Quitting Youtube + How Many Kids Do We Want (honest Q&A)

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[@Joseph-gd1ee]

Honestly Jess should start her own podcast tbh

[@savinab2530]

yesss😊

[@laurenvazquez6729]

100%

[@vivikatebeck5793]

YESSSSSS

[@emmamenzies3904]

I think her first guest should be her best friend Jess

[@anjaraj]

Yes

[@Meleannieliz]

JESS WE WANNA SEE YOU!!! It does fit your channel because it’s you🥹😭 please don’t ever think that✨

[@blytheservice9240]

You know what would be cute? If Jess and her best friend Jess did a podcast or did a long form video together sometime this year!

[@heathermullinax3503]

Yes😭 Jess and Jess content is my fave

[@JessicaGarcia-jz3ek]

I think a few Jess’s could join 😙

[@schokoladendonut]

I think if Jess is still up for it I don’t think that most people would mind keeping the podcast alive on her own (and/ or with other guests). Also i don’t think that it has to be a very regular thing. It can be a once in month or every other week thing (whenever there is something interesting to talk about or when you guys have people over). Just something worth thinking about! I wish you guys the best, I’ve been following you guys for years, have grown with you and am excited for what’s coming next whatever that might be 💛

[@isabellageronimo7557]

bible studies with jess would be so cool!!

[@laurenvazquez6729]

Simple joys with Jess - the title of your new podcast Jess *hint hint*…. Or Jess and Jess podcast with your BFF - that would be iconic

[@quinnerjaeger]

11:20 my parents always say, don’t raise your kids, raise future adults!

[@Jenn_E_B]

Only 1:33 into the video and it made me SO happy to hear that you guys are doing so well!! I love that so much and I hope things only continue to get better!

[@rachelosborne4578]

Jess, you should just start your own podcast!❤

[@cowsrock1q]

Agreed! Her voice is so calming

[@mia6089]

Jess we love your vlogs. Hope u don’t stop. It’s like having an Australian bestie and your vids inspire me and give a sense of peace and calmness. ❤omgeee Gabe love ur Star Wars collection in the background 😊

[@nataliesoutlet]

Hi Jess! I feel you on the secret channel lol something just exciting about it. Hope to be able to find it 😙💞

[@LoveeeeelyM]

When one of my faves comments on another one of my faves 😊♥️🤗

[@Jaztene]

It seems like Gabe is still trying to find himself.. He mentioned that he keeps starting projects and then stopping, which reminds me of my ex husband. My ex didn't know what he wanted and was constantly trying to do different things and we ended up getting a divorce because he was so obsessed with his own goals but was failing at everything he tried to do. It always seems like Gabe does all these spontaneous things and can't commit to one thing while Jess is trying to support him and their baby. I'm just hoping that Jess is still getting the help and love she needs from Gabe especially now that they're a family.

[@kelseynicole7561]

This is also a REALLY common symptom of ADHD. As someone who has it, I can attest to the “micro obsessions” and starting/stopping a million different things. Trust me, we annoy ourselves. It’s frustrating to always lose interest in things on repeat.

[@Jaztene]

@@kelseynicole7561 that makes sense! My ex also had ADHD.

[@ChristopherNorris_CopyGhosting]

My takeaway from the video is that Gabe much prefers projects that have a definite end point. Why not consider SO FAR, SO GOOD as a seasonal podcast (of, say, six episodes per season) where Gabe shares the progress he is making on his latest film project and both of you share how you are developing as a family through the process of making the film. Using the podcast in this way would be interesting and engaging as a stand-alone experience, but it would also be a brilliant way of promoting the final film + being a source of encouragement to Gabe to keep going with his film, even when the process becomes challenging 🎙

[@go_liveyourdream7546]

So glad to hear you all have been doing so well! I'm a longtime Jess and Gabe subscriber and it just makes me happy to see that you're happy!

