Quizzing Our Producer About Vaginas W/ Miles Bonsignore - You Can Sit With Us Ep. 46

[@sky615]

This is like Miles is sitting around talking to his older sisters.

[@anitasubramans]

Who are sitting on him, tickling him.

[@kamcalste]

I get a little emotional when I think about the fact that none of these podcasts would be here if Miles hadn't skipped that one week of work, then got anxious about 2nd Try LLC not needing him anymore, so he pitched The Trypod. It's all come so far.

[@graceb8659]

Where was that story told? I didn’t know that

[@liasohl7314]

it was when he got his wisdom teeth out and he felt like he was behind and needed to come up with ideas

[@liasohl7314]

@@graceb8659 it was on a try guys video i think of the summer of try video

[@saramcnick7022]

@@graceb8659 it was in the 2018 try guys rewind

[@graceb8659]

@@liasohl7314 thank you so much!!!

[@estellebonnelame7469]

Miles as Zach’s goth boyfriend in that one episode of Candid competition will forever be ICONIC 😂👌🏽 #bringbackGothMiles

[@nehaswaroop9333]

It was my favorite!!!!

[@krystallights1325]

it was so iconic!

[@lindanicolausson6148]

YES

[@cruztastrophe]

Which episode was that?

[@estellebonnelame7469]

@Cruz the Brown Guy it’s the “who throws the best free birthday party” episode of Candid competition

[@siddhisawant6540]

You guys should have safiya nygaard as a guest......now that's a collab which we all need

[@movi3srock]

Except now she's in North Carolina

[@1bornconfused922]

There's a little thing called Zoom, maybe you've heard of it 😉😁

[@SamuraiFashion]

@@1bornconfused922 dang, someone’s snarky lol

[@ShravyaC1]

Trueee

[@1bornconfused922]

@@SamuraiFashion that time of the month 😜

[@dasiazanders]

This is the most serious I have ever seen Miles and I actually love this episode. It's nice hearing him more in a more relaxed way.

[@aj27turquoiseskies]

Eyy 420 likes

[@chloeb7617]

Miles’ giggle in the background of every podcast is needed and appreciated

[@akankshaguha7452]

You guys have to have Hannah Williams(wine mom/world's okayest mom) on this show or on baby steps . You just have to . That's the Collab we need

[@SarahTheSassy71]

Please!!! All I want 🥺

[@SanskarWagley]

yes!

[@estellebonnelame7469]

That’s a great idea !!

[@emi-ye2hy]

Omg yesss

[@leannadawn6943]

Yessssss! I was so happy when she started posting again. Hannah is my BFF irl, lol.

[@emilybaik3451]

becky saying “spill the cocoa” makes my heart so happy ariel is such a trendsetter

[@ellequinn4204]

Becky was the one who told ariel that you can't say spill the cocoa because its Not the same. So technically it was Ariel who started the trend but becks just shot that idea down in an earlier podcast.

[@ellequinn4204]

Still love all of you ❤ 💕

[@aur9035]

@@ellequinn4204 ..what? Thats what they said..?

[@leinaamatsuji-berry561]

“You love smut and I love that about you” is such a funny thing to say but I love it 😂

[@TheGral88]

I also love Ariel and Mike’s for this reason

[@lanemac]

lol ariel “she’s so out of your league”😭

[@jasminee204]

Aww I don't think it's true! Miles is a catch :)

[@Emmysn0w]

Their all out of the boys leagues

[@solcarlosofficial]

i don't like comments like "she is so out of your league" it can really hurt someone's feelings. I know they said it as a joke but I felt it was not nice. Miles is so kind and wonderful.

