QUIET PEOPLE: You are hated because they can’t figure you out!

[@CJ-ug7os]

Most of what people talk about is complaining or just foolish things. Im just done with all that. They who talk poorly about quiet ones need to grow up. I recently had to quit my job because all I got was stink face from everyone cause Im a quiet private person

[@TamikaN-k7e]

Or they gossiping about others behind their backs.

[@SP-dx7em]

As long as they're not bullying you or being a jerk about it, ignore the looks or you'll be quitting jobs forever.

[@TerranceBhS]

​@@TamikaN-k7e Basically. There's no meaningful conversations about life or advice to navigate through life. It's just an endless stream of gossip or complaining.

[@gugu532]

Well i hate when loud people talk. They treat quiet people like their freakin confession box

[@Cusp_of_magic]

Haha yes they DO! 😂 And that's even more frustrating when they turn around and dog you out, but wanna use me as a therapist 🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@ChrisKopper]

I think ill remember this the next time my neighbor tells me about his familial problems

[@gugu532]

@@ChrisKopper 😅

[@Laughingyeen-00]

Tbh I'm loud by accident due to my hearing sometimes so its okay to dislike me as well lol

[@jomaina4046]

A coworker of mine was really loud, and my husband asked me why she was so talking so loud and looked mad all the time. So I explained to my husband that she was hard of hearing 😂

[@IQUOTEMEDPLAN]

People call me secretive, because i keep it to myself, because when you think about it, most people dont give a danm, they have their own problem, my go to is only God.

[@chenellebeautytv]

🎯🎯🎯

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

Then why are you disobeying God?

[@t.sizzle5308]

But also quiet people may talk a lot to people that they like and are comfortable with.

[@brianmweuteacher]

Soo true.

[@di3486]

That’s me.

[@ladylefteye]

True

[@YadaWhat]

Yup 💯

[@antwill-c9b]

Yes

[@t.sizzle5308]

Facts bro even when I was a people pleaser people would still talk about you so it doesn’t matter whether you talk or not people will always have Something to say about you which is ridiculous because if I’m quiet how am I bothering you.

[@thomasanderson468]

Most people like attention and feel entitled to it your attention and time… and if they are not getting it from you they will feel some type of way about you..

[@antwill-c9b]

Sad part. People are more likely to trust a loud drama person than a quiet person who does nothing but mind their business and at peace.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

FACTS!!! Mind boggling.

[@nreynolds75243]

This is so true. This happened to me at my religious meeting. I keep to myself She's a troublemaker, drama. I don't interact. I walk away. She came running after me, harassing. I turned around and lit into her. The next thing I know the Elders wanted to have a meeting with me. I said no. One of the Elders saw what she had done, plus she had a history of bad behavior. He put a stop to it. It's so ridiculous how these types of people get support.

[@AlphaOm633]

The reality is most people in general are sheep and lack discernment. They want to fit in and go where the drama and gossip is. If you are the type person doesn't try to fit in, you will be look as weird or crazy.

[@Ali08]

I can see why a loud, dramatic person is seen more trustworthy because mostly they put themselves out there. There is a level of uncertainty when dealing with a quiet person.

[@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx]

​@@AlphaOm633yeap

[@dianatruckskennedy7524]

It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt - Maurice Switzer. One of my favorite quotes.

[@Stealth-im7ld]

Absolutely. Another way of saying that is... Even a fool is considered intelligent as long as he keeps his mouth shut. Proverbs 17:28

[@SharlenesJourney]

Amen my go to ♥️🙏🏾 you get persecuted for keeping peace and staying quiet

[@chenellebeautytv]

🎯🎯🎯

[@VisionQuest7]

My favorite quote is from my mother: "If they talked about Jesus, they're going to talk about you!"

[@mrwnking]

Everything this dude says is spot on. People don't like it when I just sit and observe everything around me. You can find out a lot about others by just sitting there and observing your surroundings.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Exactly… Actions speak louder than words which is why I always observe before saying anything. Actions tell me all I need to know about a person.

[@zekemedia1310]

So very true.

