r/AmITheA**hole for Calling the Cops on My Fiance?

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rSlash

rSlash

Күн бұрын

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@Robot_972
@Robot_972 2 жыл бұрын
God, the fiance could have easily made a deal with the wife like driving her to work and picking her up after
@CyberSway
@CyberSway 2 жыл бұрын
@good one get outta here with that religious garbage
@QuayHollywood
@QuayHollywood 2 жыл бұрын
No he should have taken an uber no deal should have been made. Cause 9 out of 10 if he's out on new years celebrating he's drinking which means he's driving while intoxicated.
@Robot_972
@Robot_972 2 жыл бұрын
@@QuayHollywood Oh, I’m aware. I more just meant as a general since I doubt that’s the only time it was an issue. But in that instance I agree he 100% should have gotten an uber
@QuayHollywood
@QuayHollywood 2 жыл бұрын
@@Robot_972 well yeah but from his behavior in this tells me he probably would have never picked her up lol
@Shenn3165
@Shenn3165 2 жыл бұрын
So drunk driving? Not that he wasn’t doing it anyway. Lol
@waelhassanmd
@waelhassanmd 2 жыл бұрын
Story one: that’s theft. He’s a car thief. Story three: “but op, you don’t understand, even though you miss your literal deceased brother, me and my obsession for fitness are more important than you! What? You don’t agree? MOOOMMYYYYYY!!!”
@bladerunner3314
@bladerunner3314 2 жыл бұрын
Not to mention you can ~gasp~ jogg outside instead on a tread mill
@Tman896
@Tman896 2 жыл бұрын
I want to physically fight that girl. Like I’m furious over something that doesn’t directly affect me.
@jelle3248
@jelle3248 2 жыл бұрын
Better be EX fiancee for sure. That's straight up theft
@callmeishmael2415
@callmeishmael2415 2 жыл бұрын
Any update
@Slipdreality
@Slipdreality 2 жыл бұрын
"I can do all things through spite" sounds like your grandma is a cool person! Thank you for sharing the stories!
@SNSugar21
@SNSugar21 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 100% positive that Austin has a crush on OP. Like when he said "our joy" it seems like hes trying to live a fantasy or some bs
@laurenbonner2393
@laurenbonner2393 2 жыл бұрын
That would make sense, considering he was acting like he was part of it when he isn't even the father!
@issacboothcool2689
@issacboothcool2689 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think he was mean or just a bad person he just overstep I don't think he should get fired.
@pollypockets508
@pollypockets508 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. He likes her. He fucked up though.
@MalekitGJ
@MalekitGJ 2 жыл бұрын
​@@issacboothcool2689 OSHA
@goofyrat2938
@goofyrat2938 2 жыл бұрын
@@issacboothcool2689 lol what? No good person is going to announce that without checking if it’s okay with the person, he deserves to get fired 100%. He even much made people in the workplace dislike her because none of them can read the room when it comes to privacy. ‘I don’t think he was mean’ - has someone even been mean to you? This is BRUTAL! He didn’t even apologise after like, not all pregnancies are good things, and even if she was happy with it that still wasn’t okay for him to just out her. I hope that in these 7 months in which you made this comment, you’ll actually have gained some sense.
@emm8657
@emm8657 2 жыл бұрын
I could listen to rslash tell his family stories for a whole hour. He's such a great story teller
@araminasilverblaze9152
@araminasilverblaze9152 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! Very much enjoyed the stories!
@kitsulittle_boii
@kitsulittle_boii 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed he should make a separate account for family story’s lol
@Positivekitten
@Positivekitten 2 жыл бұрын
He’s been telling more and more stories from his personal life lately, I guess that comes with his being a new dad. It’s so sweet!
@jeffthekingofgt
@jeffthekingofgt 2 жыл бұрын
Way too good
@aidajimenez7298
@aidajimenez7298 2 жыл бұрын
@@Positivekitten I was looking for this comment. You can really tell he became a father by the way he starts telling storys and then forgetting what he was talking about, only to keep telling the story. I find it sweet, thats the way my own dad used to tell me storys when I was a kid. I would listen to this man tell his whole life and wouldn't get tired.
@Mewse1203
@Mewse1203 2 жыл бұрын
Not only did Austin do exactly as Rslash said, he also assumed that the pregnancy was HAPPY news. Imagine if OP was in an abusive situation or they knew the baby wasn't viable and was going to terminate. He has no idea what is going on in people's lives and shouldn't be blasting her private medical information. It wasn't his secret to tell and he massively overatepped
@ObtuseMori
@ObtuseMori 2 жыл бұрын
That was my immediate thought. Imagine if she wasn't planning to keep the pregnancy and didn't intend for anyone to know about it. That Austin guy needs to mind his own business.
@SarahElisabethJoyal
@SarahElisabethJoyal 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine if that test was from like 2-3 weeks ago and op had already had a miscarriage since then
@funnypenelope
@funnypenelope 2 жыл бұрын
Isn't it also REALLY creepy that he said "our" good news?? As if HE'S the father?? Stalker vibes? Anybody else feel that??
@MitzuMage
@MitzuMage 2 жыл бұрын
@@funnypenelope I was thinking the exact same
@rylo2795
@rylo2795 2 жыл бұрын
My wife got a positive pregnancy result on a test and on that same day miscarriaged. She carried that test around in her purse for 6 months before she was finally willing to do something else with it. My wife could have easily been in ops situation and I know it would have devastated her.
@reddiamond6524
@reddiamond6524 2 жыл бұрын
I love that we went from judging strangers on the internet, to stories about Rslash's badass grandparents.
@DarkEinherjar
@DarkEinherjar 2 жыл бұрын
Dump the fiancé. This lack of respect for one's wishes and blatant theft are red flags that can't be overlooked, even more now that he's going to be using this incident to guilt-trip OP.
@treyjayray1859
@treyjayray1859 2 жыл бұрын
The funny part is I'm not sure which fiance you're talking about, the one who stole car or the one who stole the dead brother's gaming chair. Though honestly I'd say both of them need to be dumped.
@DarkEinherjar
@DarkEinherjar 2 жыл бұрын
@@treyjayray1859 Oh, no doubt about it: they both need to go. I was talking about the car thief, though.
@kevinmencer3782
@kevinmencer3782 2 жыл бұрын
Not only could he have gotten her fired, but patient abandonment is a very serious deal. He could have lost her RN license, possibly even her freedom depending on the consequences. As a former CNA and caregiver, this pisses me off to no end.
@spiderace7994
@spiderace7994 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely a victimizer since you can see at the one sight of almost feeling guilty it became all about her. The worst part it was a keepsake of his dead brother traded for a DAMN gym membership. That's instant deal breaker only insane people think that's ok.
@noxiouschocolate9644
@noxiouschocolate9644 2 жыл бұрын
I saw the first story a while ago and someone pointed out that there was a massive red flag in that fiancé refused to get his car fixed and put op’s job in jeopardy because he took her car when she needed it, sounded almost like he wanted her to lose her job
@pandoratheclay
@pandoratheclay 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: “What Austin was thinking…” Simple answer: he in fact, wasn’t thinking
@spydersoup8447
@spydersoup8447 Жыл бұрын
From this whole story, it seems like he has a crush on OP this whole time and wants to live his dream fantasy of being with her and having kids with her, on top of also being an attention seeker. He also seems to be completely oblivious about the thought of OP having a husband already and and so he thinks she's single and that he's the father of the baby. Yeah, talk about creepy. At least it's not as creepy as a certain recent future story on this channel.