[@Sama-yd4cl]

Jess you could post a video of yourself describing paint dry and it would work ❤ we adore you

[@jennabruce7474]

I have been here a WHILE and I’m so glad you brought back the old outro. I love it! Glad to hear things are doing better❤

[@agascha]

So happy you’re doing and feeling better 🤍

[@wiidasander9626]

On what gabriel said about young adults around the table - remember they'll probably end up having partners, so 5 children with partners mean 10 children around the table! Even 2 or 3, plus partners, would be a full table. ❤

[@fireflyabc38]

Just found your book rec & downloaded Take back your family. Wishing you both well. Thank you!

[@raw8565]

I’m happy for you, Gabe! I feel like being so creative can be a curse too since you’re never fully content in what you’re doing. But I feel like you are going in the right path trying to figure out what makes you the happiest and what’s best for you to do overall because you’re so creative with your videography and editing! I can’t wait to see more from you!

[@naragomes8655]

Gabe gives off such only child vibes

[@Onlythemusic23]

Thank you for the book recommendations! Especially the Take back you family one. You are both leading by example and so wholesome. 🤍✨ Loved the questions that were answered. Take care! 💕

[@sophiahofferbert3766]

Jess would do such a good job and have the best podcast!!! Would love a wholesome girlie podcast to listen to/watch!

[@christinadanielle5795]

The movie room is such a vibe for videos! Please keep them coming!! Glad you guys are doing well & are still going to upload for us ❤

[@lauralena5697]

I quit social media 5 years ago and it has been the best thing I've ever done. I can really relate to Gabe

[@annalee5254]

I think the Jess and Gabe channel should be on pause so Gabe can sort himself out, it’s clear he’s burnt out (obviously he’s been doing social media for over a decade), Jess can upload on her Channel (she’s definitely more confident, outspoken and bolder compared to her previous years and I’m so happy for her), they’re on different paths of life, which is TOTALLY okay, Jess’s path isn’t the same as Gabe’s path so no need to force anything. We support you both❤️

[@e_w3162]

Gabriel seems so much happier and you both seem so much more at peace. Wow, I'm so happy for you guys. Keep us updated or make fun things whenever you want to for us. I know I'll be here. Appreciate, love, and praying for you guys

[@graceparoz3217]

Praying for you guys in this new season of life! Makes me so happy to see you’re both doing so well 🤍 soak in the good and embrace this change. We will always be here to support you guys

[@zarnagadhiya]

I'm glad you guys will keep posting. I feel like you guys are my friends 😅 though you have no clue who I am. Your videos mean so much to me. Especially Jess's channel's makes me feel like I've got a bestie hehehe!

[@cecygamboa6162]

I feel so bad for Jess 😢

[@maryamalik497]

Your life routine vlogs in back days were amazing and fun to watch . Love to watch them again ❤️

[@megothica]

wait they’re sponsoring betterhelp but they don’t use it themselves?their friends use it but they don’t? idk that’s strange promotion work

[@carasmart6077]

they have in the past! that’s kind of the beauty of a platform like better help. granted, i don’t LIKE betterhelp at all, but!

[@jessrelyea]

Identify crisis is a real thing. Keep going, you got this. Scrap that, God has you. It’s encouraging to see you both go on a different journey yet supporting each other. ☺️ Great book recommendations 🙌🏽 Love you both x

[@ShuklaAayushi]

You guys are amazing people. My heart explodes every time by your love for each other and your family. ❤ Jess we need more book/home decor/comfy style/journal content from you. Please make that secret channel 😂 Love to learn about Kaya's personality as she's growing up.

[@victoriachiciuc2316]

What makes me happy is that you guys are happy! Makes my heart warm ❤ God bless to you individually, your career goals, and you as a beautiful family! 🙏🥰❤

[@josephinepostma2781]

Thank you so much, Jess and Gabe! It feels like I’ve been “go go go” for the past few years, and seeing you guys stoping tasks and taking breaks was so encouraging to me! Like, the fact that you were so open with following the Lord and transitioning between projects helped me to do the same when I needed to. And I now don’t feel as guilty or shameful (before friends and family) for moving into what God has for me. You both are truly awesome role models for all of us! God bless you!!