[@NyceBoi89]

I'm so used of being quiet and when I try to talk to people my mind is blank. I have nothing to say. 😅

[@CaseyWindom]

Likewise, and then when you do try to talk it sounds so awkward or start to stutter or the words coming out don't make sense and then people think you're weirder. Ugh would rather just stay quiet 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@godzilla9268]

​@@CaseyWindom You definitely nailed it 😂

[@t.sizzle5308]

Extroverts always want you to match their energy but they’ll never match yours.

[@zekemedia1310]

Agree

[@devon4166]

@@t.sizzle5308 facts

[@Nita_100]

We can be alone for weeks. Can they do that? 😂

[@chenellebeautytv]

🎯🎯🎯

[@Coco-xq7zh]

They would’ve ended themselves when they don’t have anyone anymore

[@RTheWalkerOfGreenB]

I talk to some people more than others... The more a person points out how quiet I am in a negative manner, the more quiet I get around them.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Exactly because if they’re negative about it they’re showing their true colors. They’re looking for ammunition and you’re not giving it to them.

[@blugrn1999]

I do that as well! It 😊

[@Iloveborgorshaha]

Exactly that is accurate to the T

[@t.sizzle5308]

It’s also annoying when people ask why you so quiet. But if you said why you always talking they probably wouldn’t like that

[@daze77gaming]

probably?

[@margaretdoliet1630]

Right 😂lol

[@MAKEUPandhairByterri]

😂😂😂😂

[@taraquinch1256]

Exactly

[@gundomatumba191]

Back to sender 😂

[@shesadiamond5167]

as a quiet person I grew u thinking something was wrong with me, nd wished I was as extroverted and outspoken as everyone else.. but now being 26 I've accepted that this is who I am, and Im not changing myself to make anyone feel comfortable.

[@kpopqn]

You are same age as me. But I m not able to accept myself... coworkers at office always tells me I dont talk to them and I'm weird

[@nyc4life448]

I'm at peace with myself when I'm quiet. Small talk, talking just to be talking, takes me out my comfort zone.

[@chenellebeautytv]

This 🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@MunaSajorSheriff]

Same!!

[@Asra919]

I am introverted around most people but with the few, and I mean few individuals I trust I am quite chatty, funny, and silly. I don't speak much in group settings b/c most people are superficial and gossipy. Gossip bothers me deeply so until I trust you I will remain in observer mode. Also, most overtalkers do not share the space for others to shine their light, it is very unbecoming and annoying. I pray more people learn the art of active listening.

[@johnz7167]

Thanks Man, Im a very quiet person and people around me hates me. People label me as weird or crazy. I really can relate to this.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

That’s their problem if you’re just being yourself. People will label you no matter what you do so if they’re gonna do it anyway it may as well be when you’re just being your genuine self.

[@hughkingsley8631]

I get the same thing at work. Don't talk to him. He's miserable, he's this, he's that, etc. I have told people. I am here to work. Not socialize. That is what the company is paying me for. I'm not here to make friends or enemies. I just want to do my job and go home to my family. If you have a problem with that. That's on you.

[@nnapop4442]

Same

[@AlphaOm633]

@@hughkingsley8631 You are not alone.

[@key981]

The less you talk the less they know so they can’t gossip 😮

[@BigMike_RTTV]

EXACTLY!!! 👍🏿💯

[@tjuni7344]

I always end up having issues at work/school and I’m always labeled as the problem. Thank you for creating a video that others can relate to

[@julesa2894]

Some places if you don't openly pick a side, then you become the enemy to both sides and they try to do things to make your life miserable. What can someone do in a situation like that?

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Get on God’s side.

[@shaslevels6729]

I'm very reserved. Silence can't be misquoted

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Facts!