@randomloseranddull1560
@randomloseranddull1560 Ай бұрын
​@@spydersoup8447was there an update of any kind? It does seem harsh to think of him as a stalker but i do agree the he seems delusional enough to be the type (Read a story about a different coworker stalker).
@spydersoup8447
@spydersoup8447 Ай бұрын
@@randomloseranddull1560 I don't know, these stories tend to get lost after a few weeks.
@Hybrid301
@Hybrid301 2 жыл бұрын
I think the OP in the first story misspelled “ex-fiancé”. That man child has no respect for her or her career. Don’t worry about him; he obviously is in guy-love with all of his Dude/Bros
@propandapower7633
@propandapower7633 2 жыл бұрын
Wasn’t there a lady who’s bf abused her and kicked her out, but she stayed with anyway recently?
@AstridCobalt
@AstridCobalt 2 жыл бұрын
@@propandapower7633 that was in the last episode
@propandapower7633
@propandapower7633 2 жыл бұрын
@@AstridCobalt that’s what I thought
@dracko158
@dracko158 2 жыл бұрын
He then says OP is out of her mind for calling the cops over a stolen car. Bruh, you just commited GRAND THEFT AUTO. The one that's out of their mind is YOU, bub.
@CyberSway
@CyberSway 2 жыл бұрын
@Just wow the internet is where religions go to die
@Richard_Nickerson
@Richard_Nickerson 2 жыл бұрын
"Our joy"? Wtf? How could the women NOT be on OP's side!? Every job makes it clear that discussing other's personal information is against the rules. Period. And rSlash is right: he can't even know if it's yours or current. And I agree: he should be fired.
@spiderace7994
@spiderace7994 2 жыл бұрын
Fired? I don't know. Yes, did he went out of line and snooped where he shouldn't? Yes. Should he get reported? That decision belongs to OP. Should Austin get fired? Idk, it honestly seemed like he was coming from a good place but ultimately he should've talked to OP or just minded his buissness. Idk getting fired I feel like he needs to done something a little more bad or even this not being the first mistake or something. Like I want his side and see if he actually reflected on his actions and apologized. If so don't fire him, if not I guess it's up to chance.
@er4110
@er4110 2 жыл бұрын
@@spiderace7994 I mean he didn't even go out of the way to get the information since he was invited into the car and it was there on the dash. Sure he made an assumption that it was her pregnancy test and that it was happy news however these are probably relatively safe assumption (Since I assume they talk to each other and know some details about their personal life). He should have kept it to itself since it was not his news to share. I think she should have talked to him afterwards and tell him how it was not appropriate and not to do anything similarly again. She did overreact but action did need to be taken.
@Richard_Nickerson
@Richard_Nickerson 2 жыл бұрын
@@spiderace7994 Sharing personal medical information without permission is literally illegal. This is a serious issue that absolutely SHOULD be brought to HR's attention, and firing him would be a reasonable response. You're defending the wrong person.
@Richard_Nickerson
@Richard_Nickerson 2 жыл бұрын
@@er4110 He made MULTIPLE assumptions about the pregnancy test, but most importantly, sharing someone else's personal medical information in the work place like that is literally illegal. It's so obvious when people responding aren't actually living in the real world. When you kids grow up and experience things like this in real life rather than YT videos, then you'll change your mind. Try putting yourself in other people's shoes.
@spiderace7994
@spiderace7994 2 жыл бұрын
@@Richard_Nickerson I didn't even defend him. I literally said exactly what you said but since it didn't seem malicious so she could just report him and set firm boundaries from now on. I don't really think this is instant firing material but whatever happens I don't think we should judge it's ultimately OP choice. Plus I think you forgot we don't even know how he responded. Like if he apologized then I really see firing not being the logical option since there was a resolution. However, though he SHOULD get reported if OP chosen so.
@davidbarky1046
@davidbarky1046 2 жыл бұрын
The bright side of most of these stories is they list the other person as their "fiance", so its not to late to break up without a big mess.
@merlinathrawes746
@merlinathrawes746 2 жыл бұрын
It can still be a big mess, it just depends on how OP's fiance handles it.
@akl2k7
@akl2k7 2 жыл бұрын
@@merlinathrawes746 Hopefully they haven't combined finances yet. And hopefully the fiancés don't freak out and start breaking stuff because they didn't get their way.
@artsyhoodies
@artsyhoodies 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, hearing the story about your grandmother WALKING HOME WITH A BROKEN HIP out of rage made me laugh so hard. The power of pure unfiltered anger is terrifyingly amazing.
@ReverieNightengale
@ReverieNightengale 2 жыл бұрын
First story: Oh, I can guarantee that the reason his friends aren't talking to him isn't because OP "put him in that position", but because they realized what a jerk he is. Fingers crossed he's now the EX-fiance, because I doubt he's gonna start respecting her more after marriage. Third story: Man I didn't even need to listen for more than a few seconds to know that the fiancée is the jerk. OP doesn't need to explain why the chair brings him comfort, it's obvious why. Losing a sibling to cancer at the young age of 27 when he had so much of his life ahead of him just sounds devastating, and I'd be too furious to even consider marrying anyone who took that comfort away from me. Hopefully OP took that one commenter's advice and sold the engagement ring to get that chair back, rather than marrying someone who would steal important things from him for luxuries she doesn't need. Eating disorders suck, but you don't need a gym membership to survive if you're that strapped for cash. I hate to jump to the nuclear judgement for other people's relationships, but not being able to see that theft is wrong should be a huge dealbreaker in any partnership.
@Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery
@Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery 2 жыл бұрын
i agree 100%. i have eating disorders but i would never steal my partners things, especially ones that are that important. how vile and disgusting do you have to be to steal someones inheritance? they dont need the gym, they need THERAPY edit: spelling
@morgandouglas6014
@morgandouglas6014 2 жыл бұрын
OP was in the right for calling the cops and needs to break off her engagement with her fiancé if she hasn’t already. This is a tell-tale sign of how her fiancé will treat her if they get married and she needs to end the relationship while she has the chance.
@gilded_lady
@gilded_lady 2 жыл бұрын
Ding ding ding
@MyFiddlePlayer
@MyFiddlePlayer 2 жыл бұрын
@@mkat8505 Yeah...his first choice is for his GF to ditch work and possibly get fired, instead of calling a taxi or asking his friend for a ride? And then he thinks it is OK to take her car without permission? This guy has weird thought processes. No wonder he can't afford to fix his own car, he is probably too irresponsible to hold a job.
@pupster0704
@pupster0704 2 жыл бұрын
I’m always amazed by number of adults who think they can force another adult to apologize. That’s for parents and elementary teachers.
@tazhienunurbusinezz1703
@tazhienunurbusinezz1703 2 жыл бұрын
The sad thing is that they often can. They make someone so miserable & abuse them so much that someone who is a people pleaser anyway will apologize to make the discomfort stop. I'm definitely not one of those people but my late husband was one of those people pleasers. I went scorched earth on anyone who tried that garbage on him when it was them who was in the wrong. They didn't like being on the receiving end because they were just gaslighting a holes but, by the time they had to deal with me, I was a stubborn & angry a hole who had no qualms about doing a little gaslighting/abusing herself & who also didn't care one iota what anyone who wasn't my parents, my kids or my late husband thought about me. I have zero issues getting down in the dirt with someone if it is to protect someone I love. In fact, I rather enjoy it sometimes. The bonus I got was a wonderful husband who told me that I was his hero. If you can imagine a tall, buff, sweet former military guy telling you that...it was pretty great. Yea, people really do suck though.
@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement
@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement 2 жыл бұрын
@@tazhienunurbusinezz1703 your husband was fortunate to be with you. You are a queen.