[@oogaboogass]

@@Emmysn0w so true 💀

[@littleredhead75]

Hey y'all!! I'm not an expert on birth control, but I want to be a marriage and family therapist/sex educator someday so I've read a LOT about birth control!! I think you may have confused a few things during the birth control segment. It sounded like a few times you guys mixed up IUDs (the t-shaped devices that sit in the uterus) vs Essure (the little blockers that go inside of your fallopian tubes, which is considered a permanent birth control method). Also, you mentioned at one point that IUDs thicken the mucus in the uterus (it actually thickens the cervical mucus). You also mentioned that more people get blood clots with birth control than the J&J vaccine, which is actually a false internet-circulated rumor. The types of clots are different, the J&J ones being more serious in regards to the type/severity of blood clot, which is why we paused the vaccine rollout; we want to know if this is a serious risk or not/why/in what ways... The bottom line is that we shouldn't compare them like the internet rumor has. The KZbinr Mama Doctor Jones does an *incredible* job of explaining that last part about blood clots in a video that she posted recently, and she also has a lot of great videos about birth control. It would be awesome if she could be on the podcast to help teach your young female audience (and educate the boys/men too!) about their birth control options and maybe the vaccine blood clot thing!! Love you all, and I hope this message didn't sound rude or anything like that, I just wanted to point out that there were a few things here that I don't think were *quite* accurate 💕😊 Edit: to anyone who read all of this, PLEASE go watch the Mama Doctor Jones vid that I mentioned about the blood clot thing... she does a way better job of explaining it than I did, and I don't want to scare anyone away from getting the vaccine!! I am a female in my 20s and I got the J&J vaccine and I am completely fine 😊

[@sujanigomes5062]

Thank you!

[@littleredhead75]

@@riyamathew403 that's a teeny bit more harsh than I would've said that, but I definitely agree with your point that spreading misinformation can be really harmful, especially for the young women and girls out there that listen to this podcast

[@23MLGL13]

Commenting to push this ball of truth to the top! 👌🏽 I didn't know about the clots but I did know that an iud does not block the fallopian tubes

[@dastardlybastard4311]

commenting to push this to the top

[@littleredhead75]

@@23MLGL13 ty 💕

[@yosoyconsuela]

Becky should understand the attraction to big and goofy guys.

[@mirimimi12]

I just wanted to say a big thank you to everyone involved who makes and hosts this podcast! I recently started a new job and can't sit down and eat my lunch with anyone because of the COVID restrictions...these ladies have been my lunch mates for the past month and I am sooooo grateful!! Love you all!

[@Gandokai88]

I adore all the ladies, but it's weird to not see Rachel. I hope she's doing okay.

[@saraa.7836]

Well remember she’s also a producer, so she has other responsibilities to tend to. But I hope she’s doing well, in general.

[@movi3srock]

I think the try guys TV show is picking up right now so she's probably dealing with that right now. Busy producer lately! 🔥

[@supaloulou]

@@movi3srock the boss bitch energy just radiating from rachel

[@tiffw1987]

On her instagram it looks like she is on vacation currently :)

[@nathashapaul5344]

@@tiffw1987 im pretty sure the podcast is filmed like a week in advance? also shes on vacay with ned and ariel !!

[@Cute_and_cozy]

What if they did a NOT soothing edit where it’s just all the ladies’ most aggressive and hot takes 😂 Miles pleeeeeeease

[@marikotrue3488]

Wonder if this will be added to his curriculum vitae: Miles Bonsignore, long-term versatile video producer with a good working knowledge of most female-health related products.

[@rollitime1]

Best male birth control = a vasectomy. Easily the best 1,400 I ever spent, 1/2 an hour of my time and I walked out of the hospital. It's WAY safer than a lot of female surgies that my wife was worried about getting, so I went ahead with it instead. Highly recommended if you don't want babies, surgery was less painful than getting my shoulder put back in place, seriously it's WAY over-hyped because guys are terrified of things happening to their balls.

[@ladyicondraco]

I really like hearing Miles in a calmer situation. He's so thoughtful

[@krystahalliwell3709]

I love you all, but this was some SERIOUS misinformation about how IUDs work 😳. They definitely do not block your Fallopian tubes with their arms 😂😂 Might be a good idea to bring in a gyno to help you all learn a bit more about what’s in your body!

[@norakelley5112]

They do "block" the fallopian tubes but not physically. Sperm don't like the iud so it won't go past it which is why people say that.