[@violaajiang]

my GOSH, i have been watching you guys since the beginning and this was so refreshing. i am truly so encouraged by the intentionality you two have towards your marriage, your sweet little one(s), and your career. so amazed by the growth i have seen in your lives the last several years! praise God!

[@laura7434]

I have a very hard cold, too. Soo.. Get well soon, Gabriel. 😷😊 Also love this type of videos. Love your thoughts and just some book recommandations,... Love you guys 🥰🧡

[@sagelively7513]

Truly truly Jess would host an amazing podcast herself!! She was doing such an awesome job. We’d love to see you continue Jess!! 😊 But of course whatever you feel is best for you and your family 🧡

[@JRich321]

Ekkk!! Im really hoping Jess will start a book tube 💕🫶🏼 love you guys!!!!

[@akemi187]

Please just upload whatever you like to your channel, Jess!!💛

[@gracelockett96]

I love you guys and so admire that you put your health first while still being there for others! You guys model boundaries so well. Thanks.(:

[@derc5284]

Great video! You guys are amazing! Thank you for everything

[@mikaelacordwell8720]

you both are so pure and amazing I love watching your videos and seeing you happy! loving the lego collection 👀

[@Sah0419]

Jess, you just get more beautiful as you age! You’ve really come into yourself-your self confidence shines through you.

[@AlexPresa]

I'm so happy for you guys, especially Gabe, so good to hear you're doing so much better bro!!! 🥹 God is good.

[@misslaaaura]

I love you guys!❤❤ nice to see you!

[@luna1584]

Loved the video! Also that Lego wall is 🔥🔥

[@CarloAnton]

Thanks for creating that podcast. It really helped me get through a tough season that I was in, at the end of last year (2023)... God definitely used you guys for creating it & I'm forever thankful. But I'm also glad you guys have decided to do something about it and prioritize your mental health and just entire well being. More power to you & your fam 🙏🏼❤️

[@danufes]

I love your vibe so much! Hope life gives you all the good things you deserve ❤

[@joudwaleed2253]

First few hours fans >>

[@sarahchadwick4672]

Teehe 🤭

[@Kiayamarieee]

Very refreshing video! We will be here for whatever yall put out!

[@gigirose6525]

I recently had a baby and I understand what you mean at 2:39.. its like your priorities change and you have changed. I feel I focus less individually and I want to make changes in my life that improve my families life

[@Fringinto]

Love the honest conversation about money!! Wish you all the best for this new chapter :) take care of yourself!

[@mimiyee28]

This was a nice and vulnerable catchup video! Whatever decision you guys make, we’ll be here to support you guys

[@dianacarolina2912]

11:19 and she was already pregnant here🥹 so happy for them ❤️

[@Christine.Baraka]

It's such an interesting convo about how many kids to have...I'm mulling it over also. I think you're right to not focus on the toddler phase because you may just think one is enough😂 But I suffered neglect as a child which affected me heavily as an adult, and I never want my child to feel that way. I feel like once you stop having time available for one on one attention, that's when the child's growing up experience is impacted, which of course impacts the rest of their life. It's possible to be intentional about making that space, but it gets logistically harder the higher the number of kids. My family only had 3 kids, but my mom had chronic illness, so everyone's capacity is different for making that intentional time.

stop i'm so ready for jess' secret channel? omg omg omg. i love it. i'm so glad she's not going anywhere i love her sm. i look up to her in so many ways

[@elizabethdill3156]

