! #MAY4THBABY!
@kenkentaylor9690
@kenkentaylor9690 3 жыл бұрын
AHAHAH, I died at your imitation of your ex who's a Taurus when she gets mad. I'm a Taurus as well and I can confirm, I've been told it can be scary when we're mad 😂 and one of my best friends is a Virgo! Love her to DEATH
@uschilou
@uschilou 3 жыл бұрын
My sister is a Taurus and YES! She doesn't get that way with me bc we know how to communicate but with her husband...she gets to that boiling point and he DEFINITELY knows how to listen then. 🤣
@jeon0jungkook83
@jeon0jungkook83 3 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend is so passionate as well. We’re not perfect but i will never let her go and regret it later.
@caitlinohara9338
@caitlinohara9338 3 жыл бұрын
Amber treated Ava like a princess 🥺
@KaseiRose
@KaseiRose 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but y’all were meant to be I’m literally crying rn 😭🙈
@zibuyilemaureen7840
@zibuyilemaureen7840 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@MsStokeling
@MsStokeling 3 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaas!! When you talk negative about your ex that’s a reflection of you #LuvIt
@sherene8903
@sherene8903 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this so much. Watching you handling things the way you do, helps me to do better as well. Also, I think Ava still has strong feelings for you tho and you for her as well🤭🤷🏿 Your vibe together feels very organic❤️
@M.I.22
@M.I.22 3 жыл бұрын
"You wanna hug it out?" this was so cute, I'm melting 🥺 can't the two of you get back together? Edit: I learned now that they've already tried. Then I'm just happy that they're still able to connect in such a beautiful way!
@ItsChanteBri
@ItsChanteBri 3 жыл бұрын
They already tried & it didn’t work out, read the description.. its good like this lol
@Sssssssslf
@Sssssssslf 3 жыл бұрын
Ava has a boyfriend doesn't she?
@M.I.22
@M.I.22 3 жыл бұрын
@@ItsChanteBri ahh thank you for mentioning this, I hadn't read it! Glad that she's okay with how things are the then🙏🏽
@M.I.22
@M.I.22 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sssssssslf I have no idea! 😅
@saritzajones559
@saritzajones559 3 жыл бұрын
How wonderful that you two can be friends, it’s nice that you just want happiness for one another’s future. Body language was loud…lol. but still this was a good video. Question though and you don’t have to answer, but how do you move on to the next relationship still deeply caring about your ex. I just feel the only feelings of love one should feel other then their partner, is like they momma, sister etc. wouldn’t your new partner feel some type of way knowing those feelings are kinda there for you ex? I would feel I know my worth and and wouldn’t want my partner kinda still having some type of feelings/love for their ex? But maybe again I ask this because of the body language going on here. On a different note Amber you need to do those adult bed time stories, your voice is very soothing, lol
@leosznisforever
@leosznisforever 3 жыл бұрын
Ava’s vibe always felt weird to me, how I am to judge? but I’ve always felt like she never truly loved Amber, coming from a straight girl I’m not surprised at all. I mean I could be 100% wrong but that’s what I think.
@JN-fl3kz
@JN-fl3kz 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. I knew it would not last when I use to watch them. I called it on one of Ava video, but I remember Ava called me out. Ava is a straight woman.
@leosznisforever
@leosznisforever 3 жыл бұрын
@@JN-fl3kz I was actually afraid to say something and Amber call me out too but I had to get it out of my chest, I’ve been watching her for a long time now. Ava’s vibe was always off, straight women will never take us seriously, they all eventually will come back to a man. They’ll never fully commit, like she said in the video she could have done more and give more but she can’t. I don’t fucking know what fucked up issues lesbians got to keep pursuing them.
@jen4162
@jen4162 3 жыл бұрын
But how can you stay 3 whole years with someone if you don’t feel that way? Not only that but they even lived together like that’s a big deal for not loving someone
@alexlesbean8739
@alexlesbean8739 3 жыл бұрын
@@leosznisforever wait are you straight or sapphic? I got a little confused by the two comments haha😄
@alexlesbean8739
@alexlesbean8739 3 жыл бұрын
@@jen4162 idk some people actually do that… kinda sad ngl🌚 not agreeing with anything or picking sides.
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