[@DameCacao]

Agreed! It causes wild inflammation that your body can start to attack, if its perceived as an "invader"!

[@andrewsun8773]

Currently praying for Miles before I watch this

[@helloitsali.]

becky: ben barnes is like 49 me: googles ben barnes ben barnes: is 39 edit: this op isn’t meant to be angry or making fun of becky i just thought it was funny

[@shreyajathavedan5471]

Exactly!! 😤😤

[@AuthorZaraHoffman]

I know!!!

[@itscarriebomb]

Yep. LOL.

[@GabrielaRivas]

I know! It made me so mad she thinks he’s so much older than he is

[@ineedthekrup5333]

A prime example of why Becky gets on my nerves. In the event that come sit with us comes up with merch, and make a "Shut Up Becky" T-shirt put me on the preorder list...

[@reginajones4503]

Relaxed and non-character Miles is adorable. He’s so likeable and funny. He needs more airtime. ❤️

[@kylieallen7192]

I think Miles should be on every once in a while because he’s great and amazing and I love him! I get why he’s not on regularly but a guest appearance is so welcome! 💕🛁

[@Wincingatwindmills]

Becky’s hair?!!! Yes honey!!! A luscious lob

[@maggotst.pierre2361]

Lob sounds weird lol. Does it just basically mean long bob?

[@maggotst.pierre2361]

The bangs are very 70s and I love it.

[@aur9035]

@@maggotst.pierre2361 yes.

[@miras849]

I SCREAMED when they mentioned Shadow and Bone!!!!

[@courtneyleon4915]

Miles is the girlfriend that we all didn’t know we needed 🖤

[@caitlinbedell9719]

My husband mispronounced my middle name during his proposal-and I laughed 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 we joke about it all the time now but he told me later that day that he was so nervous to “get it right” that he got nervous and tongue tied and said it wrong anyway 😬 I still love him and never expected a perfect proposal-I just wanted him forever 🥰

[@aur9035]

Is it bedell? Haha that's so funny, how did he pronounce it?

[@Mandyxthexevil]

LOVE Becky's hair!! Love Maggie's shirt! Love Ariel's shirt also!! Love Myles' beard and miss Rachel's presence! You can sit with us is FANTASTIC for walking as well. This was a fantastic episode.

[@brietea23]

i fucking love miles! such a sweet soul and cute human!

[@ShravyaC1]

So adorable😍

[@atrium.]

I know it was meant more as a joke but no, sarah is not out of miles' league! they are such sweet people, absolutely perfect for each other and i am genuinely happy for them/you two!

[@prakritikanaujia4536]

I've been waiting for them to talk about Shadow and Bone for a month

[@kristalclear7602]

Never thought i'd hear a diva cup compared to hand-to-hand combat LOOOL

[@RebekahFinley]

Ben Barnes is only 39, give him a break 😂

[@supercalime]

Yeah but he was like 25 for 15 years, so I get their confusion lol

[@RebekahFinley]

@@supercalime he was also literally Dorian Gray, so it makes sense

[@TKDDLJ09]

I honestly thought he was late 20s and when i looked it up i almost died 🤣 turns out, im older than i thought because i still remember Narnia, but apparently that was also longer ago than i thought 🤣🤣🤣

[@RebekahFinley]

@@TKDDLJ09 I was obsessed with Narnia! Prince Caspian was the definition of 😍 for me. I’m only 25, please tell me I’m not old - Narnia can’t be that long ago 😣

[@TKDDLJ09]

@@RebekahFinley I'm 25 too. And The first film was 16 years ago 😅😅😅

[@emilybaik3451]

becky being into shadow and bone AND hsmtmts further cements my belief that she is my favorite milennial

[@Amelia_Rose_333]

“A vibrator is like a theragun... you know it’s a concentrated ‘dick-dick-dick-dick’ “ 😂 -Ariel I can’t believe no one caught this or commented on it!!