@tazhienunurbusinezz1703
@tazhienunurbusinezz1703 2 жыл бұрын
@@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement Thanks but we were both lucky. He loved the things about me that most guys only think they'd like. I can look like a princess if I want to but I spent most of my time with my very mechanically inclined father as a kid so I have a very extensive education in those things. When your welds are better than the average dude's, you correct the year of the car they are trying to show you driving down the road or when you don't need to call a plumber or an electrician (& you don't need their help to fix it) they can get surprisingly salty about it. My late husband was a chef after the military & he later became a nurse. We just complimented each other very well.
@JadeMau
@JadeMau 2 жыл бұрын
@@tazhienunurbusinezz1703 You both sound like an awesome couple. Truly complimenting personalities. I often walk away from youtube comments feeling really down, but I love this story, so tonight I will end on a good note. What branch by the way? You of course don't have to answer, I'm from a military family (pretty much all branches, but primarily Airforce and Marines (you can imagine the dinners xD)), so I'm just curious. Have a lovely weekend no matter what.
@withrecay4483
@withrecay4483 2 жыл бұрын
Can i just say that rSlash's grandparents are some of the coolest people ever and i would love to hear more stories about them!!!
@nikkiwooden7876
@nikkiwooden7876 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Xarpical
@Xarpical 2 жыл бұрын
The last story about the rose was so sweet
@FNLNFNLN
@FNLNFNLN 2 жыл бұрын
The tough shit old people do isn't badass, it's just fucking stupid. Like seriously, walking around on a shattered hip just because you're angry that someone correctly pointed out you're doing something really fucking dumb? Yeah, why not risk a bone fragment cutting open the femoral artery. At least no ones going to say "I told you so" when you've died of internal hemorrhaging.
@biikobeats
@biikobeats 2 жыл бұрын
@@FNLNFNLN ok : I
@charlie1567
@charlie1567 2 жыл бұрын
Me too. Thank you for sharing this with us 😊
@sourisvoleur4854
@sourisvoleur4854 2 жыл бұрын
Dabney, never stop telling your wonderful stories! There are lots of reddit readers on KZbin but you have something none of the others have -- the personal touch, with your detailed reactions, personal stories, puppy bloopers, and such.
@theultimatevrnerd8603
@theultimatevrnerd8603 2 жыл бұрын
Who the hell os dabney
@yoranger8349
@yoranger8349 2 жыл бұрын
@@theultimatevrnerd8603 that’s rslashes old KZbin channel
@yoranger8349
@yoranger8349 2 жыл бұрын
@@jakeinalake_ ooh that I actually didn’t know thank you
@clarissaconner5018
@clarissaconner5018 2 жыл бұрын
I love it when rslash gets talking about personal stories, the change in his voice from practiced to just casual and excitedly talking is one of the most human things and why I love this channel over every other robot reddit channel
@majacacao
@majacacao 2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed you talking about your grandparents, that was super sweet and heartwarming i couldnt stop smiling. Thank you for making my day a little better :)
@A.n0neeM0usee
@A.n0neeM0usee 2 жыл бұрын
Your family stories are wonderful. And your ability to share them with humor, humility, and clear love and admiration for your grandparents is heartwarming. Thank you for sharing with us❣
@jamesnorman9160
@jamesnorman9160 2 жыл бұрын
My favourite part was 'she used her anger and willpower to stand up'. xD
@Pizzaetertje
@Pizzaetertje 2 жыл бұрын
3rd story: Ah yes, “gym membership” I’m not saying it is a different addiction for sure, but selling a dead persons stuff sounds pretty fishy
@iridescentsolace
@iridescentsolace 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like it’s important to remember that the fiancé said she struggled with eating disorders and staying fit Im not saying it’s an excuse but if she’s willing to sell a precious keepsake from her soon to be husband, then she might seriously need mental help because no healthy person is so obsessed with something that they’re willing to hurt their loved ones for it I feel like op should have a serious conversation with her about therapy if she’s not already in it
@Nekulturny
@Nekulturny 2 жыл бұрын
Shes "Desperate for money".. oh yeah? GET ... A. JOB!!!!
@reflex9238
@reflex9238 2 жыл бұрын
@@iridescentsolace was just about to say this. Like go and see a therapist if you don’t see how having to cross a line into theft isn’t a massive red flag not just for her relationship but also for her mental health.
@CatacombD
@CatacombD 2 жыл бұрын
@@brandon737 The big problem is that she jumped straight past, "ask fiance for money," to, "steal whatever I dedcide is unimportant, and sell it for cash." She doesn't respect OP enough to even talk with him about it, nor to ask him for help. Instead she's just going to hurt the people around her and then act as though its their fault and she did nothing wrong. That's actually even worse than an addict, because addicts at least are ashamed and try to hide what they've done. Also, soon-to-be-MIL supports this behavior too, so he's not just marrying someone with damage; He's marrying into a damaged family. This is a Red Flag factory at this point.
@mindyschocolate
@mindyschocolate 2 жыл бұрын
That sounds disgusting. His fiancé is a pos. If she needs money, get a job. Gym memberships are not a necessity.
@Ruru240z
@Ruru240z 2 жыл бұрын
3rd story, she could've asked her fiance to help her out instead of selling OP's gaming chair that belonged to his brother when he passed away, she definitely gets 4.5/5 for that, being fully inconsiderate about how close OP was to their brother and tried defending herself saying she had no choice, which we all know that's some BS.
@WolfNymph
@WolfNymph 2 жыл бұрын
The reason your channel is my favorite Reddit stories channel is that you add your own two cents and you tell your own life stories. I live for episodes like this! Definitely love when you share personal anecdotes!
@kitsulittle_boii
@kitsulittle_boii 2 жыл бұрын
Rslash being such a dad telling story’s of family and his childhood, 10/10 KZbinr here definitely staying subscribed.
@demonicwolf6668
@demonicwolf6668 2 жыл бұрын
So the bf stole her car. Knowing she said no and she's a nurse. So he's not only risking people's live because hes making a person in the medical field stay away from work. He litteraly blew her off for new years as well. He's an a-hole. She's not.
@GTSE2005
@GTSE2005 2 жыл бұрын
That's a massive red flag, OP should dump him
@DarkcIoud1111
@DarkcIoud1111 2 жыл бұрын
That is a bit of fridge logic I didn't think about; if he stole her car and told her to skip her shift at work as he didn't plan on coming back, it means that they could have spent New Year together.
@Richard_Nickerson
@Richard_Nickerson 2 жыл бұрын
And then he reacts as a child. Dump him.
@ReigoVassal
@ReigoVassal 2 жыл бұрын
Calling him an AH is too nice.
@Richard_Nickerson
@Richard_Nickerson 2 жыл бұрын
@@DarkcIoud1111 Fridge logic?
@blitsriderfield4099
@blitsriderfield4099 2 жыл бұрын
I had a co-worker actively tell a customer i had a mental disability. It's true, i have Asperger's Syndrome, but it still hurt that they'd disrespect my privacy like that.
@mikiliwilliams
@mikiliwilliams 2 жыл бұрын
I completely understand your pain. I also have it, and sometimes it's hard to get others to understand what it actually does to those of us that have it.
@marjoriejohnston4905
@marjoriejohnston4905 2 жыл бұрын
Or the Not Normal Enough to Work, but Not Disabled Enough to Look Good for the Government Benefits situation with employers. Talk about a rock and a hard place. There are people who decide to hate me without bothering to get to know me and I just hate it!
@SiekoValantin
@SiekoValantin 2 жыл бұрын
DID WE ALL JUST IGNORE THAT HE WENT TO A BAR!? HE TOOK OP'S CAR TO DRIVE TO A BAR. HE SAID HE'D BE BACK WITH IT LATER. IMPLYING HE INTENDED TO DRIVE HOME.