[@JesseWhiteman117]

As a black man myself. People try their hardest to put me in a specific box but they can't because they don't know me. It bothers them for some reason. I am more than willing to let people know who I am. In some ways I'm not hard to approach. I don't make things difficult for everyone. It's funny how when I'm minding my own business it's some how I'm the most challenging person to be friends with when that's not necessarily the case. Society is weird like that. Minding your own business is labeled in the most weirdest ways. That person is: - Angry - Depressed - Nervous - Loner - Loser Where are these coming from? Insecurities of other people that's who. You being in your own lane bothers them. If you get that impression from them... STAY AWAY. They will not be your friend even if it seems like they want to be. Their intent isn't genuine and I know from experience. Some people are afraid they are figured out mostly by observant people. The quietest person is a threat to them. Whatever facade they are pulling is something they don't want to be exposed. They go from friend groups, work, school, and other regular gatherings.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Very well put and I 100% agree with this sentiment!!! 💯💯💯

[@kevintaylor717]

💯💯💯

[@shaunas129]

you described what i went through in my last job. thank you for this

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Pleasure friend… Happy to help. 🙏🏿

[@T.Harry79]

One thing that extroverts should stop doing is over talking while introverts are talking. Shut up and let us cook and process these gems of information.

[@taraquinch1256]

Thank you!

[@BigMike_RTTV]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@matthewlee7794]

Seriously though!

[@smoothiecutie2277]

Even if you don’t share much, people will make up things and spread rumors regardless An there’s always that one person in the group that has to label you “shy or quiet”.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

I know it’s hard to do, but I personally do my best to not entertain lies. Depending on what they’re lying about of course. All of that nonsense is just to get a reaction out of you.

[@smoothiecutie2277]

@@BigMike_RTTV. Once I notice the lying I tend to distance myself from those people. If I WANT to contribute to a conversation I will do it of my own free will. Don’t need assistance such as “you need to talk more”. In the workplace for example some people just want to mind their business and get their work done. If you don’t want to be involved in the gossip drama and such, coworkers and bosses will say “you’re not a team player”🙄 “you’re not friendly” and all sorts of stuff. They (both bosses and coworkers) will actively work to get you fired even though you’re not making any trouble. Well I guess that’s not the right place to be working at anyway

[@matthewlee7794]

​​@@BigMike_RTTVWhat's your advice for when people call me shy or nervous when really im just chilling.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

@@matthewlee7794 Simple… Ignore it. Can’t stop people from saying little stuff. As long as it’s not anything out of bounds to defame your character. Let people talk.

[@michaelfeddema8502]

I worked for a company with an Italian Portuguese background. They love to talk. I was so quiet and it pissed off my supervisor to the point that he would ream me out. This continued at least once a week for 2.5 years. He made it his mission to get me fired for the next 2.5 years I was there, but I was careful, and methodical because that’s what happens when you’re quiet. He started reaming me out in front of his manager for the smallest things and he had to apologize to me at one point. Once he gave up, I spent another 2 months there and quit on my own terms for a better job that I had lined up. Lesson is, just stick it out no matter how bad it gets and see how far some people are willing to go, they start making themselves look pretty bad after a while.

[@T.Harry79]

People will always say things about you without asking you firsthand. Silence is actually golden.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

💯💯💯‼️

[@KeciaLynn]

Yes! The less people know about you, the better.

[@emmarae4322]

"Why isnt she talking?" Someone said that to my boyfriend when I first met one of his friends.😂 The funny thing is I find a lot of extraverts very shallow, while quite people tend to be very down to Earth.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

💯💯💯

[@lazyturtle9694]

True not all extroverts are friendly

[@TJDW]

People hate what they don’t understand.

[@keithwiggins3131]

Thank you for saying the truth. People only hear what they want to hear. See what they want to see. Believe what they want to believe.

[@TamikaN-k7e]

The more real you are, the more hate you will get. The more fake you are, the more love you will get. That is how it is.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Spot on!… Backwards society

[@TamikaN-k7e]

@@BigMike_RTTV Yes it is! And it always will be. People are messy.