[@yveewong]

"Mental health is important, stay awaty from the comments" Good for you girls!!! ✨✨✨

[@joanavillarreal8802]

Omg when Miles brought up the bath session thing... I was like omg waitttt I usually do that with this podcast hahah

[@aliagee3226]

My husband played laser tag for his bachelor party. Much safer. ;)

[@maggotst.pierre2361]

Omg i LOVE that.

[@LeatherAndLace2011]

I’m named after the main character of the clan of the cave bear. Wouldn’t have named it as a romance novel lol

[@scottring6514]

Hold up: Becky's new hair looks amazing, or am I late to the party?

[@ldr9918]

did she get her hair cut!! (or am i ALSO late to the party)

[@foxintoxin]

We love you Miles no matter how this ends 😂

[@evefurey149]

i feel so bad that they feel like they don’t want to look at the comments. i totally get it, but i wish they would be able to read how much we all love them

[@TheAcidburn007]

I see new Try Wives podcast episode, I click! 👀❤

[@miaguzzo4387]

"we're all rooting for her to be with ben barnes" WHO IS WE BECKY??? we love mal in this house

[@keefashine2657]

RIGHT and her saying its steamy.. like when he put the collar on alina? oh we love a man who takes away a womans bodily autonomy.. so steamy..

[@miaguzzo4387]

@@keefashine2657 you. i like you. you have taste.

[@kamcalste]

Ben Barnes *is* hot, and the chemistry between him and Jessie Mei Li was really great... but I really stopped enjoying that dynamic once he does the thing with the antlers. It was really messed up. I think they're a lot more toxic than Becky described, fwiw, and that's pretty clear by the end of the season. But that's just my viewpoint, I know a lot of people really like Alina and the Darkling together.

[@TKDDLJ09]

If people actually like them togeth, then they didnt watch and understand the show. Like he was clearly the villain from the start and unless they change in the feature season, he is gonna keep being the villain. So there wont be a chance of them. Also those who read the books probably like the Darkling more because Mal was not a good character in the books 🤣

[@maisie3753]

I came to the comments to say the same thing! The Darkling is equally as problematic in the show as in the books... but like intentionally problematic haha. He's the villain! Very sexy but still clearly a villain!

[@Soweird666]

Well, the thing with the antlers was more visually disturbing in the show than in the books. The impression that I got from reading that part in the books was it was supposed to be more of a collar/necklace as opposed it being melded into Alina’s collarbones. And yes, the relationship between Alina and the Darkling was more toxic in the books than in the show.

[@kamcalste]

@@Soweird666 I kinda like the change of it not being a collar/necklace, though. I think a necklace could've been misinterpreted as romantic - do you think it was implied to be romantic in the books, or is it treated as an actual slavery allegory? I haven't finished reading the books yet, so I can't personally speak to any differences between the books and the show. But imo, the grotesquery of the antlers coming out of her skin made it a lot more clear, visually, that the Darkling doesn't care about her and only wants her for her power, even if it hurts her.

[@Soweird666]

@@kamcalste I kinda viewed it as more of a collar and as a slavery allegory, given how the Darkling used Alina’s power in order to further his agenda.

[@alexam8172]

I cannot stress how much I would absolutely love to have sarah on the podcast all the time🥺. I also miss Rachel so much but I absolutely adore these women and Miles

[@Mike90317]

I got a little bit sad when they said they don't look at comments. Trolls and bad people ruin the nice and good comments. Let's not engage in bad comments, so they don't go to the top.

[@andyqv-goodvibes1900]

im obsessed with Maggie's outfit

[@beagemini9472]

The stuff about over thinking covid is so me. I get a blocked nose and think I have covid. Or I eat something dry and cough thinking I have covid it’s the worst

[@delicatinelity]

LOL Becky saying Ben Barnes is 49 when he's just about to turn 40 this August. LMAO

[@meaghans4380]

I don't usually watch u can sit with us but anything with miles I'm ready for

[@sarafarver]

Wedding size can get out of hand SO QUICKLY. My husband and I's list (even after family approval) was 330 people. Due to COVID, we had to really shrink the list to 30 people and we are so happy that we ended up having a small wedding! It was so much more low-key and we only had the people there we really, really cared about, so it was much more meaningful. It actually felt like the day was for US and not for everyone else. Highly recommend small weddings, we LOVED it.