@dracko158
@dracko158 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh, if he were to drive home after a trip to the bar, he would be breaking another law. One being grand theft auto, and other being drunk driving.
@ValkyrKat1488
@ValkyrKat1488 2 жыл бұрын
You know plenty of people drive to the bar to drink and not all of them drive drunk? And how do you know he (or another friend) wasn’t the designated driver?
@CyberSway
@CyberSway 2 жыл бұрын
@fine spam
@vp-oe1em
@vp-oe1em 2 жыл бұрын
Nope, I didn't miss that. Dump him.
@MotJ949
@MotJ949 2 жыл бұрын
Drinking alcohol to excess isn’t the only thing you can do at a bar. That’s important adult behavior information for you. Have a soda and play darts… have one beer and watch a football game… eat pizza and drink water…
@ZombieSazza
@ZombieSazza 2 жыл бұрын
“I’m not sure why I’m telling these stories” I’m an amateur historian, I’m really invested in the history and culture of my country, especially the areas I’m from as I feel a deep connection to my Gaelic Highlander heritage as that’s how I was brought up in the Scottish Highlands, and as such I have a deep interest in Neolithic Celtic, Pictish and Gaelic Highlander history, particularly the people. I find their stories interesting, stories of a warrior race that had female warriors who were as ferocious as the men, Pictish society and noble born women appearing on carved Pictish stones (that age around 1,200-1,600 years old), how Pictish Kings were chosen through the matrilineal line of succession (through the mother, not father), high ranking men and women in Neolithic Celtic culture and how they were buried and what grave goods were left behind, I find the human element extremely interesting and the stories to be fascinating. I also find your stories interesting as I love hearing people’s stories from their lives! Hearing stories from your life and your families lives is enjoyable for me because that’s something I deeply enjoy, hearing how people lived and the lives they touched.
@chrisprilloisebola
@chrisprilloisebola 2 жыл бұрын
lmao but "hurr durr identifying with your heritage bad and silly!"
@sarahhunter1114
@sarahhunter1114 11 ай бұрын
I tripped on mushrooms a few months ago and got to spend most of the time in the Scottish Highlands. Such a cool culture! Hope I can visit soon (IRL) and get some legit Scottish whisky!
@cheesykuriboh747
@cheesykuriboh747 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly Rslash's grandparents sound like awesome people and the story of Rslash's grandma breaking her hip and walking home was hilarious XD
@dariusthegamingswampcat7186
@dariusthegamingswampcat7186 2 жыл бұрын
Man. I love your personal stories. It makes us feel closer to you. And they are always so amazing to listen to. Thank you so much for sharing your stories of your life and family with us!
@MsNoPixel
@MsNoPixel 2 жыл бұрын
@fine no actually you missed it… the part where no one asked for your self promo.
@Jordan-bm8lp
@Jordan-bm8lp 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone else tearing up at the very last story Rslash shared with us? Never thought a rose bush could be so touching. Thank you, Dabney
@bob0s062
@bob0s062 2 жыл бұрын
First story: OP's fiance steals her car and claims OP got his friends in trouble? No OP didn't. He and his friends put themselves in that position.
@starlightdash4285
@starlightdash4285 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr, some people are just so stupid that they rather blame the person who caught them, instead of accepting their mistake.
@randomaccount64
@randomaccount64 2 жыл бұрын
His friends didn't really it's was more the fiance's fault cause there was no way to tell if the friends knew she said no. And the fiance probably didn't want to pull over to let friend out if they wanted to get out
@lelahill9778
@lelahill9778 2 жыл бұрын
True Dat
@alexisclark8908
@alexisclark8908 2 жыл бұрын
I love that emotion in dabney’s voice whenever he talks about his grandma. It’s so sweet
@charlieoscar2339
@charlieoscar2339 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling your grandfather’s story. It made me remember the pure kindness my grandfather had. He wasn’t as badass but he was kind to everyone. He never got angry. He never begrudged anyone a meal or drive or anything. I haven’t thought of that in years. Thank you.
@maieen2665
@maieen2665 2 жыл бұрын
OP's fiance didn't just disrespect OP's wishes, he also messed with OP's money. She could've gotten fired for her fiance's stunt. OP 2's coworker is kind of creepy. I agree with rSlash and the other reply: OP 3 should leave his fiancee. Your grandparents *do* sound like B.As., but I'm sure you're a B.A. in your own way. 😎
@CyberSway
@CyberSway 2 жыл бұрын
@Just wow seriously....no one cares
@SinisterScoundrel6562
@SinisterScoundrel6562 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think he's that creepy, but he should keep his damn 👄 shut when it comes to other's businesses, especially women's businesses!
@thelilinator6405
@thelilinator6405 2 жыл бұрын
I mean Rslash is kinda a badass because he made a career out of determination to get something unrelated to a career
@cynister7384
@cynister7384 2 жыл бұрын
@@SinisterScoundrel6562 He saw the pregnancy test which was none of his business, shared it with everyone and called it "our joy", the dude is creepy as fuck.
@CyberSway
@CyberSway 2 жыл бұрын
@@cynister7384 yeah I agree co-workers should not crossing personal boundaries like that
@anarki4717
@anarki4717 2 жыл бұрын
Last year I lost my mother, she hadn't been well for several months (she had rapidly lost weight and was confused and suffering from hallucinations... she sadly suffered a stroke in the early morning and by the time the nurses got to her she had already passed away, during her more lucid moments she told us she did not want to be kept alive by machines and if she went to just let her go, she left me a knitted blanket her mother made for her and if someone sold it I would probably beat them to death with my bare hands
@estebanaguirre965
@estebanaguirre965 2 жыл бұрын
right? and it doesn't even need to be a big thing that a loved one leaves you with, it can be a darn funko pop. Anyone touching the darn funko is asking for a rush to the ER
@NekoKuro-il8rz
@NekoKuro-il8rz 2 жыл бұрын
@@estebanaguirre965 Very true. I have a pillow case that was hand sewn and embroidered by my great grandmother before she passed and China dolls from my Grandmother. If anything were to happen to them, I'd be out for blood. Especially since my China dolls are worth a lot of money.
@madambutterfly1997
@madambutterfly1997 2 жыл бұрын
It’s his own fault he spent New Year’s in jail
@dave900575
@dave900575 2 жыл бұрын
Those are great stories about your grandparents. They sound like amazing people. Back then people did for themselves. My mom dragged herself 50 ft through the snow back into her house to call an ambulance with her leg broken in two places.
@eugenesnell6600
@eugenesnell6600 2 жыл бұрын
"She walked home because she was so angry!" YES I!! That was bad-assery!!!!!! Very cool!
@JerziTBoss
@JerziTBoss 2 жыл бұрын
First Story: The bf acted seriously selfish without any respect to OP. It's serious red flag if he prefers his happiness and hanging with friends more than his partner's means of income. Second Story: OP is not TA. Medical conditions are not something that should be shared so easily? Also "Our joy" unless the coworker is father of the kid then there is no "our". Third story: Theft the fiance commited a theft. The chair doesn't have to be expensive but it still had value. The fiance broke OP's trust for a gym membership? Is this how ignorant she is?
@velvety2006
@velvety2006 2 жыл бұрын
why couldn't her mom pay for the membership if it was so important for her daughter anyway or give some of her stuff to sell.