I'm only half way through the video right now, but I just wanted to share that I think there is something about you guys cutting back on social media that makes you all the more relatable. I've always admired you both and have watched you guys since your first year of marriage, but something just switched in my heart while watching this video. I used to view you guys as distant people that I admired and have inspired me, but now it feels like I'm also watching you guys as friends. I wanted to share that because I'm sure as influencers who've been around for years, it could feel like you guys are 'leaving us behind' by cutting back on social media, but in reality it feels like we just got a little closer (in a totally non-creepy way hahah). Your desire for something new and to be more private and family focused shows us just how human you are. I loved hearing how Gabe is interested in real estate, because from my perspective it feels like most social media influencers try to make it look like you're only a real influencer if you only make money off your content, brand deals, merch, etc., and 'normal' jobs like being a real estate agent or working in the trades isn't 'cool'. I know there are so many people out there that aren't content creators who would say they would take being a social media influencer over any other job, but it's so amazing to see people who actually are content creator's choose different occupations and a quieter lifestyles. (Don't get me wrong, I know being a content creator is also such a huge blessing to have as a job too!). I'm not sure if I'm making any sense, but I love and support you guys and am so beyond happy you guys feel so fulfilled and relaxed in life right now, and have more free-time to soak this season up and especially raise sweet Makaiah! Don't ever feel like you guys ever owe us an explanation for the decisions you make (or owe us anything for that matter) - this is your story that God is writing out, and I hope you continue to bask in the delight of this season you're in. :)

[@IsabellaFQueiroz]

I love rewatching this and thinking “oh they already knew they were pregnant here” and try to spot times they almost gave something away hahahaha but I had no clue! I’m so happy for you guys!

[@agascha]

Especially at 10:56 hahah

[@angelavanoosten1]

Same hahaha

[@abbeyspanko9536]

@@agaschaGabe’s face when she says right now they have 1 kid 😂

[@MistyBlue23]

Gabe in the first three minutes “I’m not gonna be talking much.. I’m sick” then it’s mostly him talking hahaha but we love that 😂❤️

[@nathaliamatsunaga831]

it’s weird that even tho we just see a little bit part of your life but it still feels like we’re part of your life so the word quitting were pretty scary before watching what you said

[@yasminedarmo9632]

I enjoy watching you guys, for real. The only couple I continue to watch for the last 7/8 years. Love you guys so much❤

[@haleyowens9630]

Jess if you choose to do your podcast we would be here for it! Prayers for favor in all you do.

[@xokelseyxo9238]

Happy Wednesday, Jess and Gabe! I pray that you are having a joyous and peaceful week. 🌻❤

[@sanam2558]

The amount of peace I feel while watching u guys' videos

[@AK_7130]

your video's vibe seems so off idk why you guys. i used to really like your videos it doesnt feel the same

[@laispereira2268]

I love videos like that, it feels so cozy, like i'm sittong with my best friends chatting about life!! Take care guys, hope we meet again in the next video 🥰

[@notetosam]

Gabe starts every sentence with "I"

[@yenielena]

Yay!!!! Glad to see your lovely faces! 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@__alex__k]

I literally missed the way you used to end videos. Now I'm fulfilled haha

[@DahliaTuong]

Who's here after found and suscribed Jess's secret channel? Honestly, Jess, please post anything and I can sit listening to your voice without getting bored

[@user-iq4he4bg7q]

Jess please share anything and everything you want to share with us on your channel! It’s you we are there for! We love your content, whichever style it is!! ❤ Will greatly miss watching videos on this channel but I completely understand. I wish you both all the best!

[@tamiaespn]

omg! out of context but my husband would love the legos collection at the back! can you make a shorts touring your legos collection? if that’s okay with you guys! haha thank youu ♥️

[@Coleyeg]

When Gabe mentions parenthood I definitely agree at first kids depend more on their mum especially daughters but dads are the more playful ones like Jess says. My two are 4&5 now and now they’re older they love their dad he’s the more playful parent where as I’m the one they want when they’re not well type thing or a cuddle they come to me more. It definitely changes as kids get older they lean on each parent for different aspects. It’s been since our daughter was two she’s gotten closer to her dad I think daughters take a little bit longer than sons to do that little switch to becoming closer to their dad and having that better bond but it’s something that comes over time. Parenthood it’s hard, but definitely can say Jess I wanted two but now they’re older I’m like hmm a third wouldn’t be too bad if it was to happen down the line! I think after two from watching other mums any more after two slots into your family as you’re already in a routine! Love you guys, glad too see you’re keeping better 🥰

[@sarameierxo]

I’m so happy for you guys, you seem so much lighter and at peace compared to the last video. I am definitely one of the people that said I loved your podcast when I met you in NYC, but I also love all of your other content and want what’s best for you and your family 💗

[@angelavanoosten1]

Hope y'all are good 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@maaikeklamer6772]

Always good to see you guys ❤️

[@arcangel543]

Thanks for book recomendations, 9:40 gonna check them out.