[@TKDDLJ09]

Seriously cants even fathom 300 people? Like how? Even if i strech it to people i work with and once went to school with, it wouldn't even be half of that 🤣 and then it would just be random people most of them.

[@fearfullyqueer]

I got my vaccine this weekend! I was terrified because I’m terrified of needles but it wasn’t that bad at all. Please get a vaccine if you’re eligible.

[@cd23182]

Ok I said last week I’ve never clicked so fast but sorry Sarah, Miles has you beat #milesnation

[@AriVirtual]

It didnt have "Too many side effects" The side effects were EXACTLY, the same as female's. They took it off because its "unacceptable" for men to "go through" that. There were like 3 brands on tv commercial, all dissapeared at the same time, this whole thing lasted like 8 months and we never heard of it being invented again.

[@Laura-er5nz]

You guys, listening to this in an open office space where I can’t laugh out loud is such a challenge

[@shadowmouse03]

i LOVE shadow and bone, and was HOPING so badly for you guys to talk about it!!!

[@AM_201]

love me some pretty much it, hilarious commentary

[@mininabs]

Shadow and Bone on Netflix is SO good, I binged it in one night.

[@megankidd4671]

This podcast is VERY soothing. I use the playlist to fall asleep

[@612malka]

Looks at title. This is going to be fun

[@rose_river_]

I hope Miles can be on another episode in the future~ Maybe when he's a husband?

[@runningerins4027]

The Charli cold foam is literally cold brew, caramel, and foam.😂 You can get it with the cinnamon sugar sprinkle on top or not. As a 26 year old who got it as a joke, it's my favorite thing from Dunkin.😂 The medium is 200 calories.

[@SoooJokes]

Yes, I would like to apply for adoption by Sarah and Miles. I eagerly await your response.

[@saraa.7836]

Poor Miles getting grilled today LOL

[@findparadise]

BRING BACK CANDID COMPETITION

[@amandalouise_]

early gang!!! let's get it cutie booties!!!!~~~ hope everyone seeing this is having a great week so far :*

[@Priya-zc1mi]

there is so much false information in this podcast, from the birth control talk to shadow and bone, and they just said everything so matter-of-fact 😭

[@Cutiepenguin42]

Right after Miles asked if the arm implant looks like a copper medallion, I got an ad for bitcoin.

[@solcarlosofficial]

i don't like comments like "she is so out of your league" it can really hurt someones feelings. I know they said it as a joke but I felt it was not nice. Miles is so kind and wonderful.

[@larissachase7960]

I absolutely love whenever Miles is able to come out from behind the desk and talk, whether he physically does or not, he's such a sweetheart. Miles Nation!

[@MiniT327]

gld y’all are into shadow and bone. also, Ben is 39 not 45 😭

[@amberparks1466]

They also do internal ultrasounds to check the lining of your uterus, check for fibroids, cysts, or any structural abnormalities.

[@IcySync]

Miles is so great. He's always been my favourite :) and I think Sarah is a really lucky girl to have such an attentive and sweet spouse. He's hilarious and her world is going to be full of laughter :) They're a really good match!

[@maggotst.pierre2361]

Timestamps please. Love you guys. Also, I need more Miles. Why can't all men be like this? Was talking about my bloodbath to a 40 year old manchild and he got so weird and it was seriously unnerving.

[@mayennesebial3463]

Hmmm i think there's a good number of famous child actors/actresses who were able to transition into adulthood maturely 🤔

[@ashleyjoyes4425]

Yes me too

[@jorgeviviano6304]

At around 26:15 did miles said covid 17 or did I hear wrong.. its covid 19 right... RIGHT

[@autumnavalanche1097]

bizarre comment to make but im always in awe of how gorgeous maggie is wow she's so beautiful lerjgbkjrg

[@pantherreggie]

havent even started yet but i already know this ones gonna he goooooood

[@coopernat1]

I sooo relate to Ariel in that whatever you’re obsessed with currently becomes your whole personality

[@sydneybridges6170]

Always put an alarm on for 11am so I can catch this pod it makes my day. I really appreciate you ladies!