@tinydancer7426
@tinydancer7426 2 жыл бұрын
Third story .... let's leave out the gym membership part of the story and get down to the nitty gritty of the issue ...... the fiance stole the chair and sold it ..... it wasn't her property, not to use, not to sell, not by any stretch of the imagination ...... theft is theft ...... and little miss "BUT I HAVE TO KEEP MY GYM MEMBERSHIP TO EXERCISE (in a whining tone)" should have been required to contact the buyer of the chair and tell them that she sold them someone else's property, so she has to get it back or the police are going to be involved with her in trouble for selling stolen goods and them for buying/being in possession of stolen goods (not that they have been informed of the situation).
@JasperCatProductions
@JasperCatProductions 2 жыл бұрын
The first story, she was absolutely in the right. But I can’t imagine marrying someone who had me arrested for theft. I also can’t imagine marrying a man who stole my car…….
@sinn3rbun
@sinn3rbun 2 жыл бұрын
You had me in the first half ngl
@SoulKiller7Eternal
@SoulKiller7Eternal 2 жыл бұрын
Yea...you're a dude...so...lol jk :P
@sinn3rbun
@sinn3rbun 2 жыл бұрын
@@SoulKiller7Eternal what..?
@sosansational
@sosansational 2 жыл бұрын
@@SoulKiller7Eternal men can marry men.
@absolutelynot6546
@absolutelynot6546 2 жыл бұрын
If he didn't steal he wouldn't be a thief and arrested, so he made his own bed on that one lol
@bobbyhinner3225
@bobbyhinner3225 2 жыл бұрын
What is wrong with the fiance in the third story? If she wants to work out that badly, she can jog around the neighborhood. She could get a job to pay for her own membership. She not only stole from you, but she chose the chair specifically the chair that she knows you care about.
@N0xiety
@N0xiety 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe she is fking the gym instructor or some other dude who goes there, who knows? It feels really strange that she MUST go to that gym AT ALL COST...
@maskedgaming2798
@maskedgaming2798 2 жыл бұрын
@@brandon737 still, no excuse for selling the priceless keepsake. I know metal is important but you don't do that
@akl2k7
@akl2k7 2 жыл бұрын
@@maskedgaming2798 Yeah, there are so many steps she could have gone through to keep that membership instead of stealing. Asking OP, for one. Getting her own job to pay for her necessities is another thing she could have done. Heck, if her mom is so supportive of her going to the gym, then SHE could pay the membership fees. OP needs to bail before he makes any vows or signs the marriage contract.
@NemeNoms
@NemeNoms 2 жыл бұрын
I loved the stories at the end, your grandparent's sound like they were amazing people. Made me cry right at the end too. I hope you get to hear even more cool family stories, and if you do, keep them close so you can retell the bad assery later to your kids/grand kids. I got some but I need to work on memorizing them before my small family gets any older or loses anyone else.
@JadeyCatgirl99
@JadeyCatgirl99 2 жыл бұрын
With the 3rd story imagine if OP sold a hypothetical necklace the fiancé got from her dead sister. That's the moral equivalent of what happened here.
@bennycrews8246
@bennycrews8246 2 жыл бұрын
Petition for more Rslash life stories, hearing the emotion in his voice and the way he tells stories is really enjoyable.
@jasonhammond4301
@jasonhammond4301 2 жыл бұрын
He could even make it a series like he does with the various subreddits, but call it "rslash rambles" or something, lol.
@OsirisGaming66
@OsirisGaming66 2 жыл бұрын
@@jasonhammond4301 definitely, I really enjoy these. I would love for him to make a compilation of his rambles and tales or even better Rslash just talking about his family for a whole video.
@murakumo65
@murakumo65 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to r/Rslash stories.
@halfdemon4lifeintime
@halfdemon4lifeintime 2 жыл бұрын
As someone with fertility issues, who's had four pregnancies and only one living child, I would absolutely report Austin. I won't even be announcing my next pregnancy until at least 20 weeks just in case
@linseyspolidoro5122
@linseyspolidoro5122 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously! Years ago I accidentally found out my husband’s cousin was pregnant before anyone else in the family when we were at their house. You know what I did? Nothing! I didn’t even tell my husband that I knew already until well after they announced it to the family. That is just such a shitty thing to do to a person.
@halfdemon4lifeintime
@halfdemon4lifeintime 2 жыл бұрын
@@linseyspolidoro5122 my sister went around telling everyone about my last one and then I miscarried like two weeks later. Mine are incredibly life threatening. I was extremely upset to have to revoke my “announcement”.
@linseyspolidoro5122
@linseyspolidoro5122 2 жыл бұрын
@@halfdemon4lifeintime I’m sorry that happened to you, that sounds incredibly painful to have to go through. I don’t know your relationship with your sister but it must have hurt to have someone you presumably trust reveal such personal information. A lot of people go through fertility and reproductive issues and it is so harmful to be flippant about that. I hope that you are able to heal from that.
@chrisprilloisebola
@chrisprilloisebola 2 жыл бұрын
lol delusional
@limiv5272
@limiv5272 2 жыл бұрын
Story 3: That fiance would've been in the wrong even if the brother had been alive an dead. You can't just sell your SO's stuff without permission
@PennyAfNorberg
@PennyAfNorberg 2 жыл бұрын
Sure but far worse now
@Chellirsl
@Chellirsl 2 жыл бұрын
Health carers “how did you walk home?” Badass Grandma: “with the power of hate” 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I love your grandma
@jerica2432
@jerica2432 Жыл бұрын
I will never understand why some people think somebody suddenly doesn't deserve privacy just because they're pregnant.
@ashleyd7023
@ashleyd7023 2 жыл бұрын
I would never take my fiancé’s belongings whether it be his car or his deceased brothers belongings. When he gives me his credit card to go grocery shopping I always hand him the receipt after. Sometimes I’ll say ‘you were really nice and bought me cookies.’
@leileyaravencroft
@leileyaravencroft 2 жыл бұрын
When my boyfriend handed me his credit card to use when I was at a temp position I told him that I wasn’t going to take his card. He said it was fine. I told him he was crazy and asked if he was sure. He said he was. Most people aren’t like his fiancé. But that takes a special kind of selfishness to sell off a chair left by someone’s deceased brother.
@madambutterfly1997
@madambutterfly1997 2 жыл бұрын
He had no business opening his mouth about the subject. OP shouldn’t have told him that she was going to report him I would’ve just went up and did it because I don’t make threats nor do I give warning shots
@kpeggs82
@kpeggs82 2 жыл бұрын
“I don’t make threats or give warning shots.” I need to use this. I will give you full cred for the quote.
@CyberSway
@CyberSway 2 жыл бұрын
@fine yep, spam
@Richard_Nickerson
@Richard_Nickerson 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, why warn him?
@75ur15
@75ur15 2 жыл бұрын
Agree he is the asshole, however disagree with thise who say the business has a stake in this...which policy? He didnt snoop and didn't harrass, not a "hostile work environment" and other than obuducally being in the building it wasn't work related. Not worth firing.
@madambutterfly1997
@madambutterfly1997 2 жыл бұрын
@@75ur15 it is subject to disciplinary action
@aubreystalcup5452
@aubreystalcup5452 2 жыл бұрын
Nevermind the fact that unfortunately pregnancy is not always happy news. By announcing that pregnancy in the office he severely invaded OP's privacy and could have potentially made any decisions she was weighing even more difficult. Totally the a-hole.
@Bobo-Nose
@Bobo-Nose 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, that may have not been the case for OP, but what if it was? Austin had no right to tell everyone regardless.
@ericdugdale8585
@ericdugdale8585 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Like, imagine if the pregnancy was a result of her being assaulted? Dude couldn't have known that. How painful and traumatizing would the office scene have been in that case? These possible scenarios and the fact that dude couldn't know about them are specifically *why* the info is none of his business.