[@anniestafford9321]

I love being a quiet person. I’ve always been a quiet person. I’m loud around friends, but my natural disposition is to be quiet. Most of the time I enjoy being in my own head and I’m comfortable with myself whether I’m alone or with others. My parents always tried to make me be more extroverted. They really thought there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t an extrovert, had to do all this therapy and turns out I was just an introvert that’s just who I am and I’m not going to change it for anyone

[@BigMike_RTTV]

@@anniestafford9321 You and me are just alike… I get loud and loose with my friends yes, but for the most part I’m just quiet and chill. No shame in that friend, keep being who you are. 👍🏿💯

[@gundomatumba191]

Being an introvert helps you from the dangers of this world. Extroverts become weak because they are crowd dependant which is very hindering. Being an introvert helps you focus 💯 Speaking from experience, as an introvert myself, I have been labelled names like weird, crazy, stupid, foolish and whatever but if I'm quiet and minding my own bizz, why is that bothering you? I can't open my mouth if the situation doesn't require me to and if you find my quiet presence annoying to your loud presence, that's a you problem 💯

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Maaaaan I relate to this so much! Love this comment! Thank you for your feedback! 🙏🏿💯

[@gundomatumba191]

@@BigMike_RTTV You're welcome bro 😎

[@deemarie420]

This is the story of my life. Sometime I hate it because I can’t understand why people need to pry Rather than mind mind their business

[@terrencerobinson7553]

I agree with Mike. The quiet people are very curious about their surroundings, and the people around them will say something like she or he clothes are wrinkled. I noticed that the talkative people gathered in a group can criticize the introvert.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

@@terrencerobinson7553 Gang stalk even… Quiet ones are deemed a threat. Because we usually know a lot about a lot of people and they have very little to nothing on us.

[@melissaherndon3211]

Their only ammo is to put us on the spot about us being "quiet"

[@BigMike_RTTV]

@@melissaherndon3211Facts!!!

[@troysmith5749]

What's annoying is when you're at the gym, some random person you've never met will start talking to you like somehow you're their best friend and they'll talk your ear off. And then the next time you see them you say hi and they act like they don't know you or just say hi back and then walk off like you're bothering them. Extroverts are really weird. At least introverts in my experience have better manners and don't do random, strange garbage.

[@imjustameme3522]

BROOO same shit happened to me he sparked up a conversation, next day I waved at him STRAIGHT UP walked and act like I never existed

[@celestethompson712]

A lot of people don’t actually care to have a conversation or listen to people. They just do it to do it because they were told that’s what they should do. That’s why they don’t mind talking about nothing.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

True!!! 👍🏿💯

[@KeciaLynn]

@celestethompson712 This is true!

[@steadyhorse1]

Being a quiet and genuine person gets u no friends..but lot of haters for some unknown reason.Dont ppl want to be around simple and authentic people?

[@BigMike_RTTV]

@@steadyhorse1 You’re deemed boring and uninteresting when you’re quiet… At least that’s the perception. Very few will “Get You”, but that’s the price you pay for being your authentic self. Plus side to it is that you weed a lot of people out being yourself because most can’t tolerate it.

[@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx]

​@@BigMike_RTTVlol they reallY can't tolerate it though

[@AlphaOm633]

True! Just because someone's talking to you, doesn't mean they are telling you the truth. It doesn't mean you are learning who they are. If a person is quiet, they're not lying, back biting, or gossiping.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

FACTS!!!💯

[@mrsticky005]

"Why are you so quiet?" Because I'm not trying to give you ammo so you can later shoot me in the back.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Facts… The less they know the better

[@antwill-c9b]

@@BigMike_RTTV That is the same thing I said to someone.

[@muthaafrika6137]

I KNOW man that 💩 annoying

[@key981]

I love this statement

[@nikolinajakic9037]

So true. Like that!

[@ToneyArtAndOtherVideos]

I'm a quiet person I just not a talkative person. I always get judged because I'm quiet. I don't care, you do you and mind your own business.

[@reliablek9training317]

I'm pretty quiet but am nice to many people's surprise. I keep my personal life to myself unless I know you like that.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Same

[@user-dx2dm8oq8g]

I think that being reserved allowed me to figure out who's trustworthy and who's not. People who try to make you feel like a weirdo for your personality from what I experienced do it as a mind game to force you to put your business out there for their approval. I had people scared of me simply because I don't say everything that's on my mind and I don't share personal stuff, I had someone tell me that they couldn't figure me out and that it troubled them. And some act shocked that you have friends, question your intentions even when you're straight forward, I think it's to chip at your self-esteem.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

That’s their problem not yours… I never understood why some people have a need to know.