[@joycemattei]

I trust Miles with my drink 😌

[@totallybionic123]

This is my second or third viewing, because it’s such a delight, and I’m patiently waiting for a “Miles gets quized” part 2 pod.

[@Jordan-uh9hg]

I hope Sarah Peterson becomes a regular personality on you can sit with us she was so kind and nice to listen to. Just lovely all around

[@polarberin]

The way miles said "am I right ladies" was so bo Burnham and I loved it.

[@noormaghrebi3961]

Okay so I will admit it is kind mortifying going up to the dunkin drivethrough as a grown woman asking for the charli cold foam but omg it is SO GOOD please get it guys lol edit: wait remembering how Miles roasted dunkin in the eat the menu i change my mind Miles don't get it you'll hate it lmao but everyone else please get it

[@princessleia9735]

Mirena girl here! ✋ I loved this segment and hearing how much Miles has learned, and also how he describes things has me 💀

[@erikaalbert929]

It’s not like they are gynecologist or pharmacist, leave them alone people. It’s a comedy podcast. If you want facts, go to the news ones. This is just for fun, not facts. And medication changes all the time. IUD has changed since when they were first created.

[@jappyhoy]

my engagement was so weird. husband took me to kay. i said afterwards so wtf was that about lol. he said oh yea. will you marry me as we walked to the car. i said yes. lol. then we went to san Diego to the beach. i got the ring later. but it was simple. he knows me so well. my friend later took us after i got the ring to san diego for a photo shoot. it was so simple and lovey. we are going on 10 years now. married 6 months later. December spring wedding. lol. if you wonder what that means. it was planned for spring. daisies. yellow. outdoors. but my parents couldn’t make it in spring due to travel/work. so we moved it to december. we had the daisies and yellow but topped with lights and Christmas flowers. and my daddy walked me down the isle. small. quaint. and we got deals. total wedding including dress location and food etc… $800.

[@arianacorrea6576]

Spoiler: the Darkling never gets better, Ben Barnes is Just Hot. There is no redemption Arc

[@TKDDLJ09]

Yeah.... he will just be the villain. 🤣 unless they change it exponentially.

[@aspenread804]

PLEASE let Miles be on every podcast. I loved this episode so much!! I love hearing his comments and honestly it’s a great comedic pick-up and it’s cool to see what guys hear and learn from women in conversation.

[@NavWillow2850]

I'm in the middle of wedding planning and to say that I've been DYING for wedding gossip from Maggie/Zach and Miles/Sarah would be an understatement! 👰💒

[@cielxo]

miles in the trypod: 🤪🤬👺🤡😼😎 miles in ycswu: 🥰✨☺️🍃🌸😚☕️

[@windydapoohbear]

LMAO!! When did 45 become old. My husband and I just looked at each other and started laughing because we are 44 :D

[@melodyide2248]

I love this episode! Seriously, rediscovering Miles. I liked him before, but I love him now. Discovering his more sensitive side was a blast!

[@msbv...]

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, PLEASE WATCH SHADOW AND BONE AND US GIVE YOUR REACTIONS

[@WYIN98]

PleaSe more podcasts like this with Miles!

[@kaylapatricia3425]

There's an episode of Bojack horseman that talks about celebrities who stop aging at the age of when they become famous. The girl goes in to say it also happens to married people, because people love you don't push you to change so therefore you never do change

[@nadarocker7605]

I was not planning to watch Shadow and Bone but my evil friend sent me a Jesper video and gdi now I have to watch it. I will watch it for Jesper. 😭❤️

[@quentinmirabal9938]

My parents are in their 40s. They still give each other hickies

[@feraguilar4175]

Nooo noo no nooooo no no 🙈