@merlinathrawes746
@merlinathrawes746 2 жыл бұрын
Pregnancy work story: NTA! Austin had absolutely no business sharing the news of your pregnancy! PERIOD!!! If you wanted it announced, it was your business to announce it, not his. So what if he saw your pregnancy report? He had no business reading it, but having read it should have either kept it to himself or talked to you about it PRIVATELY! He had no way of knowing if the positive report was happy news for you or not, or what you intend to do about it! Announcing it puts a lot of unwanted and unneeded pressure on you. Feel free to report him.
@kronix1341
@kronix1341 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus, your grandma's pure determination to not get told, "I told you so" by your dad, is crazy.
@HituraRael
@HituraRael 2 жыл бұрын
The fiance with the game chair... She definitely stole it. She got called out for stealing it. It was not hers. And the way she talks about the membership is the same way addicts talk about stuff. She's addicted to the gym.
@Feynix4
@Feynix4 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she needs therapy, especially since she brought up and weaponized her eating disorder to make OP feel bad for her stealing and selling something that wasn't his. Why can't she work out at home? I do it all the time, it isn't that hard. Go running, do push-ups, sit-ups, squats, find youtube videos of home workouts and follow those.
@dashi1838
@dashi1838 2 жыл бұрын
@@Feynix4 she said "past eating disorder" like- girl if you're willing to steal from your fiance so you can go to the gym, it's not a "past" eating disorder
@stardf29
@stardf29 2 жыл бұрын
So the first story's fiance has a "what's yours is mine" attitude and IMO that's a dangerous attitude to have. At best, you and your partner make clear discussions on which things are "shared property", but also which things are explicitly owned by one of you and can only be used/borrowed with their permission. Relationships work because both parties have boundaries and respect each others' boundaries, and this is clearly a case where the fiance does not respect boundaries.
@Digitalfairy
@Digitalfairy 2 жыл бұрын
@good one Please, now you're just spamming instead of actually spreading the world.
@jennibennett9724
@jennibennett9724 2 жыл бұрын
@@Digitalfairy They're bots. Just report them for spam and move on.
@akl2k7
@akl2k7 2 жыл бұрын
@@jennibennett9724 Them and any thot bots or bots starting conversations with other bots about investing. KZbin should be acting on them more.
@morningstar9849
@morningstar9849 2 жыл бұрын
The real question is why didn't one of his friends just come and pick him up
@Funny_Chair_Man
@Funny_Chair_Man 2 жыл бұрын
from what i heard from the story "they were in the police office" so it sounds like he was the designated driver for the outing with his friends, making him an even bigger asshole, because he put his friends in this situation as well, sounds to me like his ego got in the way of whats right, because if he was the driver, he probably caved to taking them on an outing, which is why he was so adamant, then of course he got disrespected becsuse in "his mind" he was doing something good, but in reality wasn't, classic narcissistic behavior.
@wouldntyouliketoknowwesath7789
@wouldntyouliketoknowwesath7789 Жыл бұрын
Imagine your soon to be wife is a nurse, and then you STEAL HER CAR to go hang out with friends. AND YOU TELL HER TO JUST SKIP HER SHIFT?? OP COULD GET FIRED!!
@pipthedragonite6502
@pipthedragonite6502 2 жыл бұрын
I was honestly a whole lot more open listening to you talking about your grandparents than the actual posts. The posts were cool, but I really loved hearing about your past people two. wish to hear more about them
@jadedflames2809
@jadedflames2809 2 жыл бұрын
I love these stories where Rslash talks about his experiences and family's experience. I'm laughing over Grannyslash saying "I was angry" when walking with a broken hip ksjsj
@foolishlyludicrous
@foolishlyludicrous 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed, but we need some Yugo stories now!
@The_momur
@The_momur 2 жыл бұрын
@@foolishlyludicrous ¡Y U G O!
@KIRBY_IS_MY_LIFE
@KIRBY_IS_MY_LIFE 2 жыл бұрын
When op said they were a nurse i visualized op as the nurse in terraria and i cant stop
@pinkroyaljelly
@pinkroyaljelly 2 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to that granny. I would be so mad I would have to admit someone else was right 😂
@coldandghostly
@coldandghostly 2 жыл бұрын
My ancestors were also Irish, if I, an English person who has never been to Ireland, started calling myself Irish based on that I would get rightfully punched in the face. The English have been trying to erase Irish culture for years, can you then imagine the nerve of appropriating said culture cus 100 years ago there was a famine. Op would not survive the month if he took his partners advice.
@DeathProductions200
@DeathProductions200 2 жыл бұрын
For me, I an American have Mexican family members. I choose not to say how far back because the one who immigrated to America is still alive and for privacy reasons of everyone (if you know why, you know) i don't call myself a Mexican because I was born here, and another part of my family is heavily European. It's not right for me to dismiss all my other ancestors to claim being Mexican. Also, not to mention, I am very much American. My Mexican heritage is important to me, but so is my German, Irish and italian heritage. But I am of the nationality that I was born. Not where my family members who immigrated here were from.
@starbird3939
@starbird3939 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. Not an Irish woman, but I have looked a bit into the history. If someone cared about “Irish Heritage”, they can look into studying and recovering Irish history that was erased by Brits.
@mlynch4461
@mlynch4461 2 жыл бұрын
As an Irish person, it really irks and baffles me when Americans (not all, but I have yet to meet another nationality that does this) claim they're "Irish". Like you haven't grown up in our schools learning Gaeilge, understand our slang, have our mentality etc. What I much prefer is that if you want to honour the heritage then refer to yourself as a member of the Irish Diaspora. Our first femal president Mary Robinson was quite passionate about connecting with the diaspora and seeing how Irish culture is passed between generations abroad (e.g things like lighting a candle for someone to wish them luck or opening a window when someone dies to let the spirit out). That way you can be your own unique nationality (American) but acknowledge whatever ancestry is important to you
@raveneldawnstar
@raveneldawnstar 2 жыл бұрын
I never knew its like this in England but I can't say I'm surprised given the history. I'm American, I say I'm American, I simply happen to have Irish, Finnish, and English ancestors. Am I curious about my heritage? Sure. Does that make me Irish, Finnish, and English? No.
@tiryaclearsong421
@tiryaclearsong421 2 жыл бұрын
@@mlynch4461 I think I actually have more Irish heritage than anything, but the parts of my family from Ireland have been in the US a very long time. On the other hand, my grandma is Finnish. So I grew up with aspects of Finnish culture and a second language. In comparison to the Irish side of my family, I actually feel more comfortable saying I have Finnish heritage. I'm mostly American, but it also feels weird to erase part of my childhood by dismissing the little Finnish bits from my father and grandmother. It's kind of a double edged sword so I will usually say "my grandma is Finnish" instead of claiming I am.
@silverflight01
@silverflight01 2 жыл бұрын
Story 2: If someone gets pregnant, only THEY can tell everyone if they want. Nobody else, period!
@75ur15
@75ur15 2 жыл бұрын
I would agree, but don't support that the business can do anything about it. He was in the wrong, but he didn't snoop and while being an idiot is bad, it isn't a crime. No sense trying to bring the company into personal matters.
@wmdkitty
@wmdkitty 2 жыл бұрын
Unless said person is unconscious and the EMTs/nurses/doctors need to know.
@pandoratheclay
@pandoratheclay 2 жыл бұрын
@@wmdkitty then again, Austin doesn’t sound like someone who is in that field, plus OP isn’t unconscious
@cynister7384
@cynister7384 2 жыл бұрын
@@75ur15 Isn't disclosing someone's medical information without their consent actually a crime?