[@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx]

That's all it is. To get you away from your peace

[@treciajohnson985]

You are so wise! I’m so happy I found you’re channel, thank you for sharing you’re knowledge with us

[@BigMike_RTTV]

I appreciate your comment. I have to give God all the credit… He’s brought me through a lot and I’d be remiss in not sharing. Blessings to you and thanks for watching! 🙏🏿😊

[@alphasuperior100]

I thought I was a quiet person but some people are really quiet. If they talk it's like they don't want to.

[@rundix3351]

I found some people that didn’t know me at all, they needed to know my personal business. Then when they knew some of it they would change their demeanour to suit themselves or a planned agenda to see what they could get away with. Great topic, because this scenario is being played everywhere.

[@erenyeager1849]

What made me pressure myself to talk more wasn't the society, it was my family, they kept trying to convince me to talk more and make me feel shame because of my quietness untill I started researching and understood that I'm normal and there is nothing wrong about me, but overall I don't care about what ppl say or think about me

[@brookeplifts]

I read a comment on Reddit that said “why are you so quiet?” and the response was “because I actually think before I speak”. I’ve never related so much to a response comment before lmaooo

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Yo that hits home! 💯

[@ymotechnopopfan]

People act like being quiet/introverted/reserved is a bad thing.

[@sabrinasususa6957]

The reason why I'm hated at work: I don't gossip Not talkative and only invest in professional talks I'm not fake like them

[@BigMike_RTTV]

💯💯💯

[@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx]

Yeap. How dare you be above them

[@alltoowell_swiftie]

this video reassured me a lot so thank you, there have been people who have hated me for no reason and i never understood why, thank you so much!!

[@alltoowell_swiftie]

@perseus274 that’s the perfect way to describe it

[@rodneylewis6234]

Man thought 💭 i was The only one who thought like this . Thanks

[@KathibffnwithGod]

Amen Hallelujah 🙌 Thank you God ❤

[@mattburrito]

im a proud extrovert energetic straight forward & talkative im not big fan of introvert types but some introverts i dont mind sometimes they can ooze their energy to some humans

[@jmo4952]

It's crazy how much being quiet and keeping to yourself can annoy others. You have to deal with constant sarcastic comments and being made to feel like you're being rude/weird just for not having much to say, or not wanting to mention every little thing you do and think all the time.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

It annoys them because they have a conflict within themselves. I never understood how someone’s silence can bother some people so much. They’re not bothering you lol.!

[@hillsideballers8223]

Amen im quiet person my dream is being in a ranch by myself I'm like brook lesnar he doesnt like people at all

[@alphasuperior100]

True, I am kinda quiet too. I don't really like people.

[@Coreg1]

Thank you. I really needed to hear this.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

You’re most welcome 🙏🏿

[@Dusky-Memory]

Big G always back with wise wisdom.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

🫡💯💯💯

[@Reefraction]

People always asking me “why you so quiet”. My answer is ALWAYS instantly “because I never learned anything while I was talking” Then I just enjoy the few seconds of silence while it sinks in 😊

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Haha I love that… I bet they are left dumbfounded 😂

[@michaelazariah73]

Im so glad to see another big handsome.mike like me thats quiet ❤❤❤❤❤ awesome 👌 ❤❤❤

[@BigMike_RTTV]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@bidenadministrationischina5091]

Trust is thin, because extroverts are often skin deep.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

True stuff 👍🏿💯💯💯

[@kiralouise4001]

Brilliant video. Thank you. 😊

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Glad you enjoyed it friend… You’re very welcome! 🙏🏿

[@user-ke5md1ho8h]

"Can’t figure you out"....I have been told this exact thing by a female supervisor in a female dominated office. It's no surprise I didn't last long in that environment.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

@@user-ke5md1ho8h Smh that’s wild

[@Moddedbox7639]

Great video sir. As a rather talkative (lots of small talk and my own details) person when I get comfortable, I will have to try keeping myself to myself. Appreciate everything you do!