[@darincachavez8142]

I genuinely feel at peace whenever I see your videos. Gabe always reminding everyone that the Lord always has your back is such an important thing most of us forget. Thank you Gabe and Jess for your light in this world ❤

[@sarah-s-m]

Love you guys and loved the lego wall ❤❤❤😂

[@raw8565]

Ur not failing Gabe!!!! It takes people a while to figure themselves out and understand what you want to be doing as a career path! Now you know you prefer projects with due date- Thats great you learned that about yourself. You have to go through these life events to learn about yourself more!

[@valnucifora9992]

With love and respect, Gabe gives me such weird vibes tbh. Like, yeah you want 5 kids but you're saying you know childhood is pretty much 70/30 mother heavy? You don't want to do the podcast but Jess is insisting she loves it and you never say... maybe one day we are lucky enough to see you do one? IDKKKKK

[@smileytan]

Yeah girl, I've always been kinda iffy w him since the beginning. But you make such a good point!

[@annalee5254]

I get itttt but Gabe has been doing social media for over a decade now so he’s burnt out it’s so clear also he deals with depression, Jess however is now getting more into it if you notice she’s more outspoken and bold compared to previous years of watching her

[@valnucifora9992]

@@annalee5254 I totally get the wanting to take a break. It's clearly long overdue and maybe he's in constant cycles of burn out. But, there are some things that I'm just??? He just doesn't seem very keen on figuring out what she wants or how to support her, it just feels like it's always about what he wants to prioritise or what he needs. OFC I'm not in the relationship so it's a very subjective observation.

[@ophiliagrace23]

NEED A JESS CONTE PODCAST!!!!!

[@jadecarpenter8221]

Such a shame about the pod, i absolutely loved listening to those weekly! Jess, you should definitely consider doing a solo podcast.

[@agustinasegovia2820]

I love your videos guys💘

[@greciaburquez5665]

I feel like Gabriel doesn’t let Jess shine. He’s such a me me me guy.

[@blessedbygod4472]

I agree.

[@cowsrock1q]

Jess has always been more shy especially in the beginning of their relationship 6-7 years ago, she would even say so. But he’s helped her a lot and she’s gained so much confidence the last several years!

[@jam3th]

Now i know why you guys are like glowing. Cause the conte's are pregnant ya'll! So happy for you both😢❤

[@katherinereid5412]

the fact that they’ve been ending the last few videos the way they used to literally makes me smile every. single. time. ☺️

[@sophie-bales]

I'm curious, did you both have any podcast guests lined up that you didn't end up filming? 0.0 much love to you both and hope you're thriving mentally and emotionally!

[@konstantinam.5913]

Jess please do a reading vlog, or a vlog recommending books.

[@carlyeg976]

The podcast is what got me watching y’all’s channel again. Definitely going to miss it

[@himanihaldar9942]

I would love to do her own podcast like Emma coz jess's energy is what I thrive to be. Also I love how meticulous she is with everything, she takes efforts n it shows. A true graphic designer maybe.

[@krystalolivier]

I always think about what our family table will look like with our children in the future and I think we forget about our children’s partners. So when I think of having three kids I then envision 6 kids (obviously older, when our kids have partners) around the table. That’s why I found three kids to be a good stopping point for us.

[@kayleenmoodley3609]

Love you guys ❤❤❤❤

[@haileylindsey9336]

Jess please link the outfit you’re wearing I love it 😻

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Love y'all ❤

[@aribaawan5657]

Love you guys sm ❤❤❤

[@niveditadesai1923]

You guys ❤

[@emmelinaa]

I'd honestly love to see more Christian content from you guys. I wasn't part of the faith when I first watched you guys way back when but now I am a Christian and I do credit part of that curiosity to you guys, I'd hate to see that not be emboldened.

[@GOD1stykit]

Faxxxx. Love this fssss