@75ur15
@75ur15 2 жыл бұрын
@@cynister7384 for the usa, only of you are bound by hipaa, and that doesn't apply to anyone not involved in the care of that person (from pharmacy to the Dr, to the company that makes the meds...all bound). Just as an example, if a pharmacist was talking to a patient and a random stranger overheard, the pharmacist could be sued for hipaa violation.....that new person is legally clear to say whatever they want about it and no legal repercussions. Also, if the patient (intentionally or not) gives out this info, anyone who obtains it can spread it free and clear.....the fact that she left it where it could be seen, even if he hadn't been a passenger makes the secret getting to him (and anyone who saw it in her car say...in the work parking lot) entirely her fault. Having said that, him taking that info and spreading makes him an asshole. A better idea, ask, hey, I see something there; points; anything you want to talk about? This does a few things, 1) draws attention to the fact others may find out if she continues to leave it out; 2) gets her answer as to whether it is a private matter or just not yet announced, and 3) gives her a way to talk and ask for privacy if she wants, or comisceration if there is a problem. Under the circumstances that would be reasonable (more than was asked for) Edit spelling and an Obligatory Not a lawyer not legal advice
@bluebird_618
@bluebird_618 8 ай бұрын
I’m registering to old rSlash videos and the rose story is SO SWEET!!!!! I love that she planted the rose you gave her, that is adorable 🥰
@the_purple_man623
@the_purple_man623 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine dying because a woman ripped blankets off your tent this guy's got amazing stories to Tell even if they're not his own
@crazym1me
@crazym1me 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, after working at a hospital for a year and a half now, little old ladies should be FEARED! They will do anything if filled with enough determination and sheer spite.
@nameofthename
@nameofthename 2 жыл бұрын
old ladies are the best. they're typically either super sweet, happy, and loving, or tough as nails, spiteful, and have no filter.
@dmon1996
@dmon1996 2 жыл бұрын
I am stunned by these stories... All I can say is that I have been happily together with my wife for more than 25 years, and she has never even considered touching (much less selling it) my personal stuff, and I am the same for her. I won't even go in her purse when she tells me to- I take it over to her to do whatever is needed. Being in a relationship does NOT mean that you get to be insensitive about your significant other's feelings... If anything, I would give them even more of a butthole rating! And as for the poor shmo that is engaged... kick her thieving ass to the curb! As for stealing your car, go thru with the theft charge and toss his ass in prison!
@BertieJRussell
@BertieJRussell 2 жыл бұрын
Rslash: I don't give a shit about my heritage Rslash: *proceeds to reminisce sweetly about his family for the rest of the episode*
@CatacombD
@CatacombD 2 жыл бұрын
I mean, there's a difference between being like, "I'm so happy and proud that I'm Irish," and sharing a few specific examples of things your grandparents did. TBH, I find the former kinda weird, because it seems like you're more interested in the "where" of your ancestors rather than "what" they actually did.
@BertieJRussell
@BertieJRussell 2 жыл бұрын
@@CatacombD I appreciate the nuance - depending on where you are in the world and the historical context of how different cultural groups have been treated (like how Rslash's grandfather had to change his last name in order to get a job), heritage can be an important touchstone for folks
@DvanderPluijm
@DvanderPluijm 2 жыл бұрын
But those are two completely different things. There's no nuance there. One is literally being proud of something you had no say in and which, to me, is kind of weird because if you're not actually living in said country/culture can you really be called 'something-American'? The other is thinking fondly of your (dearly departed) family and reminiscing about what you loved doing with them or loved about them. Truth be told, I don't get the whole 'I'm a so-and-so American' thing. Never had and never will. You're American. You're Irish. You're African. Not both. Otherwise everyone could go around calling themselves 'Irish-Dutch' or 'African-German' or what-not and to my knowledge no one does that. Yes, you can be proud of your heritage and be drawn to the culture that your family originally came from, but that doesn't suddenly give you that culture's nationality or something. I think rslash's example demonstrates the illogical nature of this way of thinking quite astutely.
@winniethepooht5776
@winniethepooht5776 2 жыл бұрын
@@DvanderPluijm I don't think you understand why black people in the US are called African-American. Yes, you can be both because for one- there are people born and raised in Africa who moved to America and now have a citizenship here, making them African American. For the rest of us, up until around the 80s, black people were just called black. For many reasons, it made people uncomfortable in more professional settings, like filling out paperwork. I can't deep dive into it because it would take too long, but basically it was formed as a more respectful way of saying someone was black in a non-formal setting. Also, some of us are more sensitive then others because of our backgrounds, so hearing someone not black call you black could make you feel uncomfortable. We also call white people Caucasians because it's a bit more respectful. It all boils down to respect. That may not be how the rest of the world does it, but that's how we do it here.
@winniethepooht5776
@winniethepooht5776 2 жыл бұрын
@@DvanderPluijm now, of course we know black people don't just come from Africa, but also the Caribbean and other places. So if they're from Jamaica or Barbados, for example, when filling out paperwork, they'd say they were black but then state their ethnicity so they're not called African-American or Carribean-American. They can be called whatever they want to be. Again, it a boils down to respect in this part of the world.
@RicoCorreia
@RicoCorreia 2 жыл бұрын
That rant of "my granpa and granma histories" WAS AMAZING hahahaha
@blakezummo264
@blakezummo264 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love rSlash talking about his family, his grandparents sound so cool
@melanieg760
@melanieg760 2 жыл бұрын
The amount of disrespect in these relationships is astounding.
@patriciaroberts9232
@patriciaroberts9232 2 жыл бұрын
I love seeing the character development in rslash, he shows a lot more enragement on behalf of the people in these stories rather than just shock when he first started, I feel like a lot of us need to bear witness to this type of diversity in perspective tbh.
@powerpuff_avenger
@powerpuff_avenger 2 жыл бұрын
It's called becoming a dad...
@owl7072
@owl7072 2 жыл бұрын
"My female coworkers told me how rude I was for his nice gesture" sounds like they're just trying to get on his good side cause they like him 🤨 can guarentee if he did something like that to them they would have flipped
@forestFlower76
@forestFlower76 2 жыл бұрын
Rslash, I personally enjoy listening to you telling stories. You are such a compelling storyteller! Please always seize the opportunity to tell a personal story whenever it makes sense.
@gmun2248
@gmun2248 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it cracks me up(/drives me crazy... 50/50) when he says he did his degree in English and it was a waste of a degree because he never uses it... He uses it every day, and I'd say it's made him pretty successful, all this reading, writing, & storytelling! People place so much emphasis on 'STEM' that they forget philosophy & arts degrees are the history of all learning, and they are required to be good at reading, analyzing, and understanding all kinds of ideas. (From someone with an arts BA & science MSc. I don't believe in the cultural idea of needing a degree to be successful; but I do believe ALL education is valuable. In my country it's free or very affordable, so not a money/ privilege comment.)
@hobbes7722
@hobbes7722 2 жыл бұрын
omg I LOVE your stories!! I cannot get over your grandma breaking her hip on the ice and walking back home 🤣 you GO GIRL! That's incredibly inspiring honestly! Great stories!! Thank you for sharing!!
@NyttAura
@NyttAura 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing how even when I get here IMMEDIATLY aa the notification there are already like 100 people here. Happy RSlash has a HUGE following though! Been watching since he was below 100,000k so love to see it.
@kodyt2930
@kodyt2930 2 жыл бұрын
I love hearing about your grandparents and just overall stories about your life. It’s really interesting :D
@cherenkov_blue
@cherenkov_blue 2 жыл бұрын
This is the second "my SO has a broken car so they stole mine after I said it was necessary for getting to/from work" story I've heard in two weeks! Jesus, how vindictive do these people's SOs have to be?? Also, I love the story of your grandmother being so angry about her broken hip that she walked home with it. Legendary grandma behavior right there.