[@BigMike_RTTV]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@daveskelton7101]

I've always been quiet. Today mostly because people argue when your opinion isn't the same as theirs.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

@@daveskelton7101 Yoooo that boggles my mind!!! That’s exactly why I don’t discuss politics right there. People get into their feelings way too much for having a different point of view. It’s sick!

[@caprissocialnetwork1261]

This so much applies to me! You should do a livestream on this!

[@CamtheMac]

This is something I really need to remember because talking too much has led me to waste my time and eventually people tell on you when you say too much. I genuinely need to stay silent.

[@hughkingsley8631]

I'm a very quiet person. I was brought up in an environment where kids should be seen and not heard, so we were rarely allowed to voice ourselves or face the consequences for being outspoken. My circle of people I associate with is very small. Less than one hand I can count. I grew up with 4 sisters and one brother and yet, I would walk the streets alone. Now, being alone, no longer bothers me. I have accepted my way of life. I bother no one and if my being quiet seems to trigger people. Don't know what to tell you. I'm hard-working, loyal and I'll give the shirt of my back to help someone. I just no longer have trust in people and the easiest thing for me to do is just to keep people at a distance.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Love this comment. It’s better to be quiet with a good heart than and loud mouth with a heart full of corruption. 🙏🏿💯

[@rastafit23]

I’ve been introverted my whole life , I thought I had friends never worked so now I stick to myself ! 🙏🏾

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Yeah I feel you man.

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

I personally can't stand either quiet and loud people who hypocritically and often erroneously judge others for being themselves and obeying God.

[@BruklynGam3r]

Thank You for this!!! This is me all day!! But I get labeled when I go to certain jobs.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Which happens because people hate what isn’t easily understandable to them. That’s not your problem though. 💯

[@BruklynGam3r]

@@BigMike_RTTV Thank You

[@key981]

Not the chatty patty! 😂😂😂😂 that’s a new one

[@BigMike_RTTV]

I stole that one from Dame Dash I can’t claim it 😂

[@lucasnascimento2045]

My god, I’m going though this! Thank you for sharing this!🙏

[@BigMike_RTTV]

You’re more than welcome 🙏🏿

[@tims-di7hg]

Thanks for this encouragement, Mike, I appreciate it! It's Amazing how God will give us a good reason to open up our mouths, right?

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Yes and also when to just remain silent. Thank you also for your comment. I’m glad you found it helpful. 🙏🏿

[@Josh-fp2qn]

As an introvert, most people are not worth getting to know.

[@Uksoapfan]

Extroverted chatty people often look foolish and they cannot see it, whereas quiet people rarely look or act foolish. "Better to be quiet and maybe be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt", as Abe Lincoln said.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Proverbs 17:28 Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise, and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

[@midnightteapot5633]

A wise old owl lived in an oak. The more he saw the less he spoke. The less he spoke the more he heard. Why can't we all be like that wise old bird?

[@Loletha]

In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: But he that refraineth his lips is wise. The tongue of the just is as choice silver: The heart of the wicked is little worth. The lips of the righteous feed many: But fools die for want of wisdom.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Amen!!! 💯💯💯

[@melissarhoda2022]

I rather being hated for minding my businees and quiet

[@BigMike_RTTV]

💯💯💯

[@jomaina4046]

Another co-worker and a friend of mine. A nurse asked me why she kept ignoring her, and I told her that she wears hearing aids and is hard of hearing. That's 2 different ladies with a hearing problem working the same job 😂

[@rr78884]

I am an introvert and it's getting me in a lot of toxic trouble in the workplace

[@RR2700_]

Man me too 😂😂😂

[@Eco-Tree]

Thank you, great video

[@momomo-wc8nr]

JazakAllah Khair! This was a different perspective I haven’t considered, very beneficial.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@BobosQueen]

Let's go introverts!