@ViridianVictoria
@ViridianVictoria 2 жыл бұрын
Paramedics: How on Earth did you walk home with a shattered hip? RSlash's Grandma: Spite.
@victoriapumphrey2136
@victoriapumphrey2136 2 жыл бұрын
The personal stories are golden! Love your content, keeps me from suffering the toxicity of Reddit but still get all the good stories. I listen to this when I am doing the dishes and it really makes the time a pleasure. ♡♡♡
@sheiekebjs27
@sheiekebjs27 2 жыл бұрын
The third story - NTA OP's fiance saying he was inconsiderate of her feelings yet she literally took something that meant the world to him, sold it and spent the money on something that only benefited her. SHE'S the inconsiderate one.
@tiredman99
@tiredman99 2 жыл бұрын
Not to mention how when OP confronted her on it she IMMEDIATELY started to gaslight OP, bringing up how she's struggling, and how her eating disorders have destroyed her, trying to make OP feel like shit for being angry
@tiredman99
@tiredman99 2 жыл бұрын
@Just wow get out of here with that
@justadudewhostolebread5836
@justadudewhostolebread5836 2 жыл бұрын
You do have said this story earlier but the information about him was new. Pretty nice story. RIP Mr rslash grandpa
@vintagecameragirl
@vintagecameragirl 2 жыл бұрын
The first story, the op is a nurse, someone who saves lives. And ops partner thought him drinking at a bar was more important that A respecting his partner B his partners career and C someone else's life.. during a pandemic!
@nightrayneraven1323
@nightrayneraven1323 2 жыл бұрын
Also it sounds like after drinking (possibly enough to get drunk) he was going to drive op's car back
@vintagecameragirl
@vintagecameragirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@nightrayneraven1323 yes! Or leave it god knows where so she couldn't work the next day either
@simong9067
@simong9067 2 жыл бұрын
The story sounds like an argument between a mother and her teenage son. She needs to wake up and apply the toe of her sensible nurse shoe to his backside, as it doesn't seem like he's intending to grow up any time soon.
@MelissaKopcho
@MelissaKopcho 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved the grandma & grandpa stories! They sound like incredibly interesting people.
@brotherdom7661
@brotherdom7661 2 жыл бұрын
The ending was great man. I believe that most people really enjoyed your stories. It always feel amazing to get a glimpse into the life of a KZbinr you enjoy watching/listening too.
@no.justno.8379
@no.justno.8379 2 жыл бұрын
Dude i love it when rslash tells personal stories like its so interesting to find out about random things that have happened to him or people he knows
@LordDarkur
@LordDarkur 2 жыл бұрын
If the fiancé in the first story wanted to hang out with friends he should have had one of those friends pick him up especially since they were out drinking so one sober friend could get you back.
@DarlingRam1215
@DarlingRam1215 2 жыл бұрын
I love how R/Slash tells us personal stories, it’s like listening to your dad. Mostly cause he’s told the polish last name story before but I love to hear it. I constantly ask my dad to retell stories for fun but also to annoy him.
@travissullivan6575
@travissullivan6575 2 жыл бұрын
For the gaming chair, basically, he needs to file a police report, break the engagement and get the ring back. Sell the ring, kick her out of the house/move and tell her that she crossed a line. She's too damn old to be pulling that shit.
@briennabradley
@briennabradley 2 жыл бұрын
As judges Judy puts it "if someone redacts that permission to use their car, even if in the past they said yes, that is stealing. Grand theft"
@Neon_Toffee
@Neon_Toffee 2 жыл бұрын
RSlash: *talking about his family heritage* Me, who’s just playing DiRT 5 and enjoying this: *This man needs an entire video on his family stories.*
@OurHeroXero
@OurHeroXero 2 жыл бұрын
First story, huge red flag. Told the guy no...and he absconded with the car anyways. Like Rslash said...dude could have Ubered or got one of his buddies to give him a lift.
@OurHeroXero
@OurHeroXero 2 жыл бұрын
Third story...holy crap, todays slash has a theme of stealing property from their potential future partner.
@marjoriejohnston4905
@marjoriejohnston4905 2 жыл бұрын
Or, I don't know, fix his own stupid car.
@joker232jb
@joker232jb 2 жыл бұрын
Any story that showcases our grandparents badassery is a good story.
@rachaeledge9719
@rachaeledge9719 2 жыл бұрын
I love hearing your own personal stories tbh like hearing about your grandfather made me think of my grandparents. I lost them in 2013, 2014, and 2018 (my mom’s mom is still with us and taking care of my aunt’s kids after she passed in 2020) and I love hearing interesting stories from/about peoples grandparents. Edit: I wrote this before you talked about your grandmother and honestly I’m REALLY reminded of my dad’s mom. She was a very headstrong woman, she was always right (even when she wasn’t, bless her), and she too got up and walked with a broken hip. I was actually the reason for that 😬 I was four and she tripped over the backs of my Garfield flip flops as we were leaving Wendy’s and I thought it started raining but it was me getting doused in frosty as she went down. She went to the doctor like a day later and found out she’d broken her hip. Biggest difference? She never really scolded me, she hated making me cry. She was very much the doting grandmother and she herself cried the one time she had to pop my hand as a toddler because I kept throwing things. Shit, I’m crying in the middle of my kitchen now but anyways. I love hearing your personal stories
@AsianEgg
@AsianEgg 2 жыл бұрын
7:07 the title was bad enough alone, but the fact that it's from your dead brother makes this 100 times worse
@Jazzy-nh4xs
@Jazzy-nh4xs 2 жыл бұрын
Love these type of stories! My grandmother came to Canada from Italy on a boat called the Andrea Doria ( the boat technically brought her to New York but her final destination was Canada). My grandfather, who was already in Canada, had sent her a letter asking her to come to Canada earlier since he was already there. So my grandmother went to exchange her ticket for an earlier trip. My grandmother’s uncle, who was a priest, was upset because he had arranged for her to travel on the later trip with a few nuns so that she wouldn’t be alone on the boat. My grandmother apologized to him saying she wanted to take the earlier trip, her uncle remained angry though. The day arrives, my grandmother travels on the boat and she gets to her destination safely. But that was the last trip the Andrea Doria ever completed. The later trip, that my grandmother was supposed to take, ended up sinking and the nuns she was supposed to travel with all died. Her uncle was no longer mad at her after that.
@xKCAZxLEADER
@xKCAZxLEADER 2 жыл бұрын
The first story, funny how the ex-fiancé said OP was out of her mind for putting him in that situation. Theres a thing for what he did, its called Grand Theft Auto
@dracko158
@dracko158 2 жыл бұрын
Says OP is out of her mind for calling the cops. Yeah, says the guy who literally commited Grand Theft Auto. The one that's out of their mind is you, bub.
@RiptoGakt
@RiptoGakt 2 жыл бұрын
That ex-fiancé could have just offered to drive OP to her work, go with and let his buddies know that he was going to pick OP up after she's done, and then he wouldn't have had any of that trouble in the first place. It's what I'd have offered to do in that douce's shoes.
@borkwolf6373
@borkwolf6373 2 жыл бұрын
I love hearing stories about rSlash and his family, it's always so enjoyable and and interesting to learn more about him!
@miramyth2971
@miramyth2971 2 жыл бұрын
Those grandparents stories, oh my gosh those are so cute! I loved them thank you so much for sharing them.
@ArdentObserver
@ArdentObserver 2 жыл бұрын
Your stories are the reason I listen to you over other channels like this. You actually put a human element to this which is both touching and very entertaining. Keep up the great content!
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