[@BigMike_RTTV]

lol yessir 💯

[@ireneduran7916]

thank you for the encouragement sir 😊😊😊

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Always welcome

[@mbattle8965]

I needed this because lately I've been struggling with being the quiet person at work and thinking it was a problem. They would make me feel like an outsider because I'm to myself and not as talkative

[@BigMike_RTTV]

That’s their problem not yours… If that’s your natural personality, don’t allow anyone to dictate how you act. Let your communication be that which you choose to engage in.

[@pisceshilda]

Thanks Mike, so appreciate you speaking out, feel like I've found somebody that really understands. I migrated from China to Australia 21 years ago and I've been living here for more than half of my life, sometimes total strangers will come up to me a ask me where I come from. When the response is "here, Australia", they will keep pushing and trying to force me to give them the answer they want -- yes, total strangers asking me personal questions...

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Thank you for your comment and I’m glad you’re here. And you’re not obligated to tell anyone anything that they’re not required to know. If they get upset about it so what. They don’t do anything for you lol.

[@Haileylovesracing9]

Lost my best friend of 3 years today. She was my best friend but I wasn’t hers. She said that I was too quiet and started to ignore me everyday. Mainly because her best friends talk to her. I am so introverted that I can’t even start conversations with my own friends. Every friend that I’ve ever made has left me because I don’t stay in touch. I want to talk to them and stay in touch, but my social anxiety takes over and I never speak to them again. The friends who do stick around just talk to me when they want something. I’m labeled the smart kid because everyone is talking with their friends and I just sit there and quietly do my work. I literally have nobody. I have one friend but he only talks to me when he wants to replace his recent relationship. I hate being so quiet. I want to talk with people and hang out and have great friends. I just feel like none of that is possible because of my terrible anxiety. It’s worse when you’re a junior in high school too. A year from now, I’ll be planning to leave the people I’ve known for 13+ years and probably not be able to stay in touch with many of them because of my anxiety.

[@KingPapiChulooo]

Anxiety is a gift & curse my friend

[@darkvader125]

I am also hated by people

[@SharlenesJourney]

They get so offended by it too lol

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Crazy isn’t it?…lol

[@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx]

Yeap every time

[@bertoshovlog4923]

Thanks for always giving us knowledge💪💪💪

[@BigMike_RTTV]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💯

[@reshaundaliv9176]

Amen so true..

[@bertoshovlog4923]

Tune in , agree its true

[@JoseFlores-kl6jm]

Agreed !

[@beverleyreid563]

Brother you are on track. I am Gossiped about. Targeted. Slander my name. Gathering of the "Flying Monkeys". They cannot figure me out and I love it. They have no facts!

[@BigMike_RTTV]

As long as you’ve wronged no one then that’s their problem not yours. Keep doing you sister! 💯

[@beverleyreid563]

@@BigMike_RTTV they have never even heard my voice. I keep it shut.

[@Laughingyeen-00]

That's why I'm staying single forever at 21. I'm better by my self, and with family, friends etc.

[@damianjninjutsu]

Good advice

[@MAKEUPandhairByterri]

One reason I’m quite ppl like to control my mindset and how I feel bout things ppl talk over me loud asf over me their mindset be trash asf 🥱 everything a pointless debate and conversation

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Exactly… A lot of conversations are fluff talk and merely pointless.

[@ChaiiMadrid]

Thank you for sharing ❤

[@BigMike_RTTV]

My pleasure… Thank you for watching! 🙏🏿💯

[@darrellking7831]

I'm not your child or a puzzle, why do people need to know all your business? I feel like it is a nosy control thing.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

They just have nothing else to do and nothing going on in their own lives.

[@DarwinAwardCandidate]

the less you say, the more powerful your words come across- and the less likely you are to say something foolish.

[@BigMike_RTTV]

Absolutely!!! The less you say the more you keep your name out of stuff

[@DarwinAwardCandidate]

@@BigMike_RTTV 👍

[@Benirked472]

I’m a quiet person because I just don’t like people in general I like to keep to myself